【人生方程式】EP2:Ms PuiYi自曝30岁前要退休！转型期商家不敢用?! 被父母误会长达2年｜公开约会对象的条件
从默默无名到国际型巡演艺人Ms PuiYi到底成长的一路上经历了什么？
电脑被入侵遭父母、朋友误会多年？经历合伙人诈骗，这些经历是否成就了如今的Ms PuiYi呢？
电脑被入侵遭父母、朋友误会多年？经历合伙人诈骗，这些经历是否成就了如今的Ms PuiYi呢？
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00:00At that time, my target was to retire by the age of 30.
00:05Actually, at that time, my parents didn't understand that my computer was stolen.
00:10At that time, I just had to deal with the problem.
00:12Then I gave people a misunderstanding for two years.
00:14At the age of 60, it's actually good to find a 20-year-old wife, you know?
00:20Life motto is a different philosophy of life.
00:22Hello, I'm Li Qiang.
00:23You should feel the excitement in my heart.
00:25I am very excited now.
00:27Because I'm with an international superstar.
00:31Miss Puiyi, who is beautiful and intelligent.
00:33Little Puiyi.
00:35Hello, everyone. I'm Miss Puiyi.
00:37I know you've been working hard to appear in podcasts and people's money recently.
00:43You've been gone for a while.
00:45Are you actually the kind of person who doesn't want to appear in people's money without a change?
00:49Yes, but I've been on tour all year round.
00:53So I haven't had a chance to appear in front of the audience all year round.
00:56But I've been free recently, so I'm back.
00:58Yeah, but it's only a little while, right?
01:01Yes, so I was a little free at the beginning of the year.
01:04Then I got the direction for PJ.
01:08And of course, I released several songs.
01:10Yeah, when all is said and done, you know I gotta follow my instincts.
01:14I'm not gonna lie next year.
01:16If you lie to me, baby, honestly, it's better than this.
01:20Said that you would never leave.
01:22Now I can see there might be something wrong with you and me.
01:25So it's a little loose at the end of this year.
01:28OK, let's talk about what you think about the base of your roots in front of people.
01:35I think a lot of people had a different image of me before.
01:40Because I rarely appeared on the screen,
01:43doing podcasts or interviews.
01:45Except since last year, I've been getting more and more of these things.
01:49So maybe this year you guys
01:51just saw that my time is actually very full.
01:55For example, as you said, I'm studying.
01:57I'm in my second semester now.
01:58I'll graduate in one more semester.
02:00So maybe next year, around March or February, I'll be wearing a private cap.
02:05And DJ, he's also been on tour for a year.
02:08So I hope at the end of this year,
02:10I'll be able to see a lot of shows and festivals.
02:12Because the peak season is coming.
02:13So I hope at the end of the year, I can show you guys
02:15my year-on-year progress.
02:17The festival is getting bigger and bigger.
02:18I hope I can keep pushing the Malaysian flag out there.
02:22And of course, artists, you don't have to watch it.
02:23Slowly, slowly, I'm also filming.
02:25Recently, I've seen a lot of people.
02:26I recently went to learn martial arts or something like that.
02:28I'm studying.
02:29So you're actually studying to do this.
02:32Do you want to be like some people who don't think highly of you?
02:36Do you think you used to be known as sexy?
02:40Do you want to do a demonstration for those people?
02:42This was last December.
02:44I was in the middle of skiing.
02:46And then most of the things were cleared.
02:48Because it's the end of the year, it's cleared.
02:50And then my friend asked me at that time.
02:51Hey, what are your plans for next year?
02:53It's the meaning of this year.
02:54And then at that time, I thought, I want to study.
02:56And then I really went to enroll in school.
02:58Because I think,
03:00as a DJ, I've slowly adapted to that life.
03:02And then my stamina has slowly built up.
03:05I can have that resistance and I can escape like this.
03:09After my body can slowly adapt,
03:11I want to add more things to it.
03:13My personality is like this.
03:14When I'm comfortable with one thing,
03:16I'll add more and add more.
