HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE ATTRSACTIVE.
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KASHIF MAG
BY
KASHIF MAG
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00:00Ever look in the mirror and think, am I hot?
00:02Am I the guy that people notice?
00:04Maybe you're flexing in the gym, waiting for a nod, or just hoping the barber didn't lie
00:09when he said you're looking sharp.
00:10Maybe you're sizing up your jawline, your gains, or waiting for someone to give you a
00:14you're killing it vibe.
00:16I'm Amanda Pachucco, a licensed therapist who's guided thousands of people to help with their own
00:21confidence.
00:22Today, I'm breaking down four surprising ways to know if you're attractive.
00:26No fluff.
00:27No guesswork.
00:28It's really not just about your looks.
00:30It's how you show up and own a room.
00:32Stick with me, because by the end you'll feel that fire, see yourself in a whole new light.
00:38Let's dive in with one sign most guys totally miss.
00:42First up, attraction isn't just in your head.
00:45It's how the world bounces back at you.
00:47Compliments are cool, but check for real clues.
00:50Do guys give you a nod of respect?
00:52Do people lean in when you're talking?
00:55As a trauma expert, I see this all the time.
00:58People don't just flock to perfection, they vibe with presence.
01:01So test this out.
01:03When you go out with your friends or your crew, drop a story.
01:07Something interesting, gritty.
01:09How you powered through a tough week.
01:11Watch who locks in.
01:12Who's hanging on to your words.
01:14That's your signal.
01:15That person is noticing that you're putting out something that they can't ignore.
01:20So step one, own that.
01:22You already have the goods, now let people see them.
01:24But it's not just about them.
01:26It's how you feel on the inside that seals the deal.
01:29So check your energy.
01:31Attraction isn't just static, it's a vibe.
01:34Ever notice how some days you just feel unstoppable?
01:37That's aero set work, your life force shining through.
01:40In my practice, I tell people that when you're kind to yourself, it shows.
01:45So try this.
01:46Tomorrow look in the mirror and say,
01:48I'm enough.
01:49Sounds simple, but it works.
01:51It's something in your posture, your smile.
01:53People feel that glow before they even see you.
01:56When you are a person that talks to yourself positively.
01:59And when that energy is on, it sets up the next piece.
02:02And that ties us into connection.
02:05You don't need to be the loudest person in the room.
02:08Just the one who's the most real.
02:10I've seen quiet guys own it by listening hard and dropping the right line.
02:14Next time you're chilling with someone, friend, date, whatever,
02:18hit them with this.
02:19What's one win you're proud of lately?
02:21Then let them answer.
02:24They'll lighten up.
02:24And that pull that you feel, it'll feel magnetic.
02:27It's not about flexing up your stats.
02:29It's about making other people feel like they're important in the room too.
02:33That's your energy doing its thing.
02:36And here's one more layer.
02:37To really stand out without trying.
02:39The most attractive guys don't chase approval.
02:42They draw it in.
02:43The guy who's chill doesn't need to prove a damn thing.
02:46He's the one everyone just gravitates towards.
02:49In my practice I see this with men who've healed their baggage.
02:52Now they just exist and that's enough.
02:55Next time you're out, don't rush to fill the silence.
02:58Pause.
02:58Let the moment breathe.
03:00People will lean in.
03:01Be curious.
03:02Because you're not desperate for their approval.
03:04That's empowerment.
03:06That's you and your agency undeniably.
03:09So men, how do you know you're attractive?
03:11It's in their reactions.
03:12It's in your energy.
03:13The connections and that quiet pull you've got.
03:16And if this flipped a switch for you, hit subscribe, like, and the bell.
03:20I release new videos each week.
03:22Catch you next time.