Kailan nagiging BINATA ang isang lalaki? | SiS (Stream Together)
Ano ang iba’t ibang phase ng buhay ang pinagdadaanan ng mga kalalakihan? Alamin ang sagot diyan nina Ced Torrecarion, Gerald Madrid, Sherwin Ordoñez, Leandro Muñoz, at James Blanco!
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00:00We walk hand in hand, we dream together. We giggle and laugh like kids forever.
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun. We talk about anything under the sun.
00:19We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
00:27I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
00:38We always have fun, being together. You know me the best, we're friends forever.
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis. Right by your side, hit or miss.
00:54We are sisters, we are friends. We've got magic that never ends.
01:01I got you sis, you got me. The best of friends we'll always, always be.
01:14We are sisters, we are sisters.
01:18Sis, did you know that Oggy is a better man?
01:21Yeah.
01:22Yeah? Really?
01:23Yes.
01:24Really?
01:25Yes, of course.
01:26In your opinion, what's the reason why Oggy said that he's a better man?
01:30You know what, in my opinion, he's become a better man.
01:35Yes, of course.
01:36I know him personally, but it's really hard to understand the mind of adults.
01:43Of course, they're going through stages in their lives that we'll never fully understand.
01:49Because we're different, right?
01:52Yes.
01:53They're from Mars and we're from Venus.
01:55Correct.
01:56It's the same for us.
01:57Because we also have experiences that we'll never experience.
02:01Like, one, monthly period.
02:03Second is birth.
02:05They'll never understand us and they'll never experience that.
02:10Postnatal blues.
02:11Yes, things like that.
02:12The hormonal...
02:14Whatever.
02:15PMS.
02:16All the things that you can't understand.
02:17You.
02:18You.
02:19Me too.
02:20Do you really understand the mind of adults?
02:23Not really.
02:24Is it obvious?
02:25No.
02:28I don't think we'll ever fully understand.
02:30Because our makeup is different.
02:33But I think that's part of the excitement of life.
02:36The things that you can't understand.
02:38That is precisely why falling in love with men or falling in love with women is so exciting.
02:43Because you're totally two different humans.
02:46Right?
02:47Different.
02:48Different temperaments.
02:49Exactly.
02:50Temperaments.
02:51Mood swings.
02:52Everything.
02:53Exactly.
02:54But today, they had a chance to share with us.
02:56That hopefully, even if it's just a little, we'll understand them.
02:59We'll understand them.
03:00No matter what, the stages that they're going through.
03:02If they'll ever be able to say,
03:04I'm a man and I am a better man.
03:07Wow.
03:08So, it's our chance for the SIS to understand them.
03:10So, join us, SIS, to explore the world of men.
03:15In an hour of stories, here in SIS.
03:19Always, always be.
03:21We are sisters.
03:23We are sisters.
03:28Always, always be.
03:30We are sisters.
03:32We are sisters.
03:36Let's continue, ladies.
03:38Men are also going through different stages of change.
03:42Especially when it comes to their bodies.
03:45What are the changes that are happening to them?
03:48Please welcome, here in SIS,
03:50Gerard Badrin,
03:52Zed Carion,
03:54Sherwin Ardonez,
03:56Leandro Munoz,
03:57and James Blanco.
03:59Okay.
04:00Again, men are going through different rites of passage.
04:05And one of them is...
04:06Oh my.
04:07It's fast, right?
04:08Let's go straight to the point.
04:09Circumcision.
04:11This is probably the first experience of physical pain of men.
04:15As in physical pain.
04:16Let's ask one thing first.
04:17Let's play one thing.
04:19Did that circumcision happen to you?
04:21Is it over?
04:23I just want to clarify before we talk.
04:26Did you guys get circumcised?
04:31And why did Zed and Sherwin disappear?
04:34Why are you red there?
04:36You're really one of a kind.
04:37Oh, I see.
04:40So, yes or no?
04:41Of course.
04:42I didn't experience that because I'm still young.
04:47Ah, baby.
04:49But does that mean all of you are circumcised?
04:51Yes.
04:54Okay, doctor.
04:56Is it traumatic?
04:58Yes.
04:59How old are you?
05:00Eleven.
05:01My dad was the one who circumcised me.
05:03Your dad?
05:04Because my dad is a doctor.
05:05Surgery.
05:06He has to try to do that.
05:07Actually, he reminded me of that.
05:09Son.
05:11This is the injection.
05:13Of course, I cover my eyes.
05:16It's a phobia.
05:17But it's okay.
05:18But they said that it's not actually painful.
05:22It's not painful.
05:23Injections are painful.
05:29What will happen if you do it again?
05:30What will happen if you do it again?
05:31You can jump.
05:32You can jump.
05:34It's in the province.
05:35It's in the province until now.
05:37But you didn't do it.
05:38No.
05:39Okay, okay.
05:40Tell us what happened to you.
05:41Okay, go ahead.
05:42For me, it's painful.
05:43Painful.
05:44Ah, painful.
05:45How old were you?
05:46Eleven.
05:47Is it painful?
05:48It's painful, but it's clean.
05:50What's more painful?
05:51The surgery itself or after?
05:54The healing.
05:55The healing.
05:56Because their term is traumatic.
05:58Yes.
05:59That's why it's painful.
