The never ever mets own tv show season 2 episode 2 full episode.
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00:01Each of you are in a relationship with somebody you have never met before.
00:06No hugs, no kisses, just FaceTime, DMs, and heart emojis.
00:10All that is about to change. Y'all ready for that?
00:13Hey!
00:15Oh, my goodness.
00:17Jared is absolutely beautiful.
00:20What'd I get if I make this, though?
00:21A kiss.
00:23Jay definitely looks good.
00:25I think we just connect real well.
00:28Urban and I, we had to touch on each other in a way that I'm not comfortable with.
00:33Let's take it to the next level.
00:35We'll see.
00:36I feel like there could have been a kiss there somewhere.
00:40Chris was in the doghouse for a while.
00:42We found somebody local.
00:44But I don't usually lose.
00:47Don't I get a public apology?
00:49You're right. I'm sorry.
00:53I'm beyond nervous.
00:55Talking to Jared about this secret.
00:57I have a one-month-old daughter.
01:01So I don't have one, could I have four?
01:03I had my own going on.
01:05What?
01:06I knew something was up.
01:20Why didn't you see anything?
01:22I had my own going on.
01:24What?
01:25I just had a kid too, dude.
01:27What?
01:28You had a kid?
01:30When?
01:31I think six months ago.
01:32So you have a newborn?
01:33Yeah.
01:34Four years, I just, I never thought, I mean he could say the same about me, but after four
01:50years, I'm thinking like, I know him.
01:52I know when stuff is off.
01:53I know when stuff is different.
01:55I would have never thought he was raising a whole child.
01:58Yeah.
01:59I had a baby boy about six months ago.
02:03Okay.
02:04So I'm over here feeling guilty as for having a baby.
02:06You knew something was going on.
02:07You didn't say anything.
02:08How was I supposed to know like you had a baby?
02:13I can't be upset at you for being in the same situation, bro.
02:21I'm actually very happy.
02:23I mean, happy in a sense that she shared her secret first because me sharing my secret,
02:28it was easy.
02:29It was easy as hell after that.
02:30I was like, oh, bet.
02:31I got something for you too.
02:33Now that like I told you, I'm not going to hide it anymore.
02:36Like I'm going to pump, like I have a newborn.
02:40I'm breastfeeding.
02:41I don't know how that's going to make you feel.
02:43That's life.
02:44I mean, you have to, but you just had a newborn.
02:48I feel like it was one kid.
02:50I'd be like, all right, you know, it's cool.
02:52We evened out, but how many?
02:55Like, no, I'm not trying to be funny.
02:57This is like, it's hard enough taking care of two.
03:00I already have two kids.
03:02And the idea of a house with six children logistically sounds insane.
03:07I don't know if I would be ready for that.
03:09So you think less of me because I have more kids?
03:11I don't think less of you.
03:12It's just like, I want to be different because I have more kids.
03:15I want to be there for you.
03:16But it's hard enough being there for what I got now.
03:19That's tough to hear.
03:21It's tough these days.
03:23I don't want to be trying, but it's just like, let's be like, let's be.
03:25That's all I want from you.
03:26Stop right there.
03:27Please, just try.
03:28Fair enough.
03:31Fair enough.
03:32I love you.
03:33And I want this to work.
03:35Come here.
03:36I want it.
03:40We just have to figure out if we, me and him, just me and him, can live together, love each other, be physical, be happy with what we're seeing in person.
03:50That's going to be what we have to work through at this point.
03:53That's a lot of goddamn kids.
03:56Brady bun shot this bed.
04:02Should we, like, turn in?
04:03I feel like everybody going to bed.
04:08See you tomorrow.
04:09We'll see you.
04:12You, like, laying next to me.
04:13Any chance you get for us to cuddle?
04:15I want to fall asleep with you.
04:16That's all it is.
04:17Goodbye.
04:18Cousins, I want to see if it's real.
04:20If it's real.
04:21I want to see.
04:22What?
04:23I'm a traditional gal.
04:25Yeah.
04:26We don't have to have sex.