03:19You won't give up the original?
03:20I want to challenge the limits of a human being.
03:23So you don't have a kind of pressure to give up?
03:26Yes, there are a lot of times.
03:29I think how I build my mental strength is
03:32there may be mistakes.
03:33Sometimes I feel like giving up.
03:36Sometimes I'm really tired.
03:38But you have to force yourself.
03:40You have to deal with your body like an athlete.
03:44That is to say, one more hour,
03:46push down, push down.
03:47And then maybe after that time,
03:48your body will slowly become immune.
03:51You will have a kind of resistance.
03:53I can hold on to it.
03:54I can get over this hurdle.
03:56Yes.
03:57How do you do it?
03:58While chasing your ideal,
04:01at the same time dealing with the other side.
04:03Everyone keeps attacking you.
04:05It gives you a lot of negative energy.
04:07I really built it up slowly.
04:09When I first debuted,
04:12I didn't have so much positive energy or so much strength.
04:15My heart was completely OK.
04:18Then slowly, slowly, with time,
04:19slowly, slowly, with energy,
04:21layer by layer,
04:22I built it up.
04:23Can you share with us
04:26the experience of having one or two blows
04:30and almost crushing your last straw?
04:34There were two times.
04:35In my seven years of career,
04:38there were two times.
04:39I think it's really the bottom of the valley.
04:41I personally think it's really the bottom of the valley.
04:43The first time was when I just started my debut.
04:45I think everyone has had this hard experience.
04:47I went to a show or something like that.
04:53I've already done my job.
04:54But maybe I did a lot of work.
04:58Maybe the schedule was full.
05:00But maybe you see that the account is still like this.
05:04Then you ask yourself what you are doing at that time.
05:06There will be a feeling of what you are doing.
05:10That's the lowest.
05:11So at that time, there was no negative language criticism.
05:15But I think I've been working so hard for a long time.
05:18The result is that the account looks like this.
05:21It's like this from the beginning.
05:23This is when I first debuted.
05:25The second time I felt this
05:28when I rushed down is
05:30because people can't always go up.
05:32You must fall once.
05:34Maybe last year,
05:36I remember when I just transferred.
05:38I just transferred from zero to zero.
05:41It started from zero.
05:42Something started from zero.
05:45At that time, when I was a DJ,
05:46a lot of people were really curious.
05:49Because I really haven't played a song.
05:50I really haven't played a song yet.
05:51So they don't understand if it sounds good or not.
05:55They don't understand anything.
05:55Then you have to start from zero.
05:58I remember when I entered the world of music
06:00or when I was an artist,
06:01I told everyone
06:03that you don't have to love me.
06:05Just pretend I'm a new person.
06:06From zero.
06:07If it's not good, just say it.
06:09But the embarrassing thing is
06:11that you will have an embarrassing point.
06:14For example, you start from zero.
06:15Maybe you...
06:17It's not that everyone doesn't know you.
06:19Maybe a few people know you.
06:21So maybe you go to a certain festival
06:23or a certain occasion
06:23or on a certain stage.
06:26You will have two very strange fan bases.
06:30One is
06:31Oh, I don't know him.
06:32Oh, it sounds good.
06:33Oh, okay, good.
06:34A new person.
06:35Then the other one is
06:37Hey, why did you show up at this occasion?
06:39What's going on?
06:41Oh, it's really like this.
06:42Because
06:43You are now at a very embarrassing point.
06:45You say you are completely from zero.
06:46It's not me.
06:48You are completely buried here.
06:49You are in the middle.
06:50You don't need us to record.
06:51It's the hardest.
06:52Then
06:52A whole year.
06:53He used me for a whole year.
06:54How did you adjust this mood?
06:56I will tell myself
06:56that everyone will start from zero for a period of time.
07:00No matter how you start,
07:02you will always start from zero.
07:03No one is born to know everything.
07:07Then the second is
07:08as long as you are not afraid
07:10Don't care so much about material things.
07:13Of course, maybe you can afford some things to a certain extent.
