Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 30
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00:00:00Good morning, universe!
00:00:02Previously, homestays were a family affair.
00:00:05I'll snap him out.
00:00:07As Polly and Adam made a major breakthrough...
00:00:09You've actually shocked me.
00:00:11You can actually be gloving and a really nice lady.
00:00:14Yes!
00:00:17..for Christina and Kieran...
00:00:19I need to figure out the situation and know what the right move is
00:00:21to take next. ..time apart pushed them to consider their fate.
00:00:24Consider yourself spending the rest of your life with him.
00:00:26Yeah, I do really like him.
00:00:28Christina deserves somebody to love her.
00:00:30I'm going to get upset now.
00:00:32..and for Sasha and Ross...
00:00:34SHE LAUGHS
00:00:36..the pull of loved ones...
00:00:38Can't touch this thing?
00:00:39No!
00:00:41..raised uncertainties.
00:00:43I need to be here.
00:00:44I really can't be away from them.
00:00:46He kills me.
00:00:48But it was Luke's thoughtless comments...
00:00:50In here, you look a bit, like, bloated.
00:00:52Luke's saying I basically look hideous.
00:00:55..and a disastrous meeting.
00:00:57Adult entertainment, is that something you see yourself doing
00:00:59moving forward?
00:01:00This is definitely an attempt to assassinate my character.
00:01:03..that left the marriage...
00:01:04As of now, I'm a single man. ..hanging in the balance.
00:01:08Well, **** then.
00:01:09I don't know why you're still sat here.
00:01:11Maybe it's not meant to be after all.
00:01:16..tonight...
00:01:18I've seen a sight of Polly that I feel giggling and smiling.
00:01:21..the final commitment ceremony brings out the best in some couples.
00:01:25I feel like we're tap-dancing round the love at the minute.
00:01:28I haven't felt this way about someone before.
00:01:30..as tensions continue for others.
00:01:33I felt humiliated, I felt disrespected, I felt violated.
00:01:37Why can't you grow the **** up?
00:01:39It makes me feel uncomfortable.
00:01:40I can't feel anything but anger towards him right now.
00:01:43..and after a difficult homestay apart...
00:01:45To go from that wedding to then how we are now,
00:01:49that is what kills me.
00:01:51..Kieran and his wife,
00:01:53I just don't know how much I've got in us
00:01:55for the amount of emotional support Christina needs.
00:01:58..while the dilemma of where to call home...
00:02:00Moving to this situation, it's affecting me.
00:02:03..pushes Sasha and Ross to crisis point.
00:02:06I really wanted to do everything I could to make you happy.
00:02:10I think Barnes' spread's gone a bit hard.
00:02:12HE CHUCKLES
00:02:14After time away at homestays,
00:02:16the couples are back at the apartments.
00:02:19What are you wearing today?
00:02:20My blue co-ord with the pink one.
00:02:24What?
00:02:25It's a red one.
00:02:28And I'm with a blue one.
00:02:29That's a blue one?
00:02:31Yeah, a blue one.
00:02:33It's a blue one.
00:02:35It's a blue one.
00:02:37My blue cord with feather arms.
00:02:40You're going to look like a peacock.
00:02:43SHE LAUGHS
00:02:44It's like a fruit bowl.
00:02:46It is, isn't it?
00:02:47Oh, boy!
00:02:48THEY LAUGH
00:02:51Are they? That's rock solid.
00:02:53THEY LAUGH
00:02:59It's not a good thing for me and Christina to be apart.
00:03:02She's always in my mind, you know, what you're doing, what you're up to.
00:03:06Christina is one of the most amazing girls I could ever wish to meet.
00:03:09She's beautiful inside and out.
00:03:12I care about the girl.
00:03:13I care about how she feels.
00:03:16All I've ever done is put other people first.
00:03:19I need to focus on what I want out of life and where I want to be
00:03:22and who I want to do that with.
00:03:29I haven't seen Kieran since the really emotional dinner party.
00:03:33I've missed him.
00:03:34I haven't stopped thinking about him.
00:03:36I just want to know that he's all right.
00:03:40It hurts because we were really happy.
00:03:45He knows that I want a future with him and I'm fighting for him.
00:03:56So, I actually enjoyed seeing all your family again.
00:03:59Your mum made me feel ridiculously welcome.
00:04:02I didn't want you to feel, like, out of place or uncomfortable,
00:04:05like you couldn't do anything.
00:04:07I've seen a different side to you that I preferred.
00:04:10Yeah.
00:04:11I feel like you seeing that and your positive response to that,
00:04:15I feel like that's definitely something that I've got to be more mindful of.
00:04:19Me and Adam are in genuinely one of the best positions we've ever been in.
00:04:24The way Adam was with me when we were at my homestays
00:04:27was just a lot more relaxed.
00:04:29He gravitated towards me more, was really nice to see.
00:04:33Hopefully it can continue now we're back in the apartment,
00:04:36do you know what I mean?
00:04:37Me and Polly are in a pretty good place at the moment.
00:04:40We've always said we like that we're both family orientated
00:04:43and she's so close with her family.
00:04:46I would like to think this new side of Polly will continue.
00:04:49Time will tell and we've just got to see what will happen.
00:04:53Me and Luke haven't benefitted from homestays at all.
00:04:57It started shit, it ended shit.
00:04:59He's made an awful first impression in front of my friends.
00:05:03I've not seen him since and we've stayed in separate apartments.
00:05:09I'm absolutely dreading seeing Luke at the commitment ceremony today.
00:05:13Right now I just feel so much anger towards him.
00:05:16I don't even want to look at his face.
00:05:18I just want to be with him.
00:05:20I just feel so let down.
00:05:21As soon as somebody lies to me, that breaks the trust.
00:05:25I have no idea what goes on in his brain,
00:05:27I have no idea why he lies and I have no time left for it.
00:05:35I haven't seen Amy since I took the ring off at the restaurant
00:05:39with her friends.
00:05:40I really wanted to meet Amy's friends
00:05:43and I feel like Amy squandered the opportunity by not seeing her.
00:05:47And I feel like Amy squandered the opportunity by dealing with it
00:05:51the way she did on the night.
00:05:54I feel like there was agenda to upset me, to attack me
00:05:57and Amy seemed to be the one that was egging it on.
00:05:59So I find that very hurtful.
00:06:02And I took my ring off.
00:06:04And, yeah, it just makes me feel even more disappointed.
00:06:07I'm in no shape or form any better in terms of deciding
00:06:11what my headspace is at with Amy.
