‘90 Day Fiancé’ Season 11 Episode 6 Recap
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00:00I'm telling you right now that I don't want to get married unless it's forever. I mean
00:05it. It was just a thought. Okay, don't think it. The hardest thing I've ever done was leaving
00:12my family, but I can't even be honest with her about that. I know what I want, but I
00:17just want to know what you want.
00:21On 90 Day Fiance, Shekinah and Sarper are getting used to living with each other, but
00:25he wishes that her home were a bit bigger.
00:28Frankly, the house is a little smaller than I expected. I was hoping bigger, especially
00:36the upstairs because there is just a bed and a bathroom. That's all. I don't know if it
00:44would change my decision to come, but it wouldn't probably, but at least I could prepare myself.
00:50We picked back up with Mark and his daughter Jordan, who isn't happy about his relationship
00:55with Mina.
00:56I'm trying to find happiness again, and I did fall in love with somebody. She does happen
01:00to be younger.
01:01I want you to be happy. I do, but I really just wish that it was a different situation.
01:07I would be so much more comfortable if you found someone like your age and who lived
01:12in the U.S. and like.
01:14So what? You want me to break up with her right now, not get married and go find somebody
01:18who's 45 or 50. That's your idea of fixing all this?
01:21Well, no, because you already have a baby, so you can't really fix anything now.
01:24Right. So we don't have more. That's my first thing. Don't have more.
01:27You're literally trying to dictate how my happiness going forward. You're judging something
01:33that I can't change.
01:34Imani's still upset about what happened with Ani and Matt, and she opened up about how
01:39she was feeling.
01:40You're walking into a new relationship like to us, but there's a relationship there of
01:4610 years. And when you walk into a relationship of 10 years, we have our own problems already.
01:51This is like becoming kind of my nightmare where our own problems are resurfacing in
01:55this relationship as well. I feel I'm working twice as hard than I was in my previous, just
02:00our relationship now. Like, this is a lot on me.
02:06So if you already have a lot of issues and it's shaking, you bring in a third person,
02:10it's probably not going to go well.
02:14You know, we have a family and this is, you know, a chance for us to see if we can get
02:20what we need to make that decision. I mean, we don't want our family to be at risk.
02:27The biggest fear for me, what can come out of bringing somebody else to our relationship
02:34and our marriage, our life is, is losing you. I don't know how I can exist in a life without
02:42Matt. I don't know who I am without you.
02:45They decided to set up some rules going forward.
02:48Is everyone allowed to have sex with each other without the other person's permission?
02:54I don't want it to be that restricted. This is why initially I never wanted rules, but
03:03I couldn't help what I felt that moment, which is a little bit of jealousy and disrespect.
03:09So I would like you guys to let me know as soon as you can. I would like to be in the
03:15known.
03:17So what you're asking for is for permission.
03:22I think so.
03:27That's good for me. Now it's out there. I understand.
03:31For me, it's okay.
03:33Sean and Aaliyah reunited in the States and we're so excited to see each other.
03:38We are now one big happy hairy family.
03:41Yeah, very hairy for sure. Oh my God.
03:45I think the baby, it's really cute. I got a little nervous about the licking, but I
03:51need to damage that with that.
03:54I'm so happy. Everything worked out. Now we can live finally together.
04:03So now we have each other.
04:05It's official.
04:06It's official.
04:07It's happened. Officially happened.
04:11But back at Sean's place, Aaliyah wasn't happy when the topic of their open relationship
04:15came up and Sean isn't sure how to navigate things going forward.
04:19I think Aaliyah had visions of the happily ever afters where everything was easy and
04:26people just stayed monogamous and no problem came and everything was fine.
04:32But of course, the last time we saw Aaliyah in Brazil, there was no Douglas and our sex
04:39life changed.
04:41So as much as I love Aaliyah, at the end of the day, I didn't sign up to be in a relationship
04:46with a woman.
04:47So if she's fully going to be a woman, then I know that I'll be missing the company of
04:54being with a man.
04:55So I don't know how to navigate it where we're both like happy.
05:00Joan was shocked to find out how much debt Greg was in.
05:03I guess like $8,000, a little bit more than that in debt.
05:08I knew Greg had a debt, but I didn't think it was that big, like $8,000.
05:14I'm very shocked to hear about that.
05:17I have a different opinion on what I think about America.
05:20I thought people living in America were stable, but they're not.
05:25I'm not really happy about this.
05:28Later Joan met with his friends, and they're not sure that he's going to be able to get
05:32his life together enough for what Joan wants.
05:35Greg needs to be extremely realistic about what it's going to take to simply get a roof
05:39over their heads, let alone a roof that's large enough to supply children.
05:45Realistically, what is the next step here?
05:47Are you going to take a standard job?
05:48Are you going to try to move out of your parents' house?
05:50Are you going to move into a rental?
05:54You know, I have to figure out something that's going to support the both of us, at least
05:57until she can get a job, and then we can figure it out from there.
06:00But right now, I am the sole proprietor, I am the sole caregiver, I am everything.
06:06I am worried that things are not going to work out, and she's just going to kick him
06:11to the side, to be honest with you.
06:13Maddie and Stevie were talking about their future together, when he said something that
06:17left her shocked.
06:19I'm really sorry, but I've thought about it when I was in Iran.
06:23If one day you don't want to be with me, I would still stay in the U.S.
06:31And now, I don't feel like that anymore.
06:40So before, you were okay with thinking that if we broke up, you would stay here?
06:44Yeah.
06:45Now she's questioning their future together.
06:48This is the first time I've ever heard Maddie talking about if we didn't work.
06:54I honestly can't believe that Maddie is telling me that he had already planned on staying
06:58in America even if we didn't work out, because I've never thought about what it would be
07:03like to not be with Maddie.
07:06This is probably the first time in our whole entire relationship that I've ever questioned
07:10Maddie's motive.
07:12And for the first time in our whole entire relationship, I'm starting to question whether
07:17this is something that I want to do or not.
07:21She says that she's never once questioned whether they would work out prior to that
07:24moment.
07:25For me, it's forever or nothing.
07:29Honestly, I don't hear anything that he's saying because all I can hear is the part
07:34where he's talking about if we don't work out.
07:37And this is really shocking to me because I would have never went through with all of
07:42this if there was ever a doubt that Maddie and I weren't going to work out.
07:47She told him because of her past relationships, she doesn't want to get married unless they're
07:50absolutely certain that they're going to work out.
07:53Your thoughts are a huge deal.
07:57I have been so hurt in my life that I'm not willing to be hurt again.
08:01So if you love me at all, just make sure it's what you want, because I'm not going to do it.
08:07That's why I love you so much.
08:10You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things like
08:15that, which is the first time you've ever said anything like that, ever.
08:23You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things
08:25like that, ever.
08:27You're not making me feel reassured that these things are not true when you say things like
08:29that, ever.