Insecurity Issues || Acharya Prashant
Full video: Insecurity issues with near and dear ones || Acharya Prashant, with IIT Bombay (2020)
Transcript
00:00How do I overcome insecurity issues with my dear ones?
00:04You do not need to overcome the insecurity.
00:09You need to overcome that which causes the insecurity.
00:14Insecurity is there only when you want to clutch something, hold it very tightly.
00:19Insecurity is there only when there is desire in relationship.
00:22And desire, as you know, is self-centered.
00:25So are you relating with the other for your own personal pleasure or gain or happiness?
00:31Then does the relationship have much substance at all?
00:35And if it doesn't have much substance, what is it that you are trying to secure?
00:39Bring real value to the relationship.
00:41See whether you can relate to the other, not for personal benefit.
00:46See whether it is possible to relate to the other in a very free, open and healthy way.
00:53The more freedom and health there would be in the relationship, the less would be the insecurity in it.