90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 6 Episode 14 - Reality Frights - Part 2/3
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00:00I
00:02I'm hoping my brother Jared. He'll be able to kind of help our relationship a little bit
00:07We need to figure out how to speak to each other without offending the other person. It's been that way. It's been a cycle
00:13I mean, you're not worried about it not working out. Are you?
00:18Basically she said I wouldn't be able to start at best like a year and a half
00:24Really nice that you met me then. I have loads of business. I
00:28Don't think he realizes how much I'm questioning my choices that have led me to this moment. I think I'm running out of patience
00:36You
00:52This came today, let me see. Oh
00:55Maybe our bedroom carpet carpet. All right, I'll take this upstairs
01:01My brother Jared, he's arriving today and he's gonna enjoy some time with us before the wedding ceremony
01:07Where's this go? Oh
01:09Is this a bed? But I did. Yeah, I'm nasty Jared
01:17Jared and I have a wonderful relationship. We understand each other's humor. He's always there for me
01:22I'm always there for him and it's nice to have someone from my family here
01:27This
01:34Is for you
01:45Wow, look at this so much Wow your home is beautiful. Yes
01:52I
01:53Need to make a change. Ah, so this is how now you can tell Jared
01:58I would you do that? You're the reason非常好用時間跟家室争吵争论的时候呢
02:04Oh, wait, I fancy. She tell her way for war. Tell her you go. So it's more to do
02:10We do that. I go with a she
02:12Shall have a bunch of you can do the elevator
02:15really
02:17Okay
02:19Okay, look at this you got five stories to choose from
02:27There's music in the elevator
02:29This is not real
02:30It's a little overwhelming to think this is my brother's new home the idea that I can't just hop on over to his house
02:36If he needs me that part still settling with me, but the house is gorgeous. It's beautiful
02:43Wow
02:45This is Josh and me by the look at this, oh
02:50My goodness, I feel like Josh has found a secret recipe, right?
02:56I mean, I there's I'm sure there's a dozen guys out there
02:59If not hundreds who would love to have somebody take me away bring me to their house
03:03That's five stories with a glass elevator and and just take care of me, you know
03:08I mean, I don't know. It seems like a pretty good situation for him. A lot of this doesn't make sense yet
03:13We're still putting the pieces together
03:16You say your room Wow, just a small but this is plenty big
03:23Yes, no, wow sheets. Okay for you. Sure. This is awesome. And
03:29Then this room nice. So that bed downstairs, I mean you're gonna move it up. Oh
03:37Okay, so carry up a mattress yeah
03:40My brother sits back and watches I mean every relationship I have he sees my mistakes and he tells me about him
03:49You want this mattress?
03:51Third floor third floor. Mm-hmm. Do you do it? No, we'll give it a try
03:57Here we go. I'll go first. I'm hoping that he'll be able to kind of help our relationship a little bit
04:05He may be able to explain things to Lily that I can't and Jerry may open my eyes to
04:11Lily's views that I don't see
04:15It's good for now nice, okay take a break, okay
04:23Thanks for helping as a big Oh, it's gonna be feeling in the morning
04:28Okay
04:29So you uh, you guys doing good? Yeah, I mean we've always had our ups and downs
04:36The other day we had an argument she said oh, you know, I keep doing this for you
04:41I spend this much money on you and it's touchy subject for me because I can't work
04:48So when she keeps saying it does hurt I replied back saying well if you're in love with me
04:54You wouldn't say it which in turn hurts her. It's been that way. It's been a cycle. Yeah, and that's the problem
05:00Do you think she's making those comments to remind you?
05:03You're not contributing so you don't get a say or do you think it's just maybe a language barrier?
