Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 20
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00:00So, I can't even have banter and try and make friends while I'm here.
00:03Previously...
00:04She said to Orson, hold my hand, let's make him jealous.
00:07She's been super flirty with you.
00:09She's trying it on with all the other guys.
00:10It's not a swingers club.
00:12Rumours at the retreat put Hannah in the firing line.
00:15It looks f***ing shady.
00:16I'm not going to sit here and get every single person to tell me what they don't like about
00:20me.
00:21I'll tell you.
00:22No, I'm going to tell you.
00:23Oh, I'm not f***ing...
00:24You're speaking to me like shit.
00:25She's going about things like a dickhead.
00:26While a candid confession...
00:27Stick with your current partner or twist...
00:30Twist?
00:31Stephen.
00:32...threw Polly's marriage into turmoil.
00:35The fact that you've gone, I'll switch to Stephen...
00:37It's no difference now.
00:38...is more news f***ing.
00:39I'm getting better every week and you're still not f***ing happy.
00:42It's just shit.
00:44I don't want to lose him.
00:46F***.
00:50Tonight...
00:51I'm waking up by myself.
00:52I haven't got a wife.
00:53There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
00:57As two marriages hit breaking point...
00:59She tries to talk to me at the dinner party.
01:01I'm just going to ignore her.
01:02...eyes begin to wander.
01:03I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
01:07I definitely could let my hair down tonight.
01:09So you find Sian unattractive?
01:11Oh, she's my type.
01:12Stephen said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight, I'm going to shoot myself.
01:17Leading to a clash of husbands.
01:19If I wasn't here, it'd crack on with her.
01:21Muppets.
01:22F*** me.
01:23This wasn't part of the plan.
01:26And Adam's hurt feelings.
01:27I'm sorry.
01:28I'm f***ing sorry, Adam.
01:29There you go.
01:30It's a fake sorry.
01:31I don't quit.
01:32Spark renewed conflict with wife Polly.
01:35The stuff that he said about me is f***ing hurtful.
01:51You do look very handsome today, must I say?
01:53Thank you, darling.
01:55Don't you worry.
01:56I'll be looking handsome as well when I get all dressed up.
02:00The couples are waking up to their final day at the retreat.
02:07What are you making?
02:08Coffee.
02:09I need one.
02:10Knackered.
02:16Oh dear, Kasper.
02:17Funny.
02:18I got my way.
02:19I got my wicked way.
02:21You got a snog?
02:23Yes.
02:25I'm going with a yes to that.
02:27Yeah.
02:29There was mood lighting around the fireplace.
02:32A carafe of red on the side.
02:35I'd removed the pillows between us to snuggle on in.
02:38And then I finally said, close your eyes, Kasper.
02:43Oh dear.
02:45People are going to be very excited for us.
02:49Oh dear.
02:51Emma and I have been getting on really, really, really well.
02:55I was a little bit tipsy last night.
02:56I gave in after a few glasses of wine.
02:59It was a good kiss.
03:03You're getting your hair cut today.
03:04I'm getting my hair cut today.
03:05Finally.
03:06Let him loose.
03:14I have not seen Michelle for the whole of this retreat.
03:18I'm waking up in my bed by myself.
03:20You know, I haven't got a wife.
03:23I can't see no way back from my marriage.
03:28I don't see any point in us staying together while on this retreat.
03:32After a dispute over the previous commitment ceremony.
03:35You sat on the couch and you said that how,
03:37when I said about not being mentally stimulated,
03:39you said that caused you distress.
03:41We had ample opportunities to talk about it in private.
03:44You never mentioned that to me.
03:45It's fine for you to say you bore me.
03:47It's fine for you to say you don't mentally stimulate me.
03:51But you could have addressed it at the time.
03:53It's fine for you to have arguments and then just walk out.
03:56Is it fine for you to lie as much as you have?
04:01Let me just say this.
04:02What about your lies?
04:03I'm not going to actually sit here and talk to you.
04:05Let's talk about your lies, Orson.
04:06I don't want to be in the same space as you.
04:07Did I ask you a certain question?
04:09You're a little liar.
04:10You're a fraud.
04:12Michelle and Orson decided to spend the rest of the retreat apart.
04:16I am done.
04:19It's good to be in this setting alone.
04:22There isn't a fibre in my body that cares about Orson.
04:26And that's the reality of it.
04:28I don't have any intention of going into the dinner party with him tonight.
04:36Good morning.
04:37Good morning, honey. Are you all right?
04:38Did you sleep well?
04:40Not really.
04:41Give us a spud.
04:42Yes.
04:43I'm tired today.
04:44I just feel like every day I'm walking into a lion's den
04:47and I'm just attacked and then I have to, like, get over it
04:50and then it's just like, whoa, it's a lot.
04:54On Girls' Day yesterday, I felt completely ambushed
04:56and it was horrible.
04:57I'm kind of getting a bit bored of having to justify
04:59every single thing I do and say.
05:01I feel like you cope with it very well.
05:03Do you think you'll be walking into the dinner party separate?
05:06100%.
05:08Waking up this morning, I feel like I've had a really shit week.
05:12I feel a bit drained of the whole thing
05:15and even my husband's pied me off.
05:17But I came on this retreat for this marriage,
05:20so I'm still here.
05:22We were actually matched really, really, really well
05:24and I've never felt the connection that me and him felt instantly
05:28in a long time.
05:29Like, I've not felt that with someone in a long time.
05:32I would love to get through to Stephen
05:34and just say, what do you want from me?
