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00:01:00Assalam-o-Alaikum, good morning, good morning, Pakistan, how are you all?

00:01:04We are fine, we are enjoying.

00:01:06Okay, in the morning, while tolerating a lot of things,

00:01:11I don't know why I watch the news,

00:01:14and my husband is in such a state that if he watches any bad news at night,

00:01:18he wakes me up in the middle of the night and tells me, look, this has happened.

00:01:20With all these things, you value your childhood.

00:01:23What were the worries of childhood?

00:01:25The worries of childhood were, oh, I didn't do my homework, the teacher will scold me.

00:01:28Oh no, if I eat my sister's chocolate, my parents will scold me.

00:01:32Because I have been naughty in eating, I won't get food today.

00:01:37I have to eat food from outside,

00:01:39and I am being stubborn, I will get scolded for that.

00:01:41I am being stubborn for toys, I will get scolded for that.

00:01:45I am tensed about exams.

00:01:47I mean, those cute worries, those lovely worries,

00:01:50at that time, I used to feel that, I don't know,

00:01:52so much has happened on my head.

00:01:54When I made a small mistake,

00:01:56I used to go and hide under the bed,

00:02:00thinking that I have made a very big mistake.

00:02:03There were such innocent and lovely worries.

00:02:06What is happening in the world?

00:02:08What is going on in the news?

00:02:10What is in whose heart?

00:02:13What are the difficulties of money?

00:02:16What is the world?

00:02:18What is in the heart of the world?

00:02:20What is it from above?

00:02:21We did not have any worries.

00:02:23Childhood used to be like this.

00:02:25And Alhamdulillah, we have been going through the same childhood.

00:02:28Like ordinary children, we used to have the same worries.

00:02:30Otherwise, many children go through difficult times.

00:02:33Difficult time in the sense,

00:02:35they have financial and many other worries.

00:02:37When they have to earn for their house,

00:02:39apart from their studies.

00:02:41But Alhamdulillah, our childhood,

00:02:43is like a normal childhood,

00:02:45which is the childhood of every child.

00:02:47But at that time, we like to grow up.

00:02:50Just grow up quickly.

00:02:52Wear your mother's sari,

00:02:54wear your mother's lipstick.

00:02:56We do not know that when we grow up,

00:02:58we get all these things.

00:03:00Your will also works.

00:03:02Many other worries surround you.

00:03:05You always think good.

00:03:07But life does not do this.

00:03:09Sometimes it makes you nervous.

00:03:12It makes you stumble.

00:03:14By making you stumble,

00:03:16it takes you to the direction

00:03:18where it wants to take you.

00:03:20If you fall into the river,

00:03:22it takes you to a place

00:03:24where you do not even think

00:03:26of going.

00:03:30So this is basically,

00:03:32after becoming an adult,

00:03:34to bear life.

00:03:36And I have prepared my children

00:03:38that this childhood

00:03:40is the best time of life.

00:03:42In which there are no other external worries.

00:03:44There are only domestic worries.

00:03:46Small and fat.

00:03:48Because there are very few.

00:03:50And in the future,

00:03:52there will be many storms.

00:03:54God forbid, if there is a storm in someone's life.

00:03:56But there are storms.

00:03:58Sometimes relationship storms,

00:04:00sometimes financial storms,

00:04:02sometimes domestic storms,

00:04:04sometimes health point of view storms.

00:04:06There will be.

00:04:08And you should be mentally

00:04:10a little prepared for it.

00:04:12Because those who are not mentally prepared

00:04:14and are not working hard

00:04:16to save themselves from that storm,

00:04:18then they break,

00:04:20they scatter, they drown.

00:04:22Today's show is something like this.

00:04:24We have kept this show

00:04:26because

00:04:28good and bad days come with everyone.

00:04:30But how to fight

00:04:32a bad day?

00:04:34How to bring yourself

00:04:36to the edge of the wave?

00:04:38We will learn a little

00:04:40from our celebrities.

00:04:42And as I tell you again and again,

00:04:44if there are no good days,

00:04:46there will be no bad days.

00:04:48If you keep this in mind,

00:04:50then bad times

00:04:52will pass a little faster.

00:04:54Although it seems that

00:04:56when bad times come,

00:04:58your hour, minute, day

00:05:00is not taking the name of passing.

00:05:02Stay with us after a short break.

00:05:04We have brought

00:05:06a very lovely package for you.

00:05:08In bad times,

00:05:10how to take yourself

00:05:12to the edge of the wave?

00:05:14Good morning, Pakistan.

00:05:24Welcome, welcome back.

00:05:26Good morning, Pakistan.

00:05:28Today, I have three very strong

00:05:30women with me.

00:05:32And I feel

00:05:34if I compare,

00:05:36I may be biased

00:05:38to say that

00:05:40a woman can face

00:05:42a difficult time in a better way.

00:05:44Sometimes men lose their courage.

00:05:46So often their mothers, sisters,

00:05:48daughters or widows

00:05:50take care of them

00:05:52in that difficult time.

00:05:54So I have three strong women

00:05:56here and that is why there is no man.

00:05:58Because my mind says

00:06:00whether he is my father,

00:06:02whether he is my husband or my son,

00:06:04I feel that in comparison to all of them,

00:06:06the women of our house

00:06:08are very strong.

00:06:10So let's see how strong they are.

00:06:12I have with me

00:06:14Maya Khan. Assalamualaikum.

00:06:16Assalamualaikum. How are you?

00:06:18I am fine. Assalamualaikum.

00:06:20I have with me

00:06:22Amber Wajid.

00:06:24Amber Khan.

00:06:26Assalamualaikum.

00:06:28Assalamualaikum.

00:06:30Assalamualaikum.

00:06:32Assalamualaikum.

00:06:34Assalamualaikum.

00:06:36Allah ka shukar.

00:06:38So,

00:06:40we are talking about strength.

00:06:42You measure strength.

00:06:44In childhood, your strength is different.

00:06:46You are good in studies or

00:06:48you are capable in something else.

00:06:50You are measured by that.

00:06:52My child is strong. He falls and then gets up.

00:06:54He is physically strong.

00:06:56Then you come in teenage.

00:06:58Your strength is measured differently.

00:07:00Then you

00:07:02come in such a mature age

00:07:04where you face difficulties

00:07:06and you get out of them.

00:07:08So, in every age,

00:07:10your strength is measured differently.

00:07:12So,

00:07:14if I start with Maya,

00:07:16how was Maya's childhood?

00:07:18Was she a delicate girl

00:07:20or was she

00:07:22trained as a soldier

00:07:24in her childhood?

00:07:26You have known me almost all your life.

00:07:28So,

00:07:30there is no point in telling Nida

00:07:32I am your host.

00:07:34You have to ask questions.

00:07:36No, I was never a delicate girl.

00:07:38Never.

00:07:40You are the youngest in your family.

00:07:42So, young kids are often

00:07:44spoiled in love

00:07:46or they are kept under their wings.

00:07:48In spoiling,

00:07:50yes, she is young

00:07:52so she is crazy

00:07:54but I never played with dolls.

00:07:56I never got married.

00:07:58I never went to Gudde.

00:08:00I never got married.

00:08:02With Divya,

00:08:04my cousin, Vicky,

00:08:06he was a blue boy

00:08:08so we used to put electrical tape

00:08:10and I used to put red tape

00:08:12because I was a girl.

