Our Man Got Us Pregnant At The Same Time | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
BOOEY, Boo and Lavish are a throuple and they have been in a polyamorous relationship for four years now. Booey said: “When people ask us how long we’ve been together, our answer is: ‘our souls were intertwined at the beginning of time and then we just found each other in human form.’” Booey and Lavish were together first and discussed introducing a girlfriend into their relationship, then Boo joined. Lavish said: “It’s not just them here for me, we’re all active.” Booey and Lavish have had children together and Boo and Lavish have had children together, in fact, the women were recently pregnant at the same time... They face a lot of judgement as a throuple with people saying the mothers must be jealous of one another or that their relationship is ‘wrong’. Booey said: “Jealous over what’s yours? They’re both mine, we’re both hers, we’re both his. Everybody is for everybody.”
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00:00 My husband got us pregnant at the same time.
00:02 You both are sharing one man with a f***.
00:05 Yep, we share each other too.
00:07 We're a couple.
00:08 Not just them here for me.
00:09 We're all active.
00:11 What do your family and friends think of you becoming a couple?
00:14 Um...
00:17 You did it!
00:20 How do you run the household between all of you?
00:23 As far as like cleaning and stuff goes,
00:25 we do take turns doing everything,
00:28 but when it comes to the kids, especially the babies,
00:31 I have them on a schedule every day.
00:34 Our kids have three parents.
00:37 When I was younger, I've always wanted a lot of kids.
00:40 And being in a poly relationship,
00:43 I get bonus kids that are my kids,
00:45 but I don't have to give birth to them.
00:46 It's yummy!
00:47 We all have one kid without each other.
00:50 Our oldest children are from other people.
00:53 My oldest son, his name is Trey.
00:55 He is 14, and then me and him have a son named Valen,
01:01 who is 8.
01:03 And then we have a daughter named Valerian,
01:06 who would have been 5 this year.
01:09 And then I'm pregnant right now.
01:10 I'll be giving birth in April.
01:12 I have births four.
01:13 We have Versace.
01:16 She is 2.
01:18 And we have Versailles.
01:20 He is 1.
01:22 And we have Vibe, who is like 2 months old almost.
01:27 Yeah.
01:28 Vibe looks like his sister that passed away.
01:30 Our oldest daughter looks identical to her.
01:34 It's so amazing.
01:35 Yo!
01:36 When we all got into trouble, my son
01:40 was old enough to know what was going on.
01:44 And I told him, this is my girlfriend.
01:46 She's going to be here.
01:48 And he was OK with it automatically.
01:50 He's seen it as, oh, I have another mom.
01:52 I have somebody else to play with.
01:53 I have somebody else to talk to.
01:56 What do you like about having so many people
01:58 in the house and a big family?
02:00 I can spend time with them.
02:02 I enjoy everything you do.
02:03 What do you all like about having three parents?
02:06 I mean, like someone to talk to.
02:07 There's multiple people around.
02:09 I really like that.
02:11 I think the kids like having three parents because more
02:13 support, more love.
02:15 More availability.
02:16 Yes, nobody ever misses anything at their school.
02:20 Somebody is always available to go.
02:22 They don't miss out on anything.
02:24 Dad, I can play sports and stuff with him.
02:27 Boo, she's like my emotional support.
02:30 If something happens, I can talk to her.
02:32 And then Mom, she's fun with everything, I'm going to be honest.
02:35 She's there whenever I need her.
02:37 I just want to be an example for them to not, you know,
02:41 just go by society's norms just to live your own truth.
02:44 Me and Lavish were a couple first.
02:49 And we met at his job years ago.
02:52 We were just friends with benefits for a while.
02:55 And then I got pregnant with our oldest son together.
02:59 And then we decided to make it official.
03:01 And we've been together ever since.
03:04 When me and Lavish first got together,
03:08 he was practicing it in his current relationship.
03:11 And I had been in a poly relationship beforehand.
03:14 I always knew I wanted a girlfriend.
03:16 I wanted a wife.
03:17 Me and him had talked about it.
03:19 And we both were on the same page
03:20 that we wanted another girlfriend.
03:24 How did you meet that?
03:25 We met at work.
03:26 We hit it off.
03:27 And I came over.
03:29 And we hung out.
03:31 She never left.
03:32 I never left.