04:27Because it's, to me, it's the same as if we were to fall asleep on a couch.
04:31You know what I mean?
04:32You don't know that.
04:33You took me on one date.
04:36Let's put this in perspective, though.
04:37This is a new thing for me, like, honestly, like, dating and getting to this place in life and in love because I am a new person.
04:46I was diagnosed with the autoimmune condition.
04:49They were mad on myositis in March of 2022.
04:52I had a decision.
04:53Do I want to potentially die early or do I want to live a well life?
05:00And so I lost a bunch of weight, cut my hair, and went on a health and wellness journey.
05:05I had to live a more peaceful life in my spirit and emotionally.
05:09And so now I'm always trying to give my body what it needs and respecting it.
05:14Sleeping in the bed with Irving, that's not something that I want to do right now.
05:18I want it to be more about our mind, our heart connecting.
05:23And for me, the physical is going to muddy that.
05:26Don't.
05:27Don't press it.
05:28I'm not.
05:29I'm not.
05:30Organic.
05:31Non-GMO.
05:32Non-GMO.
05:33Right.
05:34Okay, what time is it?
05:35Because I need to go to bed.
05:36With Alicia, I don't want to rush things.
05:38That's not really what I'm here for.
05:40Good night.
05:41But I'm just concerned that I may like her more than she likes me.
05:45I feel like there is a lot of sexual tension.
05:47I've never kissed her.
05:48If it were to happen, maybe she would soften up a little bit.
05:51But I feel like she just has a hard exterior.
05:57Well, don't use all your lotion tonight.
05:59No, no, no, no.
06:00Don't you play.
06:08Good morning.
06:09Hello.
06:10Cheers.
06:11A new day.
06:12New day.
06:13I didn't want to wake you up this morning because I didn't want you to think.
06:15You have something else?
06:16Yeah.
06:17I got three other husbands too.
06:18Don't say that.
06:19Joke.
06:20Have any of the girls asked you about last night?
06:21Nobody.
06:22Are you ever going to tell them or you just don't want to?
06:23Well, I caught myself in like a little lie this morning.
06:24It's getting harder for me to not talk about my kids.
06:25So I was going to ask you if you're okay with it.
06:26I was going to ask you if you're okay with it.
06:27Well, I mean, I don't want you having to watch what you say.
06:28So if you want to, I'm cool with it.
06:29I don't care.
06:30Promise?
06:31Yeah.
06:32A hundred percent?
06:33Yeah.
06:34Now that both of our secrets are out in the open, I honestly feel like there's nothing
06:37that can stop us.
06:38I mean, the next hard conversation we have to have is the logistics.
06:41of what we're going to do in the future.
06:42I'm trying to wait to have that conversation because I'm just enjoying the time we have
06:57right now.
07:02You have to change those shorts.
07:03I keep looking, it's looking at me.
07:05It's looking at me.
07:07I can't.
07:08It's looking at me.
07:14Hey.
07:15Hello, hello, hello, hello.
07:16Hey.
07:17Hello, hello.
07:18Y'all hold the hands.
07:19That's so cute.
07:20All the way down to the end, all right?
07:22There you go.
07:23Hello, hello, hello.
07:25How y'all?
07:27How was y'all night?
07:28It was good?
07:29It was pretty good.
07:30Anything y'all want me to know?
07:31Nope.
07:32Nah.
07:34Okay, those of you who have not met me,
07:36I am your host, Tyranda Jones.
07:38I am your dating expert.
07:39I'm your sensei.
07:40So anything you need, holler at me, okay?
07:43Now, for the next few weeks,
07:44we will be putting your love to the test
07:46with dates and activities that will show
07:48if your virtual love can survive in the real world.
07:51And also, the intimacy suite is back.
07:54I said the intimacy suite is back.
07:58So if you guys decide you want to take things
08:00to the next level, that's what it's there for.
08:02That way you ain't got to be doing it in the showers.
08:05Uh-oh.
08:06Oh!
08:07That's why all them towels was in the dryer.
08:09Oh!
08:10Oh, boy.