00:08:14So, we used to build

00:08:16a road on the roof

00:08:18and we used to race

00:08:20on it.

00:08:22So, this was our childhood.

00:08:24You were a naughty boy.

00:08:26I used to wear my brothers' clothes.

00:08:28I was with Aziz

00:08:30during the anchor time of PTV.

00:08:32So, we were all laughing

00:08:34that we didn't have eyebrows

00:08:36or moustache

00:08:38because PTV had an obvious way

00:08:40to wear a dupatta.

00:08:42So, I used to wear my sister's clothes

00:08:44and my hands used to go inside

00:08:46and my chest used to come out.

00:08:48What did your family say

00:08:50when you used to get hurt?

00:08:52I was a cyclist.

00:08:54I was an athlete.

00:08:57I used to do 100 meters,

00:08:59badminton, throwball

00:09:01in the cricket team.

00:09:03I was a debater.

00:09:05I didn't get hurt.

00:09:07If you get hurt,

00:09:09you run away.

00:09:11Your sportsmanship ends.

00:09:13So, I think that was my childhood.

00:09:15When I got hurt, I said

00:09:17it's okay.

00:09:19When you don't say anything,

00:09:21everything happens in life.

00:09:23It's okay.

00:09:25As you said, Nida,

00:09:27your childhood strength is different.

00:09:29Why don't we become kids?

00:09:31Don't kids get hurt?

00:09:33They do,

00:09:35because they become police officers,

00:09:37doctors, chefs,

00:09:39fathers, grandfathers.

00:09:41It's easy to distract kids.

00:09:43Why don't we become kids?

00:09:45Why don't we adapt?

00:09:47I think there was a science

00:09:49of adaptability in our minds.

00:09:51It's okay if this happens.

00:09:53When you were young,

00:09:55you had to face a lot of pain.

00:09:57Your father, mother,

00:09:59your health,

00:10:01your loved ones passed away.

00:10:03How strong were you

00:10:05at that time?

00:10:07My father passed away

00:10:09in Multan.

00:10:11His grave is in Multan.

00:10:13When my father passed away,

00:10:15I remember,

00:10:17he said to me,

00:10:19you are not the first

00:10:21and last daughter of your father.

00:10:23Your mother said that?

00:10:25Yes, my mother said that.

00:10:27I was looking at her face.

00:10:29What kind of a woman is she?

00:10:31Today, I think,

00:10:33she is such a powerful woman.

00:10:35Last night, we were remembering

00:10:37Famida aunty, Afeefa Sufiya Lusaini,

00:10:39Shaheen Ansari, Naheed Apa,

00:10:41Amma, all of them,

00:10:43their mother,

00:10:45they all used to sit together

00:10:47and eat together.

00:10:49I remember,

00:10:51I used to sit in their room

00:10:53and read their scripts

00:10:55to know their questions.

00:10:57Maya, when a girl

00:10:59lives among strong women,

00:11:01does it have an impact on that girl?

00:11:03Why not?

00:11:05Where there are a lot of

00:11:07cockroaches,

00:11:09does a girl become like that?

00:11:11No, no.

00:11:13When I started working at a young age,

00:11:15the elders around me,

00:11:17all those batches,

00:11:19was it a delicate batch?

00:11:21No, I just want to ask you

00:11:23that when girls are impacted

00:11:25by strong women,

00:11:27do they adopt them?

00:11:29Of course, they do.

00:11:31Do they become powerful?

00:11:33Of course, they do.

00:11:35Why? Because they don't give you a margin.

00:11:37Yes, read this.

00:11:39Do you want to eat something?

00:11:41They know what to do.

00:11:43And it's not like there were

00:11:45unmarried women

00:11:47but they had this thing

00:11:49that if you want to eat something,

00:11:51you'll get it.

00:11:53Read the questions,

00:11:55you have the encyclopedia,

00:11:57you have the books,

00:11:59you have all the references.

00:12:01That was my training.

00:12:03Your childhood was good.

00:12:05Your mother was strong,

00:12:07your family was strong,

00:12:09all of them.

00:12:11I tell you,

00:12:13my first pain was

00:12:15when I felt that

00:12:17I'm going through this storm alone.

00:12:19When did you go to your father's house?

00:12:21To my father's house.

00:12:23It was very tough

00:12:25because all my siblings were out.

00:12:27And they also had to go

00:12:29and come back.

00:12:31So for me,

00:12:33writing a letter

00:12:35to your father in school

00:12:37was a shock.

00:12:39You know, when you're a kid,

00:12:41you think your father is gone.

00:12:43What do I write to him?

00:12:45That's what I felt.

00:12:47Then everyone at home told me

00:12:49that it's okay,

00:12:51I'm your father,

00:12:53you can write to me.

00:12:55So I had to make peace with it.

00:12:57But my father's death,

00:12:59my cousin's death,

00:13:01my father's death,

00:13:03my cousin's death,

00:13:05my father's death,

00:13:07my father's death,

00:13:09my father's death,

00:13:11my father's death,

00:13:13my father's death,

00:13:15my father's death,

00:13:17my father's death,

00:13:19my father's death,

00:13:21my father's death,

00:13:23my father's death,

00:13:25my father's death,

00:13:27my father's death,

00:13:29my father's death,

00:13:31my father's death,

00:13:33my father's death,

00:13:35my father's death,

00:13:37I remember the moment when I took that stand.

00:13:39But life changed.

00:13:41It is not easy

00:13:43that without your father,

00:13:45without your mother,

00:13:47without any of your parents,

00:13:49people have more pain than me.

00:13:51People don't have parents.

00:13:53They don't have a mother since childhood.

00:13:55So they go through a lot of trauma.

00:13:57But if you ask me,

00:13:59it's my father's death.

00:14:01After my father's death,

00:14:03I felt like I grew up since childhood.

00:14:05I would like to ask you the same thing.

00:14:07Of course, life will slowly

00:14:09change, but I would like to ask

00:14:11about your childhood.

00:14:13Were you strong in your childhood

00:14:15or did you slowly become strong

00:14:17with the circumstances?

00:14:19I became strong with time.

00:14:21Because I remember that

00:14:23I was not so strong in my childhood.

00:14:25Were you a little pampered?

00:14:27Not so pampered,

00:14:29but I was a little delicate.

00:14:31But again,

00:14:34my mother was also

00:14:36a very strong woman.

00:14:38And slowly,

00:14:40in my own family,

00:14:42I started to feel

00:14:44the pain and troubles

00:14:46of other people.

00:14:48Not only us,

00:14:50but everyone has pain.

00:14:52But some people,

00:14:54as a poet said,

00:14:56laugh and bear it,

00:14:58or cry and bear it.

00:15:00I used to observe

00:15:02that no one does this much.

00:15:04When I woke up,

00:15:06I was like,

00:15:08this has started again.

00:15:10They used to appreciate

00:15:12how strong and courageous

00:15:14I was.

00:15:16So, I learned from my life

00:15:18that there is no use

00:15:20of crying and bearing it.

00:15:22Someone will support you for

00:15:24two or four days,

00:15:26then everyone will be on their own.

00:15:28So, this change came slowly in me.

