Back Together With An Ex - How To Handle Tension

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ It’s normal when you first get back together with an ex that tensions arise. Even though when you see them again, the last thing you should want to be doing is rehashing the past. But that doesn’t necessarily mean your ex doesn’t want to talk about the subject. They might have a lot of things to get off their chest. So what you have to do is let them. The important thing is not to get defensive about this. I’m sure you may have very strong feelings on the subject at hand, but its better not to engage in an argument. Whatever it is you are feeling, just smile politely and let them say what they have to say. Remember, once you start the defending yourself, then you are going to force them to defend themselves, and then you’ve got a full blown argument on your hands. The goal is to get back together with your ex.