08:11You touch the towels, don't touch the towels.
08:14Move it right along.
08:15Also, over the next few weeks,
08:17each couple will be responsible for cooking
08:19for the entire household to see how well you work together
08:23as partners.
08:24Because at the end of the day, it all leads to one question.
08:27Are you moving forward as a couple?
08:29Or are you walking away solo?
08:31All right, so we ready for our first activity?
08:33Yeah!
08:34You said no!
08:35Let's get it!
08:36So I'm going to send you guys inside.
08:38You're going to change it to your bathing suits,
08:40and then y'all going to meet me right over there by the pool.
08:42Okay?
08:43All right.
08:44Okay.
08:45Bye!
08:46Yeah!
08:47Hey!
08:48That's great.
08:51My burger belly.
08:52You're supposed to say,
08:54baby, you don't have one.
08:58No way I'm going to put on all this fat this fast.
09:03Today we got our first activity.
09:05They told us to strip.
09:08Okay, so move up.
09:11I ain't that excited about this.
09:13Like, I don't want to be in my swimwear right now
09:17in front of a bunch of people I don't know.
09:19I'm not the most comfortable with my body
09:21ever since I had my son.
09:23And Ty has never seen my body,
09:25so I'm nervous about it.
09:32Explore all parts of the body.
09:34She has this attitude like,
09:36I'm going to do things the way I want to do things.
09:38You have a way of flipping things
09:40and making a scene, put it on me.
09:42I don't understand why I'm being yelled at.
09:45I feel unsafe.
09:47That's it.
09:48No accountability.
09:57Find a mat.
09:58Take your pick.
09:59Don't fight.
10:00Just find one and sit.
10:01Find a mat, okay.
10:02Oh, it's pain.
10:03I have no clue what we're about to do,
10:07but it seems like it's going to be a little bit physical.
10:10I am just preparing myself for what it could be.
10:13I know it's going to be something that's going to stress us out.
10:18Today's activity is all about deepening your connection outside the bedroom
10:22while understanding each other's boundaries.
10:25We're about to explore intimacy a little bit differently,
10:28and we're going to do that through the art of body painting.
10:32Yay!
10:36Y'all are not excited enough for me.
10:38I'm a little bit nervous because we're half-naked outside on the lawn with paint,
10:43and I kind of have a fear of intimacy,
10:45but maybe this will help me open up a little bit.
10:48Next to me, I have the intimacy professional Joy De Michelle.
10:54You can take it away, sis.
10:55Hello, hello, hello.
10:57Never ever met.
10:58Hello.
10:59I am here to talk to you about intimacy, consent, boundaries, and clear communication.
11:06So this is an opportunity for you all to, like, really get to know each other.
11:11Intimacy in itself and consent in itself can actually be sexy.
11:17Consent is about making sure that the other person understands what you are saying yes to.
11:24So I'm going to give you examples.
11:25Do I have permission to smear paint on your back?
11:29Do I have permission to take my finger and run across from one shoulder to another?
11:35This is where the conversation can become sexy.
11:38So in your buckets, you guys have paint.
11:41Your partners will be your canvas.
11:43You also have a blindfold.
11:45You can choose to use those.
11:47Now figure out who's going to paint who.
11:49Do you want to go first?
11:50I'm a painter.
11:52I'm a painter.
11:53I'm sure you are.
11:55We know who's painting who?
11:57Yup.
11:58All right.
11:59Let's get started.
12:01I like this canvas.
12:02You do?
12:03I love it.
12:04Once you have your blindfolds on, the person who's not blindfolded will be asking for permission.
12:15May I draw on your chest?
12:17Yes.
12:18Yes.
12:19Okay.
12:20Do you mind if I cut your chest?
12:21No.
12:22You can't.
12:23No.
12:24No.
12:25No.
12:26No.
12:27No.
12:28No.
12:29No.
12:30No.
12:31No.
12:32No.
12:33No.
12:34No.
12:35No.
12:36No.
12:37No.
12:38No.
12:39No.
12:40No.
12:41No.
12:42No.