00:15:30Coincidentally,

00:15:32circumstances also started to come in my life.

00:15:34Thank God, I didn't face

00:15:36any such thing in my childhood

00:15:38which I would have faced

00:15:40a lot.

00:15:42But later,

00:15:44things started to come in my life

00:15:46and I faced them with courage.

00:15:48What is the first shock of your life

00:15:50in which you are standing alone

00:15:52and you faced that storm alone?

00:15:54My first shock

00:15:56came a little late.

00:15:58I got married when I was 19.

00:16:00After that,

00:16:02I had a good life.

00:16:04There are adjustment problems

00:16:06in every marriage.

00:16:08Even if you like someone,

00:16:10it happens.

00:16:12But then,

00:16:14my marriage lasted for 23 years.

00:16:16Everything was going well.

00:16:20At that time,

00:16:22my husband

00:16:24got married again

00:16:26and I was left alone

00:16:28to do everything on my own.

00:16:30At that time,

00:16:32instead of crying a lot,

00:16:34I had the courage

00:16:36to face my children.

00:16:38When my children will see me crying,

00:16:40what will they go through?

00:16:42How old were your children at that time?

00:16:44They were in their teens.

00:16:46I mean,

00:16:48I was the daughter of 16.

00:16:50How many days did it take you

00:16:52to get over that shock?

00:16:54You were not ready.

00:16:56No, I was not ready.

00:16:58I took my time.

00:17:00But most of the time,

00:17:02I handled myself alone.

00:17:04Did you get a surprise

00:17:06or were you a little relaxed?

00:17:08No, I was getting prepared.

00:17:10The situation was going on.

00:17:12But still,

00:17:14I didn't think extreme.

00:17:16I thought that

00:17:18there is a woman in their life

00:17:20but I didn't know

00:17:22how to deal with it.

00:17:26It was also said that

00:17:28if a woman reacts a lot,

00:17:30then a man does the same.

00:17:32If a woman stays quiet,

00:17:34then I thought I should stay quiet

00:17:36and not react much.

00:17:38But what had to happen, happened.

00:17:40So, obviously,

00:17:42it was very difficult.

00:17:44Secondly, as I was saying about my children,

00:17:46I also had my parents.

00:17:48If I showed them more problems

00:17:50or if I started crying,

00:17:52then it would affect my parents too.

00:17:54So, I thought

00:17:56and many people said

00:17:58that it doesn't affect anyone.

00:18:00Now, I am thinking in my heart

00:18:02why it doesn't affect anyone.

00:18:04I know it and God knows it.

00:18:06But what can I do by showing it?

00:18:08If I start crying in front of you,

00:18:10how long will you be able to tolerate it?

00:18:12So, I just

00:18:14encouraged her.

00:18:16After that, I became so strong

00:18:18that other women

00:18:20who work with me

00:18:22and meet me,

00:18:24I tell them to

00:18:26make themselves strong.

00:18:28This life

00:18:30will test you at every step.

00:18:32Difficulties will come.

00:18:34Now, if you sit in those difficulties,

00:18:36then you are gone.

00:18:38So, you have to be brave.

00:18:40Like nowadays,

00:18:42if there are problems in life,

00:18:44then I tell them

00:18:46to be strong

00:18:48and make themselves strong.

00:18:50Be brave

00:18:52and do something.

00:18:54What do you feel from your life experience?

00:18:56What are the things

00:18:58that make girls strong?

00:19:00When we are raising

00:19:02our daughters,

00:19:04we should take care of those things.

00:19:06The environment at home,

00:19:08as a mother,

00:19:10what all things should be added

00:19:12in their life and upbringing

00:19:14We raise our daughters very delicate.

00:19:16If something happens,

00:19:18we should not hit our sisters.

00:19:20If a father hits his son,

00:19:22he should not hit his daughter.

00:19:24We should make them delicate.

00:19:26I have never been like this.

00:19:28I used to box with my brothers.

00:19:30I used to get scared.

00:19:32I used to say,

00:19:34what kind of mother is this?

00:19:36My mother was totally different.

00:19:38Education is the most important thing.

00:19:40Education gives you strength.

00:19:42Education gives you awareness.

00:19:44And this strength

00:19:46will remain in your life forever.

00:19:48Yes, forever.

00:19:50We think that education is obtained

00:19:52by doing a job.

00:19:54My daughter has to do some work

00:19:56which will cost a lot.

00:19:58She has to get married.

00:20:00But first,

00:20:02we should make her a strong person.

00:20:04We don't know about the future.

00:20:06We don't know what all things

00:20:08she has to face in the world.

00:20:10So, education gives you awareness

00:20:12and not just a job.

00:20:14Yes, it gives you awareness.

00:20:16Girls get that awareness.

00:20:18And family support.

00:20:20This is very important.

00:20:22In our society,

00:20:24if a girl makes a small mistake,

00:20:26she is scolded.

00:20:28I say,

00:20:30whether it is a boy

00:20:32or a girl,

00:20:34no matter who it is,

00:20:36first forgive them.

00:20:39Give them some confidence

00:20:41that we are with them.

00:20:43In most cases,

00:20:45their families don't support them.

00:20:47Then the girls become weaker.

00:20:49They know that if they take a stand,

00:20:51where will they go?

00:20:53So, they keep getting beaten.

00:20:55So, they keep suppressing.

00:20:57Ambar, I will ask you the same question.

00:20:59Obviously, you are very strong.

00:21:01You look strong.

00:21:03But you are not soft from inside.

00:21:05Her heart is soft from inside.

00:21:07So, I will start from your childhood.

00:21:09If we look at my childhood,

00:21:11Alhamdulillah,

00:21:13I think I have been strong since childhood.

00:21:15And to a great extent,

00:21:17this is what I am sharing.

00:21:19From the beginning,

00:21:21I used to dream

00:21:23that I am a superwoman.

00:21:25Superwoman in a sense,

00:21:27that if I am in trouble,

00:21:29I will go and help them.

00:21:31I don't know.

00:21:33In my nature,

00:21:35I was also like that.

00:21:37Friendship with boys,

00:21:39playing with boys.

00:21:41But in games, excellent,

00:21:43NCC commando,

00:21:45throw ball captain,

00:21:47in racing, we have so many cups.

00:21:49I was a fighter from the beginning.

00:21:51That I don't want to lose.

00:21:53I can do it.

00:21:55This was in me from the beginning.

00:21:57How is it that everyone can do it,

00:21:59why can't I do it?

00:22:01I had a very positive vibe.

00:22:03I have been like this since childhood.

00:22:05To this extent,

00:22:07when my brother was small in Dubai,

00:22:09he was beaten up.

00:22:11He was crying.

00:22:13I said, you?

00:22:15Who hit you?

00:22:17I was 3 years older than him.

00:22:19I said,

00:22:21Mom, I am going.

00:22:23She said, are you mad?

00:22:25I said, no.

00:22:27I have always fought

00:22:29for others.

00:22:31In my niche,

00:22:33I don't fight for myself,

00:22:35but for others.

00:22:37I came there.

00:22:39Believe me,

00:22:41there were 6-7 boys.

00:22:43They were all kids.

00:22:45Who hit my brother?

00:22:47I said, if you want to fight,

00:22:49fight with me.

