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Aired (March 1, 2025): Session #13 - In Aid of Beauty: Ang Sumpa ng Babaeng Maganda. Sabi ni Andrea Brillantes, may sumpa raw ang mga magaganda. Dahil nakaka-relate dito si Madam Chair, sinubpoena niya sina Faith da Silva at Herlene Budol para pag-usapan ang problema nilang magaganda. Pero ang hindi niya inasahan ay ang mauwi ang hearing sa aminan ng feelings. Ang big revelation: sina Vice Chair Buboy at Faith, may past!? #YourHonor #YouLOLYourHonor #YouLOLOriginals


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Hindi ito Senado. Hindi rin ito Kongreso. Pero may hearing dito. Samahan sina Buboy Villar at Tuesday Vargas na imbestigahan ang iba’t ibang mga isyu natin sa life kasama ang mga celebrity resource person. Seryosong usapin pero matatawa ka. Gano'n naman ang hearing, 'di ba?

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00:00Our topic today is the discourse of many people.
00:04You know Andrea, she said it's hard to be beautiful.
00:08Is it true that a curse is to be beautiful?
00:11Andrea is asking the question.
00:13Why are you asking us? That's your problem.
00:17I think the disadvantage of being beautiful is the men objectifying you.
00:23In my experience, I don't know if they really want to pursue me or just want to be with me.
00:28I don't really have a problem with being beautiful.
00:31My problem is that I'm always maniacal.
00:33Aside from that, most of the men I've been friends with
00:37reach the point of falling in love.
00:40So, Tate, my question is, is this Buboy?
00:43I'm just waiting for him to ask.
00:46In the end, you admitted it. I'll admit it too.
00:48There you go!
00:49I didn't expect this.
00:50We started talking about how beautiful it is, and suddenly it became a valentine's day show.
00:55Hearing is now in session in three,
00:58two,
00:59one!
01:09I think you shouldn't continue this because Madam Cher is feeling something.
01:12Madam Cher, are you okay?
01:14I'm just going through something, Buboy.
01:16I can't share it with you.
01:20Guys, excuse me.
01:21What happened to you?
01:22I'm having a hard time, Buboy.
01:26Why?
01:28What else?
01:29I'm too beautiful.
01:31I'm tired of being beautiful. It's a curse.
01:34Tired of what?
01:35You look tired too.
01:37Or you look haggard.
01:39No, that's not true.
01:40Why? Why?
01:41I'm happy right now.
01:43I'm okay, Madam Cher.
01:44You know what's important right now?
01:46Think that you're not alone.
01:48That's how handsome guys are.
01:50That's also my problem.
01:51Okay, enough.
01:54Session adjourned.
01:55This is crazy.
01:56What's going on here?
01:58Applause!
02:00Our guests don't believe that we're beautiful and handsome.
02:03So, let's give them a round of applause.
02:05Ladies and gentlemen, let's give them a round of applause.
02:07Harleen Budol and Faith Da Silva!
02:10Welcome to your honor, ladies.
02:12Hello.
02:13Hello.
02:14Good day to all of you.
02:15Good day.
02:16Your honor, second honor.
02:17You two are really beautiful.
02:18But I'm tired.
02:19But I'm tired.
02:20I might not make it home.
02:22I was just about to say,
02:23this is really beautiful.
02:24It makes me want to throw up.
02:25Yes, especially mine.
02:28What's wrong with your wrist?
02:29Is that not allowed?
02:30What's that?
02:32If you break it, something will happen.
02:33It's hard, right?
02:34It's hard.
02:35When we're this beautiful.
02:38I can't even laugh.
02:40I'm offended.
02:42I love you, Ate Tuesday.
02:43This is our first meeting.
02:44This is Madam Cher.
02:45This is also Madam Cher.
02:47Actually, Ate Tuesday is so beautiful.
02:49I saw something on the side.
02:51Hey, don't be so loud.
02:54Stop it.
02:55Ate Tuesday is not saying anything.
02:57She's already smiling.
02:58In fairness,
02:59there's a number one fan.
03:00I'm getting mad.
03:04Stop it.
03:05Go to the car first.
03:09Stop it. Stay.
03:11Don't touch me.
03:12People are getting confused.
03:14They're getting confused.
03:16Why?
03:17Don't do it.
03:18But let's go back to you.
03:19You're really going around in circles.
03:21That's why we invited you.
03:23Because we know you're the best resource persons
03:26to talk about this topic.
03:28Because if you can feel it,
03:30I've been saying it earlier,
03:31our topic today is
03:34Discourse of Many People.
03:36What's that?
03:37Now.
03:38Because,
03:39you already know,
03:40Andrea said,
03:41it's hard to be beautiful.
03:44So we want to know now,
03:45is it true that a curse
03:47is what makes you beautiful?
03:50Me?
03:51Do you want me to start?
03:52I think it's a blessing and a curse.
03:54Okay. Elaborate.
03:55Both.
03:56Because it has many advantages and disadvantages.
04:00I'll start with the advantage.
04:03When it comes to beauty,
04:05we have a lot of...
04:07I can only speak for myself.
04:10I believe in beauty privilege.
04:14Oh, that's right.
04:16What's privilege?
04:18What is it?
04:19Privilege.
04:20Privilege.
04:21Something like that.
04:22Or curse.
04:23Yes. To elaborate.
04:25Sorry.
04:26Before we start,
04:27let's curse first.
04:28Because there's a curse.
04:30It triggers fast.
04:31Curse.
04:32It's a curse.
04:33It triggers fast.
04:35Sorry.
04:37Privilege.
04:38It means that it gets something
04:40from being beautiful.
04:41Let's start with public transportation.
04:43In the past,
04:44with jeepneys,
04:45you can ride more.
04:46Hey, it's beautiful.
04:47You can park here.
04:48Or sometimes,
04:49you don't have to pay for it.
04:51Or for example,
04:52if I'm at the mall,
04:54I'll ask for help from a clerk.
04:56I'll really accompany them
04:58wherever I go.
04:59Oh, there's a tour guide?
05:01Yes.
05:02Actually, there are many more.
05:04Another advantage is
05:05when you get a job,
05:07how you present yourself.
