Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Carla Abellana at Tom Rodriguez, DIVORCED na! (Full Episode 370)
Aired (June 28, 2024): Ang Kapuso Primetime Goddess na si Carla Abellana, magsasalita na tungkol sa totoong estado ng kanyang puso matapos ma-divorce ang kasal nila ng kanyang ex-husband na si Tom Rodriguez! Alamin din kung ano ang update sa kanyang buhay artista at sa pagbibidahan niyang role sa upcoming murder-mystery series na 'Widows' Web.' Panoorin ito sa video. #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso
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00:00We'll start in five minutes.
00:16Magandang hapon Pilipinas at buong mundo.
00:20Nayitay kapuso, perampon ang 20 minutes ng inyong hapon.
00:24Ako si Boy, and welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:29will be welcome to the program.
00:32Thank you for coming with us to the show.
00:34It's a special afternoon.
00:37There's no war, but we have one of the stars of a war.
00:41Naytay Capuzzo, please welcome the very beautiful Carla
00:46Abelian.
00:47Yeah!
00:47Woo!
00:48Woo!
00:48Woo!
00:49Woo!
00:49Woo!
00:52Good afternoon.
00:53Maraming maraming salama.
00:55Thank you very much.
00:56Looking beautiful.
00:57Thank you for saying the very beautiful.
00:59That means a lot.
01:00Salamat po.
01:01Do you need that?
01:02Of course.
01:03Masara po pakinggan.
01:04Yes.
01:05Nakakatulong siya mag-boost ng confidence.
01:06Nakakatanggal po ng kabay.
01:07Pero as a child, even as a teenager, madalas ka bang sabihan, ang ganda-ganda mo?
01:16Hindi naman po.
01:17Kasi ano po, when I was much younger, sobrang tahimik ko po.
01:21Tapos laging nag-aaral lang.
01:23So, hindi din po ako palalabas.
01:25Hindi naman po ako gano'ng na-exposed because I was a homebody.
01:30Please make yourself comfortable.
01:33Kaya ako parang redundant every time.
01:36The beautiful.
01:37Kasi really, napakaganda.
01:40Thank you.
01:41Maraming maraming salamat.
01:42And congratulations on Widow's War.
01:45Widow's War.
01:46Kailan mapapanood ang Widow's War?
01:50Widow's War starts airing po July 1.
01:54That's this coming Monday.
01:56July 1, Monday, on Jimmy Prime po, Widow's War.
01:59That's right after Black Rider.
02:028.50pm po if I'm not mistaken.
02:04Huwag po natin kakalimutan yan.
02:06That's right after Black Rider, Widow's War.
02:09And that's Bea Alonzo and Carla Abellana.
02:13Congratulations.
02:14Umpisa natin ang ating kwentuhan dito sa isang eksena na dito lamang po ninyo mapapanood sa Fast Talk.
02:22Panoorin hoon natin at pag-usapan hoon natin.
02:24Narito po.
02:26Mahilig mang ialam.
02:29Hindi na mag-sorry, kaya ikaw patong galit?
02:31Bakit naman ako magsa-sorry?
02:33Eh hindi ko naman sinasadya yun.
02:35Yung nanay mo kasi tatanga-tanga.
02:37Ah!
02:38Dare you!
02:39Ako palang tama!
02:41That's intense!
02:44Okay, let's talk about this scene.
02:46Magkaibigan kayo, di ba?
02:48Best friends.
02:49Best friends.
02:52Na naging worst enemies.
02:54But dun muna tayo sa relasyon nyo ni Bea as Sam and George.
03:02In the briefest way you can, ano ba talagang kwento nyo yung dalawa?
03:07Sam and George are best friends, or used to be.
03:10They were best friends.
03:12Medyo later in life na sila nag-meet.
03:14But as soon as nag-meet po sila, nag-click talaga po sila ng gusto.
03:18Marami silang shinere sa isa't-isa.
03:21Sam is the medyo quiet type, medyo conservative po.
03:26Si George yung talagang, let's live our lives.
03:29You know, let's go out, let's party.
03:33Unfortunately may mangyayari pong tragedy involving the family.
03:38And ito po yung sisira dun sa friendship nilang dalawa.
03:41How much of you can relate to that character?
03:44Magkapareho? Magkaiba?
03:47Nasaan kayo?
03:48Ako magkaiba.
03:50Kasi nabanggit ko po earlier off camera po, homebody po.
03:53Ako tahimik lang po.
03:54I prefer to just stay at home.
03:57Ano po, ako introvert.
03:58Although, of course, yung aking work dahil po sa pagiging artista,
04:01kailangan ko pong maging extrovert.
04:03May times naman po na kailangan baliktad para lang mag-recharge.
04:07Parang ganun po.
04:08So, I'd rather stay at home, rest, recharge.
