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00:00Azamaton ka safina, zindagi ka qadina, rooh-e-Makkah, Madina,
00:09aadmi ko banata hai yeh insaan.
00:17Shah-e-Ramadan, Shah-e-Ramadan.
00:22Okay, sir, the topic of suicide and its causes.
00:26The conversation had reached the point that we spoke about its causes,
00:32its subject matter, the references of the Quran and Hadith.
00:37Now we come to, if someone commits suicide,
00:40then his condolences, his funeral prayer, his prayers for forgiveness.
00:45I would like Allama Liaquat Hussain Azari Sahib,
00:47in this regard also, if someone has committed suicide,
00:49then the family members are very worried,
00:51that God knows what people will say to us,
00:53how to pray for forgiveness, how to perform his funeral prayer.
00:56A lot of problems arise all of a sudden.
00:58What would you like to say?
01:00Sir, before that, I would like to say a sentence.
01:02When Allama Khurram Sahib was speaking,
01:04that sometimes a person commits suicide,
01:07because he sees that the other person is getting these things.
01:10So Allah the Almighty has told the believers in many places,
01:14in the Ayat-e-Tayyibat,
01:15that,
01:20that these disbelievers roaming in the markets,
01:23and their successes and successes,
01:25should not put you in distress.
01:28This is not the materialistic world,
01:30and the things of this world,
01:31because of which a person thinks,
01:33that someone has got this, someone has got that.
01:35Do not desire that which Allah the Almighty has given to others.
01:42So this is also a very big thing,
01:45among cousins, among relatives.
01:47In Punjabi, a cousin is called a partner.
01:50A partner.
01:51Yes, that is, they are considered an enemy and a competitor.
01:55They say, this is our partner.
01:57So, because of this,
01:59a person also goes towards destruction and destruction in this competition.
02:02As far as your question is concerned,
02:04suicide is a grave sin,
02:06it is a very big crime.
02:08But a person who commits suicide,
02:10commits a crime, commits a sin,
02:12but because of the sin, he is not a disbeliever.
02:15He is not a disbeliever.
02:17For that sinner,
02:19for any sinner,
02:21we offer his funeral prayer,
02:23and pray for his forgiveness.
02:25So, for him also, we will offer his funeral prayer,
02:27and pray for his forgiveness.
02:29This is the one-liner answer.
02:31Then, in relation to this,
02:33like Mukhtar Sahib read Hadith-e-Paq of Bukhari Sharif,
02:35in it, Khalid-an-Mukhalladan came.
02:37So, he explained that,
02:39if he committed suicide,
02:41considering it lawful.
02:43Now, obviously, we do not have any such evidence.
02:45We do not know the intention of anyone,
02:47whether he did it considering it lawful or lawful.
02:49He is not doing it considering it lawful,
02:51he is doing it considering it the solution to the problem.
02:53But, if he has said any such sentence,
02:55from which it is evident that
02:57he was considering it lawful,
02:59then his order will be that,
03:01considering suicide lawful,
03:03this will definitely lead to disbelief.
03:05But, normally,
03:07the 99.99%
03:09which is generally there,
03:11is a sin.
03:13And, a person who is a sinner,
03:15also prays for forgiveness.
03:17And, for a sinner,
03:19a person also offers a funeral prayer.
03:21Yes, there is a person who commits suicide,
03:23who did it during the time of Prophet Muhammad.
03:25So, a funeral was brought in front of Huzoor.
03:27So, Huzoor said to the Sahaba-e-Ikram,
03:29O my Sahaba, you should offer a funeral prayer.
03:31One more incident,
03:33they were all sharing it very well.
03:35Can you mention one incident?
03:37Yes, it was of a Sahabi.
03:39When he was injured,
03:41he cut his fingers
03:43from the fruit of his arrow.
03:45His fingers were injured.
03:47So, when someone saw him in a dream,
03:49he said,
03:51this is a tradition of Muslims,
03:53he said that Allah Almighty said to me
03:55that I have forgiven you,
03:57except for your hands.
03:59So, when the Prophet was told
04:01that he had migrated,
04:03then he prayed in the presence of Allah,
04:05may Allah forgive his hands.
04:07Yes, this can happen.
04:09Yes, Allah will forgive.
04:11Ok, Mufti Sahib,
04:13since you are from Bagh,
04:15I have a question in my mind.