05:10It's easier to sell yourself.
05:11If you don't show off,
05:13the employees will be full.
05:16It's part of the requirements.
05:18You know what they say,
05:19with pleasing personality.
05:21That's just an excuse.
05:23Let's not believe it.
05:24I've heard that
05:25when you're riding a jeepney,
05:27Yes, I'm being asked to ride a jeepney.
05:29But I'm also being asked
05:31to be a driver.
05:32Why?
05:33It's an abuse.
05:34It's just an excuse.
05:36Why do you think so?
05:37I want to be a driver.
05:39Wow!
05:43Before we start talking
05:45about beauty,
05:47let's kiss first.
05:48We might be too extroverted
05:50because we want to look good.
05:51Speaking of,
05:54I said, let's kiss first.
05:56Oh, I didn't know that.
05:59Raise your right eyebrow.
06:02What? Herlin Canan?
06:03Canan.
06:04Canan Herlin.
06:05There.
06:06They don't know
06:07how beautiful they are.
06:08I don't know why I'm doing this.
06:10What's right and what's left?
06:13Okay.
06:14Here's our question.
06:15This is what you'll do.
06:16You'll just say,
06:17I swear or I do.
06:19Do you swear to tell the whole truth
06:21and nothing but the truth
06:22so help yourselves.
06:23I swear.
06:27Yes.
06:28Yes.
06:29Correct.
06:30I want you to be unsure
06:31that you're really unsure.
06:33Others are joking,
06:34but I feel like Herlin
06:35is making a joke.
06:37It's fast.
06:38It's like I'm ordering at Starbucks.
06:41When I go to Starbucks,
06:42I'll just answer,
06:43Javachips.
06:45Javachips.
06:46You have a default answer.
06:47Right? Yes.
06:48It's automatic.
06:49Dine-in or take-out?
06:52I've learned that for a long time.
06:54I've been waiting for a long time.
06:55It's so hard for me.
06:56It's like I have a quiz to go to.
06:59You need to think.
07:01I'm just ordering
07:02and you're still thinking.
07:03It's like that.
07:04That's why I don't like Starbucks.
07:05Earlier, I was saying
07:06that you're beautiful
07:07and you were hesitant
07:08when she said,
07:09don't do it.
07:10I'll get fired.
07:11Yes.
07:12But you got fired.
07:13Yes.
07:14Why do you have
07:15that kind of reaction
07:17when people call you beautiful?
07:19Of course,
07:20people bully me first.
07:22I started step-by-step.
07:24I did Grade 1
07:25before I went to college
07:27on how to become beautiful.
07:29Of course, I worked,
07:30I studied.
07:32It's like
07:34I learned
07:36how to take care of myself.
07:38I learned
07:39all the bad things.
07:41You're so ugly.
07:43Wow, coming from you.
07:45Hey!
07:46That's okay.
07:48She blinks.
07:52Promise?
07:53So for me,
07:54to prove it to her,
07:57I want her to tell me
08:00you're right
08:01but we need
08:02to put in extra effort.
08:05If you see someone
08:06who's ugly to me,
08:07it's okay.
08:08You're ugly too.
08:10It's a tie.
08:11Yes, it's a tie.
08:13Work on it.
08:14If what other people say
08:15about you,
08:16thank them.
08:18Because I can still
08:19improve myself.
08:21They're teaching me.
08:22That's why
08:23thank you so much.
08:24You know,
08:25a big percentage
08:26of your beauty,
08:27Harleen,
08:28is how confident
08:29you are in yourself.
08:30And your personality
08:31is not unapologetic.
08:37I don't know if you're drunk
08:38or if this is normal.
08:39Yesterday,
08:42I couldn't sleep
08:43so I just got a pimple.
08:46A pimple?
08:48Genepalm.
08:49She looked at me.
08:52One sachet.
08:53But it's okay.
08:54It's delicious.
08:55It's cheap.
08:56It really went down.
08:57Like I said,
08:58it didn't go down.
09:00I said,
09:01I'm going to the gym.
09:03Faith is shocked.
09:04No,
09:05you can say that
09:06it's just a pimple.
09:07It's one of your secrets
09:08that makes you more beautiful.
09:10You don't care
09:11what you drink.
09:13I have amoebiasis.
09:14I pooped.
09:17Sir Eric,
09:18where are you?
09:19It's my fourth poop now.
09:20Before we left,
09:21I pooped.
09:23I think it's because
09:24I put a lot of stuff
09:25in my pimple.
09:26You said you eat.
09:28What is that?
09:31It's hard to have that.
09:33That's why I'm the title holder
09:34of the topic.
09:36It's not bad.
09:37It's painful.
09:38It's bleeding.
09:40What province are you from?
09:41Why do you have a pimple?
09:43I'm from Rizal.
09:45We live in Batangas.
09:47That's why there's a point
09:48where it goes through.
09:49If you tell this to Harleen,
09:51she'll be so beautiful.
09:52She has a hard time
09:53talking.
09:54She's beautiful.
09:56Okay, back to you.
09:57If I look at you,
09:58it's like you don't have
09:59any problems.
10:00But that's not true.
10:01No.
10:02Everyone has a problem.
10:03But if you're beautiful,
10:04what's the problem?
10:06Because Andrea said
10:07beautiful people have problems.
10:09What's the problem?
10:10If Andrea doesn't ask,
10:12Andrea, I'll PM you.
10:13Reply to me
10:14so I can say this
10:16to your owner.
10:18Why are you asking us?
10:19That's your problem.
10:22No, but you know,
10:23a lot of people have problems.
10:25Especially women.
10:26Because the standards
10:27are so high now.
10:30Maybe when we were young,
10:32I mean,
10:33we reached a phase
10:34where we were like gegemon.
10:35We didn't dress up
10:36and we even had powder on our faces.
10:39We looked like that.
10:41Chicana.
10:42I don't know,
10:43you wouldn't understand.
10:44You just edit that picture
10:46in a computer shop
10:48where the headphones are sour.
10:50So it's true.
10:51But now,
10:52the teenagers,
10:53you can see them working hard.
10:55I think it's also because
10:57of social media
10:58and the pressure of society
11:00for you to look a certain way.