00:06:18Homestays went really, really well.
00:06:21Other than the confusion on where to move to,
00:06:24we did have a good homestays.
00:06:28But this morning, I'm feeling pretty deflated.
00:06:32Me and Ross had an argument last night.
00:06:34Ross threw his dummy at the pram for absolutely no reason.
00:06:38I'm at the end of my tether.
00:06:41He doesn't have to react the way he does.
00:06:43My drama is your drama.
00:06:45In recent weeks, Sasha and Ross have found it difficult
00:06:48to resolve conflict in their marriage.
00:06:51You should have your wife's back, always.
00:06:54That's stupid.
00:06:55I'm your problem, Ross. I am.
00:06:57Ross doesn't say a word to Michelle.
00:07:00Grabs his two suitcases, starts putting all his trainers in.
00:07:04Honest to God, it was awful.
00:07:06No, no. Wedding ring falling across the floor.
00:07:09Oh, I can't do it now.
00:07:11I am not going to do it.
00:07:13I am not comfortable with you being in this apartment.
00:07:39Hello, my baby girl.
00:07:43How's your homestay been?
00:07:46Our homestay was really good.
00:07:48But literally, the day we get back, out for a drink,
00:07:53all of a sudden, out of nowhere,
00:07:55Ross lost his temper and stormed off.
00:08:02I lost my temper.
00:08:04But it's not just me, though, it's Sasha as well.
00:08:07She does have a fire in her.
00:08:09Have you spoke to her?
00:08:10Oh, yeah. That was yesterday.
00:08:16Ross, you messaged Sasha saying,
00:08:20stay in separate rooms tonight.
00:08:22That's a lot.
00:08:24You're both very angry.
00:08:26When he left, he texted me saying, I can do better,
00:08:30and everyone will see that I deserve better.
00:08:32The only person I can see that deserves better is me.
00:08:35Because I've put so much into the relationship,
00:08:38I completely support him all the time.
00:08:40You deserve better than that.
00:08:42But, yeah, what more do you want? What more can I give?
00:08:45Her response was, good luck finding somebody
00:08:49who puts up with your shit.
00:08:51It's never going to get sorted, calling each other names.
00:08:56I basically just texted him to say,
00:08:58you're literally the one in the wrong
00:09:00and you're treating me like it's me.
00:09:02He's not even apologised.
00:09:04Oh.
00:09:05Oh, you can get argumentative.
00:09:07But my anger in comparison to Ross's is completely different.
00:09:12Like, Ross likes to break things, throw things,
00:09:14like, food up the wall.
00:09:16Not acceptable.
00:09:17So I thought he'd wake up thinking, God, that was really bad,
00:09:20whatever I spoke to Sasha yesterday.
00:09:22But he's not said a word to me.
00:09:24Are you thinking now about long-term
00:09:27and if you can do this in the long run?
00:09:30The moving situation, quite difficult.
00:09:32Right.
00:09:33On homestays, like, I ended up thinking,
00:09:38oh, I don't think Manchester's the right place.
00:09:41And this whole time I've been so set on Manchester.
00:09:45She wanted to be very close with the family.
00:09:48Same for me.
00:09:49I've got a daughter back at home as well.
00:09:51Yeah.
00:09:52So it's pretty hard.
00:09:53I head it all over the place.
00:09:55I can't think what's what.
00:09:57I think it's a lot to do with the pressures of the experiment.
00:10:00Yeah, definitely.
00:10:02I don't know.
00:10:03I don't know what we're going to do, to be honest.
00:10:05It's a mess.
00:10:06The relationship is messy.
00:10:14I've got a lot of things on my mind.
00:10:16Honestly, I can't wait to meet the expert.
00:10:19I just need to pull it all out,
00:10:21because the more I keep hold of it, I'll probably struggle more.
00:10:25I do need to show him the temper.
00:10:28Yeah.
00:10:30This is my first time thinking about this decision,
00:10:33because it's too much.
00:10:36It's a lot.
00:10:38I'm extremely confused on what to do at the commitment ceremony today.
00:10:42There's a beautiful connection between me and Ross,
00:10:45and we should maybe vote for it,
00:10:47but Ross takes it too far when there's a disagreement.
00:10:52I don't know what is best any more.
00:10:55I'm not going to do it.
00:10:57I'm not sure I can tolerate it any longer.
00:11:27Well, here we are for your last commitment ceremony.
00:11:39We know with the finish line in sight,
00:11:42you'll be thinking more and more about what it will take
00:11:46to make your marriage last long term.
00:11:49This is your last chance to come to us with any issues,
00:11:55worries, or requests for advice, so please don't squander that.
00:12:03First up to the couch, can I have...
00:12:12Amy and Luke, come on up.
00:12:18Welcome, guys.
00:12:20Hi.
00:12:25So without a doubt,
00:12:27this is the furthest you two have sat apart from each other.
00:12:31Why are we at this distance right now?
00:12:34I don't know. Where do we start?
00:12:37Let's start the last time that we saw you.
00:12:39We'll go back to the dinner party.
00:12:42We heard something that, Luke, you had mentioned to Lacey.
00:12:46So what was that?
00:12:48So Luke made quite a big deal about this photo of Lacey and Adam,
00:12:52saying that he's glad that I act with integrity and have class.
00:12:57However, when I spoke to Lacey, he'd said to Lacey,
00:13:00I'm actually really envious because I wish my own wife behaved that way.
00:13:06What I meant was, you know,
00:13:08I was envious that me and Amy weren't like that, you know,
00:13:11we don't dance like that.
00:13:13I just think it's bullshit.
00:13:15It's just excuses, and I just can't connect with it.
00:13:19OK.
00:13:21So then from there, we go to homestays.
00:13:26Luke, walk me through your homestay.
00:13:29I walked in a bit before to switch everything on,
00:13:32and there was a photo of me and a girl that I worked with.
00:13:35And I thought, hang on, I don't want Amy to walk into my house
00:13:39and see a random girl strapped around my arm.
00:13:43So I got a pair of scissors and I cut the girl out.
00:13:46Amy walks in, she says,
00:13:48oh, who was on the other side of the photo?
00:13:50I said, no, the photo was printed like that.
00:13:53She said, no, Luke, it's wonky.
00:13:55And then after a minute, I said, Amy, I just lied to you.
00:13:58I don't know why, I didn't need to.
00:14:01OK, started the homestay on a lie.
00:14:04Caught yourself on the lie.
