In an exclusive interview with Bharathi S. Pradhan for Lehren Retro, Shatrughan Sinha opens up about his films, family, love, life, and politics. The superstar shares insights about his early days, family, and time at FTII. He appreciates actors from his home state of Bihar, including Manoj Bajpayee and Pankaj Tripathi, and gives his mature take on Sushant Singh Rajput’s tragic case. Sinha talks about his bond with co-star Reena Roy, credits his wife Poonam Sinha for his success, and praises daughter Sonakshi’s marriage to Zahee Iqbal. He also reveals stories about his sons Luv and Kush and addresses their absence at Sonakshi's wedding. The actor-turned-politician comments on Amitabh Bachchan and Rajinikanth's screen presence and shares a fun cigarette story about Shah Rukh Khan. He also reflects on the political influence of leaders like Atal Bihari Vajpayee and L.K. Advani. Watch the full conversation with Shatrughan Sinha, only on Lehren. Stay Khamosh and enjoy Shotgun’s untold Ramayan.
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00:00:00When you go to someone, when you stay with them, you miss them.
00:00:06The ones who are waiting for you at home.
00:00:09And when you stay at home, it feels like you have kept them as a toy.
00:00:14What will happen to them? How will I go there?
00:00:17So guilt?
00:00:19There is a lot of guilt. A lot.
00:00:23Suddenly Shah Rukh Khan saw me and said,
00:00:25Sorry sir, he was panting.
00:00:29Sorry sir, I think age is catching up with me.
00:00:32I said no, it's not age, Shah Rukh.
00:00:35It's your smoking.
00:00:36You said it.
00:00:37I said it with love. It's your smoking.
00:00:41If those stories were true, then no artist should have done this.
00:00:46I could see a bright future for him.
00:00:50I could see a bright future for him.
00:00:52It's a big truth that Sushant Singh Rajput is not among us.
00:00:57Even if it's a bitter truth, it's a truth.
00:01:01Did you feel a little bad that your sons did not support her?
00:01:05I can understand their pain, their confusion, their worries.
00:01:13That suddenly their friends ask them.
00:01:16You're seeing it from their point of view.
00:01:18Yes, maybe I would have been at that age.
00:01:21Maybe my attitude would have been different.
00:01:37Hi, Pranam, Namaskar.
00:01:40You speak so many languages that I will have to welcome you.
00:01:46Pranam, Namaskar, Namaste.
00:01:49Tell me, how are you?
00:01:51I am absolutely fine.
00:01:53We used to call you Bihari Babu.
00:01:57Then you became Bengali Babu after winning the Asansol competition.
00:02:01But your birthplace is in Maharashtra.
00:02:04And you got married here in Maharashtra.
00:02:07To a Sindhi girl, Miss India, Poonam Chandramani.
00:02:11You have relations with a lot of states.
00:02:14So, would it be right to call you Hindustani Babu?
00:02:18In the correct sense, that's what happened.
00:02:20You made me Bengali Babu.
00:02:23People called me Bihari Babu with love.
00:02:27And Maharashtra is my birthplace.
00:02:30The whole country is there.
00:02:33I keep going there.
00:02:36So, in the correct sense, you gave the right answer.
00:02:39In the correct sense, Hindustani Babu.
00:02:43I am not a foreigner.
00:02:45In my own country, among my own people,
00:02:48I have a birthplace and a birthplace.
00:02:51So, it's Hindustani Babu.
00:02:53Okay, great.
00:02:54So, you should be called Hindustani Babu.
00:02:56Now, whether you say it or not, Rose is a Rose is a Rose.
00:02:59You can call me by any name.
00:03:01That's fine.
00:03:02By the way, your name has given a lot of...
00:03:07There have been so many variations of your name.
00:03:13Yes.
00:03:14You know, because Shatrughan is your name now.
00:03:18But Shatrughno...
00:03:20The correct pronunciation should be the same.
00:03:23Shatrughna.
00:03:24S-H-A-T-R-U-G-H-N-A
00:03:27But people felt that this is a tongue twister.
00:03:31It was difficult to pronounce.
00:03:33And people from different parts of the country
00:03:37used to pronounce it differently.
00:03:40So, to make it simple, I didn't change it much.
00:03:44I said, accept me as I am.
00:03:46Good, bad, or ugly, whatever the name is.
00:03:49But I changed Shatrughna to Shatrughan.
00:03:54I changed G-H-N-A to G-H-A-N.
00:03:56And you know the rest of the story.
00:03:58Yes, yes, yes.
00:03:59And you removed Prasad in between.
00:04:01But there is still Prasad in Parliament.
00:04:04Okay.
00:04:05Yes, Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:07Okay.
00:04:08So, you didn't have a problem with it.
00:04:10Because your Jaya Bhachan had a lot of difficulty.
00:04:13Yes, what did I say just now?
00:04:15Jaya Bhachan said it.
00:04:17I said, Rose is a Rose is a Rose.
00:04:20Call me by whatever name you want.
00:04:22You must have seen, I took an oath in Parliament again.
00:04:26I went to Parliament for the 6th time.
00:04:29I took an oath.
00:04:31I said my name as Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:36So, I am the Parliament, Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:39Okay, okay.
00:04:40You know, you have been a great inspiration.
00:04:43Because you are the first star from Bihar.
00:04:47So, whether it is Pankaj Tripathi or Manoj Bajpai.
00:04:53They are very good people.
00:04:55So, all these people were very inspired by you.
00:04:58And it is said that we have been inspired by them.
00:05:04Because it is difficult to come from there and achieve success here.
00:05:09Still, they did what you did.
00:05:12So, what do you feel about being the inspiration to so many people?
