Stefan Molyneux
Stefan Molyneux
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Sunday Morning Live 28 July 2024

In this episode from July 28, 2024, the host discusses personal projects, monogamy, and the Olympic Games. They share insights on deplatforming, online engagement challenges, and promoting critical thinking. The conversation includes humor, societal norms, and the value of audience interaction. Monogamy's role in family stability and child-rearing is explored, emphasizing commitment and emotional security. The importance of long-term relationship choices and genetic inheritance is highlighted, with audience questions enriching the dialogue on monogamy, parenting, and societal norms.

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Transcript
00:00:00Good morning everybody, it is the 28th of July 2024, we are here for our Sunday morning
00:00:07chitty chatty bing bang and we'll do an hour and then we'll do an hour just for donors
00:00:13where you can ask me all the spicy questions you want and I will do my level best to answer.
00:00:19So hello, thank you and welcome and what do you think your next biggest work or project
00:00:25after peaceful parenting will be?
00:00:28Well, I have switched to doing some of course the private call-ins.
00:00:37Private call-ins, they're very interesting.
00:00:39The private call-ins are absolutely fascinating and if you're interested, it's sort of an
00:00:43introductory rate, I'm going to have to raise prices because demand is a little through
00:00:46the roof, but you can go to freedomain.com slash call, freedomain.com slash call, is
00:00:55that right?
00:00:56Hang on, let me double check, let me double check, yes, freedomain.com slash call and
00:01:08you can request a private call-in, so they're quite interesting.
00:01:11You left a tip, thank you.
00:01:13So of course that's not particularly visible or really visible at all to the general population,
00:01:19but those are quite interesting.
00:01:21It's very cool to have that conversation outside of the public eye and to be, I guess, obviously
00:01:28fairly frank as a whole.
00:01:31All right, you've sent me a tip, says, hey Steph, I'm 26 and finally starting to develop
00:01:39high sexual market value.
00:01:41When you make your best case for monogamy, I have been debating this idea for years,
00:01:45very soon I could have enough value where I don't need monogamy, what do you think?
00:01:50So you sent 10 bucks for me to define your life and the value of pair bonding.
00:01:58One of the things that determines a high value person is generosity in the sense of their
00:02:02own value.
00:02:06So Pauline sends $5, can we talk about the Olympic Games opening, I'd call it blasphemous
00:02:12and titanic.
00:02:13Well, I mean, I'm not sure what the problem is, it's entirely liberating, right?
00:02:18This is the people in charge, this is the people who, like I'm deplatformed and people
00:02:23who do blasphemous reenactments of the Last Supper are not just, it's not just okay to
00:02:28have them around, they're given, you know, multi tens of millions of dollars of budget
00:02:32and broadcast around the world.
00:02:34That's just the reality of the world that we are, right?
00:02:37That's the reality of the world that we live in, you understand, right?
00:02:39I'm deplatformed, they get massive platforms.
00:02:43So it's entirely liberating, isn't it?
00:02:46I mean, maybe I'm missing something, but it seems entirely liberating to me, entirely
00:02:51liberating to me.
00:02:54I mean, they couldn't be more clear, where the world is and where the world is heading
00:02:59couldn't be more clear.
00:03:01So I do think that is, it's very liberating.
00:03:07I mean, I didn't watch any Olympics at all, like the Olympics used to be about countries
00:03:13and it's not that, right?
00:03:15It's not that anymore.
00:03:17It's like the spelling bees are like Indian kids versus Indian kids, the math, mathletes
00:03:24or math olympics is just Asian kids versus Asian kids and right, so it's not, there's
00:03:28no particular team anymore.
00:03:33So yeah, I mean, the Olympics used to be fairly uplifting and it used to be an expression
00:03:40of human beauty, skill and excellence in the physical realm, which has value, which has
00:03:45value and now, I mean, it's just wallowing into the most absurd and nonsense that you
00:03:51can imagine and yeah.
00:03:57So I mean, it's very liberating and honestly, they're trying to help you, they're trying
00:04:02to help you, people are trying to help you.
00:04:07So there's a beautiful thing that the Olympics opening ceremonies will do for you.
00:04:12Would you like to know what that is?
00:04:15Would you like to know just how beautifully liberating the opening ceremony of the Olympics
00:04:22is?
00:04:23To take it, if you want it, it means that everyone who succumbs to corruption has been
00:04:30amply warned, right?
00:04:33The devil cannot take your soul without your consent.
00:04:37The vampire cannot enter your house without being invited in.
00:04:40Evil is a collaboration and an enablement from the supposed victim to the corruptor.
00:04:49So the Olympic ceremony, as is so many other things in this world, the Olympic ceremony
00:04:56is a sorting mechanism, right?
00:04:59Like Gryffindor and Slytherin and whatever the hell else those other hat-based organisms
00:05:03are, it is a sorting mechanism and it's there to help you.
00:05:09If you want it to help you, it is there to help you.
00:05:13So it's there to help you so you can say to people in your life, what did you think
00:05:22of the opening ceremonies to the Olympics?
00:05:24Hey, what did you think?
00:05:27And if they say, I thought it was edgy, cool, and neat, that's your sorting mechanism, right?
00:05:34That's your sorting mechanism.
00:05:36Well, I thought it was somewhat problematic, but I like women in bathing suits, so I watched
00:05:41Anyway, there's your other sorting mechanism.
00:05:44It's a sorting mechanism.
00:05:48It's a sorting mechanism.
00:05:53As adults, how many become corrupt without their consent?
00:05:57Virtually no one.
00:06:02It's a sorting mechanism.
00:06:05It's there to help you.
00:06:07It's there to highlight the corruption of those around you so you can get to safety
00:06:14if that's what you want to do.
00:06:20They're on their knees, one testicle hanging out in front of kids maybe, but they're on
00:06:25their knees begging to help you.
00:06:31We can't make it more clear.
00:06:35How can they make it more clear?
00:06:36They can't make it more clear.
00:06:42So you go to the people in your life and you say, hey, what did you think of these Olympic
00:06:48opening ceremonies?
00:06:51And the people are like, well, it's not my cup of tea, but I thought it was interesting
00:06:55and artistic and edgy and, you know, oh, I thought it was great.
00:06:57I thought it was really cool.
00:06:58I think it's really great that society is opening up to blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:07:01Okay, so we got no problems, right?
00:07:09So with something like this, anybody who's corrupt, who's left in your life, you know
00:07:17they're corrupt and they're there by your choice.
00:07:26So I'm a little confused why everyone's so mad.
00:07:34This is a great sorting mechanism to tell you who shares your values if those are your
00:07:40values and who does not share your values if those are not your values.
00:07:45Isn't that wonderful?
00:07:46Isn't that great?
00:07:47Isn't that great?
00:07:57I don't see how they could possibly be more helpful.
00:07:59All right, enough of that.
00:08:01So hit me with a why if you are in a monogamous relationship.
00:08:07Oh, Lee, Lee says, just listen to your novel, Just Poor, this week.
00:08:13It was brilliant.
00:08:14We'll be sending my feedback to you in more detail.
00:08:16Thank you.
00:08:18I appreciate that.
00:08:24It's a great novel.
00:08:25Justpoornovel.com.
00:08:26Justpoornovel.com.