00:14:08The issue is that if you want to establish any amount of trust,
00:14:12you have to consistently be truthful.
00:14:15Of course.
00:14:17How can she continue any relationship with you
00:14:21if you can't be truthful?
00:14:25I'm feeling so disconnected with this person.
00:14:29Every single time we go to move forward,
00:14:32he does something and we just go straight back.
00:14:36We went to a castle and Luke made another sexual comment
00:14:41and we ended up having an argument then.
00:14:43We told you this, Amy, I don't think it was a sexual comment.
00:14:47We were speaking about walking my dog
00:14:49and he made that into a sexual comment.
00:14:51Why can't you read the room, grow the fuck up
00:14:54and realise it makes me feel uncomfortable?
00:14:57Why do you not care? All you care about is yourself.
00:15:00OK. Why are you rolling your eyes?
00:15:02I don't think it was sexual.
00:15:04It was basically about, can you see yourself living in Kent?
00:15:07Yeah, I can see myself bringing John, the dog, for exercise.
00:15:10Not only John, he's exercised.
00:15:12And we'd slept together the night before,
00:15:14so it's like, what does this man want from me?
00:15:16Hey, that's why it was a little joke.
00:15:18Read the room.
00:15:22So homestay ends rocky.
00:15:25So you go into your homestay, what happens?
00:15:30We went into my mum's house
00:15:33and there's a photograph of me when I was 18
00:15:36and Luke says, oh, is this before the glow-up?
00:15:39And he was like, you look a lot more bloated on this.
00:15:44It's like, your teeth, your lips,
00:15:46I just don't understand why those comments were made.
00:15:49All I was saying was that I prefer how you look now.
00:15:53You'd like to think that after making some changes
00:15:56at a certain cost that you're going to improve
00:15:58and I thought you did improve.
00:16:00If there were the two girls in front of me, I would pick this one now.
00:16:04Babe, if you go into a girl's house and say,
00:16:07you practically said you look fucking fat on this photo.
00:16:10No, bloated doesn't mean fat.
00:16:12Bloated means you look a bit bloated.
00:16:16OK, so once again, misunderstanding in the communication,
00:16:20which happens over and over and over again with both of you.
00:16:24I think reading the room is a real theme here.
00:16:27The impression we're getting is that you're not watching Amy,
00:16:30you're not reading Amy.
00:16:32But I struggle to understand sometimes how you're feeling.
00:16:35I don't know sometimes whether it's because facial expressions
00:16:38don't come across so well.
00:16:43No, we're not going to take that.
00:16:45We're talking about your capacity to read your partner.
00:16:50And we're hearing so many examples here
00:16:53of you completely missing the cues.
00:16:55So either you're not demonstrating empathy
00:16:58or you're choosing to overlook them.
00:17:01I'm not going to agree with you on that one.
00:17:04And you're not going to blame her face.
00:17:07Quite frankly, what you need to be doing is reading your partner.
00:17:11She's telling you these comments make her feel uncomfortable.
00:17:15That should be all that matters.
00:17:18That's what's important here.
00:17:21I know it doesn't make me feel good to know that I've done that.
00:17:25But from my point of view, I feel like it's very difficult
00:17:30because everything I do or say is not right or inappropriate.
00:17:36It gets worse. Jeez.
00:17:39We walked in to meet my friends.
00:17:41My best friend Alex wasn't at the wedding and basically said,
00:17:45Luke, tell me about yourself, tell me about your job.
00:17:48What do you do in your spare time?
00:17:50This is still a very sensitive subject to me
00:17:52because I've just found out my husband's a butler in the buff,
00:17:55which he told me he wasn't.
00:17:57So I was saying, do you want to tell her what else you do?
00:18:00And he was like, go on, there's an agenda here.
00:18:03He was like, I don't have anything else to say now.
00:18:06Took his wedding ring off and went, I'm single.
00:18:09And you were kind of egging them on,
00:18:11but tell them, tell them, tell them what you do.
00:18:14Because I did one job with an apron on.
00:18:16So it's just one now? I thought it was three.
00:18:18One job. And then it was two and now it's one.
00:18:20One job I did with an apron. One, OK.
00:18:22But it was more than that.
00:18:23And this is how my wife's introducing me to her friends.
00:18:26I felt like Quasimodo being taken around Paris.
00:18:30Here's the Muppet, here's the butler in the buff, here's the liar.
00:18:33That's how you introduce me to your friends.
00:18:36I felt humiliated, I felt disrespected, I felt violated.
00:18:39Why are you ashamed about it? It's your job.
00:18:41I'm not ashamed of it. I'll talk about it. I'm not ashamed of it.
00:18:44Because you introduced me like that.
00:18:49All right.
00:18:51Amy, you want to have truth and transparency
00:18:56and honesty in your relationship.
00:18:58The only way that you can get that
00:19:00is that you have to create an environment
00:19:02where that becomes the standard.
00:19:05But you don't create a safe environment for Luke.
00:19:12This is the first time he's meeting your friends.
00:19:15Clearly he wants to make a good impression.
00:19:18How do you think he felt in that moment?
00:19:21Probably a little bit intimidated, but...
00:19:23You know, what's interesting is that you're not even listening to him.
00:19:26Because he just told you how he felt.
00:19:28He just said, I felt humiliated.
00:19:31Regardless of lies in the past,
00:19:34you are failing to just acknowledge your role in this.
00:19:39Yes, there's a lot that he has to do,
00:19:42but this process is about each of us becoming better.
00:19:46So if you want the transparency,
00:19:48you have to show up and say,
00:19:50you know what, I'm going to create a safe environment for you.
00:19:53You have to be empathetic, to stay in the moment and say,
00:19:56you felt humiliated, and I'm sorry for my role in that, period.
00:20:03You removed your ring.
00:20:05Yeah.
00:20:06Why?
00:20:07It was the definition of an immature person, Paul.
00:20:10I should have kept my cool,
00:20:12and I regretted it the moment I took it off.
00:20:15And you know, Luke, I know you adore Amy.
00:20:19I think part of your lying is because
00:20:22you may not feel in your heart that you're enough for her.
00:20:25And you're constantly trying to figure out
00:20:27how you could fit into her world.
00:20:29These are issues that you have.
00:20:32You have to know that you are enough.
00:20:35So my only question to you right now is,
00:20:39can you consistently be truthful?
00:20:43I'd like to think I have the ability.
00:20:46The lies that I say, they are white lies.
00:20:50But I have to take a contribution of what I do.
