Married at First Sight UK S09E10
Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 10
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00:00Am I too much for you?
00:02Previously...
00:03I care for you a lot.
00:04I really appreciate Kieran being vulnerable.
00:07..in an Emotional Experts Week...
00:09Why do you think you chose her body to focus on?
00:12..couples faced their crises head-on.
00:15I didn't want to lie.
00:16You're never going to want to rip my clothes off, are you?
00:18But with hands-on help from the experts...
00:21We're going to start focusing in on both of your wrists.
00:24There's a fresh start ahead. This is what we need.
00:27..there was breakthrough...
00:29It was nice to get closer. It felt very natural.
00:32..after breakthrough...
00:33Behind closed doors was sound.
00:36Communication is key.
00:38Boom!
00:40..but Eve's failure to take part...
00:42You couldn't even just write something.
00:44I'm not there yet.
00:46..crushed Charlie's fragile hopes.
00:48I'm laying my heart out on the line here.
00:50I'm getting...
00:51..back.
00:56..tonight...
00:57Hey!
00:58Oh, hello!
01:00..an unexpected reconciliation...
01:02If they do come in together, then I'll call it out later.
01:05..sparks an unwanted intervention.
01:07What have you done to her? It's a bit of a bully.
01:09A bully.
01:10I don't want to do this anymore.
01:13..and the first honesty box of the series...
01:16Here we go.
01:17What is the biggest obstacle in the way of our happiness?
01:20Definitely sex.
01:21What do you think you should do to prevent us from being
01:24stuck in the friend zone?
01:26..prompts Polly to demand answers.
01:28I will leave in a minute. You need to just shut up.
01:31I just want him to be honest.
01:32Don't start getting aggy at me.
01:34I didn't try to make you look stupid.
01:36I'm not saying you tried, but it made me look stupid.
01:38If Polly continues to talk to me like a child, it pisses me off.
01:41And this marriage isn't going to work.
01:44What are you looking forward to, like, your first dinner party?
01:48Is the food good?
01:49The food's actually nice.
01:51Why do you look so beautiful?
01:53Eh?
01:54You've got a big smile on your face.
01:56I think we need to get ready.
01:57I need to sort this bonnet out, cos I ain't going looking like this.
02:00I wouldn't either.
02:01Oh, all right. Rude.
02:05What is the biggest obstacle in the way of our happiness?
02:08Definitely sex.
02:09I didn't try to make you look stupid.
02:11SHE LAUGHS
02:17How do you feel like we are going to be walking in this week
02:21after Charlene's help?
02:24I do feel like we have took a good step in the right direction.
02:28Yeah, I do definitely think it's helped. Yeah.
02:31I feel like the Eve and Charlie situation,
02:33I feel like that could be brewing.
02:35I do definitely think that it could be a bit more heated.
02:38Now more has been unpacked from last week.
02:42Last night, Eve told me and Holly some pretty shocking things
02:45about how Charlie's been treating her.
02:47To be honest, I think them as a couple is quite volatile.
02:50I think it's very, very toxic, and I'm not going in there with high hopes.
02:56It has been a very turbulent week with me and Eve.
02:59There's been refusing to move in, refusing to do the tasks,
03:02and the tasks are there to hopefully get us to a better place.
03:06So it just makes me feel like she's not 100% committed.
03:11You look lovely. I'm so excited.
03:13Despite instant chemistry on their wedding day...
03:16She's perfect.
03:17..Eve's need for patience on honeymoon...
03:19I need a wee bit more time. Sometimes I feel uncomfortable.
03:22I need me own space. ..caused the couple to clash.
03:25You left me alone again. I don't like being shouted at.
03:29At the first commitment ceremony...
03:31We had a really big fight for our honeymoon
03:33to the extent where I moved out and we haven't kissed since that day.
03:36I cut everything.
03:38..expert advice helped the couple move forward.
03:41It really is about how you can heal trauma
03:44and, as a result, show up for your partner in a better way.
03:47I want to give this 100%.
03:51..but Eve's failure to take part in Experts Week...
03:54It's really sad that you feel like you couldn't even just write something.
03:58I'm not there yet. ..sent the couple into a downward spiral.
04:02Get out. Just get out.
04:10I am still very overwhelmed about yesterday.
04:13She can't control her emotions and you can't take words back.
04:18SHE SIGHS
04:28I don't know why I'm struggling so much, but I am.
04:31I'm really struggling to get over things that have happened between us.
04:37But I do see good in her, I see good in us.
04:40So I think I'm just going to have to throw myself into it
04:43and if this doesn't work, I don't know what will.
04:47So, clearly, yesterday wasn't a great day for us.
04:51A lot of emotions, both ways.
04:54Yeah. I am sorry for hurting you.
04:56Sorry, too.
04:58Breaks my heart, Charlie. Me, too.
05:00And then I think we both shut down a wee bit and...
05:04..and we don't get anywhere. No.
05:06So let's just try and move forward, enjoy the good together
05:10and let's try not to maybe go into a bad mood.
05:14Let's try not to maybe go in too much on things.
05:18Let's just be positive. Yeah.
05:21Go forward. Yeah.
05:23We've got this. Let's give up. OK?
05:25Good. Yeah. Cool. Good.
05:30I am pushing myself harder than I'm ready to probably go.
05:34And I'm just hoping that this works.
05:45Kasper and I are still in separate apartments,
05:48but it was really good to have Mel over.
05:50We've learnt a lot about each other and feel in a better place.
05:55Obviously, I'd like Kasper and my relationships
05:58to be more husband and wife,
06:00but I think we need more time in this new realm of positivity.
06:04We're going to be happy, we're going to be us,
06:07and then we'll see where the night goes.
06:10I'm feeling really good,
06:12really positive about where Emma and I are at.
06:15Wow, look at you! Hello!
06:17So much colour.
06:19We're in a far better place now than we were.
06:21I'm excited for tonight cos we both enjoy this sort of thing.
06:24Ready to go? Woo!
06:26You all right? Yeah, not bad.
