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00:00:00Just under one month ago,

00:00:03ten singles took a bold risk to find love

00:00:06and married complete strangers.

00:00:08Last time...

00:00:10Have you thought about your spouse in a sexual way?

00:00:13I would say I have.

00:00:15Would you mind sharing weapons?

00:00:17All right, looking good, looking good.

00:00:21Yes.

00:00:22Can't stop smiling because this is making me happy.

00:00:24You make me happy. You always make me happy.

00:00:26It's kind of cool to now have a different mindset.

00:00:30Of wanting my own business.

00:00:31You're going to have to give a lot of stuff up.

00:00:33Right, so that's why I think now...

00:00:36You're ready for that?

00:00:36Yeah.

00:00:37I've lived the small town,

00:00:39like simple as you call it life.

00:00:42And to me, going back to that would be failure.

00:00:45I don't want to take anything from you.

00:00:47I know you've worked hard.

00:00:48I see it.

00:00:50Is there anything that I can do

00:00:52to allow you to get to know me better?

00:00:54Be in the moment.

00:00:55Enjoy nothing that's sometimes.

00:00:58Okay.

00:01:00♪ I've got this love. ♪

00:01:03And tonight, our couple celebrate

00:01:05their one month anniversary.

00:01:07Wow.

00:01:08Happy anniversary, welcome.

00:01:09Happy anniversary.

00:01:11Wow.

00:01:13I love it.

00:01:14Cherish this forever.

00:01:16I loved my job today.

00:01:19You can be crazy, but you shouldn't be stupid.

00:01:22When I read your vows,

00:01:24these vows don't say that you will be.

00:01:26So don't come at me about my answers.

00:01:29I don't feel great about this.

00:01:31I'm not like able to like move forward.

00:01:34It's tough to hear that.

00:01:36It's tough to say.

00:01:38I've been texting you and calling you for two days.

00:01:41You haven't texted me or called me.

00:01:42You're lying.

00:01:45Ooh, it's about to go down.

00:01:49Clown, bring me a clown.

00:01:50You're going to get a circus.

00:01:56This is Married at First Sight.

00:01:59♪ It's all or nothing. It's all or nothing. ♪

00:02:04♪ Take my hand in the night. A feeling we can't ignore. No. We soar. ♪

00:02:15Good morning, wifey.

00:02:16Today is one month anniversary.

00:02:19It is.

00:02:20You know, it's that one month

00:02:21and a couple of little nice dreams were popping in

00:02:24that may have been representative of where we could be.

00:02:29No, I'm excited.

00:02:30I'm looking for another good day, fun with you.

00:02:36And reinforce those positive vibes.

00:02:38Luffy, get out of there.

00:02:42You know what?

00:02:43It's the underwear, like always.

00:02:46Take your socks.

00:02:48Oh, boy.

00:02:50Well, that's the start of our day.

00:02:53It's our anniversary.

00:02:56Can't believe it.

00:02:57Time flies when you're having fun.

00:03:00Or talking about your feelings

00:03:02and getting more vulnerable than you ever have in your life.

00:03:05Yep.

00:03:07But yeah, it's definitely, I think we've been kind of

00:03:10hitting our stride lately and making good progress.

00:03:13We really kind of pushed ourselves out of our comfort zones.

00:03:16And I think it's been all worthwhile.

00:03:21One month down, hopefully forever to go.

00:03:28Got our gift.

00:03:29Oh, look at this.

00:03:30Oh.

00:03:31Hello, Madison and Alan.

00:03:32Congratulations on making it to your one-month anniversary.

00:03:33By now, I'm sure you have started to realize

00:03:34that marriage is not always easy,

00:03:35especially when it's to a stranger.

00:03:36We wish you the very best.

00:03:37We can't wait until our next visit.

00:03:38But in the meantime, please enjoy your anniversary,

00:03:39the experts.

00:03:40Very nice.

00:03:41Let's get a cup.

00:03:42Okay.

00:03:43Pop it out of champagne.

00:03:44Morning mimosas.

00:03:45Morning mimosas.

00:03:46Oh, what?

00:03:47No, you got the f***ing cup.

00:03:48You got the f***ing cup.

00:03:49You got the f***ing cup.

00:03:50You got the f***ing cup.

00:03:51You got the f***ing cup.

00:03:52You got the f***ing cup.

00:03:53Morning mimosas.

00:03:54Morning mimosas.

00:03:55Oh, what?

00:03:56No, you got the f***ing cookie, you little s***.

00:03:57Are you kidding me?

00:03:58God!

00:03:59Well, it's going to be gone.

00:04:00Yep.

00:04:01Well, there's nothing left of it.

00:04:02I hope you enjoyed it.

00:04:03Hey, no.

00:04:04Oh, you farted.

00:04:05F***.

00:04:06So, let's see what we got here.

00:04:07You look gorgeous in every freaking one.

00:04:08Like, there's not a bad picture.

00:04:09At some point, we should reenact that.

00:04:10I'm not going to do it.

00:04:11I'm not going to do it.

00:04:12I'm not going to do it.

00:04:13I'm not going to do it.

00:04:14I'm not going to do it.

00:04:15I'm not going to do it.

00:04:16I'm not going to do it.

00:04:17I'm not going to do it.

00:04:18I'm not going to do it.

00:04:19I'm not going to do it.

00:04:20I'm not going to do it.

00:04:21I'm not going to do it.

00:04:22I'm not going to do it.

00:04:23I'm not going to do it.

00:04:24I'm not going to do it.

00:04:25I'm not going to do it.

00:04:26I'm not going to do it.

00:04:27I'm not going to do it.

00:04:28I'm not going to do it.

00:04:29I'm not going to do it.

00:04:30I'm not going to do it.

00:04:31I'm not going to do it.

00:04:32I'm not going to do it.

00:04:33I'm not going to do it.

00:04:34I'm not going to do it.

00:04:35I'm not going to do it.

00:04:36I'm not going to do it.

00:04:37I'm not going to do it.

00:04:38I'm not going to do it.

00:04:39Every freaking...

00:04:40It's...

00:04:41Just smiling from ear to ear.

00:04:44And I don't think I can eat cake anymore unless it's in your mouth.

00:04:50Definitely has a different flavor, I guess.

00:04:53Absolutely.

00:04:54Wow.

00:04:55So fun.

00:04:56Those are actually really cute.

00:04:58Yeah.

00:04:59That's a keeper.

00:05:01That whole night, I could not get the smile off my face.

00:05:04Like, it's...

00:05:05I'm happy.

00:05:06I'm happy I'm doing this with you.

00:05:07You know, I'm happy you're my wife.

00:05:10As you keep fiddling with your wedding ring.

00:05:12I mean, it's a constant reminder.

00:05:14No, no, I know.

00:05:15It's also ADHD or something.

00:05:18It's kind of surreal because it seems like it was yesterday,

00:05:22but it also seems like it was so, like, long ago.

00:05:24I know.

00:05:25I just, like, appreciate how far we've come, I feel like,

00:05:28and just learning about each other.

00:05:30Because, I mean, on that day, we just met.

00:05:33I literally just met.

00:05:34Very true.

00:05:36I feel like every other picture is, like, me kissing you.

00:05:39I know.

00:05:41Seeing that, does it kind of spark anything?

00:05:44Any of the, like, initial wonder of the moment

00:05:49or the naturalness of how we were?

00:05:52Like, it was nice.

00:05:54I do see, like, why I felt the way that I did on the wedding day,

00:05:57but I didn't know anything about you, you know?

00:06:00You were a stranger.

00:06:01Yeah.

00:06:02And so...

00:06:03Well, okay, so what would you say are, like, the biggest roadblocks?

00:06:08Like, just that kind of thing.

00:06:12Do we want to have this conversation on our one-month anniversary?

00:06:14No.

00:06:15Or can we wait?

00:06:16No, yeah, okay, okay, okay.

00:06:18Let's enjoy the one-month anniversary.

00:06:21Okay, no, that's fair.

00:06:22And reflect on...

00:06:23I think we have made progress, and I am proud of both of us, I think,

00:06:26for getting over some of the things

00:06:29and swallowing both of our prides in some situations,

00:06:32which is not easy to do.

00:06:33Yeah.

00:06:34So I'm grateful for that,

00:06:35because I do feel like as part of our marriage so far,

00:06:38I've learned some things about myself,

00:06:41and I think something that I want to focus on the next, you know, month

00:06:47is, you know, continuing to have the hard conversations,

00:06:50but still, you know, figuring out what's best for both of us.

00:06:54Yeah.

00:06:55You know, so...

00:06:56Yeah, I'm still optimistic as hell.

00:06:59I think we're still figuring stuff out.

00:07:01Yeah.

00:07:02I've never met somebody that I couldn't read as much as I can't read Madison.

00:07:06I mean, there's been plenty of times where I'm restraining myself

00:07:10from, you know, going in for, like, a kiss goodbye or a kiss goodnight

00:07:13or something like that.

00:07:15Like, even just talking about it now,

00:07:17I can feel, like, my heart get nervous

00:07:20because I don't know what she's thinking.

00:07:22Normally in a relationship, I know where I stand,

00:07:25or I know the depths of their feelings for me.

00:07:27This is very unique.

00:07:29I think we've both stayed open-minded and...

00:07:32No, absolutely.

00:07:33We married strangers and, like,

00:07:35we get to know each other more and more every day and...

00:07:38And we're going through a lot of the hard s***, you know,

00:07:41that, you know, it takes people months to get through,

00:07:44but there's a reason we're together

00:07:47and we've got to see if we can make it work.

00:07:49Yeah.

00:07:50On that note...

00:07:52Whoo!

00:07:53Here we go.

00:07:54Oh!

00:07:55I'm not going to make a joke.

00:07:57Luffy, that's not...

00:07:59Why does that happen every time?

00:08:01LAUGHTER

00:08:02MUSIC PLAYS

00:08:24PHONE RINGS

00:08:25Huh?

00:08:26What's going on? I thought we were supposed to be here at noon.

00:08:28Yeah, I know. Something came up, so...

00:08:30Mm.

00:08:31I'm really sorry.

00:08:33OK, well...

00:08:35I'll see you when you get here.

00:08:37OK, sorry again.

00:08:38All right. Bye.

00:08:40I'm not really the happiest girl right now

00:08:42because this is something that I set up

00:08:44for our one-month anniversary.

00:08:46Thomas and I were supposed to ride here together

00:08:48and he texted me and said he was just going to meet me at the gym,

00:08:51so I don't really know what's going on.

00:08:53He's a grown-ass man, so if you tell him

00:08:55that we need to be here at a certain time,

00:08:57he should be able to make that happen.

00:08:59I don't like to feel like not the priority

00:09:03when we have plans set.

00:09:15Well, well, well.

00:09:17I'm sorry.

00:09:19Hubby, let me tell you something.

00:09:21There's one thing my coach taught me.