00:08:27Yeah, I mean, so of course it is the Hunger Games, right?
00:08:37It is the Hunger Games writ large.
00:08:39So everybody has, you know, they're cheering on Katniss, was that her name?
00:08:45Katniss, the fantasy woman who, boy, in a post-apocalypse world, I won't become a sex
00:08:51worker, I'll become an archer.
00:08:53Sure you will.
00:08:54Sure you will.
00:08:55So, oh, also when everyone's starving, I'm going to have a perfect figure.
00:09:00Sure you will.
00:09:01Absolutely.
00:09:02So yeah, the Hunger Games says the bad guys are all dressed weird and look funny and all
00:09:11of that.
00:09:12And that's very clear.
00:09:13And then they're literally showing you, these are the bad guys through Hunger Games, through
00:09:16a whole bunch of other things, right?
00:09:18These are the bad guys.
00:09:20Oh, look, we're just dressed like the bad guys.
00:09:27So, I mean, come on.
00:09:31They could not be more helpful if they were trying.
00:09:38I mean, do you know the number of, and it's not an isolated thing, right?
00:09:41It's not an isolated thing at all.
00:09:43Do you know how many, like, to do something like an Olympic opening is planned for years.
00:09:51It's planned for years.
00:09:53The budget, the approach, and it goes through hundreds of layers, or at least goes through
00:09:58hundreds of people who have to approve it.
00:10:08You know, the media is literally saying, this is what baddies look like.
00:10:14And then they show you the baddies, and you're supposed to feel like a victim.
00:10:18I mean, my God.
00:10:24My God.
00:10:28No, it's there, so if there are corrupt people left in your life, you have no excuse.
00:10:32And it's beautiful.
00:10:33Because it means when bad things happen to bad people, when things have been this obvious,
00:10:38you don't have to feel bad.
00:10:42It's a way of curing you of pathological altruism.
00:10:49Honestly, it's a way of curing you of pathological altruism.
00:10:53So, let's say you've got a friend, and her boyfriend is, like, really pro-whatever corrupt
00:11:16stuff is going on in the world, right?
00:11:18And you say, you know, the fact that he's into this really corrupt stuff, is a bad sign.
00:11:36Like, he's not, they're not kidding.
00:11:38People aren't kidding.
00:11:39It's not like, oh, it's edgy and cool, and theater kids run wild.
00:11:41Like, they're not kidding.
00:11:42They're not kidding.
00:11:43Right?
00:11:44They believe in God, they believe in the devil, and they're very open about it.
00:11:49Very open about it.
00:11:50I mean, Marie, I go into this in more detail in my 11-hour series on desensitizing us from
00:12:00virtue.
00:12:01No, John, they're not desensitizing you from virtue.
00:12:05They're not.
00:12:07They're helping you by pointing out the corrupt people in your life.
00:12:12They're turning you towards virtue.
00:12:17I'm not saying that's their conscious intention, but that's what you can get if you want.
00:12:20If you want.
00:12:21I'm not desensitizing you from virtue.
00:12:33So you have a friend, her boyfriend's into all kinds of creepy stuff.
00:12:37You know, he's into horror movies and, like, whatever creepy weird stuff is going on in
00:12:41the culture.
00:12:42And you say, you know, this is kind of serious.
00:12:44This is a big deal, right?
00:12:46And she doesn't listen.
00:12:47No, he's just into edgy stuff.
00:12:48He's just got a bit of a rebel streak, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:12:50He's a great guy.
00:12:51He's just, you know, he's got these quirks and blah, blah, blah, right?
00:13:03So then, if she ends up getting mistreated by this guy, I mean, you know, let's say he's
00:13:09violent towards her, you can say, well, you should go to the police and you should charge
00:13:13him, but I'm not providing you any sympathy or resources.
00:13:24What's their goal?
00:13:27I mean, the goal of corrupt people is for evil to triumph, right?
00:13:40So when people ignore the obvious signs of corruption in their environment, you get to
00:13:45detach from them, if you want, and feel no guilt.
00:13:49Look, we've all known, maybe we've been that guy, we've all known that guy or that girl
00:13:56who gets involved with someone for the wrong reasons, right?
00:13:59They're pretty, they're handsome, they're rich, they're wealthy, they're sexy, they're
00:14:02whatever, right?
00:14:03They get involved with the wrong reason and you're like, bro, this is so corrupt, it's
00:14:06not going to end well, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:14:08And then what?
00:14:09Well, bad things happen.
00:14:13So the reason you give people good advice is so you don't have to feel bad if they don't
00:14:19take it, right?
00:14:20You've got to follow the dictates of your conscience, always follow the dictates of
00:14:25your conscience.
00:14:27So I give people, I don't have anybody corrupt in my life anymore, but I give people good
00:14:31advice so that when things, if they don't listen and things go badly, I'm liberated,
00:14:39I'm free, I don't have to circle back, I don't know, I gave you my good advice, I gave you
00:14:44my good advice and I gave you the reasons why.
00:14:46It wasn't just a feeling, it wasn't just a thought, here's all of the details, here's
00:14:50why it's going to go bad, here's everything that I see, here's all the facts behind it,
00:14:54this is, it's going to go bad, it's going to go bad.
00:14:59That way, if they don't listen, done and done, then you don't have to feel bad, you
00:15:09know, like you say to your friend, man, you smoked like a chimney, you got to stop smoking
00:15:13and he's like, no man, it's cool, I'm fine, that's just a conspiracy theory and then if
00:15:17he gets sick from smoking, you can move on with your life.
00:15:21Your conscience has to be clear and that means you give, and this is my case with the whole
00:15:25world, right?
00:15:26I'm on a corrupted platform, big whoop, right?
00:15:28So I lost like, I don't know, over 80% of my income and 90% of my listenership, okay,
00:15:34whatever, right?
00:15:35But I'd rather have a good conscience than good money, I'd rather have a clean conscience
00:15:42than dirty money.
00:15:48So whatever happens in the world now, I gave it my all in giving good advice to the world,
00:15:53facts, reason, evidence, interviews, scientists, charts, data, PowerPoints, sources, the whole
00:15:59thing.
00:16:00I gave my very best arguments to the world as a whole, which means that whatever happens
00:16:04from here on into the world, I don't have to be concerned with.
00:16:08I mean, obviously, I have to sort of keep my alertness and all of that, right?
00:16:15But I did my best for 40 years, people are like, man, you should get into politics, like
00:16:22I did 40 years in politics, you know, 15 years or 14 years taking every bullet known
00:16:32to man, God and devil.
00:16:34And I, you know, I did my time, I did 40 years, and there are other people who can move in
00:16:42if they want to that space, but I gave the world the absolute best advice that I could
00:16:47possibly give.
00:16:52And people found it interesting, engaging, and entertaining, and I'm sure I changed some
00:16:55minds about a few things.
00:16:57But then when I was deplatformed, you know, just out of curiosity, I ran a search for
00:17:03myself yesterday on Twitter, and I just sorted by most recent.
00:17:10It was very interesting.
00:17:13So it was all the same, it was all the same.
00:17:21What were people saying about me on Twitter?
00:17:25And I was still talked about quite a bit, right?
00:17:27What were people saying about me on Twitter?
00:17:30Because I was curious.
