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Mối tình đầu bị cha mẹ ngăn cản năm 17 tuổi kết quả ngọt vào năm 18 tuổi khi cả 2 có đứa con đầu tiên. Mẹ chồng không chấp nhận, chồng theo Loan Anh về ở rể. Cuộc sống êm đềm bỗng "nổi bão giông" khi mẹ mất vì đột quỵ, ba tình trạng sức khỏe đi xuống. Phải bương chãi để kiếm thu nhập và tiếp nhận quán bún bò của mẹ. Áp lực kinh tế, công việc dần lớn hơn. Hôn nhân thời gian đầu ổn định. Cho tới khi mang bầu bé thứ 2, Loan Anh sụp đỗ khi hết lần này tới lần khác phát hiện chồng ngoại tình. Hiện tại cảm thấy hối hận vì ngày trước cãi lời cha mẹ để bước vào cuộc hôn nhân khi còn quá trẻ. Mong muốn các bạn trẻ hiện nay nên suy nghĩ kỹ trước khi đưa ra quyết định lớn trong cuộc đời.
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Bước Qua Cánh Cửa là chương trình truyền hình thực tế. Nơi diễn ra cuộc trò chuyện của những khách mời cùng nghệ sĩ Xuân Hương chia sẻ câu chuyện, kỉ niệm, giá trị rút ra của một câu chuyện về những dấu mốc bước ngoặt lớn trong cuộc đời như: li hôn, biến cố lớn về sức kkhỏe sinh tử li biệt....
Mối tình đầu bị cha mẹ ngăn cản năm 17 tuổi kết quả ngọt vào năm 18 tuổi khi cả 2 có đứa con đầu tiên. Mẹ chồng không chấp nhận, chồng theo Loan Anh về ở rể. Cuộc sống êm đềm bỗng "nổi bão giông" khi mẹ mất vì đột quỵ, ba tình trạng sức khỏe đi xuống. Phải bương chãi để kiếm thu nhập và tiếp nhận quán bún bò của mẹ. Áp lực kinh tế, công việc dần lớn hơn. Hôn nhân thời gian đầu ổn định. Cho tới khi mang bầu bé thứ 2, Loan Anh sụp đỗ khi hết lần này tới lần khác phát hiện chồng ngoại tình. Hiện tại cảm thấy hối hận vì ngày trước cãi lời cha mẹ để bước vào cuộc hôn nhân khi còn quá trẻ. Mong muốn các bạn trẻ hiện nay nên suy nghĩ kỹ trước khi đưa ra quyết định lớn trong cuộc đời.
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00:00My husband's mother-in-law didn't agree and said that she wasn't sure if he was your son.
00:15I was so doubtful, so I acted as if I was controlling him.
00:20I think it was partly because of that, so we had some conflicts.
00:25One time, he went out in the middle of the night, and I was so hungry that I asked him to buy me something to eat.
00:36I couldn't eat, so I threw up.
00:38He didn't answer my texts, and he didn't answer my calls.
00:41Every time he went out, I had to look for him.
00:43I had to park my car and look for him.
00:45That's why he locked the door.
00:46I didn't know what to do.
00:48At 3 or 4 o'clock, I started calling my father.
00:52Ladies and gentlemen, I'm so happy to be back on the show, Step Over The Door.
01:00The show, Step Over The Door, is a show where we bring you the life experiences,
01:07the difficult situations in life that each person has to go through in order to live an optimistic life.
01:19Today, we'd like to introduce you to another person.
01:23She's a very young girl.
01:25She was born in 1994.
01:27This is Loan Anh.
01:28Hello, everyone.
01:31My name is Nguyen Loan Anh, and I'm 30 years old.
01:35I'm currently living in Phu Nhuan.
01:38How is your life?
01:40How is your situation?
01:41Currently, I'm a single mom.
01:44Raising two kids is very difficult.
01:46I have to work and raise two kids at the same time.
01:49I used to live in a market and raise two kids.
01:52I'm living with my grandmother and my aunt.
01:55My grandmother helps me.
