Aired (December 28, 2024): Inamin ni Ivan na pinilit niya na lamang ang kanyang sarili na magkaroon ng kasintahan upang maiwasan ang bullying.
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00:00Okay, so how about you?
00:02Did you bet on him right away?
00:04Or you didn't bet on him right away?
00:06To be honest, I didn't bet on him right away.
00:08I was there because I wanted to sing.
00:10And I didn't deny that I wanted to have a relationship within the organization.
00:16So how did you like him?
00:18He's really lively when he's rehearsing.
00:26He's happy to be with us.
00:28I was attracted to him because...
00:34Who's laughing at me?
00:36I think there's a fight going on.
00:38Our people are getting excited.
00:42This is what you call a clickability issue.
00:46And then?
00:48I didn't share him with anyone, just me.
00:52You were attracted to him because you had feelings for him.
00:58But you had feelings for someone else.
01:02For example, you have a new member.
01:04You don't have a lot of feelings for him.
01:06You don't have a lot of feelings for him.
01:08But you have feelings for him.
01:10You have feelings for him.
01:12But you still have feelings for him.
01:14I bet on him.
01:16Did you court him?
01:18We didn't court him.
01:20He's your boyfriend?
01:22No, because we were so dependent on each other.
01:26And I fell for him.
01:30But at that time, I didn't know what it means to love someone.
01:36Was he your first girlfriend?
01:40No, he was my second.
01:42Oh, he was your second?
01:44Yes.
01:46I had a girlfriend in high school.
01:48It was the same scenario.
01:52But you weren't in love with him.
01:54I didn't understand.
01:56How long were you together?
01:583 months.
02:00In 3 months, you didn't fall in love with him?
02:04No.
02:06You just had a title.
02:08You had a relationship.
02:10In a way.
02:12At that time, it was very important to have a girlfriend.
02:16Why?
02:18To be a man, you need to have a girlfriend.
02:20Because you have a lot of girlfriends.
02:24Gender roles.
02:26That's what you call a gender role.
02:28And there's pressure from your peers.
02:30If you're a man, you need to have a girlfriend.
02:34If you're a woman, you need to give birth to your child.
02:38Those are the gender roles that society dictates.
02:44There's a lot of pressure.
02:48So why do you need to prove that you're a man?
02:50Why do you need to have a girlfriend to prove that you're a man?
02:54Maybe because when I was in high school, I wasn't very masculine.
03:00So I was always like,
03:02Sir, like that.
03:04The typical bully in high school.
03:06From what I read in your story,
03:08you had a girlfriend
03:10so that they wouldn't think of you as a bully.
03:16Yes.
03:18That was your reason at first.
03:22The second time, was it the same?
03:24No.
03:26My reason was when I was given a chance.
03:30Because I was really interested in her at that time.
03:32In college.
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