00:17:32I haven't done this in years and years, but what were people saying about me on Twitter?
00:17:42Page after page.
00:17:43I did like, I don't know, went back a couple of days.
00:17:45Page after page of the same comment.
00:17:49Hey man, that guy just vanished, whatever happened to that guy?
00:18:01I miss that guy, whatever happened to him?
00:18:03Man, sometimes deplatforming really works.
00:18:05That guy totally vanished, he's just disappeared, he's gone.
00:18:11We need him.
00:18:14We need him in the fight.
00:18:17Love it.
00:18:18Oh God, we need Steph back in this political fight.
00:18:26I miss that guy so much.
00:18:30He's vanished, he's gone.
00:18:42I miss that guy, whatever happened to him?
00:18:44He's just gone, he went to the backrooms, man, he glitched out.
00:18:49Yeah, okay.
00:18:52Man, that guy, we really need him, I miss him so much.
00:18:57If only there was some way to find him.
00:19:02If only there was some way.
00:19:05You must pass the test of the flying headless scimitar-wielding rapey monkeys in order to
00:19:12find the treasured bald speckled head of the big chatty forehead is deep in the dungeon
00:19:17past whirling blades and fire jets and dragons or, or, or, or you can just go one website
00:19:25over.
00:19:31Whatever happened to that guy?
00:19:33He just vanished.
00:19:34Spoiler, he didn't vanish, he was one website over.
00:19:38But apparently, I should put my neck out for politics, but people won't type in one
00:19:43website over.
00:19:47Delightful.
00:19:51Delightful.
00:19:56No, it's great, because I, you know, whatever happens, if following me is too much, right?
00:20:13If like, we desperately need staff in this fight, oh, would I have to create another
00:20:17account on a website in order to be notified of his videos?
00:20:22Oh, man.
00:20:24I mean, a human being can only do so much.
00:20:28I'm tired, boss.
00:20:30A human being can only do so much.
00:20:35He got chased around, hunted through the streets by leftists, got bomb threats, death threats,
00:20:40continued to speak and talk.
00:20:47But he should keep going.
00:20:50And although he took all of these bullets, and took all of these threats, and all of
00:20:53this violence, and kept going, if he expects me to go one website over, well, I mean, let's
00:21:07be reasonable here.
00:21:09I'm only a man.
00:21:10I can only do so much.
00:21:12It's not possible for me to type in another website and survive.
00:21:18He should stand tall in the face of bomb threats and death threats.
00:21:22But I cannot create another account.
00:21:25Because one more tab is a bridge too far.
00:21:29It can't happen.
00:21:31It's not possible.
00:21:34Yeah, you don't even need an account to use the Freedomain website.
00:21:36Yeah, that's right.
00:21:37That's right.
00:21:38Of course, I'm just, you know, I'm just saying.
00:21:41Where could that guy have gone?
00:21:44His show called Freedomain is cleverly coded on the web as Freedomain.com, which he paid
00:21:51a lot of money to get the website.
00:21:54So, Stefan Molyneux, who runs a show called Freedomain, well, how could I possibly find
00:22:08the Aramaic-coded website called Freedomain.com?
00:22:15Or the guy named Stefan Molyneux?
00:22:22If I go to StefanMolyneux.com, it redirects to Freedomain.com.
00:22:26There's just no way to find him.
00:22:30I mean, it's like trying to transcribe ancient Egyptian hieroglyphics without the decoding
00:22:37magic of the Rosetta Stone.
00:22:39It's not possible.
00:22:41He has been burned down like the Library of Alexandria.
00:22:44He has been erased.
00:22:46Like everything good in history, he's gone.
00:22:53I can't learn ancient Aramaic to decode these cryptic texts spoken in plain English and
00:23:00available for free.
00:23:02Did any of the OG influencers stick around to stay in contact with you now?
00:23:16No.
00:23:17No, they've got their own careers.
00:23:19Yeah.
00:23:20Like tears in the rain.
00:23:22I've seen sea beams glittering at the Tenhouser Gate.
00:23:27I've seen attack ships on fire on the shoulder of Orion.
00:23:31All of these memories will be gone like tears in rain.
00:23:34Time to die.
00:23:36Ah, Rutger Hauer.
00:23:39I even liked him in Ladyhawk, where Alan Parsons created a pretty terrible soundtrack.
00:23:45But nonetheless.
00:23:46Yeah, it's laughing when thinking about something frustrating.
00:23:49Is it a healthy habit?
00:23:51No, it's genuinely liberating.
00:23:53I won't say I haven't gone through moments of frustration.
00:23:56I get all of that.
00:23:57But the only time I...
00:24:00If you just look at the downsides of stuff...
00:24:09If you only look at the downsides of stuff, you'll just have a miserable life.
00:24:12But almost every downside has an upside.
00:24:16Almost every down...
00:24:17And the way that you balance things in life is...
00:24:20Yeah, Peter Schiff did defend Steph.
00:24:22Yeah, he did defend me.
00:24:23I mean, you can still get banned for defending him.
00:24:24That's right.
00:24:26So...
00:24:27And look what happened with Peter Schiff and his bank.
00:24:29I mean, it's wild.
00:24:34So it's important in life to say, OK, what are the upsides?
00:24:40What are the upsides?
00:24:45What are the upsides?
00:24:47So what are the upsides to deplatforming?
00:24:49Say, oh no, most of my income is gone.
00:24:51Most of my listeners are gone.
00:24:52Blah, blah, blah.
00:24:53What are the...
00:24:54Oh, it's...
00:24:55And yeah, of course there are negatives.
00:24:56Absolutely there are negatives, for sure.
00:24:59For sure.
00:25:01But there are positives.
00:25:03And the positives have, for me, vastly outweighed the negatives.
00:25:10The positives have vastly outweighed the negatives.
00:25:14I never loved doing politics.
00:25:16I enjoy most the call-and-shows and core philosophy.
00:25:21That's what I like the most.
00:25:22And I think, honestly, I think that's my strength.
00:25:24There's lots of people who can do politics.
00:25:25Not specifically from a philosophical angle, but there's lots of people who can do politics
00:25:30and do politics and do a good job of politics and so on, right?
00:25:33But for me, it was never my favorite thing to do.
00:25:39I thought it was important, and I thought there were interesting things,
00:25:41and Trump made it interesting because we finally got somebody
00:25:46who represented the will of a lot of people, right?
00:25:50And it was interesting to see what happened to society
00:25:53when democracy was actually enacted to some degree, right?
00:25:56When somebody who wasn't picked and chosen and groomed
00:25:58actually got into the highest office in America,
00:26:01it was interesting to see what happened, right?
00:26:05So...
00:26:08No, it's...
00:26:09I'm happier.
00:26:12Peaceful parenting wouldn't be done without it.
00:26:19And that's important.
00:26:21And that's going pretty well.
00:26:23Peacefulparenting.com, I hope you'll share it.
00:26:25And the other thing, too, is that...
00:26:28Oh, yeah, the live call-in was great.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:32The live call-in was great on Friday.
00:26:35We'll do more of those.
00:26:39The live call-in from Friday is out for donors.
00:26:41Yeah, it was fiery, man.
00:26:42It was fiery.
00:26:49So, peaceful parenting as well, you know, I've made...
