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00:00:00Don't it feel so good?
00:00:02I wanted a fine-ass woman.
00:00:04When Sophie followed me online, I was like, oh, s***.
00:00:07But she's got spoiled, rich-girl tendencies.
00:00:10She's even used to maids.
00:00:11Oh, my gosh.
00:00:12I don't think I've only heard a gunshot once or twice.
00:00:16We've got to stand together.
00:00:17When I met Manuel in Ecuador, we became
00:00:20engaged after like a week.
00:00:22But I haven't told him I am a witch.
00:00:24When you come, I'll make a lot of love.
00:00:29Really?
00:00:30Don't break my penis.
00:00:31Oh, I'm going to break it already.
00:00:34Fifteen years ago, when our first K1 visa was approved, our love wasn't ready.
00:00:40But now I'm going back to Moldova to give love a second chance.
00:00:43Baby!
00:00:44Me more!
00:00:46I'm finally making my dream come true to start the 90 days of my life with Gino.
00:00:52You're done?
00:00:53Let's take it out.
00:00:54Mmm.
00:00:55Mmm.
00:00:56Mmm.
00:00:57Mmm.
00:00:58Mmm.
00:00:59Mmm.
00:01:00Mmm.
00:01:01Oh, little French pig.
00:01:02I'm living in a one-bedroom apartment with two guinea pigs, two chihuahuas, and my mom
00:01:05lives in my closets.
00:01:16Without my parents' blessing, I can't get married.
00:01:23Are you fine?
00:01:29Oh!
00:01:30Cheers to our new beginning.
00:01:33Have you guys thought about kids?
00:01:35I don't think I actually want to be pregnant.
00:01:40I could not walk down the aisle today.
00:01:42It would be a lie.
00:01:44Hey!
00:01:46I'm thrusting my flags.
00:01:47You know, people don't want to be around him.
00:01:49You're going to spend the rest of your life with this man?
00:01:51I do feel pressure to make things work because there's only 90 days.
00:01:56Did he give me a shower?
00:01:57Or what?
00:01:58I don't know.
00:01:59It's hitting me.
00:02:00It's like, he really is cold to me.
00:02:02If you're not sexually attracted to me, why are you with me?
00:02:10What is this?
00:02:11I have no idea what that is.
00:02:14You're a shitter!
00:02:16No, I'm not!
00:02:17Yes, you are!
00:02:18I never!
00:02:19Yes, you are!
00:02:20That's not cheating!
00:02:21Stop it!
00:02:23I don't want to go home.
00:02:40I think I'm having a panic attack.
00:02:42Oh my God.
00:02:44I'm literally getting lightheaded.
00:02:46Oh my God.
00:02:47Oh my God.
00:02:51Oh my God.
00:02:53Oh my God, I'm freaking out.
00:02:54I'm freaking out.
00:02:56Oh my God.
00:02:59Oh my God.
00:03:05Oh my God, I'm actually crying.
00:03:18I'm just visualizing him coming.
00:03:23Us being together.
00:03:25My name is Ashley.
00:03:27Yes, I'm a black Ashley.
00:03:29We're unicorns.
00:03:30I'm 32 years old and I'm from Rochester, New York.
00:03:34Wait, wait for Mama.
00:03:37I love to dance.
00:03:38I love to learn things.
00:03:40I'm a poet.
00:03:42And I am a witch.
00:03:48I'm a tarot reader.
00:03:49I'm an astrologer.
00:03:50I specialize in shadow work.
00:03:52I think people are still very much afraid of the word witch.
00:03:58Because we've been conditioned to believe
00:04:00that a witch is somebody with a crooked nose
00:04:03looking into their crystal ball,
00:04:05throwing hexes on people.
00:04:07That's not anything that I do.
00:04:11Place your hands on your heart.
00:04:13Okay.
00:04:14Feet planted firmly on the ground.
00:04:18Ready to receive divine wisdom from our spirit guides.
00:04:23One more deep breath in,
00:04:24filling the belly up with air.
00:04:27And let it all go.
00:04:30You can just shake it out and get all nice and loose.
00:04:32I love it.
00:04:33I love it.
00:04:34I love it.
00:04:35Let's pull some cards.
00:04:36My family was really just growing up,
00:04:38but I'm like the crazy one, the rebellious one.
00:04:41And I began to dabble into the occult.
00:04:45The magician is coming in upside down
00:04:47next to the ten of swords upside down.
00:04:49There's some limiting beliefs.
00:04:51Yes, there is.
00:04:52I'm going to get a little deep with you, okay?
00:04:54This little twinge of doubt, this isn't going to work.
00:04:57Childhood trauma.
00:04:59My spirituality guides every single part of my life.
00:05:02When I was in my undergrad, I had a dream.
00:05:06I was literally in the woods, in the jungle,
00:05:08and I was working with the earth somehow.
00:05:12It prompted me to talk to my biology teacher.
00:05:14And she's like, we're going to Ecuador in December.
00:05:16And I was like, sign me up.
00:05:18And then I went.
00:05:20I met Manuel that very first year.
00:05:33My fiancé's name is Manuel.
00:05:35He's 35 years old,
00:05:36and he's a construction worker from Puyo, Ecuador.
00:05:40I met Manuel on New Year's Eve over 10 years ago.
00:05:45Manuel came up to me and asked me to dance.
00:05:48Oh my goodness.
00:05:49He has this beautiful, dark skin.
00:05:53It's like a mixture of peanut butter and cinnamon.
00:05:56And this like luscious black hair that just bounces and is so full.
00:06:02We were like inseparable after that.
00:06:05And then we became engaged after like a week, I think.
00:06:09It was passion, getting caught up in the moment,
00:06:12being young and in love.
00:06:14Young, dumb, full of ****.
00:06:16I think all of that came back home.
00:06:20We tried to have a long-distance relationship,
00:06:22but it didn't last.
00:06:24I was like, I don't know.
00:06:26Came back home.
00:06:27We tried to have a long-distance relationship,
00:06:29but it didn't last.
00:06:42Ooh, this is beautiful.
00:06:45Wow.
00:06:46He might not wear these,
00:06:48and I want him to wear it.
00:06:50Manuel and I spent about seven years apart or so, give or take.
00:06:54I had gotten out of a long-term relationship.
00:06:56Like, I feel like everybody can relate to this.
00:06:58When you get out of a relationship,
00:07:00the exes come out of the woodwork,
00:07:01even if you haven't announced it.
00:07:03That's literally what happened.
00:07:05I was a week out of my long-term relationship
00:07:07and Manuel out of nowhere, hola.
00:07:09And I'm like, oh my God, this dude.
00:07:18Manuel's kind of a **** boy.
00:07:19I'll own that.
00:07:20And, you know, in his 20s,
00:07:21he was more of a **** boy than he is now.
00:07:23But Manuel was always my what-if man.
00:07:26So I bought a ticket to go see him
00:07:29in September of 2020,
00:07:31hopping my happy ass on a plane across the world.
00:07:39He got me from the airport.
00:07:40We went straight to the Airbnb,
00:07:41and we quarantined together.
00:07:43And I'm sitting in the bed,
00:07:44and he, like, takes out the box,
00:07:45and he was like, okay.
00:07:47So, like, here's the ring.
00:07:48Like, are you going to do it?
00:07:49Are you going to do it?
00:07:50Are you going to do it?
00:07:51Are you going to marry me?
00:07:52And I was like, are you sure?
00:07:53He's like, are you sure?
00:07:54I'm like, I think I'm sure.
00:07:55He goes, I think I'm sure, too.
00:07:56And then I did it.
00:08:00Dragon's Blood in Cyprus, huh?
00:08:02Ooh.
00:08:03My partner is traveling very far away
00:08:06for the first time ever,
00:08:08hence protection work.
00:08:10Yes, yes.
00:08:11Initially, he didn't want to go to America,
00:08:13but he recognized that it's better
00:08:15for him to come here
00:08:16because he can get work pretty easily
00:08:18doing construction.
00:08:19So we applied for the K-1 visa.
00:08:22We got it!
00:08:25And Manuel is finally scheduled
00:08:27to arrive tomorrow.
00:08:30I am so excited about it.
00:08:32I'm also hella nervous about Manuel
00:08:35coming here and being around
00:08:37my witchy practice
00:08:39and being able to take it all in.
00:08:42Manuel would prefer me to be
00:08:44a Catholic woman,
00:08:45a thousand million billion percent yes.
00:08:54Any special occasion going on
00:08:55that we got all this?
00:08:57We got some love.
00:08:58We got some protection.
00:09:00I'm so excited.
00:09:01Yeah, my partner is coming here to live.
00:09:04Tomorrow!
00:09:06Really?
00:09:07Tomorrow?
00:09:08From where?
00:09:09Ecuador.
00:09:10Ecuador, wow.
00:09:12He's never been on a plane.
00:09:13He's never left his country.
00:09:14Wow.
00:09:15I am petrified of him taking this trip.
00:09:19Manuel's never been outside of Ecuador.
00:09:21He's traveling from Guayaquil to Quito,
00:09:23from Quito to Miami,
00:09:25from Miami up to Rochester.
00:09:27Never left his country before
00:09:29or been on a plane.
00:09:30And he doesn't speak English.
00:09:33And then on top of that,
00:09:34his visa expires tomorrow.
00:09:36If he's not on the plane,
00:09:37what happens then?
00:09:39Literally, like, I'm not sure
00:09:40if he's gonna be there
00:09:41or not be there
00:09:42when we get to the airport.
00:09:44All the thoughts are running through my head.
00:10:13My name is Jasmine.
00:10:15I'm 36 years old,
00:10:16and I live in Panama.
00:10:20But in just a few days,
00:10:22I'll be moving to the United States
00:10:24to be with my amazing fiancé, Gino.
00:10:27So tonight, my friends are picking me up
00:10:31because it's my bachelor party.