04:11So, when you talk about George, halimbawa, binabasa mong script,
04:15paano mo naiiwasan na hindi mo husgahan yung pagkatao ng role mo?
04:20Hindi ko po naiiwasan.
04:22Lagi ko po siyang jina-judge.
04:25Ang hirap pong hindi i-judge.
04:27But, napansin ko naman po na,
04:29actually, it's lahat po sila.
04:31Ang hirap pong hindi i-judge.
04:33Si Jackie sa Widows War at ang mamo sa Totoong Buhay,
04:37ito ba yung klase ng relasyon na kayo'y magpapakamatay para sa isa't-isa?
04:42Ganun klase ng relasyon?
04:44I'm using, of course, an extreme word.
04:46Parang hindi po.
04:47In real life, parang if you ask my mom,
04:50sasabihin niya, no, I won't die for cars.
04:52Medyo prank.
04:53But, baka po, yes, definitely.
04:56Kasi, tatlo na nga lang po kami sa pamilya.
04:59Apat po kami sa pamilya.
05:01So, I would, kung baga, die for you.
05:03Parang ganun.
05:04Parang ako, definitely, for my mom, yes, yes.
05:06I would sacrifice my life for her.
05:08Hanggang saan yung pakialamanan?
05:11Yung mom ko po hindi nangungulit.
05:14Kapag nag-open ka po kami sa kanya,
05:16or may nakwento po kami,
05:18hanggang dun lang po hindi na po siya yung nagpaprobe.
05:21Hindi din po siya yung palatanong.
05:24Whatever we tell her,
05:26is your pain her pain?
05:28Oh, yes, definitely.
05:30I believe that's universal naman po.
05:32Between mothers and daughters, especially.
05:35You wouldn't want to see your daughter hurt.
05:39Kaya, of course, ako din po being the daughter,
05:41I wouldn't want to see my mom hurt.
05:43So, definitely my shared pain.
05:45Carla, we'll have to do faster.
05:47Yes.
05:48Kailangan.
05:49Yes po, sure po.
05:50We have two minutes to do this,
05:51and our time begins now.
05:54Carla, love or war?
05:56Love.
05:57Widow, warrior?
05:58Warrior.
05:59Pre-love, first love?
06:00First love.
06:01Pusa, aso?
06:02Dog.
06:03Aspin, askal?
06:04Aspin.
06:05Fur baby o tawagin kang baby?
06:06Fur baby.
06:08Move on, move in?
06:09Move on.
06:10Forgive, forget?
06:11Forgive.
06:12Career, pag-ibig?
06:13Career.
06:14Estado ng puso mo, red, green, o yellow?
06:17Red.
06:19Kung hindi ka artista, ano ka Carla?
06:22Teacher.
06:23Kung hindi ka Pinay, anong lahi mo?
06:25German.
06:26Gagawin kang candidate sa Miss Universe Philippines,
06:28lalabang ka ba?
06:29Hindi po.
06:30Gagawin kang lead sa GL Movie,
06:33papayag ka ba?
06:34Yes.
06:35Guilty or not guilty?
06:36Nalasing sa bar?
06:37Guilty or not guilty, gumawa ng fake account?
06:40Not guilty.
06:41Guilty or not guilty, gumawa ng fake ID?
06:43Not guilty.
06:44Guilty or not guilty, nakalimutan ng pangalan ng kadate?
06:47Not guilty.
06:48Guilty or not guilty, nagkaroon ng traffic violation?
06:50Not guilty.
06:51Guilty or not guilty, natakasan ng utang?
06:54Guilty.
06:55Guilty or not guilty, ginamit ang ganda para humingi ng pabor?
06:59Guilty!
07:00Kailan ka pinaka maganda?
07:03A, pag gising sa umaga?
07:05When do you wake up in the morning?
07:06When are you the sexiest?
07:08When I don't eat.
07:09Favorite time of the day?
07:11When I get home.
07:12Favorite item in your bag?
07:14My phone.
07:15To love again?
07:16To guest here again?
07:18To love again.
07:19Lights on or lights off?
07:20Lights off.
07:22Happiness or chocolates?
07:23Happiness.
07:24Best time for happiness?
07:26Now.
07:27Now in your life, what is your prayer?
07:30My prayer is, Lord, take care of me.
07:35There is so much left in the world.
07:42I don't know what my future holds.
07:44I don't want to think about it or plan it.
07:47That is my prayer.
07:49Lord, take care of me.
07:51Just lead me to where I need to be or where I have to be.
07:55I will just follow.
07:57And you will be okay?
07:58Of course.
07:59I will just go back to to love again and to guest here again.
08:04You said to love again.
08:06Let's talk about that.
08:08It had been a difficult year or so.
08:14You've been through challenges.
08:19The question now as we talk, Carla, are you happy?
08:25The answer to the return of Fast Talk with Boy Abune.
