A girl Approached her mother after her mother gave her up for 20years. when her mother saw her she told her to a therapists inatead of excepting her. She rejected her right on the spot. what kind of a mother is she?
The bond between a mother and child is to be one of the strongest and most enduring relationships in human existence. However, what happens when a mother rejects her own flesh and blood after years of separation? This was the heartbreaking reality for a young woman who approached her mother after being given up for adoption twenty years ago, only to be met with cold rejection and a suggestion to seek therapy instead of acceptance.
The bond between a mother and child is to be one of the strongest and most enduring relationships in human existence. However, what happens when a mother rejects her own flesh and blood after years of separation? This was the heartbreaking reality for a young woman who approached her mother after being given up for adoption twenty years ago, only to be met with cold rejection and a suggestion to seek therapy instead of acceptance.
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00:00A girl approached her mother after her mother gave her up for 20 years.
00:04When her mother saw her, she told her to a therapist's innated of accepting her.
00:09She rejected her right on the spot.
00:10What kind of a mother is she?
00:12Um, are you...
00:14Is your name Rebecca Jameson?
00:17Yes.
00:18And did you live in Waco, Texas 20 years ago?
00:23Yes.
00:25Hi, um, I've been...
00:27I'm sorry, I'm really excited to meet you.
00:29I've been looking for you for a really long time.
00:32Um, this is, uh...
00:35This is a little weird to say.
00:36I never expected that I would find you just, like, randomly.
00:39I'm sorry, can you, like, cut to the chase here?
00:42Well, 20 years ago you gave up a baby, right?
00:45Yes.
00:46A daughter?
00:47Yes.
00:49That was me.
00:53Hi, I'm your daughter.
00:56Um, I don't know if you were...
00:57How did you get my location?
00:59I didn't have your location.
01:01I, I...
01:02I'm sorry.
01:02But I've been looking for you and I've randomly found you now.
01:04I gave you up for adoption.
01:05It was a closed adoption.
01:07This is inappropriate.
01:08There's a reason why the adoption was closed.
01:11And it's really not okay for you to be tracking me down right now.
01:14Randomly found you now.
01:15I gave you up for adoption.
01:16It was a closed adoption.
01:17This is inappropriate.
01:19This is inappropriate.
01:20This is inappropriate.
01:21There's a reason why the adoption was closed.
01:23And it's really not okay for you to be tracking me down right now.
01:27Well, I'm, I'm sorry that I wanted to meet you and I just, I, you know, you don't have to
01:33have anything to do with me.
01:34I just wanted to tell you that I, I'm, I forgive you.
01:38And I, I, you know, I'm an adult and I understand, you know, circumstances that must have made you
01:45do what you did and then I, I love you.
01:49Um, and I just, I'm really, I'm excited to meet you.
01:57I think you need to go to therapy and deal with all of this on your own.
02:00Thank you for giving, forgiving me, but I actually don't feel sorry for what happened.
02:06Um, and for giving you a chance at a better life.
02:09So why don't you just continue going on that better life chance?
02:13And please do not contact me.
02:16Do not talk to me or do not come here near me ever again.
02:20I think you need to go to therapy and deal with all of this on your own.
02:25Thank you for giving, forgiving me, but I actually don't feel sorry for what happened.
02:30Um, and for giving you a chance at a better life.
02:34So why don't you just continue going on that better life chance?
02:39And please do not contact me.
02:41Do not talk to me or do not come here near me.
02:43ever again.
02:44This was a closed adoption.
02:46So there's no part of you that ever wanted to meet me?
02:49No, it's case closed.
02:51Okay.
02:51It was a very long time ago.
02:52It's a part of my life that I've closed that chapter.
02:55Okay.
02:55I've moved on.
02:57You need to go to therapy and move on yourself.
02:59Okay.
03:00Okay.
03:01Don't follow me.
03:02Okay.
03:06Sorry.
03:06I kind of overheard everything.
03:09I'm sorry.
03:10Sorry that you had to see that.
03:11No, no, no.
