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00:00Even if you're married, there's no guarantee that you'll have a happy marriage.
00:05I think living in a room where you hate each other is hell.
00:10What is the theme of tonight's deep?
00:14I was married before, but I felt like I was going to do housework.
00:21I wanted to concentrate on my work, so I broke up with my husband.
00:29I don't need a partner. I don't want to live with anyone anymore.
00:35The number of women who choose not to get married has increased year by year due to the diversification of women's social status and lifestyle.
00:43According to some survey data, the rate of unmarried women is increasing year by year.
00:48It is said that one in four women will be unmarried in 2030.
00:54In addition, in 2050, the number of single people will increase to 40%.
00:59It is predicted that about half of the people living in Japan will live alone.
01:05So, the theme of tonight's deep is the choice of one.
01:11I can't live together.
01:14I don't want to live with my family.
01:17I can't say what I want to do.
01:22I want to do what I want to do because it's hard.
01:26I don't want to live alone.
01:29If I have someone I like, I'll be straight with him.
01:32If I don't, I'll be shy.
01:35If I don't, I'll be embarrassed.
01:39I don't want to live alone.
01:41However, there are concerns about single old people.
01:45My family is gone.
01:48I may not be able to rely on my siblings.
01:51When I get sick, I wonder if there is anyone who can stay with me.
01:56What should I do if I'm alone?
01:58So, tonight, we will talk deeply about the choice of one.
02:04The night when women and men are deeply in love.
02:10This program is a talk variety for adults who talk about deep topics.
02:14Today's topic is the choice of one.
02:17Mr. Yamosu, you are married.
02:19Did you have a strong desire to get married when you were in your teens?
02:23I didn't have it when I was single.
02:27I didn't think I could do it.
02:30Thank you for your good luck.
02:34How old were you when you got married?
02:36I was 29 years old.
02:38Did you suddenly want to get married?
02:42I thought I would get married to this person.
02:45It's wonderful.
02:47I thought I could do it.
02:50That's good.
02:52It's dramatic.
02:53Everyone can understand the feeling of being alone.
02:58You said before that you wanted to be alone.
03:01I don't want to be alone.
03:03I don't want to get married.
03:05I don't want to go on a date.
03:08You don't want to get married.
03:11I don't want to get married at all.
03:13I've never fallen in love with someone.
03:16I don't have much excitement.
03:20Do you want to have a child?
03:23I don't have such a feeling.
03:26I don't want to have a child.
03:29I don't want to have a family.
03:32I'm an athlete.
03:34I have a strong obsession with my life.
03:39I've been eating the same thing every day for the past two years.
03:44I eat yogurt and protein in the morning.
03:46I eat Isoboro rice bowl for lunch.
03:48I eat lentin pasta for dinner.
03:50I eat two meals a day.
03:52Do you have a calorie balance?
03:54I can eat within 30 minutes of practice.
03:58You focus on practice.
03:59I don't think anyone will go out with me.
04:03You don't want to spoil it, do you?
04:06No.
04:07I have a routine.
04:09I keep my current body.
04:12I don't want to live with anyone.
04:16Do you want to get married?
04:19I don't want to get married.
04:21I don't believe in the permanence of love.
04:28I don't believe in eternal love.
04:32I can't fall in love.
04:34I'm a responsible person.
04:36If I get married, I have to take care of my husband for the rest of my life.
04:44I have to take care of my finances.
04:46I think it's difficult for me now.
04:52You don't understand it now?
04:55I don't understand it now.
04:59If marriage comes from heaven, I will accept it.
05:04I don't know what the situation is.
05:07You don't want to get married, do you?
05:10I don't want to get married.
05:15I often say this.
05:17I don't want to get married.
05:21I want to live with my husband.
05:24But if marriage comes from heaven, I will accept it.
05:27What kind of situation is it?
05:30I want to accept it.
05:32I don't want to get married.
05:34You don't want to get married, do you?
05:36I don't want to get married.
05:38I've been doing my job freely.
05:43But I have a hard time.
05:45I may get sick.
05:47My parents may get sick.
05:49I don't want to get married.
05:53But if I meet a man who is good at it, I will get married.
06:00There are various conditions.
06:04That's right.
06:06When I was single, I didn't have a sense of loss.
06:12I didn't feel the need to get married.
06:15I can control my pace when I'm alone.
06:19But when I get married, I feel like I'm in a box.
06:23I'm glad I got married because my family helped me grow up.
06:34But most people who get married say this.
06:38I don't want to get married.
06:42You said you were worried about your future.
06:48Miyawaki, do you have any worries about your future?
06:52I don't have anyone to talk to.
06:55I'm worried about that.
06:57I like board games and mahjong.
07:02But I have to take care of the number of people.
07:06The minimum number of people.
07:08AI is evolving now.
07:10Do you want to get married?
07:13What are you talking about?
07:15I don't want to get married.
07:17Do you want to live with someone?
07:23I want to live alone.
07:25I'm thinking about my own house.
07:28I want to use my grandmother's land to build a house.
07:34You're thinking about it?
