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00:00Okay, I'm optimistic about this marriage, because in my opinion, Zhao Shi doesn't love him.
00:11Last night, I kept hearing Zhao Shi keep accusing him.
00:18Is this love?
00:23I still love Zhao Shi very much, but he needs apologies and knows he was wrong.
00:53I love you.
01:06My sister, Angel, it is really long time that I've been away from her.
01:13I...
01:18I want you to be able to adjust your wishes.
01:22How can I trust him?
01:27Oh, wow, my mom is so mad at me.
01:48Why?
01:49Maybe we break her plan.
02:04It's been three years I didn't see my sister, Angel.
02:07I didn't see her since I moved back to Indonesia because she lived in Bali, which is 28 to 30 hour drive from my hometown.
02:17And I feel like it is really long time that I've been away from her.
02:23She's as weird as you.
02:25That's why we are best friend.
02:27With the other sibling, I need to watch out what I said.
02:31But with Angel, I can be myself.
02:35She will get really mad in a second, but that's what I like about her, because she always speak her mind.
02:42And I know think between us is not been good, but I'm just beyond excited to see her again.
02:51Oh, my God.
02:56I love you.
02:59How are you?
03:03You good?
03:05I'm good.
03:06It's been a long time.
03:10I miss you.
03:16Why are you crying?
03:17Don't cry.
03:18It's okay.
03:20I love you forever.
03:22No matter what, you know.
03:27How are you?
03:32Same.
03:34So, okay.
03:35Do you miss your person?
03:37I don't know.
03:38I just miss my sister, actually.
03:41I love her so much.
03:42Me too.
03:50I laugh when I'm nervous and awkward.
03:53I don't know how to handle it.
03:55So I just laugh.
03:56If I laugh, it's not as awkward, I guess.
04:04This is about as awkward as you can possibly get.
04:07I mean, I'm just stressed.
04:08I'm so stressed.
04:10But at the same time, I know me and Tata right now aren't on the best footing with the conversations about possibly having to return to the U.S.
04:18So I'm not going to poke the bear.
04:21If I wanted to, though, I'd be asking her things like, why would you say that about me?
04:25Why are you not happy for your sister?
04:27Why do you still not like me after this many years?
04:37With everything that's happened in the past, we obviously kind of have, like, I mean, I know I have my guard up a little bit.
04:44And I kind of feel like you are a little bit the same like that.
04:47You definitely seem guarded.
05:07I'm feeling so awkward right now to meeting James because I don't know James.
05:20They know each other from Instagram, I think.
05:23And then meeting for the first time and then having engaged and then move to America so quick.
05:29That's why I spread the gossip saying that James is a really bad person to my dad.
05:35Because how can I know that James is a really good person?
05:39I don't think this is a good thing to say, but I don't trust you yet.
05:52I mean, even after this love?
05:53You just go to America and then I don't know you.
05:56I never met you and come to our life and then gonna steal my sister.
06:02Like, how can I trust him?
06:05I wasn't trying to steal her.
06:07I had to be able to support her and take care of her.
06:10So she had to come to the US.
06:12She's my younger sister and she's.
06:14The baby of the family.
06:16Yeah, that's what I kind of gathered.
06:20Just give her to anyone.
06:22But I mean, after this long, it's been.
06:24We've been married for three years now.
06:26Is she still good?
06:27Should I not break her?
06:28Are you happy?
06:29She's still okay.
06:30I am happy.
06:31Really?
06:32I do.
06:33Because we are moving here.
06:35Oh, really?
06:38I didn't tell Angel about me and James problem because I just don't want to make things even more tense between them.
06:47I just want them to get along.
06:52But yeah, we're moving here.
06:54So that's good.
06:55So we can hang out again.
06:57And then what are you going to do here?
06:58What are we going to do?
06:59That's the problem we're running into.
07:01You're working in the USA, right?
07:03And then what are you going to do here?
07:06Yeah, we'll figure it out.