05:36Like, what do you want me to do?
05:40How's things going?
05:42Could be better.
05:44Are you looking forward to sitting next to Hannah tonight?
05:47I won't talk to her.
05:49I'm so out of it.
05:50There's no words left to be said, in my opinion.
05:52Last week, I went into the commuter ceremony
05:54with the attitude of, I'll give it a go.
05:58I don't think I'm the person she needs.
06:01The next chat I have with Hannah will be in front of the experts.
06:04If she tries to talk to me at the dinner party,
06:06I'm just going to ignore her.
06:08If she tries arguing, she'll be arguing with herself.
06:10I'm just not here for it anymore.
06:11I've got no energy left for her.
06:13I seen Shannon on her own last night.
06:16She was with her suitcase going to her new apartment.
06:18Something must have been brewing
06:20for her to just end up in a room on her own.
06:22I saw Ryan last night, quite late.
06:24And Ryan was just like, oh, yeah, I'm just getting to bed now.
06:28Shannon is my type outside of here.
06:30Like, completely, yeah.
06:31Tats and...
06:32Everything.
06:33Right.
06:34Even without tats, just the face.
06:35She might be single now, bro.
06:37No, no.
06:43Ryan and I had our first little fallout last night.
06:46He kind of thought I was hiding things from the girls' day.
06:49So we just decided it was best to spend the night apart.
06:54I feel like the argument was totally blown out of proportion.
06:57Like, it was just minor things.
06:59I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
07:01Like, I've not done anything wrong.
07:07Last night, Shannon came in, climbed on bed.
07:11She was like, so what questions did you lads get asked?
07:14So I said, what questions did the girls get asked?
07:17She's like, oh, I can't remember now.
07:19This, that, the other, blah, blah, blah.
07:21Just, like, tried to bat it off.
07:23So I said, I'm not going to answer what's been said.
07:25What's been said to have used?
07:27Like, Lacey came in.
07:28She was like, hi, Ryan, you all right?
07:30Shannon gets up.
07:31She goes, no, we're not all right.
07:32And walks out.
07:33She's stalled elsewhere last night.
07:35I don't know where she is.
07:36Hopefully, he's sorted it today.
07:38Like, the dinner party.
07:39We'll see.
07:41I'm feeling calm just going to the dinner party.
07:43I didn't really want to go in on my own
07:45because I knew it was nothing.
07:47But, yeah, we need to work on communication.
07:49I'm not here for no other woman.
07:57I really needed this.
07:58But the wife's happy.
07:59You've got free reign.
08:00Just go mad.
08:01Do whatever you think's going to make me look good, mate.
08:03I think I like the idea as well that we haven't got a mirror.
08:05So you can't see what I'm doing.
08:07I could be doing anything.
08:09How are you?
08:10Yeah, well, when I got back to my lodge last night with Alex,
08:14I found out that Polly had said she would switch to Stephen.
08:18That's going to hurt.
08:19Yeah, it was a bit of a kick in the teeth.
08:21Her reasons behind it was, is because Stephen's in touch
08:24with his emotional side.
08:25He talks about his feelings, and he's very open.
08:27Yeah.
08:28So I've just said to her, like, I think it's disrespectful.
08:31And I feel like you've kind of mugged me off
08:33in front of everyone.
08:34I've got to go.
08:36I'm a little bit nervous going into the dinner party today.
08:39Me and Polly haven't really spoken this morning.
08:42So God knows what's going to happen.
08:47Good morning.
08:50You OK?
08:51Yeah.
08:52Waking up this morning, I still feel really upset
08:54because things between me and Adam still haven't been resolved.
08:58Adam left this morning.
08:59There was no kind of, bye, I'll see you in a bit,
09:01or anything like that.
09:02Adam left this morning.
09:03There was no kind of, bye, I'll see you in a bit.
09:05Like, there was no reassurance from him.
09:08I woke up really early, give him a spoon,
09:10give him a kiss on the back, but then not got anything.
09:15Yes, I shouldn't have said twist straight away.
09:19I should have said stick.
09:21However, there are tendencies in Stephen that I want from Adam.
09:26That was it.
09:27Adam has said a lot of stuff that I've
09:29had to take on the chin.
09:31He says things sometimes in the moment
09:33that he doesn't necessarily mean,
09:34and then he has to explain himself.
09:36I've done exactly the same as he's done,
09:38and I got what I got, which is really unfair.
09:42What on earth makes him think that that's acceptable?
09:45I agree.
09:46I don't deserve that.
09:47I do not deserve to go in there tonight
09:49to be made feel like shit.
09:51Woe betide Adam.
09:52I'm bored of it.
10:01Here we are, guys, the fourth dinner party.
10:03And of course, this time, all our couples
10:05are away on their luxury retreat.
10:08It's a very different environment, of course,
10:10because it's much more relaxed for our couples.
10:12Hopefully, they can let their guards down a little bit
10:14and really deepen those connections.
10:16And recently, we've had three new couples join the group.
10:19It'll be interesting to see how they've been integrating.
10:26Oh, it's looking fabulous.
10:27Isn't it?
10:28First in.
10:30Emma and Casper.
10:31And Casper's hat.
10:33What's going on there?
10:34Hopefully, he's going to reveal something fabulous.
10:36Yes.
10:37Let's hope.
10:38Whoop.
10:39Last time we saw this couple, Casper said leave.
10:42And we really asked Emma to lean into that more vulnerable,
10:45fragile side, because that was really
10:47what Casper was wanting to see.