00:20:52She's just asking for you to be honest.
00:20:54I know.
00:20:55You know, it's a simple request.
00:20:56I know.
00:20:59Okay.
00:21:01Let's go to the decision.
00:21:04Amy, why don't you kick things off for us?
00:21:08I feel like I could see such great potential between us
00:21:12and when we have the conversations about the lies,
00:21:15I'm thinking to myself, yes, we're getting somewhere.
00:21:17We're going to get better.
00:21:23But...
00:21:25Homestays have just been absolutely awful.
00:21:28You absolutely humiliated me in front of my friends.
00:21:32It brought out a side of me that I've never seen before.
00:21:37And I really don't want to be that person.
00:21:40And for that reason...
00:21:43I put leave.
00:21:49OK.
00:21:53Luke?
00:21:55I was in a dilemma.
00:21:58How can I say stay when I make her feel like this?
00:22:02I want you to be happy.
00:22:03This is the first and the last thing I want, you being happy.
00:22:06Perhaps I'm not good enough to make her happy.
00:22:09As painful as that is, if it's the truth, it's the truth.
00:22:16But...
00:22:18I really like her.
00:22:21I feel she's really good for me.
00:22:24So I'm willing to try everything I've got left in me
00:22:28to give you a glimpse that I can be the Luke that I need to be for you.
00:22:32And for that reason, I said I'm going to stay.
00:22:35For that reason, I said I'm going to stay.
00:22:49We know if one member of the couple writes stay,
00:22:53then the couple needs to stay.
00:22:58Amy, are you willing to stay and work on the marriage?
00:23:05Yes.
00:23:11I don't know where we can go from here, if I'm honest.
00:23:31Amy, are you willing to stay and work on the marriage?
00:23:35Yes.
00:23:42I don't know where we can go from here, if I'm honest.
00:23:55If you have anything left in you and you can prove
00:23:59that you can go a few days without lying, then that's a start.
00:24:05If it continues, then I don't want to carry on.
00:24:10That's a very fair request.
00:24:14Thank you very much.
00:24:15Well done, you two. Good work.
00:24:20For Amy writing leave, I did not see that coming.
00:24:23I feel upset, but mostly I think I feel disappointed in myself
00:24:27that I have caused this woman to want to leave our relationship.
00:24:32I'm not a quitter, so I am going to take the expert's advice on board,
00:24:36but I can't feel anything but anger towards him right now,
00:24:39and I have no idea where we're going to go from here.
00:24:46Next up on the couch...
00:24:52..Nathan and Lacey.
00:24:54CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:24:57Hi, you all right?
00:24:59Hello, guys. Welcome back.
00:25:01Thank you. It's nice to be back.
00:25:04You look like you're happy. Yeah.
00:25:06It's a good sign.
00:25:09Let's start with the homestays.
00:25:12Nathan, what was it like meeting Lacey's mum again
00:25:16after that incident when you said something negative about her cooking?
00:25:22Yeah, so she said, oh, no, don't worry about it.
00:25:26She was amazing, honestly, such a great host.
00:25:29Really good mum, really loving person.
00:25:32Honestly, couldn't have picked a better homestay.
00:25:35They loved him. Yeah.
00:25:38So it sounds like, Nathan, you're in there.
00:25:40Yeah, I mean, she's got me doing a bit of DIY around the house.
00:25:43LAUGHTER
00:25:45Oh, you're definitely in.
00:25:47Yeah, it was really good.
00:25:49And her mum helped her, giving her a load of reassurance.
00:25:52I just want to be the best partner I can be for him.
00:25:56She's an over-thinker.
00:25:58Like, for example, if I go off into a daydream,
00:26:00I can look sad, but it's just my face expression.
00:26:03She might think in her head, am I thinking about her in a negative way?
00:26:07But if I felt sad, I'd let her know.
00:26:09So if I don't, then you're sweet. Yeah.
00:26:12That needed a bit of mummer advice. Yeah.
00:26:15Lacey, you've got a good one there, you're not failing.
00:26:18You're doing a good job.
00:26:20I suppose it's about just getting to know what works for your partner.
00:26:24Because if you're not saying how you feel,
00:26:27then it does leave space for a partner to wonder, is everything OK?
00:26:32Yeah.
00:26:34Nathan, Lacey needs to hear your voice, not your silence.
00:26:39You should be thinking, how can I over-communicate?
00:26:42Cos it's never going to be too much for Lacey.
00:26:45Tell me about it. Yeah, it's never going to be too much.
00:26:48I definitely appreciate that when I wander off.
00:26:51It can be a bit of a concern and you might need me to go,
00:26:54no, it's all right. I do, but I do it more.
00:26:57I keep giving you a bit of reassurance. Yeah.
00:27:02Would you say the homestay was a good indicator
00:27:06that this could be our future? Yeah.
00:27:12I knew I had feelings for him.
00:27:16But since coming back, I've just got this rush of...
00:27:19I keep looking at him like...
00:27:23Yeah, I've got strong feelings. Yeah, let's reciprocate.
00:27:26I'm feeling you.
00:27:30I'm just wondering whether you've had an opportunity
00:27:33to speak about the distance.
00:27:35Do you know what, that's not even a worry any more.
00:27:38Because how I feel about him, I'd be stupid not to give it a go.
00:27:42And you would as well.
00:27:45Nathan just told you.
00:27:47Nathan, what are your thoughts?
00:27:49It's never really been an issue for me.
00:27:51And now seeing you with my family and how much they, like, love you...
00:27:55You get on, yeah. ..it just fits right in, you know? Yeah.
00:28:00I mean, this feels absolutely perfect.
00:28:03I suppose that confirms that actually there's something
00:28:06really growing here between the two of you.
00:28:08Yeah, yeah, it's good, yeah.
00:28:11Let's go to the decisions.
00:28:13Shall we start with you, Nathan?
00:28:17I haven't felt this way about someone before.
00:28:21Here we communicate amazingly.
00:28:24I love chatting with you.
00:28:26You're like a good best friend.
00:28:32So I put Stay.
00:28:36APPLAUSE
00:28:41Erm, so I definitely feel like my feelings for Nathan
00:28:44are getting stronger.
00:28:46You're my safe place, but my best friend, my family approve.
00:28:50And they said if we don't work out, they still want to know, yeah?
00:28:53So...
00:28:55And it is heading in the love. It's going in.
00:28:57Yeah, I feel like we're tap dancing round the love at the minute.
