玩交友APP就是等于在“约炮”？认识陌生人好可怕！
其实不同的交友APP也有不同的玩法面向不同人的需求，但统一都会遇到一些奇葩事件呢～
其实不同的交友APP也有不同的玩法面向不同人的需求，但统一都会遇到一些奇葩事件呢～
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00:00So have you two dated before?
00:02I've never dated before, but I've met someone who has dated before.
00:05That guy was only 17 years old.
00:07But the second time, that guy was dating her.
00:10But do you know what the premise of dating her was?
00:13She was already married.
00:20Hi, girls.
00:21Hi, I'm Vivian Liu Xiuwei.
00:23In this day and age,
00:25videos need to be watched,
00:26and fate needs to be brushed.
00:28What we're going to talk about today is dating apps.
00:32Talking about dating apps,
00:33because I haven't played it myself,
00:34so when I was looking for friends around me,
00:37a lot of people told me,
00:38huh, we haven't played it yet.
00:40Huh, I dare not go on the show.
00:42I don't have time.
00:43So when I was looking for guests,
00:44I had a headache.
00:46Finally, I decided to find two experts in dating apps to go on the show.
00:51Hello, everyone.
00:51I'm Shawn.
00:52Hello, everyone.
00:53I'm Andrea.
00:54So you two are both experts in dating apps, right?
00:58Okay.
00:59So have you two dated before?
01:02Uh, that's a hard question.
01:05I haven't dated before,
01:06but I've met someone who has dated before.
01:09He texted me and said he wanted to go on the show with me.
01:13Because for me, I haven't played it before,
01:15so a lot of people's impression of dating apps is,
01:18oh, it's a dating app.
01:20It's a stereotype.
01:21They don't think there are any other ways in it.
01:23So is there really an app for dating?
01:26I think a lot of dating apps
01:30have a stereotype of being a dating app tool.
01:33But for dating apps,
01:35I think like Facebook and Instagram,
01:38I think it's a dating app.
01:40Ah, so you can make friends.
01:42Because Facebook has a feature before.
01:46It's also a dating app, right?
01:47Yes, you can swipe left or right.
01:50But how many types of dating apps are there on the market now?
01:55I think there are a lot.
01:56If we understand it better,
01:59it should be like Tantan, Soulmate, etc.
02:01But I've played it with my friends.
02:04I understand that it's more for women.
02:06Maybe it's more understanding or friendly.
02:09There's CMB, there's Bumble, etc.
02:12CMB, coffee, meat, bagel.
02:15Oh, so are there different apps
02:18with different characteristics and characteristics?
02:20Yes.
02:21What is CMB for?
02:23It's like Tantan.
02:24And Bumble is more special.
02:27It matches your mood.
02:29You can write an article,
02:31write a little bit of your mood at the moment.
02:33And then you have the same acting as you.
02:36Or if you think this article suits you,
02:39it will recommend it to you.
02:40Ah, so it's more in-depth.
02:42Yes, yes, yes.
02:42A little bit more in-depth.
02:43So do you belong to the eye type
02:45or do you belong to the more in-depth type?
02:46I think it depends on the feeling.
02:48There are some, if it doesn't look good,
02:51if it doesn't suit my aesthetic,
02:55I think as long as I can talk to her,
02:56I'm okay with anyone who doesn't look bad.
02:59This is too general.
03:01This question is too unrealistic.
03:03Which one would you choose?
03:05Angela, you choose first.
03:06It must be the looks.
03:07But it's hard to define the looks.
03:11Ah, yes.
03:12So in the end, on social media,
03:14on the Jiayu app,
03:15I always see if the person you take pictures with
03:17looks cleaner.
03:20Ah.
03:20Do you have to tidy up a little bit
03:23and make the whole person look more decent?
03:25Then it's okay.
03:26A handsome guy will tell you that
03:2780% of the time, he's the king of the sea.
03:29The king of the sea.