06:00That's why it's painful.
06:01It's painful.
06:02Because it's like a new wound.
06:04That's why when you walk.
06:06You have to walk.
06:07You have to walk.
06:09You don't have to wear underwear.
06:10How about when you pee?
06:13No, I don't know.
06:14There's no problem.
06:15It's okay.
06:16When it's just sticking, it's really painful.
06:18Ah, so it's okay to pee?
06:20Yes.
06:21But it's not okay when...
06:22When what?
06:23When...
06:24You already know.
06:25You already know.
06:26Of course, sometimes.
06:27Admit it.
06:28When you wake up in the morning.
06:29Yes.
06:30You have a national anthem.
06:31Yes.
06:32That's why it's painful.
06:34That's why it's painful.
06:35That's why it's painful.
06:36That's why it's painful.
06:37That's why it's painful.
06:38That's why it's painful.
06:39That's why it's painful.
06:40That's why it's painful.
06:41That's why it's painful.
06:42That's why it's painful.
06:43That's why it's painful.
06:44That's why it's painful.
06:45That's why it's painful.
06:46That's why it's painful.
06:47That's why it's painful.
06:48That's why it's painful.
06:49That's why it's painful.
06:50That's why it's painful.
06:51That's why it's painful.
06:52That's why it's painful.
06:56Was it collapsed with a circumcision?
06:57Because of course.
06:58But you?
06:59No, no, no.
07:00You're forever blushing.
07:01Why are you like that?
07:02You look tired.
07:03You look tired.
07:04You look tired.
07:05You look tired.
07:06You look tired.
07:07You look tired.
07:08You look tired.
07:09You look tired.
07:10You look tired.
07:11You look tired.
07:12You look tired.
07:13You look tired.
07:14You look tired.
07:15You look tired.
07:16You look tired.
07:17You look tired.
07:18You look tired.
07:19You look tired.
07:20You look tired.
07:21You look tired.
07:22You look tired.
07:23You look tired.
07:24You look tired.
07:25Awareness.
07:26Awareness.
07:27Sexual awareness.
07:28Maybe me.
07:29You're 50 years old.
07:30You're a late bloomer.
07:31Maybe I watched a movie with a sexy girl.
07:36Ah.
07:37And suddenly, chung.
07:38And suddenly, chung.
07:39And suddenly, chung.
07:40And suddenly, chung.
07:41And sometimes, when you're older, you know, when you're 16 years old, you're 15 years old,
07:46your friends will watch X-Rays.
07:48There, okay, like RR.
07:50So, that's what I watch.
07:51Oh, okay.
07:52Magazine.
07:53Let's start with magazines.
07:54Oh my.
07:55Sherwin doesn't have any.
07:56Playboy chunk.
07:57Negotiation.
07:58Negotiation.
07:59Negotiation.
08:00I know, Bobby Anderson is the one who's negotiating.
08:01He's talking to us.
08:02Negotiation.
08:03Anyway.
08:04Maybe me.
08:05Grade 6.
08:06I was in our house, and I saw my uncle and he liked that.
08:07So, I went to his things and I saw his magazine.
08:08Okay, okay.
08:09You're good.
08:10We have reactions.
08:11You're good.
08:12I'm good.
08:13I'm good.
08:14I'm good.
08:15I'm good.
08:16I'm good.
08:17I'm good.
08:18I'm good.
08:19I'm good.
08:20I'm good.
08:21I'm good.
08:22I'm good.
08:23What were your reactions when you saw that?
08:26Swing.
08:28Okay, that's okay.
08:29Let's see.
08:30Okay, let's see.
08:32First time with a girl.
08:34First time.
08:36I was 14 years old.
08:37First time.
08:38Is she your girlfriend?
08:39Yes, she's my girlfriend.
08:41It's okay.
08:42I'm still jumping after that.
08:45Yes.
08:46That's too much.
08:47Okay.
08:49Jumping.
08:51I was 18.
08:52I was an 18-year-old date boomer.
08:54But I couldn't remember who she was.
08:58She wasn't memorable to me.
09:00It just happened in a split second.
09:03She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:06She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:09She knew that I'm a virgin.
09:11You were excited.
09:13I was excited too.
09:14But it wasn't memorable to me.
09:17It's like I wasn't loved.
09:18I wasn't loved.
09:20Okay.
09:21It's different.
09:22It's my first time.
09:23It's not exciting for me.
09:25I'm nervous.
09:26Of course, I showed it to a girl.
09:28For example, it's not my first time.
09:30We're still doing this.
09:31No, no.
09:32I was in grade 6.
09:33All of them.
09:34All of them?
09:35How old were you?
09:3612.
09:38How old was the girl?
09:40How old was the girl?
09:419.
09:42I think she was 18.
09:43Or almost 20.
09:45Who is this?
09:46Sister.
09:47What did she say?
09:49She knows me.
09:50She knows you.
09:53You're so quiet.
09:54You're blushing.
09:56I might wake you up.
09:58He's a bit of a lead boomer.
09:59Maybe 19.
10:01How old were you?
10:0219 or 20.
10:0419.
10:05No.
10:06We're neighbors.
10:08So?
10:09When I was a kid,
10:13I was always in your room.
10:15Because we were kids.
10:1819.
10:23How about you, James?
