’90 Day Fiancé_ Kalani Reveals Asuelu Has ‘CHEATED’ Their ‘Whole’ Relationship
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00:00 In 90 day, the last resort, things got off to a good start during a ladies night when Angela and Liz patched things up after their previous altercation.
00:09 I will say that altercation has really helped Ed and I realizing how much that I don't have his back.
00:17 I know to have my man's back and you were a big part of it.
00:22 And I'm happy it didn't get worse than what it was.
00:25 And I know you mean well, I do. I mean, sorry, bitch.
00:31 Where's that champagne?
00:33 Where's that shot?
00:35 They had a lingerie party thanks to Molly bringing them outfits from her store.
00:39 And during their try on fashion show, Yara opened up about feeling insecure about her looks.
00:44 For me, it's culture.
00:46 My parents, for example, always compare me to somebody different.
00:49 You need to be a perfect. You need to be perfect.
00:52 Growing up, my mom, for example, taught me that my nose wasn't so good or they tell me I'm chunky or something like that.
01:00 It just had you.
01:03 But then I grew up and still thinking sometimes if I gain two extra pounds that I'm chunky like that.
01:15 So it's just something I cannot freaking cut off.
01:19 It did seem like the lingerie try on helped to boost Yara's confidence.
01:23 When I finally put a lingerie off, I do feel sexy.
01:26 I do like myself, but then sometimes I have my moments.
01:30 And since I'm here, I need to work on my confidence and not let nobody tell me that I'm maybe not good enough or something like that.
01:37 As for the guys night out, they were leaning towards going to a strip club.
01:42 I feel really bad for a Swelo, you know, even though Swelo is the one who messed up.
01:47 I feel like he's really hopeful and really trying to make his relationship work now.
01:52 So I feel like I Swelo deserves a good night out.
01:55 If Yara does find out, I mean, what can I do?
01:59 I just take the punches as they come in because going through couples therapy is not easy.
02:04 And I think just getting to forget about it all for a day and go out and have fun.
02:08 I think everybody needs that, to be honest.
02:11 Before they were all set to hang out, Ed decided to apologize to Kelly for their previous argument.
02:16 Kelly, I'm sorry I love you.
02:18 I'm sorry for calling you names.
02:20 Oh, you got your apology before you even asked him for it.
02:23 Oh, no.
02:24 Ed!
02:25 This is my conversation last night.
02:26 This is breakthrough.
02:27 I know. I'm sorry.
02:28 It's okay.
02:29 You were just talking about that.
02:31 I have angry stuff that I'm out. I'm going to get out. I'm sorry.
02:34 And I'm going to be less talk over.
02:36 All right.
02:37 He's doing everything he can without us asking.
02:40 This is what I'm talking about.
02:41 Ed!
02:42 You know, I've learned through past life regression, when I get uncomfortable, I become the clown and I need to work on my behavior.
02:51 And not just with Liz, but with everybody.
02:54 Later, all the couples did a group Kama Sutra therapy session, but things took a turn with Kelly and Molly.
03:01 I don't want to make you uncomfortable.
03:03 I'm not uncomfortable.
03:04 Okay.
03:05 I mean, there clearly was something that you loved about me, but it's just been lost.
03:11 I don't, now I don't know.
03:14 Because all the things that I thought were why you love me, you've since told me that you don't think that I'm that person.
03:26 Same goes for me.
03:28 Molly says she isn't in love with Kelly, and he ended up walking away from the activity.
03:34 You're not in love with me.
03:37 And I'm not in love with you.
03:41 Can you hear me?
03:42 Can you hear me?
03:43 Yeah.
03:44 I can hear you.
03:45 Why are we here?
03:46 I need to tell you what I love about you.
03:48 Stop it.
03:50 Close your eyes.
03:51 I don't want.
03:52 Do we have to do this?
04:00 We can go.
04:01 Molly, we can go.
04:05 I don't want to.
04:06 I don't want to.
04:07 I can't do this.
04:18 It seemed her words really hurt him.
04:21 She said I'm just not in love with you, and that was it.
04:24 And that hurt.
04:25 Yeah.
04:26 And you couldn't be around that.
04:27 I get it.
04:28 I ain't gonna fake the phone.
04:29 Yeah.
04:30 I know you gotta be hurting right now, and I'm sorry.
04:35 Are you still in love with her?
04:37 Um, I love her.
04:39 Yeah.
04:40 But I can't force a person.
04:43 Yeah.
04:44 So, I'm out.
04:47 Kalani and Asuelu are also still having issues, since Kalani doesn't fully trust him after he was unfaithful.
05:01 Doing Kama Sutra with Asuelu today kind of makes me feel a little uncomfortable.
05:06 The main issue is that I haven't had sex with Asuelu since I found out that he cheated on me.
05:11 Like, the second he gets close to me, I just am like, I'm closed off.
05:16 I'm not ready to trust him with that kind of intimacy yet.
05:20 Later, they had a couples therapy session where they dive deeper into their issues.
05:24 When I found out what happened, I just like blocked off love to him because I'm afraid.
05:30 You're afraid of what?
05:32 Being hurt.
05:37 Okay. So, you're still dealing with the pain of being hurt and trying to move past that.
05:41 Yeah.
05:42 What do you think is the first step to move past that right now?
05:44 I don't know.
05:47 Don't know?
05:48 When I first found out, like, I didn't care to have anything to do with him, but we share kids, so I know that that's impossible.
05:56 So, I have processed it a little bit, but I haven't fully processed it.
06:01 Asuelu seems to feel awful about what he did, but Kalani is unsure of how they move forward.
06:07 I don't know.
06:11 I think that's why I feel confused because I've never felt just friendship with you before.
06:19 So, now I don't know how to undo that.
06:22 And then with sex, I just honestly don't even care about any of that anymore.
06:32 [Music]
06:43 I feel like I've done a lot of bad things in our relationship, and I really want to work on myself, and I need to treat my wife better.
06:59 Kalani ended up making a bombshell revelation about how many times Asuelu has been unfaithful throughout their relationship.
07:06 Dr. Jason said that I probably just need time, but I mean, I've had years of time, and I still don't even forgive him for the s*** he did in the beginning.
07:16 What happened in the beginning?
07:19 From the beginning? So, basically, since the beginning of Asuelu in my relationship, he's cheated the whole time.
07:29 So, when we were dating, when I was pregnant, before he came here, like, what, three years into our marriage, and then now.
07:40 So, it's just been this pattern, and how do you forgive someone for something that they keep doing?
07:46 She broke down in tears, sharing why she stayed with him for so long.
07:50 I stayed with him because I was pregnant.
07:58 I did it because I thought we would be together, like, forever.
08:04 So, like, feeling my feelings just die.
08:08 [Crying]
08:21 I just never wanted this to happen.
08:25 [Music]