03:30He's really the king of the sea.
03:31So have you met him before?
03:32Of course.
03:33As soon as he comes, he'll tell you,
03:34baby, have you eaten?
03:35Do you miss me?
03:37That kind of...
03:38Oh, no.
03:39At first, you know that this person is just playing with you.
03:42He must have a motive for you.
03:43Ah.
03:44Have you met him before?
03:45On the Jiayu app.
03:47Because I believe that everyone's photos
03:48should look better.
03:50Is there a big difference between a whole person and a photo?
03:53It depends.
03:54It depends on the person you want to take a picture with.
03:56If it's a selfie,
03:57there might be a big difference.
03:59Hmm.
03:59Usually, guys don't really put up selfies.
04:01I've met that before.
04:03And the guys will put up
04:05full-body photos,
04:06landscape photos,
04:07to take that kind of...
04:08There's a car next to it.
04:09Ah, something like that.
04:10So he doesn't seem to have that kind of
04:13photo,
04:14photo of a liar, that kind of feeling.
04:15It's hard for girls to say.
04:16Because I'm that kind of person.
04:17But for me,
04:19when I look at photos,
04:20it's usually the kind of selfie,
04:22at home,
04:23with a big mask.
04:24I'm basically not that interested.
04:26I prefer
04:27to choose,
04:29maybe
04:29he's more outgoing,
04:31like taking pictures on the street,
04:33or outside,
04:34like us,
04:35drinking tea,
04:36taking pictures that are more...
04:37Natural, casual.
04:38Yes, yes, yes.
04:39More realistic.
04:40Yes, yes, yes.
04:40More realistic.
04:41I'm more interested in this kind of photo,
04:44and then go,
04:45chat with him,
04:46or something like that.
04:46So you haven't met
04:48someone who's a lot different from the photo?
04:50I haven't met anyone yet.
04:51Yes, yes, yes.
04:52Because I have a friend who shared with me,
04:53I haven't played it,
04:54but for this episode,
04:55I thought it was quite interesting,
04:56so I asked him.
04:57He said,
04:58he's a guy,
04:59and he likes to play dating apps.
05:02And he said,
05:03one day, he saw a pretty girl,
05:04and he was like,
05:05oh, that photo is really pretty,
05:06and he showed it to me.
05:07I was like,
05:07oh!
05:08He said,
05:09when this girl came out,
05:10he was so rude,
05:12he didn't dare to refuse her.
05:13He sat down and drank tea with her.
05:16Then he asked this girl
05:16to chat with him.
05:18And the girl said,
05:19actually, a while ago,
05:20I saw a guy
05:21who was driving a sports car.
05:23I asked him out,
05:24and they came out.
05:25And when he was about to get in the car,
05:27when he was about to open the door,
05:28the sports car guy saw him,
05:30and he was like,
05:31what are you doing?
05:33He was so rude.
05:34He was too much.
05:35Yes,
05:35and I think I was like,
05:36okay, let's go out.
05:37And the guy's response was,
05:40that's right,
05:40because he lied to me.
05:42He just spent time
05:43trying to get close to the girl.
05:45You shouldn't hide and cheat.
05:48So if you meet someone
05:50who is really different from the photo,
05:51will you leave like this?
05:54We'll chat a little bit,
05:56and then when we go back,
05:57because you'll still be in touch
05:58on social media,
06:00you might say this to him,
06:01we don't want to,
06:02I don't think I'm good to you.
06:05We've talked,
06:05it's okay,
06:06let's go down the stairs.
06:07Or it's a joke.
06:10Oh, yes, it's a joke.
06:11I think I'll just disappear.
06:14When I go to the scene,
06:17I'll still talk to him,
06:19and then very soon,
06:20maybe I have something to do or something,
06:22and then we'll end the quarrel,
06:24and then we'll say goodbye.
06:26Yes,
06:27but if you play often,
06:29you'll usually understand
06:30what this means.
