• 6 months ago
A waitress who got her one-star review printed on a t-shirt said her viral moment had opened a conversation about the "disrespectful" treatment of hospitality workers.

Daniella Claeys, 24, printed a one-star review she got while working at a restaurant, onto a t-shirt.

Daniella, who has worked in hospitality for over ten years, got the review in November 2023 and got the t-shirt printed in December to cheer herself up.

The review came online after she had asked a family with a crying baby to sit outside to prevent disrupting the staff and other diners.

The scathing review read: 'We will never be back!!! At this restaurant the staff made us feel so uncomfortable a waitress named Dani suggested the manager to seat us outside on the cold when our baby cried because she had headache, she didn't bother to hide her discomfort and looked at us like we were rubbish we obviously left the restaurant straight away.

"Very not family-friendly atmosphere in there don't bother to go with kids'."

After sharing her t-shirt on TikTok, the waitress, who lives in Dalston, east London, saw herself inundated with hundreds of likes and comments.

While some were critical, many supported her decision - and shared times they had been negatively reviewed in their hospitality roles.

She said: "The response was wild.

"Lots of people related - there were so many other stories in the comments.

"I don't hold it against the woman who left the review, I didn't mean to make her uncomfortable.

"But making the t-shirt was a way to take back a bit of power - when as the server, you're told 'the customer is always right'.

"You should be able to find a bit of humour when things don't go right."

In a follow-up video, she explained that she was suffering from a migraine, causing her to be sensitive to loud noises, such as children screaming.

This led to her suggesting the family sit outside - which led to the review naming her, and accusing the restaurant of being "not very family friendly".

Daniella, who posts under @dandanthexanman, said: "I know, I slipped up."

She explained that at the time, the review resulted in her crying and having a meeting with her manager.

She feared the review would result in her being fired, although that didn't happen.

She said: "I think there’s been so much power over the use of online reviews, people sometimes don't understand the severity.

"Because she named me, the review is now mine. It impacted my life in a way I don't think she would have realised.

"The margin for error in such a customer-facing role is so small, that if someone feels it's not absolutely 100%, the hard work and effort is taken for granted."

Daniella said the unplanned viral moment has opened the floor to a discussion around the treatment of hospitality workers - and how hard the role can be.

She said: "It's difficult to meet the standard, when service is an even just little bit off, I've been berated, yelled at, subjected to combative situations.

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00:00i woke up this morning i'm on unilad, daily mail, new york post, wales news as well all because of
00:06this t-shirt baby okay so a little while back let me imagine a little while back it's like we're on
00:11facetime i got a one-star review i'm a waitress by the way i'm a waitress um and i got a one-star
00:15review i will put what she put here hold on pause me darling take a minute read that review
00:23give you your time give you your time fingers on lips so i got given this one-star review
00:29and i was devastated because like i really didn't realize i was being that bad i had a super bad
00:34day and the child was screaming baby baby a lot if you've ever worked in hospitality i swear to
00:42god you slip up one time it is over do you know how many times like i've cried after a hospitality
00:47shift and i've been waitressing for 10 years um i started off as a kp and then head waitress now
00:53um i actually quit my job but that's baby that is a different story stay tuned for that anyway
00:57i had a family in the big family that was in on a sunday i had a cold i had a migraine i came in
01:04anywhere i had an optical migraine i came in because i didn't want to let the team down
01:08i was taking lots of tablets let me just give you an update they're not to know that it's not their
01:12job to know that okay how i got this is by being overworked and by being very sick actually but
01:21still coming in because i just i have to pay rent at the end of the day and so i came in and
01:28listen the child was doing what children do and it was having a little bit of a tantrum and
01:35screaming a lot when you've got an optical migraine when you're a bit sick you are so
01:41noise sensitive and i'm not baby i'm not gonna hold you i was uncomfortable i was uncomfortable
01:46a hundred percent it was probably visible yeah i know i know i slipped up i did that really crazy
01:55thing and i fucking slipped up like i don't ever want to make anyone feel uncomfortable in my time
02:00as being this waitress because i'm here to look after you and if i make you feel like you're not
02:04being looked after or that you are not welcome i'm not doing my job right however baby however
02:12i was sick and your child was screaming a lot and and i come from a family of seven i get that's what
02:20kids do and so i said to my manager i was like should we ask them to maybe like go to the terrace
02:25we have a heated terrace outside um that a lot of families go to or like they'll go around the
02:33kitchen with the child just to sort of distract them from the from those huge super huge emotions
02:38that they're feeling uh but she thought that i was trying to tell her to get out
02:43and so yeah um she walked out and i like as she was walking out she's like don't worry we're
02:49leaving we're leaving i was like what and she's like yeah yeah yeah like we're leaving and i think
02:53she could see my discomfort but also baby customers were looking at me as if i should sort out the
02:58issue because it was my section um and and and so there's a lot there's a lot to play in in this
03:07all of that to say one star review in the flesh and so she wrote in an email and she wrote a review
03:17naming me naming me okay and if you name me well now this information is mine
03:25and there's a t-shirt that is here okay um i'm also going to sell t-shirts with the one star
03:31review so let me know if you want that link and i will message you personally with that link but
03:36anyway anyway the review came through i thought i was gonna get fired i didn't um and she's like
03:42we will never be back we will she was so rude and maybe i might have been rude but the child
03:47was screaming a lot and like i had a i had a bad moment 100 and this is what i'm saying when it
03:54comes to hostility like rarely rarely are we offered any grace or any understanding when it
04:01comes to just having enough kills a day it is so customer facing it is so oh it just it takes so
04:09much energy to be 100 and i pride myself in my work maybe i've got enough five star reviews to
04:15speak for me and enough years in the game to speak for me but when it came to that review it broke me
04:21because i don't i don't want to make people feel that way but i understand people can make mistakes
04:25i fucked up the other day really hard like super hard and a customer threatened me um
04:32and then threw two pounds on my face that's a different story let me know if you want to hear
04:35about that i've got so many stories about hospitality um but just want to come for a
04:41little bit of grace i know that like hospitality is such a demanding job and it can take so much
04:48from you but rarely is it actually respected it's looked as like a lower um a lower job
04:56and i never understood why i've been in the game for 10 years and people don't think it's a hard
05:00job it is a hard job like it's very difficult to do right and if you get it wrong one time
05:05you might get a motherfucking t-shirt out of it baby but yeah i'm in the new york post i'm in all
05:09this uh different stuff and i'm excited and i just thought i'd explain a little bit and i might make
05:16a youtube video but i just thought i'd explain it now

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