10:25I was too late.
10:27I was 19 or 18.
10:28How old were you?
10:2920.
10:31That's too late.
10:32It's like last year.
10:33No, no.
10:35I was 18.
10:3618.
10:37And then,
10:38it was fun to jump on the river.
10:40Like what Leandro said,
10:42at first,
10:43I wasn't nervous.
10:44Because I was nervous.
10:45Yes.
10:46You didn't pretend.
10:47No, I didn't.
10:48You didn't pretend.
10:49Okay.
10:50How many girlfriends do you have?
10:52No.
10:53Okay, that's enough.
10:54Now,
10:57weren't you nervous?
10:59What did you feel?
11:01Nervous, of course.
11:02What did you feel at that point in time?
11:05Were you nervous at first?
11:07Nervous.
11:09Or were you nervous
11:11compared to
11:13how do you say it?
11:14Excitement.
11:15Excitement.
11:16Of course,
11:17half excitement,
11:18and nervous.
11:19Because of course,
11:20you have to show them that
11:21you're a man.
11:22Feeling macho.
11:23Feeling like you're not a virgin.
11:24Like,
11:25you're just a man.
11:26You're just a man.
11:29What part of your body
11:30do you love the most?
11:36Stop it.
11:37You're not allowed to say it.
11:39Just say it.
11:40Just say it.
11:41The last part of my body
11:42that I love the most.
11:43What is it?
11:44My feet.
11:45Your feet?
11:46Why?
11:47There are a lot of people
11:48who love their feet.
11:49If her feet are beautiful,
11:51I'll be more beautiful than her.
11:52Is her feet beautiful?
11:53And her boobs.
11:54Her boobs.
11:55If her boobs are beautiful,
11:57I'll be more beautiful than her.
11:59She's clean.
12:00Her boobs?
12:01How about our boobs?
12:03If her feet are clean,
12:04because I can see
12:05if her boobs are clean.
12:06For example,
12:07if her face is beautiful
12:08and her feet are...
12:10Some kind of...
12:11Some kind of dead.
12:15She's still weird.
12:18You're a bad person.
12:20Okay, you guys go ahead.
12:21Start with the men.
12:22I think it's the same.
12:23If a woman can
12:25clean her feet,
12:28what are the other parts of her body?
12:29Her whole body is clean.
12:31What about you, Sherwin?
12:33You're so quiet, Sherwin.
12:34Of course.
12:36He's the first one to blush.
12:40What do you want?
12:41You can do it, of course.
12:42The...
12:43Ah, boobs.
12:46James?
12:47I don't really look like that.
12:49Oh, my God.
12:50Oh, my God.
12:51You're wrong, James.
12:53What are you looking at?
12:54Nothing.
12:55I'm looking at her face.
12:56Ah, her face.
12:58I'm not the...
12:59Pretty girl.
13:00Go ahead.
13:01The first stage that men go through
13:03are the changes in their physical body.
13:06The next stage is
13:07emotional changes.
13:08Oh, my God.
13:09We'll talk about that
13:10when Sis returns.
13:30Welcome back.
13:31Oh, my God.
13:32I think this is the stage
13:33where men have a hard time adjusting.
13:35The stage where their responsibilities
13:37are getting bigger and bigger.
13:39The stage where they're like,
13:41I'm not a kid anymore.
13:43When was the first time
13:44you had a big responsibility?
13:47What age?
13:49I was 18 when I had a responsibility.
13:52Like?
13:53Like, because I have kids already.
13:55How many?
13:56I have two kids.
13:57Two boys.
13:58You know that?
13:59Yes.
14:00The responsibility of living
14:02Yes.
14:03The responsibility of living as a kid.
14:07That's the hardest part.
14:09Because you're only 7 years old.
14:11Yes, that's my part.
14:13To raise a family.
14:14So what did you do?
14:16Was that an accident?
14:17Of course, it was an accident.
14:18No, of course, it was an accident.
14:19But of course,
14:20you accepted it.
14:21Yes, of course.
14:22So, what was that?
14:23You worked.
14:24You were a student.
14:25I worked.
14:26I was a student back then.
14:27Should I tell you about my life?
14:28I was a student back then.
14:29I was in first year college.
14:31And then,
14:32I had a failure relationship back then.
14:36Before that, I had another girlfriend.
14:40And now, she's my wife.
14:42Actually, we're not married yet.
14:43But you're still together?
14:44Yes, we're still together.
14:45We've been together for 5 years.
14:48With two kids?
14:49With two kids.
14:50What was the first thing you thought
14:51when they told you that she's pregnant?
14:53Of course, I was nervous back then.
14:55Because I'm afraid of my sisters.
14:57I don't know what I'm going to tell my sisters.
15:00And then,
15:01I was thinking,
15:02how am I going to live with this?
15:04And also,
15:05I don't know what I'm going to tell my parents.
15:07Because I'm sure
15:08my parents will be mad at me.
15:10And also,
15:11I might get kicked out of our house.
15:13Of course, I was afraid of that.
15:14But,
15:15I faced reality.
15:18I have to tell them that
15:20this is my woman
15:23who's a disgrace.
15:25But I love her.
15:26I have to answer this.
15:27And then,
15:28they accepted me.
15:29And then,
15:30I cried.
