Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 20
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00:00So, I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here.
00:03Previously...
00:04She said to also not hold my hand, let's make him jealous.
00:07She's been super flirty with you.
00:08She's trying it on with all the other guys.
00:10It's not a swingers club.
00:12Rumours at the retreat put Hannah in the firing line.
00:15It looks f***ing shady.
00:16I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me
00:19what they don't like about me.
00:20No, I'm going to tell you.
00:21Oh, I'm not f***ing...
00:22You're speaking to me like shit.
00:24She's going about things like a dickhead.
00:25While a candid confession...
00:27Stick with your current partner or twist...
00:30Twist...
00:31Steven.
00:32..threw Polly's marriage into turmoil.
00:35The fact that you've gone, I'll switch to Steven,
00:37is muggy as f***.
00:38I'm getting better every week and you're still not f***ing happy.
00:43It's just shit.
00:44I don't want to lose him.
00:46F***.
00:49Tonight...
00:50I'm waking up by myself.
00:52I haven't got a wife.
00:53There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Dawson.
00:56As two marriages hit breaking point...
00:59She tries to talk to me at the dinner party.
01:00I'm just going to ignore her.
01:02..eyes begin to wander.
01:03I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
01:06I definitely could let my hair down tonight.
01:10So you find Sian unattractive?
01:11Oh, she's my type.
01:13Steven said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
01:15I'm going to shoot myself.
01:17Leading to a clash of husbands.
01:19If I wasn't here, I'd crack on with her.
01:21Muppet.
01:23F*** me.
01:24This wasn't part of the plan.
01:25And Adam's hurt feelings.
01:27I'm sorry. I'm f***ing sorry, Adam.
01:29There you go.
01:30It's a fake sorry.
01:32Like, don't cut it.
01:33Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly.
01:35The stuff that he's said about me...
01:38..is f***ing hurtful.
01:51You do look very handsome today, must say.
01:54Thank you, darling.
01:55Don't you worry, I'll be looking handsome as well
01:57when I get all dressed up.
02:00The couples are waking up to their final day at the retreat.
02:07What are you making?
02:08Coffee.
02:09I need one.
02:10Knackered.
02:16Oh, dear, Kasper.
02:18Funny.
02:19I got my way, I got my wicked way.
02:21You got a snug?
02:23Yes.
02:25I'm going with a yes to that.
02:27Yeah.
02:29There was mood lighting around the fireplace,
02:32a carafe of red on the side.
02:35I'd removed the pillows between us to snuggle on in,
02:38and then I finally said,
02:40close your eyes, Kasper.
02:43Oh, dear.
02:45People are going to be very excited for us.
02:48Oh, dear.
02:51Emma and I have been getting on really, really, really well.
02:53We got a little bit tipsy last night.
02:55I gave in after a few glasses of wine.
02:58It was a good kiss.
03:02You're getting your hair cut today.
03:03I'm getting my hair cut today.
03:05Finally, let him loose.
03:14I have not seen Rochelle for the whole of this retreat.
03:18I'm waking up in my bed by myself, you know,
03:20I haven't got a wife.
03:24I can't see no way back from my marriage.
03:28I don't see any point in us staying together
03:30while on this retreat.
03:32After a dispute over the previous commitment ceremony.
03:35You sat on the couch and you said that how,
03:37when I said about not being mentally stimulated,
03:40you said that caused you distress.
03:42We had ample opportunities to talk about it in private.
03:44You never mentioned that to me.
03:45It's fine for you to say you bore me.
03:48It's fine for you to say you don't mentally stimulate me.
03:51But you could have addressed it,
03:52but you could have addressed it at the time.
03:54It's fine for you to have arguments and then just walk out.
03:56Is it fine for you to lie?
04:00Let me just say... As much as you have.
04:01Let me just say this.
04:03What about your lies?
04:04I'm not going to actually sit here and talk to you.
04:06Let's talk about your lies, Orson.
04:07I don't want to be in the same space as you.
04:08You don't like asking certain questions?
04:10You're a little liar.
04:11You're a fraud.
04:12Rochelle and Orson decided to spend
04:14the rest of the retreat apart.
04:17I am done.
04:19It's good to be in this setting alone.
04:22There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
04:26That's the reality of it.
04:28I don't have any intention of going into the dinner party
04:30with him tonight.
04:36Good morning.
04:37Good morning, honey, all right?
04:38Did you sleep well?
04:40Erm, not really.
04:41Give us a spud.
04:42Yes.
04:43I'm tired today.
04:44I just feel like every day I'm walking into a lion's den
04:46and I'm just attacked, and then I have to, like, get over it,
04:49and then it's just like, whoa, it's a lot.
04:53On Girls' Day yesterday, I felt completely ambushed
04:56and it was horrible.
04:57I'm kind of getting a bit bored of having to justify
04:59every single thing I do and say.
05:01I feel like you cope with it very well.
05:03Do you think you'll be walking into the dinner party separate?
05:06100%.
05:08Waking up this morning, I feel like I've had a really shit week.
05:12I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:14and even my husband's gone.
05:15I feel a bit drained of the whole thing,
05:17and even my husband's pied me off.
05:19But I came on this retreat, like, for this marriage, so I'm still here.
05:23We were actually matched really, really, really well,
05:26and I've never felt the connection that me and him felt instantly
05:29in a long time.
05:30Like, I've not felt that with someone in a long time.