07:16OK, so I can reward myself.
07:19Because I said that what I got today
07:20may be hard to get.
07:22But if one day I need to start from zero
07:24If I start from the bottom
07:26I can
07:27Can you give an example?
07:28For example, if you have ten shops,
07:30In fact, at that time
07:31Willing to use yours
07:32Actually, after the transformation, I remember
07:36Everyone is watching
07:38It may be one or two
07:39Oh, really
07:40It's really one or two
07:41I just debuted at that time.
07:42Indeed, the first four months
07:44Because you are new
07:46This is a new marketing limit
07:47Many people treat you right
07:49But after four months
07:51It's been a year
07:53How do you prove it this year?
07:55They won't treat you as a newcomer anymore
07:57They will ask you
07:58OK, how are your visuals?
07:59Because you are really now
08:00Because you are embarrassed
08:01You can't be in their eyes
08:03You are a freshman who is completely new to zero
08:05They will say wrong
08:06Your number and your price are wrong
08:09We can't treat you like this
08:10I can't spoil you
08:12So they will directly criticize you
08:13Your visuals are wrong
08:14Although you just debuted less than half a year
08:16But they will still criticize you like this
08:18So of course you compare with them
08:20Maybe a DJ with more than ten years of experience
08:22That kind of international DJ
08:24So you have to play this game with them
08:27Not just visuals
08:28Your stage performance
08:30Your stage presence
08:31Your run down
08:33So of course they will also judge your crew
08:35Will you schedule these
08:36All of them have been through
08:37So you have to finish this thing very quickly
08:40So you prove that
08:41You can do a lot of things
08:42You persisted silently
08:44Keep giving you the best side
08:46So let them say
08:47Originally at the beginning
08:48I was willing to open my hands to welcome you
08:52I think everything has to come from this
08:54You can't say
08:55Turn around
08:56Oh yeah, it's easy
08:57Oh, it's easy to turn around
08:57You have to persist in that process
08:59Yes
08:59There will actually be some
09:01Rebounding voice
09:02When you don't perform for others
09:05Will have
09:07How do you determine your own awakening at that time?
09:10I think this is the journey
09:12And the beauty of the journey
09:14It's true that no one can write a guarantee
09:17Even if you are not a god
09:18You don't know tomorrow
09:19Whether you are really following you
09:22It's really OK
09:22No
09:23So you can only believe in yourself
09:25And you can only be
09:26Your trust must be very strong
09:29Can't waver
09:30Because if you waver
09:31You will start to doubt yourself
09:32You will also doubt yourself
09:34Yes
09:35Is this right?
09:36Should I give up?
09:37It seems wrong
09:39If you do this, you will become self-defeating
09:41So you have to insist on believing
09:43You have to be very stubborn
09:44I insist on believing
09:46You used a very good word
09:48Stubborn
09:49You have to be persistent
09:51Yes
09:51You can say that
09:52The second is that your mind cannot be changed
09:55Because some people may be
09:57You may start from zero
09:58Maybe you reach a point
09:59You feel comfortable at this point
10:01Then you will gradually change here
10:02You dare not
10:03But maybe there is another opportunity
10:05He asked you if you dare to gamble again
10:09It depends on yourself at that time
10:10So I will make sure
10:12No matter how high I climb
10:13I still have to humble myself
10:15So I'm a bit harsh to myself
10:17This is true
10:17I will be very harsh to myself
10:19You have been talking about one more point since just now
10:21Always return to your heart
10:23Deepest
10:24Then take care of yourself
10:26At that moment
10:27I am very confident
10:28So the negative influence outside
10:30Affects you
10:31Then even if you don't need a lot
10:34Maybe parents or elders
10:35Even managers
10:36Then give you a lot of advice
10:37Actually it's okay
10:39Because I am used to being misunderstood
10:42Actually at that time
10:43After my computer was stolen
10:45My parents don't understand
10:47I just had to deal with the problem at that time
10:49Then I misunderstood for two years
10:51My friends actually don't understand
10:52My parents really don't understand
10:54How do they understand
10:55They really read the newspaper
10:57So they actually misunderstood me for two years
10:58My friend also misunderstood me for two years
11:00So actually you think about it
11:01I have been used to being misunderstood for five years by one person
11:04Used to being misunderstood
11:07So hard
11:09That's it
11:10So actually you will not believe people anymore
11:13I will believe
11:14For example, let's dig back a little bit
11:16That news
11:17Recently your male voice partner
11:19Then he took away 4.3 million
11:22This matter
11:22Then actually you won't feel
11:25Yes, but this kind of thing
11:27You can't blame anyone, right?