15:31Because I didn't expect
15:32that they would accept me
15:34with open hands.
15:36And then,
15:37up to now,
15:38we've been together as a girl.
15:39So,
15:40that was the time
15:41you started being an actor?
15:42Yes,
15:43that was the time I started being an actor.
15:44Actually,
15:45I really didn't have a job back then.
15:46I was thinking,
15:47how am I going to raise this kid?
15:51And then,
15:52luckily,
15:53someone saw me,
15:54an agent.
15:55They brought me to Regal.
15:57To Regal Films.
15:58And then,
15:59that's how I started.
16:00That's good.
16:01Now, you have a job.
16:02Yay!
16:03Happy ending.
16:04Okay, anybody else?
16:05I hope it's not that big of a responsibility.
16:07Yes,
16:08even if it's just a slight one.
16:09For me,
16:10it's having a girlfriend.
16:11Because it's different.
16:12Before,
16:13you just play with toys.
16:14Now,
16:15you have a girlfriend.
16:16It's like,
16:17it's a bigger responsibility
16:18because it's a relationship.
16:19In a sense,
16:20to take care of the relationship.
16:21To take care of the relationship.
16:22So,
16:23I have obligations to her.
16:24It's really different.
16:25The change is drastic.
16:26From toys,
16:27then suddenly,
16:28How many years have you had a girlfriend?
16:3013?
16:31First year high school.
16:3213.
16:3313?
16:34It's not that far.
16:35Just 12.
16:36Okay,
16:37you?
16:38For me,
16:39when I was 18 years old,
16:40I started dating my mom
16:42and my dad.
16:43Oh, you're alone now.
16:44Yes,
16:45because I used to be a dancer.
16:46I used to be a dancer before.
16:48I started dating my parents.
16:51Then,
16:52we were just bored.
16:53Then,
16:54I stopped studying in college.
16:56So,
16:57until I was able to save money.
16:58Now,
16:59I'm an artist.
17:00Now,
17:01I have my own unit,
17:03a condo,
17:04and a car.
17:06So,
17:07paying for that
17:08is the biggest responsibility.
17:10Yes,
17:11making the payments every month.
17:13So,
17:14we were talking about
17:15how you were attracted to sexuality.
17:16So now,
17:17you feel that you've matured.
17:18Somehow,
17:19even though you're not that sober,
17:20but you've matured.
17:21So,
17:22you changed your taste towards girls?
17:24Even your lifestyle?
17:25Maybe,
17:26in a way.
17:27How?
17:28Hold on.
17:29Before we let them answer,
17:31we have a surprise for Sherwin.
17:33We'll let his mom know
17:35if Sherwin has really matured.
17:38Let's call
17:39his mom on the phone.
17:40Sherwin's mom,
17:41hello.
17:42Hi,
17:43hello.
17:44Hi,
17:45good morning.
17:46Good morning,
17:47mommy.
17:48Good morning.
17:49Is Sherwin really matured?
17:51We heard that
17:52Sherwin,
17:53we heard that
17:54he gave up on you early.
17:55Oh, yes.
17:57Well,
17:58I have something to tell him.
18:00What is it?
18:01Go ahead.
18:03My son,
18:04I'm happy
18:05that you've become so kind.
18:08I don't have any problem with you.
18:22I'm happy that you've changed your tastes towards girls.
18:27I'll-
18:28it's nothing.
18:31Wait,
18:32no.
18:33Wait,
18:34I don't have any problem with you.
18:38Good morning,
18:39good morning.
18:44You back to life,
18:45you shy!
18:46Sherwin!
18:47Welcome back to Esquire's
18:49Welcome back to Esquiles.
18:51This is Susan, the woman who is my guest here in Truth or Bare.
18:53She became a co-host.
19:19Is that more fun?
19:21A little!
19:23It's a little fun.
19:25It's always fun.
19:27Why not?
19:29What do you think?
19:31I don't think so.
19:33What?
19:35Super fun.
19:37It's a modern medium.
19:39It's a modern medium.
19:41It's a very modern medium.
19:43It's a very modern medium.
19:45Your whole world is modern.
22:17weaknesses that we need to concile to ourselves.
22:20What are the weaknesses of our guests today?
22:24Do you have any?
22:27Like an autograph book.
22:29What are your weaknesses?
22:31I'm a very impulsive person.
22:33Impulsive.
22:35In everything.
22:36You're exciting, yet you're impulsive.
22:39So you do a lot of bad things.
22:41Yes, it's like when I'm angry, I'll punch the mirror.
22:46I'll punch the windshield of my car.
22:48No, I'll use it.
22:50How many times have I been hit in the hand?
22:52So of course, while your hand is bleeding,
22:55why would you punch the windshield?
23:00It hurts when I wake up, I need to buy antibiotics.
23:07There.
23:08Then he repents.
23:10Sherwin.
23:11Maybe me.
23:12My weakness.
23:13Because I'm sensitive.
23:15I easily get hurt.
23:17I'm fragile.
23:19Why do you have a weakness?
23:21I feel like for a woman, it's better for a man.
23:23No, men are sensitive.
23:25For example, there are situations where you just heard someone say something.
23:32So it's like for us, it hurts right away.
23:34It's easy to get hurt.
23:35Yes.