10:49I wonder if she's done that.
10:51Do you want to see it?
10:52Oh, yes.
10:53Yeah, let's see the hair.
10:54Whip it off.
10:56Oh, fabulous.
10:59Wow, a different looking Casper.
11:01Woo.
11:02I like it.
11:03I really like it.
11:04He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:05He hasn't gone too drastic.
11:06No, no, no.
11:07Not at all.
11:08To a new Casper.
11:13Oh, yes, it is one of our beautiful friends.
11:15Hello.
11:16Hello, gorgeous people.
11:17Hello.
11:18Oh, look at his short fucking sides.
11:19Welcome to you.
11:20Hello.
11:21You look amazing.
11:22Hello, hello, hello.
11:23Hello.
11:24I like the green.
11:26Here you are, darling.
11:27Co-sister of the Milstacks.
11:28Thank you so much.
11:29Cheers, Casper.
11:30Cheers.
11:31Do you want to sit guys together?
11:33Yeah, yeah.
11:34How are you feeling about Casper's new haircut?
11:37I really like it.
11:38I think it's way more subtle than I thought it would be.
11:43We did have a still glass night.
11:44I did plant the kiss.
11:45I said I was going to, didn't I?
11:48Oh, wow.
11:49This is real progress from the last commitment ceremony.
11:52Casper was saying leave.
11:54And now they're snogging.
11:56That's a good start.
11:57That's a good start.
11:58Once you break the ice, now it becomes a bit more less of an awkward thing.
12:01Because once you've opened the fridge,
12:03you might as well put your hand in and grab something.
12:07Have you heard about any sort of what's going on with the couples?
12:10The guys around always went, I think it was Alex, Adam and Orson.
12:15Alex asked, did Polly say twist?
12:18Like, is this true?
12:19And I was like, yeah.
12:20I had Adam round to mine this morning to cut my hair.
12:24And he's really disappointed with Polly.
12:25Has he got it?
12:26He was surprised.
12:27You know, because he said stick.
12:30Well, that's quite a shock.
12:31Because Polly and Adam have been getting on so well.
12:34So I wonder what's going on there.
12:41Oh, there they are.
12:42Hello.
12:43And here come Polly and Adam walking in together.
12:47So this is quite a surprise.
12:48Because we know that something has happened.
12:51Looking fire once again.
12:54Thank you, my love.
12:55And it looks like Adam doesn't want to be there.
12:58How are we?
12:59Kasper!
13:01Hello.
13:02How are you?
13:03You OK?
13:04Yeah, good.
13:05Me and Polly are going into the mixer together.
13:07I think she just wanted to lean calm, so I just let her do it.
13:10But I'm still pissed off and I don't want to speak to her yet.
13:15I've heard he was getting a little bit...
13:18Jesus.
13:20But do you not sometimes look at her?
13:22She's a gorgeous woman.
13:23Look at her.
13:24That's nice.
13:25Touching her a week ago was like, no fucking way.
13:28And now she's like, let's jump into bed together.
13:30And I'm like, whoa.
13:31It's like from here to there.
13:33Yeah.
13:34And the more she pushes like this, the more I'm going to withdraw.
13:37It's trying to find that balance.
13:39These two clearly feel very differently about intimacy.
13:42Kasper feels awkward about it all.
13:45And we know he's a guy with high privacy settings.
13:48But Emma feels that the floodgates have opened.
13:51She needs to be careful not to push too hard.
13:53Otherwise, she might well push him away.
13:58We had that big argument last night when everyone left.
14:01It's not that deep, is it?
14:03It's not.
14:04It isn't.
14:05And I feel like it's just breezed his ego a little bit.
14:07And I feel like if that's what it needed to take to get you to admit
14:09that you like me a lot more than you're letting on,
14:11then fucking show me that.
14:12He hasn't spoken to me all day.
14:14He said that he wants space and that he wants to sort his head out.
14:17I've respected that.
14:18He was like, I've never got so angry.
14:20This has never happened in a relationship before.
14:22And I thought, what, because I haven't had a fucking backbone?
14:24Sorry, are you forgetting some of the shit that you said about me
14:26on the couch in front of all of our friends
14:28that you don't think has embarrassed me?
14:30Fuck off.
14:31Fuck off.
14:34Interestingly, over the last few weeks,
14:37Polly has tried different tactics to get Adam to see her
14:41and to be attracted to her.
14:44And I do wonder whether this is like another tactic
14:47so that Adam can be a bit jealous.
14:49And if that's the case,
14:51that is the worst way to get your partner's attention.
14:54Still pissed off, to be fair.
14:56If someone said someone's good looking...
14:58So what?
14:59Yeah, I don't care.
15:00Yeah, so what?
15:01But it's the idea of switching that's such a big thing.
15:04You said this, you're lying, you're trying to get out of it,
15:07you tried to turn it on me.
15:09It's like, just own it.
15:11At the last commitment ceremony,
15:13Adam asked for permission for Polly to cheat.
15:15And here he is, upset,
15:17because she has now said, I want a twist.
15:20I suspect here Polly is wanting to punish Adam
15:23for some of the nasty things that he's said to her.
15:26But as we know, two wrongs don't make a right.
15:29This couple are in danger of slipping into that
15:32point scoring dynamic, and no one's going to win.
15:37Oh wow, Orson's alone.
15:44So, where is Rochelle? Have you seen her? I'm guessing not.
15:48The last time I saw Rochelle is the day when we got here.
15:54I've been compromising, compromising.