00:09:23It was, if you're early, you're on time.

00:09:26If you're on time, you're late.

00:09:28And you, my friend, are just late, late.

00:09:30So you know what that means?

00:09:32What does that mean?

00:09:33The first thing we're going to start with is a suicide.

00:09:36On the baseline, please.

00:09:38You're going to run free throw line, back,

00:09:41half court, back,

00:09:43other free throw line, back,

00:09:45full court and back.

00:09:47Go!

00:09:52Mm-hmm.

00:09:55Oh, no, not the hammy.

00:09:57He's down, he's down.

00:09:59All right, just run it through the baseline,

00:10:01then you can be done.

00:10:04Did you pull it for real?

00:10:06Yeah.

00:10:07Oh, my gosh.

00:10:08So, are you going to be able to get your ass bust now?

00:10:11Yeah.

00:10:12Oh, my goodness.

00:10:15I would let you get a warm-up shot,

00:10:17but you're too late, my friend.

00:10:22Come on.

00:10:25Not happening.

00:10:26Oh, that's bold.

00:10:30I'm broken now.

00:10:36Not on my watch.

00:10:39That's all.

00:10:43Oh, Lord.

00:10:44Come on, hubby.

00:10:47We don't need it anymore.

00:10:51You want to sit and stretch for a little bit?

00:10:53I think you could probably use it.

00:10:55I cannot believe I broke a nail.

00:10:57Something told me that was going to happen.

00:10:59It's a risk you take.

00:11:00I know.

00:11:01So, was there a good reason for not being here on time?

00:11:06I think it was a good reason.

00:11:08I think later it all makes sense.

00:11:10Interesting.

00:11:11Not that you're not important,

00:11:13you're always very important.

00:11:15And, you know, I deserve the little punishment

00:11:17at the beginning, too, and the punishment on the court.

00:11:20Definitely see another side,

00:11:22a little bit more vicious side than I've seen before.

00:11:24That's part of the package deal.

00:11:26Yeah.

00:11:27So, do you miss it?

00:11:29I do miss it.

00:11:30Basketball was my life for 25 years.

00:11:34My dad was one of my biggest supporters, for sure,

00:11:37and even when I was playing at school up in Wisconsin,

00:11:40like, he would make same-day trips up there

00:11:42just to see my games.

00:11:43Oh, wow.

00:11:44And it was, like, three-and-a-half,

00:11:45four-hour drive one way

00:11:47just to come see, like, a 7 p.m. game

00:11:50and head back and, you know, not get back to, like, 1 a.m.

00:11:53So it was just, like, the support was really unmatched,

00:11:55and I feel like that's what made me love it more,

00:11:57and he's always been someone that I look up to.

00:12:00My dad is the type of man that I want in a partner,

00:12:04someone who makes me feel supported

00:12:07and, like, a top priority.

00:12:09Thomas says he has a good reason for not being here on time,

00:12:13but it's not sending the best message

00:12:15because basketball is something that's important to me,

00:12:17and I kind of have that expectation,

00:12:19you know, when something's important to you,

00:12:21you'll find a way to get it done.

00:12:22So, yes, it's not really rubbing me the right way.

00:12:25All I can say is I don't want to make excuses,

00:12:30so I'll do better.

00:12:31I definitely want to prioritize things that are important,

00:12:34and this was an important moment that I was late for,

00:12:37so I just hope that I can make it up to you.

00:12:40So...

00:12:41Yeah, how are you going to do that?

00:12:43You decide, coach.

00:12:44Broken promises

00:12:46Ever since the day we met

00:12:48I'll be honest with you

00:12:50Now I'm in over my head

00:12:52We were up so high

00:12:55Now we're miles below

00:12:59After talking with Ike,

00:13:01I feel like I have a better understanding of what he needs.

00:13:05And so today, I'm hoping that I feel comfortable

00:13:09and that we continue to learn each other.

00:13:11That's really what my biggest goal is at this point.

00:13:16Hola.

00:13:17Hey.

00:13:18Happy anniversary. Welcome.

00:13:19Happy anniversary.

00:13:21Just got the cheeses and things.

00:13:23Some salmon.

00:13:25Did you make this yourself?

00:13:26Yeah, I set all this up for us.

00:13:28Long stuff.

00:13:29So I got us some paintbrushes, some paint,

00:13:32so we can get a little creative.

00:13:35Charcuterie and paint.

00:13:37Yeah.

00:13:38Do you like olives?

00:13:39Yes.

00:13:40Mm-hmm. I'm an olive fan myself.

00:13:42Can't complain.

00:13:43I'm not complaining.

00:13:44Good stuff.

00:13:51You all right?

00:13:52Pretty quiet.

00:13:53I mean, I'm just enjoying the scenery

00:13:55and the chirp of the birds.

00:13:57I feel that.

00:13:59This is going to be a struggle.

00:14:11Thank you, hon.

00:14:18Very nice spread.

00:14:20Very well put together.

00:14:21Well thought out.

00:14:23Go for it.

00:14:27How do you know about this place?

00:14:29When I used to play volleyball,

00:14:31we would play schools out this way.

00:14:34So it's the 30-day mark of our anniversary.

00:14:37Being where we are at this 30-day point

00:14:39is a little jarring.

00:14:41Yeah.

00:14:45What I know is that the score at halftime

00:14:48doesn't indicate what the score at the end of the game is.

00:14:51So maybe there'll be a change.

00:14:55That's one way to look at it.

00:14:58What's another way to look at it?

00:15:00You know, being an active player.

00:15:03Okay, volleyball player.

00:15:05Well, what would you like to paint?

00:15:07Are these watercolors or oil?

00:15:09Watercolors.

00:15:10Okay.

00:15:11Okay, so what do I do?

00:15:13Do you want like a night scene or a day scene?

00:15:15I am open.

00:15:17Okay, let's do night.

00:15:19Okay.

00:15:20The color of night is usually black.

00:15:22Okay.

00:15:23So let's use that as a...

00:15:24Try to put black all over.

00:15:26Do only half of it, though.

00:15:28So do the top or the bottom.

00:15:30Okay.

00:15:31Don't do the whole thing.

00:15:32Just call me Basquiat.

00:15:37One of my favorite colors growing up was cerulean.

00:15:40That was back in my tomboy days.

00:15:43Blue is my favorite color.

00:15:45Says the girl wearing all pink right now.

00:15:48You can use less water and just like brush around, yeah.

00:15:52That way it's actually darker.

00:15:54Okay.

00:15:55So at the bottom, like kind of mark off in black.

00:15:59So at the bottom, like kind of mark off in black.

00:16:02Like kind of like an island thing.

00:16:04Okay.

00:16:07I'm going to get your paper real quick.

00:16:09You can do what you do.

00:16:12And bam.

00:16:14I think I just need to sign this, you know.

00:16:16These people going to be on it.

00:16:18Yeah, they're going to be trying to get you to paint them everything.

00:16:22Look at that.

00:16:23I did that.

00:16:29That looks good.

00:16:30Right on.

00:16:31We did good.

00:16:33This is some of the stuff I would like to do more often.

00:16:36Painting.

00:16:37Nature.

00:16:39Just hanging out.

00:16:41Just one day at a time.

00:16:43Celebrate the moments rather than like the long distance.

00:16:47The things that are right down the street.

00:16:49That's what I'm hoping for.

00:16:52Okay.

00:16:54You're hoping to celebrate each day at a time.

00:16:58Yeah.

00:16:59Okay.

00:17:00Is that something you're actively doing?

00:17:05No?

00:17:09No?

00:17:13I have something in my tooth.

00:17:15Okay.

00:17:16I'm trying to be as honest as possible.

00:17:18I just didn't feel like my answer was enough.

00:17:20Like sometimes people want you to give the same response that they have and you don't have it.

00:17:27And I'm like, I'm giving you the answer that I have.

00:17:30This is a genuine answer.

00:17:31It's not good enough.

00:17:34Well, I hope you like the spread, you know.

00:17:38This is definitely something I would have done.

00:17:42This is something I would have done regardless of where we are in our relationship.

00:17:47And, you know, I hope you enjoyed yourself.

00:17:50I did enjoy myself.

00:17:58Keep on moving, moving.

00:18:01And keep that body moving.

00:18:04Living a good life.

00:18:08Do some stretches here.

00:18:10A little, a couple warm-ups.

00:18:12You know.

00:18:13I want to put a wager.

00:18:14What do you want to wager?

00:18:16If I win, I want you to take a big old fat lap.

00:18:20No problem.

00:18:21Walking like a chicken while also shouting every now and then that Madison's the champion.

00:18:25Okay.

00:18:26What?

00:18:28If I win, I want a kiss.

00:18:31Oh, I'm going to make you sweat for it.

00:18:33I got the mouthwash in the car and everything.

00:18:35What are we, in middle school?

00:18:37No.

00:18:39Let's get the bag down and pull the balls out and let's get going.

00:18:42That was not a joke.

00:18:43I mean, I'm going to put some balls in your face.

00:18:47All right, ready?

00:18:48Do you have to serve it overhand?

00:18:49Is that how it works?

00:18:51I'm not competitive enough to know.

00:18:57Is that out?

00:18:58That was out.

00:19:07That was out.

00:19:08That was out?

00:19:09Like an instant replay?

00:19:24Right.

00:19:26Damn it.

00:19:27My foot.

00:19:28Better make it count.

00:19:41All right, good game.

00:19:43All right.

00:19:44Good job.

00:19:47Good, good cardio too.

00:19:50I know I'm ready for a break.

00:19:53I'm feeling good.

00:19:54Yeah, I bet you are.

00:19:55I'm looking forward to my prize.

00:19:57So, the only failure with your bet though is you failed to give specifics.

00:20:02So, I can give you a kiss.

00:20:03Give me the cheek.

00:20:07You didn't give specifics.

00:20:09Bummer.

00:20:10Maybe next time.

00:20:11Wow, a salty cheek kiss.

00:20:15Confidence looks good on you, Alan.

00:20:26Okay, so it is our one-month anniversary.

00:20:29I'm getting ready to head to dinner.

00:20:31David is at his parents' house.

00:20:35And so, I'm meeting him there to tie back the wedding with the anniversary.

00:20:40I am wearing the earrings I wore on the wedding.

00:20:43I tried my best to do my hair how it was.

00:20:46I thought we'd be a lot further along.

00:20:48This isn't how I planned for the one-month anniversary to be, but it is what it is.

00:20:52So, yeah.

00:20:56Hold on.

00:21:01Hello.

00:21:02Oh, hello there.

00:21:03How are you?

00:21:04I like that color on you.

00:21:07For our one-month anniversary tonight, I tried to give Michelle a sense that I can live the lifestyle she wants and what she needs.

00:21:16And this is something that she likes to do, so I'm hoping that makes her happy.

00:21:23Cheers.

00:21:24Cheers.

00:21:30Ooh.

00:21:32That's spicy.