06:28I'm well excited. I know. It's another party.
06:34I'm still not feeling that great. Mm-hm.
06:36But it's probably better if I don't. Don't come.
06:40You sure you don't want me to stay with you?
06:42No, it's fine, honestly. I appreciate you even saying that.
06:46Holly needs you there tonight. Got to look after my girl.
06:49Cos, obviously, I'm not sure how her and Alex are right now.
06:52Hopefully, they're in a better place.
06:54Hopefully, it's not going to be, like, any drama tonight for a minute.
06:57Yeah, no.
07:01HE MOANS
07:10I actually found Experts Week really productive.
07:13I took everything Paul said and I've really put it into use.
07:17But because of the communication problem,
07:19yet again, me and Alex have rowled.
07:21He's not even got one bag through the door
07:23and he was already straight back out.
07:25How you doing? You good? You too, yeah.
07:27Welcome, you all right? Yeah.
07:29During Experts Week, Paul helped Holly and Alex work through their issues.
07:33Can I finish my food? And this is what annoys me.
07:36They're talking over me as well.
07:38I feel like I can't always get my thought out
07:40because by the time you finish what you're saying, we're not speaking.
07:43Communication and time is key.
07:45So now we're going to come up with a safe word
07:48to prevent you from overstepping.
07:50Mango.
07:52Mango out the room.
07:54Yeah, that's what I was just about to say.
07:56THEY LAUGH
07:58Keep it soft.
08:04Last night, me and Alex had a row.
08:06It's just quite petty when I think about it, really.
08:09I was passing him things, tidying up.
08:12I was just going, fridge, drawer.
08:14And he said, don't speak to me like a dog.
08:18Alex blows the littlest things out of proportion
08:21when, really, we have bigger problems.
08:23We don't know how to communicate without arguing,
08:26so we need to stop complaining about,
08:28I don't want to put a drink in the fridge
08:30and start worrying about if we can even have a conversation
08:33without killing each other.
08:35Me and Holly had a disagreement
08:37in which she spoke to me in a way I didn't like.
08:40In the conversation with Paul, we set boundaries.
08:43Then less than 24 hours later,
08:45she overstepped the boundary and it's all kicked off again.
08:50I do feel like I deserve an apology from Holly.
08:53For me, it's not water under the bridge.
08:56That's really good we've seen everybody
08:58and just spending some time with you.
09:00Good, me too.
09:02I am really excited to walk into the dinner party with Eve today
09:05because we are good when we're good.
09:07We're just really bad when we're bad.
09:11I do feel like shit's going to hit the fan.
09:13Do you? Yeah, big time.
09:15If even Charlie walk in tonight, hand in hand,
09:18as a united front, I will definitely question it.
09:22I'm just today feeling really anxious.
09:25If we don't work past this,
09:27then I don't think my time here is going to continue
09:30because I can't be with someone like that.
09:41Here we are, second day of the dinner party.
09:44I'm really nervous.
09:47Here we are, second dinner party,
09:50right off the back of Experts Week.
09:52I wonder how that impacted our couples.
09:55Yes, first impressions have happened now.
09:57We're now moving into some of the norming and storming stages
10:00and we're going to see factions develop,
10:02we're going to see subgroups develop
10:04and tonight I think it will be quite fascinating to watch.
10:09Oh, we're first. We're first.
10:11First at the dinner party.
10:13Well, here they are, Emma and Kasper.
10:15Yes, this is your couple, Mel.
10:17This is my couple.
10:18We sat down and shared some time together this week
10:21and I really tried to get them to move away
10:23from all of these differences about each other
10:26that they'd been focusing on
10:28toward more of a, what are the strengths here?
10:31Champagne?
10:32Yes, yes, that would be nice.
10:34I'm going for it.
10:37It appears that your magic has worked
10:39because this is the strongest we've ever seen these two.
10:42Who else do you think got experts this week?
10:45Do you think everyone got experts?
10:47No.
10:48They were trusted to behave without experts supervising them.
10:52The bad ones got the experts.
10:54Like we did.
10:57Oh!
10:58Oh, TV!
11:00How are you?
11:01Orson and Rochelle.
11:02Look at that.
11:03Now, this is really good to see
11:05because, of course, Rochelle didn't turn up last time
11:08so it's so lovely to see them come in as a couple.
11:11God, how was your week been, though?
11:13Yeah, good.
11:14It's been really nice.
11:15Good.
11:16Yeah, I can't complain.
11:17Like, you know, I've been way more positive.
11:19OK.
11:20A lot of the stuff that came out in the commitment ceremony
11:23is now, it's not in the past,
11:24but it's like all of that stress is sort of gone.
11:26He's come into the apartment, you know, every morning,
11:29going like, morning!
11:30Oh, bless.
11:31But, of course, keep in mind,
11:32she's saying he comes into the apartment in the morning
11:35so they're still not living together,
11:37but it's a positive step.
11:38Yes.
11:39Hello!
11:40Hello!
11:43Kieran and Christina, what an entrance.
11:45Indeed.
11:46I mean, these are our pair of balls of energy
11:49entering together, bringing all of that energy into the room.
11:53Yes.
11:54Yeah.
11:55How's your week been?
11:56So we had, like, the experts' golden envelope.
11:59It was just the perfect thing for us.
12:01It really gave Kieran the opportunity to be, like,
12:04really open and, like, vulnerable,
12:07so it just had a bit of a lightbulb moment
12:09and, like, we're just, like, actually enjoying the experience
12:12instead of, like, putting so much pressure on ourselves.
12:15But you are in a good place.
12:17Oh, God, we couldn't be happier at the moment.
12:20Aw, beautiful.
12:22I, like, really opened up to Christina.
12:24OK.
12:25The thing is, with Christina, like, she's an emotional girl,
12:28very, very emotional,
12:29so I've kind of had my emotions reserved
12:31because I don't want to put anything on her
12:33because she is so emotional, so I've kept everything to myself.
12:36The last thing she needs is to hear about
12:38everything that's going on in my brain
12:40when she's struggling herself.
