Aired (February 22, 2025): Paano nga ba matukoy ang red flags sa isang relasyon? Samahan si Ashley Rivera habang inilalantad at inaalisa ang mga senyales na dapat mong bantayan! #YourHonor #YouLOL #YouLOLOriginals
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YouLOL Originals presents 'Your Honor,' a one-of-a-kind vodcast that combines satire, showbiz, trending issues, and chismis.
Hindi ito Senado. Hindi rin ito Kongreso. Pero may hearing dito. Samahan sina Buboy Villar at Tuesday Vargas na imbestigahan ang iba’t ibang mga isyu natin sa life kasama ang mga celebrity resource person. Seryosong usapan pero matatawa ka. Gano'n naman ang hearing, 'di ba?
Catch the weekly session every Saturday, 7:15 pm, after Pepito Manaloto, on YouLOL livestream. Full episodes are available on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcast.
For more 'Your Honor' Highlights, click the link below:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_UmNDDvymmDqWGCl_2PTdPgbrtob4VDN
For more 'Your Honor' Full Episode, click the link below:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_UmNDDvymmD6lOsY527r14_AkfuTOkX7
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00:00Sorry to our friends that we don't see, but I think the lesson here is who is the priority?
00:06Is it a friend or a boyfriend?
00:09You, if you have to choose, is it a friend or a boyfriend?
00:12I don't like it when people like you suddenly disappear.
00:17It's so embarrassing.
00:19Sorry.
00:19It's really embarrassing.
00:21Sorry, I love you, friends.
00:22I'll see you soon, like 2027.
00:27No, for me, it's all about balance.
00:30For example, girls' night out.
00:32It's so ugly.
00:34And it's your me-time.
00:36We're already together, but I want to enjoy things on my own.
00:42You don't have to be involved in everything.
00:44Just because you're my partner doesn't mean you have to be involved in everything.
00:48Because I'm still my own person.
00:50So for example, I want my me-time.
00:52I want to spend time with my family or with my friends.
00:54It shouldn't be an issue.
00:57That's where it builds up.
00:59Because if you're leaving, why are you leaving?
01:01Why aren't you with me?
01:03There are other trust issues.
01:05Hey, relax.
01:07Or for example, she has a boy's night out.
01:09As long as we have an understanding that I trust you, you trust me.
01:15You know what you should do and what you shouldn't do.
01:19Let's keep it that way.
01:21So at least, you can still be your own person.
01:26You want to have fun? Go ahead.
01:28Because I know that we trust each other.
01:32We love each other.
01:34We respect each other.
01:36It shouldn't be an issue.
01:38That's all for me.
01:40And you know what?
01:42Cheating doesn't just happen in failed relationships.
01:46Even in happy relationships, cheating happens.
01:50There are many reasons.
01:52And one of which is this.
01:55I don't recognize myself anymore since we became a couple.
01:59Because I don't have space to be me.
02:01Exactly.
02:03I also forget myself.
02:05This is the person that you fell in love with.
02:07I don't know her anymore.
02:09So allow me a little time to find her again.
02:11So that I can love you better.
02:13It's like an English conference.
02:17Suffice it to say, wow.
02:19It hurts.
02:21We still have one more later.
02:23Madam Chair, it hurts my brain.
02:25Patty Burey, Patty Burey.
02:27Like that, right?
02:29Earth to Hershey.
02:33Boyfriend or girlfriend?
02:35Boyfriend or friend?
02:37It's the same with Ashley.
02:39You don't have to choose.
02:41You are your own person.
02:43It matters that there's harmony.
02:45There's balance.
02:47I'm a best friend of a guy.
02:49What's good about him is that
02:52we don't see each other anymore.
02:54We're just together.
02:56Girlfriend, there's a time
02:58that I left my license in their condo.
03:00I really don't have boundaries.
03:02Girl, it's like
03:04you have a friend's condo.
03:06I hang out with them.
03:08I'm always in their condo.
03:10There's a problem with your bladder.
03:12You're always like that.
03:14Hide all your CRs.
03:16Hershey will go in there.
03:18I feel like your bathroom is broken.
03:21You're crazy.
03:23You're beautiful but you don't have a bathroom.
03:25I feel like you need a plumber.
03:27I left my license.
03:29The following day, I have a first date.
03:31I can't drive.
03:33You don't have a license?
03:35My best friend's girlfriend
03:37took my license.
03:39They grabbed it.
03:41They gave me chocolates.
03:43Here's your license and some chocolates.