00:22:51Because my dad,

00:22:53when I got married,

00:22:55he said, don't get beaten up.

00:22:57If you get beaten up,

00:22:59it's not wrong.

00:23:01Defend yourself.

00:23:03Even if you get beaten up a few times,

00:23:05don't get beaten up.

00:23:07Those things are inside you.

00:23:09Basically, nature and situation.

00:23:11When I was small,

00:23:13I played a lot.

00:23:15I fell a lot.

00:23:17I fell under the jeep.

00:23:19Literally,

00:23:21I told you earlier,

00:23:23I fell under the jeep.

00:23:25Thank God, the jeep didn't turn.

00:23:27It was a cricket match.

00:23:31When the jeep left,

00:23:33everyone said,

00:23:35Gini, Gini, Gini.

00:23:37I fell under the jeep.

00:23:39Everyone was doing this to me.

00:23:41Then I started crying.

00:23:43I got hit by a ball.

00:23:45I started thinking.

00:23:47I fought a lot.

00:23:49I got hurt.

00:23:51My childhood was very good.

00:23:53Cycling.

00:23:55You were sporty.

00:23:57Very sporty.

00:23:59I am still sporty.

00:24:01If you play a game,

00:24:03she will win against all three of you.

00:24:05I surrender.

00:24:07I am taking a small break.

00:24:09After the break,

00:24:11Ginni.

00:24:13Ginni or Ginni.

00:24:15I think she is Ginni.

00:24:17She runs a lot.

00:24:19She is Ginni in real life.

00:24:21After the break,

00:24:23I will talk about the story

00:24:25that happened in real life.

00:24:27I will talk about it after the break.

00:24:29Good morning, Pakistan.

00:24:41Welcome back.

00:24:43Good morning, Pakistan.

00:24:45They say,

00:24:47smile for someone.

00:24:49You don't know.

00:24:51There is a lot going on in their life.

00:24:53They are not able to smile for you.

00:24:55Obviously,

00:24:57they have a lot of problems.

00:24:59You never know.

00:25:01Whether they are your colleagues

00:25:03in your office.

00:25:05Whether they are your relatives.

00:25:07So,

00:25:09you should not judge a book by its cover.

00:25:11You should not judge a book by its cover.

00:25:13You should not judge a book by its cover.

00:25:15I was talking to Ambar.

00:25:17She was the first person in my life

00:25:19who gave me a shock.

00:25:21She is laughing at the shock.

00:25:25You are a human being.

00:25:27You are laughing at the shock.

00:25:29Praise be to Allah.

00:25:31We are the people inside.

00:25:33We have a lot of discussions.

00:25:35We have a lot of discussions.

00:25:37People don't know that she is laughing

00:25:39and making stories.

00:25:41She is having fun.

00:25:43But what is in her life?

00:25:45I was very fond of getting married.

00:25:47Getting ready.

00:25:49Getting ready with make-up

00:25:51of my dad.

00:25:53There was a fantasy world.

00:25:55People watch movies.

00:25:57To be honest,

00:25:59we like them a lot.

00:26:01We love each other a lot.

00:26:03We love each other a lot.

00:26:05We love each other a lot.

00:26:07We love each other a lot.

00:26:09We are like a white horse.

00:26:11We are like a white horse.

00:26:13We are like a white horse.

00:26:15housewife gharelu. Aur main kuch nahi sochti. Samko coffee piyein baith ke. Agar doko socha

00:26:24hota ke showbiz mein aana hai toh main shaadi se pehle aati. Beti ke baat toh nahi aati

00:26:29na. Toh ye cheez tha. Accha toh pas nahi nahi. Daddy ne kaha bahar chali jao. Tumhe

00:26:33beautician banne ka shauk hai. Waha chali jao. Dubai mein the ke bahar chali jao padne.

00:26:39Accha phir nani aaye. Bhai aachuka tha. Toh unhe kaha brainwash kiya. Chal doctor

00:26:43bannegi. Itni achhi lagegi ki waha itne. Main kaha chal waha pe functions hi bahut hota

00:26:48hai na. Shuru se pehna, odna, tomboy. Lekin saas paas mere andar yeh bhi tha. Gudda, guddi,

00:26:55sab cheeze thi. Toh main kaha, accha chalo. Ab usme mein kaha, mein bhai akela hai. Chalo

00:26:59main chali jaatun karachi na. Doctor banne. Toh main yaha aagayi thi. Khar jaab shaadi

00:27:04ki. Toh pehla jhatka, ek aap jis world mein rata hai na. Reality kota chali. Yeh zindagi

00:27:13kya hai. Bas wo jhatka shaadi wale roz hi lag gaya tha mujhe. And obviously hum main

00:27:21yeh program hai ki jis tarah se hum aur ko motivate kar sake. Life aapki khatam nahi

00:27:27hoti. Agar aapki talaq ho gayi hai, toh khatam nahi ho. Aap enjoy. Aisa kuch nahi hai. Toh

00:27:35differences hote the. Nature alag thi. Bahut saahi cheeze hai. But mere saans usser bahut

00:27:40achche thi. Mere nan. Toh maine kya rakha? Koi baat nahi. Yeh aise hai toh koi baat nahi.

00:27:45Mere saans usser yeh mujhe bahut byaar hai. Abhi bhi mein usse milti hu. Sab hai. Soh

00:27:51main unke saath jeene lagi. Main kuch kehati nahi thi. Mujhe hota tha nahi. Ab main mar

00:27:57ke is ghar se niklungi. Matlab tum sochu mere aise thought thi. Thought process tezi nahi

00:28:03thi bilkul bhi. Toh jab cheeze hoi thodi bahut toh mummy ne meri kehati thi. Beta kuch

00:28:11toh bola karo. Sahi baat pe toh bola karo. Toh hal kal ke meri maa ne. Woh khud bhi ithi

00:28:17bolne wali. Lekin unke dekhti thi. Itni pyaari meri bachchi. Kuch nahi kehati. Toh wo wali

00:28:24baat. Toh main hal kal ka saah kehana shiru kiya. Mera toh yeh aalam tha. Agar struggle

00:28:29ki baat karlo. Toh start ho gaya tha mera struggle. Jum meri beti chhe mahine ki thi.

00:28:35Sahi hai. Hala ki meri saaj bahut achi. Mujhe kapde pehna. Toh mujhe sab family wale kehate

00:28:42hai. Ke yaar tum best hai. Exhibition kyun nahi karte. Tum itna achi kapde pehati ho.

00:28:47Tumha sense of dressing up itna achi hai. Toh main kaha. Ab main apni chhe mahine ki

00:28:53bachchi ko. Yakeen karo gaadi nahi hoti thi. Aur aisa nahi tha. Toh main rickshaw. Pram

00:28:59hoti thi uski. Saapne itna bada bag bachcha ka jo hota hai. Aur paagal thi. Agar dekha

00:29:04jaye. Sakoon se bachchi ko ghar pe chodu. Nahi. Woh nahi. Kudak murgi hoti hai. Bas

00:29:09mera bachcha mere paas rahe. Hala ki meri saaj tha ki beta toh chod jaaga. Jaana hai.

00:29:14Main walk karke rickshaw. Andhani gali se do teen gali main road pe jaakar. Main khadi

00:29:20ho jaati thi. Pram ke saath. Rickshaw rukhi. Aur main kahaan gayi hoon? Allah wala market.