00:21:34What made you want to do sushi?

00:21:36I enjoyed it when we were out on our honeymoon.

00:21:38I do like sushi. I like trying new things.

00:21:41I know that's something that you like, too.

00:21:43So, I'm like, hey.

00:21:44I mean, for our one month, why not?

00:21:47I can eat it.

00:21:48I'm not afraid of it.

00:21:51Is this your date outfit?

00:21:53Is this my date outfit?

00:21:55Mm-hmm.

00:21:56Like your big date outfit?

00:21:59No.

00:22:00So, you didn't think you should?

00:22:02Do you not like my outfit?

00:22:04No, I'm asking him.

00:22:05Is this like if you were going on a nice date?

00:22:07If I went on a nice date, I mean, a collared.

00:22:09I mean, I had to run home.

00:22:11I wasn't back at our place where my outfit was.

00:22:13I wasn't planning on that.

00:22:14Gotcha.

00:22:15David didn't even have time to dress up for the date.

00:22:17He's wearing sneakers and jeans, and I thought maybe he might wear a blazer and slacks.

00:22:22I thought I was going to have time to actually stop even to pick up a shirt on the way,

00:22:25and then I looked at the traffic, and I was like,

00:22:27I can't be late to your anniversary.

00:22:30That wouldn't look good.

00:22:32I don't know.

00:22:33I thought he would level it up a bit for the one month.

00:22:38So, is this where you thought we would be one month in?

00:22:42No.

00:22:43Obviously, I thought we would be like more romantic, friendly, lively, or happier.

00:22:49You know, we've gone through a lot in this one month, and just frustrated I can't make you happy,

00:22:54but that's not anything that—

00:22:55We cannot keep doing this.

00:22:57No, I know, but it just sucks.

00:22:59I'm just telling you—

00:23:00Yeah, but you're setting yourself up for failure.

00:23:01I'm the only one who controls my happiness.

00:23:03There's nothing that you can do.

00:23:05I'm the only person that can make myself happy.

00:23:07You get that, right?

00:23:08Okay, but what makes you happy?

00:23:10Yeah.

00:23:11Do you not know that?

00:23:12I mean, yes, I know what makes me happy.

00:23:14It's like being around people who love me and care about me,

00:23:17my animals, and like my comfort zone.

00:23:19Doing things I like to do.

00:23:21I don't know what you want to do, though.

00:23:23Don't know which road to go on sometimes, and it's—

00:23:26I guess that's what's being the most frustrating is like,

00:23:28just don't know what to do.

00:23:32Ooh.

00:23:33We have—

00:23:34Do you think we have enough?

00:23:35Whoa.

00:23:36You're going to love everything so fun here.

00:23:39We have a guacamole fusion roll.

00:23:41There's a spicy white tuna crunch and a lime fusion.

00:23:45Oh, wow.

00:23:46Enjoy, guys.

00:23:48Thank you very much.

00:23:49It looks amazing.

00:23:52Well, going back on the topic, since you didn't ask me,

00:23:55I also did not think this is where we would be

00:23:57for our one-month anniversary.

00:24:02Do you feel that I have to ask you?

00:24:04Well, I feel like I ask all the questions,

00:24:06and you never reciprocate.

00:24:08So once I finish, though,

00:24:09don't you think you should just come off the, like—

00:24:12I guess it would be nice to—

00:24:14Here?

00:24:15Also, if someone asks me a question.

00:24:17What?

00:24:18So can you go further?

00:24:19No, you don't have to do all that.

00:24:21I just—

00:24:22Good.

00:24:23Think it's just a natural flow.

00:24:24Like, if you ask someone a question,

00:24:26what about you?

00:24:27Like, just give it off, I guess.

00:24:29Okay, cool.

00:24:35You see, that's what I don't want you to be like,

00:24:37okay, cool, and just, like, shut it down.

00:24:39Like, say what you need to say or, like, or just tell me.

00:24:42You don't ask me questions about myself.

00:24:45I've stated that from the honeymoon.

00:24:47It's because you don't elaborate on them.

00:24:49Okay.

00:24:50Like, this is what you do.

00:24:51Exactly what you're doing right now is okay, okay,

00:24:53and I'm like, so why ask when I'm just gonna get an okay

00:24:56and, like, that's why I don't—

00:24:58that's honestly why I don't ask,

00:25:00because I get an okay, great, understand, good,

00:25:03but that's all I get.

00:25:07What's the point?

00:25:08I don't want to get like this.

00:25:09Well, we're there, buddy.

00:25:12That's what I'm—

00:25:19I don't want to tick and tag, go back and forth.

00:25:23Are you happy?

00:25:24Am I happy?

00:25:25I'm frustrated right now, to be completely honest with you.

00:25:27Yeah.

00:25:28It's just—

00:25:29Why?

00:25:30Because I don't know what lane to go or what else to do.

00:25:32Yeah.

00:25:33I've been myself.

00:25:34I've been honest.

00:25:35I've been genuine.

00:25:36I've respected you.

00:25:37I'm still cordial with, like, everything.

00:25:38It's just, like, I'm trying to grab onto something

00:25:40that, like, I really can't grab onto.

00:25:42I just don't know what she wants, so it's hard sometimes.

00:25:46Mm-hmm.

00:25:51I don't feel great about this.

00:25:52The relationship, the marriage, us,

00:25:54because there's no connection,

00:25:56I'm not, like, able to, like, move forward.

00:25:58Okay.

00:26:06It's tough to hear that, you know?

00:26:08It's tough to say.

00:26:09No, I know.

00:26:10And I appreciate you for saying that.

00:26:11It's just, like, right now I feel like I'm just—

00:26:14I'm hearing it over and over,

00:26:15and it's, like, it's so much I can take,

00:26:16and it's just, like, you know, I'm being patient.

00:26:19I'm hoping for that connection.

00:26:23So you think there'll ever be a connection?

00:26:29I'm trying, for the record.

00:26:32I guess I just need a little more.

00:26:35That's point blank.

00:26:37Mm-hmm.

00:26:39I don't know where to go or what to do at this point.

00:26:43Yeah.

00:27:04Oh, it's cool back here.

00:27:06So this is Corporal, and that's Brad.

00:27:09What's up, Brad?

00:27:10This is my wife, Carla.

00:27:12Hello.

00:27:13I'm Brad.

00:27:14Even though it's our one-month anniversary

00:27:16since we got married,

00:27:17I'm bringing Carla to the warehouse.

00:27:20The front of the warehouse is a fantasy factory.

00:27:23My business partner rents it out.

00:27:25We have all kinds of stuff in there.

00:27:27But the back is where all the business happens.

00:27:30That's Tyler.

00:27:32What's up?

00:27:33If she's gonna start her own thing,

00:27:35I'm thinking seeing other entrepreneurs

00:27:37is gonna be helpful.

00:27:40There's two things we do.

00:27:42Tyler does all the custom furniture,

00:27:45and then I do the commercial millwork.

00:27:48So, like, any, like, cabinetry

00:27:50or, like, custom, like, wall paneling,

00:27:53anything really made out of wood and steel

00:27:55going into, like, a commercial building,

00:27:57that's my specialty.

00:27:58And so, like, you're selling, or you're, like...

00:28:01I'm, like, a managing partner,

00:28:03and I'm bringing customers in, too.

00:28:07Describe what Juan does.

00:28:10He does a lot.

00:28:12When it comes to business here at the warehouse,

00:28:16he...

00:28:18Oh, um...

00:28:20He overlooks construction tools.

00:28:24I think he works really hard.

00:28:26He works really hard every day.

00:28:31He has his laptop in his lap.

00:28:34He types like Thriller.

00:28:37He connects with GCs.

00:28:40He's analytical.

00:28:42Skateboards.

00:28:44He just has so many strengths.

00:28:47He's really strong.

00:28:49He's strong.

00:28:51We're a cool company.

00:28:53Oh, you can't eliminate the fun.

00:28:55You'll see. That's why people like us.

00:28:57Very nice. That's cool.

00:29:00Um, yeah, so...

00:29:02I have exciting news to share with you.

00:29:05Really exciting news? I'm a little bit scared.

00:29:09I left my job today.

00:29:12I'm no longer working at the salon.

00:29:15It was obvious that I can't be managed.

00:29:19And...

00:29:20I swear to God, dude.

00:29:22Listen, like, so did you leave, or...?

00:29:24I think it was, like, mutual.

00:29:26I think it's time for me to manage myself.

00:29:29You don't want to take direction at all?

00:29:31I feel like I am the direction.

00:29:35Because I feel like it was kind of even, like,

00:29:38sucking out my creativity.

00:29:40It's, like, kind of nice to now focus on, like,

00:29:42how I want to expand my business.

00:29:45So what is your plan now, since you don't have a job?

00:29:48I have a really good work ethic,

00:29:50so I think that's, like, really important,

00:29:52is just having, like, a vision of knowing what you want.

00:29:55You can be crazy, but you shouldn't be stupid.

00:29:58So I'm interested to see

00:30:00if she's going to put a game plan together, you know,

00:30:03because talking about something is one thing,

00:30:05but executing something and ideas is different.

00:30:09I'm excited that bigger and better things can come about

00:30:13that's been, like, a message of the universe.

00:30:16Yeah.

00:30:17I'm a little bit scared.

00:30:19I'm a little bit nervous.

00:30:22♪ You can put a weight on me

00:30:25♪ I can't be in love, yeah, yeah, yeah

00:30:28♪ But never use your love, no, no, no

00:30:38Oh.

00:30:40We have a gift.

00:30:42Oh, yeah?

00:30:43Yes, we do.

00:30:45Ah, OK.

00:30:47It's our wedding vows framed.

00:30:51And there's a note.

00:30:53Congratulations on making it to your one-month anniversary.

00:30:56By now, I'm sure you have started to realize

00:30:58that marriage is not always easy,

00:31:00especially when it's to a stranger.

00:31:03Today may be the day you reset

00:31:05and change the trajectory of your marriage,

00:31:07or maybe it is a celebration of the evolution of your love.

00:31:11Either way, you both took a wonderful leap of faith,

00:31:14and we would like you to remember

00:31:16why you got married at first sight.

00:31:18We wish you the very best.

00:31:20We can't wait until our next visit,

00:31:22but in the meantime, please enjoy your anniversary,

00:31:24the experts.

00:31:30Ah.

00:31:34Would you like to check this out with me?

00:31:37Yeah.

00:31:39I'll do this.

00:31:42♪♪♪♪

00:31:45Mmm.

00:31:47♪♪♪♪

00:31:50♪♪♪♪

00:31:53Hey, Mommy.

00:31:55Mm-hmm?

00:31:57I don't want to fight with each other,

00:31:59but I have this air of walking on eggshells around her.

00:32:02I just know that right now,

00:32:04we aren't on the exact same page

00:32:07to make this marriage work.

00:32:10They framed our vows.

00:32:12How nice.