11:02But aside from that,
11:03I think the disadvantage
11:04of being beautiful
11:06is the way men
11:07objectify you.
11:09I think,
11:10in my experience,
11:13I don't know if they really
11:15want to pursue me
11:16or just want to look good.
11:17You know that.
11:18True.
11:19Because there are looks
11:20that are different.
11:21And of course,
11:22in our imaging
11:24that we're sexy,
11:25this and that.
11:26So their thinking is
11:28that the respect
11:29is lost
11:31because you're objectified.
11:33Yes.
11:34It can also be that
11:35they're amazed
11:36that instead of having respect first,
11:38they need to get a piece of you.
11:39They get it right away.
11:40They can't be stopped.
11:42But I think,
11:43aside from that,
11:45this is another disadvantage
11:46for me
11:47when it comes to
11:48male friendships.
11:50Yes.
11:51Most of the men
11:52that I've been friends with
11:54come to the point
11:56where they're in love.
11:57That's hard.
11:58But you,
11:59you just want friendship,
12:01right?
12:02So you don't really know
12:04why they're in love.
12:05So when it comes to
12:07the point where
12:08men look at you differently,
12:09you exit.
12:10Yes.
12:11How do you say that?
12:12How do you say that now?
12:14Why?
12:15Are you interested
12:16in these men?
12:17No.
12:18Who's asking?
12:20Vice chair?
12:21Vice chair.
12:22I'm just asking.
12:23I'm not saying
12:25that we shouldn't have
12:27a conversation about it
12:28because
12:29I don't have you anymore.
12:31I don't have the thinking
12:32that your intentions are pure
12:34towards me.
12:35Because I thought
12:36you just wanted friendship
12:37but underlying,
12:38you have another intention
12:41that's not just friendship.
12:43You're clear.
12:44We're friends now.
12:45Those are the disadvantages
12:47for me.
12:48So Faith,
12:49my question is
12:50is Buboy your type?
12:52No.
12:53I'm honest.
12:54He's one of my what-ifs.
12:56Why?
12:57No.
12:58He's your type.
12:59No, really.
13:00You know,
13:01even if you look at me like that,
13:02I'm shy.
13:03I'm really saying
13:04what if I jumped back then?
13:05Wow, you jumped.
13:06Why didn't you jump?
13:07Right?
13:08You're being challenged.
13:09Why didn't you jump?
13:10Now, you don't have anyone.
13:11You have a boyfriend.
13:14I respect
13:15what we have.
13:16I respect you, Buboy.
13:17Of course, I respect you, Faith.
13:18It's like I need to smoke.
13:19I need to smoke.
13:20There's a lot of food here.
13:21It's lagging.
13:22Madam Chair.
13:23It's lagging.
13:24No, it's because
13:25I'm really happy.
13:26You know,
13:27when you say I'm in love with you,
13:28you know why?
13:29Because you're really in love.
13:31That's the truth.
13:33That's the truth.
13:34You're in love.
13:35I'm getting confused.
13:36Are you the host here?
13:37Let me make it clear.
13:38This is a show,
13:39not a courtship.
13:40Sorry.
13:41Sorry.
13:42I mean,
13:43have you ever been like that?
13:44Like,
13:45you were shocked
13:46because of your looks.
13:47Oh, this is beautiful.
13:48No,
13:49it's because
13:50I'm not really
13:51beautiful.
13:53Who said that?
13:54You're beautiful.
13:55You're beautiful, Faith.
13:56Maybe it's because
13:57I'm in love.
13:58Someone told me
13:59that there are a lot of people
14:00who say,
14:01this is Erlin,
14:02she's not really beautiful,
14:03but she's f*****g hot.
14:04It's like,
14:05there are people like that.
14:06Because they think that,
14:07it's like,
14:08they see on TV
14:10that my outfit is bad,
14:11on social media,
14:13but in real life,
14:14I'm still wearing
14:15gangsters' clothes.
14:16Until now.
14:17I want big clothes,
14:18big pants,
14:19so it's like,
14:20I don't really have a problem
14:21with being beautiful.
14:23My problem is,
14:24I'm always maniacal
14:25because they think
14:26that my personality
14:27in what they see
14:28is the same as in real life.
14:30Ah, okay.
14:31So it's like,
14:32they attack me,
14:33like,
14:34I can do this.
14:35I can do this.
14:36It's like,
14:37that's their first impression
14:38of me.
14:39It's like,
14:40this is just for show.
14:41It's like that.
14:42But it's not really,
14:43because my body is really,
14:44it's like,
14:45before,
14:46I thought I was a tomboy.
14:47Boyish.
14:48Erlene has a boyish side.
14:49And did she say,
14:50is that Porman?
14:51Porman?
14:52Who's Porman?
14:54The one who's coming.
14:55Wow,
14:56the word, coming.
14:57Who's Porman?
14:58That's it,
14:59Porman.
15:01It's like,
15:02you're mad at Bobo.
15:03Porman is too far.
15:04You know,
15:05he didn't drink
15:06his medicine.
15:08Porman,
15:09I'm confused
15:10what to answer.
15:11You know,
15:12that's what doesn't hurt
15:13when Bobo comes to me.
15:15Because it's a tie.
15:16So it's like,
15:17hey, classmate,
15:18welcome back.
15:20Welcome to the club.
15:21Yes,
15:22that's smart, Erlene.
15:23Maybe in a different way,
15:24but it's like,
15:25I'm already used to
15:26the humiliation of people
15:27when they tell me,
15:28oh,
15:29she's just pretty,
15:30she's just good-looking,
15:31but she's stupid.
15:32Wow.
15:33How can it be?
15:34Because for me,
15:35Bobo is willing to learn.
15:36Because my personality,
15:38I've already learned myself.
15:40I said,
15:41I'm not that stupid.
15:43It's just right.
15:44I'm just a late bloomer.
15:46Because those are the things
15:47I didn't go through when I was young.
15:49It's like,
15:50oh, that's possible.
15:51Oh, this is how it is.
15:52Like that.
15:53And learning doesn't end.
15:55True.
15:56If we're alive,
15:57we always learn every day.
15:59That's why a lot of people
16:00call me stupid.
16:01You're stupid too.
