Aired (July 11, 2024): Ngayong hapon, tutuldukan na ni Bea Alonzo ang mga usap-usapan tungkol sa mga pinagdaanan niya sa nagdaang relasyon nila ni Dominic Roque. Kumusta na nga ba ang lagay ng puso ng isa sa mga bida ng Kapuso hit murder-mystery series na 'Widows' War'?
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00:00And welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
00:24Salamat po ng kasama natin sa Facebook at YouTube.
00:31Salamat sa lahat ng nakikinig sa Dizzy Double B. Welcome to the program.
00:356,200 people in the audience.
00:39Please welcome the one and the only, Bea Alonzo.
01:00Please sit down.
01:02Okay.
01:04Bea Alonzo, this is an interview that people thought would never happen.
01:08I know.
01:09Remember?
01:10So let me start by saying that may I have consent to hug you?
01:14Tito boy, ang hug hindi na pinagpapa.
01:17Thank you for having me.
01:26How are you?
01:28I'm great.
01:30I'm very happy now, especially with Widows' War.
01:33But aside from Widows' War, we'll talk about Widows' War, half of the show.
01:37But why are you looking so good?
01:40Tagang tanong to, why are you radiating this kind of vibe?
01:44I don't know. I've just been having fun.
01:48Doing, again, the soap and other things.
01:53Meron na rin akong time makipag-hangout sa mga kaibigan ko.
01:56And do the things that make me happy.
01:59And congratulations.
02:01Sige, umpisan na natin dito.
02:02Because, naitay kapuso, Widows' War is doing excellently.
02:07Congratulations.
02:09Thank you.
02:11Congratulations. Galing, no?
02:15Thank you.
02:16Answer prayers.
02:17I know. We were very excited about this.
02:20Talagang binagdadasal ko na sana maraming makapanood kasi maganda talaga yung show.
02:25Totoo. Atinututukan gabi-gabi.
02:27Pero, bago natin puntahan ng Widows' War,
02:30you did an interview with 24 Horas.
02:33Yes.
02:34Where you were quoted to have said that,
02:36Hindi ako nakipaghiwalay.
02:38And then, lumabas ang tattler, edited by our dear friend, Anton.
02:43Anton. Hi. Shout out to you.
02:45Anton San Diego.
02:46At where you were quoted naman to have said that,
02:50it was a mutual decision to separate.
02:53Para lang, claro, para maiwanan natin itong pag-uusap na ito,
02:57How do you connect the two?
03:00Tito Boy, not that I owe anyone an explanation.
03:05I really don't want to talk about this anymore.
03:08But to answer your question, baka nga may mga nalilito.
03:12During that time that I did Tattler,
03:16that was like a month ago?
03:18Kasi po, bago sila makapag-release ng July issue.
03:22Or even more.
03:23I don't remember when that was.
03:25Medyo matagal na.
03:27So that was the only time I kind of talked about it.
03:31Because I was asked.
03:33I don't know. I kind of talked about it there.
03:37And then, during 24 horas, I didn't have the intention to talk about it.
03:42Because nga, I really wanted to give respect to the relationship that was.
03:49But then, merong comment si Nelson, our friend Nelson.
03:55Before his comment, we were talking about fake news and all that.
04:00And then I was so comfortable talking to him.
04:02Kasi walang camera sa harapan.
04:05And then he went like, sabi niya,
04:08Syempre ikaw, nakipag-break.
04:10Hindi nila alam. Mahirap din sa'yo.
04:12It was like an instinct.
04:14I had to correct him.
04:16I didn't have any intention to really talk about it.
04:19Actually, he had a follow-up question.
04:22But then I refused to answer it na.
04:24So that's why you said it.
04:26Because these are two opposing statements.
04:28That brings me to the Tatler interview.
04:31When you said it was a mutual decision.
04:33It became a mutual decision.
04:36Eventually.
04:37Eventually. Of course, we worked it out, right?
04:39Okay.
04:40You know, it was a very serious relationship, obviously.
04:45You were getting married.
04:46Exactly. So, hindi naman sya yung parang, you know,
04:50we didn't take the decision lightly.
04:52It was a process. It was a long process.
04:55And so, yeah, eventually it became mutual.
04:59Both parties agreed.
05:01Wala naman.
05:02Okay. I'll stop there.
05:04Thank you.
05:05Where are you at this point in your life?
05:11I'm just really enjoying my life.