00:10:34I'm so excited.
00:10:35I'm so excited.
00:10:36I'm so excited.
00:10:37I'm so excited.
00:10:38I'm so excited.
00:10:39I'm so excited.
00:10:40Because it's my bachelor party.
00:10:42It's very sad to think
00:10:43that they're not gonna be able
00:10:44to make it to my wedding.
00:10:46And why not to have a party?
00:10:48âȘâȘ
00:10:58Gino and I met online three years ago.
00:11:02He was very nerdy,
00:11:04and I found that kind of cute
00:11:07because I don't like traditional,
00:11:11good-looking guys
00:11:13because I'm a super jealous person.
00:11:15But when I saw his pictures,
00:11:16he has, like, the belly fat,
00:11:18the flamingo legs,
00:11:20the sharky nose,
00:11:22the nonexistent lips.
00:11:23It's kind of my thing.
00:11:25I mean, those are the things
00:11:27that I like from him.
00:11:28I'm being just honest.
00:11:30I told him that, and he was laughing.
00:11:34My baby's so happy.
00:11:35It's always a beautiful day
00:11:36when I'm with you.
00:11:38We applied for the K-1 visa
00:11:40one year and a half ago,
00:11:43and they gave me a date
00:11:45for the interview.
00:11:47And when I made it to the embassy,
00:11:50they just told me,
00:11:53oh, we're sorry,
00:11:54but there is something wrong
00:11:57with the visa at this moment,
00:11:59and we will have to reschedule
00:12:01your interview.
00:12:03It was devastating.
00:12:06But I was given a second chance,
00:12:10and it took the officer
00:12:12less than 10 minutes
00:12:14after seeing me,
00:12:16because I'm super cute.
00:12:17How can you say no to me, right?
00:12:19And he was like,
00:12:21congratulations, you're going to America.
00:12:24Your visa has been approved.
00:12:26That means that I'm going
00:12:28to marry Gino.
00:12:29I'm going to be with him
00:12:30day and night, 24-7.
00:12:33That's scary.
00:12:35But it makes me so happy.
00:12:47I am out of here.
00:12:57I'm Gino,
00:12:58and I'm from Michigan,
00:13:00and today is my last day of work.
00:13:04Oops.
00:13:07Oh, jeez.
00:13:09I've been working
00:13:11in automotive engineering
00:13:13for probably like 30 years.
00:13:15I told my boss, you know,
00:13:17that I need to take a leave
00:13:19of absence from my work
00:13:20for a while,
00:13:21and I'm not planning to come back
00:13:23for possibly a year-ish or so.
00:13:26I want to make Jasmine a priority.
00:13:28I want to make sure
00:13:29she gets on her feet in Michigan,
00:13:31get all these things
00:13:33that she's going to need,
00:13:34like a social security number,
00:13:36driver's license,
00:13:37because I'm really worried,
00:13:39like, if she's not able
00:13:40to adapt to it,
00:13:42is she going to go back to Panama
00:13:43and that's it?
00:13:44That would suck.
00:13:46Adios.
00:13:50Jasmine and I have been together
00:13:52for three years now,
00:13:54and I love Jasmine.
00:13:56I think she's the most beautiful
00:13:57woman in the world.
00:13:59But our relationship
00:14:00is a rollercoaster.
00:14:02It's up and down, up and down,
00:14:04and that's on a daily basis.
00:14:08One of your exes
00:14:09sent me a message.
00:14:11Did you send her
00:14:13naked pictures of me?
00:14:15If there is a f***ing breakup,
00:14:18I'm not going to marry you.
00:14:21Just forget it.
00:14:22F*** you.
00:14:23F*** you.
00:14:24F*** you.
00:14:25Your family is f***ing trash.
00:14:28You're a f***ing piece of s***.
00:14:30F*** you.
00:14:31I'm going to go and f*** my ex
00:14:33that knows how to f*** me.
00:14:36F*** whore.
00:14:40What don't Jasmine and I
00:14:41fight about?
00:14:42I mean, we fight about
00:14:44my past exes,
00:14:46my past girlfriends,
00:14:48the food I eat,
00:14:49finances,
00:14:50my family and stuff,
00:14:51unnecessary cosmetic
00:14:52procedures, I believe.
00:14:54She doesn't like
00:14:55all the pop I drink.
00:14:56I don't like her
00:14:57talking about her exes.
00:14:58She shouldn't be talking
00:14:59about her exes,
00:15:00but what keeps us
00:15:02coming back together is
00:15:04we have such a strong bond
00:15:06and a good connection
00:15:08that when I believe
00:15:09there's no hope
00:15:10or think there's no hope,
00:15:12somehow we come back together.
00:15:14It's amazing.
00:15:22Oh, my God.
00:15:24Oh, my God.
00:15:26Oh, my God.
00:15:28Oh, my God.
00:15:30Oh, my God.
00:15:32Oh, my God.
00:15:34Oh, my God.
00:15:36Okay, let's go.
00:15:38Back off, back off.
00:15:40Can't touch me.
00:15:41Hats off.
00:15:42Keep dancing.
00:15:44Hurry up.
00:15:45Put on your hats.
00:15:47The iconic hat of Yomi.
00:15:49Party, party.
00:15:52âȘâȘ
00:16:08So I've been dieting
00:16:09and exercising like crazy,
00:16:11but the problem is that
00:16:12because I lost a lot of weight,
00:16:14that included the little butt
00:16:16that I had.
00:16:18One of the few things
00:16:19that, you know, compliments me
00:16:20is, like, oh, my gosh,
00:16:21your fat ass, I love it.
00:16:22And I was like,
00:16:23oh, my gosh,
00:16:24what am I gonna do?
00:16:25It's gone.
00:16:26So I got bad implants,
00:16:28and now my ass is so round
00:16:31and peachy.
00:16:32It's just perfect.
00:16:40No.
00:16:51No.
00:17:01I wish Gino were more appreciative
00:17:04of all the effort
00:17:06that I put into being pretty.
00:17:08My hair, my nails,
00:17:10my laser hair removal
00:17:13that he loves, by the way.
00:17:15He likes hairless,
00:17:17but that means spending money.
00:17:20And Gino is cheap.
00:17:22So I was basically forced
00:17:24to spend the money
00:17:26that he had been giving me
00:17:27for my wedding dress
00:17:29and bad implants.
00:17:31It's all gone.
00:17:32I'm sitting on it right now.
00:17:51I'm in a surprise.
00:18:04Whoo!
00:18:06Oh, my God.
00:18:08Fast.
00:18:10Oh, my God, sorry.
00:18:13F***.
00:18:14That's too fast.
00:18:16Currently, I help Jasmine
00:18:18out with her rent and stuff
00:18:20and bills
00:18:22because, unfortunately,
00:18:23she lost her job
00:18:25as a teacher in Panama.
00:18:27And since she's about
00:18:28to leave for USA,
00:18:30she hasn't gotten a new one.
00:18:32So I help Jasmine
00:18:35quite a bit financially right now.
00:18:38Whoo, not in shape.
00:18:40Yeah, I get that heart rate going.
00:18:42Oh, my gosh.
00:18:44Wow, yeah, it works great.
00:18:46The hard part is that
00:18:48I think Jasmine's become spoiled,
00:18:50and I think when she comes to Michigan,
00:18:52you know, she's gonna
00:18:54get a taste of reality.
00:18:56How much are you selling this for anyway?
00:18:59I list it for $200.
00:19:01Do you know what the mileage
00:19:02is on this thing?
00:19:04Um...
00:19:06I'm not sure how to check that,
00:19:08but it's only a few years old.
00:19:10We just weren't getting
00:19:12much use out of it.
00:19:14Oh, yeah.
00:19:15I basically quit my job
00:19:16because my fiancé's coming.
00:19:18So we're on a tight budget,
00:19:19and I don't want to go over that today.
00:19:22But thank you so much
00:19:23for showing this to me.
00:19:25I really like it.
00:19:27You're welcome.
00:19:29I'm not buying the treadmill today
00:19:31because even though I want to give Jasmine
00:19:33everything she wants,
00:19:35I don't think spending a lot of money
00:19:37on a treadmill right now makes sense.
00:19:41I'm a little worried about telling Jasmine
00:19:43that I quit my job because
00:19:45Jasmine likes to live the luxury good life,
00:19:47and if I don't have any income or money,
00:19:50oh, my God, Jasmine's going to kill me.
00:19:53So I think it's better to wait
00:19:56until she gets USA.
00:19:59I'll tell her when she comes to Michigan.
00:20:06There we go.
00:20:07That'll get the bulk we need.
00:20:09I ended up falling in love with someone
00:20:11who has a completely different background.
00:20:13She's lived in really nice places.
00:20:15She's even used to maids.
00:20:17Being with me is not going to be a cakewalk.
00:20:19Man, this is going to be a problem.
00:20:22All right, here we go.
00:20:24How do I look?
00:20:26Work, Barbie.
00:20:28It had been two years
00:20:30that Justin and I were dating,
00:20:32and he was being lazy,
00:20:33and he wasn't helping me with the housework.
00:20:35We got into a lot of heated arguments.
00:20:37One of those arguments, I said,
00:20:38yeah, well, I have a secret to tell you.
00:20:40And he freaked.
00:20:42That's actually nice.
00:21:11My name is Sophie, I'm 23 years old and I live in London, England.
00:21:19For work I do fashion modelling and content creating, just like social media things.
00:21:25So I don't have to like stay in one place, I can kind of just like
00:21:28go wherever and also I get free clothes, so that's nice.
00:21:33I don't like green but like if this was like bright yellow I'd like it,
00:21:36like I like standing out stuff.
00:21:41I like to go out, I like to dance, be with friends, have a good time.
00:21:44I was clubbing at 12 in America, I'm sure that looks absolutely crazy
00:21:48but in Europe if you look old enough you can go to the clubs, like they don't really care.