01:57I just got married, so I don't have money to pay for her tuition.
02:01My grandmother is the one who helps me.
02:07How is your story?
02:08How did you meet your husband?
02:10When I was still in school,
02:12I was with my best friend.
02:14When I was hanging out with my friends,
02:18my husband was already in school.
02:20He was working at a restaurant.
02:22I was hanging out with my friends,
02:26and I met my husband.
02:28But when I saw his face,
02:30I hated him.
02:32I didn't like a guy who was always on his phone.
02:36I didn't like a guy who was always on his phone.
02:41Do you have a similar story?
02:45Yes, I do.
02:46When I was hanging out with my friends,
02:48I asked my husband to hang out with me.
02:50When I was hanging out with my friends,
02:52I didn't like him, so I didn't ask him to hang out with me.
02:55I asked him to hang out with me.
02:57When I was hanging out with my friends,
02:59we didn't talk much,
03:01but we had similar opinions.
03:04We got used to each other.
03:07What did you get used to?
03:09We got used to each other.
03:11I hated his face,
03:13but when we talked,
03:15he was very gentle.
03:19How long did you talk to him regularly?
03:26After we hang out,
03:28we talked on the phone.
03:31We didn't talk much.
03:33How long did you get married?
03:35To be honest,
03:37we didn't get married
03:39because my parents didn't accept it.
03:41I was young and in love.
03:45I dated him when I was 18.
03:48A year later, I had a baby.
03:52I talked to his mother,
03:54but she didn't accept it.
03:56Why didn't your parents accept it?
04:00They didn't accept it
04:03because they loved me.
04:06His mother was the only one
04:08who listened to his parents.
04:10His parents didn't like my friend.
04:14My friend's parents were from Australia,
04:18so they hated the other family.
04:21When I hung out with my friend,
04:23I hated him.
04:25You hated him?
04:26Yes.
04:27You didn't know what he was like?
04:29I didn't like him at all.
04:31How did your family react
04:34when you gave birth?
04:36I talked to my husband first.
04:38He told me to talk to my mother.
04:40I didn't know what my husband said,
04:43but my mother-in-law didn't agree.
04:45She said she wasn't sure
04:47if I was her child.
04:49It made me feel like I was being bullied.
04:52Luckily, my mother-in-law
04:54encouraged me.
04:56My mother-in-law said
04:58if I was pregnant,
05:00she would take care of me.
05:02My husband stayed with me.
05:04My mother-in-law took care of me.
05:06Did you get married?
05:08No, because I was pregnant.
05:11What did you do?
05:14Did you help your parents
05:16to open a restaurant?
05:18Yes.
05:19I stayed at home
05:21to help my mother.
05:23My husband was studying
05:25at that time.
05:27He was studying to be a driver.
05:29Did you open your own restaurant?
05:31No, my husband was studying.
05:33He was studying and working.
05:37Were you happy
05:39with your life?
05:41I was very happy
05:43when I had my first baby.
05:45My husband started to change.
05:47I hung out with my friends
05:49and texted my daughter.
05:51I just texted her
05:53and didn't hang out with her.
05:55He took me everywhere.
05:57Did you change
05:59when you texted her?
06:01I found out
06:03and apologized to her.
06:05I was suspicious
06:07when I was pregnant.
06:09Every time he took my phone
06:11and didn't give it to me,
06:13I doubted him.
06:15I doubted him
06:17and we had an argument.
06:19How much did you argue?
06:21Did you have a serious argument?
06:23Yes, we argued
06:25until he smashed my computer.
06:27Did your parents know about it?
06:29Yes, they did.
06:31My mother suggested
06:33to me
06:35that I shouldn't smash
06:37my computer
06:39when I was staying at my grandmother's house.
06:41I should control
06:43my belongings
06:45and save money.
06:47After the argument,
06:49I took out my money
06:51and spent it.
06:53He fixed it
06:55but it was a mess.
06:57It was still like that.
06:59Where did the argument start?
07:01It started
07:03from my appearance.
07:05I wasn't beautiful.