07:36That's great.
07:38I've been thinking about it for four years.
07:42I'm going to retire soon.
07:46I'm not going to work like a normal salaryman.
07:51I'm thinking about my future.
07:56What are you going to do in the future?
07:59I want to be able to have a partner.
08:06I want to go back to my hometown.
08:08I like animals.
08:10I want to take care of animals.
08:13I want to take care of animals.
08:18I want to open a cafe.
08:20You're thinking about it.
08:22I'm not thinking about it at all.
08:24I think it's good.
08:26I'm 72 years old.
08:28Everyone is 72 years old.
08:30Everyone will be surprised.
08:32Asako is older than me.
08:35She doesn't say she wants to be friends forever.
08:37She says she wants to be friends forever.
08:39She says it right away.
08:41Kurosawa is the closest.
08:43There are only eight of them.
08:46It's a different generation.
08:49Maya, do you have any plans for the future?
08:54I bought a house.
08:58I bought it in Torideshi, Ibaraki.
09:01I live with my parents, grandparents, and eight dogs.
09:05That's great.
09:08It's a nice house.
09:10It's a nice house.
09:12What does that mean?
09:15What does that mean?
09:18If I had a house, I wouldn't have to be a singer.
09:22I can work part-time.
09:25I had the feeling that I could live.
09:28That's why I bought a house when I was young.
09:32That's great.
09:34The anxiety I have now is...
09:37When I want to meet my friends, they meet me.
09:41But when my friends get married and I have to raise my children,
09:45I feel lonely.
09:47That's what I'm worried about right now.
09:50But as time goes by, we'll be apart.
09:55I'm in the same class as elementary school students.
09:58I feel the loneliest when I'm in my 30s and 40s.
10:01Maybe.
10:03If it's because of your friends.
10:06I don't have many friends.
10:09I'm sorry, but you're the one I'm most worried about.
10:12I really feel lonely.
10:15When you catch a cold or get sick,
10:18don't you worry that someone will be there for you?
10:21I think about it sometimes.
10:23Recently, I got an Uber.
10:25I don't worry about food.
10:27Don't you worry about your future?
10:30I'm also an old man.
10:33I'm looking into it.
10:36You're already looking into it?
10:39Yes, I am.
10:41Do you want to join an old man's club?
10:44I don't want to join the same old man's club.
10:46Do you want to join?
10:48I want to join an old man's club.
10:50I want to spend a fun love life with my husband.
10:53I don't want to have a girlfriend there.
10:56I don't want to see Tanaka and Yoshida
10:59taking care of the crops.
11:02I don't want to see that.
11:05I thought we would join the old man's club together.
11:08Why?
11:10I don't want to have a group of old ladies.
11:13I don't want to have a group of old ladies.
11:16That's not true.
11:18You don't want to have a group of old ladies?
11:21I don't want to have a group of old ladies.
11:24What about you, Maya?
11:26I want to deliver food to my city
11:29and make sure it's safe.
11:32I want to do that in the future.
11:35I see. There are many things in the city.
11:38The operation to deliver food to their homes
11:41and ensure safety is carried out by local authorities.
11:44In addition, there is a service
11:47that selects single ladies for the elderly.
11:50A hairdresser visits their home and does a hair removal.
11:53A service that collects household waste
11:56and ensures safety.
11:59And a new-age day service
12:02for the elderly.
12:05Miyawaki, you said you wanted to play board games.
12:08There is a perfect service for you.
12:11What?
12:13It's called Day Service Las Vegas.
12:16It's an old-fashioned nursing home.
12:19Wow!
12:22It's located in the center of Chubu, Kanto.
12:25It's about 20km away from Tokyo.
12:28It's an old-fashioned nursing home.
12:31It's about 20km away from Tokyo.
12:34It's an old-fashioned nursing home.
12:37It's about 20km away from Tokyo.
12:40It's an old-fashioned nursing home.
12:43It's about 20km away from Tokyo.
12:46It's a day service for the elderly.
12:49There are games like pachinko and mahjong in the facilities.
12:52It's effective in preventing dementia
12:55by transferring stimuli to the brain from the hearing.
12:58They are all very enthusiastic.
13:01I go there once or twice a week.
13:04I can talk with my friends and use my brain.
13:07I wonder if I should go here too.
13:10I don't think everyone would want to go home.
13:12Even if you have a visitor.
13:13Just one more time!
13:14Just one more time!
13:15That would happen.
13:16They would want to come.
13:17It looks fun.
13:18For a day service, since the elderly are going,
13:21it's a little light recreation,
13:23and you have the image that there's nothing else.
13:26It's evolved a lot.
13:29I want it to keep evolving.
13:31It looks fun.
13:32In addition, by growing vegetables in the field,
13:35the day service is specialized in gardening,
13:37which leads to self-sustenance,
13:39and the day service at school,
13:41where the elderly participate in the class
13:43while reminiscing about their student life
13:45and aim to rehabilitate their cognitive impairment.
13:49By the way,
13:50is it happier to live alone,
13:52or is it happier to live with your family?