00:27:00It's called peacefulparenting.com,
00:27:02which I paid for that website, too.
00:27:03So, peacefulparenting.com.
00:27:06It's as engagingly and entertainingly
00:27:09and captivatingly written as possible.
00:27:11I narrate it as well as I can,
00:27:13with passion in my not unpleasant voice
00:27:15with the vague Britishisms.
00:27:17And I spent months working on a shortened version
00:27:20so that people can get through it in a couple of hours.
00:27:22I've made it for free.
00:27:24I've made it available for free.
00:27:25The audio book is free, which took forever to record.
00:27:28And so, a year of my life was poured into that book.
00:27:31More than a year, in fact.
00:27:32A year of my life was poured into that book.
00:27:34And it's out there in the world.
00:27:36I've made it free.
00:27:37And that's the best I can do.
00:27:43That's the best I can do.
00:27:47So, if people share it, great.
00:27:48If they don't share it, then that's on them.
00:27:51It's no longer on me,
00:27:52because I've made as good a case as I can.
00:27:55So, I hope you'll share the book.
00:27:57If you don't share the book,
00:27:58then you have to watch out for your own conscience, right?
00:28:03Steph, did you ever get to part two
00:28:04with that Latin woman from last week?
00:28:06Part one was wild.
00:28:07She's taking a pause on that,
00:28:09so I'm sure she'll be back.
00:28:10But at the moment, she's taking a pause,
00:28:12which is totally fine, of course.
00:28:17All right.
00:28:23Would you use Truth Social, do you?
00:28:25I think I have an account there,
00:28:26but I've got very little engagement,
00:28:28so I don't really follow it too much.
00:28:34Why do you think they couldn't go one website over?
00:28:37I don't know.
00:28:39I don't know.
00:28:41It is interesting how...
00:28:43I mean, I'm sure you have this.
00:28:44There are people who influence you,
00:28:45and then, for whatever reason,
00:28:46you just kind of forget about them,
00:28:47and then, maybe later, you're like,
00:28:48oh, that's interesting, and so on, right?
00:28:51So, why couldn't they go one website over?
00:28:55Well, I mean,
00:28:56depends on the level of free speech in their country, right?
00:28:59So, maybe people thought they'd be in trouble
00:29:00for following me.
00:29:01I don't know.
00:29:02I don't know.
00:29:04Maybe they just weren't that interested.
00:29:05Maybe for them, philosophy was just entertainment, right?
00:29:10And, of course, you know,
00:29:11this happens sometimes with people who,
00:29:13hey, man, I've been listening to you for ten years,
00:29:15and I've just made every single mistake
00:29:17that you've ever counseled against repeatedly,
00:29:19and it's like sometimes I'm just a...
00:29:24sometimes I'm just a...
00:29:28a piece of entertainment for them,
00:29:30which they don't really...
00:29:31I'm like a diet book that you read,
00:29:32but not a diet that you follow,
00:29:34if that makes sense.
00:29:36What would you say is the value of peaceful parenting
00:29:38to all the non-parents out there,
00:29:40including those who never will?
00:29:46What is the value of peaceful parenting
00:29:48to all the non-parents out there?
00:29:52I don't understand that.
00:30:00I don't understand that.
00:30:03So, let's say that you don't have kids,
00:30:07or have kids, maybe for some reason.
00:30:10You can't have kids or you're too old or whatever.
00:30:13What is the value of peaceful parenting?
00:30:17It's to evaluate your own parents.
00:30:20I'm sorry, maybe I'm missing something
00:30:21completely obvious here,
00:30:22but the value of peaceful parenting
00:30:24is great if you have kids,
00:30:25or are going to have kids.
00:30:27If you don't have kids or can't have kids,
00:30:29the value is to give you moral clarity
00:30:31about how you were parented.
00:30:33Am I missing something?
00:30:39I don't, yeah, I mean,
00:30:41because it is about,
00:30:44it is about your own parents.
00:30:49What is the elevated pitch to read it?
00:30:57What is the elevated pitch to read it?
00:31:03If you think that peaceful parenting...
00:31:09Okay, you know what, you know,
00:31:10I find the question annoying and offensive,
00:31:12but that could just be immaturity on my part,
00:31:14so let me cast that aside.
00:31:19To me, part of my brain was like,
00:31:21no, I'm not going to dance like a little monkey
00:31:23to get you to read a book
00:31:24on how to be a good human being.
00:31:27I'm not trying to sell you a fucking pen here.
00:31:33Or, if you're the kind of person
00:31:35who needs an elevated pitch
00:31:36to read a book called Peaceful Parenting,
00:31:38you're probably not going to get anything
00:31:40out of the book,
00:31:42other than a bad conscience.
00:31:44But I would say, right,
00:31:46but you know, maybe that's petty on my part.
00:31:48I, you know, I'm not a big fan of,
00:31:52you know, serve me, work for me, serve me.
00:31:56Okay, so the elevated pitch to read
00:31:58Peaceful Parenting is that
00:32:00you don't want to be a moral hypocrite,
00:32:02and you want to follow rules
00:32:04in your parenting
00:32:06that you're inflicting on your children, right?
00:32:08You're imposing rules on your children,
00:32:10therefore you have to follow those rules yourself.
00:32:12You want to make sure you're consistent with that.
00:32:14If you have the choice to reason with your children
00:32:16rather than use aggression, violence, threats,
00:32:19or ostracism with your children,
00:32:21that's better.
00:32:22It's better if we can do things
00:32:24peacefully and reasonably
00:32:25rather than violently and aggressively.
00:32:27So that's better as a whole.
00:32:29If you have people who are harmful
00:32:31to your children around,
00:32:32maybe you don't even know about it,
00:32:34maybe some toxic aunt or uncle or grandparents
00:32:36or something like that,
00:32:37then this book will help you identify
00:32:39those toxic people
00:32:41and keep them away from your children,
00:32:42in the same way that
00:32:44things dangerous to your children,
00:32:46like lawn darts or
00:32:48C4 comes with warnings
00:32:50should not be used around children.
00:32:51Don't like these plastic bags.
00:32:53Children can choke.
00:32:54You want those warnings.
00:32:55So what this does,
00:32:57what the Peaceful Parenting book does,
00:32:59is it defines and applies warnings
00:33:01of environmental toxins
00:33:02called destructive personalities
00:33:04that you want to keep from being around your children.
00:33:06So it's a short read,
00:33:08it's an easy read,
00:33:09it's an easy listen.
00:33:10Emotionally it can be challenging,
00:33:12but in terms of comprehension
00:33:14it's easy to follow.
00:33:15Lots of examples,
00:33:16some occasional wit,
00:33:18and lots of reasoning,
00:33:19and scientific data,
00:33:20and all kinds of stuff.
00:33:21It's an absolutely airtight case
00:33:23for Peaceful Parenting.
00:33:24And once you've been exposed to the ideas,
00:33:26your parenting will become a whole lot better.
00:33:28And the other problem, of course,
00:33:30which you don't want to face,
00:33:31is that as Peaceful Parenting
00:33:33becomes more mainstream,
00:33:34you'll be held responsible
00:33:36because the website was out
00:33:37while you were a parent.
00:33:38And you heard about it.
00:33:40Now you've heard about it,
00:33:41you have to explore it.
00:33:42I mean, you have to.