05:32I would love to get through to Stephen and just say,
05:35what do you want from me?
05:36Like, what do you want me to do?
05:40How's things going?
05:42Could be better.
05:43Are you looking forward to sitting next to Hannah tonight?
05:47I won't talk to her.
05:49I'm so out of it.
05:50There's no words left to be said, in my opinion.
05:52Last week, I went into the commitment ceremony
05:54with the attitude of, I'll give it a go.
05:58I don't think I'm the person she needs.
06:00The next set I have with Hannah will be in front of the experts.
06:04If she tries to talk to me at the dinner party,
06:06I'm just going to ignore her.
06:08If she tries arguing, she'll be arguing with herself.
06:10I'm just not here for it anymore.
06:11I've got no energy left for her.
06:13I seen Shannon on her own last night.
06:17She was with her suitcase going to her new apartment.
06:19Something must have been brewing for her to just end up in a room on her own.
06:23I saw Ryan last night, quite late,
06:25and Ryan was just like, oh, yeah, I'm just getting to bed now.
06:29Shannon is my type outside of here.
06:31Like, completely, yeah.
06:32Tat and... Everything. Right.
06:34Even without a tat, it's just the face.
06:36She might be single now, bro.
06:38No, no.
06:44Ryan and I had our first little fall-out last night.
06:47He kind of thought I was hiding things from the girls' day.
06:50So we just decided it was best to spend the night apart.
06:55I feel like the argument was totally blown out of proportion.
06:58Like, it was just minor things.
07:00I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
07:02Like, I've not done anything wrong.
07:08Last night, Shannon came in, climbed on bed.
07:11She was like, so, what questions did you lads get asked?
07:14So I said, what questions did the girls get asked?
07:17She's like, oh, I can't remember now.
07:19And they sat the other blah, blah, blah, just, like, tried to bat it off.
07:22So I said, I'm not going to answer what's been said.
07:25What's been said to have used, like...
07:26Lacey came in, she was like, hi, Ryan, you all right?
07:29Shannon gets up, she goes, no, we're not all right, and walks out.
07:33She's stalled elsewhere last night.
07:34I don't even know where she is.
07:36Hopefully, you sorted it today, like, the dinner party.
07:38We'll see, we'll see.
07:41I'm feeling calm just going to the dinner party.
07:43I didn't really want to go in on my own, because I knew it was nothing.
07:47But, yeah, we need to work on communication.
07:49I'm not here for no other woman.
07:57I really needed this.
07:58But the wife's happy, you've got free reign, just go mad.
08:01Do whatever you think's going to make me look good, mate.
08:03I think I like the idea as well that we haven't got a mirror,
08:06so you can't see what I'm doing.
08:08You can't see what I'm doing. I could be doing anything.
08:11How are you?
08:12Erm...
08:13Yeah, well, when I got back to my lodge last night with Alex,
08:17I found out that Holly had said she'd switch to Stephen.
08:21That's got to hurt.
08:22Yeah, it was a bit of a kick in the teeth.
08:24Her reasons behind it was,
08:26is because Stephen's in touch with his emotional side,
08:28he talks about his feelings and he's very open.
08:30Yeah.
08:32But I've just said to her, like, I think it's disrespectful
08:34and I feel like you've kind of mugged me off in front of everyone.
08:38I got really pissed off and I walked out.
08:40I'm a little bit nervous going into the dinner party today.
08:43Me and Polly haven't really spoken this morning,
08:46so God knows what's going to happen.
08:52Good morning.
08:54You OK? Yeah.
08:56Waking up this morning, I still feel really upset
08:58because things between me and Adam still haven't been resolved.
09:02Adam left this morning, there was no kind of,
09:05like, there was no reassurance from him.
09:08I woke up really early,
09:10give him a spoon, give him a kiss on the back,
09:12but then not got anything.
09:15Yes, I shouldn't have said twist straight away.
09:20I should have said stick.
09:21However, there are tendencies in Stephen that I want from Adam.
09:26That was it.
09:28Adam has said a lot of stuff that I've had to take on the chin.
09:30He says things sometimes, in the moment,
09:32that he doesn't necessarily mean,
09:34and then he has to explain himself.
09:35I've done exactly the same as he's done,
09:37and I got what I got, which is really unfair.
09:41What on earth makes him think that that's acceptable?
09:44I agree. I don't deserve that.
09:46I do not deserve to go in there tonight to be made feel like shit.
09:50Woe betide Adam. I'm bored of it.
09:53Here we are, guys, the fourth dinner party,
09:55and, of course, this time,
09:57all our couples are away on their luxury retreat.
10:00It's a very different environment, of course,
10:02because it's much more relaxed for our couples.
10:04Hopefully, they can let their guards down a little bit
10:06and really deepen those connections.
10:08And recently, we've had three new couples join the group.
10:11It'll be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:14I'm going to be the first one to go,
10:15and I'm going to be the second one to go.
10:17I'm going to be the third one to go.
10:19I'm going to be the fourth one to go.
10:20Let's see how they've been integrating.
10:26Oh, it's looking fabulous.
10:28Isn't it? Should we grab a drink?
10:29Emma and Kasper.
10:31And Kasper's hat.
10:32What's going on there?
10:33Hopefully, he's going to reveal something fabulous.
10:35Yeah, let's hope.
10:37Whoops.
