I Trust Her 100% - Even If My Family Doesn't | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
BIANKA left home at a young age when she found out she was pregnant with her son. She lived with a friend whilst she started working on a personal training career but needed more money to help pay the bills. She decided to start dancing at a strip club and within a month was able to get her and her son their own place. Stripping then led onto working in the adult film industry and as the money grew, she began to start getting surgeries. She has had jaw surgery, 2 breast augmentations, lipo 360, a BBL and hopes to get more in the future.
Bianka met Nick on Tinder 7 years ago where she put a ‘normal picture’ on her profile. She wanted someone to like her for her, not because she was an adult star. From day one it was love at first sight, and from the second date he pretty much moved in with her. He embraced her career and even joined in on a few videos. Bianka now has a dungeon where she goes with clients who will fill out a form of what services they want, she says "I show Nick every list so that he knows everything that i'm doing there" and Nick says "I trust her 100%".
Both Bianka and Nick's family found it hard to process in the beginning and found her career choices "shocking". Bianka said "I had a lot of judgement about me, my style, what i'm working to, calling me names and things like that". The couple say they dealt with so much judgement but "nothing can put us down".
In this episode their friend Peter comes over to confront the couple on Bianka's careers choices and why Nick allows it to happen.
Bianka met Nick on Tinder 7 years ago where she put a ‘normal picture’ on her profile. She wanted someone to like her for her, not because she was an adult star. From day one it was love at first sight, and from the second date he pretty much moved in with her. He embraced her career and even joined in on a few videos. Bianka now has a dungeon where she goes with clients who will fill out a form of what services they want, she says "I show Nick every list so that he knows everything that i'm doing there" and Nick says "I trust her 100%".
Both Bianka and Nick's family found it hard to process in the beginning and found her career choices "shocking". Bianka said "I had a lot of judgement about me, my style, what i'm working to, calling me names and things like that". The couple say they dealt with so much judgement but "nothing can put us down".
In this episode their friend Peter comes over to confront the couple on Bianka's careers choices and why Nick allows it to happen.
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00:00This is Bianca. She fell in love with Nick.
00:04The couple have a different kind of relationship dynamic to most.
00:08My fiancé loves when other men pay to be with me.
00:11Before I go to a session, I always ask people to give me a list of everything they want.
00:17But their choices have left people disappointed.
00:20It was pretty tough in the beginning. A lot of judgment about me.
00:24And today their friend Peter is coming over to confront the couple.
00:28It doesn't bother you whatsoever knowing that your girlfriend is going above and beyond
00:32to bring money home. It doesn't bother you whatsoever.
00:36I'm Bianca. I'm 33 years old and I do outdoor content for a living.
00:41Hi, my name is Nick James. I work with the construction and I build a skyscraper.
00:47I'm not a skyscraper.
00:48Skyscraper.
00:49Why?
00:50I build the building, hospital and that's it.
00:55We just start with a really short video.
00:58This one. It's so tight, huh? I don't know about that.
01:02Animal print.
01:03Yeah, I like that.
01:04And he was getting more and more into it.
01:07Yeah, it's good.
01:08You want to take a shot of it?
01:09Yeah, that's fine. I'll take it.
01:11He was really not shy.
01:13You have always a six pack, huh?
01:16Yeah.
01:17He's small, but he has a nice shape.
01:19And what do you have down there? It's perfect.
01:21So he said like, why not? We should just try it.
01:24I don't know. I think it doesn't fit anymore.
01:26And he likes it. You like it?
01:28Yeah, I like it.
01:29My session, I do them in a dungeon that I rent.
01:34Oh, you want to get the whip out?
01:36Take the whip?
01:37We can pass hours and hours there to have fun.
01:40Yeah, let's go.
01:43It's really nice.
01:45Before I go to a session, I always ask people to give me a list of everything they want or
01:51I can give them a list and they just check.
01:54And every list that I have, I always show him.
01:57So he knows everything that I'm doing there.
02:00So nice.
02:02I feel good and I trust Bianca.
02:06They're looking good.
02:07Yeah, you're looking very good.
02:08Thank you, baby.
02:10We met seven years ago on Tinder.
02:14I was playing more like some normal picture of me because I didn't want the guy to notice
02:19I was like more in the adult life.
02:21I remember the first time you see Bianca, her beautiful eyes, your smile, the tattoo.
02:28And you see, wow, this girl is very good.
02:30I told myself I'm not going to a one night stand because I wanted a real relationship,
02:36like a serious one.
02:37After one week, we were a couple.
02:39I think it was pretty much love at first sight because I had some work on the net that is
02:47really, really easy to find.
02:48So I just showed him straight away who I was on Google.
02:52Bianca showed me the business is working and I like that.
02:57It was really fun with it.
02:59Before, I had met some other men and the first time that I mentioned anything about like
03:05adult industry, they always cut off.
