CARRIE and Randy appeared on Love Don’t judge last year, and Carrie received a lot of backlash because of her initial intentions for meeting Randy... Although it started off transactional, Carrie ended up falling in love. Randy promised Carrie that he would change her life and he did just that. Carrie has her side hustles, but Randy also helps her financially. She says she doesn’t really have an allowance, she just spends as she pleases each month. At the beginning of the relationship, Randy made it clear that marriage isn’t something that he is interested in. After going through a 20-year marriage and divorce, Randy wanted no parts. Until recently, Randy proposed to Carrie and she couldn’t be more excited! She is finally marrying her sugar daddy... Carrie has said that if it wasn’t for Randy being in her life, she doesn’t know where she would be. Carrie now has her own podcast and is also an advocate for women with mental health struggles.
Category
🗞
NewsTranscript
00:00My name is Randy. I'm 64 years old.
00:02My name is Carrie. I'm 31 years old,
00:05and I am finally marrying my sugar daddy.
00:07I graduated from boys to this.
00:09When people do think that Randy's my dad,
00:11I'm like, hell, yeah, he is my daddy.
00:13Gold digger. And I said, get your bag, baby.
00:17I often do spend money on Randy when holidays, birthdays,
00:20I'll get him a pack of gum at the store.
00:23What I love about Carrie is she's sweet, she's kind,
00:27and she keeps me active, if you know what I mean.
00:29Today, I am going wedding dress shopping with a great friend of mine,
00:32and I am excited to try on some dresses.
00:35So, I don't necessarily have a budget.
00:37Okay, here we are!
00:39Would you like a bagel for breakfast?
00:41Yeah, that sounds good.
00:43My name is Randy.
00:44My name is Carrie.
00:45I'm 64 years old.
00:46I'm 31 years old.
00:48Randy started off as my sugar daddy, and now we're in love.
00:51I am finally marrying my sugar daddy.
00:54Randy loves his bagels toasted, cinnamon raisin,
00:58and a little bit of butter spread on top.
01:00Randy and I met about five years ago on Tinder
01:03when I was looking for some financial help.
01:05My first intention was to milk him dry.
01:07I knew she was going to try to take advantage of me,
01:10and I was like, we'll see who comes out on top.
01:13I realized I was attracted to Carrie as soon as she walked through the door.
01:17Randy was my first and last sugar daddy.
01:21I think that I wear the pants in the relationship
01:25because Randy gives in a lot to my emotional needs,
01:31my physical needs, and everything else.
01:34I like to let her think she wears the pants,
01:37but I wear the pants in the relationship because...
01:42Because he controls the money.
01:45I fell in love with Carrie in about six months because,
01:48one, she was gorgeous, and two, she was really honest
01:51because multiple times I left credit cards on the counter
01:54that she could have taken, and she never did.
01:57Give me a kiss, babe.
01:59That's so cute. Okay, let's do it.
02:01We receive a lot of judgment in our relationship
02:04because people tell me he's going to drop dead.
02:07Ha ha ha ha ha ha!
02:10The worst reaction that I normally get in public
02:13is when we're out and about eating,
02:15and people tend to think that he's my dad.
02:17I'm like, hell yeah, he is my daddy.
02:19The judgment I get is a little different.
02:21It's like everybody gives me a thumbs-up and, like,
02:24you know, does she have a sister?
02:26When I post photos and videos of Randy and I,
02:29there's a lot of backlash, there's a lot of hate,
02:31and sometimes it can be very brutal.
02:33People say that I'm just using Randy for his money,
02:36and I think we all have come to the conclusion
02:38after five years that that's not the case.
02:40This one says, this couple won't last long,
02:42not just because of the age difference.
02:44She's a user and taking advantage of him.
02:47Gold digger. And I said, get your bag, baby.
02:50I was previously married for 25 years,
02:53and I have four kids, and after that relationship,
02:56I said I would never get married again.
02:59What changed my mind was that I found Carrie honest,
03:03family-oriented, and she was gorgeous,
03:06so I wanted to lock it up.
03:08Regarding the prenup, she said she was totally fine signing one.
03:11She knows what she's going to get. She's already in my will.
03:14We don't mind that people out there
03:16are concerned or bothered by our relationship.
03:18We're having a blast.
03:21I'm just looking in my closet.
03:23I have so much black in here. I love it.
03:26I like the way Carrie dresses,
03:28because when we walk into the room, every head turns,
03:31and I like that attention.
03:33When Skims collabed with Dolce & Gabbana,
03:36I got the entire set. I was obsessed.
03:38The most expensive thing I bought for Carrie
03:41is the engagement ring.
03:43What I love about Randy is that he's a man.
03:46He's elevated from boys to this.
03:48What I love about Carrie is she's sweet, she's kind,
03:51and she keeps me active, if you know what I mean.
03:55Randy definitely spoils me.
03:57If there's anything I want, I ask.
03:59I've calmed down a lot over the years.
04:01I often do spend money on Randy when, you know,
04:04holidays, birthdays, I'll get him a pack of gum at the store.
04:08laughter
04:10After 5 years of Randy telling me
04:12that he'd never get married again,
04:14I didn't expect a proposal, but when it happened,
04:16I was thrilled, and I was excited, and I cried.
04:19I decided to propose to Carrie in Las Vegas
04:22because our relationship is about adventure,
04:25and it's exciting.
04:26When he proposed, he knew that I wanted to elope,
04:29so he thought that we were going to do it then and there.