00:29:01So, yeah, of course I'd love to stay.
00:29:04APPLAUSE
00:29:07Well, we can't wait to see how this progresses.
00:29:11We want to wish you all the best.
00:29:13So, good luck, guys. Well done.
00:29:15Don't live your life.
00:29:17APPLAUSE
00:29:22That's lovely.
00:29:24Are you happy about that? Really happy.
00:29:26Thank you, baby.
00:29:28Thank you, baby.
00:29:35Next up on the couch we have...
00:29:39..Ross and Sasha.
00:29:41Go on, Sasha.
00:29:44You've got this.
00:29:46Hello, you two.
00:29:51Oh, God, she's going to cry already.
00:29:54Wow.
00:29:56Just got to call it straight away.
00:29:58You don't look happy, you two.
00:30:23Really?
00:30:28It is an overwhelming stage of the experiment.
00:30:31Tension has built, and we can help you with that.
00:30:36Perhaps, Sasha, why don't we start with you?
00:30:40First off, I just want to say...
00:30:43..I know that my emotional regulation is bad.
00:30:47I can be argumentative, you know I can.
00:30:49You've seen how I can be argumentative.
00:30:51How I've been with Alex, for example.
00:30:54The issue is, when Ross gets a temper...
00:30:59..how bad it is.
00:31:01He's got this attitude and this tone.
00:31:04Food gets thrown at the wall, I get called names.
00:31:08He was calling me a little fake bitch.
00:31:11The most recent time, it happened last night.
00:31:14I always thought when today, we'd probably be like,
00:31:17I can't believe I spoke to Sasha like that.
00:31:20But he didn't even speak to me.
00:31:22He doesn't even feel remorseful when he reacts the way he reacts.
00:31:26So I feel like I've got nothing to work with.
00:31:30Ross, I noticed as you're listening, you're shaking your head.
00:31:35It's not just me, OK?
00:31:37It can't be just me. I'm not flipping for no reason.
00:31:41You have a temper as well, don't you?
00:31:44Sometimes it's like the smallest thing.
00:31:46I was texting Kieran the one day once we got back in from the pub
00:31:49and he was like, what you kept texting Kieran for?
00:31:52No, I'm not, I'm not. Hang on, hang on.
00:31:54I caught an attitude. I went, well, what's the problem?
00:31:57And he picked up his food and he threw it at the wall.
00:32:00Talking about the Kieran situation,
00:32:02I did say to him, when we got back to the apartment,
00:32:04promise me we'll have the conversation before anything else.
00:32:07So as soon as we got back to the apartment,
00:32:09the first thing she did was text Kieran
00:32:11and I was waiting, sitting down.
00:32:13That's what I got pissed off about.
00:32:15And I was in the room for that.
00:32:17Is it OK? Am I allowed to do that?
00:32:19She was on the phone to me and that's what pissed me off.
00:32:24When it comes to an argument, we don't want to stop
00:32:27and the more it builds up and that's where it gets worse.
00:32:32I've had enough of it, honestly.
00:32:34Mm.
00:32:38Ross and Sasha, we've seen your fiery sides.
00:32:41In fact, that's one of the compatibility points
00:32:44for the two of you is you are both incredibly passionate,
00:32:48but it can also lead to butting heads.
00:32:50This is about the dynamic between the two of you
00:32:53and you are both contributing to it.
00:32:56What I'm talking about here is the communication
00:32:59between the two of you that goes from zero to ten, boom.
00:33:02You're both seeing red.
00:33:04The conflict is elevating and you're blaming each other.
00:33:08I'm not hearing any examples of either of you
00:33:10taking accountability for what's going on.
00:33:13So when you're in that challenging situation,
00:33:17rather than keep going, say to each other,
00:33:20we need to stop.
00:33:22Take a step back to give yourselves that time out to cool down.
00:33:27Then come back together with less emotion
00:33:31and talk through things.
00:33:33How can we work together to get what we both want?
00:33:47The idea here, guys, is to stop things
00:33:50before you get to that point.
00:33:52You also need to put some ground rules in place.
00:33:55No throwing things.
00:33:57No name-calling.
00:33:59No disrespectful behaviour at all.
00:34:02I agree with that 100%.
00:34:06Sasha, you look concerned.
00:34:11I would love that time apart just to come back
00:34:13and see each other's perspective.
00:34:15That's what I want.
00:34:17Mm-hm. Good.
00:34:20Alright, so let's dig a little bit deeper about the last week.
00:34:24I understand you recently met Ross's daughter, Blue.
00:34:29Yeah, I got really emotional seeing him with his daughter
00:34:32because she was so excited to see him
00:34:35and I knew how much it meant to him.
00:34:39Ross, how was it for you observing Sasha with Blue?
00:35:00It's clear that the two of you really do care about each other
00:35:04and you're starting to have these really important,
00:35:08powerful conversations about what's life going to look like
00:35:12after the experiment.
00:35:15And I think the fact that you guys are experiencing tension as well
00:35:18makes it extra difficult.
00:35:20I agree with that, yeah.
00:35:23Ross, is there anything you'd like to say to her right now?
00:35:30The temper situation, I just want to say I'm very sorry.
00:35:36Hopefully, whatever advice you get from us, we will learn from it
00:35:40and be happy the way we were before.
00:35:47And do you accept his apology?
00:36:00I do accept his apology, yeah.
00:36:04It's a shame that that didn't come this morning.
00:36:08I've never felt for anyone the way I feel for you.
00:36:16One of the questions you asked me on our honeymoon was,
00:36:19do you fall in love easy?
00:36:21And I said, absolutely not.
00:36:23But...
00:36:25..when I met you, you was everything that I wanted.
00:36:29So I thought...
00:36:33..the universe had, like, blessed me.
00:36:37And...
00:36:41..I really wanted to do everything I could to make you happy.
00:36:46They don't make me happy very often.
00:36:48I feel like I have bent over backwards in this process
00:36:51to do all that I can for you.
00:36:53Hey.
00:36:54And I've never done that for anyone the way I am with you.
00:36:57I've never... I've never been...
00:36:59I've never been that way.
00:37:01SHE SOBS
00:37:07I just feel like...
00:37:11..I'm so sorry.
00:37:13I just feel like...
00:37:26It's all going to be my work, no matter what.
00:37:29I just want to make this work.
00:37:31I know we can.
00:37:32Because we're both very strong.
00:37:35I am willing to make this work and I'm going to fight for it
00:37:37and I'm going to bring them back up here again
00:37:39so they can get their smile back in their face again.