05:13I guess I'm embracing the uncertainty.
05:18Kasi na-realize ko,
05:21minsan marami tayong plano sa buhay natin,
05:24pero God's plans are always better.
05:27And so, I'm just here to embrace the uncertainty.
05:30Kung ano yung nakalaan para sa'kin.
05:33What have you become because of that relationship?
05:37We're talking about the relationship?
05:39No, no, no. We're not anymore.
05:40We're talking about Bea after the relationship.
05:42Okay, okay.
05:43What have you become?
05:46Well, I've always known I am resilient,
05:49but I didn't know I am this resilient.
05:52Uh-huh.
05:53Yeah.
05:54May mga inisip ng bagay na hindi mo kaya na kaya mo pala.
05:57Yes. It made me stronger.
05:59And na-realize ko at natutunan kong
06:05i-cancel talaga yung mga noise na hindi kailangan sa buhay ko.
06:09And just accept or embrace, again, the magic word,
06:15those opinions that adds value to my life.
06:20You and I, I think, share the same idea
06:22that we should close the discussion about your past relationship.
06:27And I want to do it here, at least on behalf of myself.
06:30Yes, yes.
06:31And if you were to close this chapter,
06:33if you were to close, and let's do it here,
06:35I mean, you know, if you were to close this chapter of your life,
06:39in words,
06:41Words.
06:42Yes.
06:43Paano mo gagawin?
06:44Ano ang sasabihin mo bilang pagsasara ng chapter na ito?
06:51It's so hard.
06:52I mean, that's a very hard question.
06:56But, siguro top of mind na naisip ko lang ngayon,
07:00maraming salamat.
07:02Yeah, I'm, you know, I'm grateful.
07:07I'm grateful to all the beautiful memories,
07:12and even the not-so-beautiful memories,
07:15because it made me stronger.
07:18It made me who I am right now.
07:21Yeah.
07:22Ang hirap itong tanong!
07:24Baby, moving forward and keeping still.
07:30The only reason why.
07:31We're not going to talk about it anymore.
07:33Pero, diba, when you become still right at the present moment,
07:37and when you move,
07:39and we just move and move until you're able to move forward.
07:45Yeah.
07:46Diba?
07:47Saan ka humuhugot?
07:49In moments of confusion?
07:53Kasi hindi naman kaagad yun eh, diba?
07:55In moments of confusion,
07:57as you try to be quiet and still,
08:01and moving forward,
08:04saan ka pumupunta?
08:06Malaking bagay yung support system,
08:10my family and my friends.
08:12But also, especially on the recent one,
08:16I really made sure that mas introspective yung process.
08:24I really made sure that I reflect on the things na mga pagkakamali ko,
08:31o yung mga bagay na nakasakit ng loob ko.
08:36I guess that also made my relationship with God stronger.
08:41Because it's all about trust eh, Tito Boy.
08:47Parang I, and acceptance.
08:50First, you have to accept the current situation,
08:54the circumstances that you are in,
08:56and then trust that there will be better days.
08:59And I feel like better days,
09:01I have better days now,
09:03and I feel like there will be more better days in the future.
09:08Oo, pero kailangan talaga nun, acceptance.
09:11I like what you said, that it's also about me,
09:14about forgiving myself,
09:15about the right and the wrong that I've done.
09:18Yeah, yeah.
09:19People who've wronged me, people who've hurt me,
09:22and how I have been hurt along the process.
09:25Kasi hindi ka talaga makaka-stay in that position
09:30pag hindi buo yung meditation, your contemplation.
09:34And siguro yung, Tito Boy,
09:37yung napaka-importante to let go,
09:40and learn to walk away from the things that are really not meant for you.
09:43Have you forgiven?
09:45Who?
09:47Um, yes, I've forgiven myself, I've forgiven,
09:52I have, parang wala naman akong, are you talking,
09:57I'm sorry, I'm confused.
09:58No, I'm talking about in general.
09:59I'm talking about forgiving your ex, forgiving yourself,
10:02forgiving people, forgiving the, sabi mo nga, circumstance, forgiving.
10:06I think so, because I don't think I'll be sitting here right now
10:12and talking about these things if I'm not okay and I haven't forgiven.
10:17Kasi syempre mabigat din sa loob mo yun, diba?
10:20You carry that baggage.
10:21Exactly.
10:22But, of course, I'm not perfect.
10:26Marami paring bagay nagpapasakit at nagpapasama ng loob ko.
