Paano malalaman kung may pag-asa ka sa crush mo?

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00:00Let's take care of ourselves, especially online.

00:03That's true. It's hard to pass that.

00:05Especially with AI nowadays. There are scams there.

00:09This is it, KRS-P. For Hopeless Romantics,

00:13we will talk to the so-called Mr. Cupido.

00:19Grash's heart is beating fast to notice you.

00:23For sure, you will relate to us because we are talking about Crash Back.

00:28That's true.

00:29We will talk about how to know if you have hope in your crush.

00:36We already know the signs that our hearts have hope from the dating coach

00:40and matchmaker, Vanessa Antonio Coach V.

00:43Welcome back to Rise and Shine Philippines, Coach V.

00:45Good morning.

00:46Thank you very much. It's a pleasure to be back and good morning to everybody.

00:50And happy Valentine's Day.

00:52Happy Valentine's Day, love.

00:54A lot of our TV viewers are asking,

00:58first of all, how do you know if you have feelings for the person you're in love with?

01:05Wow.

01:06So, if you are wondering if you've developed feelings for the person you're in love with,

01:11it's easy.

01:12One of the fastest ways that you could tell is they occupy your mental space.

01:18It means that in every love song you hear,

01:21you can always relate to that person.

01:23In every restaurant where the food is delicious,

01:25you can imagine that it would be nice if the two of us are together.

01:29So, it's all about your mental space.

01:31Who is always in your mind?

01:34Sometimes, when you wake up in the morning, you immediately think of that person.

01:38That person is your purpose and motivation to wake up.

01:41You don't need coffee.

01:43Yes, you wake up with the thought of that person.

01:46Coach, what are the signs that you have a chance with your crush?

01:50Of course, it's nice to have someone you're in love with.

01:53But how can you tell if he has a crush on me?

01:57You're right, love.

01:58When we have a crush, we have inspiration.

02:01Inspiration is needed in life so that we are more motivated to wake up in the morning.

02:06Now, how do you know if you have a chance with your crush?

02:11Well, you just have to look at the number of investment.

02:14What does investment mean?

02:16Investment could be time, attention, or resources.

02:21It could be gifts.

02:22Or, you know, the type of things that you can say that other people don't give you.

02:26What they only give to special people.

02:29So, look at the number of attention.

02:31Are they spending time with you?

02:32Are they texting you?

02:33Because if they're not doing that, it means that you're not in their mental space.

02:38How do you know if you have a chance with your crush?

02:41That's right.

02:42She's used to it.

02:43Absolutely.

02:44There are a lot of things like that.

02:46That's why we should be careful.

02:48But you'll know if they're serious with you if their words have a backup action.

02:54For example, if they say,

02:55Oh, I really miss you. I really want to see you.

02:58Period.

02:59If it's just that, you won't believe it.

03:00But if they say,

03:01I really miss you. I really want to see you.

03:03Are you free on Saturday?

03:05Because we have coffee and lunch.

03:07There's an effort.

03:08Yes, the words should have a backup action.

03:10It should match.

03:12Yes.

03:13Sometimes, people are just trying to be nice.

03:16Yes, correct.

03:18Or flirting.

03:19Sometimes, we just want to flirt to feel good.

03:22But what if you already have a crush, right?

03:24Because you have a crush.

03:25It's like I'm just gauging.

03:27For example, I'm just gauging if someone likes me or not.

03:31Or ego boost.

03:32Or ego boost.

03:33Actually, people are naturally flirting.

03:36Absolutely.

03:37I mean, how do you differentiate that?

03:40So, one of the things that we teach our clients,

03:43how to gauge if somebody is really interested,

03:46is again, we go back to that number of investment.

03:49Are they really giving you legitimate effort?

03:53It means, they're putting in the hours.

03:55Are they spending time on you?

03:57Or it's just text-to-text?

03:58Because later, if it's just text-to-text,

04:00they can text you ten times.

04:02It doesn't cost anything to text.

04:04But if they go out of their way to see you,

04:07how many people can they do that for?

04:09Just a few.

04:10Or maybe just you.

04:11This is my next question.

04:13A lot of things are happening right now.

04:15So, you're working together.

04:16You're in the office.

04:17You're always together.

04:18Yes.

04:19They're always together.

04:20But naturally, both of them are really nice people.

04:25So, they're nice to each other.

04:27How do you gauge if that being nice,

04:30is nice as a friend or an office mate,

04:32or nice something else?

04:35Nice something else.

04:36Yes.

04:37That's a very interesting question

04:38because especially in the workplace,

04:40it's very normal to develop.

04:42Because you're always together.

04:44There's a so-called proximity.

04:46Sometimes, we appreciate who's closest to us.

04:50But how do you know if your office mate likes you?

04:54So, if they take the attention out of the office,

04:58it means they're not only sweet and nice to you in the office.

