Bushra Ansai Khud Ko khush qismat kiyu Samajhti Hain...? Bushra Ansari Reveals
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Bushra Ansai Khud Ko khush qismat kiyu Samajhti Hain...? Bushra Ansari Reveals
Bushra Ansai Khud Ko khush qismat kiyu Samajhti Hain...? Bushra Ansari Reveals
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00:00You did a great job. Then I was watching your unparalleled energy.
00:05You have also done 60 episodes of dramas. It is fantastic.
00:09But the 21-year-old Bushra who had come to Karachi,
00:13what advice would you give her today?
00:17That 21-year-old, 22-year-old young girl.
00:20What would you advise her in retrospect, looking back?
00:22Actually, I don't think I can advise somebody.
00:24Everyone has their own circumstances. I think I have been so lucky.
00:28I am more fortunate than talented.
00:32Because I got a lot of good opportunities.
00:34I met a lot of good people.
00:36I met a lot of good colleagues.
00:38And I met a lot of good directors.
00:39Who didn't let me sit.
00:41Somebody said, sing a song. So I sang a classical song.
00:44Somebody said, do this funny work. So I did that.
00:46Somebody said, do this serious play.
00:48I used to sing jingles.
00:51When I came to Karachi in the beginning,
00:53I used to do live shows in the evening.
00:56Anwar Sahab, Alamgir, Moeen Akhtar.
00:58There was a time when I didn't come.
01:00So I had so many opportunities.
01:02I got so many opportunities.
01:04So I consider myself lucky in that regard.
01:06There are other talented people.
01:08But no one gets a chance.
01:10But at that time, that 21-year-old girl must have made some mistakes.
01:12She must have been overwhelmed.
01:14Her life concept must have been different.
01:16Or she must have had unnecessary attention.
01:18Or she must have been worried about something.
01:20Which now, retrospectively, you say, don't worry about this.
01:22Just focus on this. Is there anything like that?
01:25It depends on the situation of an individual.
01:27For example, when I came,
01:29there was a 1.5-year-old girl in my lap.
01:31And when I came, she was married.
01:33And everyone was calling me sister-in-law, sister-in-law.
01:35Everyone was calling me sister-in-law, sister-in-law.
01:37So no one ever attacked me mentally.
01:39I never felt that way.
01:41No one bothered me.
01:43So I say that someone's marriage is difficult.
01:45Someone's marriage is bad.
01:47Everybody has their own set of challenges.
01:49You see a positive element in that.
01:51I was protected for so many years.
01:54Because somebody was with me.
01:56So that's a good thing.
01:58I never had any kind of trouble.
02:00And the entire television family was our family.
02:02And our friends, like Behrooz, Javed, Shafi,
02:04they were all unmarried boys.
02:06And we were married.
02:08We had a child in our house.
02:10Our apartment was small.
02:12They all used to come.
02:14We used to eat food.
02:16Whatever was cooked at our house.
02:18And we used to play music and start a dance party.
02:20So their girlfriends also used to come.
02:22We are still thankful to God.
02:24Qazi Wajid was there.
02:26There were a lot of great artists.
02:28And I was going to say,
02:30you mentioned your colleagues.
02:32Salim Nasir, Qazi Wajid, Mohin Akhtar,
02:34Teez Kabadia, Talat Hussain,
02:36Mustansar, Tahira Wasti, Shafi Muhammad.
02:38Some of them are still here.
02:40Some of them have left.
02:42What did you learn from all of them?
02:44And what do you remember?
02:46These are some really big names.
02:48There was a lot.
02:51Tahira Wasti was older than me.
02:53She was in advertising.
02:55I didn't have any exposure.
02:57I got married while doing BA.
02:59I had a child.
03:01She did some ads for me.
03:03She did modelling for calendars.
03:05She used to take us to parties.
03:07I used to see big people.
03:09There was a party going on.
03:11We didn't have any exposure.
03:13Qazi Wajid used to love us a lot.
03:15Sometimes he used to interrupt us.
03:17But mostly he used to say,
03:20Wow.
03:22Subhani Byunus.
03:24Talat was so great.
03:26I did my first play with Talat.
03:28I think it was my second or third play.
03:30In Islamabad.
03:32Talat never imposed
03:34that he is a bigger artist than me.
03:36Or that I am not like him.
03:38Everyone welcomed me so warmly
03:40that I couldn't understand
03:42what happened even if I made a mistake.
03:44Latif Kabadia was like a father to me.
03:46He loved me a lot.
03:49He was a social worker.
03:51There are no such people now.
03:53He was like my father.
03:55He was an Aries.
03:57He used to get out of the car
03:59and control the traffic.
04:01Or if there was a problem
04:03with the bulb in the pole,
04:05he used to call the SC and ask
04:07why the bulb didn't get fixed.
04:09Now no one has time
04:11and no one listens to anyone.
04:13He was an exemplary person.
04:15I learned a lot from him.
04:18Whatever you can do
04:20at your age
04:22and want to do,
04:24it is very important
04:26to talk politely
04:28and not use such words.
04:30I don't criticize children
04:32but there is a normal diction
04:34in which a name is taken
04:36and a word is used.
04:38They don't even know
04:40what it means.
04:42We didn't have this opportunity
04:44and neither did our families.
04:46We used to think
04:48that they are great people
04:50and we are with them.
04:54I will get to that.
04:56But is there anything
04:58that you have learned
05:00from your colleagues
05:02some who are alive
05:04some who are not
05:06that shaped your decision
05:08or the way you make your choices
05:10or how you lived your life?
05:12I think all the good things
05:15that I have learned
05:17are positivity
05:19and giving warmth
05:21to the next generation.
05:23I felt like
05:25everyone took me in their arms
05:27when I came here.
05:29I didn't have any relatives
05:31or in-laws in Karachi.
05:33I had this family
05:35and the positivity
05:37that I got here
05:39was always with me.
05:41I realized that
05:44You were younger than them
05:46except your mother
05:48but the rest of them
05:50are all seniors.
05:52Did anyone scold you
05:54or teach you anything?
05:56No.
05:58Salim Nasir felt bad
06:00but I didn't say anything.
06:02It was just a personal matter.
06:04He got angry
06:06and shouted at me.
06:08I didn't react
06:10like a witch
06:13I just kept quiet.
06:15I didn't say anything.
06:17This was after Angan Tera.
06:19I was 27 at that time.
06:21I had two kids
06:23but I didn't speak in front of them.
06:25I just got angry
06:27and I stopped talking to them.
06:29When we were transferred to Islamabad
06:31I went to meet everyone in the studio.
06:33They were loosing their lives
06:35so I went and hugged them.
06:37I asked them to forgive me
06:39and go and pray in the mosque.
06:42When I met my younger daughter
06:44she told me that
06:46my mother is very bad
06:48and she doesn't talk to me.
06:50When I met her in Islamabad
06:52in 1989
06:54I was really shocked
06:56and I thanked God
06:58that I convinced her.
07:00We never fought
07:02but we used to fight
07:04when two people shout at each other.
07:06We were not the shouting generation
07:08but the tolerating generation.
07:10If you were in today's generation
07:12you would have tweeted
07:14or started a trend.
07:16We have heard
07:18that there is a cat fight.
07:20I don't know how people fight.