10:38Last time we saw this couple, Kasper said leave,
10:41and we really asked Emma to lean into that more vulnerable,
10:44fragile side, because that was really what Kasper was wanting to see.
10:48I wonder if she's done that.
10:50Do you want to see it?
10:51Oh, yes.
10:52Yeah, let's see the hair.
10:54Whip it off.
10:54Oh, fabulous.
10:59Wow, a different looking Casper.
11:01Woo.
11:02I like it.
11:03I really like it.
11:04He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:05He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:06No, no, no.
11:07Not at all.
11:08To a new Casper.
11:13Oh, yes, it is one of our beautiful friends.
11:16Hello, gorgeous people.
11:18Oh, look at his short fucking sides.
11:20Hello.
11:21You look amazing.
11:22Hello, hello, hello.
11:24We've got some bubbles open.
11:25Here you are, darling.
11:26Coast us with the meal stacks.
11:28Thank you so much.
11:29Cheers, Casper.
11:30Cheers.
11:31Do you want to sit girls together?
11:33Yeah, yeah.
11:35How are you feeling about Casper's new haircut?
11:37I really like it.
11:38I think it's way more subtle than I thought it would be.
11:41Have you planned a vacation?
11:43We did have a snog last night.
11:45I did plan a kiss.
11:45I said I was going to, didn't I?
11:48Oh, wow.
11:50This is real progress from the last commitment ceremony.
11:53Casper was saying leave, and now they're snogging.
11:56That's a good start.
11:57That's a good start.
11:59Once you break the ice, now it becomes a bit more
12:01or less of an awkward thing.
12:02Because once you've opened the fridge,
12:03you might as well put your hand in and grab something.
12:08Have you heard about any sort of what's
12:10going on with the couples?
12:11The guys around, I think it was Alex, Adam, and Orson.
12:16Alex asked, did Polly say twist?
12:19Like, is this true?
12:20And I was like, yeah.
12:21I had Adam round to mine this morning to cut my hair,
12:24and he's really disappointed with Polly.
12:26Is he gutted?
12:26He was surprised, you know, because he said, stick.
12:30Well, that's quite a shock, because Polly and Adam
12:33have been getting on so well.
12:34So I wonder what's going on there.
12:41Oh, there they are.
12:44And here come Polly and Adam, walking in together.
12:48So this is quite a surprise, because we know
12:50that something has happened.
12:51Looking fire once again.
12:53Thank you, my love.
12:55And it looks like Adam doesn't want to be there.
12:58How are we, Casper?
13:00Gorgeous girl.
13:01Hello.
13:01How are you?
13:02You OK?
13:03Good, you?
13:04Good.
13:05Me and Polly are going into the mixer together.
13:07I think she just wanted to lean calm, so I just let her do it.
13:10But I'm still pissed off, and I don't want to speak to her yet.
13:15Our verdue is getting a little bit...
13:19Cheers.
13:21But do you not sometimes look at her?
13:22She's a gorgeous woman.
13:24Look at her.
13:24She's just nice.
13:26Touching her a week ago was like, no fucking way.
13:29And now she's like, let's jump into bed together.
13:31And I'm like, whoa.
13:32It's like from here to there.
13:34Yeah.
13:35And the more she pushes like this,
13:36the more I'm going to withdraw.
13:37It's trying to find that balance.
13:39These two clearly feel very differently about intimacy.
13:43Casper feels awkward about it all.
13:45And we know he's a guy with high privacy settings.
13:48But Emma feels that the floodgates have opened.
13:50She needs to be careful not to push too hard.
13:52Otherwise, she might well push him away.
13:58We had that big argument last night when everyone left.
14:01It's not that deep, is it?
14:02It's not.
14:03It isn't, and I feel like it's just bruised his ego a little bit.
14:06And I feel like if that's what it needed to take to get you to admit
14:08that you don't need it more than you're letting on,
14:10then fucking show me that.
14:12He hasn't spoke to me all day.
14:15He said that he wants space and that he wants to sort his head out.
14:18I've respected that.
14:19He was like, I've never got so angry.
14:20This has never happened in a relationship before.
14:22And I thought, what, because I haven't had a fucking backbone?
14:24Sorry, are you forgetting some of the shit that you said about me
14:26on the couch in front of all of our friends
14:28that you don't think has embarrassed me?
14:30Fuck off.
14:32Fuck off.
14:35Interestingly, over the last few weeks,
14:38Polly has tried different tactics to get Adam to see her
14:42and to be attracted to her.
14:43And I do wonder whether this is like another tactic
14:47so that Adam can be a bit jealous.
14:48And if that's the case,
14:50that is the worst way to get your partner's attention.
14:54Still pissed off, to be fair.
14:55If someone said someone's good-looking...
14:58Yeah, I don't care. So what? Yeah, so what?
15:00But it's the idea of switching that's such a big thing.
15:04You've said this, you're lying, you're trying to get out of it,
15:07you're trying to turn it on me.
15:09It's like, just own it.
15:11At the last commitment ceremony,
15:12Adam gave permission for Polly to cheat.
15:15And here he is, upset,
15:17because she has now said, I want a twist.
15:19I suspect here Polly is wanting to punish Adam
15:23for some of the nasty things that he's said to her.
15:26But as we know, two wrongs don't make a right.
15:28This couple are in danger of slipping into that
15:31point-scoring dynamic, and no-one's going to win.