10:30Especially kapag may mga bagay na nasasabi tungkol sayo na hindi totoo.
10:36I know it comes with the territory,
10:38I know that we're actors, we're public figures,
10:41it's so easy to give opinions about us,
10:44but siguro, I've been here for 24 years, I've been doing this for 24 years,
10:50and I have learned to accept that,
10:53but syempre tao ka lang, nasasaktan ka pa rin,
10:56and sometimes it hurts that people forget that you're also human,
11:01and it may seem like it's entertainment for them,
11:04but for you, it's your real life, you know?
11:07Ang sarap pag-usapan.
11:09It would take more than 20 minutes to be able to talk about it,
11:12pero napakaganda puntahan.
11:17Ang sarap din tingnan ka that you're moving,
11:20I don't easily say moving on, moving forward,
11:23that you're moving, that you're moving whole.
11:28Kasi pag pinagdaanan mo ang pinagdaanan mo, tough, diba?
11:32It's really tough.
11:33But let me go to widows' war now.
11:36Kasi when you were shooting,
11:39elephant in the room kasi yung nangyari sa buhay mo, Dea,
11:43kaya kailangan may point of reference.
11:45When you're doing widows' war,
11:47that was widows' war,
11:49you were fighting another war.
11:52Ang tanong ko is, how did you survive those two wars?
11:58Ang marami mga babae, lalaki, ang nagmamasin ng pag-uusap na ito.
12:02It must not have been easy for the both of you,
12:05especially for you.
12:07How did you survive that?
12:09Of course, ang kasagutan maya maya lamang,
12:10pero kayo po mga kapuso,
12:13oras na para sumagot sa ating guests
12:16to win Question for the Day.
12:17Php28,000 po ang pwede niyong mapanalunan.
12:20Php20,000.
12:22Ipadalan niyo po lang po ang niyong sagot
12:24sa official promo website
12:25at mamaya malalaman niyo po agad
12:27kung kayo ang nanalo sa Family Feud.
12:29Abangan ang third question
12:31sa commercial break.
12:32At abangan niyo po mamaya,
12:34we have a dramatic scene
12:36with Bea Alonzo.
12:38Tingnan hun natin kung may ilalaban hun tayo
12:42kay Bea.
12:46Malalaban hun natin sa magpapalik
12:47ng Fast Talk with Boy Adidas.
12:59Kami nagbabalik kayo dito sa Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
13:02Shout out sa ating mga kababayan sa Zamboanga.
13:05Hello!
13:06Maraming maraming salamat.
13:08And I'm sure ay sumusuporta
13:10sa Widows War.
13:12Maraming maraming salamat sa amin ni Bea.
13:14Let's do Fast Talk.
13:15Yeah!
13:18Kastilyong buhangin o balay na ba to?
13:21Kastilyong buhangin.
13:22Best Iyak Award,
13:23Best Sampal Award?
13:24Best Sampal Award?
13:26Sampal ni Gene,
13:28Yakap ni Rafael.
13:29Pwede nga yakap nalang ni Rafael.
13:31Sakit talaga yung sampal ni Gene.
13:34My God!
13:35Mas maganda.
13:36Si Carla o ikaw?
13:37Si Carla.
13:38Move on, move out?
13:39Move on.
13:40Mystery or clarity?
13:41Clarity.
13:42Give or receive?
13:44Give.
13:45Wiser or sexier?
13:46Wiser.
13:47Pwede nang sexier din.
13:48Painful truth or white lie?
13:50Painful truth.
13:51Love first or respect first?
13:53Respect first.
13:54Love or war?
13:55You only say love or war.
13:57Bashers?
13:59War.
14:00Love or war?
14:01Fake news?
14:02War.
14:03Love or war?
14:04Mga marites?
14:05War.
14:06Love or war?
14:07Mga judgemental?
14:08Pwede yung love nalang?
14:10Baka sakaling pag-love.
14:12Ibalik ang love.
14:13Love or war?
14:14Your fans?
14:15Love.
14:16Love or war?
14:17Your exes?
14:19Love.
14:20Artista ang gusto mong masampal?
14:23Sino nga ba?
14:24Wala.
14:28Masasampal ko siguro,
14:29eventually, si Miss Jean din.
14:32Napakahusa eh.
14:33Nagkaroon kami ng eksena dito.
14:35Artista ang gusto mong maging best friend?
14:38Maging best friend?