23:36And it makes you lose confidence in yourself.
23:39You lose confidence right away.
23:41Maybe that's your weakness.
23:43For me, I'm emotional.
23:45Me too.
23:46You're beautiful when you're emotional.
23:48Sometimes, I'm temperamental.
23:52Don't overreact.
23:54James.
23:55I'm also sensitive.
23:57None of you are sensitive.
23:59None of you are sensitive.
24:01When I hear something, I'm already quiet.
24:04It's easy to get hurt.
24:08My weakness is in decision making.
24:12Because I don't know how to make decisions.
24:14That's why my wife and I are a perfect tandem.
24:17Because she has a strong personality.
24:20She's the one who's strong in both of us.
24:22Because I'm weak when it comes to making decisions.
24:25So I have to consult her first.
24:28And of course, she's the one who makes my decisions.
24:32And you blame her if she's wrong.
24:34No.
24:35Okay.
24:36That's what you said are your weaknesses.
24:38How do you overcome those weaknesses?
24:41Of course, you have to learn from your mistakes.
24:45When you make a mistake, you have to realize it.
24:49You have to learn from your mistakes.
24:51So you have to learn from your mistakes first.
24:55Because you can't win everything.
24:57Once you lose, you learn from your mistakes.
25:00Then, you improve.
25:03I hope you learn from your mistakes.
25:04Because if you don't, you'll regret it.
25:07If you have weak points, you have strong points.
25:09That's quite a good one.
25:10James?
25:11For me, I don't trust people easily.
25:19And you have a sense of distance.
25:24I'm sensitive.
25:25That's a strong point.
25:26That's a strong point.
25:28I know what happened to my girlfriend.
25:30I know what she needs.
25:32I know where she is.
25:34You're sensitive to her feelings.
25:35Yes, I'm sensitive to her feelings.
25:36To her needs.
25:37Yes, to other people's needs.
25:39I hope you're always like that.
25:42Sherwin?
25:43I think I have a weak point and a strong point.
25:45I'm sensitive.
25:46He has a pro and a con.
25:50For me, it's my spirituality.
25:52That's where I get my strength.
25:58I think my strong point is the way I love my family.
26:03That's a strong point.
26:04Yes, that's a strong point.
26:05I'm willing to lose my job.
26:10Winner!
26:11Winner!
26:12Winner!
26:13Winner!
26:14Winner!
26:15When a man cries, is it a sign of weakness?
26:18No.
26:19Is it a sign of weakness?
26:20No.
26:21What is it a sign of?
26:22It's a sign of weakness.
26:23Yes.
26:24It's a sign of weakness.
26:25Yes.
26:26It's a sign of weakness.
26:27Okay.
26:28Which brings me to ask this question.
26:30Because a man, when he's too soft-spoken, too kind, too strict.
26:35Strict.
26:36Okay.
26:37So, what is the measure of a man?
26:41Is it the number of women?
26:43Yes.
26:44Is it the number of people who hit you?
26:47Why?
26:48Is it the size of your body?
26:49Or is it the sensitivity and knowing when to use that sensitivity?
26:53Yes.
26:54That's it.
26:55That's it.
26:56Or?
26:57Recognizing your mistakes?
26:58Yes.
26:59And?
27:00Being able to face your responsibilities.
27:01Yes.
27:02The way you manage your life.
27:03Okay.
27:04Playtime.
27:05Let's have a playtime.
27:06Casey's Challenge.
27:07Now, of course, because I'm sure when it comes to playtime,
27:10all of this will suddenly go backwards.
27:11Hey, be honest.
27:12Okay.
27:13So, I will choose one of you.
27:15Okay, fine.
27:16Of course.
27:17I won't choose randomly.
27:18I will fill in your names here in my magic box.
27:21And you will write down a question here.
27:23Question.
27:24Question.
27:26Oh, no.
27:27You are our favorite today.
27:29I already have a question.
27:32I will read it.
27:34Maybe you will say something else.
27:37Quick.
27:38The one who didn't answer.
27:39Before I ask you, what do you want?
27:41A slap in the face or an answer to the question?
27:43A slap in the face.
27:44If we are not too happy with your answer, we will slap you in the face.
27:47All of it.
27:48Just a kiss.
27:50Kiss?
27:52No, a slap in the face.
27:53We already kissed earlier, right?
27:55That's enough.
27:56What part of your body do you think you abuse too much?
28:02A slap in the face.
28:06No.
28:07Maybe my face.
28:09Because I always…
28:11Of course, in our job, we always see our face.
28:14We see our face for the first time.
28:16So, maybe I abuse it.
28:18There.
28:21I am not satisfied.
28:24Are you satisfied?
28:25Are you satisfied?
28:26No.
28:29I can't say it.
28:30There's nothing you can do.
28:32I can't say it.
28:34I can't say that.
28:37You have to say it.
28:38That's the question.
28:40I can't say it.
28:43Actually, I use it wisely.
28:47That's why he slapped you.
28:50No.
28:53Next.
28:54Next.
28:55It's okay.
28:56It's okay.
28:57Next.
29:04Gerard.
29:13Define sex in one word.
29:15Sex.
29:18Wonderful.
29:19Wonderful.
29:21Wonderful.
29:22Extraordinary.
29:23Extraordinary.
29:25Leandro.