15:37Oh, wow, Orson's alone.
15:47So, where is Rochelle? Have you seen her? I'm guessing not.
15:50The last time I saw Rochelle is the day when we got here.
15:56I've been compromising, compromising.
16:00I'm doing, I'm doing, nothing's coming back.
16:02You're not even opening up to me emotionally,
16:05so I could maybe help you.
16:07Nobody live with us, so nobody knows
16:09what I have to deal with on a daily basis.
16:12Like, I've really tried. I genuinely tried.
16:18At the last commitment ceremony,
16:20Orson and Rochelle both said stay.
16:23I do wonder if some of Rochelle's feedback
16:25about him not being good enough for her
16:28has really played a part in him walking in today by himself.
16:34Ah, there's the team.
16:36Hello. Hello.
16:38Hi. Hi, guys.
16:40Oh, my God, look at you beautiful guys.
16:43Here in a Christina. All smiles, high energy.
16:46Here we are, the party can start.
16:50How was boys' day? Mint. Was it?
16:52Bill said you were the funnier. Yeah, yeah.
16:55I think I said I'd avoid you as a husband,
16:57cos I think your energy is too much for me.
17:00Are you fucking joking? Me?
17:03I think you're too optimistic.
17:10Hello. Oh, hey!
17:13Hello, you there. Oh, I love your hair.
17:15Thank you, darling. How are you? You look really well.
17:18Are you closed, Ruth?
17:20Listen, listen, Mambo.
17:22Here she is. Hiya.
17:24And Mademoiselle. Aw, look at you.
17:26Has anyone else had an argument over them questions?
17:28I don't know, but I know Shannon and Ryan
17:31spent the night apart last night. Really?
17:33Yeah. Why? Don't know.
17:37That's a big change.
17:39I mean, we need to understand what's happened
17:41between the last commitment ceremony and today.
17:43Hopefully, it's not too serious.
17:46Amy.
17:48Why did Shannon and Ryan spend the night apart last night?
17:50Do you know?
17:52Shannon and Ryan did, though? Yeah.
17:54Don't lie. No, they did.
17:58Hiya.
18:01You're looking amazing. Thanks, babe.
18:03You look gorgeous. Hello, my darling.
18:05You look so nice.
18:07Why did she invite herself?
18:09I don't know.
18:11Apparently, she stopped on her own last night.
18:13She looks upset.
18:15Are you OK, first of all? Yeah, I'm OK.
18:17Like, Ryan was asking questions about girls, then.
18:19And he thought that I was hiding stuff from him.
18:21And then Lacey came in, and I said,
18:23I was all right, and I was like, no.
18:25And that just totally set him off.
18:31Hello.
18:33I'm walking in.
18:35I feel pretty nervous.
18:37I don't really know who's mad at me,
18:39so I don't know really what I'm walking into.
18:41Hello, Sunshine State.
18:43You all right?
18:45What were the cats dragged in?
18:47Oh, no, you didn't.
18:49Yeah, that wasn't very kind, Holly.
18:51I'm not even getting up.
18:53I'm not even acknowledging who's just walked in.
18:55So it sounds like Holly and Hannah
18:57have had a bit of a run-in.
18:59It makes you wonder what Hannah actually did
19:01to make Holly and Polly so angry.
19:03Smuggy.
19:05You OK?
19:07You all right?
19:11Hello.
19:13You OK? Are you saying hi? No?
19:15No, not really.
19:17You OK? Yeah.
19:23Polly.
19:25Why? Just say hello.
19:27Why the fuck should I say hello?
19:29Fuck her.
19:31Fuck her.
19:33You've rubbed me
19:35the fucking wrong way now.
19:41Here he is.
19:43Hello.
19:45Hello.
19:47Oh, he looks really smart.
19:49You all right?
19:51Stephen's walked in.
19:53He actually annoyingly looks quite fit.
19:55Thank you so much.
19:57Yeah, you.
19:59Hopefully we can both enjoy the dinner party
20:01as a couple.
20:03Hello, darling.
20:05How are you?
20:07You actually not going to say hi to me?
20:09No, I'm done talking to you.
20:11Jesus Christ,
20:13that was fucking frosty.
20:17No matter what she has done,
20:19at least a hello.
20:21At least an acknowledgement.
20:23You all right?
20:25Yeah, you.
20:27Why don't you say hello?
20:29Why don't you say hello?
20:41Hello, darling.
20:43How are you?
20:45You actually not going to say hi to me?
20:47No, I'm done talking to you.
20:49Jesus Christ,
20:52that was fucking frosty.
20:56No matter what she has done,
20:58at least a hello.
21:00At least an acknowledgement.
21:02Yeah, it's disrespectful.
21:04Why don't you say hello?
21:12When we saw Hannah and Stephen
21:14at the commitment ceremony,
21:16things were rocky.
21:18Stephen felt betrayed by Hannah
21:20and Hannah was trying really hard
21:22to prove to him,
21:24I'm not like that.
21:26He's not able to get past that.
21:28She's a fucking idiot.
21:30Who?
21:32Hannah.
21:34I don't even want to breathe
21:36in your direction.
21:38I wouldn't even piss on you
21:40if you was on fire.
21:42Go away.
21:44The thing that really annoys me
21:46is the fact that she actually
21:48I mean in many ways
21:50this is classic deflection
21:52isn't it, on Polly's part.