12:43No.
12:44I want to ask for your help.
12:45Okay.
12:46It's too late.
12:47Did I mean no?
12:49It's too late now.
12:55Okay.
12:56I see most of the fellas blindfolded.
12:58What's happening?
12:59From around.
13:00Yes.
13:01Do you like the fact that you can't see anything?
13:03Actually, yes.
13:06I'm working my territory.
13:09Honestly, I felt very submissive.
13:12she was so gentle when she asked me if she could do this this and that it made me feel a little
13:17closer to her it just showed me that i can be submissive to her do you want to turn around
13:22you want me to yes okay i have to ask you and remember you can explore all parts of the body
13:30as long as you ask for permission
13:32the instruction was make sure you ask before you put the paint somewhere she yet to ask me anything
13:52she has this attitude like i'm gonna do things the way i want to do things it's all about being
13:58connected it's like maybe a control trip those are things that i kind of picked up on the phone
14:05i had an ex one day we were driving and he turned his head to follow a booty which it was so crazy
14:11i'm so disrespectful but i put my fist right here when he turned around to see if i was looking it
14:15was like crack don't do me like that you shouldn't be wondering that might become a problem if she
14:28has control issues
14:35we got five minutes before we switch okay are you having fun i'm having fun
14:48all righty time's up take your blindfolds off okay let's see what we have over here
14:56well first is you know a kiss my lips right there he like that this is a tree
15:00i know he wants children so a tree and then the roots oh that's beautiful my name is here of
15:05course on his neck beautiful she sees me and she thinks of love and peace the fact that we're on the
15:13same page about growing and having a bigger family with her drawing the tree on me i think that's a good
15:19thing what we have over here so i did two roses at the top because he always makes me feel so pretty
15:26and i put the eye around him because it represents strength so were you surprised to see what what
15:32art she put on you we agreed that we're going to pay attention to each other so i wasn't blindfolded okay
15:41what do we have over here well i was showing ownership okay but clearly let the people know
15:50you know you know i had to leave my handprint you know so i kept forgetting to ask for permission
15:59though she didn't get permission to put that handprint but
16:04okay well you guys are talking about it and that's beautiful yeah but are you always used to
16:08getting your way i am that's probably why you don't know how to ask
16:11alexis is a handprint on chris's bottom area that's definitely saying this is mine like ownership
16:22like it's she's not playing about it hey hey hey how y'all doing over here yeah i see some red black
16:28and green come on we're playing with her yeah come on on this leg i start the right love and then
16:35outline it so that way it can really pop okay you gave her your last name hello all right now i like
16:42your style all right what's going on over here so i have his name tattooed on me so i wrote my name
16:48all over him so it would kind of see what it felt like and how did it feel to have her all over your
16:55body and making you into a masterpiece it felt great after waiting for it for so long and it finally
17:00happened i was like you got the green light you gotta ask again oh that's lovely what's going on
17:05over here i chose um the color gold and i tried to do a sun the sun represents power to me and that
17:14he's a black king and how did it feel to have to pause to ask permission about things i had to be more
17:21a little bit more mindful to ask because i sometimes tell so that was something that i had to remember
17:26all right thank you and last but certainly not least what do we have over here we have a masterpiece
17:36i felt like i had the best canvas so i didn't have to do too much okay i put some flowers on his back
17:43you know just so hopefully something blooms so how did it feel to have her painting on you and
17:49to have her asking permission i felt submissive you like that i love it i ain't gonna lie okay all right
17:56so that was great everybody thank you joy you're gonna swap out so if you haven't already painted
18:02it's your turn to paint you're supposed to ask dude what do you want to be wrong for me
18:08yeah you got my permission to figure out what you want to do oh do you want to put that one on
18:14do something on your back yeah but don't don't be touching my rolls and stuff
18:20i don't really like my back touch actually oh really this is where i am right now because of the
18:29autoimmune condition i'm a little bit more reserved i have a little bit more wounding when it comes to my
18:34body all right guys you guys got five minutes oh cramp cramp can i touch your chest wait you
18:45hearty that was so essential do you have permission to touch my damn arm i didn't even say yes yet