00:29:26Jo tumhara Jama cloth mein uske barabar main Allah wala market. Mujhe abhi bhi. Struggle

00:29:30karne? Woh cheez. Haan. Shopping. Kapde. Beti ko utaar rahi hoon. Bhaari si pram. Jiska

00:29:36wazan bhi. Kholu. Phir beti ko bithao. Phir saifu. Toh financial issues the toh main ussa?

00:29:43You dekha jaata bohot aisa hai leke hua hai. Like husband ki taraf se tha. Hote hain na.

00:29:48Matab like sab toh utaar chadha. Chalo. Let me just. Main karu. Koi baat nahi. Thodo

00:29:53baat karlo. Apne independent. Insaan ache. Positive way mein. Struggle jo hai. Yeh toh

00:30:00aati jaati hai. Yeh aati. Lekin main tumhe keh rahi hoon. Mujhe woh batao. Jab tumhare

00:30:04pehlo tale zameen nikal gayi na. Woh toh pehli nahi. Dakho hoti nahi. Cheeze cheeze

00:30:09hoti nahi. Especially jab pehlo tale zameen toh tab nikali thi. Jab maine shayad pehli

00:30:15bataya tha jo. Ke jab mujhe divorce hui thi na. Toh divorce ke andar bailiff. Court ka

00:30:22bailiff aaya tha. Toh usne kaha ki yeh aap kaun hai. Maine bataya ki Amber Khan. Toh

00:30:30kahne laga ki aisa hai ki yeh court ka notice aur aapko twenty four hours. Chobis ghante

00:30:37mein ghar khaali karna hai. Ab ek toh divorce hui. Pandra. Ek maeen ha hua tha. Pandra

00:30:44din hua tha. Aur main kaha. Main samajhi nahi hai toh bailiff kya hota hai. Main kaha

00:30:50main aisa kaise ghar khaali. Kerein nahi aapka jo case tha. Woh aapke husband haar

00:30:57gaye the. Ki kiraya nahi diya hata. Toh yeh jo hai ab aapko. Main rohne lagi. Kahenge

00:31:03nahi aap bahot acchi hain. Aur aap ek kaam karein. Aap jo hain. Jayein aur uske andar

00:31:09andiya, tufaan aaye. High court zarur chahiyega. Toh bharal ab us aisi baatein. Mummy ko phone

00:31:17kiya. Aapke mere friend the unko phone kiya. Sab meri dost Sakina. Hum log waha gaye

00:31:22high court. Usin elections the. Samajh nahi aara. Pher hum gaye. Acha in the mean time

00:31:28aisi bataadi hoon. Aisi simple. Ki humne. Kyuki yeh nahi bata hai. Divorce toh aapko

00:31:32waise iddat ka time bhi mil jata hai. Lekin woh bhi concept nahi pata tha. Pher hum ek

00:31:36family mein jaanne wale the. Jino ne kaha ki. Jo maalik makaan ke best friend hai. Tum

00:31:41sakoon ki nahi sojo. I'll handle. Toh bhaar unhone kaha. Woh ek tarah se dhoka hua.

00:31:47Bahot bada dhoka. Aapke andar hi walo ne aapko dasa. Toh kya karte mein waha gayi.

00:31:54Toh kuch nahi ho sakta. Hum gaye first time city court. Toh ajeeb sa mahal city court

00:32:00ka. Mein waha gayi aur mein ne kaha yeh kaisa court hai. High court pe jab tumne ho kya

00:32:06toh? High court gayi. Waha kuch nahi ho sakta. Because waha band tha. Notice aa chuka tha.

00:32:12Toh kya karte mein waha gayi. City court toh waha bhi. Toh waha ke judge the aise hi

00:32:17sabad ke tha. I'm sorry. Ab hum toh kuch nahi kar sakte. Kyunki cantonment mein chala

00:32:21gaya yeh kaisa. Jo maalik makaan toh cantonment mein koi achis ka. Toh like yeh jo court aur

00:32:27kacheri ka chakkar hota hai. Yeh mushkil hota hai kaurat ke liye. Oh mushkil? Samajh

00:32:30bhi nahi aa raha hota hai. Nahi aur mushkil kya tha? 24 ghante. Ghar khaali tha. Kaha

00:32:36leke jaye? 500 girls ka ghar ko aapne. Aur do bhitiya samet hai. Evacuate karna hai.

00:32:41Wanna police aake woh patti laga digi. Phir aap kuch nahi leke ja sakte. Aap sirf apna

00:32:47pars utheyenge. Aapki cheeze waha rehenge. Kehki woh case ho jata hai. No one can enter

00:32:54aa yaha se. Jab tak case final nahi hoga. Koi cheeze is ghar se hil nahi sakte. Oh my

00:32:59god. Main waha ab mein roon. Unko call karun nahi. Toh waha pe police tha. Toh jo bailiff

00:33:07tha. Main aapka bata sakta hu. Kis time pe police aayegi? Haan pair phule le. Damaa kaam

00:33:24nahi kar raha. Hum gaye malik makaan ke ghar. Waha pe unki missis thi. Main aapka dekhen

00:33:31hai. Main ambar khaan hoon. Aapko majala ki mujhe sirf ek mahina. Aap ek laag, das

00:33:36hazaar kiraya tha. Main aapka yeh paise le le. Mujhe ek mahina deta hai. Main bheti ho

00:33:41mein kahan jaaungi? Nahi I am sorry. Kuch bhi nahi ho sakta. Mere daddy ne kaha ki yeh

00:33:47mere flat ke kaajzat hain. Jisse main salon banaya tha. Yeh ab ghirvi rak le. Mere bheti

00:33:54ko ek mahina. Lekin woh nahi maan hai. Toh main roon hai. Meri dost Sakina ne kaha

00:34:00ke bas. Ab roon ha nahi. Aasu mat nikaalna aam par. Bas Allah bahut bade hai. Chalo.

00:34:06Hum ghar gaye. Aur mai isli keh rahe hoon ki yeh miracle hai. Aap jab ache hota hai

00:34:12na, aap toh Allah taala aapka saath nahi chhorta. Main message yeh hai. Aazmaata hai

00:34:17lekin chhorta nahi. Aazmaata hai aur woh aapko chahe. Yeh mere liye pahad tha. You

00:34:23cannot escape this. Aap socho. Mera yaaran tha saturday ki chaar bhaje. Mujhe yeh tha

00:34:30main paagal hoi bhi thi. Meri mama ke collar lagawa tha. Woh launch room. Mera bahut

00:34:36bada ghar hai. Jismein mere plants koi aata tha kitna. Khubsoor hai. Bihkul lagta hotel

00:34:41ki taala. Arre nahi. Woh aajati. Thank you. Bless you. Yeh iti strong hai. Lekin yeh

00:34:47jab bhi isse baare mein baat karte hai. Zindagi mein kabhi kabhaar bahut takleef

00:34:51hain. Yeh baar baar yaad karne zindagi. Exactly. Woh cheeze thi na. Police na aaja hai. Kya

00:34:59karungi meri cheeze. Har cheeze. Kahan jaungi? Kya karungi? Matlab Isa bhai tha. Unhe naye

00:35:08shoot kiya tha. Unhe kha mere ghar rakwa do. Phir daddy ka flat jo salon tha. Woh ittifaqi

00:35:12baat hai. Khali. Unhe kha beta wahan rakwa do. Mujhe nahi pata. Dekho cartons pack

00:35:20karna. Ek din yaar. Allah intijam kar deta hai. Mere salon ki sheeshe. Us ghar mein salon

00:35:27bhi tha. Salon, kitchen, mere apna cheeze, study, 510 ka bedhahasha samaar. Jo main abhi

00:35:35aada mere ghar mein hai. Jo chota ghar hai yeh. Mujhe takhi hosh nahi tha. Woh karna

00:35:41hai carpenter ko aana hai toh utaarega. Usko kaise pack karna hai. Truck wale ka karna

00:35:47hai. Mujhe toh bas yeh tha ki call toh nahi aari. Call toh nahi aari. Mujhe nahi pata.