00:32:14Because I did want to see these.

00:32:18So how do you feel about these vows now,

00:32:21that you still don't know me,

00:32:23but kind of sort of know me?

00:32:29I think that, uh,

00:32:31I meant what I said when I said it.

00:32:34About me?

00:32:36I meant what I said when I said it.

00:32:40That didn't really answer the question I asked.

00:32:42I wasn't trying to answer your question.

00:32:44Got it.

00:32:46We keep going back to the same point

00:32:48where when I answer your question,

00:32:50you charge me up

00:32:52because it's not a good enough answer for you.

00:32:55That was...

00:32:56Before you talk.

00:32:57Okay, go ahead.

00:32:58When I answered the question,

00:33:00I answered the question sincerely.

00:33:02And when you hear my answer,

00:33:04you take it, you flip it.

00:33:06It's not enough for you.

00:33:07You want more.

00:33:08We can't just enjoy moments.

00:33:10You have to go and put a big stick in your hand

00:33:14and hit the bear over the head.

00:33:16If you keep hitting me upside the head

00:33:18with your answer stick,

00:33:20you will see less and less and less of me.

00:33:24And if that's what you want,

00:33:26I can give you these vows back,

00:33:28and that's what you can keep.

00:33:32When I read your vows,

00:33:34these vows don't say that you will be an asshole.

00:33:37I don't get that part.

00:33:39I don't see hit a bear with a stick in your vows.

00:33:43So you ask me how I feel about my vows.

00:33:46My vows are solid.

00:33:48I wrote them.

00:33:49I was sincere about them.

00:33:50I have done nothing to you

00:33:52but try to make sure you were okay.

00:33:54Just like my vows said,

00:33:56respect you just like my vows said.

00:33:59Make sure you're good.

00:34:01So don't come at me about my answers.

00:34:04I've given you the answer that I have in the moment.

00:34:16I'm gonna respect that.

00:34:34I love you.

00:35:05Oh, wait.

00:35:08See what we got here.

00:35:10Our wedding vows.

00:35:12Oh, yay.

00:35:15Dinner was heavy, and I recognize that.

00:35:18But I don't want that to, like, ruin the night.

00:35:21Cute.

00:35:22You're just as beautiful.

00:35:23I know. I love that dress.

00:35:25Yeah, we're not on good terms,

00:35:26but it's still our one month anniversary.

00:35:29I'm so excited.

00:35:31I know we're not on good terms,

00:35:32but it's still our one month anniversary.

00:35:35Should we watch this?

00:35:36Yes, see what our wedding was like.

00:35:38And now I'm trying to make things positive

00:35:40and have a good time.

00:35:41That's all we can do.

00:35:47Okay, ready?

00:35:48Let's go.

00:36:01Oh.

00:36:03Oh, boy.

00:36:05Hi, new friends.

00:36:08Hey.

00:36:11Hi.

00:36:12Nice to meet you.

00:36:16I'm Michelle.

00:36:17Hello, Michelle.

00:36:18Yes.

00:36:20When I dreamed about this day, I would have never imagined

00:36:23I would have to enlist experts to find you

00:36:25and hand-deliver you down here to me.

00:36:28But here we are.

00:36:29And it feels good to be in the company of someone

00:36:31just as insane as myself.

00:36:33So nice to meet you, David.

00:36:35It's a pleasure to meet you.

00:36:37So today's the beginning of the next chapters of our lives,

00:36:40and I truly can't wait to see what's in store

00:36:42for the two of us.

00:36:45Watching our wedding video together

00:36:47is bringing back, like, just where we started off from.

00:36:50We are so excited to welcome you to this big, loud family.

00:36:54It's kind of refreshing to hear her laugh.

00:36:56I'm feeling better.

00:36:59Than I was at dinner tonight, that's for sure.

00:37:03I know you don't know me, but I can promise you

00:37:05I will always be there to make you smile after a hard day.

00:37:08I will laugh at your jokes, even when they aren't funny.

00:37:11I will push you to be the best version of yourself.

00:37:14I will strive to see both sides of the story,

00:37:16even when it's hard.

00:37:17And finally, I will dream big with you.

00:37:21From this day forward, I promise to cherish your love,

00:37:24your mind, and your body.

00:37:26I will offer the comfort that is needed,

00:37:28the genuineness, and the love one deserves.

00:37:31I will be your rock. I will be your everything.

00:37:33And with our loyalty, our honesty, our love, and our respect,

00:37:37I am very confident we can succeed together

00:37:39in this journey, hand in hand, forever and forever.

00:37:44If you just stuck to those vows, I think we'd be fine.

00:37:47Those are all the things that I can do,

00:37:49and I know I can do, so it's like, it's a little tough,

00:37:52knowing that we're at where we're at right now.

00:37:56I now pronounce you a married couple.

00:38:00Yeah!

00:38:04We did it!

00:38:12Wow.

00:38:13Crazy.

00:38:14Yes, we are.

00:38:15Wild.

00:38:16Crazy, courageous.

00:38:18Yeah.

00:38:20Sadly, I'll cuss down a lot for that.

00:38:24Oh, no.

00:38:27It's kind of sad.

00:38:31I feel like there was so much hope,

00:38:33and now there's just a little less hope,

00:38:36or that's how I feel.

00:38:38I'm glad you're telling me how you feel, though.

00:38:40Like, yeah, it's tough.

00:38:44I know you have your stuff to work on,

00:38:46and I still got stuff that I have to work on, so...

00:38:50I don't want to bicker like that at dinner anymore.

00:38:53Just to give you a heads up, that is not my forte.

00:38:57I don't want to be like that, so I apologize.

00:39:02Yeah, same.

00:39:03I apologize as well.

00:39:05And I will try to make some things work for us

00:39:07to have some fun.

00:39:10What are some of the things that you think you need to work on?

00:39:12I feel like we've talked a lot about what I have to work on.

00:39:14Me talking so much, you know?

00:39:17Talking over you or through you.

00:39:22I heard today, actually, too,

00:39:24is kind of asking you how things are going and so forth.

00:39:29Even if you ask me first,

00:39:31I feel that that is something that you need and you deserve.

00:39:37It's not going to happen overnight, but I can try.

00:39:44Can you say that you put up a fight?

00:39:46Can you say that we really...

00:39:58Here, can you give me that, please?

00:40:00No, not that.

00:40:01Oh yeah, yeah, go ahead and give me that.

00:40:03I'm still concerned that, you know, Carla quit her job.

00:40:07But today is our one-month anniversary,

00:40:10and I want to make the best of it

00:40:12and just have a good time and enjoy each other's presence.

00:40:17Can I have your juice?

00:40:19Oh yeah, yeah, let me pour it, let me pour it.

00:40:21I'm thirsty.

00:40:23There's some gift back here from the experts.

00:40:25Do you want to see what it is?

00:40:27Yeah.

00:40:29So here's, we got a little book of pictures.

00:40:31Oh, that's cute.

00:40:32Those are my favorite types of books.

00:40:34A scrapbook, that's adorable.

00:40:36Oh my God, how cutie!

00:40:38This is you and your crew on the wedding day.

00:40:41Oh my God, we cried so much, we laughed so much,

00:40:44we drank so much.

00:40:45There you are, crying.

00:40:47There's you giving it all you had on the dance floor.

00:40:51Those are very nice.

00:40:52That's a good one.

00:40:53That's beautiful.

00:40:54It was really nice to have our friends and family there

00:40:57to celebrate with us.

00:41:00Our honeymoon was eventful,

00:41:02watching you with your prison bag.

00:41:05Oh my God, that was so funny.

00:41:07That's how you travel around?

00:41:10I'm thinking the moral of this story is

00:41:13don't forget about Carla.

00:41:15Oh my God, I knew it.

00:41:16When I woke up that morning and you left,

00:41:19I was like, she's so pissed.

00:41:21She's so pissed.

00:41:23All right, well, anyways.

00:41:24What are your expectations of, like, the next month?

00:41:28Um...

00:41:30Do you have any expectations?

00:41:32I think we should probably, I would like to,

00:41:36start our mornings off with having, like, our morning coffee.

00:41:39Well, now we can, since you don't have a job anymore.

00:41:47We have plenty of time in the morning.

00:41:50What do you think that transition's going to be like

00:41:52since you don't have a job anymore?

00:41:53Like, are you going to quickly look for something else?

00:41:56I'm still going to go to my clients' houses.

00:41:58Oh, but the rest is you're just going to be at the apartment?

00:42:04I go to cafes, I read.

00:42:06I'm going to take this time to really learn how to read my tarot cards.

00:42:10Oh, you're going to be a tarot card reader?

00:42:12For myself.

00:42:13Oh, you could do that as a business.

00:42:15I mean, I think it just, like, helps, ties into, like, my sound healing.

00:42:20Mm. And you're going to New York?

00:42:22I am, to do hair out there for a photo shoot.

00:42:26It's confirmed, tickets have been purchased.

00:42:29No, not yet.

00:42:30But she's serious, this lady.

00:42:32Mm-hmm.

00:42:33No BS.

00:42:34What did she say? How did she explain it to you?

00:42:36Can you explain it to me?

00:42:38She said, Carla, I would love to collab with you.

00:42:41I've collabed with her in the past.

00:42:43Oh, hell yeah.

00:42:44She just opened up a showroom in New York,

00:42:47and she asked if I was open, if my schedule was open to flying out.

00:42:52And I said, wow, this is amazing. Yes, it is.

00:42:55Was it via text, via email, via phone call?

00:42:58Via phone call.

00:42:59It was via phone call.

00:43:01And she says 100% positive for sure.

00:43:03I mean, nothing is positive, nothing is for certain.

00:43:07Have you guys talked about the rate?

00:43:10No.

00:43:11No? And how about dates? Do you have that, dates?

00:43:17What do you think your rate should be?

00:43:19I don't know, because I have to first find out how many, like, hours I'm expected.

00:43:25What are you hoping the rate is?

00:43:27You just have all the questions.

00:43:30I haven't thought that far.

00:43:32I'm interested to see how Carla's life pans out as far as, like, her job is concerned.

00:43:38If she's going to start her own thing, like, I want to see her start.

00:43:42Showing ambition, showing drive, or at least have a plan.

00:43:45Like, if she's really serious about it, you know, as serious as she says she is.

00:43:50I really do hope and pray that this lady, and that everything pans out.

00:43:56That you go to New York, you make a lot of money.

00:43:59And then that, you know, hopefully you can, you should reach out to all your clients

00:44:04and see if you can just set up house calls.

00:44:06Yeah, that's done.

00:44:08Oh, is it?

00:44:09It's done.

00:44:12Cheers to that.

00:44:15I try and I try, but you're dynamite.

00:44:22We are doing some aerial tree climbing today for our one month anniversary.

00:44:26So, I'm really excited. I think this will be super cool.

00:44:29I have no idea what to expect.

00:44:30I actually brought a little bag with a Tarzan and Jane costume.