12:41So I disagree with that.
12:42That's the first thing she needs to hear
12:44because what they need to build is emotional connection,
12:48and they can only do that if Kieran is willing to fully open up.
12:52Yeah.
12:54Hello. Hello, y'all.
12:56Hi!
12:58Polly and Adam.
12:59You all right?
13:00This is the second time they've entered
13:02where Adam doesn't hold Polly's hand at all.
13:05He just has this stiff arm that she grabs on to.
13:07Yeah.
13:09How you doing? Really good.
13:11We had Charlene.
13:13She came to us.
13:15We had massage oils.
13:17Woo!
13:18So I got a lovely little massage last night.
13:20Genuinely, over the last few days,
13:22there's been a lot more vocal, like, compliments.
13:25Yeah.
13:26There's hands in bed.
13:27There's a lot more touchy-feely.
13:29So it's definitely helped, and we both think that it's progressing.
13:33So, slow steps forward, but at least it's forward and not...
13:36Backwards. Back.
13:37That's really good news.
13:38So...
13:39Does that really happen?
13:40Does it excite you?
13:41It does.
13:42I am getting the fanny flutters.
13:44Yeah!
13:45Cheers!
13:46Cheers to fanny flutters!
13:48The fanny flutters?
13:50Yeah.
13:51That's a good sign.
13:52That's a good sign.
13:54Have you managed to see Alex this week at all?
13:56Yeah, I was at gym with him this morning.
13:58Is he giving anything about him and Holly, or...?
14:00I think they're just bought in ads.
14:03I feel like they're both so fired up.
14:05I think it's a stubbornness.
14:07Yeah.
14:08Nobody wants to say, I'm wrong.
14:10I agree with Orson, he's 100% correct.
14:13Holly is supremely stubborn, and guess what?
14:16Her husband, equally supremely stubborn.
14:18What's so sad here is that when I left them on Experts Week,
14:21they were in a strong position.
14:23I would argue the strongest position they've ever been.
14:26Chances of their walking in holding hands?
14:28Not a chance.
14:30Holly!
14:33Oh!
14:35And here Holly is by herself.
14:37Oh, no.
14:38Are you OK? You good?
14:40I'm good. I just need a second one of counsel and text.
14:43It's always so hard to walk into a mixer
14:46or a dinner party by yourself, isn't it?
14:48It takes such courage.
14:50So what happened?
14:51So he was coming to me back in last night.
14:53Yeah.
14:54And he'd not even got a sandal through the door
14:56and he was straight back out.
14:57Oh, OK.
14:58I literally passed him a piece of paper and said,
15:00will you put that in the drawer and that water in the fridge?
15:03And he was like, don't speak to me like I'm a fucking dog.
15:07But that's, like, something little that he reacted wrongly.
15:12You then put your defences up.
15:14I didn't, no.
15:15I went in the bathroom and sat on my own, just calmed down.
15:18And I come back out and he said,
15:20you need to start behaving like the 30-year-old woman you are,
15:22that you claim you are, and don't speak to me like you speak to your son.
15:25And I thought, do not bring my kids into it first of all.
15:28And then I sat on the couch and I went,
15:30I'm apologising if you feel like I said it to you in any manner,
15:33because I wasn't.
15:34Yeah.
15:35And he was like, yeah, she was, wanted to argue.
15:37So I just went, swear down, I said, I'm going, I'm leaving.
15:39As I'm walking out the door, he got all leery.
15:41So I just walked off.
15:43What's also challenging here is that I work with them on setting boundaries
15:46and making sure that they're not name-calling,
15:48they're respecting each other.
15:50So it sounds like that has fallen apart.
15:53Oh, hello!
15:55Oh, here's the pageant queen entrance.
15:58Woo-hoo-hoo!
16:00Sasha looks super excited to be walking in with her husband.
16:04She does.
16:05Super proud of him.
16:06Mm-hm.
16:07You was all in Mint together?
16:09Yeah.
16:10When I first saw her, I let my guard down.
16:12I thought, do you know what she didn't want?
16:14But we were very similar.
16:16We had the same character.
16:19She thinks I'm a punching bag.
16:21She keeps digging me all the time.
16:22Does she?
16:23Oh, yeah.
16:24Put your leg in the wall.
16:25Love it!
16:26Love it?
16:27Love it!
16:28Aw!
16:32So, even Charlie, I do not have high hopes for them at all.
16:38Oh.
16:39It's giving toxic.
16:41It actually upsets me a lot because Eve,
16:44they've got such a big heart.
16:46And she genuinely just wants to be loved off someone.
16:48Some of the stuff she was saying to us last night about Charlie
16:51was awful.
16:53What I didn't like, though, was that the commitment ceremony,
16:56Eve got me to feel like a...
16:58Oh, no, I know.
16:59But this is why I said to her last night,
17:01so why was she sitting there, like, fucking all over each other?
17:04Because if she doesn't, then she gets shitty.
17:06Do you know what I've said to Eve?
17:08I think you both need to move back in together,
17:10see that she's still the way she is,
17:12and then that'll be a clarification that this relationship's
17:14never going to work.
17:15Because them being apart, they're not seeing each other enough.
17:17Yeah, but they're not seeing each other enough,
17:19because Charlie's mean.
17:21Now I can understand what Eve was saying on the sofa with the experts.
17:24Do you not think you're mean to me? She is fucking mean. Yeah.
17:26If anything, she's a little bit of a bully.
17:28Wow. Wow.
17:30Strong word. Yeah.
17:31That is such a strong statement,
17:33when actually Polly doesn't know both sides of the story.
17:37Do you think she's coming in on her own?
17:39100%.
17:40I would be shocked if they come in together.
17:42And if they do come in together, then I'll fucking call it out later.
17:45Oh, wow.
17:49They're together!
17:51Hi, everybody. Hello.
17:53It's fake.
17:55How are you?
17:57They're so happy.
17:59Oh, my God!
18:11Hi, everybody.
18:13Hello. How are you?
18:15They're so happy.
18:17Oh, my God!