00:35:52Literally Nida, chaar bache, Saturday aur doosr din Sunday tha. Sunday ke paanch bache

00:36:03tak poora ghar khali ho gaya tha. Allah taala ne samaan do uske andar maine wahan rakha,

00:36:13kisi aur ke ghar rakha, teen jagah pe samaan rakha. Itna samaan tha. Bas toh woh cheez

00:36:19thi Allah taala magar woh dekho kar liya. That was the biggest. Kis tarah se maine, uske

00:36:26baad survive. Phir toh jab ek jhatka lagta hai aapko aur phir aapke paas koi bhi cheez

00:36:32aati jaye na, woh phir aapko lagta nahi. Kyuki impossible hai. Yeh dekho Allah taala

00:36:36farishte aise aa jaate hain ke jinnon ne kaam kar diya. Humay bas ka toh nahi.

00:36:41Kehte hai na ki Allah taala aazmaata hai. Aap agar aap himmat se usse woh karen toh

00:36:46woh zurur badat karta hai.

00:36:47Is ladki ne toh bilkul, woh nahi hota ke bilkul young age mein isne yeh cheezin bear

00:36:54karna shuru kar rahi hain. Main hamisaan baar baar yeh hi sochti thi ke agar main

00:36:58maya ki jagah hoti toh main nahi. Maya ho gayi ya shahista ho gayi. Professionally

00:37:03agar takleefein jo hoti hain na, bahot saare log nahi sehpaate. So main jab bhi in log

00:37:08ko dekhti thi main kehti thi yaar bahot mushkil hai yeh. Aasaan nahi hota.

00:37:12Achar agar aap isme ho, field mein toh phir generally log aapki jaan bahot azaab karte

00:37:20hai. If you're a known person.

00:37:21Aur uss sab maya pata chalta hai ki aapka dost kaun hai aur aapka dushman kaun hai.

00:37:25Woh Allah taala bilkul betakaab kar dita hai.

00:37:27Bilkul.

00:37:28Har kisi ko.

00:37:29True that.

00:37:29So, pehla zindagi ka jhatka tumhare abba ka tha. Uske baad doosra jhatka zindagi ka

00:37:36jo tumhe lagta hai ke, main mabaap ka jhatka toh sabse hi bada hota hai. Main yeh toh

00:37:39nahi kahe sakti hai usse bada jhatka koi hoga.

00:37:41True.

00:37:42Lekin phir zindagi mein aur kya baar tumne kiya aur jo tum aurto ko batana chahati ho

00:37:47ki main uss waqt se aise nikli. Mushkil tha lekin main nikal gayi.

00:37:50You know, honestly main abhi Amber ki bhi sun rahi thi, ma'am ki bhi sun rahi thi.

00:37:55Aur mujhe jab main wo court ki baat kar rahi thi, toh apna bhi yaad aa raha tha zayar.

00:37:59Ho raha tha ki hai waqeeb hai, do saal lagataar, city court, high court, city court, high

00:38:04court. And that's part of my journey. I mean dekho, I, main kya kya sakte hai, kisi

00:38:09ne kya khub likha hai apni kitab mein. Delay hoga. Delay hoga, challenges aayenge.

00:38:14Lekin uss challenges mein main kya choose karti hu karna, decide karega meri aagi ki

00:38:19journey.

00:38:20True.

00:38:21Theek hai, ab main intaqam ki aag jala sakte thi ki maini toh chhodna nahi hai.

00:38:26Lekin aag apne aap mein ek negative cheez hai. Uska kaam jalaana hai.

00:38:31Ab wo kisi ki nafrat mein jalaun, ya main apne aap ko jalaun, ya kisi aur ko jalaun.

00:38:36Wo hai negative cheez.

00:38:37Aur wo aag doosre se zyada aapko aasar karte hai.

00:38:39Aapko lagti hai. Aise hi jo negativity ki jo alfaz hain, jo azaab hain, musibat hain,

00:38:46yeh saab negative lafz hain.

00:38:48In alfaz ka apne system se nikalna bahut achha hai humare liye.

00:38:51Humare khud ke liye achha hai.

00:38:52Mere liye achha hai.

00:38:54Jhatke, har us kadam pe aate hain, jab aap koi challenge face karte hain.

00:39:00Challenge aaya, hump aaya.

00:39:03Challenge aaya, hump aaya.

00:39:05Acha ab us challenge se do choices hain.

00:39:07Ya toh guzar lo, ya toh accept karke, teen A's hain.

00:39:10Accept, adapt, accommodate.

00:39:12Ya toh aap accept kar lo, ya phir aap accept na karo.

00:39:16Lekin aapki accept na karne se koi fark nahi padega.

00:39:19Wo hoga wohi, jo aapke liye journey decided hai.

00:39:23How you choose to go through that journey is your choice.

00:39:28So, jhatke aate rahein, school aaya, school mein wo time aaya,

00:39:33jab fees ka bhi masla tha, zahir hai, saab bhen bhai milkar mehnat karte the.

00:39:38Miri bhen thi, wo karte thi sara.

00:39:41Toh wo fees zyada lagne laggi.

00:39:42Toh main choti thi, toh maini kha, nahi yeh na, gharwalon pe pressure padega.

00:39:46Toh basic toh hogaya, kindergarten se humara,

00:39:49Durzana Bhatt ma'am humari principal thi, Beacon House mein.

00:39:52Toh 8 tak toh base hogayi.

00:39:54Toh maini kha, chalo ab na, school change kar lete, toh sasta ho jayega.

00:39:57Amma aur, nahi hangama hogaya, school nahi batlega,

00:39:59maini bachpan se udhar padhaya hai, yeh kiya.

00:40:01Toh kuch nahi hota, Allah ka shukar.

00:40:03Bureaucrat ki ulad ho, angrezi acchi hai, urdu ghar mein acchi hai,

00:40:07bolna aata hai, baat karne aata hai, socialize karna aata hai,

00:40:09because embassies mein bachpan guzra, toh confidence amesha raha.

00:40:13Lekin wo cheez ke, jab wo school change karne lagge, toh ghar mein ek challenge.

00:40:17Yeh nahi kiya sirf challenge aapko bahar hota hai, ghar mein bhi aapko challenge hota hai.

00:40:21Aapke jo apne hote hain na, dekhiye pyaar karna ek alag hai, samajhna alag hai.

00:40:26Aapke apne aapko pyaar toh laajmi karenge, wo aapke apne.