11:30So you won't blame yourself
11:31You won't feel that my life is like this
11:33No, the reason is because I didn't deal with it emotionally
11:37I use rational
11:38This is really in business
11:41Of course I didn't say that lying is right
11:43I didn't say that this kind of thing is common
11:45I don't want it to be common
11:46But it is indeed in the business world
11:48There are many different battlefields
11:50Every day is a battlefield
11:52Every day is a different battlefield
11:53Then this kind of thing is really common
11:55Maybe it happened to me
11:57But maybe it happened to me very early
11:59So I can go back to the hospital and go back to school very early
12:02Then go through it again
12:03You have a good mentality
12:04So you think it seems to be a very early period
12:08Let me find out that I learned this lesson
12:10I won't repeat it in the future
12:12I won't meet again
12:13My self-healing is very fast
12:16I haven't finished yet
12:18Still healing
12:21In fact, have you ever thought of
12:23Let you have one more very close
12:25For example, boyfriend or husband
12:28Then let you come together
12:30Is it a more difficult road?
12:32Of course I hope
12:33But as I said just now
12:36Sometimes this kind of thing is really desirable
12:39I also hope that someone can
12:40When I sit down
12:41Don't talk about boyfriends and girlfriends
12:42Maybe it's a friend
12:44Maybe today we really met for the first time
12:46Just pretend to be a listener
12:49I also hope that when I sit down
12:51You will listen and you will understand
12:54Maybe we are all the same
12:55You understand
12:56I really went through this alone for five or six years
12:59Not because I am responsible
13:01It's because there are so many factors that make me like this
13:03Then you really understand
13:05Maybe your eyes have seen so much with me
13:07You think this kind of thing happens a lot
13:10Maybe after I told you
13:11We also talk about some business related things
13:14Then everyone understands
13:15So it's hard to find that listener
13:19So it's not desirable
13:20The current state is
13:21I hope to find it
13:23But this kind of thing is really
13:24Do you feel that you must get rid of Internet celebrities?
13:27Because everyone is in this field
13:30Maybe it's all very constructive
13:33That position is not easy to communicate
13:35There are two things I want to say
13:38Just to be honest
13:39The first is that I have indeed taught my current boyfriend
13:43There will be two questions I found
13:45The first is that everyone's field may not be the same
13:48Because in the past, if I only did Internet celebrities
13:50Then our world is the same
13:51But now I am really a touring artist
13:54So touring artists have a lot of times
13:56Many people will misunderstand
13:57Not just boyfriend or something
13:59They think
14:00Get on stage, put on makeup, get off stage
14:02In fact, if everyone has debuted
14:04It's really hard to understand that period
14:05Because you really don't have a live
14:06You just get up and put on makeup
14:08Then you fly
14:09Or take a bus or something
14:10Then maybe you schedule a run down
14:12Then you rehearse
14:13Rehearse and go back to dinner at night
14:15Then go straight to the stage at night
14:16Come back to the stage and sleep
14:17Sleep and fly directly
14:18Next city next city
14:19So you really don't have friends
14:20I don't have much time
14:22Then it's hard to understand everyone's world
14:25The second is
14:28I found that people are used to it now
14:30Really very open-minded
14:33So it's really hard to communicate
14:37It will be a bit difficult to communicate
14:38So the next goal may really be
14:40Behind the scenes
14:41Maybe it's behind the scenes
14:42Outsiders
14:43Inside or outside the circle is also OK
14:46May also come into contact with people from different worlds
14:48But I found that it really takes
14:50Certain maturity
14:51With a certain degree of stability to handle
14:54In fact, I am still very open to the idea of dating
14:56Younger
14:57I think I'm OK
14:58I really didn't do anything
14:59I can also go on a date
15:00Maybe at present
15:01Maybe it's a business or something
15:02I'm OK
15:03The key is thinking
15:04He is not mature
15:05But this kind of thing is two ways
15:08I'm OK
15:09But do you accept
15:10I spend most of my time touring
15:12So when I'm touring
15:13I hope you don't talk nonsense
15:14The next three to five years of this plan
15:17Actually still in the career
15:18Three years of career
15:21Actually, I gave myself a target at that time
15:24I hope to be 30 years old
15:25I can retire
15:27That's why I work very hard
15:29Then many people will think
15:30Not so hard
15:31Is it because I'm happy?