00:33:43Because if Peaceful Parenting
00:33:44turns out to be right,
00:33:46and you don't follow it,
00:33:48you parent aggressively or violently,
00:33:50or abusively,
00:33:52what's going to happen is
00:33:53your kids are going to grow up,
00:33:58and Peaceful Parenting
00:33:59will be much more the norm,
00:34:00and if you parent aggressively
00:34:02and Peaceful Parenting becomes the norm,
00:34:07then they're going to say to you,
00:34:08well, hang on,
00:34:10why didn't you peacefully parent?
00:34:13Now are you going to lie to them
00:34:14and say, I never heard of it?
00:34:16It's like, oh, come on,
00:34:17what do you mean you never heard of it?
00:34:19Right?
00:34:20PeacefulParenting.com.
00:34:22It's not that hard to find, right?
00:34:25And you don't want to lie to them,
00:34:27so you'll have to tell them the truth
00:34:29and say, well, I did hear about it,
00:34:30but, you know,
00:34:32it just, I mean,
00:34:33it was a couple of hours
00:34:34to listen to it,
00:34:35and I had, you know,
00:34:3719 seasons of South Park to get through.
00:34:41So I just, you know,
00:34:43I spent an hour a day
00:34:44scrolling through social media
00:34:46but I just couldn't spend an hour a day
00:34:49for a week or two
00:34:50to read Peaceful Parenting.
00:34:51So, you know,
00:34:53it just wasn't a priority.
00:34:54Raising you peacefully
00:34:55just wasn't a priority.
00:34:56Sorry, I just, you know,
00:34:58wasn't that interesting.
00:34:59I heard about it, you know,
00:35:00I heard the, I mean,
00:35:01obviously you get the idea
00:35:02just from the title,
00:35:03but I just couldn't be bothered.
00:35:04Okay, so how are your kids
00:35:05going to judge you, right?
00:35:06So,
00:35:10that would be my guess.
00:35:14And, of course,
00:35:15there are people who have children
00:35:16in their orbit,
00:35:17as you guys are pointing out as well.
00:35:28Sorry, I'm just wondering
00:35:29what I can say to others
00:35:30about the book.
00:35:31I do want to share
00:35:32and have them read it, I hope.
00:35:33Thank you kindly.
00:35:34Honestly, just say,
00:35:35this is a very interesting
00:35:36to approach to parenting.
00:35:37I think it's going to become
00:35:38mainstream over time
00:35:39and get in at the ground floor.
00:35:46Hello, hello, everybody.
00:35:49Now, don't forget,
00:35:50we are going to go
00:35:51donor-only shortly,
00:35:54shortly,
00:35:55and if you want to help
00:35:56support the show,
00:35:57freedomain.com slash donate,
00:35:58I would really, really appreciate it.
00:36:00freedomain.com slash donate.
00:36:05I couldn't get to
00:36:06the Peaceful Parenting book
00:36:07because I didn't want to miss
00:36:08the Destiny and John Oliver podcast.
00:36:10That's right.
00:36:11That's right.
00:36:13I wanted to watch more
00:36:14Joe Rogan,
00:36:16so I didn't get around
00:36:17to the Peaceful Parenting stuff, right?
00:36:23It's kind of funny.
00:36:24Also, don't forget
00:36:25tiktok.com forward slash
00:36:26at freedomain.com
00:36:27tiktok.com forward slash
00:36:29at freedomain.com
00:36:30or fdrurl.com forward slash tiktok.
00:36:33I hope you would check those out.
00:36:34Those are some very cool shorts,
00:36:35also suitable and helpful
00:36:37for sharing.
00:36:39I know this is another
00:36:40annoying question that you get,
00:36:41but just wondering generally
00:36:42if you were planning on doing
00:36:43a hard print run on
00:36:44Peaceful Parenting.
00:36:45Yeah, maybe.
00:36:46Maybe.
00:36:47Maybe.
00:36:49It's boring, complicated,
00:36:51and time-consuming,
00:36:52so we'll see.
00:36:54Lots of families in my church.
00:36:56I would love to share with them.
00:36:57We are very family-focused.
00:36:59Right.
00:37:01Right.
00:37:03And the book is biblical, right?
00:37:06Jesus says to protect the children.
00:37:09Whatever you do to the least among you,
00:37:11so do you also do to me.
00:37:12Anyone who would harm
00:37:14the least among you,
00:37:15the children,
00:37:16it is better that a millstone
00:37:17be put around his neck
00:37:18and it be cast into the ocean.
00:37:21I've been sharing Peaceful Parenting
00:37:22to my best friend,
00:37:23and we've been having conversations
00:37:24about parenting frequently.
00:37:25Good to know.
00:37:27You can also record a question
00:37:29for live streams here.
00:37:30Yes, you can record a question
00:37:31at fdrurl.com forward slash AMA.
00:37:34fdrurl.com forward slash AMA.
00:37:38And that would be cool.
00:37:43Despite being closed off to you,
00:37:45she did research and realized
00:37:46the media took a lot out of context.
00:37:48Really? You think so?
00:37:49They might have taken a little bit
00:37:51of what I said out of context.
00:37:53Well, you know.
00:37:54Whoops.
00:37:55Slipped on a dick, got pregnant.
00:37:56What can I tell you?
00:37:57Accidents happen.
00:38:02But it means that people
00:38:04who live for lies
00:38:06don't get to listen to me.
00:38:08So people who accept
00:38:09what liars say
00:38:10don't get to listen to me.
00:38:12I'm not sure that's a bad thing at all.
00:38:15I'm not sure that's a bad thing at all.
00:38:20Just started Peaceful Parenting
00:38:21with my wife.
00:38:22No kids yet.
00:38:23Very enlightening.
00:38:24Difficult to read sometimes.
00:38:25Emotionally, yes, for sure.
00:38:27Steph, you're right about sharing
00:38:28the Peaceful Parenting book
00:38:29with regards to our conscience.
00:38:30I just shared it
00:38:31with three people in my life.
00:38:32It will be telling if they read it
00:38:33or engage with the AI or not.
00:38:36Right.
00:38:37I would love to gift a physical book
00:38:38to my newly parented friends.
00:38:41Yeah.
00:38:42Yeah.
00:38:43Yeah.
00:38:44Well,
00:38:46you know,
00:38:47you can just print it out, right?
00:38:49It's available in PDF.
00:38:51You can just print it out,
00:38:52put it in a binder,
00:38:53and there's the book.
00:38:54You say,
00:38:55oh, well, that won't have
00:38:56as much credibility, blah, blah, blah.
00:38:57It's like, well,
00:38:58but it should have credibility
00:39:00because you're their friend
00:39:01and you're giving it to them, right?
00:39:03So it should have credibility
00:39:04because of that.
00:39:09There's a reason
00:39:10I make it available in PDF.
00:39:11You can then print it out
00:39:12and you can even just take it
00:39:13to a local place,
00:39:14maybe a bookstore or whatever,
00:39:15and there's lots of places
00:39:16that will give you binding
00:39:17and bind it up nicely for you
00:39:18and all of that,
00:39:19but I might get around to it.
00:39:20I might get around to it,
00:39:21but generally,
00:39:23the vocal demand
00:39:26vastly outstrips the actual demand, right?