18:53i was gonna say yes anyway
18:54time is up so tell us what are you working with i drew a world because in this life of ours what's
19:07the sense in going through it without having someone that we could share our worlds with what we have
19:13over here we had the same thought process as far as like the tree i put the heart with the c because
19:18her son name is cal and i did another one because she called him biggest nice he knows how big family
19:24is for me especially my child and that made me feel nice that he put not only my son's name but
19:30his nickname too so he gets points for that how about you all what's going on over here put a stop sign
19:35on her back a lot of times she'd like to have her way and when i say stop she don't want to stop
19:43good thing i can't see behind me the reason why i put this big stop sign on her back because i wanted
19:51to use this activity to express myself about her argumentally ways and control issues and i'm
19:57feeling great about it okay well you all just need to come up with like a little word that you can use
20:02that means stop remember to be consensual is that what we got going on over here i put growth on his
20:10chest because he's growing always like challenging himself to be better and was it consensual did she
20:16ask permission all along the way she did but she didn't have to okay all right all right what's
20:21going on over here we got the black stripes because she's my little zebra okay you know she's black and
20:26white a lot of times growing up she had to tell people that she is black and so up here i put queen
20:31right here because she is my black queen all right all right thank y'all what's happening over here i wrote
20:37on her chest she allowed me to put on her chest uh powerful because she's such a like a strong person you
20:43know she's going like through like a um okay wait wait wait that means you don't have consent to
20:50share whatever you're about to say right all right and a specific journey um which involves her having
20:59to be to have that power to fight through it what's on her back it's actually um wings angel wings
21:06because uh when you first came out on our first date i could have sworn like it was like an angel like
21:12walking towards me i'm really thankful that urban noticed in the moment that i wasn't exactly
21:30comfortable with him sharing in front of the group about the autoimmune condition sometimes i'm sensitive
21:36about sharing my own story and i wasn't quite ready for that to be the focus in that moment
21:43and how about for you how was it for you to have him in control in that way i feel like a big kid
21:49you know like it's fun we just look like kindergarten but that's kind of how we are we play around a lot
21:57it takes me a little while to be intimate with somebody so it felt good to slowly explore that
22:04all right thank you guys for participating in this activity these tools and activities we're not
22:09doing them for no reason this is to help you create healthy communication also create healthy boundaries
22:16intimacy is deeper than just jumping in the bed and doing the do so that's it for tonight's activity i
22:23will see you guys tomorrow because we will have another activity yay all right thank you thank you
22:37so what y'all making man we're gonna do some blackened catfish with a wine caper sauce with a rice pilaf
22:46with some green beans okay and i'm his assistant love i cook with love tonight me and brit are supposed
22:55to cook for everyone i feel as though i have built a rapport with her now and so i'm looking forward to
23:01it how many cups of water do any do uh 10 cups whatever you want me to do my king thank you love
23:08with ty it's good so far especially you know with everything that's going on and meeting all the new
23:13couples it's been slightly chaotic but good how we doing we working what do you want for the base oil
23:21butter what oil butter and water did they grab vegan butter i don't think so oh do i need to do vegan
23:28butter yes oh okay y'all can't eat regular butter i mean sometimes but not for real because you could
23:37also do a small pan of the veggies and just do oil versus butter okay yeah just don't don't kill it
23:44with oil though are you cooking darling or are we cooking okay so oil gives me a lot of mucus so i
23:50don't eat okay listen we're cooking for more than just one person right i said make this i know but
23:55when is y'all time to cook y'all can cook i'm cooking for more than just her and to be quite frank
24:03that's not my woman someone else gonna have to adjust for her restrictions not me you gotta use
24:08vegan butter you gotta use this and that no we're trying to cook right now you're you're yelling at
24:13me i'm not yelling but i'm saying y'all stressing us out while we're trying to cook am i stressing
24:17out i'm tired wow this is why i'm coming to kitchen i could cook my own food honestly i don't even have