00:21:55My family is wealthy, like basically my grandad's like a really hard-working man.
00:22:00I don't really ask about what he does, I just know he made a lot of money,
00:22:03so like that's why we always just lived, you know, in nice houses.
00:22:06I went to private school, I've travelled a lot of places,
00:22:09so like I'm really lucky for that, but I also had a lot of really tough experiences in life.
00:22:15I'm actually mixed race, so my dad is black and my mum is white.
00:22:20I was raised in Spain where there wasn't any black people,
00:22:23so I was like the only mixed kid or a black kid in the whole school.
00:22:28And as a kid I was bullied.
00:22:31I didn't really have any friends and I just struggled to fit in,
00:22:34but like even though I went through a lot of difficult things,
00:22:37I'm still thankful for them because those experiences led me to the person I am today
00:22:42and also led me to the love of my life, Rob.
00:22:49Before I met Rob, I was following like a bunch of Instagram pages for like cute mixed race guys.
00:22:56And then I saw Rob on there.
00:22:57He was actually the only guy from that page that I followed,
00:23:00just because I thought he was so cute.
00:23:02I wouldn't tell him that though, he'd get a massive head.
00:23:07Here we go, how to get the pump we need.
00:23:19I'm Rob, I'm 32 years old and I live in Los Angeles.
00:23:23Two days until you got your wifey in town looking at you like,
00:23:26what you been doing, you been working out?
00:23:29I do care about looks.
00:23:31I care about both looks and personality, but I care about looks a lot too.
00:23:34I feel like I'm a good looking guy,
00:23:36so people can kiss my ass on me being shallow and wanting a good looking girl,
00:23:40but I'm going to keep it real.
00:23:41I wanted a fine ass woman and Sophie is the hottest person I've been with
00:23:46and that's what I've been looking for.
00:23:50I'm kind of a jack of all trades and one of my jobs was being a model.
00:23:54So I would get a lot of women who reach out to me on social media.
00:23:57Usually I would just ignore them, but when Sophie followed me, I was like,
00:24:01oh, she's stunning. Who is she? Is she even real? Like she followed me.
00:24:10One of the first things I said to her was if I had a girl like you, I could stop looking.
00:24:15And then sparked a conversation with her and shot my shot and I must've made that shot.
00:24:23I don't know, Rob's, I guess, not smooth.
00:24:25I'm not even going to call him smooth, but like he said all the right things to me.
00:24:29I kind of text him back and entertained it a bit.
00:24:32And then literally after the first day, he FaceTimed me.
00:24:35That's very bold. And I don't know if it's an American thing or what,
00:24:38but like you don't just FaceTime them after they've replied to you and you don't know them.
00:24:41I accepted the call and I was like, hello, why are you calling me?
00:24:45And he was like, oh, I just want to see if you're real.
00:24:47And I was like, yeah, I'm real.
00:24:48And at first I was a bit weirded out, but then I was like,
00:24:50oh, he's very confident just to do that.
00:24:52I love you, baby.
00:24:54That FaceTime lasted eight hours.
00:24:57On FaceTime, like what do you even talk about with someone for eight hours?
00:25:00But we was just talking nonstop.
00:25:01There was never any silences.
00:25:03Even though we were from opposite sides of the world,
00:25:05and I know I was raised in a nice area and he was raised in a rough area.
00:25:08But even with that, we've had very similar childhood experiences
00:25:12in terms of like, you know, racism stuff.
00:25:14And he never fit in with anyone.
00:25:16And he was bullied as well.
00:25:18Even though we've been like brought up different ways,
00:25:20I think we both felt the connection that was just like,
00:25:22we haven't really found it anywhere else.
00:25:26Cringe.
00:25:31We've talked for like six months and then she came to Los Angeles
00:25:34and we went from having never met to living together for two months.
00:25:38Before I ever met Robin real life,
00:25:40I'd only ever seen him on video call with his face like all up on the camera.
00:25:44So when I first saw him in person,
00:25:47kind of just looked like he had a pea head.
00:25:49It looks like his head is like stuck on someone else's body.
00:25:54One time.
00:25:56At the end of it all, we both felt like we,
00:25:59even in those two months, had gotten comfortable with each other.
00:26:03I'd heard about the K-1 visa before,
00:26:06and I just kind of put the idea in his head like, this is a solution.
00:26:11And it was so awkward because it was like,
00:26:13this basically means I'm proposing.
00:26:15He was like, so like, you're asking if we should get engaged?
00:26:18And I was like, is it fine?
00:26:27Keep it up, keep it up.
00:26:28It'll be worth it.
00:26:30She is due to show up here very soon.
00:26:33And this journey all comes down to this.
00:26:36It's very nerve wracking.
00:26:42You should take these, you know, just in case.
00:26:45Last thing I want is some uninvited guests.
00:26:52I ended up falling in love with someone who fell in love with me back,
00:26:55who has a completely different background.
00:26:57And sometimes it just seems like Sophie really can relate to me.
00:27:01She's lived in really nice places where she didn't have to pay the rent.
00:27:06She's even used to maids.
00:27:08It's far from the real world.
00:27:10Just throw one under there.
00:27:11She's still got spoiled rich girl tendencies.
00:27:15I'm gonna have to bring her a little bit down to earth.
00:27:17She's gonna have to learn that, you know, it ain't, it ain't, it's not that easy.
00:27:20And being with me is not gonna be a cakewalk.
00:27:23And at the end of the day, marrying Sophie needs to feel like it's gonna work.
00:27:29If I feel like it's just not gonna work, then I don't want to do that to myself.
00:27:33And I don't want to do it to her either.
00:27:38So basically going to Mado's and see if he's the man for you.
00:27:41Uh, yes.
00:27:43Honestly, we have some things to work on.
00:27:46There is no third chance with Justin.
00:27:49This is our last opportunity.
00:27:53You ready?
00:28:07All right, here we go.
00:28:07Angle this a little bit the other way.
00:28:09All right.
00:28:11How do I look?
00:28:13Work, Barbie.
00:28:15Gorgeous.
00:28:17So I'm ready to do this.
00:28:20I'm Nicole.
00:28:21I'm from Hoboken, New Jersey.
00:28:23I'm 47.
00:28:25Just an age.
00:28:32All right.
00:28:33Yes.
00:28:34I am a recording artist known as Nikki Exotica.
00:28:42As a music artist, I created Nikki Exotica as an alter ego.
00:28:48I wanted to have another persona and then come home and be normal again and be Nicole.
00:28:54The difference between Nicole and Nikki Exotica...
00:28:58Nikki, she's a little bit of a diva.
00:29:00Nicole, on the other hand, is a homebody.
00:29:05Vicious, I'm home.
00:29:07Come here.
00:29:13I love the smell of fresh roses.
00:29:17To make ends meet, I am a hairstylist and makeup artist.
00:29:20And I am also a beauty consultant.
00:29:22So that means that anyone who wants advice on plastic surgery, I am the person to come to.
00:29:29I've done every plastic surgery procedure from head to toe.
00:29:33Nose, lips, jaw, chin, cheek implants, eye color change, breasts.
00:29:41You can't expect a woman to have all these curves naturally.
00:29:45You know, when you look this certain way, you have a lot of people judging you.
00:29:50But when it's 80% of the world giving me positive feedback,
00:29:55I don't really care what the other 20% have to say.
00:29:57You know, if they can go kick rocks for all, I care.
00:30:00Because there was a time where I didn't love myself.
00:30:02You know, I was going through a really dark time.
00:30:06And now I'm finally like in a place where I'm happy and I love myself.
00:30:09And now I can actually invite love into my life.
00:30:12Yeah, there you go.
00:30:13Give me that sex kit here.
00:30:16Got it?
00:30:17I think that's the shot.
00:30:17Oh, yes, we got it.
00:30:20Got it.
00:30:22I currently have a fiancé named Justin.
00:30:25Justin is a personal trainer and he's from Cushionel, Moldova.
00:30:29Today is your turn to send me a lot of photos and videos.
00:30:38What kind of guy do I go for?
00:30:40Honestly, it's so ironic.
00:30:42Everything Justin is tall, hot, obviously hung, and funny, and sweet, like genuine.
00:30:52I just want to be with my baby.
00:30:55So everybody wants to know how I met Justin.
00:30:58It is a long story, but here it goes.
00:31:01So everybody wants to know how I met Justin.
00:31:05It is a long story, but here it goes.
00:31:1017 years ago, I was not in love with Justin.
00:31:13I was not with Justin.
00:31:14We were not dating.
00:31:15I was in love with a Russian guy.
00:31:17We met at a nightclub in New York City.
00:31:20He was the love of my life.
00:31:21We were supposed to get married.
00:31:22It's just that he was a bad boy, you know, and he would get into trouble.
00:31:25And he committed a crime that he couldn't get away from
00:31:28and was deported from the United States.
00:31:31I was distraught.
00:31:33So I made a plan to fly out to Chisinau, Moldova, where he got deported to, to find him.
00:31:41So I arrived to Chisinau to reconnect and reunite with the love of my life, so I thought.
00:31:48I never told him I was coming.
00:31:50And he opens the door.
00:31:52I'm trying to, like, give him a hug and a kiss, and he's being so cold with me.
00:31:56And I'm like, what is going on?
00:31:59He says, Nikki, I live here with a girl.
00:32:02I'm like, excuse me?
00:32:05I felt like I was in the Twilight Zone.
00:32:07My ex played me so bad.
00:32:09So I made a profile on a friend's site in Moldova, and I found Justin.
00:32:16His name is Igor, but I just couldn't fathom the name Igor
00:32:20because it just reminds me of, you know, Frankenstein's assistant.
00:32:24So I renamed him Justin because when I first met him 17 years ago,
00:32:28he did look like Justin Timberlake.
00:32:33And it stuck, and he loves the name, too.
00:32:35And we spent the rest of my first trip in Moldova together.