00:39:29So it's not anybody here's fault,
00:39:31but many, many, many times
00:39:32I have been led down the road
00:39:34of near infinite labor
00:39:36by the free domainers
00:39:38who say,
00:39:39I really, really want this.
00:39:40Just give me this.
00:39:41I'll be so happy if I can get this.
00:39:43I work hard to provide this,
00:39:44and almost nobody takes it up.
00:39:46So it's not your fault,
00:39:48and everybody here
00:39:49could be perfectly legit,
00:39:50but that has been my experience
00:39:54over the years.
00:39:55All right.
00:39:56Let's get to the question of monogamy,
00:39:58and again,
00:39:59if you would like to join,
00:40:01if you would like to join
00:40:03for the private donor session,
00:40:05which is happening
00:40:06in about 15 minutes,
00:40:08I would appreciate that,
00:40:09and of course,
00:40:10I think it would be great for you.
00:40:14Let me just give you the link here.
00:40:18freedomain.locals.com
00:40:19You can sign up.
00:40:26Politics, but J.D. Vance
00:40:28being slandered as anti-woman
00:40:29for calling out
00:40:30the childless liberal cat ladies
00:40:31in the other party
00:40:32who are virulently
00:40:33anti-family, anti-child.
00:40:35I don't think he called them
00:40:36anti-family and anti-child.
00:40:38He's just pointing out
00:40:39that single women vote for the left,
00:40:42like it's one of
00:40:43the biggest demographics, right?
00:40:45One of the biggest demographics, right?
00:40:48I mean, obviously not as big
00:40:49as what was it,
00:40:5097% of blacks voted for Obama,
00:40:52but yeah,
00:40:53he's just pointing it out,
00:40:55and it's a little hard
00:41:01to argue with the math,
00:41:05but whatever, right?
00:41:08All right.
00:41:10I gifted the Art of the Argument
00:41:12to some of my friends,
00:41:13and they said,
00:41:14the cover was so badass.
00:41:15Yeah, that is great.
00:41:16Do I have,
00:41:17I have a copy here.
00:41:18Yeah, Art of the Argument,
00:41:19it's a great book of mine.
00:41:20Art of the Argument,
00:41:21that is a badass cover.
00:41:22Oh, can it focus?
00:41:23Somewhat.
00:41:25Yeah, Western Civilization's
00:41:26last stand.
00:41:28Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:41:30Got some really nice
00:41:33endorsements on the back there.
00:41:35Art of the Argument,
00:41:36artoftheargument.com,
00:41:37you should get that book,
00:41:38it's great.
00:41:43Cash up front for the paper version.
00:41:45Yeah.
00:41:50Indeed, you survey initial interest,
00:41:51it's high,
00:41:52but when it comes to
00:41:53committee resources or time,
00:41:54follow-through drops off pretty hard.
00:41:55Yeah.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:42:01Can we kickstart campaigning
00:42:02a printed version then?
00:42:03I think that's a great idea, yeah.
00:42:04That's a great idea,
00:42:05let's look into that.
00:42:08Yeah, okay, thank you for that note.
00:42:11James, if you mention that,
00:42:12maybe we can get a kickstarter going
00:42:14for the printed version,
00:42:15both the long and the short version, right?
00:42:18I think that's a good idea, thank you.
00:42:20All right, question.
00:42:23All right, what do we got here?
00:42:25No, that's the J.D. Vance one,
00:42:26what else do we have?
00:42:27That's not the one,
00:42:28that's not the one,
00:42:31that's not the one.
00:42:32Oh my gosh,
00:42:34I thought I had copied and pasted it.
00:42:37Now there are tabs in Notepad on Windows,
00:42:41so that's challenging.
00:42:43Oh, I know where it was,
00:42:44my apologies.
00:42:46You can now put notes in your donations,
00:42:49so that's a great way
00:42:50to get a question through to me,
00:42:51with the vividness of some cashiola.
00:42:54All right.
00:42:55Hi Steph, I'm 26 and finally starting
00:42:56to develop high sexual market value.
00:42:58Can you make your best case for a monogamy?
00:43:00I've been debating this idea for years.
00:43:02Very soon I could have enough value
00:43:03where I don't need monogamy.
00:43:05What do you think?
00:43:08That is a great question.
00:43:10That is a great question,
00:43:11and I appreciate that.
00:43:15I appreciate that.
00:43:21Okay, so, monogamy.
00:43:24Why are we sexually dimorphic?
00:43:27Why are there men and women?
00:43:28Why do we have penises and vaginas
00:43:30and orgasms and all that kind of
00:43:31fun, funky stuff?
00:43:32Why, oh why, oh why,
00:43:37do we have a sexual marketplace at all?
00:43:41Why?
00:43:44Why?
00:43:45I must know.
00:43:48I must know.
00:43:54For kids, that's right.
00:43:55We have monogamy for children.
00:43:59So, it's a fundamental attitude of gratitude.
00:44:03So, why do we have these big, giant brains?
00:44:09Why do we have these big, giant brains?
00:44:11Because of monogamy.
00:44:14That's the only reason.
00:44:16The more monogamy, the bigger the brain.
00:44:19That's just the way things work.
00:44:21Because if you want a big brain,
00:44:24you have to accept being helpless
00:44:26for more than a decade.
00:44:30You have to be born helpless.
00:44:33You have to stay helpless.
00:44:34You can't even walk for the first year.
00:44:37You are born, as a human being,
00:44:40the most retarded of any species on the planet.
00:44:43Because that which ends up more complex
00:44:46takes the longest to develop.
00:44:50Rabbits are less complex than wolves.
00:44:53Rabbits grow up a lot faster than wolves.
00:44:56So, that which is more complex
00:45:00takes longer to develop.
00:45:03So, how do you solve that problem?
00:45:06Well, monogamy solves that problem.
00:45:08In other words, the biochemical pair bonding,
00:45:11sexual, romantic, intellectual, hopefully moral,
00:45:14the biochemical pair bonding of man and woman,
00:45:18is required for our brains to reach
00:45:21the size, strength, power, intelligence,
00:45:23and maturity that we have.
00:45:26So, you only can ask questions about monogamy
00:45:30because your ancestors were monogamous.
00:45:34That's the only way that we can stay this helpless
00:45:37for this long.
00:45:39It's because of the amount of parental investment
00:45:41that is required has to be enormously high
00:45:44to make up for our helplessness and dependence.
00:45:47You grok, you follow? This makes sense, right?
00:45:49I don't need to relaborate with such a smart audience.
00:45:53So, you have a giant brain to question
00:45:56the value of monogamy only because of
00:45:59the monogamy of your ancestors.
00:46:01Because if they had not been monogamous,
00:46:03we would have had to develop much faster,
00:46:06and we'd still be monkeys.
00:46:08Or apes.
00:46:11Because we would have had to grow up so fast,
00:46:14because we weren't protected by a monogamous
00:46:16pair-bonded relationship that lasts a lifetime,
00:46:18we would have had to grow up so fast
00:46:20that we would have had to sacrifice about 50 IQ points
00:46:24to have our brains develop that fast.
00:46:27So, that's just a basic fact.
00:46:38It doesn't mean you have to be monogamous.
00:46:42I'm just saying that you are who you are
00:46:44because of your ancestors' monogamy.