04:31However, I'm being the girl that I am.
04:33I said, no, I want a little bit of time to prepare.
04:35That looks awesome.
04:36Yeah, that really does.
04:37The safari, that's what I want.
04:39I would love to get married in Africa on a safari.
04:42The reason why I like it is because it's dangerous
04:44and adventurous, like she is.
04:46I plan for it to be big and lavish.
04:48It's going to all depend on what he tells me I'm allowed to do.
04:50Do we have a budget for the wedding?
04:52I haven't even thought about it.
04:53Today, I am going wedding dress shopping
04:55with a great friend of mine,
04:56and I am excited to try on some dresses.
04:59I can't wait to see her in that dress,
05:01walking down the aisle.
05:02It's going to be the best day of my life.
05:04Hey, guys!
05:05Hi! How are you?
05:06I have not seen you so long.
05:08Thank you so much for meeting me here.
05:09Yes, we're going to go.
05:10We're going to have a blast.
05:11Are you ready?
05:12I'm as ready as I'm about to be, yes.
05:14My girl, we're here today trying to find her a dress.
05:17I've got to make sure she looks good
05:18walking down that aisle because,
05:20yeah, that's how we do it.
05:22Hello! Welcome!
05:23I'm Tanya.
05:24I'm Perry.
05:25I'll be working with you today.
05:26Awesome.
05:27Congratulations.
05:28Thank you so much.
05:33So, what we're going to do today is
05:35we're going to shop for your dream dress.
05:37I usually start off with about five to six dresses
05:39because you don't want to get overwhelmed
05:40with too many dresses.
05:41So, fitting and sexy.
05:42Of course.
05:43Low cut.
05:44Love that.
05:45Not sure if I want to train,
05:46but I do want it to be skimpy but classy.
05:48What about budget?
05:49So, I don't necessarily have a budget.
05:51Oh.
05:52Ting, ting, ting, ting, ting.
05:53I can ring the bell on that.
05:54Don't tell Randy.
05:55You're open.
05:56Realize that.
05:57Come on, Tanya.
05:58So, remind me.
05:59When is the wedding date again?
06:00We have not picked a date yet.
06:01However, I'm trying to push him
06:03towards booking that Africa trip soon.
06:05Okay, so you already told the lady
06:07you don't have no budget.
06:08So, that means Randy, he's slurging,
06:09he's doing whatever,
06:10he's going with whatever you say?
06:11I haven't told him that yet.
06:13Okay.
06:14But, you know, he does spoil me.
06:16So, at this point,
06:17I don't believe I do have a budget.
06:18So, let's get started
06:20and pick the most expensive one.
06:22What were your first thoughts
06:23when you found out
06:24that I was dating Randy?
06:25You want the honest truth?
06:26Yes.
06:27All right.
06:28Well, I was okay.
06:29I was a little skeptical.
06:31When I first met Randy,
06:32when Carrie told me
06:33that she met him on Tinder,
06:34I was like, ooh, girl,
06:35is this a catfish?
06:36Like, what is going on for real?
06:38I had her give me the location
06:39so I could keep an eye on her.
06:41And, you know, as time went on,
06:43he turned out to be
06:44a really nice guy.
06:45Supportive,
06:46and I think he's just
06:47the right thing
06:48to keep her in line
06:49because, you know,
06:50she can be a little wild sometimes.
06:51He's cute for his age.
06:52I like how, like,
06:53how you carry yourself
06:54when you're with him.
06:55Like, you're giving, like,
06:56that grown woman vibe,
06:57the settle down vibe.
06:58I'm trying now, yes.
06:59I'm ready to settle down.
07:01What concerns
07:02did you initially have
07:03about our relationship?
07:04I was like, ooh,
07:05is he going to keep up?
07:06He does.
07:07Okay, okay,
07:08which is good.
07:09As long as he can
07:10keep up with you.
07:11He does.
07:12We get the fast pass.
07:13Not the fast pass.
07:15Did you ever think
07:16I would marry my sugar daddy?
07:18I had high hopes,
07:19you know what I mean,
07:20but...
07:21We both did, girl.
07:22Yeah.
07:23You actually made good,
07:24so you know...
07:25I got it.
07:26I got the needle
07:27in the haystack.
07:28Yeah, you did.
07:29Like, we need
07:30to duplicate that needle.
07:31Yeah, we sure do.
07:32Does anybody have a brother?
07:33Great.
07:34I do.
07:54Is this the one?
07:55It's the one!
07:56Are you saying yes to that date?
07:58I think Carrie did a good job.
08:00My girl looks good.
08:01She looked beautiful
08:02in everything,
08:03but she said yes
08:04to this one.
08:05She's a threat!
08:06Woo!
08:07I think Randy
08:08is going to drop his jaw.
08:10Like, he's going to be
08:11ready to tear it down,
08:12like, ASAP.
08:13He's going to be
08:14ripping this thing off, so...
08:15He better cry
08:16or we're going to rewind.
08:17Randy has changed my life
08:19for the better
08:20in several different ways.
08:21A month after I met him,
08:22he said,
08:23give me a year
08:24and I'll change your life,
08:25and he has done that
08:26for the last five years.
08:27I love that Randy is fun,
08:28he is sexy,
08:29and he loves to have
08:30a good time
08:31regardless of his age.
08:32What man my age
08:33wouldn't like to have
08:34a hot young girl like this?
08:36So, I love it.