18:19Oh, darling, are you all right?
18:22It's just so fake.
18:25Are you OK? Yeah.
18:27I just don't get it. Why have you walked in together?
18:30Why have you walked in together? What do you mean?
18:32Why have you walked in together?
18:34Do you not think that that's giving everyone, like, false hope?
18:37What do you mean? We talked this morning.
18:39Oh, you did? We were like, OK.
18:41That's really confronting, isn't it? Why did you walk in together?
18:43Absolutely.
18:45What's it got to do with you, Polly?
18:47You know, at this point, she's really inserting herself
18:49into someone else's relationship.
18:51Fill it up, Ross. Fill it up.
18:53Oh, you're getting smashed.
18:55Yeah, mate. I'm going to fucking need it after they've just walked in.
18:58Go on, talk to me.
19:00Yeah, it's been tough.
19:02It's been a tough week, just mentally.
19:04It's just been draining.
19:06But we're fine. We are actually fine.
19:08So, right now, it's almost like Eve and Charlie
19:11are in two completely different relationships.
19:13Here's Charlie saying to Casper,
19:15everything's fine, we're going OK.
19:17And it sounds like, on the other hand,
19:19Eve is telling a very negative story
19:21about what's going on between them.
19:23LAUGHTER
19:25Yeah, got it.
19:27So, what's changed since last night for you to want to walk in together?
19:30I just think that's really confusing.
19:32Do you know what I mean?
19:34We just talked, we got everything off our chest.
19:36And we more or less said that we're just going round in a fucking circle,
19:39so if we don't, we either need to make a decision to,
19:42this isn't good for us, and go,
19:44or we need to try and squish everything.
19:47I just cannot fathom how you are putting yourself in this position
19:51when you've divulged as kind of much as what you have.
19:55And it's not good, Eve.
19:57Don't do this now.
19:59This is not fucking healthy, Eve.
20:01You cannot keep lying to yourself.
20:04You cannot keep lying to yourself with what's happened,
20:07because all you're going to do is change who you are
20:10for someone else who's not giving you what you want.
20:12And it's not fucking fair.
20:14She wants me to move in, move in, move in.
20:16At least if I do that, I can say I've done everything.
20:19If you are not happy, then you need to remove yourself from the situation.
20:23Because you two walking in how you are,
20:25when she's been how she's been towards you, is not normal.
20:28Because you are not how you were when we met you on the hen do.
20:32And I'm not having it, I'm not letting you change who you are
20:35because you want to please someone else.
20:37I just think we needed, like, a...
20:39..setting boundaries and just having a good chat.
20:42It was good, like, it's just what I needed,
20:44cos I've just been spending a lot of time on my own.
20:47I'm sorry, guys, I know I've been rubbish.
20:49Chazza, Chazza, you haven't been rubbish.
20:51If you feel better for that, own it, yeah,
20:53but at the same time, just know that we're going to be around to help you.
20:56I know, and I know you're all here.
20:58Don't feel like you have to be on your own.
21:00I'm not, I'm not having this.
21:02I just don't need any more fuel put in the fire at the minute.
21:05No, no, no. Can I just make the decision myself?
21:07Yes. Absolutely.
21:09You know, I have talked about it in my head, right?
21:11And, you know, the issue is that she doesn't like me seeing any of you,
21:14she doesn't like me doing anything because I'm not spending time with her,
21:17and she's made it out like I'm just running after all news
21:19and wanting to hunt it over her, and it's not true.
21:21If you don't want to be in her company and you don't feel safe with her company,
21:24what are you going to do, sit in a room on your own?
21:26What you're seeing is two different forms of support.
21:28One, ladies, and Eve, is anger towards Charlie.
21:32What you see happening with Charlie and her group is actual support and advice,
21:36and this shows you how friends can be incredibly dangerous
21:40and detrimental to your relationship.
21:42That's right.
21:43You know what she said yesterday?
21:44I go, I can't get over what you did on honeymoon.
21:46She goes, pfft, that was two weeks ago, mate.
21:48And she says to me, I know.
21:51Where is she now?
21:54PHONE RINGS
21:56I'm going to go and fill her out.
22:01Hello!
22:02Come on, darling.
22:08Take the positive out of everything, that's it.
22:10How's it been?
22:12How's it been?
22:15How's it been?
22:16Honestly, come on, cut the bullshit.
22:18How's it been?
22:19Awful.
22:20Why's it been bad?
22:21We've not moved in with each other yet.
22:23We're just bickering.
22:25We did a task the other day.
22:27What did you have? What was that?
22:28To write a letter to each other... OK.
22:30..of something that we haven't told each other yet.
22:32OK. But she refused to do it.
22:34I kind of just felt like, are you actually in this for the real deal?
22:37You know, like...
22:38Have you acknowledged what you've done to her
22:40that's made her how she is with you?
22:42Yeah, like, I feel like I've apologised, I've said I'm sorry.
22:45I literally... I don't know if...
22:47There's not really much else I can do.
22:49Can you see what you've done to her is a bit...
22:52It's a bit of a bully.
22:56Ouch.
22:57A bully? Because you are very much...
22:59A bully? OK.
23:01That's what... The things that she's saying, do you know what I mean?
23:05No, not at all, because I don't feel like I've acted like that.
23:10Come on.
23:11So that's what everyone thinks of me, that I'm a bully?
23:13No, no, no. No, no, no. That's not...
23:15Who used the word bully, then? Me.
23:17But you haven't asked me at all what went down.
23:19No, I haven't, and this is why I've just told you what I've said,
23:21which is why I'm now asking.
23:22And personally, I don't feel comfortable talking to you about it,
23:25if I'm totally honest. OK.
23:31Hello. You all right? Yeah.
23:36Hello. Come by, man. Come by, man.
23:40Bully, lol.
23:42How are you? Fantastic.
23:44Yeah, great.
23:48Yes, it's very clear that Charlie feels completely attacked by Polly tonight.
23:52Mm-hm.
23:53Polly has misread the situation,
23:55or she's only half read the situation,
23:57and she's pounced too soon and she's really done some damage here.