08:36Back to the show with Carla Abellana.
08:39Earlier in To Love Again or To Guest Here Again, you said to love again.
08:44Uncle, you might get offended.
08:46I didn't choose To Guest Here Again.
08:48It's just Fast Talk.
08:50As a matter of fact, I liked it.
08:52To Love Again.
08:54Where are you coming from?
08:56Are you ready to fall in love again?
08:58To love again.
08:59I don't necessarily think of it as a romantic love.
09:03Basically, to love life again.
09:06To love where I am at this point in life.
09:08Did you lose that?
09:09Your loving life?
09:11Yes, definitely.
09:13It comes with pain, heartbreak.
09:16It's hard to be happy, optimistic, and still love life.
09:23When you've been through a lot.
09:28But as long as you know that it's temporary, it will pass.
09:32Then you'll be okay.
09:34There was not a moment that you were so tired that you asked questions to God?
09:41Oh, definitely, Uncle Boy.
09:43Actually, this is just the beginning.
09:45Because everything was so shocking, so abrupt.
09:51It was instant.
09:53I couldn't comprehend.
09:56I couldn't figure out why.
09:58I had a lot of questions about why.
10:00It was just the beginning.
10:03And what was that question for God?
10:05My question was, why?
10:07Why did this have to happen?
10:09Why now?
10:11I couldn't believe what was happening.
10:13Your biggest lesson from your marriage?
10:17Oh, my God.
10:19In the context of this.
10:21In the context of learning.
10:23Look at it as a source of lesson.
10:26Okay, right.
10:27Of course, relationships are so important.
10:31Family is important.
10:33Marriage is important.
10:35It's sacred.
10:37But if it's not right, or if it's too much already,
10:46you shouldn't force it.
10:50I'm not saying that unmarried couples should separate.
10:55If there are things that are already too painful,
10:59or if it's not resolved,
11:02you shouldn't force it.
11:05Because you might lose yourself.
11:07You might be in danger.
11:09If there are other people affected,
11:12you shouldn't force it.
11:14Same with Ruth and George,
11:16the mother and daughter.
11:18If it's not right,
11:20they still encourage it.
11:22I'm not just talking about myself.
11:24But if it's not right,
11:26and there are other people affected,
11:28don't force it.
11:29But it takes a lot of courage.
11:30Oh, definitely.
11:31It takes a lot of courage to be able to say,
11:33I'm walking away.
11:34Let's talk about secrets.
11:36Basil and George have a lot of secrets.
11:40As Carla,
11:42even if we generalize it,
11:44is it healthy for couples to keep secrets from each other?
11:48Maybe.
11:50Maybe it's a little mystery.
11:52To intensify each other.
11:55Yes.
11:56But secrets are questionable.
11:59It's dangerous.
12:02I'm not the type to keep secrets.
12:05I always say,
12:07what's the point of keeping secrets
12:11when God sees and hears everything.
12:13Yes, you're keeping secrets from your husband or your family,
12:18but God knows everything.
12:20You're not safe.
12:21There's no escape.
12:25I'm not the type to keep secrets
12:29because I can't.
12:31Knowing that I know something
12:33and I'm keeping something from my loved one.
12:36I have a conscience.
12:38Today, as we talk.
12:40Are you happy?
12:42Yes.
12:44My smile is beautiful.
12:46Yes, I'm happy.
12:48It was a difficult journey to get to this point.
12:52But yes, I'm definitely confident that I'm happy.
12:56Difficult to get to this point?
12:58Difficult to get, yes.
12:59A long, tedious, difficult way to get to.
13:03When you connect the dots, Carla,
13:05when you look back,
13:06and you say yourself,
13:08self-talk is very important.
13:10God, I got to this place.
13:12Right, yes.
13:14Why?
13:15How did you get to where you are today?
13:17There are a lot of processes,
13:19a lot to go through and do.
13:21There are times when I question myself,
13:24how?
13:25How did I get here?
13:28I surrendered to God,
13:30and by God's grace,
13:32He brought me here.
13:35It's not that I didn't do the work
13:38that I was required to do,
13:41to rise again,
13:43to move on,
13:45to heal,
13:46to forgive and forget.
13:47But without God and His grace,
13:51I wouldn't be happy today.
13:53Have you forgiven?
13:55Definitely, yes.
13:56Oh yes, definitely.
13:57Have you forgotten?
13:59No, it doesn't just leave your head,
14:05your heart even,
14:07even the body,
14:08I still remember.
14:09Especially because it wasn't so long ago.
14:13Right.
14:14Where are you and Tom at this point?
14:17We are divorced.
14:20The local court recognized us.
14:25Because it needs to be recognized.
14:27Yes, the foreign decree.
14:29We haven't spoken since.
14:32We haven't met or talked yet.
14:34He has a new girlfriend?