00:46:46Now, our ancestors didn't have cell phones.
00:46:51Does that mean we can't use cell phones?
00:46:53I get all of that.
00:46:54I'm not saying we have to do it because our ancestors did it.
00:46:58I'm not a conservative that way.
00:47:02But what I am saying, what I am saying,
00:47:06is that have some gratitude for the monogamy
00:47:09of your ancestors, which has provided you the brain
00:47:12to question whether there's value in monogamy.
00:47:15That's number one.
00:47:16Number two, the quality of your life is two things.
00:47:25The quality of your life is two things.
00:47:30The quality of your relationship with your conscience
00:47:34and the quality of your relationship with others.
00:47:37That's it.
00:47:40A clean conscience and good companions.
00:47:43A clean conscience and a moral spouse.
00:47:49A good, virtuous, kind, generous, thoughtful, courageous spouse.
00:47:56That's it.
00:47:58Everything else is negotiable.
00:48:01Those two are absolutely not.
00:48:07Good morals, moral companions.
00:48:10That's it with regards to the controllable aspects
00:48:13of the quality of your life.
00:48:15And if you have to sacrifice a zillion dollars,
00:48:18burn every bridge to corrupt people in order to maintain
00:48:20a good relationship with your conscience
00:48:22and have quality moral people in your life, do it.
00:48:27Do it now.
00:48:30If you are not monogamous, you're a young man.
00:48:41If you're not monogamous, if you don't want to have kids,
00:48:44I mean, it doesn't really matter to me what you do hugely.
00:48:47Well, no, a little bit.
00:48:49But this is mostly focused on people who want to have kids.
00:48:52So if you want to have kids, the quality of your life
00:48:55is determined by the quality of your parenting.
00:48:58And the quality of your parenting is based upon your choices
00:49:01and the choice of who you choose to become the mother of your children.
00:49:06Now, I'm talking to you as a man, obviously reverse for women.
00:49:11Now, if you're not monogamous, can you get a quality partner?
00:49:22You cannot.
00:49:24Because a quality partner will be focused on that
00:49:27which is best for her heart, her marriage, her security,
00:49:32her protection, and that which is best for her children.
00:49:36Is monogamy best for children?
00:49:39Yes, it is. Absolutely.
00:49:41Monogamy is essential for your children just as sexual loyalty
00:49:44is essential for your children, right?
00:49:46It's mama's baby, it's daddy's maybe.
00:49:48Without monogamy and fidelity, men don't have the same emotional urge
00:49:52to put as many resources into their children
00:49:54because they're not sure that they're theirs,
00:49:56where you had things like chastity belts in the past.
00:49:58When men went away for the Crusades, they'd lock up their wife's genitals
00:50:02to make sure that they didn't have any children out of wedlock
00:50:04passed off as their own.
00:50:06Or bastards that would be handed out to wet nurses
00:50:08that would then later come back like Edmund and King Lear
00:50:11and demand they're just you, with no proof.
00:50:17So what's best for a woman is the man's pair bonding
00:50:22and loyalty and work investment into the family.
00:50:26And how does she get that?
00:50:28She gets that through monogamy and fidelity.
00:50:31I'm going to say monogamy is not just the pair bonding
00:50:33and the lifelong commitment, it's also not having sex
00:50:38outside the relationship, that's right.
00:50:40Not just the marriage, but the fidelity.
00:50:43So what is best for the children?
00:50:45It is best for the children if the father is certain
00:50:47that the children are his and has the most incentive
00:50:50to massively invest in the family because he's going to take
00:50:5290% of his paycheck or his hunt and hand it over to his wife
00:50:58and his children.
00:51:00So a woman wants what's best for the children,
00:51:02which means pair bonded, positive, significant, moral,
00:51:06fatherly investment, which you can only get through monogamy.
00:51:12A woman wants to fall in love and stay in love her whole life
00:51:15because that's what's best for her and her children.
00:51:17That's how we're designed.
00:51:19Men, we are a little bit less Velcro
00:51:22and a little bit more sticky tape.
00:51:24So men can be more promiscuous because that's how we're designed.
00:51:28Because a lot of times, because of war,
00:51:32because of other acts of violence, coercion, or problems,
00:51:37then you would end up with a lot more women than men
00:51:40and therefore men would have to impregnate more than
00:51:44just a pair bonded wife in order for the tribe to recover its numbers.
00:51:48So men can be used for repopulating a tribe, women can't be,
00:51:51and men were exposed to much more danger.
00:51:54I mean, you go out, you have a hunting accident,
00:51:57you get shot with a bow, you get nicked, you get bitten by a boar
00:52:00and the bacteria infects you, like you're dying a lot.
00:52:03And women die in childbirth sometimes as well.
00:52:05But men lived less long and died sooner, often,
00:52:10and particularly in a time of war, and therefore men have to have
00:52:13more of an ability to sleep around than women do
00:52:16because if men don't have any ability to sleep around,
00:52:19then you can't repopulate the tribe, right?
00:52:22You can't repopulate the tribe after men are being decimated.
00:52:31So a woman wants to be loved for her whole life
00:52:34and a woman doesn't want to be dumped when she's past childbearing age.
00:52:39So she needs a man who pair bonds with her not based on sexuality,
00:52:44not based on lust, not based on youthful looks,
00:52:47because the man has the advantage later on in life.
00:52:50First half of life, adult life, women have the advantage.
00:52:53Second half, men have the advantage, right?
00:52:55Women have more youthful beauty and men have higher sex drives
00:52:58and testosterone and tend to pursue the women more.
00:53:00But later on, the man has the option to start a second family.
00:53:04So the woman needs a quality man who's going to stay with her
00:53:07because if she accepts a polygamous relationship,
00:53:10she's going to be replaced when she gets past fertility age
00:53:13and she gets old and stretchy and wrinkly and gray-haired
00:53:15and she's going to get dumped for a younger model.
00:53:19So she doesn't want that.
00:53:20She wants that fidelity and that commitment.
00:53:27We all understand that, right?
00:53:29So a woman with self-respect and self-esteem is going to want a man
00:53:32who pair bonds with her and only her
00:53:35so that she can securely pair bond with him, have the children,
00:53:39and they can then both invest in the grandchildren and so on.
00:53:42When my daughter gets older, if she gets married, has kids,
00:53:46I'm looking forward to being a grandfather
00:53:48and my wife is looking forward to being a grandmother.
00:53:51I'm still, I guess, at the age where I could technically dump my whole family
00:53:56and go and start another family, but I have no interest in doing that
00:54:00because I love my wife and she loves me
00:54:02and we want to grow old together and we want to have grandkids
00:54:05and all of that kind of lovely stuff, right?
00:54:09So you can't get a moral quality woman with self-respect
00:54:16who's going to commit to you if you're not monogamous.
00:54:19If you don't have a commitment to monogamy, no quality woman will be with you.
00:54:22And what that means is that you will then be surrounded
00:54:25by the ash-and-lace trash heap of really broken women
00:54:29who'll be willing to put up with polygamy
00:54:31because they want to offer sex only and not require commitment
00:54:38so that they can get a man of higher quality than they could otherwise get.
00:54:42Right, so let's say, I mean, you see these polyamorous trios or quads
00:54:46or whatever there was, like fat, gross, disgusting,
00:54:49physically ugly and probably spiritually quite ugly people.