05:08I think it's her way of communication. She's very straightforward. Well, dude, I mean you guys gotta be overwhelmed
05:14She had this has to be stressful for her has to be stressful for you
05:17This is not a normal pathway
05:20To any relationship I'm plus we were married and then separated for eight months
05:26That's nuts. Yeah, we need to figure out how to speak to each other without offending the other person
05:35I'm not shocked to hear about any struggles. This is nothing new. I think what's new is the way he's
05:42reacting to those arguments
05:44In previous relationships when the going gets tough
05:47Sometimes Josh would get going in the past my parents and I myself we don't want to have another relationship that doesn't work out
05:54There's some things that might need to settle
05:57Hopefully I can help them do that. I
06:00Mean, you're not worried about it not working out. Are you I?
06:06Don't know we're stuck in this battle
06:09Is our relationship gonna grow or is it just gonna just remain the way it is and just be unhappy
06:33Yes, you don't have to do it
06:38You
06:44How did it go in the university
06:47One thing at a time, babe. All right
06:50Today, I'm taking Corona up to Nettles week and I'm gonna do a little cold plunge. Oh my god
06:58my poor toes
07:00It's good. I stand a tradition to take like a cold plunge and I'm like get the benefits
07:05I mean, that's good for your joints and also just the feeling afterwards just really good and the day
07:10I think the ocean is like minus four Celsius
07:13So yeah, Corona might die here today
07:28Inky was built for this kind of he's a Viking he's built for cold
07:33I'm built for hot
07:36Oh
07:37hell
07:38Black people aren't supposed to do this
07:41That's landing thing, babe
07:47Yeah, okay, okay
07:54Okay, okay, okay
08:02Oh
08:20My god, I really can't feel my legs. Holy
08:24Sea swimming is not for black people
08:27No
08:29No, that was a thing to make me do
08:32Don't ever ask me again. That was a mistake. I'm not sure if I love you
08:40It's gonna be so good when we get to the hotel I mean she's really it's just like, you know trying to become like
08:47Iceland I'm not trying to become a Viking. You know, I don't need to assimilate that hard. I don't need that
08:54I
08:57Feel your toes you're back to normal. Yes, they're all there should we do a head count?
09:02Like okay, one, two, three, four, five one, two, three four
09:09The hot tub is nice, right? Yeah, this is nice. Hey, how did it go in the university?
09:17It went it went
09:20Basically, she said I wouldn't be able to start at best like a year and a half
09:26But most likely like two and a half years until I could start the program
09:30And I think she was stressing the importance of me needing to know the language. Oh, yeah
09:35Yeah, yeah, but you're me you're well on your way to get the language. But like I said, I'm like not
09:41And ultimately I just worry that like all this would affect my mood in a way that would start to affect your mood in our
09:48relationship
09:49Yeah, you're putting a pretty dark reality here. I
09:53Am really surprised that she would have to wait
09:57two and a half years
09:58But like then again, like I think we haven't like explored all avenues
10:04Like I mean, she just moved here. I still see a way that this can all work out
10:11But like what does he say about like work at the hospital as a nurse?
10:15Like doing some other nurse stuff I could do other nurse stuff. Sure. Yeah, but that's not in my field
10:20And that's not like my passion. That's not what I've busted my ass for
10:24Yeah, but that can also be a
10:26Part of the journey. I mean sometimes you have to wait a little bit like we say in Icelandic
10:31Go get a steak or good things happen slow
10:36Yeah, I
10:38Mean, I also feel like I've been waiting for this for so long already
10:40Like it's not like I got in the first time I applied in the States
10:44Took me years to get in. I think I'm running out of patience
10:49Really nice that you met me then. I have loads of business
10:55There is a thin line between
10:57coming off very like chill and confident that things will work out and
11:02Just not giving a damn. I don't need him to just tell me everything is gonna be okay
11:06I need him to tell me how it's gonna be. Okay, what plans can we make?
11:10What can we do?