04:17If someone commits suicide,
04:19we cannot say that
04:21he did not die on faith.
04:23There was a solution to this problem,
04:25which was different from
04:27Halal and Haram.
04:29He committed suicide
04:31and freed himself.
04:33So, what is the outcome
04:35in the hereafter?
04:37He was a Muslim,
04:39even though he thought
04:41it was Haram.
04:43So, what will be the outcome
04:45in the hereafter?
04:47When we read Ahadith,
04:49we see the guidance
04:51of Allah Almighty.
04:53If someone
04:55died on faith,
04:57whether he committed a grave sin
04:59or something else,
05:01then there are two situations.
05:03First, he will be put in hell
05:05and he will be tormented.
05:07And there are many Ahadith,
05:09like the incident of Bani Israel.
05:11There was a person who never
05:13did any good deed in his life.
05:15When he was about to die,
05:17he made a will,
05:19that when I die,
05:21burn my body,
05:23blow half of its ashes in the air
05:25and pour the other half in the river.
05:27So, he did this.
05:29Allah Almighty commanded the river
05:31even though the Lord knows.
05:33So, he said,
05:35Lord, you know very well,
05:37only because of your fear.
05:39I was afraid that if I came
05:41under your control,
05:43you would not leave me
05:45because I did not do any good deed.
05:47So, Allah said to the angels,
05:49bear witness,
05:51I have forgiven him.
05:53So, when a follower of the
05:55previous prophet,
05:57who did not do any good deed,
05:59but Allah gave him special love,
06:01special attention, special grace,
06:03his mercy,
06:05so it can be expected that
06:07Allah can forgive him
06:09without the torment of hell.
06:11So, this means that
06:13the result of your question
06:15is that when someone dies like this,
06:17people curse him a lot.
06:19They say he is hellbound.
06:21What happens with this?
06:23The living are very disheartened.
06:25They have heartaches.
06:27May Allah forgive him.
06:29He is dependent on his mercy.
06:31Obviously, this is what the hadith says.
06:33But where is it prohibiting
06:35that if Allah wants,
06:37he should not forgive this great sin.
06:39He will forgive anyone
06:41except Shirk.
06:43Therefore, it should not be said
06:45in a bad way.
06:47Very good.
06:49I had a question in my mind.
06:51I don't know how many of you
06:53have this question in your mind.
06:55Dear viewers,
06:57today we are talking about suicide
06:59and its causes.
07:01Now, all these things have reached you.
07:03It is obvious that
07:05there can be regret,
07:07its consequences,
07:09and prayers of forgiveness for it.
07:11In any case,
07:13if someone's loved one has passed away,
07:15ask his heart that
07:17may Allah give everyone patience,
07:19confidence, and trust in Allah
07:21who is a weapon of a believer
07:23or a great wealth for him.
07:25Now, we come to these incidents
07:27which are increasing.
07:29We are constantly seeing
07:31that this is increasing.
07:33We are talking about Pakistanis.
07:35So, in such an increasing situation,
07:37what steps should be taken
07:39to stop it?
07:41Allama Mufti Khurram Iqbal Rehmani
07:43Sahib,
07:45if you could shed some light on this,
07:47it would be great.
07:49In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
07:51In this,
07:53if we look at the causes of suicide,
07:55we see different kinds of jihad.
07:59We see social disorder,
08:01unemployment,
08:03family pressure,
08:05marital issues,
08:07and many other issues.
08:09There are many factors
08:11which make a person commit suicide.
08:13So, the first thing is
08:15that the relationship with religion
08:17and the teachings of religion
08:19should be made common.
08:21For example, in the Holy Quran,
08:23Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful,
08:25has said about the life of this world,
08:27that
08:33We will surely test you.
08:35And you will be tested
08:37in these different categories.
08:39Through hunger, illness, death,
08:41business,
08:43or loss of fruits.
08:45But when these tests come,
08:47what should you do?
08:49You should be patient.
08:51And for those who are patient,
08:53Allah says,
08:55When these trials and tribulations come,
08:57then it is said that
08:59we belong to Allah.
09:01Allah has created us.
09:03These comforts are from Allah,
09:05and these trials are from Allah.
09:07And then for those who are patient,
09:09Allah says,
09:11Allah is with those who are patient.
09:13First of all,
09:15so that in the claim of faith,
09:17truth and falsehood can be identified.