07:07I was suspicious
07:09when he took me
07:11to my mother's house
07:13or hung out with friends.
07:15He asked me
07:17to take him to my mother's house
07:19or call her.
07:21I heard it
07:23and thought
07:25I was suspicious
07:27so I controlled him.
07:29I think
07:31it was because of that
07:33that we had an argument.
07:35What was the reason?
07:37The biggest reason
07:39was
07:41when I gave birth
07:43to my second child.
07:45My mom passed away.
07:47I was pregnant
07:49but I didn't realize it.
07:51After my mom passed away,
07:53I had a mental breakdown.
07:55When I gave birth to my second child,
07:57I was depressed.
07:59I wasn't depressed
08:01because I had my mom's support.
08:03When I gave birth to my second child,
08:05my mom passed away.
08:07The pressure was on me.
08:09My younger sister
08:11was in grade 7.
08:13My dad didn't
08:15talk to me.
08:17Everything was stressful.
08:19From the money to the situation
08:21and my husband.
08:23He had money
08:25but he changed.
08:27He went out
08:29in the middle of the night.
08:31One time,
08:33I was starving
08:35so I texted him
08:37to buy me something to eat.
08:39He didn't answer
08:41his phone.
08:43I called him
08:4530-40 times.
08:47The last time,
08:49he said he was on his way home.
08:51He came back
08:53around 11 p.m.
08:55He left his stuff
08:57on the street.
08:59I asked him why he didn't
09:01take his car home.
09:03He said he was going out.
09:05I asked him where he was going
09:07when it was already 11 p.m.
09:09We talked for a while
09:11and he left his stuff
09:13on the street.
09:15We argued
09:17because he was hot-tempered
09:19and I was hot-tempered too.
09:21I don't think
09:23pregnant women
09:25should have a conversation
09:27to explain to men.
09:29When there's a conflict,
09:31there should be
09:33a conversation
09:35to explain it.
09:37It could be
09:39because of his personality
09:41or because
09:43things are not as interesting
09:45as they used to be.
09:47It could be
09:49because of someone's influence.
09:51It could be
09:53his family life.
09:55When he was young,
09:57he could make
09:59his children
10:01see a different life.
10:03I said it could be
10:05because of me or him.
10:07Do you think
10:09you're right
10:11or he's wrong?
10:13I think
10:15it's 50-50.
10:17I'm doubtful
10:19and I'm jealous.
10:21I control my husband
10:23so I can
10:25follow him everywhere.
10:27It's partly my fault
10:29because I control him too much.
10:31He needs his own space
10:33and I don't.
10:35Secondly,
10:37he doesn't listen to me.
10:39When I'm done,
10:41I have to argue with him.
10:43If I can't,
10:45I'll leave him.
10:47Do you forgive him?
10:49From the first baby
10:51to the second one,
10:53I always look for him.
10:55When there's a conflict,
10:57do you talk to him?
10:59We don't get along.
11:01I only talk to my mom.
11:03I don't talk to my dad.
11:05But when he gave me
11:07the table,
11:09he told me to think
11:11carefully
11:13because it's my choice.
11:15At first,
11:17he didn't want me to follow him.
11:19But because of me,
11:21even if he doesn't live with me,
11:23he can go back to his parents.
11:25If I don't have him,
11:27who will take care of me?
11:29He's like a thorn
11:31in my heart.
11:33I don't think
11:35I'll give birth
11:37by myself.
11:43After that night,
11:45what kind of
11:47conflicts did you have?
11:49My dad told me
11:51he was going back to Saigon.
11:53My grandma was there too.
11:55When he came back,
11:57my husband and I
11:59all went back to Saigon.
12:01My husband got a job
12:03as a security guard
12:05at a hotel.
12:07I was alone
12:09at home with my two kids.
12:11I was under a lot of pressure.
12:13Did he bring you money?
12:15He still gave me money
12:17but on slow days.
12:19I kept my bank card.
12:21When it was time for school,
12:23I went to get it.
12:25I did everything by myself.
12:27I didn't have a husband.
12:29I was tired.
12:31You two are still a couple.