15:33Actually not
15:35I can say
15:37Maybe last year or this year
15:40I can be happy
15:41But the point is
15:42The promise I made to myself
15:46I didn't plan to make myself happy
15:48Just live freely
15:49No, I hope my next generation
15:52They can go to the university they want to go to
15:55Because my mother didn't go to this university
15:57I hope you can go to this university
15:59Because when you go to this university
16:00Your friends will be different
16:02As long as you come out to work
16:03You will be much more comfortable
16:04You don't have to work so hard
16:06Then maybe you
16:07Because I am very open-minded
16:11I have told a man
16:12If one day I get married
16:15Will we get divorced?
16:16I really don't know
16:17Because I still have a very western culture
16:19I'm talking about
16:21You and I
16:22Our children
16:22We must have a trust fund
16:24We must have a trust fund
16:26He bought it when he was 18
16:27This trust fund money belongs to him
16:29At least he can study
16:32He doesn't have to bother about anything
16:34So maybe when we were
16:36Everyone has their own things to worry about
16:37He is also ok
16:39So many people will think
16:40Why am I talking about trust funds?
16:42It's because my planning is very far
16:44I think very far
16:45So I hope my soul mate will understand
16:48He won't be the first to judge
16:49Why is it like this?
16:50No
16:51Indeed
16:52If we were 18 years old
16:53We just graduated
16:54We have a trust fund
16:55This is much more comfortable
16:56We are also much more comfortable
16:57Yes
16:58Great
16:58Thank you for sharing so much with us today
17:01Then I also wish you
17:02Whether it's career or love
17:04Can both win and win
17:06Ok
17:06Then welcome everyone to continue to pay attention to Life Diagrams
17:10Because the next issue will continue to give you different life philosophies
17:14Remember to pay attention to our show Chinese
17:18Because we will share a lot with you through IG, FB, Tiktok, Xiaohongshu
17:22We will share a lot of content with you
17:25And topics you can participate in
17:27Thank you again, Ms. Puyi
17:29Yeah, thank you
17:30Thank you
17:37Hello
17:37Hello Puyi
17:38Yes
17:39We now invite you to complete the 10-second challenge
17:42Ok
17:43Yes
17:44Ok
17:44So we want to ask you
17:46If you can choose
17:47Do you want to be a man or a woman?
17:49Why?
17:50I will choose to be a girl
17:52I wanted to be a boy a while ago
17:53But forget it
17:54I think I'm doing well as a girl
17:55My career is not bad now
17:59Ok
18:00Thank you Puyi
18:01Thank you Puyi
18:03I think I want to be a man when I'm in the end of my life
18:07No
18:08If I were a boy
18:09You know I can get married at the age of 80
18:11Then if I were a boy
18:1260 years old
18:13Actually find a 20-year-old wife to marry
18:15The second reason is that I don't like sales
18:17Actually I can be a salesperson
18:19But maybe you do it
18:20I have been doing it for 5 years, 5, 6 years
18:21I'm tired of it
18:23I think this kind of life is more perfect