29:26Wait.
29:29You should've said it first.
29:30Is it my turn?
29:31It's my turn.
29:32You're different.
29:35Who is the artist that you are super HD?
29:39HD?
29:41HD means hidden desire.
29:45For people like me?
29:47Yes.
29:48Who is the local artist that you admire?
29:52Paps Fernandez.
29:53Paps.
29:54Pipa.
29:55Game. Next.
29:59James.
30:08Game.
30:09When was the last time?
30:16When was the last time?
30:18Yes.
30:19No.
30:21When was the last time?
30:23Yesterday.
30:25What?
30:26Yesterday.
30:27When was the last time?
30:28Yesterday.
30:29What?
30:30How long was the last time?
30:32How long was the last time?
30:33Like 12 years.
30:34Oh.
30:37What?
30:38Are you happy with his answer?
30:39Okay.
30:40I'll just say last week.
30:41Okay.
30:42Last week.
30:43Okay.
30:47Of course, there's no one else but you.
30:49Def.
30:51This is a lot.
30:56What part of your body do you want to enlarge?
31:03Maybe my chest.
31:09That's okay.
31:10I'm happy with that.
31:14Oh my God.
31:16What about you?
31:18I'm happy with the size 2.
31:21Oh.
31:24Oh.
31:26Wait.
31:28We have someone we want to talk to so we can ask when...
31:34I think it's James' mom.
31:35She's on the phone.
31:36Oh, there she is.
31:38Hello, Mrs. Blanco.
31:39Hello.
31:40Hi, mommy.
31:41Mommy Lai.
31:43Hello, mommy.
31:45Hello.
31:46Welcome.
31:47Welcome to SIS.
31:50How's James as a son?
31:53He's kind.
31:55How kind?
31:58He's kind to his siblings.
32:01He's elastic.
32:07What can you tell James?
32:10He's pregnant.
32:12Yes, that's right.
32:13I'll just tell him that he's at his office.
32:17I hope he does his job well.
32:21And that he doesn't change.
32:24What do you always buy for James when you talk to him?
32:28Don't be stingy.
32:30Oh, don't be stingy.
32:31Don't be stingy.
32:32Don't be stingy.
32:34Oh my.
32:36Do you also give him a bathing suit?
32:38That's in his commercial.
32:39That's in his commercial.
32:41Yes, I also buy him a bathing suit.
32:44That's true.
32:46Is James still with you at home?
32:48Yes, he's still here.
32:49He's still here.
32:50How is he at home?
32:51Is he hardworking?
32:53He's always sleeping.
32:54He's always sleeping.
32:55Because he's always sleepy.
32:56He's always sleepy.
33:00What is the thing that he does that,
33:04that,
33:06what is one thing he does to you that,
33:09he doesn't do anymore?
33:12He doesn't do anymore?
33:13Yes, he doesn't do anymore.
33:14Does he still kiss you when he comes home?
33:17No, because he still doesn't change.
33:20Does he still kiss your lips?
33:22What?
33:23Does he still kiss your lips?
33:24Don't kids kiss their lips?
33:25When they grow up, they don't do it anymore.
33:26Sometimes.
33:27Sometimes.
33:28Sometimes.
33:31Does he still hug you when there are a lot of girls?
33:33Even if there are a lot of girls that he sees?
33:35Sometimes.
33:36Sometimes?
33:37Yes.
33:38Mommies miss that.
33:40Mommy, what is your message to James?
33:43I hope that he does his job well.
33:46That he doesn't forget the people who help him.
33:51I hope that he finishes his studies.
33:55San, James, what is your message to mommy?
33:58I want to thank her because she became my mommy.
34:01Because she supports me a lot.
34:04She takes care of me.
34:06Thank you, mommy.
34:07Thank you, mommy Lai.
34:08Thank you, too.
34:10Bye-bye.
34:12I will return this.
34:13I'm serious.
34:28Always, always be.
34:30We are sisters.
34:32We are sisters.
34:36After all the obstacles that they experienced in their life,
34:39our co-workers today,
34:41they can say that,
34:43I'm a man and because of all that I've gone through,
34:46I'm a better man.
34:48Oh my.
34:50Okay, like Leandro, he said that his weak point is that he is impulsive.
34:53So there are things that he does that he blames.
34:56Now, looking back,
34:57are there things that you did that you wish would never happen?
35:05James?
35:07Blame?
35:08Maybe,
35:10my accident.
35:12For me.
35:13Because it's so annoying.
35:15What kind of accident is that?
35:17Because,
35:19my grandma didn't want me to go with her.
35:21Then, I insisted on going with her.
35:23Then, I went with her.
35:24Then, my accident happened.
35:28For me, maybe,
35:3010 years ago, I had this relationship with a girl,
35:32with a very special girl.
35:3410 years ago?
35:3510 years ago.
35:36How old were you?
35:37I cheated on her.
35:39Oh, bad.
35:40How old were you?
35:4214.
35:43Now, I'm 24.
35:4410 years ago.
35:4512, 13, 14.
35:48So, really, you blame her?
35:49Yes, I blame her.
35:50Because she's very special.
35:54Whew.
35:55What a waste.
35:56You sure, man?
35:57Yes.
35:59As far as I know, you don't have a girlfriend.