15:58I'm doing, I'm doing, nothing's coming back.
16:00You're not even opening up to me emotionally,
16:03so I could maybe help you.
16:05Nobody lives with us,
16:07so nobody knows what I have to deal with on a daily basis.
16:11Like, I've really tried, I genuinely tried.
16:16At the last commitment ceremony, Orson and Rochelle both said stay.
16:20I do wonder if some of Rochelle's feedback
16:23about him not being good enough for her
16:26has really played a part in him walking in today by himself.
16:32Ah, there's the team.
16:34Hello! Hello!
16:36Hi! Hi, guys!
16:38Oh, my God, look at you beautiful girls!
16:41Hearing a Christina.
16:43All smiles, high energy.
16:45Here we are, the party can start.
16:48How was boys' day?
16:50Was it?
16:51Phil said you were the funnier.
16:53I think I said I'd avoid you as a husband,
16:56cos I think your energy is too much for me.
16:59Are you fucking joking?!
17:01Me?! I think you're too optimistic!
17:09Hello! Oh, hey!
17:12Hello, you. Oh, I love your hair.
17:14Thank you, darling, how are you? You look really well.
17:17Are you close, bro? Listen, listen, mumbo.
17:20Here she is. Hiya.
17:22And mademoiselle. Aw, look at you.
17:25Has anyone else had an argument over them questions?
17:28I don't know, but I know Shannon and Ryan spent the night apart last night.
17:32Really? Yeah. Why? Don't know.
17:34That's a big change.
17:36I mean, we need to understand what's happened
17:38between the last commitment ceremony and today.
17:41Hopefully it's not too serious.
17:43Amy. Amy.
17:45Why did Shannon and Ryan spend the night apart last night, do you know?
17:48Shannon and Ryan did, though. Yeah.
17:50Don't lie. No, they did.
17:54Hi, guys.
17:56You're looking amazing.
17:58Thanks, babe. Why should I look?
18:00You look gorgeous.
18:02Why is she like her, then?
18:04I don't know. Apparently, she stopped on her own last night.
18:07She looks upset.
18:09Are you OK, first of all? Yeah, I'm OK.
18:11Like, Ryan was asking questions about girls, then,
18:14and he thought that I was hiding stuff from him.
18:16And then Lacey came in and asked if I was all right,
18:19and I was like, no, and that just totally set him off.
18:23Hey, guys!
18:25I'm walking in, I feel pretty nervous.
18:27I don't really know who's mad at me,
18:29so I don't know really what I'm walking into.
18:32Hello, Sunshine State.
18:34What were the cats dragged in?
18:36Oh, no, you didn't.
18:38Yeah, that wasn't very nice.
18:40Oh, my God.
18:42Oh, my God.
18:44Oh, my God.
18:46Oh, my God.
18:48Oh, my God.
18:50Oh, no, you didn't.
18:52Yeah, that wasn't very kind, Holly.
18:54I'm not even getting up. I'm not even acknowledging who's just walked in.
18:57So it sounds like Holly and Hannah have had a bit of a run-in.
19:00It makes you wonder what Hannah actually did
19:03to make Holly and Polly so angry.
19:05Are you smuggy? Are you OK?
19:09You all right?
19:13Hello. Hello, you OK?
19:15Are you saying hi? No? No, not really.
19:17Are you OK? Yeah.
19:23Polly.
19:25Why? Just say hello.
19:27Why the fuck should I say hello?
19:29Fuck her.
19:31Fuck her.
19:33You've rubbed me the fucking wrong way now.
19:41There he is!
19:43Hello. Hello.
19:45Hello.
19:47Oh, he looks really smart. Hello, hello.
19:49He looks really nice.
19:51Stephen's walked in. He actually annoyingly looks quite fit.
19:54You look very bright.
19:56Thank you so much. OK.
19:58Yeah, you.
20:00Hopefully we can both enjoy the dinner party as a couple.
20:03Looking gorgeous. Hello, darling.
20:05How are you? Yeah, good.
20:07How wild. Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:09No, I'm done talking to you.
20:12Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:17No matter what she has done, at least hello.
20:20Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
20:22Yeah, it's disrespectful.
20:24You all good? Yeah, you. Why don't you say hello?
20:26Huh? Say hello. You good?
20:29Hello, darling. How are you?
20:31Yeah, good.
20:33How wild. Are you actually not going to say hi to me?
20:35No, I'm done talking to you.
20:39Jesus Christ, that was fucking frosty.
20:43No matter what she has done, at least hello.
20:46Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
20:48You all good? Yeah, you. Why don't you say hello?
20:50Huh? Say hello. You good?
20:52Yeah, you. Why don't you say hello?
20:54Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
20:56No matter what she has done, at least hello.
20:58Sure. At least an acknowledgement.
21:00Yeah, it's disrespectful.
21:02You all good? Yeah, you. Why don't you say hello?
21:04Huh? Say hello. You good?
21:11When we saw Hannah and Stephen at the commitment ceremony,
21:14things were rocky.
21:16Stephen felt betrayed by Hannah
21:18and Hannah was trying really hard to prove to him,
21:21I'm not like that.
21:23He's not able to get past that.
21:26She's a fucking idiot. She's a fucking idiot.
21:28Who? Hannah.
21:30She was like, oh, are we not saying hello? No, not really.
21:32I don't even want to breathe in your direction.
21:34I wouldn't even piss on you if you was on fire.
21:36Go away. The thing that really annoys me
21:38is the fact that she actually looks really nice.
21:40What? She actually looks really nice.