24:25to sit at the table we could just put the oil on it i'm getting out of dogs i feel disconnected what
24:33you mean did you feel sensual did you feel sexual at that point it didn't matter then that mean that
24:38you had a problem then i feel like from the beginning we just had a natural vibe the thing
24:44that is weighing on my mind is that i got some stuff to tell tatiana
24:53you got so frustrated with alicia no because they can't keep telling me how to cook just be mindful
25:00you talking to other men's women tired of being yelled at i'm already at my max for the day with
25:08the activity and now ty's barking at me i don't understand why i'm being yelled at and i really
25:15didn't appreciate it irvin what's up beautiful they was just yelling at ty was just yelling at me
25:20who ty why i was like i don't really do butter but i do oil and he basically was like basically
25:27like kicking me out the kitchen kicked you out the kitchen well no but he raised his voice and i was
25:32like you're yelling he was like i'm not yelling but y'all asked us to cook and this is our night
25:37and all right and then i kind of raised my voice a little bit because i'm tired of arguing about food
25:42it's kind of dumb to me just don't worry about it it sounds like she was the aggressor in this
25:47situation her tone or how she talks to people can be considered bossy you don't ever go up to a
25:53person and just tell them how to cook you know the man's cooking let them cook the kitchen is like a
25:58very um it's a trigger for you like the whole area i get it i mean not necessarily but maybe it is
26:09i don't know i feel some type of way after that we weren't connecting really yeah like i like the
26:14finger pain and stuff so i don't know hey speak of the devil we ain't talking about you
26:22more ways to connect so don't even worry about you don't even worry about it what's she saying she
26:25tired of me no no not at all okay i like your pajamas how did you feel the pain went oh it was
26:31great we worked okay got me right back snuggle yeah it worked for me what do you think you know what
26:40things are i don't know you just felt disconnected when he's out there i felt disconnected what you mean
26:48uh-huh we'll be back y'all all right all right you didn't express that outside you was telling me
26:53you like it you was like y'all love the way you touch my legs i actually said to you i'm slower
27:00rub me slower i didn't hear that but i had to be doing something right for you to say you getting
27:05turned on the thing itself turn me on yes you touching my back that's turning me on but then when
27:14you come to my leg and you just like this instead of it just being like when i was rubbing your thighs
27:21i took my time you didn't even ask for permission lex did what she wanted to do
27:29did you feel intimate did you feel sensual did you feel sexual at that point it didn't matter it didn't
27:36matter okay all right well then that mean that you had a problem then so then exactly how i'm feeling
27:41it's warranted after the exercise and i saw how alexis basically did what she want to do it really
27:48gave me a red flag but i don't want to say that i feel like we're not going to work because i don't
27:55feel that way i really got to show this woman that i mean business or if not she's going to treat me
28:01like a little boy i'm gonna go give me something to drink you okay i'm good
28:18rich yep you got the salt yes sprinkle some salt in here for me
28:23oh see that see that sexy right there hey can i just point out that i think y'all cooking together
28:28is so cute oh thank you yeah real talk it's those moments that i feel like show you how it's going
28:35to be like at home mom and dad the food ready yet not yet baby stay out the kitchen is what mom and dad
28:42dad said that's what dad said stay out the kitchen okay let's do some sanitation okay reaching up towards
28:51the ceiling yes in your exhale fourfold i went up the stairs to go grab something
28:58brandon and alicia they were like doing yoga what's the matter you upset right now and me i've been
29:05asking you and that's how you do yoga and stuff i did want to do yoga together you want to do yoga
29:10tomorrow not necessarily i want to wake up whenever my body tells you calls me yeah like just to see
29:17you just do on the fly for somebody else it's offensive to me oh i didn't realize that that's
29:22like you're walking away we always talked about us being a team but she just chose to do yoga with
29:27somebody else that was inconsiderate you know it's like it's a respect man just felt weird like you
29:33felt like i was servicing somebody else exactly that's how it comes across you get what i'm saying for
29:37me anyways because i don't i'm sorry you saw it like that it wasn't my intention to over serve
29:43somebody or whatever you're saying i'm trying to apologize it's okay relax relax breathe i'm feeling
29:51completely drained today i'm feeling like i'm being placed in all of these situations and being