36:01Not yet.
36:02Maybe, no.
36:05Because I can't say that I blame her
36:07because I didn't go to college.
36:09Because I didn't go to college.
36:12Because I didn't go to college to get a job.
36:15But maybe, I can go back.
36:17You can?
36:18Yes.
36:20May, when I fooled around with you,
36:25when I played with girls,
36:27because of the effect of karma.
36:30Computerized.
36:31Computerized.
36:32Faster.
36:33I got karma.
36:34Suddenly, I met this girl,
36:38and karma came back to me.
36:40Oh, that hurts.
36:42Yes.
36:43Ouch.
36:44Ouch.
36:45So, now, I'm careful.
36:47Crushed.
36:48Yes.
36:49Maybe, what was that?
36:51What was that again?
36:52I'm sorry.
36:53What I'm sorry about is,
36:55I left my parents' house
36:57because I experienced the hardship of life.
37:00I left my parents' house.
37:03Early in the morning.
37:04Early in the morning.
37:05I had a hard time.
37:07But, I want to go back.
37:09That's why I don't have a wife.
37:11Right?
37:12It's better if you open up
37:15instead of joining your parents.
37:17You're right.
37:19What else?
37:21What are our priorities?
37:23You, obviously, it's your family.
37:26Yes.
37:27My career and my family.
37:29My family, because I'm helping out.
37:33He made it clear.
37:34He made it clear.
37:35Yes, there are other families.
37:37That's why you need a career
37:39so that you can give your home.
37:41Yes, career and family.
37:43And, I hope,
37:44I hope,
37:45I hope, my studies will be good next year.
37:47I'm just coming here.
37:48I'll come back.
37:49Good.
37:50Of course, family.
37:51Career and myself.
37:54Of course.
37:55Career, family, and my studies.
37:59That's what mommy said.
38:00He said he hopes to study.
38:03Can you say now that you are better men?
38:09Me?
38:10Yes, I changed a bit compared to before.
38:12Now, I improved my personality.
38:15And, well, I also changed.
38:18In a matter, in a way,
38:21because, of course, I'm earning
38:23and I'm helping those I need to help.
38:28That's why, maybe, I also changed.
38:30I'm a better person now.
38:33I could say I'm a better man,
38:35but I can do better.
38:36There's still a lot of room for improvement.
38:39Because, I still have a lot of shortcomings.
38:43There's still a lot.
38:44Better man, but not perfect man.
38:46Not perfect.
38:48Me, I'm still learning the facts of life.
38:50Because, every day,
38:53there's something new that,
38:54something to learn.
38:55Yes.
38:57It's like that.
38:59I matured.
39:01That's why, like Gerard said,
39:04we see each other,
39:05I see myself.
39:07So, for me,
39:08I spend it wisely,
39:09the money I earn.
39:11That's why,
39:12that's why I can say,
39:14I'm a better man now.
39:16Me, I can say that too.
39:18Because, in a way,
39:19I also have people who help me.
39:21Because of my job.
39:24Let's just say,
39:25that these boys are better men.
39:28That, that, that.
39:29But still, works in progress.
39:31Yes.
39:32Right?
39:33And, let's hope that,
39:34as the years go by,
39:36you'll really be better men.
39:38That's it.
39:39You'll be better men.
39:40There will be no more works in progress.
39:43So, what else do you plan to do with your life?
39:47Plan?
39:48Goal?
39:49In the rest of our lives.
39:51Me?
39:52I want to get married.
39:53That's my goal.
39:55That's my goal.
39:56Because,
39:58that's really my wish,
39:59that I can see myself,
40:01that I can go up to the church.
40:03Because,
40:05I can't say,
40:06I can't explain,
40:07because I really love that girl.
40:09That's why,
40:10I'm under her too much.
40:11The girl is so beautiful here.
40:13It's so nice to hear,
40:14that he still believes in the idea of
40:17actually walking down the aisle,
40:19in spite of,
40:20they're already together in one house.
40:22Did you know that you want that?
40:24Yes.
40:25It's been a long time.
40:26That's why, of course,
40:27I'm still saving,
40:28because the cost of getting married in the church is not cheap.
40:30You're just stupid.
40:33How about you?
40:34Me?
40:35Maybe,
40:36I'll study,
40:37so that I can learn more things.
40:40Because,
40:41I'm still young,
40:42I still have a lot to go through.
40:44That's why,
40:45of course,
40:46I'll save too,
40:47so that I can study.
40:49Of course,
40:50I'll build myself up.
40:52I want to be stable,
40:53little by little.
40:55It's like,
40:56I'm still going there.
40:58You're still going there?
40:59I'm still going there.
41:01I'm still saving,
41:02and so on.
41:03Then,
41:04in my school,
41:05I tried to finish my MA,
41:06and my philosophy,
41:08I finished it.
41:09Then, eventually,
41:10because I planned before,
41:14my philosophy is a thriller,
41:16so I should do law.
41:17I'm a bit sidetracked in showbiz.
41:19So, you want to pursue it?
41:20Yeah.
41:22Maybe,
41:23I'll use,
41:24since I'm a business graduate,
41:25business management graduate,
41:27I want to use my course.
41:28I want to build a restaurant.
41:31Be financially stable.
41:32You'll help us, right?