14:40Ay, lahat na ng artista.
14:41Gusto mong maging best friend,
14:42naging best friend.
14:43Artista ang gusto mong makakissing scene?
14:46Ano ba yun?
14:48Wala akong maisip.
14:50Artista ang gusto mong gampanan ang buhay?
14:53Ah, wow.
14:55Parang hindi na pang fast talk.
14:57Sino bang gusto kong gampanan?
14:58Nag-level up ang fast talk ko.
15:00I know, I know.
15:01Siguro si Tita Susan Roses.
15:03Hashtag ng buhay mo ngayon?
15:05Kapit lang.
15:09Magandang title yun.
15:10To love again or to travel again?
15:12To travel again.
15:13New beginning or happy ending?
15:17Right now, new beginning.
15:18Lights on or lights off?
15:20Lights on.
15:21Happiness or chocolates?
15:23Chokolate.
15:25Best time for happiness?
15:28Anytime.
15:30One thing you are praying for?
15:33Ano ito?
15:38Happiness.
15:40Thank you, Bea.
15:41I didn't realize that, you know,
15:42one of your best friends is...
15:44Dimples.
15:45I didn't know that.
15:46I had no idea.
15:47Really?
15:48She's also very close to me.
15:49And I have so much respect and love for her.
15:53Ano ang pinakamagandang bagay na natutunan mo
15:56kay Dimples Romana?
15:59Napakadami dito, boy.
16:01Magkaibigan na kami nung two decades.
16:05Twenty-four years na ako dito sa industriya.
16:07Twenty-four years ko na siyang kaibigan.
16:12Siguro base rin sa life experiences ni Dimples.
16:15Just even by looking at her and how she still thrives
16:19and she never stops, you know.
16:22Parang siguro yung malaking natutunan ko sa kanya
16:25is that kahit na maraming binabato sayo ang buhay,
16:30you just keep going.
16:32Ako naman bilang kaibigan ni Dimples,
16:33I hope you're watching, Dimples.
16:35It's her capacity to give.
16:37Yeah.
16:39She has friends who are also my friends,
16:41like Arnold and many others.
16:44Hindi napapagod magbigay niya.
16:46I'm very thankful to my friends,
16:48Bea and Dimples,
16:49and my other friends also.
16:51But these two,
16:52kahit na anong ginagawa nila dito, boy,
16:55basta may problema ko,
16:56kailangan ko sila,
16:57they would drop it and just,
16:58alam mo yun,
16:59they would really find time to be with me.
17:03Widows War.
17:04Nagkasaba yun, halos.
17:06You're fighting two wars.
17:08Isa sa buhay mo,
17:10isa sa Widows War.
17:12How did you survive?
17:13Pinaplay ko lang yung music ni Taylor Swift,
17:15I can do it with a broken heart.
17:19Okay ka na doon?
17:21No, how did I survive two wars?
17:25The other one is a creative war, right?
17:28Which was not easy.
17:29Actually, Widows War became my outlet as well,
17:32because acting has always been my outlet
17:34when I'm going through something,
17:35or whatever it is.
17:39Feeling ko,
17:40habang umaarte ako,
17:41habang ginagampanan ko
17:43at another character,
17:45it makes me feel alive,
17:46and it makes me not think about my problems.
17:49Not that I'm escaping it,
17:50because most of the time, dito, boy,
17:52art imitates life for me.
17:54Kasi meron ding ano,
17:58proposal or whatever,
17:59dun sabi ko, talaga, ngayon natin nagawin.
18:02Hindi kayo ni Ariwala yan.
18:04No, but in terms of like,
18:05to answer your question, war,
18:07there are wars that you,
18:09I mean, ang war naman,
18:11minsan nananalo ka,
18:12sometimes you lose, sometimes you win,
18:14but you always keep going,
18:16you never stop fighting.
18:18I guess that's the most important part,
18:20is you never stop fighting.
18:22As you're saying that,
18:23I remember Meryl Streep,
18:24nung sinabi niya,
18:25take the pain and make it into art.
18:26And make it into art, exactly.
18:28Dito talaga makabuluhan yung kanyang sinabi.
18:34Now, you also talk about now,
18:36you have become more prayerful.
18:38Am I hearing you right?
18:40You've always been.
18:41I've always been very spiritual, yes.
18:43And prayerful, yeah.
18:45Okay.
18:46So, pag nating sa videos war,
18:47kasama si Carla Abelian,
18:49how is it?