06:31We just don't like it.
06:34It's okay.
06:35So you're all polite.
06:37What do you two want
06:38when you play dating apps?
06:42When I was playing,
06:44it was after I finished SPM,
06:46I was very young.
06:48So young.
06:50Is there an age limit?
06:51In fact, it seems to be quite a lot.
06:53There will still be.
06:55There are still some
06:56when you have to prove your identity,
06:57or some apps,
06:59they actually want you to be
06:5918 years old before you can play.
07:01Or you can't play under 16 years old.
07:03Yes, but in fact,
07:05it's the same as before,
07:06Facebook is also talking about 18 years old.
07:08Everyone is fake.
07:10Everyone is 18 years old.
07:13So I have a friend
07:14who met a guy who had played before.
07:17She thought he was very handsome.
07:18And that guy
07:20posted a photo of his abs.
07:21He was very gay.
07:22Then she liked it very much.
07:24Then she was shocked.
07:26Then she started talking to that guy.
07:27Because my friend is one or two years younger than me.
07:30So he should be 20 years old.
07:3221 years old.
07:34Then that guy is only 17 years old.
07:36Then after that,
07:36that guy started asking her out.
07:38Then my friend said,
07:40you will come to me in the future.
07:41Just 17 years old.
07:43Because that guy hasn't had his birthday yet.
07:45He hasn't got his driver's license yet.
07:46Then when I came to him,
07:48I was like this.
07:49Then there was a driver.
07:50Do you understand?
07:52Really.
07:53There was a driver.
07:54Then in the end, they...
07:56Rich and handsome.
07:58Yes, you can say that.
07:59OK.
08:00But the funny thing is,
08:02in the end,
08:03she asked a friend to take a walk.
08:05Go to the desert park to take a walk.
08:07Then during the process of walking,
08:08it was very awkward.
08:08Because two people have nothing to say.
08:10They are all very introverted.
08:12But in the end...
08:14OK, I can do that.
08:18In the second time,
08:19that guy asked her out.
08:21But do you know what the premise of asking her out is?
08:23He said,
08:24that guy said,
08:25I slept with another girl recently.
08:2916 years old?
08:30Became one night stand.
08:32No, he...
08:33Then he told my friend that
08:34he slept with another girl.
08:36Then he asked my friend,
08:37he doesn't know how to develop with this girl now.
08:41Or how to have a follow-up story with her.
08:45My friend was really dumbfounded.
08:46Your friend might also think that
08:48this guy is not bad.
08:49Yes, yes, yes.
08:50In the end, he just took her as a friend to walk the dog.
08:52Yes, yes, yes.
08:52Instead, he walked someone else.
08:54Yes, yes, yes.
08:54Walked someone else.
08:55Then...
08:56Then when I asked her out for the second time,
08:57I also thought that my friend was walking the dog.
09:00Dumbfounded.
09:01My friend was really speechless at that time.
09:03Then your friend must be very hurt.
09:05Because it's possible,
09:06like I just asked you guys.
09:07What do you want to get there?
09:09Or your friend would want to get love.
09:12In the end, it turned out to be friendship.
09:14What about you two?
09:16Do you really want to find love on the dating app?
09:20Actually, yes.
09:21I have two people I know on the dating app.
09:24But...
09:25Is there a gap after that?
09:26Not a gap.
09:27It's not a gap.
09:28Simply separated is because I think it's inappropriate.
09:31Because...
09:33I think everyone who plays the dating app
09:34must be mentally prepared.
09:36You need to face the internet love with this person.
09:39Low-level love.
09:40Yes, you are likely to encounter this problem.
09:41Just like him,
09:43he met a Chinese girl.
09:44Yes, yes, yes, yes.
09:45There is also the possibility that foreign love is worse.
09:47So we may talk on the internet.
09:50It's okay.
09:52This is a spiritual chat.