03:33 We've been in a polyamorous relationship for four years now.
03:36 When people ask us how long we've been together,
03:39 our answer is our souls were intertwined
03:41 at the beginning of time.
03:43 And then we just found each other in human form.
03:47 Our polyamorous relationship just
03:49 consists of a lot of love and communication.
03:52 Are you all in a relationship with each other?
03:55 It's not just them here for me.
03:56 We're all active.
03:58 When Boo first came in, I don't want to say I was mean to her.
04:02 But I just didn't talk to her.
04:04 She went above and beyond to prove to me
04:06 that she was here for me as well, not just for him,
04:08 but for me as well.
04:09 And that really softened my heart.
04:11 And I fell in love with her.
04:12 Two of you were pregnant at the same time?
04:15 Yes.
04:16 Her husband got us pregnant at the same time.
04:18 We had actually tried, when she was pregnant with Versace,
04:22 to get pregnant at the same time.
04:24 I suffer from PCOS, polycystic ovarian syndrome.
04:28 So I do have a lot of miscarriages.
04:30 And then it finally happened when she got pregnant with Vibe.
04:33 And it was amazing.
04:34 Having two wives pregnant at the same time
04:39 is not for the faint of heart.
04:41 We, as a throuple, together haven't really
04:43 faced any challenges.
04:45 It's been people on the outside looking in,
04:47 giving their opinion.
04:49 A very common misconception about this
04:51 would be that it's all about him and what he wants.
04:55 And everything that he says is how it goes.
04:58 But it's not like that.
04:59 Everybody's opinion is valued.
05:01 And it matters when it comes down to it.
05:04 Jealousy is a very big misconception.
05:06 It's jealous over what's yours.
05:08 They're both mine.
05:09 We're both hers.
05:11 We're both his.
05:13 Everybody's for everybody.
05:14 I wanna be your girlfriend.
05:16 When we first started TikTok, our overall response
05:19 was very negative, very, very negative.
05:22 When people post negative comments,
05:24 I think it's hilarious.
05:26 We have one that says, you guys have no morals, none at all.
05:32 Don't you girls think you are worthy of something better?
05:36 We got some red flags, red flags.
05:39 I used to follow you, but it's clear he runs y'all.
05:42 I feel bad you think you need that.
05:44 No, this ain't right.
05:46 I just couldn't share if I really loved him.
05:48 But you do you.
05:50 You both are sharing one man with a [BLEEP]..
05:53 Yep, we share each other too.
05:54 And like you use polygamy just for sex purposes.
05:58 That's not what it was intended for.
06:00 Shaking my head.
06:01 Probably can't even afford them both.
06:03 I can't.
06:05 A lot of people now show us a lot of love.
06:07 Our supporters, your family is so blessed.
06:11 These women are very strong, independent, beautiful women
06:15 and amazing moms.
06:18 Boom.
06:20 Our kids might see the negative comments,
06:22 but it's really all about us and what goes on in the house.
06:25 The comments don't really have an effect on the kids.
06:29 It doesn't matter to them.
06:32 Your family and friends think you're becoming a pebble.
06:34 I'm trying to come up with words.
06:41 My family's opinion was positive.
06:44 They were very supportive.
06:46 They are supportive.
06:47 I love you, Mom.
06:49 How did you feel when you found out that there was going
06:51 to be a throuple in the family?
06:52 I wasn't really surprised.
06:54 Everybody had their own life and do what they wanted to do,
06:56 as long as they're happy.
06:58 When I first told her, I knew what her response would be
07:02 because I know my mother.
07:03 So I knew she would be supportive.
07:05 She loves us, and she shows that she loves us.
07:07 She tells us she loves us.
07:11 She's amazing.
07:12 Oh, well, thank you.
07:14 I'm just happy that I get all my grandbabies.
07:17 Precious little thing.
07:19 He's got his eyes wide open, too.
07:21 I'm looking forward to just staying together,
07:23 keep doing what we're doing, loving our kids,
07:25 loving each other, and just making the best out of life.
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07:34 --on the spot.
07:34 If you had to describe your life as a throuple in one word,
07:38 what would it be?
07:39 Amazing.
07:40 Bliss.
07:43 Oh, you're taking too long.
07:44 He said, what are you thinking?
07:47 You don't really like this.
07:50 He can't do this to me.
07:53 It is beautiful.
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