00:44:34So, a loincloth and bikini.

00:44:37And the, what's it called, the little animal skin prints.

00:44:43Love it.

00:44:44We're just going to be swinging through the trees.

00:44:50Howdy, folks.

00:44:51Hello.

00:44:52I'm Max. Welcome to Boundless Adventures.

00:44:53Have a seat.

00:44:54Do you like this before?

00:44:55Yeah, yeah.

00:44:56Something like this, but maybe a little different.

00:44:58All right. Well, I hope you guys are excited because it's going to be a great time, okay?

00:45:01Cool.

00:45:02I'm looking forward to it.

00:45:03Madison really likes the active stuff.

00:45:05Right foot through, ready?

00:45:06Ready.

00:45:07So, I wanted to bring her somewhere where you're active and, you know, have some fun.

00:45:13Bust a sweat a little bit.

00:45:14And, like, as long as we're doing something, you know, that's the best times we have.

00:45:17You ready?

00:45:18Yep.

00:45:19There we go.

00:45:20Plus, Madison looks great in anything.

00:45:21So, the harness accentuates, you know, a couple things there.

00:45:26How flexible are you guys?

00:45:27I mean, I'm not flexible, but...

00:45:29Could you touch your knees to your chest?

00:45:32I can...

00:45:34Did you just, like, pop something?

00:45:36I did.

00:45:37I heard, be careful.

00:45:38I think you'll do all right.

00:45:39Don't injure yourself.

00:45:40I've been rock climbing before, so, I mean...

00:45:42It'll definitely help out.

00:45:43Yeah.

00:45:44You have no confidence in me.

00:45:45Look at this.

00:45:46That's not true.

00:45:47There's, like, two two-year-olds.

00:45:48I have confidence in you.

00:45:49I just like to give you...

00:45:50Okay, okay.

00:45:52I will go first.

00:45:53Sink or swim, baby.

00:45:54One, two, three.

00:45:58Oh, my nuts are caught.

00:46:00There we go.

00:46:03Whew.

00:46:05All right, sweetness, let's see what you got.

00:46:09It's been a long time since I've done anything like this,

00:46:11so I had to put on the brave face.

00:46:13I will see you on the other side.

00:46:15Okay.

00:46:16I will be waiting here.

00:46:17But, you know, I gotta show that confidence and, you know,

00:46:19not be a little bitch in front of my wife.

00:46:23Good luck.

00:46:26F***.

00:46:28I'm, like, already a little shaky watching you.

00:46:30I want to talk to the designer of this one.

00:46:33Oh, you're just jumping across.

00:46:35A little spider monkey.

00:46:37Cowabunga.

00:46:44There you go.

00:46:46Oh, my God.

00:46:47Oh, God.

00:46:48You got it, Alan.

00:46:49I'd rather get my nipples pierced again.

00:46:53Whew.

00:46:54Look at you.

00:46:55So you get the benefit of getting the expertise.

00:46:59There you go.

00:47:00I'm going to get rope burn on my armpit.

00:47:03Your commentary just, like, kills me.

00:47:05At least if we ever know we have to, like,

00:47:07escape a drug den in the middle of a jungle

00:47:09with a bunch of logs, we can.

00:47:11Yep.

00:47:13All right.

00:47:15I wanted to thank you for planning this,

00:47:17because it's been super fun,

00:47:18and this was, like, definitely a highlight for sure.

00:47:21More my speed of activity, definitely.

00:47:24I think one thing that I'm, you know,

00:47:27super thankful for you is just your effort,

00:47:29like, actually listening and planning fun stuff.

00:47:32Like, I think that's a really good quality,

00:47:34and it's something that I really appreciate about you.

00:47:37I don't think I could find a better activity partner.

00:47:41Like, I feel like I don't have a lot of people

00:47:44that put effort into me, and, I mean,

00:47:47I think you're a rare gem just sparkling in the sun.

00:47:53Meant for me, hopefully.

00:47:57I can see, like, 30 years from now,

00:48:00kids are getting a job, grandkids, all that stuff,

00:48:03and, like, this is the life I want to live.

00:48:07Thanks, Atlin.

00:48:09I've seen Madison trying from the very beginning,

00:48:12but the evolution of that I'm not seeing,

00:48:15you know, in terms of the future of us.

00:48:18It's scary.

00:48:19You know, the more I feel,

00:48:20the more I can get hurt.

00:48:22There's a lot of consideration,

00:48:25and there's a risk,

00:48:27but do you see a world where we can last forever?

00:48:35Forever's a long time.

00:48:50Would you do it like this?

00:48:57Hello.

00:48:58Hey.

00:48:59How are you?

00:49:00Good, how are you?

00:49:01Good.

00:49:02You guys can have a seat right over here.

00:49:03We're going to be doing a little tasting for you today.

00:49:05Got it all ready for us.

00:49:06I love it.

00:49:07Yes.

00:49:16What do you think?

00:49:17That's so different, but it's really good.

00:49:21Let me catch up.

00:49:24Yeah, no.

00:49:25This is the one right here.

00:49:26Yeah, this is really good.

00:49:27Yum.

00:49:28Let me have a taste.

00:49:29Go with some waffles.

00:49:30Some waffles.

00:49:33Now we can have you each make a cocktail.

00:49:36Oh, yes.

00:49:37Yeah.

00:49:38Time to chef it up a little bit.

00:49:39Yeah.

00:49:40I could lose the jacket for this.

00:49:41Get ready.

00:49:42Yeah.

00:49:43I feel like I should be dancing.

00:49:46Shake, shake, shake.

00:49:47Shake it up.

00:49:52Beautifully done, hubby.

00:49:54I do take tips.

00:49:56Chef's kiss.

00:49:58My turn.

00:49:59Wow, OK.

00:50:01All you got to tell me is you want a lot of alcohol in there,

00:50:03and I'll get you right.

00:50:07I'm expecting this back at the apartment.

00:50:09I know.

00:50:10I know.

00:50:11I'm going to be so nervous.

00:50:12at the apartment.

00:50:13Yeah.

00:50:14This is how you make it hot.

00:50:16There you are, sir.

00:50:17Baby, you got what you want.

00:50:19Get it now before it's gone.

00:50:23That's that on that.

00:50:25Oh, look at this little station here.

00:50:27OK.

00:50:32All right.

00:50:33All right.

00:50:34Love this.

00:50:35Yeah.

00:50:36Looking good.

00:50:37Yes.

00:50:38You know, I would say this is definitely one of the first,

00:50:40like, really, like, healthy relationships

00:50:42that I've been in before.

00:50:43Wow.

00:50:44Mm-hmm.

00:50:45Yeah.

00:50:46It's been cool kind of getting a glimpse into, you know,

00:50:48what the long-term future could look like.

00:50:50And I agree.

00:50:52Like, it's just, for me, I, you know,

00:50:55I didn't know I would be in this position.

00:50:57So it's like every day is like an adventure.

00:51:01Where would you say you see yourself in five years?

00:51:05Five years.

00:51:07So I always want to make more money.

00:51:09I don't know what that's going to look like specifically.

00:51:11Five years from now, I want to have children.

00:51:14Mm-hmm.

00:51:15So at that point, I would have at least one kid.

00:51:17So definitely having career success

00:51:20and having a family under my belt would be my goal.

00:51:23It seems like we have similar goals moving forward.

00:51:26But for me, it's I would love to be self-employed

00:51:29around real estate, just being able to, like,

00:51:31move how I want to move and, like,

00:51:33determine my day-to-day schedule.

00:51:35And having more of that freedom, like,

00:51:37that's what I'm definitely searching for.

00:51:39So that's important to me, you know,

00:51:41to be with someone who also values the same thing.

00:51:44Yeah.

00:51:45I'm so impressed by that.

00:51:46Like, that's, like, that blows my mind.

00:51:48Because, like, when I'm at your age, yeah,

00:51:52but at your age, I wasn't even thinking about that.

00:51:54Yeah.

00:51:55So I love that you have that ambition,

00:51:57that you have goals to be successful.

00:51:59And that's something that just is really impressive.

00:52:01I want to be there to support that, too.

00:52:03It's such a trap to have to work

00:52:06till you're, like, 60 or 65

00:52:08and then try and enjoy things when you're all old

00:52:10and debilitated and, you know, pulling hamstrings,

00:52:14running, playing basketball,

00:52:16and falling into walls and things like that.

00:52:18So it's just...

00:52:19That's cold.

00:52:21So, yeah, we got some gifts, I think.

00:52:24Yeah.

00:52:26I got you this.

00:52:27This is a little more of my artsy-crafty side,

00:52:30I would say, you know, something we can do together.

00:52:33Oh.

00:52:36What is this?

00:52:38It's, like, a hand-sculpting kit.

00:52:40You can kind of hold hands,

00:52:42and it just makes a mold out of that.

00:52:44You know, we could do it with the wedding rings on or something.

00:52:46Absolutely.

00:52:47I love that.

00:52:48You know, I like art,

00:52:49but I've never been, like, a part of it physically,

00:52:51so I think that would be really cool.

00:52:53Yeah.

00:52:55I have something for you as well.

00:52:56Oh.

00:52:58Okay.

00:53:00Oh, wow.

00:53:02I'm loving the gold box.

00:53:09Wow.

00:53:12I thought back to our honeymoon,

00:53:14and when you wore red, you look really good in red.

00:53:16Aww.

00:53:17And this is kind of a shade of red,

00:53:18but it's also your birthstone.

00:53:20This is so beautiful.

00:53:22Will you help me put it on?

00:53:23Yeah, absolutely.

00:53:24I love this.

00:53:25Ooh, it's sparkling.

00:53:27It's literally so crazy to think back.

00:53:29You know, a month ago, I was completely single.

00:53:31It just goes to show you how quickly things can change.

00:53:33We still have a lot to learn about each other and figure out,

00:53:36but I do overall feel very lucky for having been matched with Tom.

00:53:41What do you think?

00:53:42It looks great.

00:53:43Does it?

00:53:44Yeah, it looks great.

00:53:45Aww, thank you.

00:53:46I love it.

00:53:47Cherish this forever.

00:53:49This is the reason that I was late to basketball,

00:53:52because they didn't have that in Chicago.

00:53:55They had it in a location in the suburbs,

00:53:57and that's why I had to drive all the way out there,

00:54:00and I didn't expect the commute back to be so traffic-filled.

00:54:03So I am sorry still, but there was reasons behind it.

00:54:05That's why you were late.

00:54:08Well, you know what?

00:54:09Now I forgive you,

00:54:11and now I feel bad for making you run and pulling all your muscles.

00:54:15It was worth it.

00:54:16I'd do it again in a second.

00:54:19So it's 10 p.m.

00:54:23Yesterday I stormed out.

00:54:26I called and texted him.

00:54:28He's not responded.

00:54:30So now I'm just here by myself again.

00:54:37Not sure whether he's coming.