05:02They're trying to involve you in their personal life.

05:04Like, hey, come with me.

05:06We have jogging.

05:07Hey, come with me.

05:08We have drinking after or on the weekends.

05:11So, they're not just trying to impress you during work.

05:13They're also trying to impress you in your personal life.

05:17What if you're not that expressive?

05:19Okay.

05:20But you want to show a little interest.

05:23I can't say it directly.

05:26But what are the subtle ways that I can tell you

05:29that I really have an interest in you?

05:31It's very different for men and women.

05:33So, who has an interest, for example?

05:37Yes.

05:38So, for men, I feel like it's easier for men

05:41because it's more acceptable when you invite them, right?

05:44Or you give them something.

05:46Well, number one, generosity.

05:48We're so used to people taking away things from us,

05:51asking things from us.

05:52But how many people give something?

05:55They give time.

05:56They give gifts.

05:57They give food.

05:58So, you can start with that because that's very harmless.

06:00Giving food.

06:01If you know their favorite breakfast,

06:04you can just put it on their desk.

06:06It's very harmless.

06:07And it's not creepy.

06:08It's not creepy.

06:09And who doesn't like food?

06:11But for women, you have an interest.

06:13For women, I'm very careful with advising women

06:16because I want them to go for somebody that they like.

06:19But at the same time, we have to be very careful

06:22because I do believe that men still want women more

06:26when they're the one doing the work.

06:28But I also believe that women, you can give subtle signs

06:32such as when you get invited

06:34or when they express something that they want to do with you,

06:37be receptive.

06:38It's not like you want to show off.

06:42So, the number one most attractive trait to a person,

06:45according to science, is emotional availability.

06:48It means that you're showing that,

06:50well, if you're interested with me, I'm open.

06:52Like, yeah, sure, go.

06:53Be a yes person to the person you like.

06:55Naturally, men are hunters.

06:59So, if you smell a sign that you like,

07:03you'll take advantage of it.

07:05That's why women should be careful.

07:07Now, Coach V, when should you stop

07:10or avoid giving your best effort?

07:14You have no chance.

07:16How can you judge that you have no chance?

07:18Yes, absolutely.

07:19So, it really happens in life wherein

07:21you're not the match.

07:22So, it's a sign for you to move on.

07:24So, how do you know?

07:25One of the ways that you can do

07:27that it's time to move on

07:29is when they don't have admiration towards you.

07:32It means that whatever you notice,

07:34whatever effort you do,

07:35it's like you feel like they don't believe in you.

07:38And so, when they don't believe in you,

07:40there's no motivation to get to know you more

07:42because admiration is an ingredient

07:44to be in a relationship.

07:46You are in a relationship with somebody

07:47because there's something that you like about them.

07:49So, when you feel like,

07:51whatever I do, they don't believe in me,

07:53then maybe it's time to find somebody

07:55who will look at you like you're the superman

07:58or you're the superwoman of their life.

08:00But what if the investment that you're talking about,

08:02Coach Viano,

08:03it's like you're cutting it short.

08:05I'll invest for maybe one week

08:07and after a week, it's gone.

08:09Then, next week, there's more.

08:10Then, you'll be confused.

08:12Yes, absolutely.

08:13How can you manage that?

08:14And they call that right now in this generation,

08:16bread crumbing.

08:17It means that you'll taste a little effort.

08:22But you'll taste a lot of hope,

08:23a lot of anxiety,

08:24then suddenly, it's gone.

08:25It's there with the other person you're courting.

08:27So, what you'll do there is,

08:29when they're not consistent,

08:30then it's not worth it.

08:31You deserve somebody who's consistent

08:33with their interest and love for you.

08:35Consistency is the key.

08:37Yes, absolutely.

08:38But this is also my advice.

08:40You just have to make sure

08:42that if you're really going to pursue,

08:44it's going to be single.

08:46Available.

08:48That's the number one rule.

08:51We're a little short on time.

08:52We had a great conversation.

08:53But thank you so much, Coach V.

08:55My pleasure.

08:56For joining us and for all the information

08:57that we learned today.

08:58Your social media accounts.

08:59Actually, Coach V's TikTok videos are viral.

09:02Viral, yes.

09:03This is a great place for advice

09:06especially on social media accounts.

09:07Yes, thank you very much.

09:08My social media is datingcoachv

09:10and I also run the only dating company

09:12in the Philippines,

09:13which is Singles Events Manila.

09:14Find us on social media.

09:16So, if you still want to pursue a partner tomorrow,

09:19you can still do it.

09:21You still have time.

09:23Thank you, Coach V.

09:25Thank you very much.

09:26And hopefully, you'll be able to catch up

09:28with your crush.

09:29Date her tomorrow.

09:30Don't waste time and resources.

09:32You might end up together.

09:33Thanks, Coach.

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