Caroline Calloway Shares How To Secure 4 Dates In 1 Night
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00:00I think the best way to go on dates is, I think people should be going on four dates
00:04in one night.
00:05In fact, I even made a little timetable to make it really clear for people.
00:095 to 6 p.m., location 1.
00:126.30 to 7.30 p.m., location 2.
00:158 to 9, location 3.
00:179.30 to 10.30 p.m., location 4.
00:20And the other thing is, people think that a dating profile is like a chance for you
00:25to tell other people about yourself.
00:27No, a dating profile is a trap.
00:29You are trying to just make it easy for them to talk to you.
00:33Like my profile, I do this whole Scientology bit.
00:37Don't try to capture your essence or express yourself.
00:40Try to just give them an easy thing to talk about.
00:42And then, once you like someone or they message you, you say this one message, which I have
00:47memorized.
00:48Period.
00:49So hot.
00:50Period.
00:51Text me and let's get drinks this week.
00:53Phone number.
00:54You comment this on the least sexual thing on their profile.
00:57Maybe it's a photo of them in an embarrassing Halloween costume.
01:03Maybe it's a meme.
01:04Like, you just pick the least sexual thing and you say, it's so hot.
01:07And so you're using this like bedroom language because men have little cave brains, little
01:11pea-sized animal cave brains.
01:13They just see that in the beginning of the message because Hinge shows you the beginning
01:16of the message.
01:17So they're scrolling.
01:18They're looking for sex.
01:19They see this like bedroom language.
01:20It's like, fuck, so hot.
01:22You just never want back-to-back dates to be at the same place.
01:24You want to have your vibe right.
01:25You don't want to be like looking over their shoulder, worrying about being in some like
01:3090s sitcom plot of your own making.
01:33I think you need to do four-in-one night because listen, you can spend four nights of your
01:38week going on dates with one person a night.
01:41Why?
01:42No.
01:43No.
01:44Listen.
01:45People are lucky if they go on four different first dates in a month.
01:47You can do this one night in a month and have the rest of the month to yourself and you
01:52can still be living like a vibrant, healthy, romantic dating life and still have time
01:59to be alone with your cat and watch TikToks.