21:42And that's what's pissing me off the most,
21:44cos I really like that jumpsuit.
21:46I really like that jumpsuit and it's annoying me
21:48cos I want to be like, where's your jumpsuit from?
21:50I mean, in many ways, this is classic deflection, isn't it,
21:53on Polly's part?
21:55Things are not going well between her and Adam,
21:57so she's shifting the focus onto another person.
22:03Why are you looking at me like that?
22:05I really like you today.
22:07She's like me every day.
22:09No, you look really good.
22:11So do you.
22:13I like this. Aww.
22:15Here's her cute hair.
22:17No, we are good at the minute, aren't we?
22:19Yeah, yeah, we're good, man.
22:21If you're willing to stay and fight for what you've got,
22:24you'll always come back stronger,
22:26because every time me and Harley butt heads,
22:29when we resolve it, I learn something about her.
22:32We've come such a long way, and you will hit so many obstacles,
22:35but it's how you deal with them
22:37and how you come back together is what will make you progress.
22:40They sound like they know what they're talking about.
22:43I think the two of them have been listening to us.
22:46So this is progress.
22:52Is Ryan coming today?
22:54She moved out last night.
22:56And I said, is it done? And she's like, we'll see if he turns up.
22:59So if he turns up, it's not done?
23:02Better be quick.
23:10This is awful news for Ryan and Shannon.
23:13Mm-hm. It is. It's sad.
23:15Would you pull off our chat now, if he don't turn up?
23:22Got to be fast, bro.
23:25It's an easy question.
23:27Only if I knew he wasn't turning up full stop.
23:30I think you take your time, take a deep breath, see what happens.
23:33Right.
23:39So this here is a definition of cut and run.
23:42I don't know what he's playing at.
23:44He's new to the experiment.
23:46They've come up against one hurdle,
23:48and he's probably thinking about looking outside of his own relationship.
23:53Holly.
23:57Hello.
24:05Basically, Ryan doesn't believe she had his back on Girls' Day.
24:09We had an hour and she stayed apart from him.
24:11So is he coming today?
24:13She's been here a while.
24:16If he doesn't come in, would she stay with Stephen?
24:19What? Who?
24:23Oh, shit. What did he say?
24:25She just said it. If he doesn't come in, would he stay with Stephen?
24:28Wow. He just said it.
24:30If he doesn't turn up...
24:32You find Shannon attractive.
24:34Oh, she's my type. She's absolutely going to turn up.
24:36She's my type. Let's take this straight up.
24:39Do something felt for me. OK.
24:42Here they are.
24:44Oh!
24:46Oh, yeah, I was pushing back.
24:48You all right? How are you doing?
24:50Are you all right?
24:55Shannon, I need to talk to you.
25:00This is something that needs to be a bit DL.
25:03You look beautiful.
25:05Right, Shannon.
25:07Oh, God, Sian.
25:11OK, so, basically, you've just seen that Stephen called me over.
25:15He said, what's going on with Shannon and Ryan?
25:17Do you think they're done?
25:19And I said, I don't think they are.
25:21And he said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight,
25:23I'm going to shoot my shot.
25:25Cos she's just my type.
25:27He went, so does that mean Shannon will be staying with Stephen?
25:30No! I went, you've misworded that.
25:32He went, do you think she'll be staying with Stephen?
25:34I was like, woo-woo! No, no.
25:36I just wanted to give you the heads-up, though.
25:38He's not my type. I don't want anyone else but Ryan here.
25:41I know you don't. Like, I literally don't want anyone else.
25:50Hello!
25:53Hello, guys!
25:55How are you, mate?
25:57You good? You good? Yeah, you?
25:59Oh, it's my girls!
26:01All the girls, all the girls!
26:07Here he is, talking to devil.
26:09Here's Ryan now.
26:18Awkward.
26:24Stephen looks disappointed.
26:26Well, Stephen looks a bit uncomfortable.
26:32Fuck me.
26:34What had I got myself into?
26:36Dad?
26:39What?
26:42Father-son?
26:44Your ex-husband?
26:46Right, he's not in love with my daughter.
26:50C Very cool.
26:53I'm gonna...
26:55Er, I guess I'm just going to leave him here.
26:59I'll just put him in anemotherapy
27:01for the night, then I'll leave him with Ashley.
27:03Fuck, man. This wasn't part of the pun.
27:07It's raw!
27:14Oh, just here now. Ramen.
27:17Don't say it out loud. No, no, no, no, no.
27:20Respectfully.
27:21So here he is trying to control the narrative with Holly,
27:25essentially redesigning what he said,
27:28because, of course, he didn't say it respectfully.
27:31Come here, my G.
27:40You all right?
27:45I missed you.
27:46I missed you, too. You good?
27:48Yeah.
27:49I'm so glad that I finally got my big hug off of Ryan.
27:53I knew that we would be fine.
27:55CHEERING
28:00I love this, guys!
28:02CHEERING
28:06It's nice to hear both Ryan and Shannon
28:08saying they've missed each other.
28:10Hopefully this is just a blip for the two of them.
28:13But what does this mean for Stephen?
28:20Double parts, mate. Very good.
28:22Double parts. Double parts, mate.
28:24You all right? I'm good, are you? Yeah, mate.
28:26How you doing, bro? I'm chilled now, mate.
28:36How are you? I'm all right.
28:42So...
28:45You know what, Hannah?
28:47I gravitate to you.
28:49I like you.
28:51You're a known man, says she.
28:53She says what she feels, fiery.