16:02There are things
16:03that you know
16:05that I don't know,
16:06but there are things I know
16:07that you don't know either.
16:08Yes.
16:09It's a tie.
16:10It's scary to be included
16:11in the ramble,
16:12Erlene.
16:13I'm a ramble starter.
16:15As long as she's your friend.
16:17As long as she's my friend,
16:18it's fine.
16:19They thought I was being bullied.
16:21I was a starter in high school
16:22until college.
16:23I said,
16:24I'm not brave.
16:25I'm just big,
16:27but I'm soft-hearted.
16:29Wow!
16:30Soft-hearted!
16:32Once is enough.
16:33Two is too much.
16:34Be alert.
16:35Limited only.
16:38You guys are amazing.
16:39You know,
16:40I'm happy when a girl is pretty
16:42and has a heart of gold.
16:44Don't say,
16:45you're stupid, Erlene.
16:46If you want,
16:47just say,
16:48I still have a lot to learn.
16:49You said something right.
16:51Don't say that
16:52because you're pretty
16:53and you have a brain.
16:54If you don't know,
16:55you really have a brain.
16:56And I'm still studying
16:58until now.
16:59I'm mastering
17:00the things that I'm weak at.
17:02That's true.
17:03You know,
17:04I'm a testament here
17:05because Erlene,
17:07most Filipinos
17:09think that
17:11if you're smart,
17:12you need to be good at English.
17:13You need to be articulate
17:15when you're speaking.
17:16But they don't think
17:17that speaking Tagalog,
17:19the deep,
17:20the whole,
17:21the story,
17:22that's also being smart.
17:23Yes.
17:24But Erlene,
17:25she tries her best.
17:26You know,
17:27she has a notebook.
17:28She has a notebook.
17:29And she asks me,
17:30what's the English word
17:32that I can use
17:34or English phrase
17:35that I can use
17:36for the next one.
17:37That's why I think
17:38it's good that she's with Kevin
17:40and Tony
17:41in Binibining Marikit
17:42because she's learning English
17:44and they're learning Tagalog
17:46because of her.
17:47That's right.
17:48You're right.
17:49Thank you, Pete.
17:50Binibining Marikit
17:51is on Monday to Friday.
17:55Watch Binibining Marikit
17:57Monday to Saturday
17:59at 2.30 p.m.
18:00on Showtime.
18:01That's it.
18:02That's where I learned
18:04that I'm not the only fool.
18:07We're all fools.
18:08Because a fool is willing
18:10to learn.
18:11Look at them,
18:12they only know English
18:13but they don't know
18:14the Filipino word
18:16where we're from.
18:18Of course,
18:19we're Tagalog.
18:20So I ask them
18:22in English
18:23and they ask me
18:24in Tagalog.
18:25So I contribute
18:26to their lives.
18:27They contribute to mine.
18:28Yes.
18:29Sure, sure, sure.
18:30The fight isn't over yet.
18:32While there's life,
18:33we learn,
18:34we grow,
18:35and we improve.
18:36Exactly.
18:37And speaking of improving,
18:41I just want to ask
18:42because this topic
18:43is very interesting
18:44for me.
18:45They say
18:46there's what's called
18:47Ugly Duckling Syndrome.
18:48Actually,
18:49I've experienced this too.
18:50What's Ugly Duckling Syndrome?
18:51If you know the story
18:52of Ugly Duckling,
18:53he's the only one
18:54other than CCO
18:55who's a baby
18:56who's not good
18:57to all his siblings.
18:59Up until such time
19:00when they grew up,
19:01he became the swan
19:03and the most beautiful.
19:05Later in life,
19:06this Ugly Duckling
19:08became beautiful.
19:10So,
19:11Ugly Duckling Syndrome
19:12is when you're young,
19:14you're not sure
19:15about your form,
19:16your look,
19:17and how to project yourself.
19:19But now,
19:20the new Herlene Budol
19:212025 Edition
19:23is really super beautiful.
19:25So,
19:26when you're already beautiful,
19:27did they change?
19:28Did they get softer?
19:29Did they get thinner?
19:30No,
19:31they got even uglier.
19:33How?
19:34Of course,
19:35there are people
19:36who don't want
19:37to take advantage of you.
19:38Like,
19:39why?
19:40They say,
19:41you're ugly,
19:42ugly, ugly.
19:43When you make an effort
19:45to do the things
19:47that they want
19:49to improve on you,
19:51when you do those things,
19:52there's still something to say.
19:53So,
19:54no matter how you look,
19:55no matter how fat you are,
19:56how dark you are,
19:57how fair you are,
19:58no matter what you do,
19:59no matter how you please people,
20:01there's something to say.
20:03What I learned from this,
20:06don't,
20:08don't,
20:09just don't care.
20:11True.
20:12Don't care.
20:13Follow what's in your heart.
20:15Because,
20:16that's it.
20:17Motivate,
20:18inspire yourself
20:19with the person
20:20you want to look up to.
20:22Because not because,
20:23because of what they're saying,
20:25but because you also want
20:27to improve yourself.
20:29For you.
20:31Yes, for yourself.
20:32Because,
20:33not just because,
20:34because of what they're saying.
20:36But,
20:37I take it,
20:38I told them,
20:39I'm thankful
20:40because they gave me an idea.
20:42But I don't get affected
20:44by what they're saying.
20:45I used their negative
20:47pointers on me
20:49to make it better,
20:51to still be positive.
20:53Because all the negatives in my life,
20:55I turn them into positives.
20:56See,
20:57the stones they throw at you,
20:59they throw at you,
21:00there.
21:01Erling threw them.
21:04He threw them all
21:06and made a mountain
21:07and he stood there
21:08and he lifted himself up.
21:09Yes,
21:10he lifted himself up.
21:11Right?
21:12Faith already mentioned this,
21:13she's been through a lot.
21:14She said,
21:15one of the disadvantages
21:16of being beautiful is
21:18it's hard
21:19to find friends.
21:21Yes.
21:22Maybe it's the same with subjects.
21:23That's why it's hard
21:24to find friends.
21:25A lot of people get jealous.
21:27That's also true.
21:29How do girls get jealous?