12:33You still live in the same family.
12:35When you look at his attitude,
12:37do you ever think
12:39why you were wrong in the past?
12:41Yes, I do.
12:43Why didn't I listen to my parents?
12:45I was only 18 years old
12:47when I fell in love.
12:49I thought it was normal
12:51to have my mom by my side.
12:53When you realized it was too late,
12:55what did you decide?
12:57The last time I remembered
12:59was when my husband and I
13:01decided not to live together anymore.
13:03He begged me to forgive him.
13:05I just told him
13:07to go back to his hometown
13:09and ask my mom
13:11to register for a marriage certificate.
13:13If he could do that,
13:15he would be a father and a husband.
13:17If he didn't do that,
13:19he wouldn't deserve me.
13:21My mom and husband still didn't allow it.
13:23After 10 years,
13:25I still didn't allow it.
13:27I was very sad when I left
13:29and came back to the city.
13:31What did you tell him
13:33and what did you decide?
13:35I told him to break up
13:37and live a different life.
13:39I was already like that.
13:41I wanted to live with him more.
13:43Now we live together
13:45and we are like a family.
13:47We are very close.
13:49How are you and your kids?
13:51They live with you, right?
13:53Yes, they do.
13:55My husband brought a big baby
13:57to my grandmother's house.
13:59I was 27 years old
14:01and I didn't go out to work.
14:03I stayed at home to help my parents.
14:05When I grew up,
14:07I followed my husband.
14:09I didn't do anything.
14:11When I was depressed,
14:13I found out that
14:15I could apply for a job
14:17as a shipper.
14:19But now,
14:21I sell fruits
14:23and deliver them to customers.
14:25When you told your husband
14:27the last story,
14:29how did you feel?
14:31I just lay down and cried.
14:33I was depressed
14:35and sad at the same time.
14:37How long did it take
14:39for you to find a job?
14:41About a week.
14:43At that time,
14:45he said he missed his father.
14:47At that time,
14:49there was nothing left
14:51in the house.
14:53There was no milk,
14:55no money.
14:57He asked my grandmother
14:59to support me.
15:01Did he leave money for you?
15:03No, he didn't.
15:05He visited me at first
15:07but he didn't come back.
15:09At that time,
15:11how was your life?
15:13During the pandemic,
15:15I had no food.
15:17I had to beg for money.
15:19At first,
15:21I had to buy milk
15:23and milk powder.
15:25How long did it take for you to find a job?
15:27About half a year.
15:29I was a shipper.
15:31I didn't work for a store.
15:33I worked for a company.
15:35Before I got married,
15:37I didn't have to worry about anything.
15:39When life passed,
15:41you became a shipper
15:43to take care of yourself
15:45and your children.
15:47Did you ever feel lonely?
15:49Yes, I did.
15:51I still feel lonely.
15:53In the past,
15:55I didn't have to worry about anything.
15:57My mom took care of my clothes.
15:59When I got to know him,
16:01my mom took care of me.
16:03When I lived with him,
16:05he cooked for me.
16:07I only had to do the laundry.
16:09Since he left the house,
16:11I did everything.
16:13I washed the dishes,
16:15cooked,
16:17did everything myself.
16:19I took care of my children.
16:21When I was alone,
16:23I thought
16:25my children would be sick
16:27and I would have to take them to the hospital.
16:29I thought I was a superman.
16:31I thought I was a superman.
16:33I thought I was a superman.
16:35I thought I was a superman.
16:37Did you feel stronger
16:39when you grew up
16:41because of that situation?
16:43Yes,
16:45my husband taught me
16:47to step out of the white paper.
16:49I was like a bird trapped in a cage.
16:51I didn't know what was outside.
16:53I was like an open door.
16:55I was like an open door.
16:57I was like an open door.
16:59I was like an open door.
17:01If you could go back to the beginning,
17:03what would you choose?
17:05I would choose to be a violinist.
17:07I would choose to be a violinist.
17:09Why did you choose to be a violinist?
17:11I didn't listen to my parents.
17:13I didn't listen to my parents.