07:10I just want to know you that you really can take care of my sister in Indonesia and make her happy.
07:17I cannot accept James in my life as her husband because James is not going to find a job here.
07:25I mean, James just speak English and I just worry if they go back to the USA, I don't want to lose her forever.
07:33And this is really hard for me to trust him.
07:37I want you to trust me to know that I'll take care of her.
07:41Yeah.
07:42And we'll be able to make good memories and forget all the stuff in the past.
07:48We'll see.
07:49Yeah, we'll see.
07:57Do you see us ever getting married?
07:58Do people usually get married after five months?
08:01Do people usually move to another country for their people?
08:05I feel stupid in this moment.
08:07I am fully second guessing what I'm doing in Iceland.
08:13We'll see.
08:33Remember this place, babe?
08:34Our first date.
08:35Oh yeah, baby.
08:38Alright.
08:39So am I supposed to hit the board in between 9, 14 and 11?
08:41Yeah, that's it, babe.
08:42Okay.
08:44Good luck.
08:46No cheating.
08:47I don't cheat.
08:50I've been in Iceland now for a few weeks and I feel like I'm getting like repetitively whaled with whammies left and right.
08:58Whammy number one, midwifery school may not happen for me here.
09:02Whammy number two, my friends told me my man's acting single at the club on the weekends.
09:08I now have just a lot of things that I'm pondering about my relationship and how does Inki actually feel about me and like where are we going?
09:17So how was the penis museum?
09:19Um, I found out I'm the size of a sperm whale penis.
09:24Yeah.
09:25It's Corona size.
09:26It's Corona size?
09:27Yeah.
09:28Good to be with my girls.
09:29Yeah.
09:31So Bjerkatha like mentioned something that I'd like to ask you about.
09:37I'm sure it's nothing but since she brought it up, it makes me curious.
09:41Alright, what was it?
09:42She said that she's seen you within the past couple of months like at bars like talking to girls.
09:51Yeah?
09:52Yeah.
09:53Yeah, of course, probably my friends.
09:55Okay, but they were just friends?
09:59Yeah.
10:00Okay.
10:01Yeah, of course, babe.
10:03I don't know.
10:05Like in my mind, we've been exclusive since at least Dublin.
10:10Yeah, of course.
10:11I mean, yeah, when I go out, I talk to people.
10:15Yeah, it's what I do.
10:17It's what I enjoy.
10:19Okay.
10:24You yeeted those on the table.
10:26Are you okay?
10:27Yeah, I'm okay.
10:28I think it's weird.
10:30Does he see me like do anything?
10:32Like was I making out on a dance floor?
10:34Like how far?
10:37Like…
10:38Were you?
10:40No, I wasn't.
10:41Okay.
10:42Like I'm just curious to see what the f*** he had to say.
10:47There are eyes on you even when I'm not here.
10:51I've got nothing to hide, babe.
10:53I would hope not.
10:55I just don't like to be accused of s*** I didn't do.
10:58I don't think anyone's necessarily accusing you of anything.
11:00I was just asking.
11:05The fact that her friends think that I'm talking to girls at the bar
11:09kind of got me like riled up
11:11because my commitment to Corona has never been in any jeopardy.
11:15Like I mean, yeah, I would never ever cheat on her.
11:20It's like you don't trust me and I really don't like that.
11:22I've never given you any reason not to trust me.
11:25I mean, I have loads of friends and some of them are female.
11:30And also I dislike to talk to strangers as well.
11:32I mean, you thought like I was staring at walls like when I go out with my friends?
11:36Obviously not.
11:37Okay.
11:38And you getting so defensive makes me feel like maybe I shouldn't trust you as much as I trust you.
11:42Okay.
11:43I never thought that you were cheating on me or anything like that.
11:45I was just asking a question and saying like what I heard.
11:47And I answered it.
11:48You answered it defensively.
11:49As soon as I said something, your eyebrows went all crazy.