00:32:40The first time he took me on a date, didn't even try to sleep with me.
00:32:43He was really sweet, gave me a kiss on my forehead, and left.
00:32:46And I thought it was, like, so, like, wow.
00:32:48Like, you know, like, that was, I've never been treated like that by any guy.
00:32:53And I started to fall for Justin.
00:32:59And then on my fourth visit to Moldova, Justin proposed to me.
00:33:03It was in a park. It was so romantic.
00:33:06You hear the birds chirping.
00:33:08Baby, you husband.
00:33:14Yeah.
00:33:16Yes.
00:33:19Our first K-1 visa was approved, and we tried to give it a chance.
00:33:24But two weeks after, Justin came the first time.
00:33:28We had some issues, and it just couldn't be worked on.
00:33:34So, basically, you're going to Moldova to see if he's the man for you.
00:33:37Uh, yes.
00:33:38Are you excited?
00:33:40I am excited, and we have some things to work on, so.
00:33:47What happened the first time?
00:33:48You never told me the full story.
00:33:50He was being lazy, and he wasn't helping me with the house chores,
00:33:53and he didn't want to help me cook and things like that,
00:33:55that I had to do everything.
00:33:56I had to work, I had to cook, clean, this, that.
00:33:59We got into a lot of heated arguments,
00:34:01and in one of those arguments, I said,
00:34:04yeah, well, I have a secret to tell you.
00:34:05I used to be a man.
00:34:07And he freaked.
00:34:11I was, I think I was about 20 years old when I did my sex change operation.
00:34:16I, like, woke up, and the first thing I did was had to touch myself down there,
00:34:21and I'm like, oh my god, I did it.
00:34:24I'm a woman.
00:34:25I'm a woman, and I just feel, like, tears, you know, like, coming down my eyes.
00:34:28I felt reborn again.
00:34:30At that time, I was living my life stealth.
00:34:33Stealth is basically where you don't tell people you, the way you were born.
00:34:37I was very in the closet and very closed.
00:34:40You know, I didn't have any gay friends.
00:34:41I didn't have any trans friends.
00:34:43I kind of, like, wanted to have female friends only.
00:34:45It was just a thing for me.
00:34:47You know, I had to find myself and go through that journey.
00:34:50It had been about two years that Justin and I were dating,
00:34:55and when I did blurt that I used to be a man, he was in shock.
00:35:01Like, what?
00:35:03Like, you, how could you lie to me and do this?
00:35:05I traumatized him, and he went home, and he was depressed for a really long time,
00:35:12and I feel bad about that.
00:35:15When was the last time you were together?
00:35:18In 2007.
00:35:2115 years ago.
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:23And we're back together.
00:35:25Second chance at love.
00:35:27Justin and I kept in contact throughout the years.
00:35:30He had to go through things on his own, and I had to go through things on my own.
00:35:35But years ago, we got into a conversation.
00:35:38He's like, how's everything?
00:35:38I was like, oh, I'm single, you know, but I'm in a much better place now.
00:35:42You know, I'm happy.
00:35:43I love myself.
00:35:44He's like, yeah, good, good, good.
00:35:46You know, I'm single too.
00:35:47And I was like, you know, it'd be so funny if we actually gave us another chance.
00:35:54And he said, Nicole, you're crazy.
00:35:57And I was like, you know, don't you need a little crazy in your life?
00:36:03Hey, sweetie.
00:36:04You see, I have a new hairstyle.
00:36:08Hey, I just came to the gym.
00:36:11Three months after we first started speaking again,
00:36:14I arranged a trip to Mexico for us to connect physically, mentally, emotionally.
00:36:24While we were there, he did tell me that I'm the love of his life.
00:36:28And he proposed to me.
00:36:31And then I applied for the K-1 visa a second time.
00:36:36Are you ready to see him again?
00:36:38Are you ready to make sure this is it?
00:36:41Honestly, there's just some concerns that I have with our relationship.
00:36:45So before the K-1 visa gets approved, we have some things to work on.
00:36:51So originally, when I kept making advances to come to Kishanel, his answer was no, no, no.
00:36:58Trans people are not widely accepted in Moldova.
00:37:01I don't think gays are widely accepted in Moldova.
00:37:03People are beat up for being who they are.
00:37:07But this is our last time to apply for the K-1 visa
00:37:09because he can only try twice.
00:37:12So when I go to Moldova, I need to know if it's going to work before he comes.
00:37:18There is no third chance with Justin.
00:37:20This is our last opportunity.
00:37:22And I hope we do keep building our happily ever after because it's very rare you're
00:37:27going to find a straight man to date a trans woman, especially publicly.
00:37:34Getting older, this is like my last chance at love.
00:37:40Hey, mom.
00:37:44How's Rob the knob?
00:37:45OK, rude, rude, rude.
00:37:47Rob the knob is not a term of endearment.
00:37:49He's stupid.
00:37:50He's grumpy.
00:37:51He's the epitome of a knob.
00:37:53I'm marrying him.
00:37:56You all know I have done this.
00:37:57I've made a decision and then I'm like, oh, I made the wrong decision.
00:38:01And then I backtrack and backpedal and pretend that decision never happened.
00:38:06There's definitely a lot of white lies that have come out.
00:38:08And I'm worried that that's going to blow up into something more full transparency.
00:38:12It does not go the way that I see fit.
00:38:14I am prepared to bounce.
00:38:16Come on.
00:38:37So currently, I live in Inglewood with my dog, Rome.
00:38:40He's my best friend.
00:38:42I've had him for over 10 years since he was three months old.
00:38:47We've been through it all together.
00:38:50Come on, come on, come on.
00:38:51No eating grass.
00:38:52Come on.
00:38:53There's definitely some really nice, cool spots in Inglewood.
00:38:56And then there's some, you know, worst parts of Inglewood that people probably seen
00:39:01on the news in the 90s or something.
00:39:03It's kind of like a really loud street and not necessarily somewhere that Sophie
00:39:08should just be like walking around at night.
00:39:10She's seen my crib because when she came to L.A.
00:39:14the first time, we stayed in my crib.
00:39:17I think she would like me to not still be there.
00:39:20But, you know, that's just not how it played out.
00:39:25Man, this is going to be a problem.
00:39:30So right now I'm living in a studio apartment, and it might not be the nicest,
00:39:33but it has everything I need.
00:39:35The only thing I don't have is a bathroom in the apartment.
00:39:40You have to walk across the courtyard to get to it, which I can see that being annoying,
00:39:45especially if you got to go to the bathroom, like in the middle of the night.
00:39:49But it hasn't bothered me so much.
00:39:51I mean, I used to live on a mountain in Oregon.
00:39:53So walking to the bathroom is better than walking 40 yards so that you're out of sight.
00:39:58All right, babe.
00:39:59Yeah, I got plenty of work to do to get this place ready.
00:40:03That's nasty.
00:40:05I know that this is not the ideal place to bring a princess to live,
00:40:09but this will be a part of the story of me and Sophie one day
00:40:14where we'll tell our kids like,
00:40:16yeah, I brought your mom to L.A., took her straight to the hood,
00:40:19and she was all nervous.
00:40:21They'll be like, wow, like, that's crazy.
00:40:22You guys are so happy now.
00:40:24You got a nice house.
00:40:25And I'll be like, yeah, I brought your mom to L.A.
00:40:27We got a nice house, and we have all the stuff we want.
00:40:30I'll be like, y'all have no idea.
00:40:31You don't know what it's like.
00:40:49Rob's room is so small.
00:40:51So like, I don't know how this is going to fit even into it
00:40:53because his closet is small and he has a bunch of clothes.
00:40:55So it's like, I don't know how I'm going to fit everything.
00:40:59My apartment in London is very different from Rob's place in Inglewood.
00:41:03Rob's, where he lives, is very small.
00:41:06It's like a giant bedroom.
00:41:07And then in the corner, there's like a little stove and a fridge.
00:41:11Rob's bathroom is kind of like an outhouse.
00:41:13So when I need to pee at like two in the morning,
00:41:15I would rather hold it than go to the bathroom at night.
00:41:19I literally was showering one time, and there was a raccoon on the roof.
00:41:22So I was just a bit like, oh my God.
00:41:24I don't know where I'm at right now.
00:41:37Hey, mom.
00:41:38Can you hear me?
00:41:39Yep.
00:41:40How are you?
00:41:40You excited?
00:41:41Yeah, I'm ready.
00:41:42I just want to get out of the way now.
00:41:43Like, I've been waiting for two years for this.
00:41:45I'm ready to just get there.
00:41:48I don't have any siblings or anything.
00:41:49So like me and my mom have always been close since I was little.
00:41:52It's not really like a mother and daughter relationship.
00:41:54It's more like sisters, I'd say.
00:42:00When I was about 16 years old, I moved to England by myself.
00:42:03After that, my mom ended up moving to England.
00:42:05She hates England, but like I was there, so she moved with me.
00:42:08And then I moved to Mexico.
00:42:11And then she stayed with me the whole time I was in Mexico.
00:42:14I mean, knowing my mom, she probably moved to America.
00:42:16She probably moved down the road.
00:42:18And Rob doesn't like to hear that.
00:42:20They're not like the biggest fans of each other.
00:42:22They're going to have to learn to get along
00:42:24because we're all going to be family at the end of the day.
00:42:27How's Rob the knob?
00:42:28Okay, rude, rude, rude.
00:42:30I'm marrying him.
00:42:32Rude but true.
00:42:33He's stupid.
00:42:35He's grumpy.
00:42:36He's the epitome of a knob.
00:42:38A knob is a penis, but it's like, it's not an actual penis.
00:42:42It's someone that's just a knob.
00:42:43They're just like, I guess, a dickhead.
00:42:46Rob the knob is not a term of endearment.
00:42:49Are you nervous about when you get there,
00:42:51where you're going to live?