03:45I hope your date is as sweet as you are.
03:47Love, name of girlfriend and name of best friend.
03:51She's beautiful.
03:53As long as the guy is the one
03:55who draws the boundary.
03:57Yes, to avoid conflict.
03:59It's so awkward to have a family gathering
04:01and invited friends.
04:03I don't notice your boyfriend's friends.
04:05It hurts.
04:07I'm involved in your friend's life
04:09but I'm not accepted.
04:11Especially for big friend groups
04:13that have inside jokes.
04:15They have a lot of memories
04:17and you're the new boyfriend.
04:19Do you make an effort
04:21with your girlfriend?
04:23What efforts do you do
04:25to make her feel comfortable?
04:27I also let her pee in our house.
04:29I need to go to the bathroom.
04:31Can I use your bathroom?
04:33You took my license
04:35and left it at home.
04:37It's a conscious decision.
04:39Instead of going out with the guy,
04:41I'll go out with my girlfriend.
04:43You can do that too.
04:45You're conscious of blocking.
04:47It's a girl code.
04:49It's right.
04:51We were close before.
04:53We used to say love you
04:55but now, I love you
04:57and the name of the girlfriend.
04:59Love yous.
05:01Say that.
05:03Love you like this with your friend.
05:05You're saying love you.
05:07It's so cute.
05:09We do.
05:11We say I love you.
05:13Don't worry, I'm not searching for you.
05:15You think it's special?
05:17Don't worry, I'm not searching for you.
05:19We got yous.
05:23It's crazy.
05:25We need to look at red flags wisely.
05:27We're like that.
05:29I also have a problem with that.
05:31What I see is what I get.
05:33There's another meaning.
05:35Are you good at reading?
05:37She's good.
05:39Let's see how good you are.
05:41Wait, don't.
05:43You're pressuring me.
05:45I'll be quick.
05:47Some red flags that we can talk about.
05:49Right now,
05:51she's always not in the mood
05:53and she's always with her friend.
05:55Is that a red flag or not?
05:57We don't know.
05:59There are many reasons why.
06:01So,
06:03it's a case to case basis.
06:05But,
06:07maybe,
06:09there's a possibility
06:11that she's in the mood
06:13or she's irritated
06:15because she's not happy anymore.
06:17She's just tolerating you.
06:19Like, okay, I'm just staying
06:21for the sake of staying.
06:23But,
06:25when she's with her friends,
06:27she's happy because she's comfortable.
06:29Because that's who you are.
06:31When you're with your friends,
06:33you're normal.
06:35You're happy.
06:37But, in a relationship,
06:39or
06:41for whatever reason,
06:43you're detaching.
06:45Even if you're in a relationship,
06:47sometimes,
06:49if there's always a problem,
06:51over and over again,
06:53you'll reach a point where you don't care anymore.
06:55Like, you don't want to fight anymore.
06:57There's a burnout.
06:59It's okay.
07:01You won't fight anymore.
07:03But, you won't make an effort to fix it.
07:05You know what's painful?
07:07Let's just fight.
07:09But, if you don't care anymore,
07:11it'll take a long time.
07:13The opposite of love is not hate.
07:15It's indifference.
07:17Wow, I like that.
07:19Upload that on your Instagram, Booboy.
07:21They'll all be shocked.
07:23Just my story.
07:25When you don't care anymore.
07:27Just my story.
07:29The opposite.
07:31That's so lame.
07:33Happy birthday, Ashley.
07:35And by the way,
07:39Guys, let's promote this.
07:43Happy Dinagyang Festival.
07:45And by the way,
07:47the opposite of love is indifference.
07:51The search bar will go up.
07:53Indifference.
07:55What's indifference?
07:57Don't be a guest of Lumaki sa Amerika.
08:01Your hosts will have a hard time.
08:03Red flag.
08:05Pasado.
08:07Actually, it's not red flag.
08:09It's semi-red.
08:11Pink flag.
08:13Mamink-mink.
08:15We don't know the reason.
08:17It's not in the mood.
08:19It's not in the drive.
08:21It's not in the libido.
08:23Mood in different levels.
08:25That's not the meaning.
08:27But Madam Chair,
08:29I'll say go.
08:31Ashley, go.
08:33Chicks to go.
08:35I'm lost again.
08:39That's so hard.
08:41This is the hardest guest.
08:49Loading.
08:51I'm back.
08:53Welcome back.
08:55There's something that's forcing.
08:57I know that.