00:37:42So, yeah.
00:37:45All right, well, I think we'll go to the decision for the two of you.
00:37:49Ross, we're going to start with you.
00:37:53To be honest, I couldn't wait to meet you guys.
00:37:57Right now, I do feel a lot better.
00:38:01That's what I said about willing to make this work and fight for it
00:38:05because this is what I need every day.
00:38:08I'm very sorry for what happened.
00:38:11Believe me when I say this, I'm going to make you back up here again
00:38:14and I want us to be on the right path.
00:38:17Be happy. Yeah.
00:38:19I should...
00:38:22..say it.
00:38:23CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:38:32And to you, Sasha?
00:38:36Obviously, you know how much I care about you.
00:38:42It's a lot. It's really deep.
00:38:45Because when things are good, it's...it's magical.
00:38:52But...
00:38:54..my head's just absolutely messed, to be honest.
00:38:58I definitely saw a difference, though, to Ross.
00:39:01Having a husband that has a temper is a complete no.
00:39:07Even if we do get argumentative with each other,
00:39:10I don't think that's a good enough excuse
00:39:12to be throwing your food at the wall...
00:39:16..saying I'm a fake bitch.
00:39:19And I am absolutely emotionally drained.
00:39:30I did write Leave.
00:39:32I did write Leave.
00:39:49I am absolutely emotionally drained.
00:39:54I did write Leave.
00:40:03It wasn't an easy decision at all because I couldn't decide.
00:40:08And that's why I thought I needed to leave.
00:40:15So, just to clarify,
00:40:17when one partner says stay and the other says leave,
00:40:21both partners stay for another week
00:40:23to continue to work on their relationship.
00:40:26Are you both prepared to do that?
00:40:32I'm up in jail, like I said, I'm going to make this work
00:40:35and I'm going to fight for it.
00:40:38Now that you've had this conversation with us and with Ross,
00:40:41have you changed your decision in your mind?
00:40:45Well...
00:40:51I...
00:40:56Yeah, because I want to believe that the relationship will change.
00:41:03You can do this, guys.
00:41:05Yeah, you're both on the same side here.
00:41:08Work together as a team.
00:41:11Well done, you two.
00:41:12Well done, guys.
00:41:14APPLAUSE
00:41:33I know that Ross means his apology
00:41:35and Ross sounds like he wants to fight for it,
00:41:38so I'm willing to fight for it with him.
00:41:43Because, at the end of the day, I do love Ross
00:41:46and I do want this to work.
00:41:53Next up...
00:41:56..Polly and Adam.
00:41:58Come on up.
00:41:59APPLAUSE
00:42:03Greetings to the both of you.
00:42:05How are you doing, man?
00:42:06Yeah, we're good. Well, I'm good, thank you.
00:42:08LAUGHTER
00:42:10So, let's go to partner swap.
00:42:13How did that go for both of you? Adam, let's start with you.
00:42:16Me and Amy had a right laugh, to be fair.
00:42:19Amy went to a lingerie shop to get some bits and bobs
00:42:23to kind of spice up the bedroom.
00:42:27I got edible bra for Polly and edible thong for me.
00:42:32I think you should swap.
00:42:36And I got a really nice four-piece matching set for Polly.
00:42:41I said to Adam, like, I really appreciate it,
00:42:44like, I love the fact that you've done this,
00:42:46but in my mind, it's like you've given me nothing.
00:42:49I've not been made to feel wanted or desired in that way
00:42:52in how you've bought me lingerie.
00:42:54I've bought stuff with me that I've not yet put on
00:42:57because I haven't thought we were there.
00:42:59OK. So I was like, this is great,
00:43:02but I feel like you've now gone from zero to 100.
00:43:06Polly's response wasn't what I was expecting.
00:43:08We had an argument where I said,
00:43:10I keep coming out of my comfort zone for you
00:43:12and trying to do things that you want from me,
00:43:14but it's not good enough.
00:43:16I was like, I feel like you are being a bit selfish.
00:43:20I feel like it was just because it was that
00:43:22which you know has been a topic for us consistently.
00:43:26Yeah, it was a big jump, you know what I mean?
00:43:28Probably should have been built up to.
00:43:30OK. So I did get why she felt like it.
00:43:32It was just a bit of a kick in the teeth.
00:43:35Now that you've clarified that, that makes sense.
00:43:39So now, moving into the homestays.
00:43:43So the first stop was Adam's.
00:43:46Mm-hm.
00:43:47Polly, did you feel welcomed in Adam's house?
00:43:50Yes and no, because there was clearly no room
00:43:54for my stuff anywhere.
00:43:58It was a case of I'll just sit on the end of the sofa,
00:44:00not touch anything because I don't want to fuck up your cushions.
00:44:03I didn't feel comfortable.
00:44:05I was just a knob and I apologise.
00:44:08I can't say anything else.
00:44:11OK.
00:44:12So that was definitely a step back.
00:44:15How was the rest of the time at Adam's?
00:44:18My best mum from the wedding came round.
00:44:20Polly told Rich about the massive argument we had
00:44:23about the Stephen twist situation.
00:44:26And it made me feel like Polly was saying to my friend,
00:44:29I'm acting like Stephen now because that's what she wanted.
00:44:32OK.
00:44:33And then we had a huge bust-up in front of his mate
00:44:37while he was sitting on the sofa.
00:44:39I feel like I went in more
00:44:41because he was so shitty the whole day.
00:44:45It did get sorted,
00:44:46but just not until after another bust-up the next morning.
00:44:50Resolution on the conflict.
00:44:52We're now stronger as a couple.
00:44:54Yeah.
00:44:55OK.
00:44:56We now go into Polly's homestay.
00:44:58So how'd that go?
00:44:59Amazing.
00:45:00It was so good.
00:45:01OK.
00:45:02Really good.
00:45:04I mean, clearly, Polly, family means everything to you.
00:45:07Were you able to see Adam fitting within your family?
00:45:11Oh, absolutely.
00:45:13It was just comfortable.
00:45:14Like, it was just so natural to the point
00:45:16where I forgot about him being there.
00:45:18It was easy.
00:45:19Yeah.
00:45:20Yeah, cos I was really nervous.
00:45:22But the moment I walked in,
00:45:23it made me feel, like, so comfortable,
00:45:25and, like, it was actually really nice, wasn't it?
00:45:27Wow.
00:45:28It was really nice, I'm honest.