00:40:30Wo aapko samajhte hai kitna, yeh ek bahut zaroori baat hai,

00:40:33jo hum kahi na kahi ignore kar jaate hain, apni journey mein.

00:40:36Toh uswaq, shayad mera yeh samajhna tha, ki main unke upar pressure kam kar rahi hun,

00:40:41lekin unka yeh samajhna tha, ke nahi, hum kuch bhi karenge, mehngi school mein karenge.

00:40:46Toh main, wo paise bachane ke liye, I used to walk to the school.

00:40:50I used to walk to the school.

00:40:51And I am so proud of the fact,

00:40:53ki main, pehdal chalke jaati thi, aur wo do paise bhi van ke bachaye main.

00:40:58Pressure nahi bani.

00:40:59Acha, mehnat toh kar rahi thi, lekin jo aata tha, wo ID card toh bana wani,

00:41:03toh jo aata tha, wo amma ke haath mein aata tha.

00:41:04Toh wo kuch, aisa kuch scenario tha, ki nahi.

00:41:08Contribute karna hai.

00:41:10Part of the solution hona hai, part of the problem nahi hona.

00:41:13Toh yeh bachpan se basic clear thi.

00:41:14Yeh zain se Allah taala jaal deta hai, toh Allah ka karam hai.

00:41:17Waqib hai, wanna toh nahi aati, toh shahoor toh bade badon ko bhi nahi aata.

00:41:20Bilkul.

00:41:21Theek hai, toh Allah ka karam hai, ahsaan hai maalik ka.

00:41:23Toh baat sirf itni hai, ke uske baad jhatke rahein.

00:41:26Ab sadak par chalna, ek bahot bada challenge hota hai.

00:41:29Ek ladki ka walk karna, ek bahot bada challenge hota hai.

00:41:32Kisi ka taadna, usko bardaash karna, bahot bada challenge hota hai.

00:41:34Acha, yeh main aaj hi sochti bhi aa rahi thi.

00:41:36Isli mein, ke yeh bhi aurton ko face karna.

00:41:38Face karna padta hai na.

00:41:39Burke mein thi wo aurat.

00:41:41And somebody was still staring at you.

00:41:42Nahi, uspe toh main baat hi nahi kar sakti ma'am.

00:41:44Kyunki, wo ek aisa mod hai, with all due respect.

00:41:49Main usse mauzoob isliye baat nahi kar sakti,

00:41:50kyunki mujhe sharmindagi hai apne maa, bhain, betiyon se.

00:41:54Ke wo yeh sadak pe chalti hai.

00:41:56Main unke liye kuch nahi kar sakti.

00:41:57Main kamzor hoon aur main haar gayi unnon ke aage.

00:42:01I feel sorry for the nation.

00:42:03I feel sorry for the society.

00:42:04I feel sorry for all those daughters and sisters and mothers.

00:42:08Jinn ko yeh face karna padta hai.

00:42:09Toh main sharmindagi hoti.

00:42:10Main sharminda hoon se.

00:42:13Ek chota se break le rahein.

00:42:14Break ke baad phir main tumhari taraf aungi.

00:42:16As a teenage ladki, as 20s, jo cheezein tumhne bare ki, wo kaise ki?

00:42:23Wo strength, wo kahan se tumhlai?

00:42:26Kisne tumhe, hota hai na, kabhi kabar aapki family member koi aisa hota hai,

00:42:29jo aapko uske liye thakka deta hai,

00:42:32ke main tumhare saath hoon.

00:42:33Main beti hoon.

00:42:34Ya main beta hoon.

00:42:36Chota se break.

00:42:36Break ke baad dekhte rahein.

00:42:37Good morning, Pakistan.

00:42:47Welcome, welcome back.

00:42:50Meri team mein dukhi music kyun lagaya hai?

00:42:51Main dukhi show nahi kar rahi hain.

00:42:53Sobha-sobha.

00:42:54I toh logon ko dukh se nikaalne ke liye,

00:42:56sab se yeh discussion kar rahi hain.

00:42:58So, dukhi music na lagana.

00:43:00Please.

00:43:01Toh Maya ke paas main aati hoon.

00:43:03Maya itni mastik ho rahein.

00:43:06Itni mastik ho rahein.

00:43:07Chalo, aajao.

00:43:08Kehne bhaat aati hoon, nikaal joon.

00:43:10Jab iske par problem bhi aayi thi na,

00:43:12aur main se milti thi,

00:43:13toh like, yeh kahi na kahi se fun nikaal leti.

00:43:16Mujhe nahi samaaj aata, kaise.

00:43:18Mujhe woh hota tha, ke aar nahi...

00:43:20Gussa aata tha, ke jo bhi koi chhaap raha hai iske liye,

00:43:23ya koi social media koi discussion kar raha hai,

00:43:25toh gussa aata hai, na?

00:43:26I remember.

00:43:27Baba gussa kar di liye.

00:43:27Mujhe zyada gussa aa raha tha,

00:43:28toh main shanze, yeh kyu itna gussa kar di liye?

00:43:31Matlab, main toh kuch reacting nahi ke liye...

00:43:32Natural hai na, ke haan.

00:43:34Dukh hota hai.

00:43:34Uska hai, uske liye.

00:43:35Bachpan se ek hai relationship,

00:43:37ek family...

00:43:38Toh main jaanti hai na, isliye...

00:43:39Inki amma ne mujhe beti banaya hota hai.

00:43:41Inki amma ne mujhe beti banaya hota hai.

00:43:43Toh woh PTV se hi, toh humare ek bada mohabbat wala rishta hai,

00:43:46woh honour wala rishta nahi hai.

00:43:48Hum nahi bhi milenge, toh...

00:43:49Acha, honestly I don't know mechanism kya hai,

00:43:51but mechanism hai.

00:43:52I agree, ke yeh mechanism hai,

00:43:54yeh coping mechanism hai,

00:43:55ki kis tariqe se...

00:43:56Acha, ab main ek cheez observe ki apne baare mein,

00:43:59ki jitni badi challenge aayega,

00:44:02utna zyada main operative ho jaoongi.

00:44:03Acha.

00:44:04Matlab, like tumhe,

00:44:05woh kaitha hai na,

00:44:06tumhe larne ke liye jitna strong boxer bhejenge,

00:44:09tum uska reaction utna hi doge.

00:44:11Troubleshooter.

00:44:11Aap jitna challenge,

00:44:13jitna bada challenge hoga,

00:44:14aap mujhe utna hi composed paayenge.

00:44:16Tumhari fitrat hai aise,

00:44:17tumhari nature hai.

00:44:18Nature na, maine kaan,

00:44:19nature bohot depend karte hai.

00:44:20Bohot zyada.

00:44:21Matlab, taking control of the situation,

00:44:24agar nahi samjh mein aaya kisi ho kya hai,

00:44:25panic majh gaya,

00:44:26toh taking control,

00:44:27ke theek hai, it's okay,

00:44:29koi baat nahi,

00:44:29ab dekhne karna kya hai.

00:44:30Matlab, main hath badati nahi hu.

00:44:32Hath paun mere nahi phoolte.

00:44:33Nahi phoolte.

00:44:34Chalala, main phoolte.

00:44:35Chalala ka bada aisaan hai.