08:59There's also that factor.
09:01It's like,
09:03I don't need it.
09:05What if...
09:07I don't like it.
09:09Then there's the force.
09:11It's okay.
09:13Don't need it.
09:15Intimacy becomes routine.
09:17It's not intimacy anymore.
09:19It's not fun anymore.
09:21It's a chore.
09:23When you reach it,
09:25you feel like it's a chore.
09:27Then you should start thinking
09:29about the whole relationship.
09:31And it'll turn red.
09:33You'll have an umay.
09:35You'll have an umay factor.
09:37When you're there,
09:39there's a possibility
09:41that you'll cheat.
09:43You don't want to be here anymore.
09:45So it's possible
09:47that you'll be curious.
09:49Then it's gone.
09:51That's it.
09:53That's the red flag.
09:55That's why it's painful.
09:57Because this is our point.
09:59There's a problem.
10:01Then suddenly, it's like this.
10:03It's not like that yet.
10:05So there's a deeper reason.
10:07Like I said,
10:09there can be many reasons.
10:11It's not really about the tattoo.
10:15It's just a byproduct of the problem.
10:17It's deeper.
10:19But it doesn't care about your feelings.
10:21Again, love is
10:23consideration.
10:25There's a lot of love.
10:27Love is heart.
10:29Love is blind.
10:31The opposite of indifference.
10:33Rems.
10:35Rems.
10:37Rems.
10:39Rems.
10:41Rems.
10:43Rems.
10:45Hello.
10:47Duh.
10:49It's beautiful.
10:51Rems is heard.
10:53It's important.
10:55For example, a partner
10:57will go out with a boy
10:59and suddenly, he's so handsome.
11:01He smells good.
11:03It's like he prepared
11:05to go out.
11:07It's not like that before.
11:09It's not like that before.
11:11You'll be late.
11:13You'll be in a hurry.
11:15Why when there's two of us,
11:17you don't put effort.
11:19But now, you'll go out with friends.
11:21What's there?
11:23There's extra effort.
11:25Yes, Ashley?
11:27It's like
11:29unusual.
11:31Why all of a sudden?
11:33So you generalize all the
11:35unusual behavior.
11:37Not just being manly.
11:39You'll pick it up.
11:41Why is the wind blowing differently?
11:43Especially when we're women.
11:45Our intuition is strong.
11:49The gut feel of a woman is different.
11:51Is that true?
11:53There's a tinge of truth.
11:55Not exactly the whole truth.
11:5750-50.
11:59We're always right.
12:01Actually, you're right.
12:07It's hard to explain.
12:09But we feel
12:11that there's something.
12:13Even when it comes to friends,
12:15even when it comes to introduction,
12:17it's just friends.
12:19In a group,
12:21you'll be able to pinpoint
12:23that there's something.
12:25There's something that you can see.
12:27Yes.
12:29You can deny it.
12:31Or they won't tell you
12:33that there's something.
12:35Or not boyfriend-girlfriend.
12:37Like flirting,
12:39flirting, whatever.
12:41But there's something.
12:43But I can't do anything about it.
12:45It's just my gut feeling.
12:47I can't prove it.
12:49It's just in my head.
12:51It lingers.
12:53Until I can prove
12:55that I'm right.
12:57The gut feel is different.
13:01There are little things.
13:03Little by little.
13:05It's not one thing.
13:07It can be from being busy.
13:09Strike one.
13:11Or if you're just talking,
13:13it's irritating.
13:15Strike two.
13:17It's defensive.
13:19There's a lot of strikes.
13:21So,
13:23that's it.
13:25It disconnected.
13:27So my point is,
13:29reflections.
13:31I suddenly got tired of talking.
13:33I don't want to anymore.
13:35I'm so glad you're pointing this out.
13:37Because for me,
13:39if my partner is handsome,
13:41I'll be like,
13:43come here.
13:45Hershey's mind is different.
13:47You're so handsome.
13:49You're mine.
13:51You'll make her
13:53have good memories.
13:55You'll make her remember you.
13:57Hershey's so good.
13:59So she won't forget you.
14:01She's so unusual.
14:03You're so handsome.
14:05That's it.
14:07It's not from her.
14:09If you're fooled by your partner,
14:11I'll punch you.
14:13Don't come back to me.
14:15I told you.
14:17You know,
14:19I'll be the one
14:21experiencing that.
14:23I told you.
14:25You know,
14:27we're eating spam and eggs.
14:31She's like that?
14:33What is this?