00:45:29So, Adam, could you see, at that moment,
00:45:31actually fitting into Polly's family?
00:45:33Oh, yeah, definitely.
00:45:35This is good. This is good.
00:45:40So, overall, you think about the homestays.
00:45:42What do you believe you learn?
00:45:46That he's one very patient man.
00:45:48Very understanding of seeing how I have been throughout this
00:45:52compared to who I was at home.
00:45:54And I do need to give him a little bit more credit
00:45:57than what I have.
00:45:59The week before we went to homestays,
00:46:01I was seeing a side to Polly that I said to her,
00:46:03like, I'm not feeling it.
00:46:05You're being loud, you're swearing loads.
00:46:07It's a bit off-putting.
00:46:08And then when we went to the homestays,
00:46:10I was like, you're like a completely different person.
00:46:12You're chilled, like, you're giggling, you're smiling.
00:46:15Like, how I think she should be.
00:46:17I just don't know if it's the experiment that's making her erupt.
00:46:21OK.
00:46:22Yeah, that when we were on our homestays,
00:46:25we just gravitated towards each other even more.
00:46:29I feel like being at mine brought us closer together.
00:46:33Because he saw me like that,
00:46:35he could see this is how she is all the time.
00:46:39I felt a huge shift.
00:46:42So we have said that I need to try and bring home Polly
00:46:45back to the apartment.
00:46:47So all of my focus and energy needs to be on him.
00:46:50Your focus and energy needs to be on Adam,
00:46:53on the relationship, but also on yourself.
00:46:56Yeah.
00:46:57Adam, you've made great progress.
00:46:59And I believe you've probably delivered more in this relationship
00:47:02than you have in any previous relationship that you've been in.
00:47:05Mm-hm.
00:47:06But there's more that you need to deliver.
00:47:09And I think you have it within you clearly to do it.
00:47:12So can we go to a decision?
00:47:15Yeah.
00:47:16Adam, would you like to do the honours and go first?
00:47:20Right.
00:47:21So this last week has been interesting.
00:47:24I think seeing you at your homestays has changed a lot of things.
00:47:29It was really nice to see you in your home environment.
00:47:32And I'm excited to see what the rest of the process brings.
00:47:36So for that reason, I said stay.
00:47:39We've had, yeah, a start from, obviously, a bad week
00:47:46that then improved and we spoke about, obviously,
00:47:49what we need to do and what we're going to do.
00:47:51And, yeah, I've enjoyed it as much as I haven't,
00:47:54but I feel like we've needed that for, again, us to be where we are.
00:47:58So I have decided to stay.
00:48:03Thank you both.
00:48:04Thank you so much.
00:48:11That was so nice, wasn't it?
00:48:13Yeah.
00:48:17OK, last up on the couch...
00:48:21..Kieran and Christina.
00:48:23CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:48:26OK, last up on the couch...
00:48:29..Kieran and Christina.
00:48:31CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:48:35Hello. Hello.
00:48:36What's up, guys?
00:48:43How are the two of you getting on?
00:48:47Erm...
00:48:50It's been a really tough week.
00:48:53I just feel like I'm drained.
00:48:58I understand, Christina, that this isn't an easy situation.
00:49:01I know, of course, you've had some time away,
00:49:04but at the dinner party, you received an anonymous letter.
00:49:08Yeah.
00:49:09It seems like it brought up a lot of emotions for you.
00:49:13Oh, it was so emotional reading it.
00:49:17I knew it would because I know the guys sat down there laughing
00:49:20both as individuals and as a couple.
00:49:22Like, they root for us.
00:49:24From their perspective,
00:49:26there are things that we could still do to improve.
00:49:30And it just made me flood with emotion.
00:49:35And I just got really passionate,
00:49:37cos I thought, actually, come on!
00:49:41I just felt really passionately, like, towards Kieran.
00:49:46I think everybody can see how passionate I am.
00:49:49Everybody can see how much I care about him.
00:49:53How I admire you so much.
00:49:59And that's very courageous of you.
00:50:01Kieran, what was it like to hear Christina say
00:50:04that, actually, she wants to fight for this?
00:50:07Receiving it was really difficult,
00:50:09and I broke down when she was speaking.
00:50:13At some point, we've all been in the position of,
00:50:15put Christina in, and it's not nice doing that at all.
00:50:19And I hate seeing her upset.
00:50:23So that night was very difficult at the dinner party.
00:50:28At the same time, I'm thinking, I'm so fucking proud of you right now.
00:50:32I'm still really proud of you
00:50:34for projecting what you want and what you believe in.
00:50:38So where are you guys at right now?
00:50:41We're doing homestays separate.
00:50:45And that was because I didn't want to take Christina back to mine,
00:50:49knowing where my head's at.
00:50:53I took Mel's advice, and that was to go away and write down
00:50:57how Christina is different from me ex.
00:51:01And this is where it gets scary.
00:51:04The only difference that I could find,
00:51:07and I really thought about this,
00:51:09is that Christina is very outgoing.
00:51:15What is it that you're saying?
00:51:17I've been in this position before.
00:51:20I kind of go through my life
00:51:22just putting other people first all the time.
00:51:26I know Christina is a totally different girl, and I do.
00:51:29You are.
00:51:30But I can't help but see similarities.
00:51:34Can't get past that.
00:51:37What outlook on life is completely different.
00:51:40OK.
00:51:41And I'm not willing to live in the moment as much as Christina does.
00:51:46I believe that, yes, you should have to change yourself
00:51:49to be in a relationship in certain ways.
00:51:52But changing the core, what you believe in
00:51:54and where it is you want to be in life,
00:51:56that's not something I'm prepared to change.
00:51:58I'm not prepared to change.
00:52:00I'm not prepared to change.
00:52:02Changing the core, what you believe in
00:52:04and where it is you want to be in life,
00:52:06that's not something I'm prepared to change
00:52:08because that's who makes me, me.
00:52:14Do you feel that it gave you the space
00:52:17to think about your situation,
00:52:19getting advice from family?
00:52:21Christina?
00:52:23I just feel, like, as frustrated as I am with Kieran
00:52:27and, like, I want to bang his head against a brick wall
00:52:30and sort himself out,
00:52:32it's clear that there is still strong feelings there.
00:52:37My family, they were like,
00:52:39where's Kieran? And I was like, oh, my God, man.
00:52:43I just... Nobody saw it coming.
00:52:47Don't cry.
00:52:52I just love him as a person.