13:55I did some research on the elderly,
13:57and there's data like that.
13:59The average age of family and friends is 68.3.
14:03The average age of living alone is 73.5.
14:06The average age of living alone is 5.
14:08This one is happier.
14:09More than 60,000 people are listening.
14:12That's right.
14:13That's a lot of data.
14:14That's true.
14:15However,
14:16this survey was done by middle-aged people
14:19who live in the metropolitan area.
14:21It's money.
14:22So it's important to have no financial anxiety.
14:25However,
14:26the reason why it's happier to live alone
14:29is that you can live at your own pace.
14:32You have friends and relatives you can trust.
14:35You live in a dilapidated area.
14:38If you live in the same neighborhood,
14:40you can't get along with your family.
14:42It's hard.
14:43If you can't communicate,
14:45your satisfaction in life tends to drop dramatically.
14:48Is marriage a solution to solve loneliness?
14:53According to a survey,
14:55married couples feel lonely depending on their age.
14:59Unmarried couples feel lonelier as they age.
15:03Unmarried couples feel more lonely when they turn 78.
15:06The reason is that
15:08they can't communicate with their family.
15:11They feel more lonely when they are ahead of their spouse.
15:16I think that even if you're married,
15:18you're a married couple,
15:20and you have kids.
15:22It's cute.
15:23You can't guarantee your marriage.
15:25Right.
15:26You hate each other,
15:28but you live in the same room.
15:31I think that's hell.
15:33You may want to be alone as soon as possible.
15:36If you say you can't guarantee it,
15:38it's eternal love.
15:40I know you can't guarantee it.
15:42I think it's because it's eternal love
15:44that I don't want to get married.
15:47If it's a three-year contract,
15:50I think it's okay to get married.
15:53If it's a three-year contract, you can have kids.
15:55What if you break up?
15:57You can renew the contract.
15:59You can renew the contract automatically.
16:01You don't have to worry about it.
16:03Then I want to get married.
16:06I think there are men like that.
16:09I think it's okay to get married for three years.
16:12I think it's okay.
16:13There are men who get divorced
16:15even if they say they'll be together forever.
16:17I don't know what will happen.
16:19I think it's okay to get married.
16:21That's right.
16:23I'll make you happy forever.
16:25I'm saying this because I'm irresponsible.
16:28Have you ever said that to each other?
16:33I think I'm not going to get married.
16:35I'm more determined today.
16:37You're more determined?
16:38That's right.
16:39What made you so determined?
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16:56I'm saying this because I'm irresponsible.
16:59I'm saying this because I'm irresponsible.
17:02I'm saying this because I'm irresponsible.
17:05Have you ever said that to each other?
17:08I think I'm not going to get married.
17:11I'm not going to get married.
17:15I think it's okay if we don't work hard to get a job.
17:18We supported each other up because we're married.
17:20We supported each other up because we're married.
17:23That's what made it easier.
17:25I think it was right to marry a girl like that.
17:29We have a Lisbon marriage to be a true master in the end.
17:34You have to be mentally prepared.
17:36You have to think about yourself.
17:38You're right.
17:40Well, I don't want to be, but I survived until the end.
17:44There is a possibility.
17:46There is a possibility.
17:47There is a possibility that the wife died earlier.
17:50Either way.
17:51And the children went abroad.
17:53Certainly.
17:54Right?
17:55There is such a thing.
17:57Well, I want to enjoy it.
18:00At that time.
18:02Miyake-san, what did you think?
18:04I saw a lot of data today.
18:05Miyake-san, what did you think?
18:06I think I'm a bit of an old-fashioned person because I'm choosing my wife.
18:12So, at least as a member of society, I want to be cooperative and kind to my children.
18:20That's what I think.
18:23How about you, Maya-chan?
18:25I think I won't get married.
18:27That's what I felt today.
18:29Did you get more solid?
18:30Yes, I did.
18:31I've heard a lot of opinions from various people, such as,
18:34I'm lonely when I'm old.
18:36I think I should get married.
18:38But when I heard everyone's stories,
18:40I thought I was fine with this.
18:43I see.
18:44The fact that the number of single people is increasing year by year means that
18:48the number of services for single people will probably increase more and more.
18:52I thought that if I became old,
18:54the number of services I could enjoy would increase,
18:57and the future became brighter.
18:59That's true.
19:00I think the number of services for single people will increase more and more.
19:04I think so, too.
19:05Next, we have a message from Mr. Yamamoto.
19:07NERTHADE, which aired last year, will return as a special drama.
19:12Cute Rina-san plays Miyo Sakuraba,
19:15and NERTHADE and Gekkain are fighting as two swords.
19:18The cast, including me, is gathering.
19:21New and gorgeous guests are added, and the content is powered up.
19:25It will be broadcast at 9 p.m. on Saturday, January 11th.
19:28Please watch it.
19:32The next theme is how to deal with female hormones.
19:36I cry every day before my period.
19:38I can't sleep because I'm crying.
19:41Everything is a vicious cycle.
19:43I thought it was normal to cry.
19:45Look forward to it.