21:30For girls,
21:31it's like
21:32others have competition.
21:34Maybe especially
21:36within the industry
21:37that we don't like.
21:39But because of the comparison
21:41of the people around you,
21:42maybe they feed their minds
21:44into thinking,
21:45oh, this is my competition.
21:47Something like that.
21:48Maybe that's where the jealousy comes from.
21:50Because most of us,
21:52we want something
21:55that we don't have.
21:56In other words,
21:57we can't appreciate
21:59what's already in us
22:01or in ourselves.
22:02Because we keep looking
22:04at what's around us.
22:05That's why
22:06we should be like a horse.
22:08We should look straight ahead.
22:10Let's focus on things.
22:12Just like what Herlina said,
22:14when we try to
22:16I didn't say anything in English.
22:19She's just interpreting.
22:22I mean,
22:23improving as a person
22:25shouldn't be for other people
22:27but for us.
22:29You know, it's sad.
22:31For boys,
22:32there's no comparison.
22:33For us Kapwa girls,
22:35we have this.
22:36I don't like that culture either.
22:38I read something.
22:40I don't know if you read it.
22:42I think it was on Reddit
22:44when a girl said,
22:45oh my God,
22:46I'm gonna dress up real nice
22:47because all you boys
22:48are going to ridicule
22:49what I'm wearing
22:50if I don't do it right.
22:51Then a boy replied.
22:53For example,
22:54I'm so sorry to break it to you,
22:56but boys, don't care.
22:57It's actually the other girls
22:59who will care more than us.
23:01Exactly.
23:02So it's true,
23:03your Kapwa girls
23:04will say,
23:05that's not pretty,
23:06that's not art,
23:07that's not tall,
23:08whoever it is.
23:09Things like that.
23:10True.
23:11What's the most painful thing
23:12a girl said to you?
23:14I'm short.
23:15Huh?
23:16Because you're pretty,
23:17you're short?
23:18No, but it's true.
23:19No.
23:20That's why I got hurt
23:21because I was like,
23:22how did she know?
23:24It's just a secret.
23:25How is that?
23:27It's okay.
23:30You're short?
23:31Yes.
23:32You should learn
23:33that there's always
23:35no two people
23:36who are the same.
23:38That's it,
23:39accepting each other's...
23:40I'm sorry.
23:41It hurts.
23:42Sorry.
23:43Sorry, sorry, sorry.
23:45Accepting the differences
23:47of each other.
23:48I think,
23:49this is also my take
23:51when it comes to
23:53enhancing
23:54your own beauty.
23:56I think,
23:57before you get to the point
23:59that you're going to do it,
24:01you need to control
24:03your thoughts first
24:05and appreciate
24:06what you have.
24:08It's also hard right now,
24:09I feel like the others,
24:11the people who do barricades,
24:12they just look alike.
24:14That's what I see.
24:15And me,
24:16I don't have a problem with them
24:18because you're happy there.
24:20But as long as you can
24:22change your mindset,
24:24that's the first thing.
24:26But if not,
24:27because there are certain jobs,
24:29certain jobs
24:30that have standards,
24:32that's where you should go.
24:33That's where I come from.
24:35I read something
24:37that's like,
24:40it's not vulgar,
24:42but it talks about
24:43the private part of women.
24:46I read that
24:48the private part of women
24:50is not the same.
24:51Yes, it's not the same.
24:53As in,
24:54there's no exact
24:56way to look like a girl.
24:57It's like a fingerprint.
24:59It's super unique per girl.
25:02Yes, it's like a fingerprint.
25:04Next time,
25:05when you're voting,
25:06that's what you're going to use.
25:08We're going to sit on the cover.
25:10Because,
25:11for example,
25:12sorry,
25:13my fingerprint is broken
25:15because I was holding it earlier.
25:17It's okay,
25:18you can sit on the cover.
25:19No, it's true.
25:20That's how unique she is.
25:21That's where I realized
25:22that no one is the same.
25:24Like,
25:25you shouldn't be envied.
25:27Because,
25:28like what I said earlier,
25:29there are things
25:30that they have,
25:31but you don't.
25:32But you have,
25:33but they don't.
25:34So,
25:35be thankful
25:36and grateful
25:37for everything
25:38that happens in the world.
25:39Just be thankful
25:40and don't be envied
25:41because envy is deadly.
25:42That's true.
25:43What is being envied?
25:45Is there only one standard
25:47of beauty?
25:48Is there only one mold
25:50that if you're told
25:51that you're beautiful,
25:52you should go in that box
25:53and if you're not there,
25:54you're not beautiful anymore.
25:55I think it's also in the culture
25:57and in our experiences.
25:59For me,
26:00what is the standard
26:02of being beautiful?
26:03Here's the thing,
26:04they said that in the Filipino culture,
26:06there are five things
26:07that are always there.
26:08White.
26:09They want white.
26:10Sexy.
26:11Clean, sexy, or thin.
26:12Thin is more specific.
26:14Because sexy can be
26:15so many things.
26:16Yes, full of truth.
26:17Curvy.
26:20And lastly,
26:21youthful.
26:26Do you agree
26:27that we should be in
26:28this box of beauty?
26:30That's just your box.
26:31I'm not included in that.
26:34I'm not someone
26:35to be judged.
26:37I'm appreciated
26:38because
26:40she's so beautiful.
26:41She's so sexy.
26:43You know,
26:44I've experienced
26:46that I'm judged
26:48because of things
26:49that I have in my body
26:50or my appearance.
26:51You know,
26:52if we're denied in other countries,
26:53that's why,
26:54Aimee,
26:55you're our countrywoman
26:56who's the best in life
26:57because we're so good
26:58at selling to the poor.
26:59That's true.
27:00True.
27:01If we look like Filipinos,
27:02and you're denied in other countries,
27:04we might be superstars there.
27:06Right?
27:07That's true.
27:08Let's start with other countries
27:09because you mentioned
27:10whiteness.
27:11They're the ones
27:12who come here
27:13to get their hair done.
27:15When they see us,
27:16they're so surprised
27:17that we're so beautiful.
27:20They also say
27:21that we're colorblind.
27:23But I'm not saying
27:24that's ugly.