00:42:53Yeah, obviously it's not the best situation,
00:42:56but I'm just excited to see Rob.
00:42:58And I'm going to think about like the bad stuff when I get there.
00:43:01There's a saying, talk cheap, money buys houses.
00:43:04No, I mean, I'm going to get him to move out at some point.
00:43:09I really wish you'd let me just give him a call
00:43:11or give him a heads up.
00:43:12Say, listen, you need to be doing this for myself.
00:43:15Yeah, no, don't.
00:43:16Don't scare him off before we're even married.
00:43:18Wait till we're married and then do what you want.
00:43:21Let me just first, let's get the marriage done.
00:43:23We've been waiting for it.
00:43:24I don't want anything to mess it up.
00:43:25And then if you want to call him, do whatever, go for it.
00:43:30For work, Rob does little odd jobs here and there.
00:43:33But it's frustrating for me because I've been trying
00:43:35to get Rob to move out for months.
00:43:37He's had so much time to find a good job
00:43:40and kind of change the situation he's in.
00:43:42I think Rob is a real man.
00:43:44He just doesn't do some of the things
00:43:46a real man is supposed to do.
00:43:47So it's a bit more serious for me than Rob realizes.
00:43:51OK.
00:44:03Can I do a vodka water with lemon and lime, please?
00:44:08I'll do a double.
00:44:17Oh, hey.
00:44:18Hello.
00:44:18What's up, guys?
00:44:20How are you guys doing?
00:44:22You got the bead memo?
00:44:23What bead memo?
00:44:24This one?
00:44:24Yeah, this one.
00:44:27Totally unplanned.
00:44:28Besides me.
00:44:30I am a mixture of emotions to know that Manuel is going to be arriving soon.
00:44:35We have been waiting for this day for so long.
00:44:40And now it's here.
00:44:43And it's scary.
00:44:45So I'm meeting my friends for a couple of drinks
00:44:48just to kind of calm down before I get to Manuel.
00:44:53My friends know about Manuel.
00:44:55They all know about this ex-fiancé I had in Ecuador.
00:44:58He'd always been in the background.
00:45:00And so they didn't even take me seriously about this wedding
00:45:04until after I got back from Ecuador the third time, like recently.
00:45:08Even after we filed for the K1 and everything,
00:45:11they still thought it was just me and one of my things.
00:45:15Tomorrow is the big day.
00:45:17Tomorrow is the big day.
00:45:18Are you excited?
00:45:19I'm excited, I'm nervous, I'm anxious.
00:45:22Did he tell you how his first flight was?
00:45:23Because it was his first one.
00:45:24He said he thought the plane was going to fall.
00:45:27It literally was like my love.
00:45:29Oh my God.
00:45:31Did he get a chance to talk to his mom once he got to Guayaquil?
00:45:34He's talked to her, but he's telling her he was in Guayaquil to work.
00:45:39Wait, how long does he normally work for?
00:45:41So over there, the men that work in construction,
00:45:43they go to different parts of Ecuador and they live there.
00:45:46And they work for months, sometimes even a year.
00:45:49So he could be here for three months before he tells his mom.
00:45:52This makes me and I'm sure everybody else skeptical as f***.
00:45:56Like it's kind of scary.
00:46:00Why hasn't Manuel told his mother that he is coming to America to live with his fiancée?
00:46:07That's a Manuel question.
00:46:09This is what he says, okay.
00:46:13He tells me that it's easier for him to tell her when he gets here
00:46:19so that she's not worried about him traveling so far away and all of that.
00:46:25Sometimes I feel like Manuel likes to not tell everything
00:46:29or leave things out as a way to protect other people,
00:46:32which irks me because of course I'm worried what he's not telling me.
00:46:36Why do you think he hasn't said anything?
00:46:39Do you think he's coming over here to get away from a situation?
00:46:44I thought about that too.
00:46:46If he's trying to almost run away from the burdens that he has there and start fresh.
00:46:54In America?
00:46:57Cheers to that.
00:46:59Cheers to that. Let's do a cheers.
00:47:01You, Manuel, and all the witchy stuff he hasn't seen yet.
00:47:03And all the witchy stuff he hasn't seen yet. Cheers to that.
00:47:06Cheers to that.
00:47:10You know, speaking of that, does he know the full extent of your witchiness?
00:47:13What have you told him so far? What does he know?
00:47:15That I do tarot and astrology.
00:47:17And your spells and...
00:47:19Slaughter a lamb with a full moon.
00:47:21I do not slaughter a lamb with a full moon.
00:47:24No, I do remember there was one time it was like a full moon and something
00:47:28and I told him I had to go work with the moon and not call him back.
00:47:31And when I called him back, we were talking for like 10 minutes and then he goes,
00:47:34So what were you doing with the moon?
00:47:36Is like witchiness and like brujerĂa like a thing in Ecuador?
00:47:40No, God is a thing in Ecuador.
00:47:42So they're Catholic?
00:47:43Very Catholic.
00:47:45So being a modern day witch to me means working with the elements.
00:47:50It means working with the earth. It means working with your own intuition
00:47:54through all different kinds of spell work, affirmation work, mantra work, all that fun stuff.
00:48:00That being said, things like witchcraft are foreign to Manuel
00:48:04and they also have a negative connotation.
00:48:06But this is not just what I do.
00:48:09This is who I am. This is my lifestyle.
00:48:12So I am worried about how he's going to conceive it all.
00:48:17I hope he's supportive.
00:48:19I hope it doesn't weird him out to be honest with you.
00:48:22Like it's one thing for him to say it's cool babe
00:48:25and it's another thing for him to see me literally actively working at my altar.
00:48:29Do you think that you're actually going to go through with the whole process
00:48:35with you both leaving so much out?
00:48:38So there is a part of me that worries like what if like the first 30 days are just hell?
00:48:41What if they're nightmarish?
00:48:43You all know I have done this.
00:48:44I've made a decision and then I'm like oh **** I made the wrong decision.
00:48:48This is a pattern.
00:48:49And then I backtrack and backpedal and pretend that decision never happened.
00:48:52You can't do that right now.
00:48:53I can't do that.
00:48:56There's definitely a lot of mini lies like little white lies that have come out
00:48:59and I'm worried that that's going to blow up into something more
00:49:02that's going to be like detrimental to the relationship.
00:49:04So I'm worried that he's going to get here finally and things are going to change
00:49:08and I'm, you know, as friends, as best friends, I'm worried that, you know,
00:49:15she's going to get her heart broken.
00:49:16So.
00:49:19It's like just from the stuff that you told us today, what happens if it goes south?
00:49:23Like are you prepared to like cut the whole thing after you spent all this time doing it?
00:49:30Full transparency.
00:49:31That's all we want.
00:49:32Yeah.
00:49:34If **** does not go the way that I see fit, I am prepared to bounce.
00:49:38Bounce.
00:49:52I have to explain to my son that his mom is going to be moving to the United States.
00:49:59I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:50:01So it's going to be very hard.
00:50:08Coco.
00:50:14Coco.
00:50:17Coco, just don't be around because you can get crushed.
00:50:31If you have told me five years ago that I was one day going to move voluntarily,
00:50:36a fan of mine would say you're crazy.
00:50:39But here I am, packing my whole life in a suitcase.
00:51:01Like a baby.
00:51:03I have my two sons, JC and Juanse.
00:51:06The eldest is Juanse.
00:51:08And the connection that I have with Juanse, it's out of this world.
00:51:14I'm a cool mom.
00:51:16So we love eating a good ice cream or junk food that he cannot eat with his dad.
00:51:23And saying goodbye to that, it's very tough for me.
00:51:33Coco.
00:51:37I made it a year after the first time I met Gino to introduce him to my children
00:51:43because I wanted to make sure that it was like something long-lasting.
00:51:48Any mother will understand that.
00:51:50Back when things got serious, I slowly introduced them.
00:51:54And the funniest part is that they don't have a language in common.
00:51:58But they were getting along, they were playing, they were communicating so well.
00:52:02It was such a beautiful moment.
00:52:05It's something that I will take in my heart until the day I die.
00:52:33Gino's sister-in-law, Laurie, sent me a very rude message
00:52:38asking me not to have my wedding day on specific days.
00:52:44She said,
00:52:46I'm not going to be there to please your family.
00:52:49I said,
00:52:51I'm not going to be there to please your family.
00:52:54Gino's sister-in-law, Laurie, sent me a very rude message
00:52:58asking me not to have my wedding day on specific days
00:53:02because she was going to be on vacation to Florida.
00:53:06It's not just, like, the message.
00:53:09What she said is how she said it.
00:53:12It was very bossy.
00:53:14She never said, like, hi, Jasmine, how are you doing?
00:53:16Any kind of greeting.
00:53:18It just looks more like an order
00:53:21rather than, you know, a polite request or suggestion.
00:53:24And it makes me feel unwanted, not loved by his family.
00:53:30Mom, I just have to tell you,
00:53:33I'm leaving.
00:53:35I haven't told him.
00:53:37I told him before about the visa I was working on,
00:53:41but he doesn't know that the visa has already been approved
00:53:44and that I'm leaving.
00:53:46So, tonight I'm going to give him the news.
00:53:50Even though my kids have a very comfortable life in Panama,
00:53:55my plan with Gino
00:53:57because we both agree on it,
00:54:00will be to bring my children to the United States
00:54:03as soon as possible.
00:54:11My ex-husband, he's okay with it,
00:54:14but I haven't discussed with Juanse
00:54:17specific details about the K-1 visa,
00:54:20especially because there was a possibility
00:54:23that it wouldn't be approved.
00:54:24But now, I have to explain to him
00:54:27that his mom is going to be moving to the United States.
00:54:31I don't know if he's going to be sad.
00:54:33He's going to cry.
00:54:35I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:54:37So, it's going to be very hard.
00:54:55Juanse really wants to move to America.