03:12What you did is great.
03:14Sorry.
03:14My name is Koryan and that was hard to hear.
03:21It was hard to go through.
03:23Sorry.
03:23I wasn't, I mean, I've looked for her my whole life, but I wasn't looking for her here.
03:27And I just felt, I don't know, it felt like the universe was telling me, like, meet your
03:32mom.
03:35But I don't know.
03:36Maybe I didn't want to meet her.
03:37She doesn't seem like a very nice person.
03:40She didn't seem like it.
03:41I mean, people go through stuff and I'm speechless for real.
03:47I'm sorry.
03:48I'm speechless.
03:48But I know you're a great person and I don't know you, but it was tough for her to treat
03:54you in a way.
03:57And if I get you in a heart, I don't know if that would make you feel bad, but nothing
04:03would make you feel bad.
04:06You're amazingly beautiful, by the way.
04:09Life is beautiful and don't let one single person destroy that beautiful life.
04:15A moment of kindness after that was really necessary.
04:17You too.
04:18A girl approached her mother after her mother gave her up for 20 years.
04:25When her mother saw her, she told her to a therapist's innate head of accepting her.
04:29She rejected her right on the spot.
04:31What kind of a mother is she?
04:33The bond between a mother and child is to be one of the strongest and most enduring relationships
04:38in human existence.
04:39However, what happens when a mother rejects her own flesh and blood after years of separation?
04:44This was the heartbreaking reality for a young woman who approached her mother after being
04:49given up for adoption 20 years ago, only to be met with cold rejection and a suggestion
04:54to seek therapy instead of acceptance.
04:56The young woman, let's call her Sarah, had spent years longing to reconnect with the woman who had brought her into this world.
05:03She had often fantasized about the day when she would finally meet her mother and they would embrace in a tearful reunion.
05:09However, what she encountered was far from the warm and loving reception she had hoped for.
05:14When Sarah finally tracked down her mother and stood before her, she poured out her heart, expressing her desire to build a relationship and get to know the woman who had given her life.
05:24Instead of welcoming her with open arms, her mother's reaction was one of indifference and even disdain.
05:31She coldly informed Sarah that she needed therapy to deal with her abandonment issues and dismissed her as if she were a mere inconvenience.
05:37The rejection and callousness displayed by Sarah's mother left her reeling in shock and disbelief.
05:43How could a mother turn away her own child in such a heartless manner?
05:46What kind of a mother would choose to push away her own flesh and blood instead of embracing them with love and acceptance?
05:52Such behavior raises questions about the nature of motherhood and the complexities of human relationships.
05:58A mother is traditionally seen as a figure of unconditional love and nurturing, someone who sacrifices her own needs for the well-being of her child.
06:06However, not all mothers fit this idealized image, and some are unable or unwilling to fulfill their maternal duties.
06:13In Sarah's case, her mother's rejection may stem from a variety of reasons.
06:17Feelings of guilt, shame, fear, or simply an inability to cope with the emotions that her daughter's reappearance stirred up.
06:26Whatever the underlying cause, her response was a stark reminder of the painful reality that not all mothers are capable of providing the love and support that their children need.
06:35It is heartbreaking to think of the emotional toll that Sarah must have experienced after being rejected by the one person who should have been her source of comfort and understanding.
06:44The wounds of abandonment run deep, and they can leave lasting scars on a person's psyche, affecting their self-esteem and relationships for years to come.
06:53In situations like these, it is crucial for individuals like Sarah to seek out alternative sources of support and validation.
07:00Therapy can be a valuable tool in helping them process their feelings of rejection, abandonment, and worthlessness, and to build resilience and coping strategies for the future.
07:10In conclusion, the kind of mother who rejects her own child after 20 years of separation is one who has failed to live up to the ideals of motherhood and unconditional love.
07:20The wounds of abandonment are deep and lasting, but with the right support and guidance, individuals like Sarah can heal and thrive despite the pain of rejection.
07:29It is a reminder that sometimes the most profound love and acceptance can come from sources outside of our biological family.