27:25It's because
27:26we're beautiful
27:27in their eyes.
27:28We're not.
27:29If a person is not white,
27:30they're associated
27:31with poverty.
27:33They're associated with
27:34not being able to buy
27:35this or that
27:36for beauty.
27:37They don't have a budget.
27:38They don't have money.
27:39I feel like
27:40it's a colonial mentality.
27:41It's a colonial mentality.
27:42It's a colonial mentality.
27:43Right?
27:44We're not associated
27:45with...
27:46No, it's stupid.
27:47No, it's not stupid.
27:48It's stupid.
27:49You should've just changed.
27:50You should've just saved
27:51your stupidity.
27:52We're not associated
27:53with Americans.
27:54Of course,
27:55the people who associate with you
27:56are the ones you think
27:57are stupid.
27:58Spanish first
27:59before American.
28:00I'm already in America
28:01because you said I'm white.
28:02Sorry, sorry.
28:03I'm sorry.
28:04That's Madam Chair.
28:05I'm sorry.
28:06Sorry, Madam Chair.
28:07I'm sorry, Madam Chair.
28:08I'm sorry, Madam Chair.
28:09Security.
28:10Sorry, Madam Chair.
28:11No, it's because
28:12we feel like
28:13they're superior to us.
28:14So, that's what we want to achieve.
28:16It's like they're superior
28:17to us who are white.
28:18Yes.
28:19Like that.
28:20So, it's all in the mind.
28:21It means
28:22alter your perspective.
28:24Just think
28:25that others like this.
28:27Why am I embarrassing this?
28:28Yes.
28:29And just make
28:30your own standard
28:31if you're not consistent
28:32with the standards
28:33of what others say.
28:34It's nice
28:35that you're unique
28:36but you like people.
28:38Yes.
28:39You're unique in everything.
28:40And I think
28:41those qualities
28:43are not important.
28:44As long as you have confidence
28:46in how you face life
28:48and how you handle
28:50yourself,
28:51I think you'll win.
28:53It's with beauty.
28:54And just this,
28:55the physical things
28:57that we all have here
28:58are not a bonus.
28:59Just have a good attitude.
29:01You're perfect
29:02for us.
29:03Yes.
29:04Perfect.
29:05I agree.
29:06How you get along,
29:07your attitude,
29:08are you family-oriented?
29:10It's nice
29:11that you get along
29:12and get along.
29:13But your personality,
29:14that's what reminds me of you.
29:15When you die,
29:16they'll say,
29:17she's so kind.
29:18She has a good heart.
29:21But?
29:22If you're beautiful
29:24but you have a bad personality,
29:25she deserves that.
29:27She deserves to die right away.
29:29This is a long story.
29:31Yes.
29:32This is what I'm wearing.
29:34Do you remember?
29:35This is what I'm wearing.
29:36Right?
29:37Madam Chair,
29:39do you still need
29:41to please people
29:42because of your looks?
29:44Yes.
29:45Please them
29:46because your attitude
29:47is beautiful
29:48when you show it to them.
29:49That's true.
29:50Cheers!
29:51There are so many premiums.
29:52Cheers!
29:53There are so many premiums.
29:55What's up?
29:56What you said is so nice, girls,
29:58because I'm happy
29:59that the standard of beauty
30:01that Filipinas have,
30:02we're breaking it.
30:03Or that Filipinos
30:05think like that.
30:06But it's not just physical.
30:08Actually, the standard
30:09of beauty and skill
30:10of a woman,
30:11even the non-physical,
30:12if you're not shy,
30:14if you're not soft-spoken,
30:16if you're not shy,
30:18if you've made a mistake
30:19but you still don't show it,
30:21you just smell it.
30:22I just want to say
30:23as a beauty queen,
30:24I've experienced that.
30:26Go ahead, Mars.
30:27I've experienced that
30:28because they say that
30:30I'm not a typical beauty queen
30:32who came here to the Philippines
30:34like, why did you come here?
30:36You're not the standard
30:38of being a queen
30:40here in the Philippines.
30:42You're not like
30:44a representative of the Philippines
30:46because that's how you are.
30:47Because that's how you talk.
30:49Because you're not smart.
30:50Because you're not beautiful.
30:52Because you're not perfect.
30:53Because the standard
30:55of being a beauty queen,
30:56they'll judge you
30:57until you're the tallest
30:59in the world
31:00until your anus.
31:01Who are these perfect people
31:02who say that?
31:03Who are these perfect people?
31:05It's just a lot of no's.
31:07That's true.
31:08Promise.
31:09That's where I've experienced
31:10that it's hard.
31:12I used to think
31:13that being a beauty queen
31:14is just about being beautiful
31:15without any problems.
31:16Straight body,
31:17smile,
31:18then wave.
31:20That's it.
31:21No.
31:22All of your insecurities
31:25in your body
31:26will come out.
31:27Promise.
31:28That's why Faith,
31:29if this comes out,
31:31I'll support this
31:32because she takes care
31:34of herself so well.
31:35I look up to her
31:37as the next Miss Universe
31:39here in the Philippines.
31:41She's still young,
31:43I think I'm older than her,
31:45but the way she brings herself
31:47because I see her
31:48in the people I've been with
31:50and the winners.
31:52I don't want
31:54to prove myself to them.
31:56I want to say that
31:58I'm in the Philippines.
32:00I'm here in the world.
32:01I'm here in the Philippines
32:03to be judged.
32:04But I need to prove
32:06so that I can inspire young people
32:08who want to achieve
32:10what they dream of.
32:12Why did Ate Harleen
32:13do that even though
32:15she's not rich,
32:16even though she's not that beautiful?
32:19Because I have a thick face.
32:21I don't sing,
32:22I don't dance,
32:24I'm not a good host,
32:26I'm not good at acting,
32:27but my thick face
32:30inspires me.
32:34That's my mission,
32:36like my answer.
32:37My mission
32:39is to inspire.
32:41So to all the young people
32:43who are losing hope,
32:45please continue.
32:46I promise,
32:47Ate Harleen is here
32:48to support you.
32:50Thank you so much, Ate Harleen.
32:52But thank you so much, girls.