00:54:53And so why are they doing that?
00:54:55Well, a woman who wants a higher quality man
00:54:59doesn't let herself get overweight, right?
00:55:01This is the old Kevin Samuels height, weight, dress size,
00:55:05how much did you weigh last time you weighed yourself, right?
00:55:10So a woman who wants a high quality man doesn't get fat,
00:55:14exercises, stays fit, stays healthy, and all of that.
00:55:19So a woman who's overweight or who is, you know, whatever,
00:55:24is low sexual market value for whatever reason,
00:55:26she's just going to offer sex instead of,
00:55:28and so that's going to be the sort of trashy physical slamming together,
00:55:32making the beast a very rounded beast with two backs, right?
00:55:35So if you want a quality woman, you have to offer her monogamy
00:55:38because any woman with any self-respect will settle for nothing less.
00:55:42So monogamy is better for your children.
00:55:44It gives you more security as a mate.
00:55:46You don't end up with STDs.
00:55:47You don't end up falling in love with someone,
00:55:49then they fall in love with someone else and they move on with that person,
00:55:52leave you with the baby.
00:55:53You don't end up with getting your heart broken on a regular basis.
00:55:56You don't get insecure.
00:55:57The woman doesn't freak out and panic about aging
00:55:59because she just gets replaced with a younger model.
00:56:01It's just a mess and a chaos and a horror show.
00:56:13So, and of course, monogamy is best for children
00:56:20because children in non-pair-bonded relationships
00:56:25are preyed upon 30 times or more by men in particular.
00:56:31So if you have a single mother with a child
00:56:34and she brings another man in, which is a form of polygamy, right?
00:56:38Because her baby daddy is still alive and she's bringing another man in.
00:56:44So polygamy is toxic for children
00:56:51because there's a certain kind of protection that children get
00:56:55from growing up with a man that they don't get from a man who is just around.
00:57:01So it is much safer for children.
00:57:03And so a woman who's willing to accept polygamy
00:57:06is willing to accept the absolute dangerous risk to her heart,
00:57:09to her health, to her mental and physical health
00:57:12in terms of diseases and heartbreak.
00:57:14And she's willing to accept a situation that's highly toxic
00:57:17and very dangerous for her children,
00:57:19which means she has really, really terrible judgment.
00:57:22And she's willing to sacrifice her own health, sanity,
00:57:25and the sanity, health, and security of her children
00:57:29in return for sexual gratification.
00:57:31And that is terrible.
00:57:35That is terrible.
00:57:36So you just can't get a quality woman
00:57:38if you're going to go outside of monogamy.
00:57:41No woman with any sense of self-esteem or intelligence
00:57:44or care for herself, her heart, her health, and her children
00:57:47will even remotely entertain the idea of a polygamous relationship,
00:57:50and therefore you're just stuck on trash planet.
00:57:53And then you can't experience love,
00:57:55your children don't experience protection,
00:57:57and everything just gets worse and worse and worse over time.
00:58:00So that's my argument for polygamy.
00:58:09Yeah, women have smaller fertility windows.
00:58:11All men and women should know this.
00:58:13Older women who don't teach their daughters this
00:58:15are particularly a fault here.
00:58:17Yeah, I mean, there's a significant proportion of doctors,
00:58:20female doctors, who don't even know about this.
00:58:27Yeah, I just did a show.
00:58:29It was published for donors about hedonism and the decay of hedonism.
00:58:32So I hope you will check that out.
00:58:35All right, so let us...
00:58:37We have a low donation day.
00:58:39You know, it is a little tougher to slog through.
00:58:42It is a little tougher to slog through if people aren't donating as much.
00:58:46I'll just be straight up with you.
00:58:48I mean, just straight up for you.
00:58:50And I don't, of course, require the world,
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00:58:55So if you could help me out, I would really, really appreciate that.
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00:59:07Thank you for the case. You are very welcome.
00:59:09I mean, this is a life-changing case, right?
00:59:11It's a life-changing case.
00:59:13And we all know this, right?
00:59:15That polygamy is a...
00:59:19It's a low-rent, pretty trashy reproductive strategy.
00:59:25And the other thing, too, it's also bad...
00:59:28And remember, polygamy...
00:59:30We evolved with our DNA tests, so polygamy...
00:59:32In polygamous relationships or polygamous societies,
00:59:35the children don't exactly know who their fathers are.
00:59:38And that is important because...
00:59:40That's important because...
00:59:42I mean, you're going to have traits of your fathers,
00:59:44you're going to have health issues, you know.
00:59:46Is there a family history of X is what you always get when you get older, right?
00:59:51I will work on these arguments and see if this is reflected in real life.
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01:00:47What do you think about the economy in the West?
01:00:49It's all government propped up.
01:00:50Ah, there's no real economy in the West.
01:00:52It's just a shell game and illusions and debt.
01:00:55Why do you need monogamy to raise vulnerable children?
01:01:00Couldn't the children be raised collectively by all the women and men in the tribe?
01:01:06Well, the other thing too...
01:01:10The other thing too is that
01:01:12if you raise your children in polygamous societies,
01:01:15brothers and sisters don't know that they're brothers and sisters
01:01:18and therefore they could mate
01:01:20because they don't know who the fathers are, right?
01:01:22So then they could mate
01:01:23and then you end up with a lot of genetic problems.
01:01:25Cousin marriage is a big problem
01:01:27and sibling marriage is a huge problem
01:01:29when it comes to genetic abnormalities.
01:01:31So monogamy makes sure that
01:01:34the siblings all know they come from the same father
01:01:37and therefore the incest taboo,
01:01:39which I've talked about in a philosophy show not too long ago,
01:01:42the incest taboo holds strong.
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01:01:52It's a tough economy out there, right?
01:01:54It's a tough economy and I do understand that.
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01:02:10All right.
01:02:11Let me just see here.
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01:02:21I think we got to all the questions.
01:02:24Talk about women's fertility window to anyone.
01:02:26Nobody believes it.
01:02:27They just shrug.
01:02:28With the just freeze your eggs propaganda.
01:02:30Yes.
01:02:31Yes, yes, I do.
01:02:33What was it?
01:02:34Somebody was talking about the JD Vance
01:02:35and they mentioned my infamous...
01:02:37It was voted the worst tweet of all time
01:02:39at one point.
01:02:41My tweet about Taylor Swift
01:02:43saying I think she'd be a fun mom.
01:02:45I hope that she decides to have kids soon
01:02:47because 90% of her eggs are gone.
01:02:49People just...
01:02:50Well, women in general just freaked out.
01:02:52Just absolutely freaked out
01:02:54and for reasons I completely understand all of that.
01:02:56And the just freeze your eggs is no answer.
01:02:58Doesn't get you a quality husband.
01:03:00And the freezing eggs is expensive
01:03:02and not particularly reliable in many situations, right?
01:03:09My biological aunt says now she knows
01:03:11who my brother and I's biological father is.
01:03:14Bio mom was not sure who before she died.
01:03:17No idea where he went.
01:03:18He did not stick around.
01:03:19I have four other siblings both younger and older.
01:03:21Yeah, yeah.
01:03:22It's terrible.
01:03:23I'm so sorry.
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