14:35I have no idea.
14:37According, yes.
14:38We are already dating.
14:39Or dating, I'm sorry.
14:41I don't have any updates or anything.
14:43We don't communicate anymore.
14:47The anger,
14:51how much of that is really gone?
14:54Oh, 100%.
14:56It's hard to have a little bit of anger here, right?
14:58Because life is so short.
15:00If you hold on to anger,
15:03it will just ruin you.
15:06It will manifest in your health.
15:08You will carry it.
15:10And I believe that you won't be able to move on
15:14if there is still a little bit of anger left.
15:18You said in an interview,
15:19you are ready to meet him.
15:22Well, yes.
15:23Yes, correct.
15:24For example,
15:26I'll be ready.
15:27You'll be ready.
15:28And if you do that.
15:30He's not here.
15:31I might surprise him.
15:32If you do that,
15:33if you meet Tom,
15:35what would you tell him?
15:37I won't say anything.
15:39You wouldn't?
15:40Yes.
15:41He says hi, for example.
15:45Maybe I'll nod.
15:47I won't even say hi back.
15:49It's not that I don't want to talk to him or what,
15:51but as much as possible,
15:53I'll avoid that.
15:56A conversation.
15:57I'll acknowledge.
15:58Yes, I'll avoid conversations.
16:00You would much prefer not to say anything.
16:02Yes.
16:03I'd much prefer not to talk to him,
16:05even if it's a small talk.
16:06In your current state,
16:08are you open to knowing?
16:11With you, for example,
16:14I thought you would have feelings.
16:16Some people would be interested.
16:17Are you open to entertaining people?
16:20At this point,
16:21it's one thing that I don't think about.
16:24Okay.
16:25Especially with the amount of work that we have.
16:27At the very little time that we have left for ourselves,
16:31to rest, recover,
16:33for personal matters,
16:35it's not a priority.
16:37But with less pain,
16:39the heart opens.
16:41Oh, yes.
16:42Right?
16:43The heart opens.
16:44Are you also trying to say that,
16:46I'll move with the flow?
16:49Yes.
16:50Definitely.
16:51I told myself,
16:53I don't want to close myself.
16:56I don't want to be too bitter
16:58or too angry at the world.
17:00I also don't want to be open.
17:03I don't want to look for or chase
17:06whatever comes along the way.
17:09We'll see where it will take me.
17:12Carla, what have you become
17:15because of your failed marriage?
17:18The most obvious is stronger.
17:22What have I become?
17:24Wiser.
17:29Contradictory but vulnerable at the same time.
17:33Which is still good.
17:34Before I ask you my last question,
17:36invite everybody to Widows' Walk.
17:38One of my birthday wishes
17:40from several birthday candles that I've lit,
17:44is for you to watch Widows' Walk every night.
17:48It will air on July 1,
17:50starting Monday at 8.50pm on GMA Prime.
17:54Widows' Walk, get ready.
17:57It's beautiful visually.
17:59You will be thinking.
18:01You will be on the edge of your seats.
18:03We cannot wait.
18:04We're very excited for you to watch Widows' Walk.
18:08Carla, you said we're just going to move with the flow.
18:11You've surrendered everything to God.
18:13But I know it is possible that one day,
18:16you will fall in love again.
18:18He's out there watching this conversation.
18:22He's out there watching this conversation.
18:25What would you like to say to him?
18:28Maybe, see you soon.
18:31I hope to meet you soon.
18:32Something like that.
18:33Wait, I just said it.
18:35I wasn't looking for it.
18:39I guess, I can't wait to see
18:41how our paths will cross.
18:43Something like that.
18:44That's exciting.
18:45It's beautiful.
18:46That's really exciting.
18:48After a tough year,
18:50after a very difficult year,
18:53Independence Day is your birthday.
18:56I have a question.
18:58Now, are you free from the pain?
19:02Definitely free from the pain.
19:04I've let go of that already.
19:08It's not holding me back anymore.
19:11It's not chasing me anymore.
19:12Definitely.
19:13Thank you very much.
19:17Widows War.
19:18Widows War, starting Monday.
19:20July 1.
19:21July 1.
19:22Airing this Monday, 8.50pm on GMA Prime.
19:25Widows War.
19:26Watch it.
19:27Yes, please.
19:28Naytay, thank you very much for continuing
19:30with your daily activities.
19:32Be kind.
19:33Make your Nana and Dada proud.
19:35Hashtag say thank you.
19:36And let's support Carla.
19:38Let's support Widows War.
19:40Let's support the whole show.
19:42I hope it will be our habit,
19:45together with Widows War,
19:47every day.
19:48That's Monday to Friday.
19:50On GMA Prime, every night.
19:51Do one good thing a day
19:52and make this world a better, better place.
19:55Goodbye for now and God bless.
19:57Thank you.