24:00What's happening?
24:01Nothing, I don't even want to talk about it.
24:03How are you guys?
24:04I ain't got me, you know, yeah.
24:05Good.
24:06Yeah, just watching it.
24:07Good.
24:08Good.
24:09Good.
24:10I need to get out of this room. Yeah.
24:16That conversation did not go well.
24:18What is this all about?
24:20I called Charlie a bully.
24:28She was like, where did that come from?
24:30And I said, me. I said, I said it.
24:32So that didn't go well.
24:34I was like, I don't want to talk about it.
24:36I don't want to talk about it.
24:39So that didn't go well.
24:41Well, I'm not going to lie about it.
24:45Charlie, what happened there?
24:47She called me a bully.
24:48What did she say?
24:49Apparently I've been bullying you.
24:50I told her not to get involved today.
24:51Please.
24:52How much have you told these people?
24:53Because I literally cannot believe that she has just said on camera
24:56that she thinks that I'm a bully.
24:58Is that what you've been telling people?
25:00I've told them things that have happened, yeah.
25:01The honeymoon, what all the things she said to me and all I did.
25:03And that makes me a bully?
25:05I felt bullied.
25:08I wish you'd spoken to me about that, Eve.
25:10I did tell you that, Charlie.
25:11You didn't tell me that you thought I was a bully.
25:13Charlie, I told you that you were a bully.
25:15Didn't I say you were emotionally and verbally abusing me?
25:17Yeah, but you didn't call me a bully.
25:19That's a horrible word.
25:20That could be her use of the word.
25:22Like, awful word.
25:23But I did tell you this, Charlie.
25:25Please, I did.
25:26No, I know, I know.
25:27But I feel like I've taken accountability for it
25:29and that is just not fair.
25:31You haven't even given me a chance to build a relationship with them.
25:33I did tell them not to get involved today.
25:35I swear to God, I say it, I say it, I say it.
25:37I know, I know, I know, I know, I know.
25:39I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know.
25:42I swear to God, Charlie, I told her not to.
25:44And she promised me she wouldn't.
25:46She shouldn't have said that to you.
25:47Not, not, not there.
25:51I can't do this.
25:52I know.
25:53I don't want to do this anymore.
25:54It's OK.
25:55It's OK.
25:57I'm not a bully.
25:59I'm sorry for what I did to you.
26:01I know.
26:02But that doesn't make me a bully.
26:05Do you want to go?
26:06Please, just get the cameras off me now.
26:08Just give her a minute. I'm so upset.
26:10Is that what you really think I've done to you?
26:12I'm so sorry.
26:13I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
26:15Come here, come here, come here, come here.
26:18Come here.
26:19Come here.
26:34Do you know what happened then with Charlie?
26:37Do you know what Polly said?
26:39Apparently, Polly said that she's a bully.
26:43Oh!
26:44That's why she walked out.
26:45Oh, did Polly say that?
26:47Is that what you said?
26:48Did you say, you're a bully?
26:49Yeah, I said, she sounds like a bully.
26:51The one thing I have realised tonight, yeah,
26:53is Charlie's basically spent all of this week on her own.
26:56Maybe we need to tread carefully with them.
26:59Yeah, yeah, of course.
27:00I think Eve's had a lot of shoulders to cry on.
27:02I wouldn't say Charlie's had the same.
27:06Yay, he's alive!
27:08All right.
27:09Oh, my goodness.
27:12What is he doing by himself?
27:13He's alive.
27:14Give us a cuddle, big lad.
27:15Where's your lass?
27:16Oh, she's not very well.
27:17She's not very well?
27:18Ah, OK.
27:19I can't, she's not well.
27:20Yeah.
27:21Phew.
27:22I was not ready for that.
27:24You and Lee's good then, yeah?
27:25Yeah, mate, yeah, really good, really good.
27:27You?
27:28Yeah, we're getting better.
27:29Good.
27:30There's more, I'm complimenting her
27:32and being a little bit more affectionate.
27:36I just don't want to force it.
27:38But she understands that, and that's the main thing.
27:41I always feel like there's so much more that Adam isn't saying.
27:45He's holding back, isn't he?
27:47He's not really saying what he's feeling.
27:49Yeah, yeah.
27:53Oh, Eve's back.
27:54Oh, Eve's back alone.
27:56Thank you so much for speaking to her about that,
27:59the relationship.
28:00Can I have a wee word with you?
28:01Yeah.
28:02Is she coming back?
28:03I don't know.
28:04Sit here, yeah.
28:05Oh, God.
28:10So, do you call her a bully?
28:12Yeah, I said that she was a bully to you.
28:14And I really appreciate you doing that,
28:16and I can't help but be so relieved.
28:18But I just, like, maybe the timing was wrong.
28:20I get that.
28:21I am really sorry that I might have done it in the wrong way.
28:24And if she's not...
28:25Honestly, I actually really, really,
28:26I really fucking needed you to stick up for me, thank you.
28:28Eve's being a little duplicitous here, if you ask me.
28:31Yes, when she's in the presence of Charlie,
28:33she shows loyalty to her.
28:34Now she's here with Polly, she's showing loyalty to her.
28:37It's hard to know where her real position is.
28:40Mm.
28:41Tell us some gossip.
28:42I ain't got enough.
28:43What's happening with you and Ali?
28:45We have not had a conversation.
28:46Like, you two were cool.
28:48Like, how could you go from, you know what I mean, zero to 100?
28:52I do want to have a conversation with him and stuff,
28:54but it just scares me that it's going to escalate again,
28:57and I don't want that.
28:58I just want us to have a clear mindset and just talk,
29:00and it'll be OK, and we agree to disagree,
29:02but in a respectful manner.
29:07Oi! Oi!
29:09Oi, oi!
29:11Oi, oi!
29:16You look happy.
29:18Don't be last.
29:19No, don't be last, don't be last.
29:21What are you saying, my brother?
29:24I feel like you need to make the effort.
29:27Hello, darling. You all right?