32:54It's so nice
32:56that you gave us
32:57such good insights
32:59on how to be beautiful,
33:01how to have the right attitude
33:03when it comes to viewing yourself.
33:05And to all the girls
33:07who are now watching
33:08and who are your idols,
33:09do you have anything
33:10you want to say
33:11before we move on
33:12to Executive Whisper?
33:14First of all,
33:16I didn't start
33:18because I already have
33:19confidence in myself.
33:21I think being prepared
33:24for the things you want to do
33:26will really help you
33:28when you step into a room.
33:29You'll know that your confidence
33:31comes from your preparation,
33:33your dedication
33:34to what you want to achieve,
33:36your dreams.
33:37And also,
33:38the physical beauty
33:41can't be compared
33:43to the softness of your heart.
33:46As long as your intentions
33:47are pure and clear
33:49with people around you,
33:50I think,
33:51just like what Harleen said,
33:52that's where people will love you.
33:54Thank you so much,
33:55candidate number nine.
33:58Wait, Ms. Silva?
34:00Yes, Ms. Harleen?
34:01For me,
34:03don't be afraid to dream.
34:05If you have a dream,
34:07I'll be there with you.
34:09You're like a politician.
34:11No, really.
34:12I promise.
34:13I'm also an advocate
34:15and a beauty queen.
34:16I also don't want a crown.
34:18I want to have a voice
34:22to inspire them.
34:25And thank you so much
34:26for this podcast.
34:28As we said earlier,
34:30we were really tired.
34:32But...
34:33As we said,
34:34she's Ate Tuesday
34:35and she's Buboy.
34:36She's a friend.
34:37She's happy.
34:38It's inspiring
34:39that I was able to use your podcast
34:41to say all the things
34:43that hurt me.
34:45Actually,
34:46I was able to say
34:47the things I've been thinking about
34:49that I wasn't able to say
34:51on all my platforms
34:52on Sokmed.
34:53I was able to do it here.
34:54It means
34:55the conversation is comfortable.
34:57Everything happens for a reason.
34:59Like I said,
35:00if I can't do it anymore,
35:01I'll go home.
35:02Because I also felt bad earlier.
35:04I was coughing
35:06and I had a runny nose.
35:07But I told her,
35:08let's just talk for a while
35:10because I'm really tired
35:11and I want to sleep.
35:12I'll give this energy
35:14to this podcast.
35:15Thank you so much, Earline.
35:16Thank you so much.
35:17Thank you for saying that.
35:18You've inspired so many of our viewers
35:21especially you, Earline and Faith.
35:23I was just listening to you.
35:25In fairness to you, Faith,
35:27we've been working together for so many years.
35:29You're really different now.
35:30You have so much knowledge.
35:31You're so broad.
35:32Earline, Earline.
35:33What did you say?
35:34You said Faith.
35:35It's obvious that you're always thinking about me.
35:39Earline.
35:40I was also confused.
35:41It's really you.
35:42She's my wife now.
35:44Yes.
35:45She's always positive.
35:46At first,
35:47I already knew that
35:48your dream is really high.
35:49If I can say now,
35:50you've already achieved all of that
35:51and you'll achieve more.
35:53I promise.
35:54Faith, you too.
35:55You know,
35:56I'm really supportive of you two, friends.
35:59Thank you so much.
36:00I know you do a lot of things
36:02but you encouraged us.
36:03You can always use your honor
36:05as a platform,
36:06as an avenue
36:07to share your knowledge,
36:08your wealth of wisdom
36:10especially to young girls
36:11that look up to you.
36:12Aside from that,
36:13if you have personal problems,
36:15even if you don't have your honor,
36:16you can use us, Buboy,
36:18in ways that are not allowed
36:20in the matrix.
36:21Use us.
36:22I mean,
36:23we're also your friends.
36:24You can help us
36:26and we'll help you
36:27to process this.
36:28I'll follow you,
36:30because Buboy is really
36:32one of my best friends
36:34in Showbiz.
36:35There are real people here.
36:38Real people.
36:39That's why people like your show.
36:40And aside from that,
36:41you have a budget.
36:42You gave us a tip.
36:46Sorry.
36:47You have a budget.
36:49They gave us a tip.
36:50But you know,
36:52with or without tip,
36:54it's like...
36:55Okay.
36:56Guys,
36:57tell her in the next episode.
36:59Tell her
37:00to erase her signature.
37:03Sorry.
37:04Okay, let's move on.
37:05Speaking of Bulungan,
37:07we're here
37:08in one of our segments
37:09which is one of our favorites
37:11and for sure,
37:12to the viewers and listeners,
37:13Executive Whisper.
37:16You can whisper
37:18or say it
37:20if you can.
37:21But respect,
37:22if you whisper,
37:23we won't say it.
37:24Okay.
37:25We have questions here
37:27for Harleen.
37:28Harleen, who's the actor
37:30that you don't want to work with?
37:32The real one.
37:35I don't want to work with
37:38Rob.
37:39Rob?
37:40Rob Gomez.
37:42Why?
37:43He was the one
37:44who got into an issue last year.
37:47And I wasn't the only one
37:48who got fired.
37:49Maybe he knows
37:50why I don't want him
37:51to work with me.
37:52But...
37:53That's it.
37:54Maybe he's the only one.
37:55But if he's the one
37:57who's going to ask,
37:58I feel like I don't want him
37:59to work with me either.
38:00Just to avoid trouble.
38:01Yes, just to avoid trouble.
38:02To avoid issues.
38:03It's like,
38:04I'm tired.
38:05I'm really tired
38:06with the things
38:07that are thrown at me.
38:08It's not really...
38:09You know, it's hard
38:10to defend yourself.
38:11Yes.
38:12And there's no one
38:13to defend you.
38:14So I just swallow
38:15all the hurtful words.
38:17You know,
38:18you can just blip it.
38:19But the...
38:22It's really wet, right?
38:26But no,
38:27I don't hate him.
38:28Maybe it's just
38:30to silence everyone.
38:32At least you said that.
38:33Yes.
38:34Okay.
38:35We respect
38:36what you said.
38:37Thank you for being honest.
38:40I wouldn't expect anything less
38:41from Harleen Budo.
38:42She's really going to say it.