28:55These are all the personalities I asked for
28:57when I wanted my wife, you know?
28:59I like that about me.
29:01Have you seen Zorica?
29:03No, no, no. I haven't seen her.
29:10What's Orson really saying here?
29:13Sounds a lot to me like you're the wife I wish I had.
29:17Listen, I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
29:21I like Hannah.
29:23I definitely could let my hair down tonight,
29:25knowing that Rochelle's not here.
29:27The boy band look is a look. It is serving.
29:30What is it serving?
29:32Fresh out of Backstreet Boys.
29:33Is there a black guy in Backstreet Boys?
29:35There fucking is now.
29:39Ultimately, I suppose, with Orson and Hannah,
29:41both of them have been rejected by their partners.
29:44So they're looking to each other for the affection and affirmation
29:47they're not getting in their own marriages.
29:49Although it sounds like Orson might want to take it
29:52a little bit further.
29:57FYI...
29:59I'm going to explain to Ryan when I can get him on his own.
30:06Just so... No, no, I respect...
30:08I don't want it to get out of proportion for what it is.
30:11You know what I mean? I'm just going to grab him now.
30:20Can I have a quick chat with you? Yeah, yeah, sure.
30:23Well, here we go. Phase two of damage control.
30:26This is fear, deer in the headlights.
30:35You good? Yeah, I'm good.
30:38We start with the event.
30:40Oh, I'd fucking tell her to reverse it.
30:44So, I'm putting it out with you now, while we're in here.
30:47I lost and Adam's told me to let him have the argument.
30:51Everyone said,
30:52I'm sure we can win and Ryan never came a king.
30:55But I was like, I said she was a sexist, of course.
30:58I was like, I'm not going to make it a thing.
31:01If Ryan walks in, especially,
31:03and we've walked in, but everyone's spoken about it.
31:06But that's all it was.
31:09I'm not that guy.
31:11I didn't want to make it into a big thing.
31:13I didn't want it to come across disrespectful
31:15that I'd done it behind your back.
31:18It looks like Ryan sees right through Stephen.
31:21I think the fact that Stephen is rewriting history,
31:25he knows what he said before was wrong.
31:28Holly's spoken to her, the fucking listeners go around,
31:31but I'm not the type.
31:33Stephen's done it.
31:35Stephen's definitely broke, broke old.
31:37He's here for the wrong reasons.
31:39I've got nothing to say to him.
31:53I've heard that. Oh, man.
31:55Oh, you're going to get two up there.
31:57Shall we swap? That's cool.
31:59Kasper and Emma!
32:01This is fun!
32:04Hello, hello!
32:12Wow.
32:14You could still see the tension between Polly and Adam.
32:17They're still not talking to each other.
32:23You two have got some fucking faces on you, man.
32:26You can't sit there like that all night. Come on, man.
32:29I've given him his time and his space.
32:31It's not down for me to go to him.
32:33I've done enough.
32:35You say you've done enough, but you haven't tried to speak to me today.
32:38You haven't spoken to me. Why would I initiate a conversation with you?
32:41I think with Polly and Adam,
32:43we find that they find themselves in these types of conflicting situations
32:47and they can't seem to get their way out of it.
32:50They both want to be heard,
32:52but they're both not listening to one another.
32:55I've said one thing.
32:57Do you not think the things that you've said in the past have hurt me?
33:00That makes it OK, does it? We're going back down that road.
33:02What do you mean, does it not make it OK?
33:04There's been a lot of things that you've said that you shouldn't have said.
33:07Yeah, I know, but mine was just wording it wrong.
33:09You didn't word this wrong.
33:11I said I want the qualities that Stephen has in you.
33:13It was stick or twist. You said twist.
33:15Listen, I've said that I was sorry.
33:17I said that I fucking worded it in a wrong way.
33:19What else do you want me to say apart from I'm sorry I should have worded it differently?
33:22I don't know, but do you expect me to just be like,
33:24yeah, cool, let's get on then and let's be happy?
33:26So do you think that I should have been like,
33:29I thought it was over that, but let's keep bringing that up.
33:31We're not over it, though. This is why we're going in circles.
33:34In a nutshell, this is what you're doing.
33:36I shouldn't have said that. I worded it wrong.
33:38But you did this and you did that.
33:40Childish, man.
33:44I have to say Adam has a point here.
33:46Polly knows she needs to apologise, so she does so,
33:50but then backs it up with but, but, but, but, but.
33:53An apology is worthless unless it is done in the proper manner.
33:58The fact that you're turning this on me is a fucking joke.
34:00I'm turning it on you?
34:01You are turning it on me because I've said sorry, I've apologised, I've owned it.
34:05I'm sorry, I'm fucking sorry, Adam. There you go.
34:24MUSIC PLAYS
34:32Right now, my worry is Polly is going to speak to Ryan
34:35about what I said about Shannon.
34:37I'm worried it's just going to escalate into something it doesn't need to be,
34:40it doesn't need to happen.
34:43Ryan, do you want a chat?
34:47I'll walk round.
34:54Right, guys.
34:58So, I will tell you what God said to me tonight.
35:01So, Stephen said, what's the crack with Ryan and Shannon?
35:04Because she's coming on her own.
35:06And I said, I just know that they had an argument last night.
35:09So I said, if Ryan comes through that door,
35:11I think they're going to be absolutely fine.
35:13He said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight, I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
35:19Fuck me. He lied to me tonight.
35:22And I don't respect that.
35:24Did he word it like that to you?
35:28I just remember him saying,
35:29I didn't want it to come from anyone else.