00:54:59I don't know if he put that idea in his mind.
00:55:02It was maybe Gino.
00:55:04But no children in the world
00:55:07will want to be separated from their mother,
00:55:11even if it's just for a few days.
00:55:14So, it's going to be very hard.
00:55:16I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:18I don't know if he's going to be sad.
00:55:20I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:21I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:23I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:25I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:27I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:29I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:31I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:33I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:35I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:37I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:39I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:41I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:43I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:45I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:47I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:49I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:51I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:53I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:55I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:57I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:55:59I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:01I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:03I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:05I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:07I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:09I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:11I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:13I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:15I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:17I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:19I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:21I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:23I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:25I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:27I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:29I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:31I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:33I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:35I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:37I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:39I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:41I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:43I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:45I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:47I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:49I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:51I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:53I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:56:55It's going to be very hard for me
00:56:57be far from my kids because
00:57:00as a mom
00:57:01I'm 100% involved in their life
00:57:04but I know that everything I'm doing
00:57:06is for them and eventually we're going to be all together
00:57:08I keep
00:57:09myself repeating those things
00:57:11but it gives me nightmares and a hard time
00:57:13trying to sleep at night
00:57:15thinking about
00:57:17not being with them.
00:57:18When you come, I make a lot of love.
00:57:25Really?
00:57:26That's interesting.
00:57:28Justin and I used to have lots of sex.
00:57:31But now that he knows that I'm trans,
00:57:33something inside him rejects that part of my body.
00:57:39We're going to talk more when I get there.
00:57:48When I look for clues in my face,
00:57:51I could die for the thrill of the chase.
00:57:55I get high on the taste.
00:57:58We're just going to speak to daddy today.
00:58:01Hello?
00:58:13Oh, I see you.
00:58:15I have to find the parking.
00:58:21Hi.
00:58:24Baby, you're beautiful today.
00:58:27Well, you know, you like me all natural.
00:58:30You don't like me done up like a drag queen.
00:58:32Yeah, I like when you're more natural.
00:58:36And when you come, when you do your makeup,
00:58:40I want you to be more natural, yes?
00:58:46I think Justin is nervous about people looking at me
00:58:49because he's still trying to get over his insecurities.
00:58:52He thinks that people can still figure out that I'm trans.
00:58:57I will teach you with gray clothes.
00:58:59You will not teach me anything with the fashion
00:59:02that they have there.
00:59:03I'm sorry.
00:59:06How's your mom?
00:59:09Good, good.
00:59:10What is she thinking that I'm coming there?
00:59:12Like, is she excited?
00:59:13Is she kind of like?
00:59:15Of course, she's waiting.
00:59:16You too?
00:59:18Really?
00:59:18She's waiting to meet me again, knowing everything
00:59:22that she knows now?
00:59:23That's good.
00:59:24You know, I just want to be, I want her blessing.
00:59:27I want to make sure that she approves and, you know,
00:59:31like, because I'm going to be part of the family.
00:59:33I'm going to be part of your family,
00:59:34and you're going to be part of my family.
00:59:38The time when I met Maya, his mom,
00:59:41I feel like she loves me.
00:59:42I feel like I'm a part of her family.
00:59:44I feel like I'm a part of her family.
00:59:46I feel like I'm a part of her family.
00:59:48I feel like I'm a part of her family.
00:59:50His mom, I feel like she loved our union
00:59:54and loved us together as a couple.
00:59:56She did not know that I was trans years ago,
00:59:59but now she knows.
01:00:01And she has hang-ups, and she's scared.
01:00:06I hope Justin's family accepts me and us together
01:00:12like they did in the past.
01:00:14I don't know how I'm going to feel, you know,
01:00:16if she doesn't accept me.
01:00:18Well, we're going to talk more when I get there.
01:00:21Are you excited?
01:00:26Oh, I'm going to break it all right.
01:00:32Really?
01:00:33That's interesting, because it's the last time
01:00:35we saw each other.
01:00:36Lovemaking was very much in two and a half weeks,
01:00:39maybe four times.
01:00:42No, it's not.
01:00:43No, it's not.
01:00:44That's like an 80-year-old man that's
01:00:45ready for a casket.
01:00:46No.
01:00:4815 years ago, we used to have lots of sex,
01:00:52and everything was so healthy.
01:00:54And like 15 years forward, I'm just like, what changed?
01:01:01I've noticed that he will not pleasure me completely.
01:01:07I understand, like, the whole trans thing probably
01:01:12bothers him.
01:01:12But I mean, like, I'm supposed to be your fiance,
01:01:15like your future wife.
01:01:16And you're not even like 100% in bed, like,
01:01:20fully connected to me.
01:01:22If you can accept me, then you accept me.
01:01:24If you can't, c'est la vie.
01:01:27OK, baby.
01:01:27All right, kisses.
01:01:28I'm very glad to see you.
01:01:30Bye, honey.
01:01:31Bye, sweetie.
01:01:32Bye.
01:01:41Tell me why I saw Sophie on Bumble.
01:01:44She said she was just trying to find friends in America
01:01:47while she was here.
01:01:49She's on day naps.
01:01:50She's doing a lot of things that make me feel like she's
01:01:53not really here for Rob.
01:01:54Red flags all over.
01:01:56Nah, I don't think so.
01:01:57A day nap Rob.
01:01:58Nah, bro, watch.
01:02:15Hey.
01:02:16Took you long enough.
01:02:17My bad.
01:02:18Had me waiting forever.
01:02:18What's up, bro?
01:02:19You know I try my best to not have you waiting.
01:02:21How you doing?
01:02:22I'm doing good.
01:02:23So today, me and Terai are going to hit the dance studio up
01:02:26and practice something to do for Sophie
01:02:29when she gets off the plane.
01:02:31What you got for us?
01:02:33We're going to have to come up with that together.
01:02:35My plan when I get to the airport
01:02:38is that when Sophie walks around, she's going to see me.
01:02:41I'm going to be like, stop.
01:02:42Then I'm going to bust out the ring.
01:02:46And she's going to be like, whoa, I thought this was it.
01:02:48But now there's a ring.
01:02:49And I'm like, yes, the time is officially now.
01:02:52I'm going to do this actual sweet Disney princess proposal.
01:02:56What do you want this dance to signify?
01:02:58Like, what are you?
01:02:59What's the purpose?
01:03:00I really just want it to be, like, cute, fun,
01:03:03and I want it to be like, you know,
01:03:05I'm going to be dancing with you.
01:03:06I'm going to be dancing with you.
01:03:08I'm going to be dancing with you.
01:03:09I'm going to be dancing with you.
01:03:10Cute, fun, like, welcome to America.
01:03:15All right, this is what I got.
01:03:16You ready?
01:03:26That's what I got so far.
01:03:27So I need you to help me come up with the next move after that.
01:03:32What is this?
01:03:33That's all you got, right here.
01:03:35I mean, I've never seen nobody come up with this for love.
01:03:41Pledge allegiance to Sophie?
01:03:43That's all you got, for real?
01:03:46What are you doing? How long is the dance?
01:03:47Probably like 20 seconds.
01:03:48So you can't even think of a 20-second dance,
01:03:50but you're about to get married.
01:03:51I can come up with it, but I have you here to help.
01:03:53That's wild, bro.
01:03:54I met Sophie maybe once or twice before.
01:03:58The vibes I got from her were a little iffy.
01:04:01She seems like a nice girl, but she's young,
01:04:04like early 20s, I think.
01:04:05When did she get here?
01:04:07Two days.
01:04:08She's doing a lot of things that make me feel like
01:04:11she's not really here for Rob.
01:04:12I don't know what you're saying.
01:04:13Don't start.
01:04:14I can't call it.
01:04:15I can't call it.
01:04:16You're not even ready for the dance, bro.
01:04:17Are you ready for a whole marriage?
01:04:19Don't start.
01:04:19That's funny.
01:04:20I'm ready, all right?
01:04:21Okay.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:23I'll take your word for it then.
01:04:24You know, I've been put two years into this.
01:04:25Facts.
01:04:26And I've always been someone looking for somebody.
01:04:30So I just didn't find it, but I found it.
01:04:32I feel like I found it, so I'm ready.
01:04:35I remember last time she was in LA, bro.
01:04:38Tell me why I saw Sophie on Bumble.
01:04:42She was in there looking for her tenderoni
01:04:44and a date side of things, bro.
01:04:46She's saying she was just trying to find friends
01:04:48in America while she was here.
01:04:50And I saw her-
01:04:51No, I'm sorry.
01:04:52One of you?
01:04:53She did the same thing in Mexico.
01:04:54What's a red flag, bro?
01:04:56Red flags all over.
01:04:57Nah, I don't-
01:04:58A date not Rob.
01:05:00It ain't only the date.
01:05:01No, there is a friend side to it.
01:05:03But she wasn't-
01:05:04I was on the app, bro.
01:05:05Maybe she had clicked over to the wrong side.
01:05:09If you're on an open relationship, just say that.
01:05:10Nah, bro, I just think that we can't-
01:05:12we have an understanding on what that was.
01:05:14I don't think that it was what you think it was.
01:05:17Okay.
01:05:18So-
01:05:19It's right in your face, bro.
01:05:20The cards are in your hand.
01:05:21Nah, bro, watch.
01:05:24Rob might look like a real tough guy on the outside
01:05:27and he puts that off, like he doesn't trust people.
01:05:29But in the inside, Rob is really soft.
01:05:32At the end of the day,
01:05:33I think he's afraid to put off
01:05:34that he's scared of getting hurt.
01:05:36And that's kind of how he deals with it.
01:05:42Hey!
01:05:43I don't care what the haters say.
01:05:45I'm a star shining every day.
01:05:47I'll be me no matter what they say.
01:05:50I light it up like a diamond ring.
01:05:52Shining bright over everything.
01:05:54Yeah, I don't care.