38:43And this one,
38:44for Faith...
38:46Why is it here?
38:47I'm the one who's going to ask
38:48because it looks like
38:49you're part of this question.
38:50For Faith,
38:52outside of Buboy,
38:54who's the actor
38:55who performed with you?
38:57I'll answer that.
38:59I'm kidding.
39:00Who's with them?
39:02That's beautiful.
39:04That's beautiful.
39:05You can say it.
39:06Top of the list.
39:07I don't want to.
39:08I don't want to say it.
39:09Just say it.
39:10I'm getting whispers.
39:11There's a lot.
39:12No, say it all.
39:13The top of the list.
39:14There's a lot.
39:15Are we going to say it
39:16for three days?
39:17No, we're not.
39:18For me,
39:19it's the easiest.
39:20I don't know what it is.
39:26The one with only one eyebrow.
39:27She said it.
39:29Is it this one?
39:30I'm sure it's not.
39:33Who?
39:34Who?
39:35I don't think so.
39:36Who?
39:38You'll go crazy.
39:39You'll go crazy.
39:40You'll go crazy with Binolong.
39:43It's so juicy.
39:44It's so meaty.
39:47It's so juicy.
39:49But in fairness,
39:50the beauty of a fate
39:52is the silver.
39:53Yes, I agree.
39:54I agree.
39:55The Serb.
39:56Thank you so much.
39:57The Serb.
39:58It's so fresh.
39:59No, no, no.
40:00But you know,
40:01the thing is,
40:02Ate Chus,
40:03Ate Chus,
40:04you know,
40:05of all the artists
40:06who performed with me,
40:08I've been waiting for someone
40:10for a long time.
40:13It's like you're betting.
40:15I'm just waiting for him
40:17to ask.
40:22Who?
40:24Who?
40:26Who?
40:27You.
40:33You know I'm really excited.
40:35No, it's not true.
40:36At that time,
40:37when we were kids,
40:40I don't know if he remembers this.
40:42I remember everything.
40:43When we were kids,
40:45we were friends.
40:47I think it was when he was 7 years old.
40:49I think it was when he was 7 years old.
40:50Or 8 years old.
40:51And there were artists
40:52who were making fun of us.
40:54And they told me
40:55that I kissed Buboy here
40:57when we were 8 years old.
40:58And I kissed him
40:59and I was really excited.
41:01You know,
41:02I've been wanting this buffet tandem
41:04for a long time.
41:05Why don't we make the buffet real?
41:07No.
41:08All you can.
41:09No, Buboy.
41:11I'm happy for him.
41:13I mean,
41:14I'm just saying that
41:15there was a point
41:17that even other people
41:19were asking me
41:20if it was real.
41:21I thought you were just friends.
41:23Total, admit it.
41:24I'll admit it too.
41:27This is real.
41:28This is real.
41:29No, this is real.
41:30Guys, guys,
41:31I'll calm down.
41:32It's just us.
41:33You know,
41:34I'm an honest person,
41:35right?
41:36I'm very honest.
41:37No matter what Fate and I do,
41:39especially when we do AOS,
41:41no matter what I did to him back then,
41:43there's nothing plastic about it.
41:44I really like Fate.
41:47We know that.
41:48I really like Fate.
41:49I was really nervous
41:51at first.
41:52And you know,
41:53I even questioned myself
41:56if I was good enough
41:58for a Fate da Silva.
42:00Wow.
42:01So now,
42:02I chose
42:04to support you
42:07no matter what your life decision is.
42:10I just want to be here for you.
42:12Wait,
42:13I'm going to move there.
42:14Because it's like,
42:15you should be here.
42:16Move.
42:17Come on, Fate.
42:18Don't be like that.
42:20No.
42:21What I'm saying is true.
42:24It's a blessing
42:25that I was able to work
42:26with a Fate da Silva.
42:28Well, I think,
42:29back then,
42:30we both knew that.
42:32But maybe,
42:34we were just being professional.
42:37And we wanted,
42:38maybe more than anything,
42:40we wanted to protect our friendship.
42:42Because that friendship is deep.
42:44It's too deep.
42:45You'll regret losing it.
42:46Yes.
42:47It's sad when that happens, right?
42:49So,
42:50all I can say is,
42:51I'm happy for you.
42:52I'm happy for you, Fate.
42:53Yes.
42:54And I'm happy for what we have now.
42:56I didn't expect this.
42:57We started talking,
42:59and suddenly,
43:00it became a Valentine's Day show.
43:01It's like a dating game.
43:03What happened?
43:04Let's just end it
43:06when you can go on a date.
43:07Okay.
43:08Let's give it up again
43:09for Harlyn Budol
43:10and Fate da Silva.
43:11Alright.
43:13Oh, my.
43:14Personally,
43:15I've learned a lot from women
43:16who are beautiful,
43:17smart,
43:18and full of confidence
43:19like you.
43:20That's why,
43:21this is our law.
43:22There.
43:23If you didn't ask,
43:24there's really a law here.
43:25This isn't just a joke.
43:27Of course.
43:28This is the law
43:29that we're going to discuss
43:30today.
43:31You'll be beautiful.
43:33Law.
43:34What does that mean?
43:35Don't be jealous of the beautiful.
43:37Elsa said,
43:38we're the ones who make the curse.
43:42There's no fault.
43:44That's it.
43:45We're the ones who make the curse.
43:47So, if you really want to be beautiful,
43:49don't worry
43:50because when it comes to beauty,
43:51as long as there's money,
43:52there's no fault.
43:53Yes.
43:54Elsa also said,
43:55let it go.
43:57Yeah!
44:01To our gorgeous ladies here,
44:03give yourselves a big round of applause.
44:05You should be an example
44:07and you're beautiful examples
44:08to beautiful women.
44:10Hernan needs to go to the bathroom.
44:12Let's go.
44:13Thank you all
44:14for listening
44:15to our hearing for today.
44:16And always remember,
44:18you deserve to laugh.
44:20You deserve to laugh.
44:22You deserve to laugh.
44:24You deserve to laugh.
44:26That's why we told you
44:28more laughter, more joy.
44:30Hearing adjourned.
44:31You can go now.
44:32Let's go.

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