00:54:43Not sure whether he's coming to back.

00:54:52I'm not sure whether he's coming back.

00:54:54I'm not sure if he's prepared to talk.

00:54:58I just need to have a real conversation with him.

00:55:02I don't know if he's going to come back.

00:55:05I'm here.

00:55:06I'm still here.

00:55:08I don't know.

00:55:09We'll see if he comes back.

00:55:12We're going to run this town.

00:55:14We're going to keep it loud.

00:55:16We're going to get, get down.

00:55:18We're going to run it, run it, run it.

00:55:21Run this town.

00:55:22Run this town.

00:55:23Straight to the ground.

00:55:24To the ground.

00:55:25We're going to get, get down.

00:55:26We're going to run it, run it, run it.

00:55:34So it is the couple's one-month anniversary dinner tonight,

00:55:38which I'm excited about going.

00:55:39David could not get off work.

00:55:41So he will not be joining us.

00:55:43But I did come home from work to a really nice surprise.

00:55:46David ended up getting me flowers for the one-month anniversary,

00:55:50which was super nice.

00:55:51Just saying, like, sorry you couldn't make it.

00:55:53But hope I had fun tonight.

00:55:55Oh, look at you.

00:55:57Wow.

00:55:58Like, ready for the gala here.

00:56:00That's what we do.

00:56:01Absolutely ravenous.

00:56:03My wife is looking beautiful.

00:56:05I'm excited to see everyone.

00:56:06And I'm sure today will be an interesting dinner for all.

00:56:11Maybe some things will come out.

00:56:13Maybe they won't.

00:56:14What do they say?

00:56:15Spill on the tea.

00:56:16Spill on the tea.

00:56:17Yeah, tonight might be one of those nights.

00:56:18Spill on the tea.

00:56:19I'm ready.

00:56:21Luffy.

00:56:22God.

00:56:24He's in his own little bedroom.

00:56:25He's perfectly safe and sound.

00:56:27He is.

00:56:28He just sounds like he's never been, like, let out in his life.

00:56:30But, yeah, we're going to spill a lot of tea.

00:56:32A lot of tea.

00:56:38Ike is still not here.

00:56:39He did come by while I was doing a call.

00:56:43And he said hello, grabbed his shoes, and left.

00:56:47I thought that it was going to be time, you know, for us to talk before we go meet the group so that we all can celebrate together.

00:56:54But I guess he still doesn't want to talk.

00:56:56I have reached out multiple times to no response.

00:57:00This is definitely not the way I expected, you know, to be celebrating my one-month anniversary.

00:57:05I thought we'd be here together getting ready.

00:57:08I'm not sure what's going to happen at this dinner.

00:57:10We'll see what happens.

00:57:27This is cool.

00:57:28It's a very nice mundongo.

00:57:33Hello, hello.

00:57:35How are you guys?

00:57:38What's up, bro?

00:57:39Good to see you.

00:57:43Are you here for the meeting?

00:57:45Yes.

00:57:47Hey, y'all.

00:57:54Hello.

00:57:58What's up, y'all?

00:58:03Well, you know.

00:58:04Looking good.

00:58:05We're celebrating.

00:58:06Ten out of ten on the cape.

00:58:07Oh, if I could wear a cape, I would.

00:58:09Thank you, thank you, thank you.

00:58:11A queen, a queen.

00:58:12Guys, we're celebrating our one-month anniversary.

00:58:14Yes, we are.

00:58:16We're missing a few, though.

00:58:17Yeah, have some questions.

00:58:19Yeah.

00:58:20We'll pop a drink first.

00:58:22Yeah.

00:58:32Let's do a cheers.

00:58:33Let's do a cheers.

00:58:34Happy one month.

00:58:35Happy one month.

00:58:38Cheers to the people that are here.

00:58:40And to David that, you know, unfortunately had to work.

00:58:43He had to work.

00:58:44He had to work.

00:58:45And that's all.

00:58:49Yeah, as we all know, my husband, noticeably, is not here.

00:58:52I've not heard from him for a couple days.

00:58:54Oh, shoot.

00:58:55Yeah.

00:58:56Not a couple days.

00:58:57No.

00:58:58He popped in today, said hello, grabbed shoes and left,

00:59:01and did not speak, so we'll see.

00:59:03Wow.

00:59:04So is he coming tonight?

00:59:05I don't know.

00:59:06I'm guessing no.

00:59:07I've been texting him.

00:59:08I've been calling him.

00:59:09No response.

00:59:10So just total MIA.

00:59:11Did something, like, happen?

00:59:12Like, he called me an asshole on our one-month anniversary.

00:59:18Yeah.

00:59:19Yeah.

00:59:20Wow.

00:59:21I got questions.

00:59:22I'm so sorry.

00:59:23Yeah, I'm sorry.

00:59:24You didn't know that, please.

00:59:25I got so many questions.

00:59:26And walked out and stormed out and did not come back.

00:59:28I haven't seen him since he walked in today, said hello,

00:59:31grabbed his shoes, and walked out the door.

00:59:33Do you think it's at a point where there's no return?

00:59:35I mean, I don't know.

00:59:37That is a good question.

00:59:38I don't know.

00:59:39A month ago.

00:59:40You need answers before you can even decide that.

00:59:42And that's the thing.

00:59:43He refuses to talk to me, so.

00:59:44Well, I mean, you know.

00:59:45He refuses to talk to me.

00:59:47I don't know.

00:59:48And if it's a mistake.

00:59:49It's a two-way street.

00:59:50No, no, no.

00:59:51It's about acknowledging mistakes, too.

00:59:53Yeah.

00:59:54You can't just run away.

00:59:55Yeah, you can't run.

00:59:56You got to face it at some point.

00:59:57I think there's got to be something deeper.

00:59:59There's something that happened in his life

01:00:01that he hasn't resolved yet.

01:00:03So he's got to figure out what that is before he can have,

01:00:05like, a functioning relationship with someone.

01:00:07The problem is I don't think that he thinks that he's a problem.

01:00:11He called me aggressive.

01:00:13He called me an asshole.

01:00:14Like, all of it is negative.

01:00:15In what context of the aggressive part?

01:00:17I don't understand that.

01:00:18Oh, so.

01:00:19Like.

01:00:20So I touched him.

01:00:21I did.

01:00:22I did.

01:00:23Oh, boy.

01:00:24I touched him.

01:00:25But here's the thing.

01:00:26What you guys don't know is on the way to the honeymoon,

01:00:28he placed my hand on his private parts.

01:00:31It wasn't a big deal, you know.

01:00:33Was it not a big deal?

01:00:35Oh, no.

01:00:38Solid.

01:00:39That was solid.

01:00:40So, you know, I didn't think anything of it.

01:00:43And he tells Dr. Pia he felt uncomfortable.

01:00:45That was the first time I ever heard him say anything like that.

01:00:48And I said, wait, you're the person who initiated

01:00:50any first sexual contact.

01:00:52Right.

01:00:53I think the thing, too, is that you got to be respectful

01:00:55of those types of conversations, like, in front of,

01:00:57you know what I'm saying?

01:00:58Yeah, yeah.

01:00:59No, he did it in front of Dr. Pia.

01:01:01I was like, I said I wasn't going to talk about it.

01:01:03And Dr. Pia asked, OK?

01:01:05And I'm like, baby, I'm an open book.

01:01:07Go ahead.

01:01:08Air it out.

01:01:09And you didn't do anything wrong.

01:01:10I didn't.

01:01:11That's the difference, because you don't care to talk about it

01:01:13because you didn't do anything wrong.

01:01:14And you're owning your truth, and you're owning yourself.

01:01:16Like, it's just simple.

01:01:17Like, it's going to come out.

01:01:18Lord, yeah.

01:01:19Like, who he is, or what his angle is,

01:01:21or what he's attempting to do.

01:01:22Like, it's going to come out.

01:01:23And it's, I don't know what he's trying to run from.

01:01:25Like, he can run from the cameras and everything

01:01:27all he wants.

01:01:28But you all know this is his second time

01:01:30applying to the show, correct?

01:01:31No.

01:01:32He signed up for it.

01:01:33Yes.

01:01:34Twice.

01:01:35It's just, that's the part.

01:01:36Because honestly, like, if he's feeling some type of way,

01:01:39or he's backpedaling, or he's like, whatever his issue is,

01:01:42like, everyone here, I feel like, has kind of just,

01:01:44like, laid their out on the line.

01:01:46Everyone here.

01:01:47And so instead of doing that, he'd

01:01:49rather, like, paint you in a different light

01:01:51so he can kind of hide behind that,

01:01:52instead of just saying what it is.

01:01:53Like, just say what the problem is.

01:01:54Like, you did the work.

01:01:56And you came in really ready for this.

01:01:58I was really ready.

01:01:59Yeah, and he's like, that's what's kind of annoying me.

01:02:01It's like, you just want to ask him, like,

01:02:03why are you playing around?

01:02:04I ain't got it.

01:02:06I'mma get it now.

01:02:07Tell the cameraman, lights out.

01:02:09I'mma bring the whole city down.

01:02:11Let them know how I'm living now.

01:02:13They don't know what I want.

01:02:15But if I love, you know what I want.

01:02:17Tell me the reason.

01:02:18To do what I'm feeling.

01:02:21All right.

01:02:23Oh, that's beautiful.

01:02:27Tell me the reason.

01:02:29Tell me the reason.

01:02:32Oh, we got bread.

01:02:33Oh, that looks good.

01:02:34Cracking into the bread.

01:02:35That bread looks amazing.

01:02:36We could take some bread to Keisha, you know what I'm saying?

01:02:38Yeah, where is he?

01:02:40Coming in hot.

01:02:42Oh, boy.

01:02:43Oh, my goodness.

01:02:44Well, in the spirit of good news,

01:02:46you know, we're moving and grooving on a good path.

01:02:50Oh, my god, do you have sex?

01:02:51Is it a boy?

01:02:53Is it a girl?

01:02:55We are not there.

01:02:57Relax.

01:02:58He plays too much.

01:02:59Mind your business.

01:03:01No, that is not what she said.

01:03:02What she said was, we're so happy that you guys are progressing.

01:03:06I did say, oh, my god, do you have sex?

01:03:08I just fed off her already.

01:03:10The answer is yes.

01:03:11We do.

01:03:13Hey, hey, hey, hey.

01:03:17I don't know why she's more excited about it than I am.

01:03:21I'm happy for them.

01:03:22I'm shocked.

01:03:23I'm happy.

01:03:24I want to know if it was good or not, so.

01:03:27I was like, I got a solid girl.

01:03:30Well, to pound town.

01:03:32Pound town.

01:03:34To pound town.

01:03:36Yeah, good for them.

01:03:37Does anybody else have anything to say?

01:03:39I don't.

01:03:40No.

01:03:41I've been trying to work something out.

01:03:45Okay, cricket.

01:03:47No, I got a kiss on the cheek.

