A 'DINK' couple says they wouldn't change their childfree life - going on seven holidays a year and being "the fun auntie and uncle".
Whitney and Asa Davis, both 37, opted against having children - despite people warning they would regret it.
Whitney says the couple love their free time and disposable income - spent on luxury holidays to places like Hawaii, Kenya and Jamaica, as well as home renovations.
She said the pair have "the luxury to focus on ourselves" and enjoy regular date nights, relaxed cocktail evenings and a "wonderful sex life".
They both love children - and are "the fun auntie and uncle" to 20 children of friends and family - and see that as their role.
Whitney and Asa Davis, both 37, opted against having children - despite people warning they would regret it.
Whitney says the couple love their free time and disposable income - spent on luxury holidays to places like Hawaii, Kenya and Jamaica, as well as home renovations.
She said the pair have "the luxury to focus on ourselves" and enjoy regular date nights, relaxed cocktail evenings and a "wonderful sex life".
They both love children - and are "the fun auntie and uncle" to 20 children of friends and family - and see that as their role.
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00:00 I have made my way to mom talk or baby talk or child free talk. I am married. I've been married for three years.
00:12 We do not want children. Now before I got with my husband, I was never gung-ho like about kids.
00:21 Like I love kids. I love children. Like bring me your child. I will take care.
00:27 But I never was the type of woman that was like, oh my god, I can't wait to be married.
00:32 Oh my god, I can't wait to be a mom. And I've been doing some work in therapy about trying to figure that out.
00:39 But I want to just encourage young women who feel like it's something wrong with me because I haven't been like being in for kids.
00:50 It's nothing wrong with you, babe. It's nothing wrong with you. There are really maybe three reasons high level.
00:58 There are many more that I can go to. But for the sake of this video, there are three reasons why I wouldn't want children.
01:04 The first is they don't fit into my lifestyle. I am turning 37. Scorpio season in a couple of like two weeks.
01:16 And the life that I built for myself does not allow for children.
01:23 Number two is I really just want a baby. Okay.
01:27 Hold on. Where are y'all at? I'm running through my comments. Zero to four me, please.
01:33 And then I would want like an adult child. 25 and up. They seem like they'd be a good time.
01:39 Especially my kids. They don't have personality. But that in between formidable years returns to sender.
01:47 And it's not even like I don't I despise children in age because I don't. I love all kids.
01:51 It is the energy and the time and the sacrifice that it takes.
01:56 So I'm not about to have a child and give them less than 100 percent.
02:00 And then finally, I am not interested in being pregnant or giving birth.