01:05:59Hi.
01:06:00Hi.
01:06:01How are you?
01:06:03I'm good, thanks.
01:06:05Tonight, I'm with my friend, Maya.
01:06:08She met Rob when I went to LA the first time,
01:06:10like a couple years ago.
01:06:12When she first met Rob,
01:06:13I feel like she really liked him
01:06:14because she saw that he was a proper gentleman
01:06:17when he first met me.
01:06:18He hasn't been like as much of like a gentleman as he was.
01:06:21Me and Rob had like a rough patch.
01:06:24Because of COVID, I couldn't visit him.
01:06:25He couldn't visit me.
01:06:26And in that time, he was speaking to, you know,
01:06:28this girl online.
01:06:29So like, I told my friend about that straight away.
01:06:32And like, as soon as I told her,
01:06:33her opinion changed.
01:06:34Obviously, you know, I didn't leave him,
01:06:36but, you know, that's in the past now.
01:06:38So hopefully she's forgiven him,
01:06:39but it'd be good to hear her opinion of me moving
01:06:42and actually like marrying him.
01:06:44So how's life?
01:06:46Good.
01:06:47I'm excited for you.
01:06:48Yeah.
01:06:48To get married so soon.
01:06:49I know, it's like crazy.
01:06:50I did not think I'd be married at like 23.
01:06:52Like, make me feel like the old lonely grandma.
01:06:55Yeah, no, maybe, you know, you can have a boyfriend,
01:06:57you know.
01:06:58I'll do it.
01:06:59Finally, yeah.
01:07:00Yeah.
01:07:01Have you planned anything yet?
01:07:03To be honest, no.
01:07:03Like, we've kind of,
01:07:04I'm just kind of leaving it until I get there,
01:07:07just because like this whole journey
01:07:08has been so stressful as it is.
01:07:11First thing that comes to mind,
01:07:12all that stuff that happened with the online thing
01:07:16that you told me about.
01:07:18So how are you feeling about all of that now?
01:07:20And obviously, like, sometimes it crosses my mind
01:07:22that he did that.
01:07:23Cause I'm like, you know,
01:07:24cause I never did anything like that.
01:07:25Even though it was going through a hard time,
01:07:26it's like, why would he do that?
01:07:29You know?
01:07:30I mean, it's not something I'm going to like,
01:07:32ruin the relationship for and just end like,
01:07:34you know, everything that we've been through.
01:07:38I remember, I got a call from Sophie and she said,
01:07:40there's an account that's messaged her and said,
01:07:42you know, look what your boyfriend's been doing.
01:07:44And he'd sent sexual videos of himself.
01:07:46The first thing I thought when she told me that is,
01:07:48they're in different countries,
01:07:49is how do you know what he's doing out there?
01:07:52I can't believe it's the only time,
01:07:54but I hope she knows what she's doing.
01:07:58Do you and Rob feel like you know everything
01:08:00about each other?
01:08:01Yeah, I mean, I feel like, you know,
01:08:04I know everything there is to know about Rob.
01:08:05I mean, obviously we've been talking every day
01:08:08for like two and a half years, maybe three years now.
01:08:12There is something like, he doesn't know about me,
01:08:14which like, I don't know if I'll tell him,
01:08:16just cause like, I haven't told anyone yet.
01:08:20I haven't even told you, so like, you don't even know.
01:08:22Um, basically, um, I'm bisexual.
01:08:29And like, did you know that?
01:08:31No, I would've never even...
01:08:32Did you expect it?
01:08:33No, not at all.
01:08:35Like, if someone asked me, I'd probably say yeah,
01:08:37but like, I'm not just going to announce it.
01:08:39I feel like it's no one's business.
01:08:41But it feels good to like, say it though.
01:08:42Oh, well I'm glad you could've told me.
01:08:44I mean, I don't know, you told me you're getting married,
01:08:46you're bisexual, you haven't told anyone,
01:08:48and it's happening.
01:08:49Maybe, who knows?
01:08:50No, no baby.
01:08:52I've always known that I was attracted to women,
01:08:55cause my first crush when I was like five, six years old
01:08:57was a girl.
01:08:58But I think because of the fact that I'm bi,
01:09:00not fully gay, is that like,
01:09:01I've kind of pushed it aside
01:09:02because it's, I guess, easier to date men.
01:09:04It's exciting for me to get it off my chest,
01:09:06cause it does feel nice, this is all new for me.
01:09:08But at the same time, there's definitely a fear of,
01:09:11if I don't explore this before I'm married,
01:09:13it's like, what if it's a mistake?
01:09:15But I'll find a way to figure it out for myself
01:09:17without ruining our relationship.
01:09:20I don't want to say when did you know,
01:09:22but is it something you've always
01:09:23kind of known about yourself?
01:09:24Yeah, so like, the first crush I ever had
01:09:27was actually a girl.
01:09:29But it's like, yeah, I just feel like
01:09:31I kind of just suppressed it for years.
01:09:33Cause I also like guys.
01:09:35Like, I think it's like the same amount, maybe.
01:09:37Even though I've never had a girlfriend.
01:09:40Do you think, you know, you've obviously,
01:09:43or come to this certain realisation now
01:09:46that you are bisexual.
01:09:47Is there ever going to be a part of you that,
01:09:49you know, you're getting married
01:09:50and you've never explored that side?
01:09:52You know, I do wonder about like,
01:09:54cause I never like physically went all the way with a girl.
01:09:57It's like, I don't know what that's like.
01:09:59And if he was willing to like negotiate
01:10:01some kind of thing at some point,
01:10:03maybe one day I can like explore it a bit.
01:10:06Yeah, I mean, I guess.
01:10:08In a normal situation, I'd say,
01:10:09tell him, see how he reacts, but you're getting married.
01:10:13Right.
01:10:14It's a bit late now.
01:10:17I love Rob.
01:10:18And like appearance-wise, I love everything about Rob.
01:10:21But we only have a short time to get married.
01:10:23So I have to figure out what I want to do with that fact.
01:10:31I haven't even stepped a foot into the United States
01:10:35and I'm already receiving orders.
01:10:39I'm going to do everything in my power
01:10:41to make sure that they're going to attend our wedding.
01:10:43And that's the way it is.
01:10:45What about me that I'm living my whole life
01:10:48just to meet with you?
01:11:18Hello, Mrs. Yasmin. How are you?
01:11:20Hi, Genesis. How are you?
01:11:22Coco!
01:11:24Hello, Coco. It's been a long time.
01:11:26I'm going to take the bread off, but this one...
01:11:29Coco is leaving.
01:11:31This is the last spa we're going to do for her.
01:11:34No way.
01:11:35So she's leaving.
01:11:36Coco is family.
01:11:37Yes, I know.
01:11:38But we're leaving for the United States.
01:11:41My dog, Coco, is technically my dog.
01:11:45My dog, Coco, is technically the only family member
01:11:49that I'm taking with me to the United States.
01:11:51Why?
01:11:52Because, unfortunately, he's the only one
01:11:54who doesn't need a visa.
01:11:56So I'm taking him to a spa
01:11:59because I want him to be the cutest dog at the airport.
01:12:07Hello, baby!
01:12:09My angel!
01:12:11I want to show you something.
01:12:15Oh, yes. I love surprises.
01:12:17Look who's here!
01:12:18Oh, my gosh! Coco!
01:12:21Your baby!
01:12:23I want you to say bye to Coco
01:12:26before he gets his special treatment today.
01:12:29Bye, Coco. You're in good hands.
01:12:32So, baby, I have to do some shopping for Coco
01:12:35because we're running out of time.
01:12:37I'm about to travel.
01:12:39I want to make sure that I have everything ready.
01:12:44Have you potty-trained Coco yet?
01:12:46Because when I was in Panama,
01:12:48he was peeing all over your floor.
01:12:50Is he going on the mat now?
01:12:52Or does he still pee all over the place?
01:12:54Okay, number one, Coco doesn't do it on purpose.
01:12:59Okay, he doesn't do it on purpose.
01:13:01He suffers from anxiety.
01:13:05Um...
01:13:08Are you okay?
01:13:11Define okay.
01:13:15I mean, are you doing okay? Are you feeling okay?
01:13:17Everything's okay?
01:13:21I cannot pretend that I'm super happy.
01:13:25I just can't.
01:13:27Because that's not true.
01:13:29That's wrong.
01:13:33Your sister-in-law texted me
01:13:38about the dates that I can already
01:13:40not pick up for the wedding
01:13:42because she's having a lovely vacation
01:13:44in Florida.
01:13:48And she didn't even say,
01:13:50hi, hello, Jasmine, no.
01:13:52She didn't mean anything bad about that.
01:13:56It was just a hurry-up quick message
01:13:58because she was talking to me,
01:14:00saying, oh, no, please don't have the wedding
01:14:02during these days or whatever.
01:14:04It's about having manners.
01:14:07Yeah, I don't like the way you talk about my family
01:14:09like they're your enemies or something.
01:14:11Gino is always blaming me
01:14:13for not getting along with his family
01:14:15and not being open-minded
01:14:17to receive them with all my love.
01:14:19You know, I made them my family.
01:14:21But there is a pattern.
01:14:23He always have a bias.
01:14:25He's never gonna take my side,
01:14:27not even when I'm right.
01:14:29All you do is to complain about me,
01:14:31to compare me to your family,
01:14:34to just let me know
01:14:36and throw it to my face
01:14:38that they are more important than me.
01:14:40You will choose them, okay?
01:14:42I said you were equally important.
01:14:44I don't want to be equally important.
01:14:46I need a man that's gonna tell me,
01:14:48like, you are the most important person in this world.
01:14:50Yeah, after marriage, I would say...
01:14:52I don't need marriage.
01:14:56It doesn't matter what I do
01:14:58or what I don't do.
01:15:00I'm always gonna be the bad guy
01:15:02when it comes to me and his family.