11:52Just because like I really don't like things like this.
11:56I'm definitely seeing a new side of Inky in this reaction that he has to this.
12:00It's gone from his like blase blase, everything's fine to this like defensive, almost like childish.
12:08Like I felt like I reverted back to when I was 17 having an argument with my first boyfriend and being like just pissy.
12:16I literally just told you what she said and then you could have just been like nope.
12:20I was just talking to a friend.
12:21Give me some reassurance and then that could have been the end of it.
12:24You're mad that I brought it up.
12:25Like you think I'm talking to walls?
12:27Like the ****.
12:29I believe it was nothing.
12:30I'm not upset that I thought something happened.
12:33I'm upset at your reaction and I feel like I have to hold back a lot as is.
12:36Why do you have to hold back with me, babe?
12:39Like I just worry maybe that since you haven't been in many relationships, like I don't know if you know even what I'm saying when I say I need reassurance.
12:48What do you need reassurance with?
12:50Just of this in our relationship and to know like you're as in this as I am.
12:55I mean, you know, I love you, babe.
12:57I thought that was something that you knew and like.
13:02Sometimes I think I know and sometimes I don't.
13:05Sometimes I think I know and sometimes I don't know.
13:07Like you've joked saying you want to keep your options open and **** when like I'm not on your social media and things like that.
13:12I know you roll your eyes and laugh.
13:14I'm dead **** serious.
13:16Like that's just my sense of humor.
13:18I don't know.
13:19I just this is a precious relationship.
13:21I want to make sure like it works and I know it's your first relationship and part of that's terrifying that like I may be like a trial for you.
13:29I'm like, do you see us ever getting married?
13:32Do you see us ever getting married?
13:36Do people usually get married after like five months?
13:41Do people usually move to another country for their people?
13:44We're not in a typical situation.
13:46Okay, that's true.
13:49I see this definitely rest of the life kind of situation.
13:53But like, you know, marriage.
13:57Like I come from a country of atheists like marriage is not a big deal here.
14:02I mean your brother's married.
14:03Your parents are married.
14:04Yeah, they married like mostly like for practical things like what happened like to the kids like if one of them were to pass away.
14:15Practical reasons.
14:18Marriage doesn't mean a thing because for me it's like when you love someone and like you trust someone and you like have a relationship with them like that's enough.
14:29So having some dude in a rope say something in Latin like that doesn't mean a thing to me.
14:38I love Corona and I don't need to put a ring on her finger to prove my commitment to her.
14:46Maybe I didn't also realize that marriage was so important to you.
14:50I sent you a ring months ago.
14:52If it wasn't important to me, I wouldn't have done that.
14:55Maybe that was a joke.
14:57That was not a joke.
15:02I am like a bit caught off guard like with marriage being talked about so soon.
15:09I don't see how you can be so caught off guard. I literally showed you the ring I want months ago.
15:15How are you so caught off guard?
15:17Are you just saying that because I'm asking you?
15:19I don't want to be married to someone who doesn't want to be married to me.
15:33Okay.
15:36I feel stupid in this moment.
15:39I feel like I'm not being myself.
15:42Okay.
15:45I feel stupid in this moment like why would I give up my hopes and dreams to come be with some dude
15:51who may or may not want to marry me sometime in the future.
15:56So it's making me feel like I'm alone in this relationship.
15:59I am fully second guessing what I'm doing in Iceland.
16:12Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
16:18I have no idea what's happening.
16:21This wedding is about as different as it could possibly be from my wedding in the U.S.
16:25So now they're possessed by angels?
16:28Yeah.
16:30I wish I handled it differently.
16:33You know, that's my fault.
16:42I know we have a problem.
16:51Did you really have no idea that I actually wanted to get married?
16:54Many of my friends have been in a relationship for eight, nine years without even being engaged.
17:00Am I going to gamble on a man who may or may not even want to marry me?
17:05I'm telling you right now you are with the wrong person.
17:1190 Day Fiancé