Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Carla Abellana, kumusta na matapos ma-divorce kay Tom? (Episode 370)
Aired (June 28, 2024): Kumusta na nga ba si Carla Abellana pagkatapos ng kanyang divorce sa kanyang dating asawa na si Tom Rodriguez? #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso
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00:00Today, as we call, are you happy?
00:09Yes.
00:11My smile is still beautiful. Yes, I'm happy.
00:15It was a difficult journey to get to this point.
00:19But yes, I'm definitely confident that I'm happy.
00:23Difficult to get to this point?
00:25Difficult to get, yes.
00:26A long, tedious, difficult way to get to this point.
00:31And when you connect the dots, Carla, when you look back,
00:33and you're telling yourself that self-talk is very important,
00:37God, I got to this place.
00:39Right, yes.
00:41Why? How did you get to where you are today?
00:44There are a lot of processes, a lot to go through and do.
00:48There are times when I question myself,
00:52like, how? How did I get here?
00:56I surrendered to God, and by God's grace,
01:00He brought me here.
01:03It's not that I didn't do the work that was needed
01:09to rise again, to move on, to heal, to forgive and forget.
01:15But if God and His grace are not there,
01:19I wouldn't be happy today.
01:21Have you forgiven?
01:22Definitely, yes, definitely.
01:25Have you forgotten?
01:26No, it doesn't just leave your head, your heart even,
01:34even the body, I still remember.
01:37Especially because it wasn't so long ago.
01:41Right.
01:42Where are you and Tom at this point?
01:46We are divorced.
01:48Our local court recognized it.
01:52Because it needs to be recognized.
01:54Yes, the foreign decree.
01:56So, we haven't spoken since.
01:59We haven't met or talked.
02:01He has a new girlfriend?
02:02I have no idea. According, yes, we're already dating.
02:06Or dating, I'm sorry.
02:08I don't have any updates or anything.
02:10We don't communicate anymore.
02:13The anger, how much of that is really gone?
02:21Oh, 100%.
02:23It's hard to have a little bit of anger here, right?
02:26Because life is so short.
02:28If you hold on to anger, it will just ruin you.
02:33It will manifest in your health.
02:36You will carry it.
02:38And I believe that you won't be able to move on
02:42if you still have a little bit of anger left.
02:45You said in an interview, you are ready to meet him.
02:49Well, yes.
02:50Right?
02:51Yes, correct.
02:52For example,
02:53Right, I'll be ready.
02:54You'll be ready.
02:55Right.
02:56And if you do that,
02:57He's not here.
02:58He might surprise us.
03:00If you do that, if you meet Tom,
03:03what would you tell him?
03:05I won't say anything.
03:07You wouldn't?
03:08Yes.
03:09He says hi.
03:10He says hi, for example.
03:12Maybe I'll nod.
03:14I won't even say hi back.
03:16It's not that I don't want to talk to him or what,
03:19but as much as possible,
03:21I'll avoid that.
03:23A conversation.
03:24I'll acknowledge.
03:25Yes, I'll avoid conversations.
03:27You would much prefer not to say anything.
03:29Yes, much prefer not to talk, even a small talk.
03:34In your current state,
03:35are you open to knowing?
03:39With you, for example,
03:41I thought you would feel it.
03:43Some people would be interested.
03:45Are you open to entertaining people?
03:48At this point,
03:49it's one thing that I don't really think about.
03:52Okay.
03:53Especially with the amount of work that we have,
03:55and the very little time that we have left for ourselves
03:59to rest, recover, for personal matters.
04:03It's not a priority.
04:05But with less pain, the heart opens.
04:09Oh, yes.
04:10Right?
04:11The heart opens.
04:12Are you also trying to say that,
04:14you know, I'll move with the flow?
04:16Yes.
04:17Definitely.
04:19I told myself that I don't want to close myself.
04:24I don't want to be too bitter or too angry at the world.
04:27I also don't want to be open.
04:30I don't want to look for it or chase it.
04:33Whatever comes along the way,
04:36we'll see where it will take me.
04:39Carla, what have you become because of your failed marriage?
04:45The most obvious, maybe, is stronger.
04:49What have I become?
04:51Wiser.
04:53And contradictory but vulnerable at the same time,
05:00which is still good.
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