09:54But when you meet this person in reality,
09:56you will find that
09:57he is different from what I imagined.
09:59Maybe his habits in life,
10:00some of his...
10:02and so on.
10:03I don't think it's what you want.
10:07Then you feel like to him,
10:08my filter is broken.
10:11But I can't say that
10:12dating apps can't meet true love.
10:14I can't say that.
10:15Right?
10:15It's also possible.
10:16But this is a very rare,
10:18very lucky example.
10:19Didn't you ask me just now?
10:21What is the purpose of playing the dating app?
10:23Right?
10:24I think I should find love.
10:26And then I did find my love.
10:28That's right.
10:29Really.
10:30It's just that we didn't go to the end.
10:33What about you, Sean?
10:34Actually,
10:36in the first round,
10:37I also met the dating app.
10:38And then we got together.
10:39So I think dating apps
10:41can also find love.
10:42It's just that it's really rare.
10:43Really.
10:44Because more people
10:45are really ambitious.
10:47And they may want to
10:49solve their physiological needs at the moment.
10:51I've heard from my male friends.
10:52They said that
10:53besides dating apps,
10:54the most important thing is to find a girlfriend.
10:57Second, make friends.
10:59Third, because for men,
11:00they don't lose anything.
11:02So if you want to play One Night Stand,
11:04they will say OK.
11:06For girls,
11:07they will feel that they are at a disadvantage.
11:08So I think for girls,
11:11they will want to play,
11:13but they don't dare to.
11:14They will be more careful.
11:14Yes.
11:16You will find that when girls
11:17communicate with you two,
11:20they will be very careful.
11:21They will ask you a lot of questions.
11:22But some guys are very direct.
11:24If he matches you,
11:25he will directly ask you
11:26if you are interested.
11:27He is quite direct.
11:28He is very stable.
11:29I appreciate this kind of person more.
11:31Really?
11:31Yes, because...
11:32How will you reply to him?
11:33If I'm not interested, I will reject him.
11:34Right?
11:35What I hate is that
11:36he talks to you about love.
11:38I just want to have a physical relationship with you.
11:41I don't want to waste my time and feelings.
11:43If he comes to me and says
11:44I want to play with you,
11:45that's even better.
11:46You want to have a bigger conversation.
11:47Yes.
11:48How did you start
11:49to make a good impression on each other?
11:50How did you make a good impression on each other?
11:52Let me talk about me first.
11:53Actually,
11:54I will look at the details of that person.
11:56Because I am a person who looks at constellations.
11:58So sometimes I will look at...
11:59Which constellation is not OK for you?
12:01The ones I played are all very funny.
12:02Do you understand?
12:03The ones I played are all Pisces.
12:05And they are all the same zodiac sign.
12:06So you really like romance.
12:08I don't know if I like romance or not.
12:10But if it matches me, then yes.
12:12But what about the first time?
12:14At the beginning,
12:14when you guys were chatting on apps,
12:16what was the first thing
12:17that made you feel like
12:19OK, I want to keep chatting with this person.
12:21He didn't look so down.
12:22Did you feel like, OK, let's chat.
12:24Wow, this should be from
12:25sharing or his
12:27response attitude.
12:29Because there are some attitudes
12:30that once he responds,
12:31you will feel that
12:32this person can't continue chatting.
12:33What about the metaphor?
12:34Are there any examples?
12:36There are some people who want to ask questions.
12:38It's like he's your interviewer.
12:40How old are you?
12:40Where do you live?
12:41What are you doing?
12:42Yes, this is something that
12:43is very difficult for you to continue chatting.
12:45But I found that many guys
12:46are like this,
12:47asking questions.
12:48He doesn't know what to talk to you about.
12:49He just asks you.
12:50Yes, and then the girl is very coincidental.
12:52She really hates this kind of
12:53asking questions.
12:54It's like I'm doing an interview.
12:55What is this?
12:56I'm interviewing your girlfriend, right?
