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00:00 Outlook brings to you excerpts from its latest issue titled "Love Virtually".
00:05 Ahead of Valentine's Day, Outlook's latest issue explores the many kinds of love,
00:10 from online dating for the youth and dating for the elderly,
00:14 to the otherworldly and unrequited love.
00:17 The issue also looks at how the concept of love has evolved
00:22 at a time when the divide between communities of different faiths is widened by politics.
00:28 Right Swiping Cast by Abhig Bhattacharya from Outlook
00:33 Dating apps mirror real life where the caste of a person
00:36 becomes a deciding factor in finding the right match.
00:40 Saloni, who is in her mid-twenties, could never imagine that the shadow of a caste identity
00:45 would follow her in the world of dating apps until she started dating a Tambram boy,
00:51 short form for Tamil Bramhin, whom she right swiped seeing his Vogue bio.
00:56 In his bio, the guy wrote everything progressive,
00:59 that he does not believe in caste, he is an atheist, politically moderate and so on, says Saloni.
01:06 But gradually, as she started dating him, she saw different shades of him.
01:11 "I belong to the OBC community. Whenever he got angry, he used casteist slurs to humiliate me," she adds.
01:18 They continued dating for almost a year, and by the time the facade of his Vogue-ness vanished,
01:24 Saloni managed to get rid of him.
01:26 While the caste discrimination that she faced on the dating app OKCupid is quite prevalent
01:32 and mirrors the everyday reality of society,
01:35 what is confounding is that most of the apps promise a caste classless experience.
01:41 Most of these apps, including the recent favourite Hinge,
01:45 leave the inclusion of surnames in the profile entirely to users.
01:50 The Help Centre of Hinge notes,
01:52 "If you create an account with Facebook, your last name will be added to your profile,
01:57 but it will only be visible when you match with someone,
02:00 not when someone views your profile in Discover."
02:03 While such efforts of not letting caste take over one's choice of right swiping
02:08 are considered a step in the right direction,
02:11 users feel that those who prioritise caste identity have ways to figure it out.
02:16 For this and more, read the latest issue of Outlook.

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