29:34This can't be easy for Holly.
29:36What are you saying, my bro?
29:38OK.
29:41Ooh!
29:54I'm in trouble.
29:56SHE SCREAMS
29:58While her anger at him didn't last long,
30:00that's a very fast kiss and make-up.
30:03I'm confused.
30:04Are you confused? Yeah.
30:06I think as soon as she laid eyes on Alex,
30:09she just melted because she massively fancies him.
30:12We know that they have great sexual chemistry,
30:15but lust is only going to get them so far.
30:18They need to work on communication.
30:20You look really nice.
30:22Thank you, so do you.
30:23No, like, really nice.
30:25You've dropped a bomb.
30:27What's the crack, my love?
30:29We need to learn on communication, I think.
30:32I do care about you.
30:34I really hope we can work past this, between us both.
30:37Because there obviously is something.
30:40It's cool, man. We'll just work on it, man.
30:43Cos we know we can get on, cos look at our honeymoon.
30:46Everything was fine until the first dinner party.
30:49And then, I don't know, it just turned into a shit show.
30:52I apologise if I made you feel any way, and I'm sorry.
30:55It's really nice to see that they've made up
30:57and that they're in a good place
30:59and that, hopefully, they're able to move forward from this.
31:06I don't know what to do.
31:08You look so fire.
31:10You actually do. Sorry.
31:12I think we need to leave.
31:19Woo!
31:21Oh, look at it!
31:23Yay! Woo-hoo!
31:25Rochelle. Okey-dokes.
31:27Aussie.
31:29Charlie's back.
31:31So they've managed to repair something.
31:33Let's see how far it goes.
31:35I was completely taken off guard with Polly.
31:38She came into that conversation in a totally disrespectful way.
31:43I didn't even really want to go back in.
31:45But me and Eve have had a conversation
31:48and I've decided to join the dinner party for our sake as a couple.
31:57Red flag. Didn't pull my chair out.
32:00I was too busy fuming about and fingering.
32:03Sorry.
32:05Do you know what? I was too busy fuming about being at the end of the table.
32:13I just wanted to say something fair.
32:15Sasha, you look amazing.
32:18And I just wanted to say the big thing for me.
32:20I appreciate how much you have been communicating with me,
32:23especially I am deaf, so it means a lot to me.
32:26And everybody looking good.
32:29And let's get the party started.
32:31CHEERING
32:33That was good, babe.
32:37Love, guys. Cheers, babe.
32:39Are you getting involved over here?
32:41Don't not pull my chair out and then not fucking cheers me either.
32:45You're...
32:49I'm too bored here.
32:51You're not off to a good start tonight.
33:02Charlie still looks pretty frosty with Polly.
33:05Oh, God.
33:07You OK, yeah?
33:09Barely. I mean, I'd be lying if I said I was fine.
33:12Being called a bully is probably the worst thing anyone could call somebody.
33:16So... And she doesn't know me.
33:19So to make a judgement based off of a one-sided conversation
33:23is really, really harsh. Yeah.
33:25And I would have much preferred her to have just come over and said,
33:28I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
33:31Maybe spoken to me like an actual human being,
33:33rather than just glaring into my soul,
33:35like I've gone and done the worst thing in the world.
33:42She's bitchy and, like, it's nasty and it's unnecessary.
33:46Do you agree? But, yeah.
33:48I won't be wasting my breath on her any more.
33:52Wow. Ooh. Yeah.
33:54Quite the steer.
34:07How's it going? Are you feeling good?
34:09It's, like, night and day.
34:12Yeah.
34:14I mean, I don't know what to say.
34:16I don't know what to say.
34:18It's, like, night and day from commitment ceremony.
34:22He's woken up every day being positive.
34:25Have you snogged at all? No, no snogging yet.
34:27No snogging yet.
34:28I reckon he's going to get in there tonight.
34:31My boy's desperate.
34:33Definitely a step in the right direction.
34:35The energy is better, the positivity is starting to build,
34:37but they still haven't snogged,
34:39so they haven't moved their relationship out of the friend zone yet.
34:49Oh, you're kissing again. Do it again.
34:52Give me a kiss. Yay!
34:57How lovely to see so much kissing around a table.
35:00Physical intimacy is definitely growing with some of their couples.
35:04Yes.
35:05Just do it.
35:06What?
35:07What are you doing? You're on my thumb.
35:11Meanwhile...
35:12Stop digging me.
35:14I'm not digging you.
35:17I'm not digging.
35:36I think I'm going to try and have a chat with her.
35:38Just be nice. I will be nice. I'm always nice.
35:40Why not not? I'm not deaf.
35:44Oh, wow.
35:47LAUGHTER
35:51I don't know what to do.
35:53Have you got something to say?
35:55Yeah, but I'd rather talk. Right, OK, cool. Come on.
35:58You OK? Yeah, I'm fine.
36:17MUSIC PLAYS
36:26Right.
36:28First of all, I want to apologise.
36:30I do really want to apologise, because I did not take
36:35your thoughts and feelings into consideration over the last week.
36:39I appreciate that. I am really sorry.
36:41And I do really appreciate you, obviously, opening up to me
36:44about the whole Eve situation, because you didn't have to, and you did.
36:47I'm now, if you're happy to, finish off this conversation
36:52about how you think it's gone, and for me to just...
36:56I appreciate your apology,
36:58but I don't feel I'm ready to talk to you about my relationship.
37:01No, that's absolutely fine. I appreciate that.
37:03I don't really know you.
37:05I keep my cards close to my chest, and I'm just...
37:09What goes on between me and Eve is between me and Eve. I get that.
37:12And I just don't... I don't feel ready to...
37:14No, I get that, and I accept that, and I will respect that.
37:17But thank you for your apology. I am really sorry about...
37:19It's OK. ..how I come into it without thinking of how you felt
37:22before I kind of come into it.
37:24It's OK. Thank you very much.
37:26Do you feel like that was resolved? No.
37:29Yeah, it seems like there's so much tension and animosity
37:32still left between them.