35:31I don't think he touched on that part.
35:34He was banging on this today.
35:37It's not a swingers club.
35:41That's what he said. He's making it a swingers club.
35:45I will keep my enemies very close to my chest.
35:48And he's my enemy.
35:52Shannon, my thing. Fill me in.
35:55So when I saw him walk in and then I saw everyone whispering,
35:58I was like, nah, I'm not letting this get out of hand.
36:00Someone said that if Shannon walks in by himself,
36:04that you're going to shoot each other. I wouldn't do that.
36:06On the stick and twist question, I said, fucking stick?
36:09I'm loyal to my boys to that extent.
36:12His story to me is different to what he said to Holla.
36:16It weren't the truth.
36:18You can't say it's not a swingers club and then the day after.
36:21If you don't come, I'm going to jump on to her
36:23because your relationship's peppered.
36:27He lied.
36:30If I wasn't here, he'd crack on with her.
36:37He's a muppet.
36:39Muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet, muppet.
36:43He best not talk to me.
36:52Cheers to doing a lot of growing this week at the retreat.
36:55I think we've both grown a lot from this retreat.
36:58Aw!
37:00Who's growing? You can't grow no more.
37:03LAUGHTER
37:05I've hit me maximum.
37:07Still got your console?
37:09Oh, it's horrible, isn't it?
37:11God, it's been ages as well.
37:13Been since the honeymoon.
37:14Honeymoon.
37:15That's the only thing that's missing in our life at the moment,
37:18isn't it, darling?
37:20How are you?
37:22Are you OK?
37:23Tired.
37:25I feel a little bit gutted
37:27because Stephen hasn't spoke to me all day.
37:31But I'm really trying.
37:34What are you doing today?
37:36I'm done talking to you.
37:38What do you mean?
37:39I feel like every time we talk, it just gets intense
37:42and I can't be arsed with it.
37:44Why did you want to stay here?
37:46I've explained this to you.
37:47I can't be arsed with the arguments any more.
37:49I'm sorry it's worked out like this.
37:51Like, genuinely am,
37:52cos I came into it with the right intentions.
37:55But I'm out.
37:56It's interesting that he's checked out
37:59but yet he has so much animosity towards her.
38:02He doesn't even want to engage or talk to her.
38:05Why is that?
38:06It's so sad because he is just quitting before our eyes.
38:10There's really a lot going on.
38:13There's really nothing more
38:14Hannah can do with this situation.
38:16Can you not accept my apology, though,
38:18and realise that I made a mistake?
38:20I can't accept that apology.
38:21Please, I'm just asking.
38:22It's frustrating.
38:23I get that, but please, let's just not go there again.
38:25Yeah, but I want to be friends with you.
38:27I don't want to leave her, like, on this bad...
38:29You don't need to be a friend. I came here to marry you.
38:32She lost all my trust.
38:34You said you wanted to stay with me,
38:36but you're cracking on to all the other men.
38:38She's lost my respect.
38:40Why would I want a friend like that in my life?
38:42Don't want her in my life, full stop.
38:45I know we've been through this experiment together,
38:47but that is what it is to me.
38:49I'm just being honest with you.
38:50I'm sorry I fucked up, I'm sorry.
38:55It's pathetic.
39:00I respect Stephen being honest,
39:02but it does feel a bit shit that he's basically said,
39:05I don't even want to have a friendship with you.
39:11I'm upset, but there's nothing I can do.
39:24Awesome.
39:26How are you, coach?
39:28You OK?
39:30I probably need to be honest with myself
39:32and say that my husband isn't willing to work with me,
39:35so I'm going to do what I want to do.
39:38She's going to the hot tub.
39:41I have always got on well with Orson.
39:43He's a really good guy, he's had my back in here since day one.
39:46Just make out right now in front of everyone.
39:51Wow.
39:53That is some pretty full-on flirting.
39:55Stop it.
39:57I haven't said anything.
39:59I feel undressed.
40:01You look at that and you say, OK,
40:03here's someone who's got to the point now
40:05where she feels she'll never be able to get through to Stephen.
40:08The marriage is a lost cause,
40:10and she's seeking attention
40:12from one of the few people in the room she's connected with.
40:17Cheers, Amy.
40:19Cheers.
40:21Cheers, monsieur.
40:23So how are you doing? Are you good?
40:25OK, yeah.
40:27I think after the ceremony, we had a big night.
40:30Just getting a bit closer to Amy,
40:32just putting everything on the table.
40:34And I think it was nice.
40:36Especially when you came up and you put your arms around me,
40:39and she said, like, you'll be OK.
40:41It wasn't, like, a judgmental thing.
40:43Can you reach your arms all the way round him?
40:45The neck bit, yes.
40:47Do you have an impression of Luke?
40:49Er, later.
40:51It's a quick learn, isn't it?
40:53Do you prefer him with that accent?
40:55Yeah!
41:05Oh, the honesty box.
41:12Oh, my God!
41:14We had a bath together this week.
41:17Which part of my body did you enjoy washing the most?
41:22Part of your body that I enjoyed washing the most?
41:25I like your bum.
41:30I really like your bum. Thanks.
41:32Really, really like your bum. Thanks.
41:37Christina, if I was an animal, what would I be and why?
41:41I would really like you to be a koala,
41:44so you just cling to me all the time.
41:46Aww!
41:52Aww.
41:54It is very cute, because essentially she's saying,
41:56cute and cuddly. Yes.