21:54Things are not going well
21:56between her and Adam
21:58so she's shifting the focus
22:00onto another person.
22:02Why are you looking at me like that?
22:04I really like you today.
22:06She likes me everyday.
22:08No, you look really good.
22:10So do you.
22:12I like this.
22:14Here's her cute hair.
22:16No, we are good at the minute aren't we?
22:18Yeah, we're good man.
22:20These arguments that happen, as long as you're both
22:22willing to stay and fight for what you've got
22:24you'll always come back stronger
22:26because every time me and Harley
22:28butt heads, when we resolve it
22:30I learn something about her.
22:32We've come such a long way
22:34and you will hit so many obstacles
22:36but it's how you deal with them
22:38and how you come back together
22:40is what will make you progress.
22:42They sound like they know what they're talking about.
22:44Adam has been listening to us
22:46so this is progress.
22:53Is Ryan coming today?
22:55She moved out last night
22:57and I said, is it done?
22:59And she's like, we'll see if he turns up.
23:01So if he turns up, it's not done?
23:03Better be quick.
23:11This is awful news
23:14for Ryan and Shannon.
23:16It is, it's sad.
23:18Would you pull off our track now, if he don't turn up?
23:22Gotta be fast bro.
23:26It's an easy question.
23:28Only if I knew he wasn't turning up full stop.
23:30I think you take time, take deep breaths
23:32and see what happens.
23:40So this here is a definition of cut and run
23:42I don't know what he's playing at
23:44he's new to the experiment
23:46they've come up against one hurdle
23:48and he's already thinking about looking
23:50outside of his own relationship.
23:52Holly!
23:56Hello.
23:58Need to find out
24:00the crack between those two.
24:02Do you need to?
24:04Basically
24:06Ryan doesn't believe she had his back
24:08on girls day.
24:10So is he coming today?
24:12She's been here a while.
24:16If he doesn't come in
24:18would she stay with Steven?
24:20Who?
24:24What did he say?
24:26If he doesn't come in would he stay with Steven?
24:28Wow.
24:30If he doesn't turn up.
24:32You find Shannon attractive?
24:34Oh, she's my type.
24:36Let's take this straight up.
24:38Do something to help me.
24:40Okay.
24:44Here they are.
24:46Hello!
24:48Oh yeah, it's Posh and Beck.
24:50Hello.
24:52How are you?
24:56Shannon, I need to talk to you.
25:02This is something that needs to be a bit DL.
25:04Okay.
25:06You look beautiful.
25:08Oh god, Sian.
25:12Okay, so basically you've just seen
25:14that Steven called me over.
25:16He said, what's going on with Shannon and Ryan?
25:18Do you think they're done?
25:20And I said, I don't think they are.
25:22And he said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight
25:24I'm going to shoot my shot.
25:26Because she's just my type.
25:28He went, so does that mean Shannon
25:30will be staying with Steven?
25:32No!
25:35No, no.
25:37I just wanted to give you the heads up, though.
25:39He's not my type.
25:41I don't want anyone else but Ryan here.
25:43I know you don't.
25:45I literally don't want anyone else.
25:51Hello!
25:53Hello, guys!
25:55How are you, mate?
25:57You good?
25:59Yeah, you?
26:01Oh, it's my girls!
26:03I'm so ready.
26:07Here he is, talking to devil.
26:09Here's Ryan now.
26:18Awkward.
26:24Steven looks disappointed.
26:26Well, Steven looks a bit uncomfortable.
26:28Fuck me.
26:30This wasn't part of the plan.
26:34It's Ryan!
26:46Awkward.
26:54Steven looks disappointed.
26:56Well, Steven looks a bit uncomfortable.
27:02Fuck me.
27:04This wasn't part of the plan.
27:06It's Ryan!
27:12Awkward.
27:14Awkward.
27:16Awkward.
27:18Awkward.
27:20Awkward.
27:22Awkward.
27:24I was with Holly
27:26essentially redesigning what he said
27:28because, of course, he didn't say it respectfully.
27:30Come here, my G.
27:40You alright?
27:44I missed you.
27:46I missed you, too.
27:48I'm so glad
27:50I finally got my back hug off of Ryan.
27:53I knew I would be fine.
28:01I love this, guys!
28:07It's nice to hear both Ryan and Shannon
28:09saying they've missed each other.
28:11Hopefully, this is just a blip for the two of them.
28:13But what does this mean for Steven?
28:15Three, two, one.
28:19Double parts, mate.
28:21Double parts.
28:23You alright?
28:25I'm good, and you?
28:27I'm chilled now, mate.
28:36How are you?
28:38I'm alright.
28:42So...
28:44You know what, Hannah?
28:48I gravitate to you.
28:50I like you.
28:52You're no-nonsense chick.
28:54She says what she feels for Harry.
28:56These are all the personalities I asked for
28:58when I wanted my wife, you know?
29:00I like that about you.
29:02No, no, no.
29:04Haven't seen her.
29:10What's Orson really saying here?
29:12Sounds a lot to me like
29:14you're the wife I wish I had.
29:16Listen, I've got 24 hours
29:18to enjoy myself.
29:20I like Hannah.
29:22I definitely could let my hair down tonight
29:24knowing that Michelle's not here.
29:26The boy band look is a look.
29:28It is serving.
29:30What is it serving?
29:32Fresh out of Backstreet Boys.