37:34The words were great, the actions were great,
37:36but ultimately, I feel like we're back at square one.
37:39Hi, Dadgum.
37:43Is that it? Yeah.
37:45I accept her apology. Good.
38:02The honesty mark!
38:04It was going well, too well, I knew it!
38:06Here we go, here we go.
38:08Oh, my anxiety's just gone, boom!
38:11Good evening.
38:13In this box are questions designed to help you as couples.
38:17They will encourage you to open up and strengthen your marriages.
38:21The questions are genuinely constructed
38:24to help all of you on your journey,
38:27so please be honest.
38:29Love, Paul, Mel and Charlene.
38:32Love you! Love you!
38:34We love you, too.
38:36Waiting till you see what's in the box.
38:41Right.
38:43Emma, what is the biggest obstacle
38:45standing in the way of our happiness?
38:50In a relationship, definitely sex.
38:58In order for us to be happy in a relationship,
39:01obviously intimacy is a great thing and, like...
39:05We're a while off that, don't get me wrong,
39:08but that's the thing I'm probably thinking most about,
39:11like, is, you know, will we have a shag?
39:18I'd love to be top shagging with you.
39:20CHEERING
39:23But I'm not there yet, I'm not there yet.
39:25And, of course, this is another example of Emma using her humour
39:28and her fun, playful nature to hide something
39:31that is really quite painful for her at the moment.
39:35You all right, Casper?
39:37I might be blushing a touch!
39:44Go on, Ra.
39:46What have you learned about yourself so far?
39:51So I've learned that when I feel safe,
39:55I can be very physically affectionate, loving.
40:00My walls can come down very quickly,
40:02I can be vulnerable.
40:04I always thought that was a me thing,
40:06but it must be the picking the wrong people.
40:08Because when I'm with you, I'm a different person,
40:10so I've learned a lot about myself.
40:12CHEERING
40:14Isn't that beautiful?
40:16That is so powerful for Sasha to say that.
40:19I thought I couldn't communicate in relationships previously
40:22because it was me, but now I realise I didn't feel safe,
40:25and I'm safe with you. Yeah.
40:27Really powerful stuff.
40:29Charlie.
40:31What can I do to improve our marriage?
40:33Oh, for fuck's sake.
40:39Um...
40:43I think just...
40:45Allow me to prove to you that I'm here for, like, the right reasons
40:49and I want to prove to you that I am not the person that you think I am
40:53and, like, just give me the opportunity to show you
40:56that I'm not that person that was on the honeymoon.
41:00Believe me when I say that that was a blip.
41:03I'm so serious about this and, like,
41:05I'm sorry for the mistakes that I've made.
41:07I just want you to come full team ahead with me
41:09and allow me to prove you wrong.
41:11I'm not here to hurt you and I'm not here to be a dickhead
41:14and I'm actually a pretty all right person.
41:17Oh, Charlie. And, like, just let me show you that.
41:22Well done, Charlie.
41:25Well done, guy.
41:28So, Eve, how likely do you feel
41:32that we can get back to how happy we were on our wedding day?
41:36Oh, Charlie.
41:38Come on, Charlie.
41:40Oh, Charlie.
41:42You're all right.
41:44I think what we're seeing here is that Charlie
41:46is clearly still invested in this relationship
41:49in spite of all that's happened
41:51and she's been very vulnerable here in front of everyone.
41:55It's brave. Yeah.
41:57I definitely have hope, I definitely do.
42:00You know, we had a rough time in Mexico
42:04and at the end of that, I don't think me and you
42:07thought we could come back from that, either of us.
42:09Then we had the dinner party and it was so, it was so, so good
42:15and I did think, you know what, this can fricking work
42:18and then we've dipped again, so...
42:22How the start of today, like, I was so overwhelmed today,
42:25like, I couldn't console myself at all.
42:27Like, I was in a horrible place again
42:29and I didn't think we could come back from it.
42:31And then, you know, you and Polly had the conversation
42:34and then I just seen hurting you and when I chased you,
42:37it broke my heart to see you like that.
42:39And then, you know, we talked and stuff,
42:41so I do have hope that we'll be able to get back on track.
42:44Do you? I do, I do.
42:46I'm sorry for what I did. I know, listen,
42:48I think we've got this in the bag.
42:50Like, if we just do the bare minimum.
42:52Maybe there is hope between Eve and Charlie
42:54because Eve sees a path forward.
42:56Clearly, Charlie's fighting for it.
42:58And that's all you need is two people
43:00who want to fight for their relationship.
43:02Yeah.
43:04Love you, Charlie.
43:06Well done, guys.
43:09OK.
43:13What do you most admire about me?
43:21Erm...
43:23You've got this house.
43:25You're the only guy who's ever made me feel so beautiful,
43:29even when I wake up first thing in the morning.
43:32Cos you are? Like...
43:34Yes, you are!
43:36APPLAUSE
43:38Stop believing it, man.
43:40Ain't that nice?
43:42Right?
43:45Like, I have craved...
43:49..just someone to make me feel so comfortable in my body
43:53for so many years.
43:55And when we was on the honeymoon, like...
43:57..you made me feel so sexy in my bikini,
44:00with my little mom-toe, my little stretch marks,
44:03my little power marks.
44:05And I just...
44:07I just...
44:09I just...
44:12And you've shown me, like,
44:14all that self-love I've worked on for so many years.
44:17Like, there's a man out there that'll look at me and admire that.
44:20Aw!
44:22CHEERING
44:26I love that.
44:28That is so special for Holly to be feeling that.
44:32That was... That was so nice.
44:34Well done, guys.
44:36Well done, babe.
44:39What do I need to do to deepen our connection?
44:43Oh, God.
44:46Our connection right now is deep enough
44:49for what it should be at this point in our relationship.
44:52I don't think we could get any deeper, you know, without rushing it.
44:57So I think our connection is good.
44:59I think it's strong. Honestly, what you're doing is enough.
45:02Aw! Aw, come on, guys!
45:04Woo-hoo!
45:06Come on, Arsene!