09:19And the relationship with Allah,
09:21the relationship with His love
09:23and His mercy,
09:25should be made known.
09:27And in the claim of faith,
09:29truth and falsehood can be identified.
09:31People should also be able to express this.
09:33Second, as Namah Sahib has said,
09:35the most beloved people of Allah,
09:37the Prophets,
09:39should be recited.
09:41That they are so beloved to Allah,
09:43how many trials and tribulations were there,
09:45what was their way?
09:47That they should be patient.
09:49They were patient everywhere.
09:51Then the companions of the Beloved Prophet,
09:53his family,
09:55look at their circumstances.
09:57How many trials and tribulations were there,
09:59but they were never disappointed.
10:01They were patient.
10:03So the first thing is that
10:05awareness should be given.
10:07The second is that
10:09there is a big role of parents in this.
10:11In the same way, their responsibility is to educate.
10:13They should see what kind of
10:15tendencies are there in the child,
10:17with whom is he sitting,
10:19in what condition is he in.
10:21The child, especially at an increasing age,
10:23is more prone to depression.
10:25At that time, there is a gap between
10:27the parents and the child.
10:29They are not talking.
10:31What is happening in school, college,
10:33what is happening in the tuition center.
10:35If there is no conversation,
10:37then slowly he goes towards disappointment
10:39There is a big role of the educators in this.
10:41The educational system is being made.
10:43In that, only the thought is being given
10:45that you have to be successful in the world.
10:47And in the process of success in the world,
10:49you have to earn as much money as possible.
10:51The more money you earn, the more successful you are.
10:53And if you earn less money,
10:55then you are not successful.
10:57So this material development
10:59and the blind chase behind it,
11:01this is also the cause of many problems.
11:03And because of this, people come in a state of despair.
11:05The Holy Quran has indicated towards this.
11:07You have earned so much wealth in your heart
11:09that you do not care about the world,
11:11nor do you care about health,
11:13nor do you care about the hereafter.
11:15Then we see that the government
11:17also has its own role
11:19to arrange such policies
11:21especially for the young people
11:23so that there is no despair in them.
11:25There should be a healthy environment for them.
11:27It is a matter of educational continuity.
11:29Then when they come for a job,
11:31they do not get a job in the field.
11:33Then the responsibilities of the family,
11:35the responsibilities of the family
11:37become very big.
11:39When he is educated,
11:41then he will earn something and come.
11:43Our conditions will change,
11:45but they do not change.
11:47So all these factors of society
11:49can play their role.
11:51If all these factors play their role,
11:53then God willing,
11:55this matter can be stopped.
11:57Because basically,
11:59it is a mental disease.
12:01And until its conditions are not found,
12:03it cannot be stopped.
12:05Allama Liaquat Hussain Azari Sahib,
12:07what will you say?
12:09This is a very important topic.
12:11It is obvious that people have a hope
12:13from the discussion of the scholars.
12:15There is a hope to live.
12:17There is a passion for good deeds.
12:19What will you say, Allama Sahib,
12:21in this regard?
12:23In this age of ignorance,
12:25especially when a child was born,
12:27the girls were killed.
12:29And they used to say,
12:31in Bani Israel,
12:33and in Surah Al-An'am,
12:35Do not kill your children
12:37out of fear.
12:39We will provide for them
12:41and for you.
12:43Do not kill your children
12:45out of fear of their livelihood.
12:47We will provide for them
12:49and for you.
12:51It is upon us
12:53that we do not become providers.
12:55It is our job to struggle.
12:57Whatever Allah has given us,
12:59whether on the path of haram
13:01or on the path of hopelessness,
13:03whatever Allah has given us,
13:05we strive for it.
13:07We strive for it.
13:09We should not go beyond it.
13:11This is the most fundamental thing.
13:13This is for those people
13:15who say, I am fed up.
13:17What should I do?
13:19Secondly, for the youth,
13:21for the children,
13:23they have a lot of intolerance.
13:25The ratio of divorces has increased.
13:27The ratio of suicides has increased.
13:29The reason for this is that
13:31there is no tolerance left.
13:33There is a lot of impatience.
13:35The result is taken away very soon.
13:37One of the things is that
13:39our child has entered the digital world
13:41and has gone too far
13:43into the digital world.
13:45There is not much in the practical life.
13:47I request the children
13:49that the practical life is something else.