17:15My mom wanted me to study finance.
17:17My mom wanted me to study finance.
17:19When I was young,
17:21I wanted to know everything.
17:23Now,
17:25I've experienced this life.
17:27If I could go back to when I was 18,
17:29I would like to go back to school.
17:31I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:33I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:35I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:37I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:39I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:41I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:43I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:45I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:47I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:49I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:51I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:53I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:55I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:57I would like to go back to when I was 18,
17:59I would like to go back to when I was 18,
18:01I have experience see, that I can see myself again.
18:04I have experience see, that I can see myself again.
18:09How is your life?
18:11I am working well.
18:13I can take care of myself.
18:15I am free and I am getting used to a new person,
18:17but I don't instill any feelings and distance like my ex-husband.
18:21but I don't instill any feelings and distance like my ex-husband.
18:23At this stage,
18:25I am trying to get used to him
18:27I don't want to do further.
18:29I've been married for a lifetime, and I have two kids.
18:33Now, when I'm hot-tempered, it's hard for him to listen to me.
18:38I say what I want to say, and he listens to me.
18:41Did he agree?
18:43Yes, he did.
18:45And now, it's like...
18:47He's like a fan. When I'm hot-tempered, he asks me if I'm done.
18:51Then we sit down and talk.
18:53You have two kids, and one is your husband's child?
18:56Yes.
18:57Do you two meet sometimes?
18:59Currently, I can't meet my kids.
19:02Why?
19:02My mother-in-law doesn't allow me to meet them.
19:04How long has it been?
19:05It's been more than 5 years.
19:09You cut off all contact?
19:10Yes.
19:11You don't dare to get involved in their private life.
19:14But for you,
19:16if your husband gets divorced,
19:18or lives alone,
19:19your kids have to meet their parents
19:23because of some reason
19:26to prevent you from letting your kids meet their parents.
19:30It's a pity for the kids.
19:33In terms of psychological development,
19:35it also needs the warmth of parents.
19:38Now that you've been through everything,
19:40you've learned some lessons,
19:43and found a new way to live.
19:45So what's your advice for everyone in your situation?
19:51I also want to say that
19:54what your parents say is always right to you.
19:56They want you to be good,
19:57to live a happy life.
19:59They don't want to put pressure on you
20:02to prevent you.
20:03But if you want to be honest,
20:05you should sit down and talk to your parents.
20:07You should find out if your friendship can last.
20:12Because a moment of anger
20:13will destroy your life like it is now.
20:16Secondly,
20:17you should listen to your husband.
20:19Because in that argument,
20:21everyone wants to be right.
20:24But you have to be tolerant.
20:26You shouldn't tolerate each other.
20:27You should sit down and listen to each other.
20:30You should find out what's right and what's wrong.
20:33Thirdly, you should be a woman.
20:35Don't control your husband too much.
20:36If you're too jealous,
20:37he'll leave on his own.
20:39If you control him too much,
20:40you'll lose your husband.
20:42If you control him too much, you'll lose your husband.
20:44Here's what I think.
20:46People often say that
20:47men build houses, women build houses.
20:50I think it's the same as in the past.
20:53In modern life,
20:55both of us build houses.
20:56Because women make money.
20:58And both of us build houses.
21:00Because
21:01two people live together.
21:02But only one person
21:03can build a house.
21:04And if one person doesn't build a house,
21:06or even breaks it,
21:08that's not good at all.
21:10And there must be a dialogue
21:13to understand and sympathize with each other.
21:14And at the same time, we must respect each other.
21:16Then that marriage
21:17can be sustainable.
21:20Thank you for coming here.
21:21I wish you
21:22to find new happiness.
21:24And the road ahead of you
21:26is still very long.
21:27Because you're still very young.
21:28I hope that you will
21:30raise
21:32your two children well.
21:33And later on,
21:34your happiness
21:36is what you can create.
21:38Thank you very much.
21:39Ladies and gentlemen,
21:40and the show
21:41is coming to an end.
21:43Xuan Huong and Loan Anh
21:44say goodbye.
21:46See you again, everyone.