01:03:49That's it.

01:03:51Hey, take a walk.

01:03:52Physicalness doesn't have to be if it's not there yet.

01:03:55I'm happy with it.

01:03:56I've definitely been the more emotional one during this journey,

01:03:59which I never thought would happen.

01:04:01I've cried more than her during this, and it was like,

01:04:04I saved myself until the moment was right.

01:04:08You know, I can't say I'm surprised, though, honestly.

01:04:10The trajectory that you guys, like, I remember, like,

01:04:13getting on the plane throughout the honeymoon,

01:04:16the end of the honeymoon, first, like, all that.

01:04:19Like, you can see.

01:04:20It's organic.

01:04:21It's a very organic.

01:04:23Yeah.

01:04:24And it's taken work.

01:04:25I have to say that.

01:04:26It's worked.

01:04:27Like, I definitely, yeah, it's like, you know,

01:04:29I kind of had to, like, just work through things myself

01:04:32and just be open, and, like, it really took a good partner

01:04:35to, like, be able to receive all of that, too,

01:04:37because that's, I'm learning.

01:04:38It's really receiving it.

01:04:39Yeah.

01:04:40Okay, I'm not the only one.

01:04:41No, your jokes are rubbing off on me.

01:04:43I'm, like, super perverted.

01:04:45Every other word is like a joke.

01:04:47This is like, yeah, receive it.

01:04:49You know a lot more than me.

01:04:51I'm just saying, you know.

01:04:52I, like, told him, I was like, no more jokes.

01:04:54They're bothering me, and I'm over here, like, big deal.

01:04:57In the past, like, three days,

01:04:59I've heard, like, probably twice as much.

01:05:01It's probably more endearing when I say it.

01:05:06How are you guys, man?

01:05:07You know, we're doing, we're chilling, man.

01:05:10We're having fun.

01:05:12Do you guys feel like it's kind of in chill mode in general?

01:05:15Like, do you still feel like there's the romantic connection, too,

01:05:18or is it feeling more friendship right now?

01:05:20I think that's what we're working on.

01:05:22We're trying to get there.

01:05:24Yeah.

01:05:25We'll definitely see where things go,

01:05:27but I'm very proud of where I'm at in my journey.

01:05:31I try to just, you know, keep it positive.

01:05:34Hello.

01:05:35What's going on?

01:05:36Welcome.

01:05:37Welcome, welcome.

01:05:38Where were you?

01:05:39Where you been?

01:05:40Chilling.

01:05:41Chilling?

01:05:42Chilling.

01:05:43Just to miss half of the dinner?

01:05:46Yeah.

01:05:47It is?

01:05:48It is.

01:05:49Cheers, brother.

01:05:53Ooh, this s*** is about to go down.

01:06:09How you feeling?

01:06:10I'm good.

01:06:11I'm good.

01:06:12I'm good.

01:06:13How y'all doing?

01:06:14I'm good.

01:06:15Yeah, we're just over here spilling the beans,

01:06:17just touching base.

01:06:18It's been a while since we saw each other,

01:06:20so I'm just catching up and...

01:06:22Talking about highs and lows and...

01:06:24Yeah, it's a lot.

01:06:26It's a lot.

01:06:27Oh, my God!

01:06:28Oh!

01:06:29Yeah!

01:06:33Wow, the stakes is out here.

01:06:36Hey, babe.

01:06:37Hey, babe.

01:06:38Oh, my God.

01:06:39So glad to see you.

01:06:40Sorry, I'm underdressed, y'all.

01:06:41That's all right.

01:06:42Just stepped out to say hello.

01:06:43You made it.

01:06:44That's all that counts.

01:06:45Welcome in.

01:06:46Did they let you leave early?

01:06:47Um, no, I just stepped out.

01:06:51It sounds like he, like, came on his break,

01:06:53which is awesome.

01:06:54That's, like, not an easy feat.

01:06:56His work is not closed here, so...

01:06:59That was very nice.

01:07:00How's everybody doing?

01:07:01Good.

01:07:03No, we were just getting on deep,

01:07:05talking about vulnerability and...

01:07:07openness and...

01:07:09Communication.

01:07:10Yeah, I think we can all acknowledge

01:07:12that it's been a lot.

01:07:13It has been a lot.

01:07:14But, yeah, just continuing to show up each day and...

01:07:19Put in the work.

01:07:20Yeah.

01:07:21I got a question.

01:07:22I got a question.

01:07:24What's really good?

01:07:25I'm good.

01:07:26What's really good?

01:07:27I have no peace in my home,

01:07:29so I take peace in the moment.

01:07:32I'm enjoying this moment of peace,

01:07:34and I don't really want to talk about married life

01:07:36with y'all, to be honest with you.

01:07:38I respect that.

01:07:39I respect that.

01:07:40I get that, but why'd you come, then?

01:07:41I could leave if you like.

01:07:42No, I'm just asking.

01:07:43No, no, no.

01:07:44Don't get hostile.

01:07:45No, no, no, no, no.

01:07:46I'm saying...

01:07:47Don't get hostile.

01:07:48I came for y'all.

01:07:49I'm here to celebrate you guys.

01:07:50That's why I'm here.

01:07:51Not you guys?

01:07:52No.

01:07:53There is nothing to celebrate.

01:07:54That's rude.

01:07:55There he goes.

01:07:56But I'm just a little confused.

01:07:57You don't think that's insulting?

01:07:58My wife makes me feel like...

01:07:59That's why.

01:08:00In what way?

01:08:01Where's the disconnect here?

01:08:02In so many ways.

01:08:03Where's the disconnect here?

01:08:04Like, I'm trying to understand where you guys are at.

01:08:07Have you ever been in a space where you don't feel like you have peace?

01:08:10Yes.

01:08:11Like, I've been there.

01:08:12I haven't felt like anybody else was there.

01:08:13I think, to some extent, we all are lacking complete peace

01:08:18because we are making a commitment to someone

01:08:21or at least trying our best in some shape or form

01:08:25with someone we just really met.

01:08:27You're right.

01:08:28You're right.

01:08:30I don't think that everything will be solved at this table,

01:08:33so I'm not going to...

01:08:35Is there anything you see in your wife that you want to be with?

01:08:37Alan, Alan, Alan.

01:08:38I don't feel comfortable talking about this at this table.

01:08:41And the choice of words that need to be said

01:08:43can be said in a different manner,

01:08:45so we'll just keep it at that, guys.

01:08:47Fair.

01:08:48I agree, I agree.

01:08:49That's all I got to say right now,

01:08:50so I understand there should be a lot probably to be said

01:08:53at this point in time,

01:08:54but, you know, they have their relationship.

01:08:56Oh, yeah.

01:08:57They're at dinner right now with y'all.

01:08:59No disrespect to them or Ekechi,

01:09:00but I think that is a conversation that needs to be held

01:09:04between closed doors.

01:09:06I agree with David.

01:09:07And that is just the respect that I have at this moment, so...

01:09:11What I would say is, guys, like, you know, try to be positive.

01:09:13Just try to, like, listen, it's not perfect.

01:09:16You know, it's not easy.

01:09:18Just try to be positive about it, you know?

01:09:20Juan, I've tried,

01:09:21but when my husband calls me an asshole

01:09:23on our one-month anniversary, I don't have much.

01:09:26I don't have much to give.

01:09:28I would say, like, just...

01:09:29I don't have much.

01:09:30No, Juan, listen to me.

01:09:31Right.

01:09:32You called me an asshole for being M.I.A.

01:09:35You said you needed space and time.

01:09:37I was texting you.

01:09:39I called you.

01:09:40You did not answer.

01:09:41That was after I called you.

01:09:43No, stop.

01:09:44And then you show up today

01:09:46in this joker-ass suit.

01:09:49I'm done, bro.

01:09:50You're wild.

01:09:51You're wild for this.

01:09:52I've been texting you and calling you for two days.

01:09:55You haven't texted me or called me.

01:09:57You're lying!

01:09:58I'm, um...

01:09:59You're lying!

01:10:00Let's go to the bathroom.

01:10:01Let's go to the bathroom.

01:10:02Let's go to the bathroom.

01:10:03Come on, girlfriend.

01:10:06Let's go to the bathroom.

01:10:08Clown!

01:10:09Bring me a clown, you gonna get a circus!

01:10:12I asked y'all not...

01:10:14See what I mean?

01:10:15Yeah.

01:10:16I was just trying to, like, chill everybody out.

01:10:18We have no idea what's going on.

01:10:20I know, but I told you I would not like to talk about it here.

01:10:24I wanted that respect.

01:10:26That's all I asked.

01:10:27Well, here we are.

01:10:29Yeah.

01:10:30Can we close the door, please?

01:10:40I'm talking about my wife treating me like a boy.

01:10:42You want to be treated like a boy?

01:10:44We'll show you.

01:10:45Please don't make me stand up.

01:10:47You can't handle the heat of everyone coming at us.

01:10:49I'm sorry.

01:10:50Why'd you show up then?

01:10:51You didn't think this was gonna happen?

01:10:52Right, right, right.

01:10:53But let's not even focus on him right now.

01:10:54Let's just focus on M.M.

01:10:55And, like, making sure you're okay,

01:10:57making sure you're cool and collected

01:10:59because no man is worth taking you out of the class that you are.

01:11:04We're gonna keep it cool, right?

01:11:06I'm good, yeah.

01:11:07I think you just listen and let everyone else.

01:11:10You know what I mean?

01:11:11Like, I feel like you're too close and too heated.

01:11:15That's because I wanted a marriage.

01:11:17But I know that.

01:11:18I wanted a marriage.

01:11:19I came here for a marriage.

01:11:20And we know that.

01:11:21You know we know that.

01:11:22Right, right.

01:11:23And that's already established.

01:11:25That's why I came here is for the marriage,

01:11:28not the show, not none of this.

01:11:29I came here for a marriage.

01:11:31It's very clear that that's what you wanted, M.M.

01:11:36I wasn't trying to come at you, man.

01:11:37I just.

01:11:38Hey, and honestly, there's no disrespect from my perspective.

01:11:41Yeah.

01:11:42And I understand your inquisitive nature,

01:11:44but like I said, I was here to celebrate y'all.

01:11:46That's the reason I came tonight.

01:11:48Fair.

01:11:51Like, I don't need him to celebrate me.

01:11:53So let's hear his side of the story.

01:11:56It's probably cool and collected.

01:11:58It is a story.

01:11:59I'm good now.

01:12:00Let's go.

01:12:01I'm going to let you.

01:12:02Yeah, I'm going to let y'all handle that.

01:12:04Because baby.

01:12:07You know, we've just heard a part of the story.

01:12:11Yeah.

01:12:12So there's never any disrespect.

01:12:14It's more of just like trying to play devil's advocate, you know.

01:12:17And instead of feeling attacked.

01:12:20Fellas, ladies, y'all have a great night.

01:12:22All right, bro.