18:50How was it working with Carla?
18:51First time?
18:52Sabi na, pangarap niya,
18:53makatrabaho si Bea Alonzo.
18:55Sobrang professional niya, Tito Boy,
18:57and she's so gracious,
18:59she's so, ano,
19:01I think she's a beautiful soul.
19:05She's very kind to everybody.
19:07Walang sinisino,
19:08and walang ego.
19:10Hindi mo mafe-feel talaga na,
19:13may artista vibes.
19:16Did you talk about pain?
19:19I mean, she went through a lot, also.
19:21We never really talked about it,
19:23because I don't really talk about it on set.
19:27Ah, talaga?
19:28Yeah, but I remember the first day
19:31na mag-show up kami sa set.
19:33First day ng Widows War,
19:35she messaged me.
19:38And na-appreciate ko talaga yung mga sinabi niya.
19:42Not exactly, but the message was,
19:44because that was the first time
19:46I think you were working together.
19:47It was a message to support me,
19:49and that, of course,
19:50she understands what I'm going through.
19:53Of course, I won't get into it anymore,
19:55but it was very helpful for me.
19:58Dumating at naging bisita natin
20:00ng aking kaibigan,
20:01si Jean Garcia,
20:02nasampal ka na ni Jean?
20:03Yes.
20:04Three levels talaga, Tito Boy,
20:06yung naramdaman ko after nasampal.
20:08Yung una, sakit.
20:11Pain, yung una.
20:12Yung second level, parang nananom siya.
20:15Sabi ko, oh my God,
20:17bakit ganito?
20:18Parang kumakapal yung kismi ko.
20:20Tapos yung third level,
20:22parang na siya nagpipinsan nito.
20:23Sabi ko, oh my God, parang nalaman.
20:26Tatlong level na nasampal.
20:27Pero worth it.
20:28At least ngayon masasabi ko,
20:29nasampal na ako ng isang Jean Garcia.
20:31Correct.
20:32Oo, ako yung na-antre ko pa yun.
20:33Hindi pa nangyayari dito sa FASO.
20:35But one day, Jean, we'll do it.
20:37Gusto mo ba masubukan dito, Tito Boy?
20:38Gusto mo ba masubukan?
20:39Pero medyo nakakatakot yun, diba?
20:41Pero ang galing-galing yan talaga.
20:43Especially in that scene,
20:44yung namatay niya si Paco.
20:46Oh my God.
20:47She's brilliant.
20:49Three years from now,
20:50five years from now, Bea,
20:52nasaan ka?
20:54And if you were having a dinner
20:56with two other people,
20:59nasaan ka?
21:00Sino ang kasama mo?
21:01What are you doing in that dinner?
21:02Five years from now?
21:04Wow, what a beautiful question.
21:09Kung five years, ayoko...
21:11Are you with someone?
21:13Wishful thinking.
21:16Of course,
21:18again, Tito Boy,
21:19ayoko na mag-plano.
21:20Kasi every time nagka-plano ako,
21:21hindi nyo natutuloy.
21:23Siguruhin nyo ka na because I'm such a planner.
21:27I always look forward to the future.
21:29I make sure na
21:32lahat ng decision ko sa buhay
21:34ay para sa future na pupuntahan ko.
21:37But ngayon parang natatawa ako
21:39because every time nagka-plano ako,
21:41hindi nyo gusto ni Lord.
21:43So ngayon parang,
21:44dun sa tanong mo,
21:45siguro wishful thinking.
21:47But I don't know if this happens,
21:50adi okay, masaya.
21:51Pero kung hindi, I'd still be okay.
21:53But I wish yung dalawang taong
21:55kasama ko nagdinner
21:56is that my husband and my child.
22:04God bless you.
22:05You stayed and things happened.
22:07And we're praying with you.
22:09And magpasalamat tayo.
22:10Maraming maraming salamat po
22:12mga kapusa sa pag-support na ninyo
22:14sa first week at ngayon.
22:16Ongoing ang second week ng Widows' Wire.
22:18Maraming salamat sa lahat ng magagandang reviews online
22:21and for also watching live online
22:24sa streaming ng GMA all the time.
22:26Every day.
22:27At sana wag kayong bumitaw
22:29kasi talagang maraming maraming pagmangyayari.
22:31Promise.
22:32Maraming salamat po.
22:33Goodbye for now.
22:34And God bless.