13:51Especially for the girls
13:53who go to their homes,
13:55there is a very beautiful saying
13:57on both sides.
13:59Sometimes wives trouble,
14:01sometimes husbands trouble,
14:03sometimes mothers-in-law.
14:05You cannot say all of this
14:07to one person.
14:09The whole society is in it.
14:11Girls say that
14:13I used to do this at my father's house.
14:15My father's house is a different thing.
14:17My husband's house is a different thing.
14:19Girls should mentally prepare themselves.
14:21They should be brave.
14:23When there is a responsibility of marriage,
14:25then there is a burden on their shoulders.
14:27They should not be cowards.
14:31In our old times,
14:33suicide rates were very low.
14:35Although there were
14:37fewer means of livelihood.
14:39But with patience and gratitude,
14:41all the houses were running.
14:45There was not much,
14:47but Allah had kept blessings and mercy.
14:49These are the basic things
14:51that can be tried.
14:53The third thing that all the scholars did
14:55was to counsel their children.
14:57They should be made friends.
14:59We have left our children
15:01in the society.
15:03As a result,
15:05we do not know
15:07where our children are going.
15:09Their friends are making them
15:11intoxicated in schools,
15:13universities.
15:15We should make our children
15:17our friends.
15:23Our religion has given us
15:25this concept.
15:27Especially the 13 years of
15:29the government of Mecca,
15:31the concept of the hereafter
15:33has been placed in our minds
15:35with the continuous revelation
15:37of the verses.
15:39The most important thing is
15:41that sometimes we understand
15:43the world and forget the hereafter.
15:45Only then do we feel
15:47that we are not getting anything
15:49and we should kill ourselves.
15:51Our religion makes us understand
15:53that 50, 60, 70 years of life
15:55is really a dream.
15:57Waking up from a dream
15:59will be in the hereafter.
16:01There is no limit to it.
16:03If we give our children
16:05the idea of the hereafter,
16:07then even if we do not get anything here,
16:09Allah will increase it in the hereafter.
16:11But if you are patient,
16:13then there is eternal paradise.
16:15One sister told me
16:17that her husband is a drunkard
16:19and he is a drunkard.
16:21Will he be with me in paradise?
16:23I said yes.
16:25She was surprised.
16:27I said yes, but you will get
16:29after the painting.
16:31So she was very happy.
16:33And to a great extent,
16:35her depression was over.
16:37Give your children the idea of the hereafter.
16:39Tell them about the rewards of the hereafter.
16:41Keep thinking.
16:43There are many books in which
16:45the rewards of the hereafter
16:47have been described.
16:49InshaAllah,
16:51it will have a very good effect.
16:53Qibla Mufti Muhammad Akmal Madani
16:55was speaking in a very beautiful way.
16:57I am very thankful to Allama Ali Aqdus
16:59for coming.
17:01Mufti Khurram Iqbal Rahmani
17:03has also given a very good speech.
17:05Qibla Mufti Muhammad Akmal Madani
17:07is the head of Rehmat-e-Sahar.
17:09He comes to answer your questions
17:11Respected audience,
17:13if you are a parent,
17:15if you are the head of an institution,
17:17if you are a neighbor,
17:19if you are a worshipper
17:21and people are sitting in your row,
17:23whichever position you are in,
17:25wherever you are,
17:27in this society,
17:29if you see yourself in any character,
17:31then you should definitely
17:33ask that person about his well-being.
17:35Ask him about his problems,
17:37whatever his heart desires.
17:39If you see someone who is suffering from depression,
17:41if you see someone who is disappointed with life,
17:43if you see someone who is
17:45humiliating the society
17:47by saying that there is nothing for me in this world,
17:49ask him about his well-being.
17:51Have a relationship with him
17:53in such a way
17:55that he feels that
17:57life is a very good thing.
17:59So, if you do this,
18:01ask him about his well-being,
18:03motivate him,
18:05then definitely,
18:07he will deserve the mercy of Allah
18:09and will be able to live a good life.
18:11Respected viewers,
18:13the next segment is about
18:15the expression of faith,
18:17in which we will present tribute
18:19to Hazrat Allama Syed Riazuddin
18:21Sarwadi Shah Sahib.
18:23We will include his biography as well.
18:25And Sana Khan will present his speech.
18:27And our Sana Khan,
18:29will present his speech
18:31to the Prophet of Allah.
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