Angélica no habla con su hija hace seis meses.
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00:00Well, I live with a 40-year-old daughter, who is already 3 years old.
00:11And it turns out that the coexistence has been disastrous.
00:17Let's see, first I want to ask you why your daughter, 3 years ago, went to live with you.
00:23Because at some point, I suppose, she became independent.
00:26Precisely.
00:28I see. And what happened?
00:30She lost her job, she retired because she didn't want to be independent.
00:36And she came here to my house.
00:39Did she come alone or with children?
00:41What?
00:42Did she come alone or with children?
00:44With children, yes.
00:45Already?
00:46Yes.
00:48And how is the coexistence? Because I imagine that, in addition to having your son close, it can be wonderful for a grandmother.
00:54Exactly, but it's not like that.
00:57The horrible psychological mistreatment.
01:01Words that I hope die quickly.
01:05From her to you?
01:06They are insults.
01:08From your daughter to you?
01:10Angelica, what Gianfranco asks is a psychological mistreatment from your daughter to you?
01:16Exactly, yes. What I never thought I would have lived.
01:21With my height, too.
01:25Now, Angelica, have you always had a bad relationship?
01:29Or is that triggered in the last three years?
01:32Because the truth is that it is difficult to understand and put yourself in that situation that your daughter tells you,
01:37I hope you die later.
01:39Is that to stay with your house? Do you have more children?
01:42Yes, I have more children.
01:46But at what point do you reach this limit of a bad relationship? What happened there?
01:54What happened is that she, well, I think it's with the couple, because I had an opportunity.
02:06I wanted to sell her, I mean, I wanted to sell the house.
02:11To her?
02:12To her, yes.
02:13Already?
02:14Yes.
02:15And because of this, because of her actions, because I was ready for all the fight, ready for her to stay with the house.
02:30And there came a time when I no longer had respect.
02:33I said, I'm not going to sell you the house for this reason.
02:36And that's when it started, right?
02:38And that's when everything went wrong.
02:39Now, I imagine that day to day is ...
02:42I imagine that day to day is a hell, Angelica.
02:45It's a hell, yes.
02:47You don't talk, you don't share, or do you?
02:49No, no, no, no.
02:51We don't talk, we don't eat at the table, no.
02:55Now, if you don't talk to your daughter, how long have you not spoken to each other?
02:59How long have you not had a good relationship?
03:02Like six months.
03:04Even when we met.
03:06Hey, Priscila, and the children? Because she lives with children too, it seems to me.
03:10Angelica?
03:11Exactly, yes.
03:13And how do they live on a day-to-day basis, having a grandmother and a mother fighting?
03:19The children, well, she also takes care of them.
03:27She gets along with the children.
03:30Of course, she gets the children involved.
03:32Obviously, I love the children, I love them.
03:36But it's not enough for her.
03:39She says, no, I never ...
03:41I don't love them.
03:43I mean, I don't love the children.
03:45Hey, isn't there a possibility that she will leave your house and live somewhere else?
03:51Is she working?
03:52Yes, she is working.
03:54What situation is she in?
03:55She doesn't want to move.
03:57Now, of course, as I was saying, I am not leaving this house because this house also belongs to all of us.
04:07And you have other children too.
04:09Of course.
04:10It was a moment that my husband projected eight years ago.
04:18And there, well, you can say, I don't know.
04:22But in my blindness or ignorance, I signed the document.
04:28I didn't have to have signed it.
04:31To have left my children in heritage.
04:35Already?
04:36Already.
04:39Right?
04:40Let's see, give me a second.
04:42Because maybe in that, there is no turning back.
04:44Dr. Bolsillo, can you explain that to us?
04:46Yes.
04:47Look, it is always important to advise yourself well in the review of which documents were signed,
04:51in what context they are made, and how they are written before reaching a conclusion.
04:56Of course.
04:58The effective position is the effective position.
05:01Of course, the effective position is made when the person dies.
05:05In this case, for example, if it was of the angelic husband, this effective position is made,
05:09which in the end distributes the goods among what are known as the causants or the heirs,
05:17which are, let's say, the spouse and the children, and there is a legal distribution.
05:22And that is already done.
05:23So she wouldn't have the right to take her daughter out of the house either.
05:26One thing is the effective position of who is going to do the goods.
05:31For example, if we are talking about a house, there is a percentage that is for the spouse,
05:35for the angelic, and another percentage that is for the children.
05:37Which is less.
05:38Of course.
05:39And there is a percentage that the person who died has to leave a little more to help him,
05:43to the child who needs more, or to the child who supported them in the DG, etc., etc.
05:48But that does not give him the right to make an abuse of the house, let's say.
05:54What gives you the right is the property, but the angelic daughter has the same right
05:59that the other children have to occupy the same house.
06:01So it is a problem that is completely different, let's say.
06:04Here what is being talked about is who the property is, which would already be part of the inheritance,
06:08but the other is a situation that you have to find a way to solve it,
06:11because evidently the coexistence is unsustainable.
06:14It is unsustainable.
06:15Angelica, look, I would like to ask you, what would you say to your daughter,
06:19with whom you have not spoken for six months, they live in the same house,
06:23without anger, without anger, because finally let's talk about it from the best possible judgment.