THEMBA and twins Pediah and Petunia, also known as Euphoria Throuple, have been together for 2 years. The throuple met on vacation when Themba offered to buy the twins ice cream and they started talking from there. Themba says he saw an opportunity and he made his intentions clear from the beginning that he was interested in dating both of them. The ladies were skeptical at first and in Themba’s words “they gave him a real run around”, talking to him for months before they went on a date. Themba has been in a poly relationship before so this wasn’t new for him and the twins have dated the same man before. They say they don’t want to separate. Since they started dating, they have mostly dated the same man. They have also tried dating separate partners but that didn’t work for them. The throuple have been very public about their relationship on TikTok and have received a lot of judgement from people online. People think they are doing it for clout or the girls are only with him for money but this is far from the case. Themba works as a nurse while the twins have multiple businesses including tutoring and hairdressing. People also think Themba is too old for them and they are often questioned about intimacy and their sleeping arrangements. The throuple also face a lot of judgement in public. They say polygamy isn’t common where they live and they were once thrown out of a clothing store when they all kissed. They have all been living together for a year and share a bed together. Themba says the twins have a way of communicating and getting things done without even talking. Themba would like to officially commit to both of them but polygamy is not legal where they live. They would also like to have children and both ladies want to carry a child and said they don’t mind if they get pregnant at the same time.
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00:00We're twin sisters and this is our man.
00:04We share a man.
00:06I'm Petunia.
00:08I'm Pedaye.
00:09This is Timba.
00:11We all sleep in the same bed.
00:13We share everything.
00:15People judge us because I'm in a relationship with identical twins.
00:19They hate our relationship.
00:21Every time we go outside people stare at us.
00:23Find people calling other people to come stare at us.
00:26They throw you out of their shorts.
00:28Sometimes he doesn't notice who's who.
00:31If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me
00:36then I actually sit him down and then tell him
00:39that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention
00:42so you need to give me attention also.
00:47It feels like having the best of both worlds
00:50because they are not the same person.
00:53They are different.
00:54It's like sugar and salt.
00:57Salt and sugar.
00:59I'm just saying they balance out each other in a way.
01:02Even a typical polygamy relationship doesn't contain sisters.
01:07But where it's actually sisters and it's identical twins
01:10I knew there was going to be a lot of backlash.
01:13Some people are actually offended.
01:15Even when maybe we post a simple pic of us on social media
01:20the backlash, you hear people saying all kinds of things.
01:24A lot of people are saying on social media they hate our relationship.
01:28They will be saying we just want money.
01:31We're just young to be in a relationship with a man that is old.
01:36They will say, how old are the kids?
01:38And how old is the father?
01:40These ones will kill each other.
01:43There's no such a thing.
01:45This guy can't obviously be in a relationship with twins.
01:48Obviously he must be having some money.
01:51Obviously maybe these twins are coming from a poor background.
01:57Our man, he's busy making dinner for us.
02:00It's our birthday celebration.
02:03Birthday month celebration, yeah.
02:05So he's going to actually make something.
02:09He said he's going to make something special.
02:11And we're going to wear his favorite outfit.
02:16Baby, we're coming.
02:18We love dressing the same.
02:20We've got to pick the outfit. I have the outfit.
02:23Okay.
02:25Oh, yeah, he would love these.
02:27It will look good on us.
02:30My babies, your coffee is ready.
02:33We like dressing the same because it looks good on us.
02:38And it's like, it makes us more and more and more identical.
02:42People can tell that I'm with twins without even asking.
02:47Makes me feel like a king being kissed by two women in public.
02:51We look stunning. Okay.
02:53We look amazing.
02:57I've never dated twins before in my life.
03:00It took some time to adjust to.
03:02The bed is not big enough for three people to start it.
03:06We have dated the same man before.
03:08We tried dating separately, but then it didn't work.
03:11Got to that point, it didn't work out.
03:13As twins, we've been raised in a different way.
03:16Eating on the same plate, doing everything together.
03:19We just started liking the same man.
03:23So that's how it started.
03:25The first, she was dating the guy, but then she just dated the guy for two days.
03:30And then I'm like, I really like this guy too.
03:33And she's like, really? Okay, maybe we like the same thing.
03:36So let's just go for it. And then that's how we started doing it.
03:39Every time we go outside, people stare at us.
03:42Their first surprise, are those twins?
03:44Oh, they are twins.
03:46Are those twins actually dating the same guy?
03:49Oh, they just both kissed him.
03:51And you get to the store and you find people calling other people to come stare at us.
03:55Like they've seen an animal they've never seen before.
03:58Now you have to answer all these questions.
04:01Do you ever walk up to couples and say, why are you guys both together?
04:05Because they ask such questions.
04:07What happens in the bedroom?
04:10Do you give them money? I think it kind of becomes too much sometimes.
04:15We are people who are marching to PDA.
04:20So we'll be kissing and hugging and all that.
04:23So some people, they throw you out of their shops.
04:26You are literally thrown out of the shop.
04:28Even when we go to public areas like your public pools.
04:32This one time they actually even came to us, the manager of the establishment, and told us no.
04:37Kids can't be looking at you hugging and kissing.
04:40We're like, what?
04:42To tell the truth, I was never really worried about what people might think.
04:47When we first saw Tamba, it was actually love at first sight.
04:51We were on a vacation.
04:53Wahoo was just passing by with their bags.
04:56Like, ooh, look at that guy.
04:58Somehow, somehow we exchanged numbers.
05:01And from there we started talking, yeah.
05:04I think a year down the line, that's when we went out on a date.
05:08After our first official date, it was clear.
05:12It was clear this was it.
05:15I think we were monogamous from then on.
05:18Sat down and discussed how could this work.
05:21Set down a few ground rules.
05:24Every day was just me waking up, like, when you've bought a new car.
05:27Is this really happening?
05:29It's like I had stumbled upon a treasure.
05:32So the rules.
05:34The compliments have to be there.
05:36Words of affirmation.
05:38You don't go to bed angry.
05:40We fight, we fix, and we continue.
05:42So that's the rule that kept us going.
05:45Even if we don't want to talk, we have to talk.
05:48Because then it's like breaking the rules.
05:52We always go on dates together.
05:56No one is left behind.
05:58He can't even go out with his friends for a long time.
06:02He'll be like, I miss you my babies.
06:05We do give each other space.
06:07When you feel like you need your space, you can go to another room.
06:11Listen to your music and all that.
06:13If I feel like he has been giving my twin sister more attention than me,
06:18then I actually sit him down and tell him
06:21that you've been giving my twin sister a lot of attention,
06:24so you need to give me attention also.
06:28Whatever he does on the left side, you write on the right side.
06:33Sometimes I feel left out.
06:35I think sometimes they forget me.
06:37When they start gossiping and they have their side chats.
06:41We're not gossiping.
06:42Yeah, you're gossiping about me, I know.
06:44No, we're just gossiping.
06:46We just need our time and talk.
06:48Even if everyone comes and goes, she's still here.
06:51So I think that's how important it is.
06:54Dating two girls can be financially expensive, but I can handle it.
06:59Every girl dreams of having a white wedding with a white dress.
07:03So it's every boy's little dream that if one day I can have twins.
07:07My dream has become the love of my life.
07:11What's on the horizon for us, I just see a lot of kids.
07:15This is a legacy that we are starting out here.
07:19We came upon this and we are loving it.
07:22Every step of the way, we are not doing it to prove anything to anyone.
07:26To the people who judge us, I would like to say,
07:29just focus on your life, never focus on others.
07:33This is our life and you have to actually mind your own business.
07:38This is love, this is real.
07:40Yeah.