29:34Is there a black guy in Backstreet Boys?
29:36There fucking is now.
29:38Ultimately, I suppose
29:40of Orson and Hannah, both of them
29:42have been rejected by their partners
29:44so they're looking to each other for the affection
29:46and affirmation they're not getting
29:48in their own marriages.
29:50Although, it sounds like Orson might want to take it
29:52a little bit further.
29:56FYI,
29:58I'm...
30:00I'm going to explain to Ryan
30:02when I can get him on his own
30:04about the Shannon thing.
30:06Just so...
30:09I respect... I don't want him to get out of proportion
30:11for what it is. You know what I mean?
30:13I'm just going to grab him now.
30:21Can I have a quick chat with you?
30:23Well, here we go.
30:25Phase two of damage control.
30:27This is fear.
30:29Deer in the headlights.
30:35You good?
30:37You sat with Stephen?
30:39No.
30:41Oh, I'm fucking telling him I've exed.
30:47So, I'm putting it out with you now
30:49while we're in here.
30:51I lost and I was told
30:53everyone said,
30:55Shannon came on and Ryan never came back in.
30:57Well, I was like,
30:59I said she was a sexist, of course.
31:01I was like, I'm not going to make it a thing.
31:03If Ryan walks in, especially,
31:05and we walked in,
31:07but everyone's spoken about it.
31:09But that's all it was.
31:15I'm not that guy.
31:17I didn't want to make it into a big thing.
31:19I didn't want it to come across disrespectful
31:21that I'd done it behind your back.
31:23It looks like Ryan sees
31:25right through Stephen.
31:27I think the fact that Stephen is
31:29rewriting history, he knows
31:31what he said before was wrong.
31:33Holly's spoken to her, the fucking whispers go around,
31:35but I'm not the type.
31:37Stephen's definitely broke all cold.
31:39He's here for the wrong reasons.
31:41I've got nothing to say to him.
31:55Oh, man.
31:57Oh, you're going to get two up there.
31:59Shall we swap?
32:01Kasper and Emma!
32:03This is fun!
32:13Wow.
32:15You can still see the tension between Polly and Adam.
32:17They're still not talking to each other.
32:24You two have got some fucking faces on you, man.
32:26You can't sit there like that all night.
32:28Come on, man.
32:31It's his time and his space.
32:33It's not done for me to go to him.
32:35I've done enough.
32:37You say you've done enough, but you haven't tried to speak to me today.
32:39You haven't spoken to me.
32:41Why would I initiate a conversation with you?
32:43I think with Polly and Adam,
32:45we find that they find themselves
32:47in these types of conflicting situations
32:49and they can't seem to get their way out of it.
32:51They both want to be heard,
32:53but they're both not listening to one another.
32:57I've said one thing.
32:59What you've said in the past has hurt me.
33:01That makes it OK, does it?
33:03What do you mean, does it not make it OK?
33:05There's been a lot of things that you've said
33:07that you shouldn't have said.
33:09Yeah, I know, but mine was just wording it wrong.
33:11You didn't word this wrong.
33:13I said I want the qualities Stephen has in you.
33:15You said twist.
33:17Listen, I've said that I was sorry.
33:19I said that I fucking worded it in a wrong way.
33:21What else do you want me to say apart from I'm sorry
33:23I should have worded it differently?
33:25I don't know, but do you expect me to just be like,
33:27OK, cool, after you said the minimum attraction there.
33:29I thought it was over that, but let's keep bringing that up.
33:31We're not over it, though.
33:33This is why we're going in circles.
33:35In a nutshell, this is what you're doing.
33:37I shouldn't have said that, I worded it wrong,
33:39but you did this and you did that.
33:41Childish, man.
33:43I have to say Adam has a point here.
33:45Polly knows she needs to apologise,
33:47so she does so,
33:49but then backs it up with
33:51but, but, but, but, but.
33:53Yeah, an apology is worthless
33:55unless it is done
33:57in the proper manner.
33:59The fact that you're turning this on me is a fucking joke.
34:01I'm turning it on you?
34:03You are turning it on me because I've said sorry,
34:05I've apologised, I've owned it.
34:07I'm sorry, I'm fucking sorry, Adam.
34:09There you go.
34:25Right now, my worry is
34:27Polly's going to speak to Ryan
34:29about what I said about Shannon,
34:31and I'm worried it's just going to escalate
34:33into something it doesn't need to be,
34:35it doesn't need to happen.
34:37Ryan, do you want to chat?
34:41I'll walk round.
34:43Right, guys.
34:47So, I will tell you what
34:49they've said to me tonight.
34:51So, Stephen said,
34:53what's the crack going for Aileen and Shannon?
34:55Because she's coming on her own.
34:57And I said, I just know that they had an argument
34:59last night.
35:01So I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
35:03I think they'll get back together.
35:05And I said, what's the crack going for Aileen and Shannon?
35:07Because she's coming on her own.
35:09And I said, I just know that they had an argument
35:11last night.
35:13So I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
35:15I think they're going to be absolutely fine.
35:17He said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
35:19I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
35:21Fuck me.
35:23He's lied to me tonight,
35:25and I don't respect that.
35:27Did he word it like that to you?
35:29I just remember him saying,
35:31I didn't want it to come from anyone else.
35:33I don't think he touched on that part.
35:35He was banging on yesterday.
35:37Bro called.