11:11Because like there is no version of my future where I would be happy and fulfilled in life and not be a midwife
11:18You do everything back. I
11:21Guess I feel like you're making it seem like it's really casual. It's actually like a really big deal
11:27It's just a big deal if you make it a big deal I
11:33Don't think he realizes how much I'm questioning
11:36My choices that have led me to this moment because right now I feel like I'm more into this relationship
11:43Than he is and it's now biting me in the ass
11:47I've had a very specific goal. Yeah for my entire life. Yeah, I
11:53Feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place and all my options
11:58Kind of suck
12:00I
12:08Have been
12:10everything and
12:12Right now she's not trusting but she is so possessive. I just want one thing from you
12:30I
12:44Just want you to have a fun baby
12:48There's been plenty of fighting since I moved back into the apartment and Sarp and I still have a lot of issues to work through
12:55But today I want to just try to have some fun
13:00Yes, oh my god
13:02Wow, you want me to dress you up? Yes. Come week. Thank you
13:08So Sarper is taking me to this incredible photo shoot studio
13:12it has beautiful views of the city and it has all of these traditional garments that you can wear for the photos and
13:19I'm hoping that this is a good opportunity to get out and reconnect. Oh my god all the colors
13:25Which the nicest?
13:28I like red for you, babe. You go and dress. Okay, I
13:33Like traditional things in Turkey, and I just want to she kind of to experience that
13:40Okay, please the most traditional looks are the Ottoman Empire
13:44That Sultan wears those kind of clothes and he has a lot of wives
13:51But I have only one, you know
13:53Wow
13:57You look so elegant gorgeous, babe, do you have that expression in us?
14:04Sure do
14:06Wow
14:07You look so handsome, honey
14:10What is a sultan? What do they do?
14:13They command me. Oh, they command. Yes, perfect for you
14:17You're born for this role. Yeah, which crown you choose
14:22Back in LA, I love to get dressed up and have photo shoots
14:26But I feel like I'm stepping back in time to put on these garments
14:31So stunning. I would never usually have this many clothes on
14:35This is your color, babe. Would you look here, please?
14:44Look each other your assault. I don't feel nobody but what happened. Did you fall from your throne?
14:51For a short time. You'll get back up there
14:56You will
15:02I'm going to switch my camera and I will be back for you. Okay, sounds good. Thank you. I
15:08Brought you here to change our mood
15:10Our relationship is like an old roller coaster up and down too much and mostly those
15:16To be honest because of our arguments because of my actions and how I treat you
15:22But I'm trying my best to change myself and I will do
15:28Yeah, look at you
15:30Correcting that's good. It's folks right? It's helping. I
15:35Just want one thing from you. I
15:39Have been up everything and
15:43Right now she's not trusting but she is so possessive and
15:49That bothers me. So I just want to talk with her. Maybe she can learn to trust me hundred percent
15:59You know, you are so possessive, right
16:03About what about me about everything. Well, of course, I think it's better than being jealous
16:09Being jealous is when you want something that's not yours and possessive is when you want to protect what's already yours
16:14And I feel like you're mine
16:15So I want to protect you were every for three and a half months and I was loyal loyal to you as a puppy
16:21You know, I have no thoughts of cheating on you nothing. So I just want you to
16:28Stop that's possessiveness a little okay
16:31and
16:33Just trust me. Do you understand that my trust got broken because of what happened?
16:39Because of how you treated. Yes. Yes
16:41Yes, but just believe in my good intentions and my trying everything will be fixed. You will see
16:49You are so cute. Thank you
16:53Cyber is really showing me that he is trying and that he can make changes
16:56I don't like old world a surfer which gets
17:01angry
17:03In every situation, yeah, so I want to change I'm so glad
17:08But if you want to help me you have to trust me
17:11I mean, even if you find a girl real girl in the closet, you have to trust me
17:18I have to trust my intuition. I love your intuition. Yeah, I hope you do
17:25I'm learning
17:27Okay, that's good. Give me some treats
17:30I deserve that. You have to earn it. You are my treat. Okay, good. Okay, let's just stop talking
17:40When we are good like this, it is so great. I want to lick you so bad right now. Okay
17:50He loved it