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00:00Let's talk now about some trending topics.
00:08My cloak is often falling off.
00:11That's because you don't have a hand.
00:13Trending issues in 2024.
00:17Let's start, Kim, with the controversy
00:22that Carlos Yulo, our Olympic medalist,
00:26and his mother, Mrs. Angelica Yulo.
00:30Before this happened, there was a debate on social media
00:35as to how long or how far
00:40parents should know about their children's lives.
00:45Life meaning love, money, livelihood, and many more.
00:50For me, we should guide them.
00:53We should guide them, even if it's harsh,
00:59before they turn 18.
01:01When your child turns 18, then we can only guide them
01:03and tell them what to do,
01:05but not force them to do what they should do.
01:07That's your opinion, but that's very American.
01:09Yes, very American.
01:11For me, if the mother and child's relationship is good,
01:14starting as a child, things will come naturally.
01:17The kids will support the mom,
01:18and the mom will support the kids very naturally
01:20without having to force anyone to support,
01:23especially financially.
01:24If the relationship is good as a child,
01:27it would be fine.
01:28But you know what happened today, boy?
01:30Because of the information superhighway,
01:32what was the problem of the mother?
01:34It was magnified.
01:36The public became aware.
01:38And when the public speaks,
01:39the mother and the child will have an opinion
01:41until there's a wall and it's not good anymore.
01:44If there's no internet and this happened to Carlos,
01:46it's just two people talking and one drinking.
01:48That's fine.
01:49The two will talk and make up.
01:51But because of the information superhighway,
01:53because of social media,
01:55it's very, very deep now.
01:57It became a part of everything.
01:59It became a part of everything,
02:00so therefore, it was fortified,
02:01whatever the position of the two.
02:03It could have been fixed,
02:04but I'm still hopeful that it will be fixed.
02:06Me too.
02:07And it's sad.
02:08My take on that is,
02:09number one, the point is very important,
02:11that this grew because the two talked
02:15using social media.
02:16That's it.
02:17So, there are a lot of nuances that I think we don't know,
02:21but we were able to get into different opinions
02:24because our basis is what we read,
02:28what we hear, right?
02:30So, based on that,
02:31each has their own position.
02:32For example, when I was asked,
02:34of course, I said,
02:35I'm the wrong person to ask
02:36because I will do anything for my mother.
02:39Am I wrong?
02:41Is my mother right?
02:42And I am personal.
02:43I'm not talking about Carlos and Mrs. Yulo.
02:45No matter what happens,
02:46no matter what the difference is,
02:47I will not answer my mother.
02:49I will endure everything.
02:50But that, again, is me.
02:52Me too, boy.
02:53You too.
02:54Me too.
02:55So, I'm not going to go to the issue.
02:56I'm not going to go into the details like,
02:58who is right?
02:59What is wrong?
03:00For me, as a parent,
03:02especially as a mother,
03:03mother and child,
03:05the question is,
03:06who is right between the two of us?
03:08Especially if they don't understand each other
03:10and both have points, right?
03:12The question is,
03:13how big is our love?
03:17You know,
03:18because love, I think,
03:19between parents and children
03:21should always be bigger than any problem.
03:23Agree.
03:24I agree.
03:25Assuming that my mother really
03:27gave me everything,
03:28I will not speak against her still.
03:29Me too.
03:30Especially in public.
03:31We can fight in private,
03:32we can talk,
03:33but I will never hurt my mother in public.
03:36But that's me.
03:37But again, that's us.
03:38That's us.
03:39As for Carlos and his mother,
03:42I know and I'm sure
03:43that there are so many details
03:45that we don't know.
03:46That we don't know.
03:47Okay.
03:48From there,
03:49let's go to the story of Ai-Ai
03:51and Gerald.
03:53They separated.
03:55This story is layered.
03:57Can you tell us,
03:59what are your thoughts
04:00about the separation,
04:02especially when it's between husband and wife, right?
04:04Through a text message.
04:07Wow.
04:08That's number one.
04:09Number two,
04:11because I remember the text message,
04:13I don't love you anymore.
04:16How important is the child
04:19to keep a marriage?
04:22That became an issue there.
04:24And number three,
04:27does age really matter?
04:30Let's start with number three.
04:32Okay.
04:33Age matters.
04:34Age matters.
04:35Age will always matter.
04:36If the man is older
04:38and the woman is younger,
04:39it's more ideal.
04:40Normally,
04:41the man is more stable.
04:43If the woman is older
04:44and the man is younger,
04:46there are needs
04:47that the man cannot give
04:48to the woman,
04:49especially physically.
04:50So age matters.
04:51But what is more important
04:52than the age
04:53is commitment.
04:54Correct.
04:55If there is a discrepancy in age,
04:56a stronger commitment
04:57is needed
04:58to make it work.
04:59It will always work,
05:00but with different degrees
05:01of difficulty
05:02because of age.
05:03How important is
05:04having a child
05:06in a marriage?
05:09It's very important for me
05:11because love comes and goes.
05:13The feeling of love
05:14comes and goes.
05:15And the time will come
05:16when one will stray
05:18and the relationship
05:19will not be as ideal.
05:20But if you have a child,
05:21you are forced
05:22to make it work
05:23because marriage
05:24is a commitment.
05:25Marriage is a choice.
05:26If you have a child,
05:27it's easier to stay
05:28because you have someone
05:29to fight for your child.
05:31If you don't have a child,
05:32if you reach a point
05:33where it's a bit confusing,
05:34you will give.
05:36A lot of marriages
05:37stay intact
05:38because of the kids.
05:39And then eventually,
05:40they fall in love again.
05:41Sometimes,
05:42they're in the marriage
05:43just for the kids,
05:44but they don't love each other.
05:45Eventually,
05:46they'll split up.
05:47But a lot do stay together
05:48because they decided
05:49to stay together for the kids
05:50and then eventually,
05:51they fall in love again.
05:52That's an interesting insight
05:53because earlier,
05:54when you said
05:55love comes and goes,
05:56I said,
05:57does it come back?
05:58And then you said,
05:59it comes back
06:00sometimes because of the children
06:01and some people would say,
06:02don't stay in a relationship
06:03just because of the children.
06:05I don't believe that.
06:06You don't?
06:07Yeah.
06:08I believe that you should
06:09stay in the relationship
06:10for the children
06:11and that if you have to
06:12choose to love your wife
06:13or your husband,
06:14even if it's difficult,
06:15then choose to do so.
06:16Love is a choice.
06:17You can choose to love someone.
06:18Now, it's easier
06:19to choose to love someone
06:20who's beautiful
06:21inside and out,
06:22but it's really hard
06:23to love someone
06:24who's a bit ugly.
06:26But if you choose
06:27to love that person,
06:28then it'll work.
06:29At this time,
06:31is it right for a person
06:33to be separated
06:34through a chat
06:37or a text message?
06:39That's wrong.
06:40That's wrong.
06:41It should be face-to-face.
06:43It's painful.
06:44You know, when you chat
06:45or text,
06:46it's more painful.
06:47You can't see the emotion.
06:49So sometimes,
06:50what you said in the text,
06:52that's magnified
06:5310, 20, 30 times more
06:55because you can't see
06:56the face in what you said.
06:57It's better if you hurt
06:58me when we're face-to-face
07:00and we know each other.
07:02If you text me,
07:03it's more painful
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