35:39Swingers club.
35:41That's what he said.
35:43He's making it a swingers club.
35:45I will keep my enemies
35:47very close to my chest.
35:49And he's my enemy.
35:51Shannon minding.
35:53Billion.
35:55So when I saw him walk in,
35:57and then I saw everyone whispering,
35:59I was like, nah, I'm not letting this get out of hand.
36:01Someone said that if Shannon
36:03walks in by himself, that you're going to shoot.
36:05I wouldn't do that.
36:07Fucking stick.
36:09I'm loyal to my boys to that extent.
36:11His story to me
36:13is different to what he said to Holla.
36:15It weren't the truth.
36:17You can't say it's not a swingers club
36:19and then the day after.
36:21If I don't come, I'm going to jump onto her
36:23because your relationship's peppered.
36:25What's he said to you?
36:27He lied.
36:29If I wasn't here,
36:31they'd crack on with her.
36:37He's a muppet.
36:39Muppet. Muppet. Muppet.
36:41Muppet.
36:43He best not talk to me.
36:55Cheers to doing a lot of growing this week
36:57at the retreat.
36:59I think we've both grown a lot from this retreat.
37:01Aww.
37:03Who's growing?
37:05One more.
37:07I've hit me maximum.
37:09Still got your cold sore?
37:11Oh, it's horrible, isn't it?
37:13It's been ages as well.
37:15It's been since the honeymoon.
37:17That's the only thing that's missing
37:19in our life at the moment, isn't it, darling?
37:25How are you?
37:27Are you OK? Tired.
37:29I feel a little bit
37:31gutted because
37:33Stephen hasn't spoke to me all day
37:35but
37:37I'm really trying.
37:39What are you doing today?
37:41I'm done talking to you.
37:43I feel like every time we talk
37:45it just gets intense and I can't be arsed with it.
37:47Why did you want to stay and drive?
37:49I've
37:51explained this to you. I can't be arsed
37:53with the arguments anymore. I'm sorry it's worked out
37:55like this. Like, genuinely am
37:57because I came into it with the right intentions
37:59but I'm out.
38:01It's interesting that
38:03he's checked out but yet he has so
38:05much animosity towards her.
38:07He doesn't even want to engage or talk to her.
38:09Why is that? It's so
38:11sad because he is just quitting
38:13before our eyes.
38:15There's really nothing more Hannah can do
38:17with this situation. Can you not accept my
38:19apology, though, and realise that I made a mistake?
38:21I can't accept that apology. Please, I'm
38:23just asking. It's frustrating. I get that
38:25but please, let's just not go there again.
38:27I want to be friends with you. I don't want to leave
38:29her like on this bad... You don't need to be a friend.
38:31I came here to marry you.
38:33She lost all my trust.
38:35You said you wanted to stay
38:37with me but you're cracking on to all the other men.
38:39She's lost my respect.
38:41Why would I want a friend like that in my life?
38:43Don't want her in my life. Full stop.
38:45I know we've been through
38:47this experiment together but that is
38:49what it is to me. I'm just being honest with you.
38:51I'm sorry I fucked up. I'm sorry.
38:55It's pathetic.
38:59I
39:01respect Stephen being honest
39:03but it does feel a bit shit that he's basically
39:05said, I don't even want to have a friendship with
39:07you.
39:09I'm
39:11upset but there's nothing I can do.
39:23Awesome.
39:25How are you, coach?
39:27You okay?
39:29I probably need to be honest with myself
39:31and say that my husband isn't willing to
39:33work with me so
39:35I'm going to do what I want to do.
39:37She's going to the hot tub.
39:39I
39:41have always got on well with Orson. He's a really good
39:43guy. He's had my back in here since day one.
39:45Just make out right now in front
39:47of everyone.
39:51Wow. That is some
39:53pretty full on flirting.
39:55Stop it. I haven't said anything.
39:57I feel undressed.
40:01You look at that and you say, okay, here's someone
40:03who's got to the point now where she feels
40:05she'll never be able to get through
40:07to Stephen. The marriage
40:09is a lost cause and she's seeking
40:11attention from one of the few people in the
40:13room she's connected with.
40:17Cheers.
40:19Cheers.
40:21Cheers, monsieur.
40:23So how are you doing? Are you good?
40:25Yeah. I think after the ceremony
40:27we had a big
40:29night. Just getting
40:31a bit closer to Amy and just putting everything
40:33on the table. And I think it was nice.
40:35Especially when you came up and you put
40:37your arms around me and she said, you'll be okay.
40:39It wasn't like a judgmental thing.
40:41Can you reach your arms all the way around him?
40:43The neck bit, yes.
40:45Babe, do you have an impression
40:47of Luke?
40:49No.
40:51It's a quick learn, isn't it?
40:53Do you prefer him with that accent?
40:55Yeah.
41:05Oh, the honesty box.
41:11Oh my
41:13God.
41:15We had a bath together this week.
41:17Which part of my body
41:19did you enjoy washing the most?
41:21Part of your body
41:23that I enjoyed washing the most?
41:25I like your bum.
41:29I really like your bum.
41:31Thanks. Really, really like your bum.
41:33Thanks.
41:37Christina, if I was an animal
41:39what would I be and why?
41:41I would really like you to be a
41:43koala so you just cling to me all the time.
41:47Aww.
41:53It is very cute because essentially
41:55she's saying cute and cuddly. Yes.