01:15:04And I hate it.
01:15:06I hate it.
01:15:08All my family have always treated you
01:15:10with love, with respect
01:15:12when you have come to Panama.
01:15:14I haven't even stepped a foot
01:15:16into the United States
01:15:18and I'm already receiving orders.
01:15:20Baby,
01:15:22all she was trying to say is,
01:15:24hey, we're gonna be on vacation these days.
01:15:26Please try not to have a wedding during this time.
01:15:28That's all she's saying,
01:15:30That's a simple request
01:15:32and you're making a big deal
01:15:34and have some compassion for these people.
01:15:36I am the one
01:15:38who has to have compassion.
01:15:40What about them having compassion on me
01:15:42that is leaving her whole life
01:15:44just to go there because I love you
01:15:46and marry you?
01:15:48So whenever I want to get married, I'm gonna get married.
01:15:50You're talking about compassion
01:15:52on these people because they're having a vacation
01:15:54in Florida.
01:15:56What about me that I'm living my whole life
01:15:58just to be with you?
01:16:00I'm gonna do everything
01:16:02in my power to make sure that they're gonna
01:16:04attend our wedding. That's my brother and sister
01:16:06love and that's the way it is.
01:16:12Wow.
01:16:14What a jerk.
01:16:18What a jerk.
01:16:20Yeah, and that's the way it is.
01:16:24I'm done talking about the wedding stuff.
01:16:28We can talk later.
01:16:30Okay, sounds good.
01:16:33Say hi to your lovely family.
01:16:35I will, and they are lovely.
01:16:37Bye.
01:16:39F***ing idiot.
01:16:47I have the message here.
01:16:49I'm not making it up.
01:16:51She was so f***ing rude
01:16:53and I have to be compassionate
01:16:55and move my wedding date
01:16:57according to her vacation.
01:16:59What about the way around?
01:17:01When it is about his family,
01:17:03I never win.
01:17:05It's like this all the time.
01:17:11Look at the way he expresses himself
01:17:13that I have to be f***ing compassionate
01:17:15about his f***ing family
01:17:17when I'm leaving everything I love
01:17:19in my country,
01:17:21my kids,
01:17:23he wants me to leave my dog.
01:17:27I don't have any
01:17:29American friends.
01:17:31I don't have anyone
01:17:33from any part of the world.
01:17:37I'm going to be so lonely.
01:17:39And look at
01:17:41Gino's attitude.
01:17:49I think I'm having a panic attack.
01:17:51Oh my God.
01:17:53Manuel is supposed to be
01:17:55arriving to Rochester.
01:17:57But I literally have no clue
01:17:59if he made his connection.
01:18:01What is happening? Where is he?
01:18:03And if he's not on the plane,
01:18:05what happens then? Did I lose him already?
01:18:07And he hasn't even gotten here?
01:18:09Oh my God, I'm freaking out.
01:18:21Come up here, baby boy.
01:18:24Oh, one more time.
01:18:26You got it. There you go.
01:18:28Good job.
01:18:34I'm going to be bringing you a new daddy
01:18:36today, baby boy.
01:18:38Are you excited?
01:18:40Manuel is
01:18:42supposed to be arriving to Miami
01:18:44right now in order to catch
01:18:46his connecting flight to Rochester.
01:18:48Come on.
01:18:50But I literally have no clue
01:18:52if he made his connections, what's going on.
01:18:54I don't know where he is.
01:18:58I sent him a message two hours ago
01:19:00and he still hasn't gotten it.
01:19:04So, yeah.
01:19:06He entered into Miami
01:19:08and in Miami, that's where you go
01:19:10through customs. You give them everything
01:19:12and they say, okay, enter or
01:19:14something's wrong here.
01:19:16And I haven't spoken to him
01:19:18since he entered into Miami.
01:19:20Everything's left unchecked on
01:19:22WhatsApp, Facebook. Like, literally
01:19:24my messages are left unread.
01:19:26It's very, very worrisome that there's been
01:19:28no communication at all, so I don't even know
01:19:30if he got through customs.
01:19:36Hello.
01:19:38How are you?
01:19:42I'm trying to Zen.
01:19:44You look good. Thank you. You look good, too.
01:19:46So,
01:19:48I don't know where Manuel is.
01:19:54So, there's no time frame? There's nothing?
01:19:56No messages?
01:19:58You have nothing? No.
01:20:00I don't have anything.
01:20:02And you're just hopeful that he's gonna show up?
01:20:04He's supposed to land today.
01:20:06You know, I feel like there's always
01:20:08something that's, like, going wrong
01:20:10with this whole situation.
01:20:12So, like, I don't know.
01:20:14Is that, like, the universe telling you?
01:20:16This isn't
01:20:18such a great idea. You know what I mean?
01:20:20I do believe in signs.
01:20:22And I've thought about this.
01:20:24Are these signs that I shouldn't be doing
01:20:26this?
01:20:28I don't know.
01:20:32I'm the more cautious sister,
01:20:34where she's super spontaneous and will,
01:20:36you know, go headfirst into,
01:20:38you know, deep waters without thinking
01:20:40twice about it. But I think
01:20:42sometimes people can be naive
01:20:44and I think we need to worry about the other
01:20:46side of it, too. Like, what if he
01:20:48is not in it for the right intentions?
01:20:50Or what if he
01:20:52no longer wants this? Or what if she no longer wants
01:20:54this? You go ahead of me.
01:20:56Okay. I love you. I'll see you in a little bit.
01:20:58I love you, too. I'll see you there, baby girl.
01:21:00Alright. Okay, alright.
01:21:06Okay.
01:21:08Let's do this.
01:21:10Bye, baby girl. Don't scratch that, honey.
01:21:12Okay.
01:21:16Worst case scenario, his papers couldn't get approved.
01:21:18Like, tomorrow his visa expires.
01:21:22It could take just one officer having a bad day
01:21:24to just be like,
01:21:26what are you doing here, sir?
01:21:28I get it, it's the 22nd, but like,
01:21:30why so late? What held you up?
01:21:32You're marrying who? Where are they?
01:21:34Why would they let you travel this far
01:21:36when you've never even traveled before?
01:21:38I see you don't speak English.
01:21:40I know what you're doing, but like,
01:21:42I can't think anything
01:21:44else but what the plan has been.
01:21:46So,
01:21:48I'm gonna go to the airport
01:21:50and stick to the plan
01:21:52and try not to freak out.
01:22:10Oh, my God.
01:22:18We were getting to the airport
01:22:20and I carry my anxiety in my stomach
01:22:22and I just felt my stomach, like, in my throat.
01:22:24What is happening? Where is he?
01:22:26And if he's not on the plane, what happens then?
01:22:28Did I lose him already
01:22:30and he hasn't even gotten here?
01:22:32I think I'm having a panic attack.
01:22:34Oh, my God.
01:22:38I'm just trying to breathe.
01:22:40Oh, my God.
01:22:42I think I just...
01:22:44Oh, my God.
01:22:46Oh, my God.
01:22:48Oh, my God.
01:22:50Oh, my God.
01:22:52Oh, my God.
01:22:54Oh, my God.
01:22:56Oh, my God.
01:22:58Oh, my God.
01:23:00I think I just...
01:23:02Oh, my God.
01:23:06I'm getting lightheaded.
01:23:08I legit think I'm having a panic attack.
01:23:10I'm literally getting lightheaded.
01:23:12Oh, my God.
01:23:20Oh, my God.
01:23:22Oh, my God, I'm freaking out.
01:23:24I'm freaking out.
01:23:26Oh, my God, I'm also crying.
01:23:28Oh, my God.
01:23:30Oh, my God.
01:23:34Oh, my God, I'm actually crying.
01:23:36Oh, my God.
01:23:46Whoa.
01:23:48This season on
01:23:5090 Day Fiancé.
01:23:52Stop.
01:23:54What is going on?
01:23:58Whoo!
01:24:00So we're gonna do this?
01:24:04Oh, I missed you.
01:24:06Come on.
01:24:08This is the first trip here in Moldova
01:24:10after I know she's trans.
01:24:12Our country is narrow-minded.
01:24:14Oh, my God.
01:24:16I just got clocked.
01:24:18The people over there staring at us.
01:24:22My fiancé Citra
01:24:24is from a very strict Muslim
01:24:26background, and you can't
01:24:28sext till marriage like that.
01:24:30It's just, uh-uh.
01:24:32I'm a horny little...
01:24:34and it's not gonna be easy.
01:24:42Annaliese's dad has no idea
01:24:44that I even exist.
01:24:56He has family in New York City.
01:24:58I'd be a fool to not think Manuel
01:25:00might be coming here on my back so he could meet up
01:25:02with his family.
01:25:06Who is that?
01:25:08He's been getting disgusting videos
01:25:10from other women.
01:25:12I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely
01:25:14not trying to be with nobody else but you.
01:25:18What am I supposed to do now?
01:25:20Hello?
01:25:24Hello!
01:25:26You act like I cheated on you.
01:25:30I'm not gonna get married to this
01:25:32idiot!
01:25:34Men in this region,
01:25:36they are...
01:25:38of course.
01:25:42Excuse me?
01:25:44You want to bring a partner in to pleasure me
01:25:46because you can't be a man enough to get over that
01:25:48part of me? Who the f*** do you think you are?
01:25:50Bye, little child.
01:25:56Today's a big day
01:25:58for our family.
01:26:00I'm not sure if they accept me.
01:26:04It's okay, don't cry.
01:26:06It's just a lie.
01:26:08I don't know if I'm making the right decision.
01:26:10It's just sad, man.
01:26:12Yeah.
01:26:14Not too many words I can say can comfort you.
01:26:16How is this gonna work?
01:26:18We just keep f***ing arguing.
01:26:20At this point,
01:26:22I don't know if I want to marry him.
01:26:26I'm not doing it.
01:26:28They just disappeared.