12:57That kind of feeling.
12:59So we girls prefer
13:01you directly look at my interests.
13:04For example, I like to watch movies.
13:06You chat with me about movies.
13:07What movies have just been released recently?
13:09Have you watched them?
13:10What do you think?
13:11Or based on my photos,
13:12maybe I've traveled to Taiwan.
13:14Taiwan.
13:15It's obvious that I've traveled to Taiwan.
13:16Then you ask me how Taiwan is.
13:18For example.
13:19It will be better.
13:20Have you ever encountered
13:21something like this on dating apps?
13:22Because a lot of people say
13:23that it's because of love.
13:25Or there are other very special
13:28direct messages.
13:29Have you ever encountered
13:31something like this?
13:31There are all kinds of things.
13:32Yes, there are.
13:33Sometimes, dating apps
13:35are not necessarily for boys to talk to girls.
13:37Boys can also talk to boys.
13:38Then you really make friends like this.
13:40Then in the end, you make an appointment.
13:41I think it can be like
13:43maybe like a good friend or brother.
13:45Then I make an appointment with you for dinner.
13:47Then we chat.
13:48She started selling me insurance.
13:49Then did you contact her after that?
13:51No more after that.
13:52Maybe then it's over.
13:53I think there are really a lot of direct messages now.
13:55Maybe it's more serious than
13:56we are.
13:57Still serious about playing dating apps.
13:59My friend was cheated.
14:01She was cheated of 30,000 yuan.
14:03It's very exaggerated.
14:04She just talked to her boyfriend,
14:07my friend.
14:09Then they exchanged Instagram.
14:11Then my friend, you know,
14:12girls are more cautious.
14:14She looked at her Instagram.
14:15Eh, there are life photos,
14:16then there are travel photos,
14:17there are food photos,
14:18there are selfie photos.
14:19Authentic, confirmed.
14:21But let me tell you,
14:21this kind of thing is 100% made for us to see.
14:23No IP, right?
14:24Yes, no IP.
14:25Yes, yes, yes.
14:26For example, my quality of life is very good.
14:28I am very rich.
14:29Then I am very good-looking and have a good figure.
14:31After that, my friend told me
14:34why she believed him.
14:35It's because she had a video call with him.
14:37Yes, she thought this person must be 100% real.
14:40My real wife has appeared.
14:42Yes, and then she lied to him to invest.
14:44Ah, for example,
14:45I invest 100 yuan and give you 1,000 yuan.
14:47She thought she made it.
14:48She kept investing.
14:50That's why she lost so much.
14:52But she told me that
14:52when she was on the phone,
14:54her picture was very lagging.
14:57I told her it might be AI.
14:59Yes, it's AI.
15:01Yes, so it's a fraud now.
15:02It's even worse now.
15:03It's terrible.
15:04Should I play it or not?
15:06You can play it,
15:07but you have to follow a rule.
15:08You can cheat my feelings,
15:10but you can't cheat my money.
15:11Ah, okay, okay.
15:13This way, it might be easier for you to live.
15:15But actually, when I play dating apps,
15:18when I first started playing,
15:19I was also afraid of being cheated,
15:21or being cheated of money,
15:23or being cheated of feelings.
15:24But I think when I dared to play,
15:26I thought when I decided to play,
15:29I already knew that there might be a risk.
15:31So I have to be careful
15:33and take precautions.
15:36I think the internet is very convenient now.
15:38You can find some love frauds
15:41or traps everywhere.
15:42While it's convenient,
15:43we have to protect ourselves.
15:45You can find your fun on it.
15:47Of course, I also hope that
15:48while it's convenient,
15:49you can find a lot of new friends.
15:50Of course, you can also find true love.
15:52Do you have any dating apps
15:54that have weird or interesting things
15:56or unforgettable things?
15:57If you find true love,
15:58please leave a comment below to share with us.
15:59See you in the next video.
16:01Let's get higher and higher together.
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