45:09Next question.
45:11What could I do to improve our marriage?
45:14Aw.
45:16I feel like in the last two days
45:18we have definitely taken a step in the right direction.
45:22And as soon as... I'm going to get really emotional.
45:25Don't get emotional, it's OK.
45:27I know I am so overwhelming and so full-on and so sensitive
45:32and so, so emotional.
45:34Stop it! Stop!
45:36That is what makes you who you are, so never, ever apologise for that.
45:41I couldn't imagine you in another light.
45:43Aw! Like, I love... I love everything about you.
45:46Even when you're being this crazy Christina that you think you're being,
45:50I'm like, this is amazing. This is what I need in my life.
45:53Aw!
45:55Honest.
45:57Wow. I mean, the one thing Christina needs to hear
46:02is, I accept you as you are,
46:04and he's just saying that absolutely naturally.
46:07It's quite clear that these two have started peeling back
46:10those layers of fun and started looking at each other
46:13as two humans trying to connect.
46:15It's really beautiful.
46:17Kiran...
46:20..can you see yourself falling for me?
46:23Yeah.
46:25Aw!
46:27Aw!
46:30That was quick. I loved that.
46:33Thank you. Honestly, it means the world.
46:35Honestly, it means the absolute world.
46:40Adam... Yeah?
46:43..what do you think you should do
46:45to prevent us from being stuck in the friend zone?
46:48If we're stuck in the friend zone,
46:50that's because I'm not ready to take it to that next step.
46:53And if I take it to that next step,
46:55and then in a couple of weeks' time say,
46:57I'm not feeling it still, that would upset you and hurt you, so...
47:01Yeah, but I feel like you've dodged that question
47:03because that's what you say to that every time you're asked it.
47:06But that is the truth.
47:07That's not really dodging the question.
47:09Yeah, but you have dodged the question
47:11because you've said that to every time you've been asked it.
47:14But that question's asking me how we get out of the friend zone.
47:17Well, it says, what do you think should prevent us
47:19from getting stuck in the friend zone?
47:21Oh, prevent? I thought it said take us.
47:23No, to prevent us. Oh.
47:25Well, I'm sorry, then. Rethink, rethink.
47:27Yeah, yeah. What do you think you should do...
47:30To prevent... Listen, listen.
47:33I get it, you've just read it. No.
47:35Don't start getting aggy at me.
47:39You've just read it to me, I get the question now.
47:41I get it now, I just said I apologise for getting it wrong.
47:45Jesus.
47:48I feel like I'm annoyed now, my answer's not going to be the truth.
47:51I feel like I'm pissed off now.
47:52What are you pissed off for?
47:54Because I heard the question,
47:55and then she's literally talking to me like I'm a piece of shit.
47:58No, I haven't. You did.
47:59She's like, I'm saying I prevent...
48:01Like, I heard the question.
48:03Watching Adam, it seems that throughout the night
48:06there's been an accumulation of lots of little digs,
48:08lots of little occasions where Polly has given him feedback
48:11to say, you're not doing it right.
48:13And this is really the accumulation of that,
48:15where now I think he feels he's being picked on.
48:17I do feel like you spoke to me in a tone I've not heard before.
48:21I didn't.
48:22I didn't.
48:23That was a different tone to I've not heard you say.
48:25Adam, you're overthinking that in your head.
48:27Adam, just wait, just everyone just shut up for a minute.
48:33I reworded it in a way that you'd understand.
48:36I didn't say that to you in any type of way that was shitty.
48:39I knew there was going to be shit questions anyway.
48:43Oh, fucking hell.
48:45Whatever, ask the fucking question.
48:52How does our level of physical intimacy...
48:54It's fine, just shut up.
48:56Just everyone, please, just shut up.
48:58Just shut up.
49:05Come on, pal.
49:07No, it's just really fucking true, my God,
49:09that you thought that I asked you that in a fucking shitty way
49:11and I didn't.
49:13That's just how I felt.
49:17It's all right.
49:18No, it isn't all right, though,
49:19because you've just fucking made me look like a dick
49:21in front of everyone else because you've taken it different.
49:23I felt like an idiot in front of everyone...
49:25Are we just repeating the questions you understood now?
49:28I'd already read it, I've read it myself.
49:30Shush!
49:34I will fucking leave in a minute, you need to just shut up,
49:37because I need to just listen to one person.
49:41I just felt like an idiot for giving some massive explanation
49:44and then he was like, you don't need a question.
49:47Hey, I need to... Sorry.
49:49This happens too much to me, everyone's talking about shit.
49:52Paul, are you OK?
50:01I heard the question wrong, gave you an answer,
50:03and you went, you dodged the question, tried to make me look stupid,
50:06and I'm like, what do you mean?
50:07I didn't try to make you look stupid.
50:09And I was like, oh, shit, I apologise, everyone.
50:11I didn't try to make you look stupid.
50:12I said I apologise, everyone, I've read it wrong.
50:14Adam's deflecting the question that I've asked him.
50:16It does give me doubts,
50:18and it's made me realise that things aren't where I thought they were.
50:21I just want him to be honest and open with how he feels.
50:24I didn't try to make you look stupid. I read it again.
50:26I'm not saying you tried, but it made me look stupid.
50:28I'm not going to lie to you and pretend it didn't upset me
50:30or, like, pissed me off, it pissed me off.
50:32I've seen a side to her that I don't really like.
50:34If Polly continues to talk to me like a child,
50:36then she's not the right person for me and this marriage isn't going to work.
50:45I feel content. I feel so sure.
50:49I can't see myself falling for her.
50:51There is so much love around, and I just don't feel that with Casper.
50:58I've pulled back because I don't know where she's at.
51:00I feel like I've got a guard up now.
51:02I don't look into Polly's eyes and think I really want to kiss her.
51:05Oh, my God.
51:10What did you do last night?
51:11You went into my safe space.
51:13That's not true.
51:14Oh, my God, I'm lying again. Someone, please.
51:19Eve, with respect, you've lied on the couch today.
51:41I'm sorry.