00:44:36Main ispe koi science nahi kaisakti,

00:44:39ki yeh is wajah se hai,

00:44:40yeh bas uparwala ya karah mein kaisa hai.

00:44:42But haan, iski registration bahut zaroori hai,

00:44:43ke aisa hai.

00:44:44And that is true, ke aisa hai.

00:44:47Maya, aam alfaaz mein baat karo.

00:44:50Kyuki tum debater ho,

00:44:51aur tum phalsa piyana baate kar rahe ho,

00:44:52main tumhe wapas la rahe ho.

00:44:54Kyuki aam aurat dekh rahi hai na,

00:44:55aur aam aurat too strong bana.

00:44:57Kya chahate ho,

00:44:59aam zabaan mein baat karo.

00:45:01Aam zabaan mein bilkul nahi ho.

00:45:02Kisi ko samaja hai.

00:45:04Boss, takleefein ho,

00:45:07dard ho,

00:45:08aansu ho,

00:45:09challenge ho,

00:45:10apno ka jaana ho,

00:45:12kisi ka aana ho,

00:45:14financial crisis ho,

00:45:15yeh sab part of life hai.

00:45:17Yeh zindagi ka hissa hai.

00:45:19Yeh mat samjhega ke nahi aayega.

00:45:21Yeh aaj hai toh kal nahi hoga.

00:45:23Yeh aaj kisi ke paas shorat hai.

00:45:25Kisi ne apne bade ecche se,

00:45:27bahut wahed writer,

00:45:28actor ne likha tha.

00:45:29It takes,

00:45:30aapke na,

00:45:31koi ek hit lagta hai,

00:45:33aapka koi drama ya film hit ho jata hai,

00:45:34aap star kar jaate hain.

00:45:36Aur aapka ek drama ya film flop ho jata hai,

00:45:38aap ne kiya jaate hain.

00:45:39Zindagi bilkul aisi hai.

00:45:41Ke aapka lag gaya,

00:45:42toh lag gaya.

00:45:43Saam siri ka game.

00:45:44Haan?

00:45:44Saam siri ka game hai zindagi.

00:45:47Aisa ho ga,

00:45:48aisa nahi ke main aapse yeh nahi keh rahi,

00:45:50main katahi aapse nahi keh rahi,

00:45:51ke aap is cheez ko apni taraf attract kar rahi,

00:45:55aisa ho ga,

00:45:55nahi, attract mat karein.

00:45:57Lekin agar aisa ho toh yeh bhi na,

00:45:59Allah aisa,

00:46:00kyu ho gaya?

00:46:00Haan.

00:46:01Yeh zindagi,

00:46:01humein kisi ne nahi kaha tha,

00:46:02ke red carpet ho ga,

00:46:03jab hum jayenge yaar,

00:46:04humein Tara gaya tha.

00:46:05Humne toh aisa kabhi socha hi nahi tha.

00:46:06Absolutely.

00:46:07Kyu nahi socha tha,

00:46:08acha hota hai,

00:46:09toh bura bhi hota hai?

00:46:09Dekhi agar,

00:46:11mere abba gaye bachpan me,

00:46:12toh kisi ke toh waldein chale gaye.

00:46:14Theek hai,

00:46:15dono.

00:46:15Theek hai na?

00:46:16Dono nahi rahe.

00:46:18Agar mere,

00:46:19meri amma mujhe bada karne ke baad,

00:46:21hum sab bachon ko paalne ke baad,

00:46:22apne bachon ke bachon ke bache dekh kar gayi,

00:46:25toh unki zindagi celebrate karni chahiye,

00:46:27na ke haath-paath khul jayenge,

00:46:28ya Allah,

00:46:29hay Allah,

00:46:29ab chali gayi.

00:46:30Are kab bhi toh sabne jaana hai.

00:46:31Jaana hai.

00:46:32Theek hai haan,

00:46:33wo mera shaukh hai,

00:46:33wo mera dard hai,

00:46:34wo meri takhleef hai,

00:46:35main usse cope kar rahi hoon.

00:46:36Wo mera mechanism hai.

00:46:38Lekin bikhar jayenge,

00:46:40toh dekhiye,

00:46:40unki saari mehnat zaya ho jayegi.

00:46:43Aap apne upar mehnat nahi karoge,

00:46:44yeh aapki choice hai.

00:46:46Yeh aap choose kar rahi hoon.

00:46:47Yeh main nahi keh rahi hoon.

00:46:48Yeh main khud,

00:46:49main choose karoongi.

00:46:49Yeh main depression mein jaa sakti hoon.

00:46:51Aaj mujhe Khalda ne kaha,

00:46:52aana hai,

00:46:53theek hai,

00:46:53okay fine.

00:46:54Main ne kaha,

00:46:54mera break aaya hai,

00:46:56chalo.

00:46:56Bahut dinon se kahi thi jayne ke liye,

00:46:57chalo.

00:46:58Main choose kar sakti thi,

00:46:59naa,

00:47:00naa chalo.

00:47:00Main mein aaya ke liye,

00:47:01main neen karte hoon na,

00:47:02main nahi jaate hoon.

00:47:03Nahi yaar,

00:47:04Nida se milaqat ho jayegi,

00:47:05aap logon se milaqat ho jayegi,

00:47:06sabse milaqat ho jayegi,

00:47:07ek,

00:47:08zara nikalna pahega.

00:47:09Shaahi,

00:47:09tum public ko,

00:47:09kisi ko,

00:47:10kuch sikha ke chali jao.

00:47:11Main kya sikha sakti hoon?

00:47:12Yaar,

00:47:13dekho,

00:47:13pata hai,

00:47:13kabhi kabar aapko pata nahi chalta,

00:47:15aapki baaton se na,

00:47:16log,

00:47:16apni zindagi ko relate karte,

00:47:18toh kahte hai,

00:47:19yaar,

00:47:19matlab,

00:47:20Yeh tariqa hai.

00:47:20She is right.

00:47:21Baba ek arz karoon,

00:47:22ek arz karoon,

00:47:23aapki jaazat hoon.

00:47:25Sabse pehle toh main apna indar se yeh nikal doon,

00:47:26ke main kisi ho kuch sikha sakti hoon.

00:47:28Main kisi ho kuch nahi sikha sakti hoon.

00:47:29Main share kar sakti hoon.

00:47:31Nahi.

00:47:31Sikhaan nahi kar sakti hoon,

00:47:32tumhari,

00:47:33tumhari,

00:47:33tumhari cheezein,

00:47:34tumhari journey,

00:47:35share kar rahi,

00:47:36journey se koi ko sikhta hai.

00:47:37Abhi hum journey bata rahe hain,

00:47:39main concept yeh nahi na,

00:47:40ke hum jis usse guzra hai,

00:47:43log samajhte hain,

00:47:50main abhi safar ghar rahi thi,

00:47:51Islamabad ja rahi thi,

00:47:52toh mujhe airport pe security wali jo khatun thi,

00:47:55unhone mujhe kaha,

00:47:56ke aap do minute idhar aaye na,

00:47:57unhone mujhe pyaar kiya,

00:47:59unhone mujhe pyaar kiya,

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Good Morning Pakistan | Yeh Waqt Bhi Guzar Jayega Special | 20 August 2024 | ARY Digital

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