41:33Yeah, of course.
41:35I want to have a stable job,
41:37that can help my siblings.
41:41Okay, thank you very much.
41:42Thank you so much for your honesty.
41:44Thank you for your honesty.
41:46I hope we can invite you again.
41:48Better all,
41:49years from now,
41:50when you're all better men.
41:51Yeah, we'll find out
41:52if you really become better,
41:54or even better.
41:55Even the best.
41:57I hope so.
41:58I hope so.
41:59So, thank you.
42:00Sis will be back.
42:02Always.
42:03Always be.
42:04We are sisters.
42:05We are sisters.
42:11Always be.
42:12We are sisters.
42:14We are sisters.
42:19So, Jelly,
42:20do we understand them now?
42:23Well,
42:25they're not the men
42:27who have lived their lives, right?
42:29Because they're very young.
42:30We may understand them now,
42:31but then the changes in their lives
42:33that will still come,
42:34of course, will change.
42:36But for me,
42:37I feel like
42:39the new breed,
42:40the new youth
42:44of the men now,
42:45they're more open-minded.
42:47They're more accepting of the fact that
42:51being a man doesn't mean
42:53a lot of girls,
42:55a lot.
42:56They have a better sense
42:58of what a man really is.
42:59Judging from the people
43:00we talked to,
43:01the guys that we talked to today,
43:02they seem to have a better sense
43:03of being a human being,
43:05not only being a macho man.
43:07Maybe, you know,
43:08being in the show business
43:10also helps them.
43:11They're more exposed.
43:12So, the maturity is faster.
43:14You learn more quickly.
43:16I hope so.
43:17I hope they continue.
43:18I am very,
43:19their lives seem very promising.
43:21Very positive.
43:23Very positive.
43:24Correct.
43:25I hope they continue
43:26to be better men.
43:28But then,
43:29of course,
43:30we have to bear in mind
43:31that there are no exact rules,
43:33no code of ethics
43:34to becoming a better man.
43:35But today's discussion brought about
43:38certain things,
43:39certain thoughts,
43:40certain insights
43:41that we can understand them
43:43no matter what.
43:44We should understand them.
43:46Not only because they're men,
43:47we're women.
43:48But because they're human.
43:49They said,
43:50actually,
43:51let's not force them to understand.
43:52Let's just love them.
43:53Correct.
43:54Let's just accept them.
43:55Yes, let's just accept them.
43:56Okay?
43:57So, just accept us, sis.
43:58So, let's meet again tomorrow.
44:00Tomorrow.
44:02Sis.
44:03Sis would like to thank
44:05Bambi Fuentes,
44:07Mossimo,
44:08F&H,
44:09Chloe for our eyewear,
44:11Optical Work,
44:13Adida,
44:14Janeline Shoes,
44:16Wade Shoes,
44:17Bayo,
44:18Under the Sea Pet Shop,
44:20Salon de Manila,
44:21La Germania,
44:23680 Home Appliances,
44:25Jurastar,
44:26Mano Mano,
44:27Play and Display,
44:29JBL Home Furniture Enterprise,
44:31The Barnyard,
44:33Grand Flora,
44:34Our Home,
44:36Wayless Center and Spa,
44:38The Heritage Art Venue,
44:41Molly McGregor,
44:43and Beanhopper's Coffee,
44:44and Union Square.
44:46If everything will be lost,
44:47just don't do them.
44:48You know that?
44:49I'm willing to lose my job.
44:51Winner!
44:52You're a winner.
44:53You're a woman.
44:54Yes, you're a winner.
44:55If there's a problem,
44:56I don't avoid it.
44:57I need to find a way
44:58to solve it.
44:59I won't make a mistake
45:01just to solve it.
45:03It's a good feeling
45:04because you're the eldest.
45:06To see your mom and your dad
45:08fulfilling their wishes
45:10in the salon.
45:11Really?
45:12Really.
45:13When was the last time?
45:14Yesterday.
45:15What?
45:16How long have you been married?
45:18About...
45:19How long have you been married?
45:21Oh.
45:23I don't know.
45:26What?
45:27Because I still have
45:28some shortcomings.
45:30I still have a lot.
45:31Never mind.
45:32But it's not perfect.
45:33It's not perfect.
45:34Are you happy with his answer?
45:35Yes.
45:37Okay.
45:38Okay.
45:39He's really going to say it.
45:40He's going to say the truth.
45:42No, because
45:43I don't use him that much.
45:44Oh.
45:46I think he uses YC.
45:48Oh.
45:49Because he...
45:50Because...
45:51Because...
45:52Because...
45:53No.
45:55Next.
45:56He's kind.
45:59He's kind.
46:00He's kind.
46:02He's elastic.
46:24Oh.
46:25Oh.
46:26Oh.
46:27Oh.
46:28Oh.
46:29Oh.
46:30Oh.
46:31Oh.
46:32Oh.
46:33Oh.
46:34Oh.
46:35Oh.
46:36Oh.
46:37Oh.
46:38Oh.
46:39Oh.
46:40Oh.
46:41Oh.
46:42Oh.
46:43Oh.
46:44Oh.
46:45Oh.
46:46Oh.
46:47Oh.
46:48Oh.
46:49Oh.
46:50Oh.
46:51Oh.
46:52Oh.