42:01What do you foresee will be the biggest challenge
42:03in our marriage?
42:07I think the biggest challenge that I can see with you, Amy
42:09is we're both very slow
42:11burners. You are.
42:13I think emotionally
42:15I am so I think
42:17because things are going so well
42:19we might be a slow burner but we might
42:21end up in a big bonfire, babe.
42:35How would you sum up
42:37our time in the retreat?
42:41The retreat has been
42:43the most positive
42:45week we've ever had.
42:47I have leaned in.
42:51Since the commitment ceremony
42:53I had a job to do and that was to show Casper
42:55that I can change and I can take feedback
42:57because he didn't think I could take it before.
42:59So I have taken on the feedback,
43:01I've changed, I've leaned in, I've relaxed into it
43:03and we got snogged.
43:05Yay!
43:11How do you feel
43:13about how far we've come since our first
43:15dinner party? I mean we were
43:17not in a good place in our first dinner party, let's be honest.
43:19We've put a lot of effort in this week.
43:21We've definitely grown as people.
43:23We've come a long, long way.
43:25We're so much more comfortable around each other.
43:27It's definitely moved in the right direction.
43:31What a Casper!
43:33What a Casper!
43:39It's great to see
43:41that Emma has really stepped up.
43:43I think there's hope for these two.
43:45This is progress.
43:47Ryan, how committed
43:49are you to our marriage?
43:51I'm very committed to this.
43:53I've only had eyes for you. I've got no eyes
43:55for nobody else.
43:57And if it wasn't you, I'd leave her.
44:03Ryan
44:05with the clever delivery there.
44:07Talking of course to his wife Shannon
44:09but also to Stephen.
44:11Making it clear that he's not down
44:13with the wife swap.
44:25Why do you think we've had
44:27such a difficult week?
44:29I think
44:31we've had such a difficult week because
44:33you haven't let your guard down,
44:35you haven't let me in and I still don't know
44:37how you feel about me, wholeheartedly.
44:39And that's why I feel like
44:41we've had a hard week.
44:43I thought we was having a good week until the girls and boys date.
44:45But I feel like you haven't shown me
44:47how you think
44:49and how you feel about me.
44:51I am getting better and better
44:53at doing that and the fact that everyone else
44:55can see I'm putting the effort in.
44:57We was actually having a really good week
44:59with the boys today, with the question.
45:01Okay, I'm not doing this now.
45:03And agreeing to disagree.
45:05God, I can't talk to you, honestly.
45:11What else do you want me to do?
45:15What the fuck else does he expect me to do?
45:21I will say Adam, Adam
45:23she did have some lovely things
45:25to say about you at the girls' night, I do promise you that.
45:27Yeah, but then she also
45:29said some shit things.
45:31One shit thing about the qualities
45:33that he's got that I wish that you had is
45:35It was little comments like, oh, I wish you was more like
45:37Stephen and
45:39Because he can fucking talk about how he feels
45:41and you don't.
45:43You can't compare me to someone else.
45:45Especially when we're mates, man.
45:47You would have even given me a bit of reassurance before you left this morning
45:49which was a cuddle.
45:51Do you not think that would have made me feel a lot better?
45:53I needed that and you didn't do that.
45:55It's no offence, I wasn't thinking about you, not gonna lie.
45:57No, but you don't think about me.
45:59You don't.
46:01What did you need this morning? Space.
46:03Which is what I've given him all day.
46:05But it's still not good enough.
46:07What the fuck do you want me to do? Move to Timbuktu?
46:09Where the fuck do you expect me to go?
46:15Don't just say sorry, I've told you how it is.
46:17It's a fake sorry.
46:19I don't cut it.
46:21Do you not think that I've given him enough time
46:23for everything else?
46:25Fuck that comment, Holly, that is bullshit.
46:27All I've given that boy
46:29is fucking time.
46:35You've made a mistake, own it.
46:37Don't keep saying I've on this, man.
46:39Maybe you should have said stick.
46:41I know that, I've said I should have done that.
46:43But he has said
46:45some shitty things on that couch.
46:47The stuff that he's said about me.
46:49For me to then sit there
46:51and take
46:53how I am,
46:55it's fucking hurtful.
46:57Do you know what I mean?
46:59I'm sorry, no.
47:01It's fucking hurtful.
47:09Next time.
47:11I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
47:13She's finally seeing who I actually am.
47:15The impact of the retreat
47:17hits home.
47:19My head's been scrambled.
47:21It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch.
47:23Pushing some marriages.
47:25This is going to be hard to hear.
47:27This is why I prepare myself for the worst.
47:29To breaking point.
47:31At that moment I knew I could not stand him.
47:33Just like squeezing blood
47:35from a stone.
47:37Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
47:39You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you.
47:41Why do I want to even speak to this girl?
47:43But it's a shocking revelation.
47:45Have they not been sneakily kissing?
47:47Revwatch?
47:49You consider what you did an act of infidelity.
47:51That delivers the biggest blow of the evening.
47:53She deserved to know.
47:55I think it's bullshit.
47:57Snakey.
47:59Don't tell me to shut up.
48:01You're a sly guy.
48:03You're talking fucking shit.
48:05It is very clear that this relationship is done.
48:17You
48:19You
48:21You
48:23You
48:25You
48:27You
48:29You
48:31You
48:33You
48:35You
48:37You