41:59APPLAUSE
42:01What do you foresee will be the biggest challenge in our marriage?
42:07I think the biggest challenge that I can see with you, Amy,
42:10is we're both very slow burners.
42:12You are!
42:14I think emotionally I am,
42:16so I think because things are going so well,
42:19we might be a slow burner,
42:21but we might end up in a big bonfire, baby.
42:24CHEERING
42:28CHEERING
42:30LAUGHTER
42:33Is he song in my mouth?
42:36How would you sum up our time in the retreat?
42:42The retreat has been the most positive week we've ever had.
42:46I have leaned in.
42:49Ooh! What?
42:51Since the commitment ceremony, I had a job to do,
42:54and that was to show Casper that I can change and I can take feedback,
42:57because I didn't think I could take it before.
42:59So I have taken on the feedback, I've changed, I've leaned in,
43:02I've relaxed into it, and we got a snog!
43:05CHEERING
43:07LAUGHTER
43:11How do you feel about how far we've come since our first dinner party?
43:16I mean, we were not in a good place in our first dinner party, let's be honest.
43:19We've put a lot of effort in this week.
43:21We've definitely grown as people.
43:23We've come a long, long way.
43:25We're so much more comfortable around each other.
43:27It's definitely moved in the right direction.
43:30CHEERING
43:32Well done, Casper! Well done, Casper!
43:34Well done, Casper!
43:36CHEERING
43:40It's great to see that Emma has really stepped up.
43:43I think there's hope for these two.
43:45This is progress.
43:47Ryan, how committed are you to our marriage?
43:51I'm very committed to this.
43:53I've only had eyes for you.
43:55I've got no eyes for nobody else.
43:57And if it wasn't you, I'd leave her.
44:00CHEERING
44:05Ryan, with the clever delivery there,
44:07talking, of course, to his wife Shannon, but also to Stephen,
44:11making it clear that he's not down with the wife swap.
44:24Why do you think we've had such a difficult week?
44:29I think we've had such a difficult week
44:31because you haven't let your guard down, you haven't let me in,
44:35and I still don't know how you feel about me wholeheartedly.
44:39And that's why I feel like we've had a hard week.
44:41I thought we was having a good week until the girls and boys date.
44:44But I feel like you haven't shown me how you think
44:48and how you feel about me.
44:50I am getting better and better at doing that,
44:52and the fact that everyone else can see I'm putting the effort in...
44:55We was actually having a really good week until yesterday,
44:58with the question.
44:59OK, I'm not doing this now.
45:01And agreeing to disagree.
45:03God, I can't talk to you, honestly.
45:09What else do you want me to do?
45:13What the fuck else does he expect me to do?
45:16I will say, Adam, Adam,
45:18she did have some lovely things to say about you at the girls' night.
45:22I do promise you that.
45:24Yeah, but then she also said some shit things.
45:27One shit thing about the qualities that he's got that I wish that you had.
45:31It was little comments like, oh, I wish she was more like Stephen.
45:34Because he can fucking talk about how he feels, and you don't.
45:38You can't compare me to someone else.
45:40That's what I'm saying.
45:42No, you don't.
45:43You can't compare me to someone else.
45:45Especially when we're mates, man.
45:47You would have even given me a bit of reassurance
45:49before you left this morning, which was a cuddle.
45:51Do you not think that would have made me feel a lot better?
45:53I needed that, and you didn't do that.
45:55I was in my own fucked-up headspace.
45:57No offence, I wasn't thinking about you, not going to lie.
45:59No, but you don't think about me. You don't.
46:01What did you need this morning?
46:03Space.
46:04Which is what I've given him all day.
46:06But it's still not good enough.
46:08What the fuck do you want me to do? Move to Timbuktu?
46:10Where the fuck do you expect me to go?
46:16Don't just say, sorry, I've told you how it is.
46:18It's a fake sorry.
46:19Now don't cut it.
46:21Do you not think that I've given him enough time for everything else?
46:24Absolutely, Polly boy.
46:25Fuck that comment, Holly. That is bullshit.
46:28All I've given that boy is fucking time.
46:35You've made the mistake. Own it.
46:37Don't keep saying, I've done this, man.
46:39Maybe you should have said stick.
46:41I know that. I've said I should have done that.
46:44But he has said some shitty things on that couch.
46:47He has.
46:48The stuff that he's said about me,
46:50for me to then sit there and take how I am,
46:55is fucking hurtful.
46:57Do you know what I mean? I'm sorry, no.
47:01Polly.
47:02It's fucking hurtful.
47:10Next time...
47:11I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
47:13She's finally seeing who I actually am.
47:16..the impact of the retreat hits home.
47:18I felt betrayed. My head's been scrambled.
47:21It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch.
47:23Pushing some marriages...
47:25This is going to be hard to hear.
47:26This is why I prepare myself for the worst.
47:29..to breaking point.
47:31At that moment, I knew I could not stand him.
47:34Just, like, squeezing blood from his phone.
47:37Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
47:39You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you.
47:41Why do I want to even speak to this girl?
47:43But it's a shocking revelation.
47:45Have they not been sneakily kissing?
47:47They've what?
47:49Do you consider what you did an act of infidelity?
47:52That delivers the biggest blow of the evening.
47:54She deserved to know.
47:56I think it's bullshit.
47:57Snake.
47:58Hannah, zip it.
47:59Don't tell me to shut up.
48:01You're a sly guy.
48:02It's like you're talking fucking shit.
48:04It is very clear that this relationship is done.
48:07It's over.
48:37It's over.