03:08So it's pretty hard to find like a man that accepts what I'm doing.
03:12I have like so much requests that are weird or special.
03:17People who wants to be my puppy or who wants to be my furniture.
03:23So he wants to be my chair and I just sit on him watching a movie.
03:30I think it's really nice to discover like what please other people.
03:33Some people just love my hands.
03:38Bianca is build the empire.
03:41We some touch up again.
03:43I didn't tell my family that I was now putting myself out there online.
03:49I do understand now.
03:50It's shocking maybe to see.
03:53When you're shocked, you're not saying always the good things.
03:56But after time and learning them, everything was all right.
04:02I tried to like open eyes to them that it's not a normal thing, but it's like more common
04:07right now.
04:08Mommy is ready.
04:09Let's go and have some fun.
04:11Not have fun with my dog.
04:18Do you have some good one?
04:19I had a couple of surgeries.
04:21I had my chin, my jaw, my boobs three times.
04:26The color is so nice.
04:27A lipo, a BBL and my next one is going to be a plumping about my lady parts.
04:34He loves big, big boobs.
04:36Bigger I have, happier it is.
04:38And I love also.
04:41I love surgery and I like the big boobs, but it's very nice.
04:47I love that.
04:50Oh my God, my face looks so hot.
04:53Thank you, baby.
04:54My family is not okay to begin.
04:56It was pretty tough in the beginning.
04:59A lot of judgment about me, my style, what I'm working to, calling me names and things
05:04like that.
05:05But I know how people can see it when they are not in this industry.
05:09We can have a lot of judgment about this and I do understand it also.
05:14All my family right now, we love Bianca and this is very nice.
05:21We had so much in the beginning.
05:23I think that's why we're still together and nothing can put us down.
05:28So my friend Peter is coming.
05:30I found out about the whole situation, the job they do about two, three years ago when
05:35they started getting more active in it.
05:36And it's been picking up faster and faster.
05:38They've been getting more popular.
05:40My main reservation is how long is it going to last?
05:43I want to know what their plans are for later on, how they're going to cope and deal with
05:47all the backlash they get doing this business.
05:51Hey, Peter.
05:54Oh my God, good to see you.
05:56I'm good, I'm good.
05:57Thank you for coming.
05:58Well, my main concern was how it was going to work out.
06:02How are you guys going to get through all the obstacles that come with your job?
06:05We never had like something hiding from each other.
06:09You know everything.
06:10He's my best friend, so.
06:11Yes.
06:12But it doesn't bother you whatsoever knowing that your girlfriend is going above and beyond
06:16to bring money home, doing things like this?
06:18It doesn't bother you whatsoever?
06:20Yeah, it's better for me.
06:21The big, the cash.
06:24I get it, cash is king.
06:26But there's a certain limit to say, okay, it's my girlfriend.
06:29It's my special person.
06:32I don't want to be passed out to everybody.
06:34Me personally.
06:35I don't know how you do it.
06:36I get it's all about money.
06:37But do you have a limit to what you would do?
06:40Of course we have one.
06:41The intimacy.
06:43When it comes to like being intimate with another man, we do discuss about everything.
06:50What the guy is looking for, if Nick is okay with it also.
06:54That's right.
06:55I'm not jealous.
06:56I trust Bianca for this 100%.
06:59I always come back every night to sleep with Nick here.
07:04So I'm never like away from the home more than one day.
07:08So this is, I think, our big rule that I come here.
07:12In this type of lifestyle, you've got to be character at all times.
07:15These are fans.
07:15These are the people paying you.
07:17You can't say no to them and it's not the right time.
07:19But yeah, you can't say no.
07:20They have some limits.
07:21Everybody get respect also.
07:23Yes.
07:24What do you tell your kids when they come home from school and they tell you,
07:26hey mommy, you know what my classmate said?
07:28He saw you on the internet doing this and that.
07:31I did have a lot of judgments about me having some kids doing that job in this industry.
07:37My kids, my family is always going first.
07:42Honor is not a normal job.
07:43But my son is getting older and older and he's now in high school.
07:49So I know that he's going to know sooner.
07:52How I'm going to have this conversation is like right now,
07:54just like sitting down and I'm going to answer every question,
07:57be open to any like any things that you want to know.
08:00And I'm just going to do the better for my son.
08:03So you don't have the same like pathway of me.
08:06Like I'm going to be there for him.
08:08I give you respect for that.
08:09Thank you.
08:11Nick is so open and so in peace about what I'm doing.
08:16He's like really relaxed and positive about everything.
08:20She was, she changed me for good.
08:23Yeah, because you were a bad boy before meeting me.
08:28Everyone can have their judgment about us, but I think we just don't,
08:32we don't care about that.
08:34I'm so grateful to have a man like you, open mind like that,
08:38that you accept everything that I do and that you support me
08:42and that you are a part of it.
08:46I want to thank you so much.
08:50I love you.
08:50I love you too.