29:59misunderstood right now you don't think that was a part of insecurity no it's not not it's about like
30:05doing something like you didn't do for me you caused it this is this is wild it is wild
30:13we are not on the same page currently and that's a little disappointing because i have great intentions
30:20i just don't know why he's not feeling it all right we should go in the kitchen i think they said dinner
30:25serves yeah this is the first group dinner and i wanted to make sure i could do as best of a job that i
30:48could so that we all would have a good time at the end of the day you can't argue if you got a mouth
30:54full of food and it's good food at that come on now so what did everybody think of today i think it was
31:01a good activity that helped us bond and come closer together as a family yeah i'm not usually the one to
31:06get naked on screen i was shocked myself charlie mentioned to me before dinner that that's when
31:21she wanted to reveal to everyone that about our situation we have an announcement to make
31:26but i'm gonna start it off okay an announcement we do i honestly would have kept it in between us
31:33because that's our business but she shot me that look across the table and i was like oh jesus here
31:38we go charlie and i we had one of the biggest obstacles that we could have had with each other
31:44i had her secret to tell her she had a secret to tell me
31:50the suspense is killing me right now i'm sorry so i came clean to him about something
31:56and i had to admit something to her i just recently had a kid
32:01oh six months old oh but i also had a kid and she is one month old
32:09so when i and when i'm disappearing i'm pumping i'm breastfeeding still what yeah oh wow so
32:16congratulations congratulations this is the reaction i wanted thank you but wait there's
32:24also one thing i dropped on him too so y'all know i had a 12 year old i have four kids
32:32i have a 12 year old a seven year old a five year old and a newborn which i also he did not know
32:38so i'm working with the brady bunch um we went from two kids to six overnight so i feel like this
32:47man already got kids of his own and this woman talking about she got four other kids there's no
32:52way he's ready for all of this i couldn't believe the news from charlie and jared like wow but i guess
32:59that just makes them perfect for each other charlie i said is my best friend and i told i sold her
33:05multiple times there's not many things that you could tell me that that would get me off of you
33:10and i love her so we're gonna figure it out good job congratulations
33:19i kind of wanted to like shield my face from what was about to happen
33:24everyone was so supportive you looking like her already and you just ate
33:31jared had my back it just went way better than i could have ever imagined
33:36but i ain't gonna lie that crazy you applied on a show pregnant if you
33:43came on here and tell me you had a one month old no no for what you would have did no no no
33:47what i would have did i got four yeah i forgot about that part so it's two bombs you don't have
33:52you don't have you don't have one kid you got old kids but we both oh yeah i got folks girl
34:00it makes no sense to me having those secrets and those big secrets for that long is the weirdest
34:06thing i've ever seen in my life it's a lot that we haven't talked about but i just feel like that's
34:11that's a bit much i haven't been completely honest with brandon i have a couple secrets that i need to
34:16let him know i don't know bro i ain't the one for drama but that is kind of crazy my secrets could
34:22definitely jeopardize our future but i really hope that it's not a deal breaker for brandon
34:27that's crazy
34:37some of the other couples they're arguing
34:40but with clay our relationship i would say is progressing pretty well we're getting along
34:46i just wanted to spend more time in a bed that wasn't a twin where we can like you know massage
34:52each other and like cuddle and just have that intimate moment with each other in a more comfortable
34:58setting i hate that it's possible room why can't it just be the extra room
35:07i really just wanted to be able to like cuddle for a bit and like just have a space
35:14i wasn't expecting to like have sex or anything i'm vibing as long as it's like
35:19you're having a good time yeah it's like i feel like there's no time wasted you know what i'm
35:23saying all right it's kind of hard sometimes to go from just being like on the internet to seeing
35:28somebody in person but i feel like we just have a natural vibe i feel like from the beginning i knew
35:33that we would be fine you know this experience is to get to know the person beyond like the virtual
35:39screen and see if you actually like this person in real life you're so big there's so much that you
35:45don't see when you're doing a virtual relationship like how people interact are they truthful like