01:12:23All right, man.

01:12:24I'm going to see you, bro.

01:12:25Ciao, ciao.

01:12:26See you later.

01:12:28Okey-doke.

01:12:30How was that?

01:12:34To be honest, I feel like Akeji's a little bit of a con artist.

01:12:37You know, we all knew we were doing this to get married.

01:12:41And it's hard.

01:12:42It's harder than I could have ever explained.

01:12:44I feel like I've been very vocal about how hard of a time I've had.

01:12:47But like, I'm communicating with Alan.

01:12:49I'm being open with Alan.

01:12:50I'm having the tough conversations.

01:12:52I'm talking to the girls.

01:12:53I'm talking to the group.

01:12:54Like, I'm doing the things to help me kind of work through stuff.

01:12:57And, you know, coming into tonight,

01:12:59I just feel like he already had his, like, hands up in the air.

01:13:03Ready to fight back.

01:13:05You need a hug?

01:13:06I'm okay.

01:13:07You good?

01:13:08I just didn't appreciate how he talked to you.

01:13:10That's how he speaks to me.

01:13:11In private.

01:13:12And that's not okay.

01:13:15So, uh.

01:13:16That's how he speaks to me in private.

01:13:19Why you leaving?

01:13:21You think I'm about to sit next to that?

01:13:24So you don't want to talk to her about it?

01:13:25No.

01:13:27I don't have the capacity to do that.

01:13:29I don't have the capacity to be with immaturity.

01:13:31I don't play with kids.

01:13:33This is on some kid.

01:13:37You want what you want when you want it.

01:13:39I'm not the person to give it to you.

01:13:41And I'm okay with that.

01:13:42I'm not everybody cup of tea.

01:13:44But I'm somebody Hennessy and Coach.

01:13:48If you guys want to at least function as a friendship,

01:13:52I don't even know if that's saving.

01:13:54No.

01:13:55He's called me aggressive.

01:13:56He's called me predatory.

01:13:57He's called me an asshole.

01:13:58And he also.

01:13:59No, I understand.

01:14:00Friends don't even speak to each other like that.

01:14:02Like that.

01:14:03That's very disrespectful.

01:14:04Let's be clear.

01:14:05What I am noticing is that you guys are like really

01:14:06blaming each other hard.

01:14:08What if I blamed him for it?

01:14:10No, no, no.

01:14:11Specifically.

01:14:12No, no, no.

01:14:13I'm not.

01:14:14Maybe I used the wrong word.

01:14:15No, I need to know.

01:14:16What if I blamed him for it?

01:14:17I used the wrong word.

01:14:18But you guys are really pointing the fingers at each other.

01:14:19You know what I'm saying?

01:14:20Like you did this, you did this.

01:14:21No, but here's the thing.

01:14:22I've never called him anything outside of his name.

01:14:25What bad thing have you heard me say about him?

01:14:27I'm not saying you have.

01:14:28So it's not pointing fingers.

01:14:31Because I need you to know it gets very slanderous, Juan.

01:14:33He's talking to himself.

01:14:34He's made several inflammatory statements.

01:14:36He said I touched him inappropriately.

01:14:39He said that.

01:14:40No, I need you to know it goes raw.

01:14:42He's called me an asshole.

01:14:44He's called me aggressive.

01:14:45And all of these things.

01:14:46And I'm like, sir, where did this come from?

01:14:48Right.

01:14:50The moment I said, I don't want to have sex with you,

01:14:53everything changed.

01:14:55Everything changed.

01:14:57Like, she shut down.

01:14:59I don't know her enough to say, hey, let's have sex.

01:15:02But from day one, she'd been jumping on me.

01:15:05Like, the wedding.

01:15:07I didn't even get to ask her if I could kiss her.

01:15:09She put her tongue down my throat.

01:15:11So I said, hey, you're kind of aggressive.

01:15:13Like, chill on the sex.

01:15:14Like, chill on that.

01:15:15I don't really want to do that.

01:15:16You initiated all of this.

01:15:18And then when I call him out with the facts, he's like,

01:15:21oh, well, don't do that.

01:15:23You don't deserve it, you know that.

01:15:26You just keep doing it, baby.

01:15:27It'll be all right.

01:15:29It's OK.

01:15:30I know it's hard.

01:15:31You've been keeping it together real well.

01:15:34I'm OK with walking away.

01:15:37There's a divorce on the table.

01:15:47If you need to take a break, take a break.

01:16:01My heart hurts for her, man.

01:16:03That's right.

01:16:04I wanted to give him a hug, but.

01:16:05Everyone knows that.

01:16:06He's supposed to be this woke black man,

01:16:08you calling a black woman aggressive.

01:16:10Like, that's literally, like, rule number one.

01:16:12He knew what he was doing.

01:16:13Yeah.

01:16:14I think he was hoping that he had

01:16:16someone who was less educated, that he

01:16:18can pull the wool over.

01:16:19But baby, this is a master's educated woman.

01:16:22This is someone who owns her own business.

01:16:24They didn't bring you a dummy.

01:16:26So he said, I'm going to tear her down in any way possible.

01:16:30And if it's warfare, then let's go, Joker.

01:16:32Right.

01:16:33Let's go.

01:16:35Yeah, I don't even think that he realizes,

01:16:38like, what he's messing up.

01:16:39And he's going to look back and kick himself in the ass.

01:16:43Like, he's really going to regret doing this.

01:16:45And he's going to see himself looking like a clown.

01:16:48And he's only going to have himself to blame.

01:16:52Unfortunately, I'm going to have to check out real quick.

01:16:55Oh, they're still popping.

01:16:57David, it was a pleasure seeing you.

01:16:59It's been too long, bro.

01:17:00All right, let your man up.

01:17:01Yes, sir.

01:17:02Papito.

01:17:03Papito.

01:17:04Let's go.

01:17:06Ladies.

01:17:07Oh.

01:17:08Me too.

01:17:09Me too.

01:17:10Me too.

01:17:11Ciao, ciao.

01:17:12Cuddles and kisses.

01:17:14Give Camille my love.

01:17:15And please give a hug to Emin for me, OK?

01:17:18Thank you, guys.

01:17:19See you.

01:17:22We could look at the same picture

01:17:32and see a different landscape.

01:17:40I can't do it anymore.

01:17:41I can't be around someone who feels like I'm smaller than them

01:17:45or feeling like they can belittle me, insult me.

01:17:51I'm very much a person who can take a lot.

01:17:55But if it's not necessary, I don't have to.

01:17:58This is not something necessary.

01:18:00While we're married on paper, the way you treat me,

01:18:05your attitude really tells who you are.

01:18:10And tonight, mm-mm, it's not who I ever want to be married to.

01:18:15I don't want to be married to someone who feels like I ain't s**t.

01:18:19I'm very much at peace with my decision to not be here

01:18:22and to actually sleep in my bed and be comfortable and enjoy peace.

01:18:30Baby, we're over, we're over.

01:18:53That was a wild dinner.

01:18:55Evenful.

01:18:57Oh, my gosh, the nerve.

01:18:59Tonight was tough.

01:19:00Like, even, I mean, I hate talking about Akeji since he's not here,

01:19:04but he came in with bad, bad energy, you know what I mean?

01:19:09Like, he walked in there with a chip on his shoulder.

01:19:11So, like, there was nothing we could have said or done

01:19:13that wouldn't have ended this way, like, I personally think.

01:19:16Yeah, for sure.

01:19:17We only got, like, a little sliver, so I can only imagine.

01:19:21Yeah.

01:19:23Yeah.

01:19:25I mean, f**k, man, it's just, there's work that has to be done there, you know?

01:19:30And, like...

01:19:31But you got to be open to hearing that.

01:19:33Exactly.

01:19:34You got to be open to taking the feedback.

01:19:36It's not a bad thing to be like, hey, I'm at fault.

01:19:39Yeah.

01:19:40I don't know what Ake's motives were,

01:19:42showing up at our anniversary dinner tonight.

01:19:44Who knows?

01:19:45He does things for exaggerated responses,

01:19:49but it felt like the big F you.

01:20:12Okay.

01:20:13Things are going.

01:20:20You end up with half a man, you don't get half a man.

01:20:25His vows and the vows that I wrote,

01:20:28we made a commitment before our families and friends.

01:20:34He left his air fryer.

01:20:35That matters.

01:20:37But Akechi is not willing to do the work.

01:20:40He has taken every opportunity to run and rant.

01:20:43It's very hurtful to be treated the way that Akechi treated me.

01:20:47Especially because I've done nothing but try to understand him.

01:20:52I just need a second.

01:20:54I'm sorry.

01:20:58Oh, f**k.

01:21:08I'm sorry.

01:21:10I'm sorry.

01:21:17Still to come this season on Married at First Sight.

01:21:25Whatever. Whatever.

01:21:27I'm super grateful to have you in my life.

01:21:30You can build an empire.

01:21:32I do feel closer to you, and I do want this to work.

01:21:37I received a text message from David,

01:21:41and it said,

01:21:43you are so damn fine,

01:21:45I can't wait to eat you.

01:21:47I think that's just repulsive.

01:21:49When you act like a a**hole, that's what you get called.

01:21:52I was up until like 3.20.

01:21:54Why does it matter? I came home.

01:21:56Show a little f**king empathy.

01:21:58F**k off. Like, are you kidding me?

01:22:00If I don't feel you're attracted to me, that hurts my feelings.

01:22:04I would like to be able to kind of take my foot off the gas pedal.

01:22:07I do apologize.

01:22:09Normally married people don't go on dates with other women,

01:22:11and they don't sex other women.

01:22:13It feels like you're protecting something,

01:22:15or you're hiding something.

01:22:17I've been exploring a little bit with some of the urges,

01:22:20I guess, that I've been having.

01:22:23I told you I was done with that conversation.

01:22:25I gave it what I said, and that's it.

01:22:27I'm not done with it, though.

01:22:29Because I don't believe you.

01:22:31I'm not trying to tiptoe into the zone.

01:22:33No, you didn't tiptoe. You just f**king jumped in there like a fool.

01:22:36Okay.

01:22:38Go hook up with my friend, I guess.

01:22:40I have to call you out right here, right now,

01:22:42when you're lying about having an intimate sexual relationship with her.

01:22:46I don't know if I can get through this.

01:22:51I wouldn't want to surround myself with women that, like, step that boundary.

01:22:56Sign the document.

01:22:57No, no thank you.

01:22:59I didn't do s**t, you did! Are we living in a la-la land?

01:23:02Look at the positive, look at the pot.

01:23:04Butterfly is positive.

01:23:06F**k you. F**k her and f**k you.

01:23:17The time has come for you to decide.

01:23:22Do you want to stay married?

01:23:24Or get a divorce?

01:23:26Connection is there.

01:23:28Attraction is there.

01:23:30Nobody's ever looking over me.

01:23:36I want to tell you something. Will you marry me?

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