00:52:55In my vows, all I ask is to never be judged,
00:52:59to be accepted for all of me,
00:53:02to be patient with me, to listen to me,
00:53:04and I will do the same.
00:53:07And I've done that for you.
00:53:12Kieran, you talked about outlook on life.
00:53:14You can have different philosophies on life.
00:53:17You can have different views on five-year outlook
00:53:20or different views on finance.
00:53:22It can still work.
00:53:25But what will never work
00:53:28is a partner that has high emotional walls.
00:53:33When you have high emotional walls,
00:53:35you don't allow any joy into your life, man.
00:53:40The strongest act of courage
00:53:42is for you to drop them and be vulnerable.
00:53:54But I ask myself the question...
00:53:58..can I see myself and Christina being together in ten years' time?
00:54:18But I ask myself the question...
00:54:21..can I see myself and Christina being together in ten years' time?
00:54:30Yeah, but who does that?
00:54:32Well, we're in a marriage, like, that's why I'm here.
00:54:34You're not guaranteed to be here ten years from now.
00:54:38The focus is on enjoying every moment that you have together.
00:54:45Tomorrow is not promised, but today is.
00:54:49I just don't want to see you lose someone who is phenomenal for you.
00:55:01I just don't know how much I've got left in us
00:55:04for the amount of emotional support Christina needs.
00:55:09OK.
00:55:10That's a big deal to me.
00:55:12If you're talking about not having the capacity for that,
00:55:15if you're talking about not having the capacity for emotional support,
00:55:19that's something different.
00:55:22I have got better.
00:55:24Yeah, yeah, totally, you have.
00:55:26Even the PMDD, from when that first happened to now,
00:55:30it's the last time you had it, I was like, has it even been?
00:55:34It's here now.
00:55:35Is it? Is it? Is it really?
00:55:37Yeah. Well done, you.
00:55:39Well done.
00:55:42As a couple, look how you've managed that.
00:55:45Yeah.
00:55:47I understand I do manage it, but it's just...
00:55:53I'm a lot, I know I am.
00:55:55I just want to be loved, that's all it is.
00:55:58Oh, yeah. I just want to be loved.
00:56:01And all I just keep thinking about is just that wedding day.
00:56:05Like, that is just what kills me.
00:56:09It kills me...
00:56:14..to go from that wedding to then how we are now.
00:56:19Every time I look at the wedding pictures, I literally say to him,
00:56:23I want that man back.
00:56:26I want my husband back.
00:56:29I want the guy that I met at the aisle with,
00:56:31with those fucking goofy teeth, back.
00:56:35HE SIGHS
00:56:44It's late, Christine, I see us at the wedding.
00:56:47I literally walked over to my dad and I went,
00:56:49just everything I asked for.
00:56:53I care about you a lot. Mm.
00:56:55I care about you a lot.
00:56:59The two of you have been on quite a journey
00:57:01over the last few weeks and you've both tried to be very respectful
00:57:05and be very honest with one another.
00:57:10Should we go to the decisions?
00:57:24I know I'm not going to meet another girl like you.
00:57:31You're a fucking superstar.
00:57:35And I'm really sorry to put you in this position, Christina.
00:57:38It was never my intention. I always think the world of you.
00:57:45I just know that...
00:57:49..I kind of give you the best version of me.
00:57:52And for that reason, I thought, leave.
00:57:54OK. Thank you, Kieran.
00:58:02Christina?
00:58:06I feel I put in 110% effort from day one.
00:58:15I feel I put in 110% effort from day one.
00:58:21I can't just turn my feelings off overnight. Kieran knows that.
00:58:28I have been so patient and so understanding, so respectful.
00:58:34The ball's been in his court for ages.
00:58:42So...
00:58:47I'm going to leave.
00:58:49OK.
00:58:56Wow. You've both written leave,
00:58:58so, of course, this is the end of the experiment for the two of you.
00:59:05I promised myself that I wouldn't cry, so I'm not going to.
00:59:10It has been such a joy to be on this journey with you.
00:59:15The effort that you've put in has been amazing.
00:59:18I genuinely, genuinely wish you both the very best.
00:59:24And I hope that the two of you stay friends.
00:59:26Oh, absolutely.
00:59:31I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart
00:59:34for giving this your all.
00:59:37And I just genuinely wish you the best for the future.
00:59:40Don't change for anyone.
00:59:43Thank you for the most magical, amazing day of my life at our wedding.
00:59:50I'm gutted, but I do only wish you the best.
00:59:54You'll be in my life, don't worry.
00:59:59Thank you, guys. Thank you so much. Thank you very much, guys.
01:00:02Thank you, guys.
01:00:12I'm going to miss you so much.
01:00:15I literally gave Kieran my all and everything.
01:00:22I took this experiment so seriously,
01:00:25I genuinely thought I was going to have a husband at the end of this.
01:00:30How can I go from being your perfect match,
01:00:34the girl of your dreams, everything, to then nothing?
01:00:38Thank you so much. Thank you for everything, too.
01:00:41The end goal was to fall in love.
01:00:43Find me a forever person.
01:00:46It hasn't happened.
01:00:48Of course I wish that things did turn out differently.
01:00:52But I have got a friend for life.
01:00:54I love Christina a bit.
01:00:57And I'll always be there for her.
01:01:01I am hopeful that I am going to find this everlasting love
01:01:05with the right person.
01:01:07I'm a lot stronger than I think,
01:01:09and I know what I deserve
01:01:12and what I want from my next partner.
01:01:20Next time...
01:01:22I definitely should have had that sandwich before going here.
01:01:24..the couples head off for final dates.
01:01:26It kind of suits you, driving this.
01:01:28As Ross attempts to win Sasha over...
01:01:31It felt right to leave.
01:01:33I'm going to try and make you happy again.
01:01:36..for Polly and Adam...
01:01:38To us and to the future.
01:01:40..marital bliss is short-lived.
01:01:42I feel like you're not giving me what I want.
01:01:44Why would you sit there and go, I care about you?
01:01:46That's what you do. That's not what I do.
01:01:48The old Polly is slowly creeping back.
01:01:50But it's Luke falling back into old habits...
01:01:53That's actually really sexy, I'm not going to lie.
01:01:55Behave.
01:01:57This is a cooking class, not a porno.
01:01:59I've given Luke chance after chance.
01:02:01..and lack of honesty...
01:02:03Can you tell me how many relationships you've had?
01:02:06..leaves Amy to despair.
01:02:08Even that number's probably inaccurate.
01:02:10What the fuck? Absolutely bollocks.