35:52there's so much you can hide um behind a screen what did you think about uh charlie and jerry jerry's
36:02his name right yeah i think that was something like i guess it's none of our business but it's like
36:10i wasn't expecting that for sure if something like that happened would you tell me
36:18i think i would i would just want to like make sure i tell you what the right timing
36:23what do you feel like is the right time i don't know whenever something is sensitive
36:29and you care about somebody you really gotta watch the way you like say things i do feel like the
36:34relationship with tatiana and i is progressing my turn however the thing that is weighing on my mind
36:43is that i got some stuff to tell tatiana do you normally like this whole second um it really depends
36:49on the case i have a newborn child that she does not know about i've been scared to tell her because i
37:00do want this relationship to work and i think that tatiana will not receive the news the best honestly
37:17i just wanted your opinion man because i don't really like you know i ain't no messy person like
37:21talking my business but you solid so and i had a good time you know what i'm saying so like i just
37:28wanted your opinion on this when i sit on the couch what's the first thing she said i feel
37:32disconnected i'm saying like what you feel like i'm disconnected why are you even doing that you
37:39ain't did nothing that lady asked you out there you did exactly what you wanted to do true i do not
37:44do well with control i got a lot of uh man i got a lot of trial i got a lot of childhood trauma from
37:53that man i'd have had nine step parents combined i'd have seen control on every level bro and that's
38:01something i don't want my mother been married several times i've watched several people come
38:06into our household growing up as a child and try to control my mother and then i also moved to dallas
38:11with my father where he tried to be controlling towards me so when i found out i could stand on my own
38:17two feet i don't tolerate control from nobody she knows this that's what's killing me you feel so i
38:24can see if you ain't had it you know my background you know the root so when somebody know the root
38:29of why you like this and they study it's like okay do you care i remember her saying that she comes from
38:37a jamaican background and her father was jamaican if i'm not mistaken yeah she's coming from that hard
38:42exterior so before we jump to conclusions experience each other for the rest of this time we have with
38:48each other thanks so see what other tests we have you don't know what could happen yeah i remember you
38:54telling me you petty i remember you telling me that and you know what i thought putting the stop sign
38:58on her back was petty it was it was very good and i couldn't draw it up i forgot how many sides
39:03and stop saying hey so i drew a square as soon as you said that i looked around i said oh my god
39:20i really need to talk to you yo how are you i'm not doing that great i'm not really feeling you right
39:27now okay i don't know what it is about you i don't know if you can read me but you can't seem to catch a
39:32hint for nothing you can't you do yoga that was cool i didn't interrupt you and then you had to
39:38never say that it was my insecurities that was insulting to me i was so insulted it's the fact
39:44that you you have a way of flipping things and making it seem put it on me when you did something
39:49wrong i can literally feel the steam like coming off of his body i do not want to have conversations
39:56with somebody who cannot control their anger their words it's the energy the energy feels
40:02angry what was wrong the thing about it like i mentioned what's up i'm gonna wait stop interrupting
40:08me please like for real like come on i feel unsafe with your demeanor at the moment because you're
40:17still you're still upset no no no no i know i'm gonna step away because i don't want you making
40:22feel unsafe come here no no no no you said it i said with your demeanor can we have the conversation
40:29once you know we can't calm down my demeanor for you all right it's all about your protection right
40:33it's about both of our protection no apparently not i'm not one to like just walk away from a
40:39conversation but as a man if a woman tells you she feels unsafe just get up and move we never really
40:45argued like that over the phone sure we had our disagreements but in person it's hella different this
40:51whole deflection no accountability what were you talking to him about because i could hear you
41:04saying something it's like a whole experience and like how i tell you clay are you a liar you're talking
41:10in circles right now you think you addicted to alcohol i'm definitely not an alcoholic you drinking again
41:18i would stop and let you drink out of control like you want to and now i just back off i don't know
41:23if me and kiki relationship can continue