00:05:17From your state.
00:05:19I feel good.
00:05:22And when people say good things, positive things.
00:05:27Recently, I met a very talented artist from Bihar.
00:05:33Like Pankaj Tripathi or Manoj Bajpai.
00:05:37Or our own Shekhar Suman.
00:05:40In the same way, there is a very good artist Sanjay Mishra.
00:05:44He is doing very well in many films.
00:05:46A few days ago, I was talking to him.
00:05:49Sanjay Mishra was telling me that he used to go home to see you.
00:05:55That you live here.
00:05:57At Kadam Kua?
00:05:58Kadam Kua, in Patna.
00:06:00He used to go to see you again and again.
00:06:02He said, Sir, I never expected this.
00:06:04I have a photo with you.
00:06:06He sent me a photo.
00:06:08I took a photo of him.
00:06:10So, I feel good.
00:06:13I feel happy that I was able to inspire many people.
00:06:18I was able to motivate them.
00:06:20A person like me,
00:06:22I often say this.
00:06:24A person like me,
00:06:26A person like me,
00:06:28who had never crossed the border of Bihar in his life.
00:06:32who had never crossed the border of Bihar in his life.
00:06:34He came to Mughal Sarai for the first time from Patna.
00:06:36He came to Mughal Sarai for the first time from Patna.
00:06:38When he was selected in FTII, Pune.
00:06:40When he was selected in FTII, Pune.
00:06:42He went to many places.
00:06:44He went to many places.
00:06:46He didn't even know how to stay in a hostel.
00:06:48How to stay in a hostel.
00:06:50How to meet people.
00:06:52How do people come to meet you.
00:06:54How would my food be.
00:06:56There were many things.
00:06:58There were many things.
00:07:00But,
00:07:02But,
00:07:04But,
00:07:06But,
00:07:08But,
00:07:10But,
00:07:12But,
00:07:14But,
00:07:16aur mai kar sakta hu aur yehi leke main FTII mein aaya aur dheere dheere baaki jaise FTII
00:07:26complete karne ke baad, jaise struggle karke, jo bhi yeh baaki kahani aap tamam logon hota
00:07:32hai.
00:07:33So yeh kuch logon ko laga ki impossible ko possible kiya.
00:07:38Lekin iske peeche main yehi kahunga aur aaj bhi main kehta hu aur younger generation ko
00:07:42toh khaas kar main kehta hu ki kisi bhi field mein aur khaas kar show business mein tin chaar
00:07:50cheezon ka hona bahut zaruri hai.
00:07:53Ek toh hai aapka apna aatmishwaft hai, talent hona chahiye.
00:07:59Agar show business ki baat karun toh, talent hona chahiye, confidence hona chahiye, conviction
00:08:06hona chahiye, commitment honi chahiye.
00:08:10Aur sabse badi baat hai ki passion hona chahiye, ki haan haan yehi karna hai, yeh main kar
00:08:18sakta hun aur yehi karna hai.
00:08:21Toh yeh passion tha na, jo aapne hamari bahut charchit kitab, biography, Anything But Khamosh
00:08:29mein, aapne bahut khubsurat tariqat se likha bhi hai usko.
00:08:33Yehi saari baatein mujhko aage le jaa rahe thi aur main samakhta hun yehi sab baatein
00:08:38kuch hatt tak mujh mein dekh kar aur log aur newcomers aur ache ache humare kalakar jo
00:08:43bhi saamne aaye hain.
00:08:45Jaise Pankaj Tripathi hain, Manoj Bhai, aur jitne saari ache log hain, Shekhar Suman hain,
00:08:51humara Sanjay Mishra hain, bahut saari log hain.
00:08:54Ho sakta inme se in baaton ne unhe bhi prabhavit kiya ho.
00:08:58Jo log kehte hain ki jo log mujh se inspired hokar aaye.
00:09:02Ho sakta yeh log mujh se inspired hokar na bhi aaye ho.
00:09:07Kuch log jalan mein bhi, jalan mein bhi agar healthy jalan nahi ho,
00:09:12ki main yeh kar sakte hain, main kyu nahi kar sakta hain.
00:09:15Bahut log sokhte the, ki agar Shatrughan Sinha star ban sakte hain,
00:09:19toh main kyu nahi ban sakta hain.
00:09:21Yeh healthy competition hai, healthy jalan mein kahunga.
00:09:24Yeh acchi cheez hai.
00:09:26Toh main in ladkon ki, aapne jin ka naam liya, in bachon ki,
00:09:30jo aaye hain, ek toh bahut sarahana karta hun,
00:09:34aur main bahut hi apne aapko saubhagya shali samjhata hun,
00:09:39ki main inke kuch kaam aa sakha, inko prabhavit kar sakha,
00:09:43inko inspire kar sakha, inko motivate kar sakha.
00:09:46Toh sunke acha bhi lagta hai mujh ko.
00:09:48Manoj Bajpayee aur ne ek kaha tha, ki hum log inspire toh hua hain se,
00:09:54lekin inki journey was different from ours.
00:09:59Kyunki aap Patna sheher se aaye the.
00:10:03Woh gaon se aaye, jahan ek cinema hall tak nahi tha.
00:10:07So unke liye toh aur bhi kathin tha na.
00:10:11Hoga, awashe hoga.
00:10:13Bahut, isliye is kaha hai na, confidence ka saath conviction mein chahiye,
00:10:18commitment mein chahiye, aur sabse badi baat maine kaha ki,
00:10:21maine kahi, aur wo yeh hai ki yeh passion hona chahiye.
00:10:26I am sure Manoj Bajpayee mein wo passion hoga.
00:10:31Woh gaon se aaye, aur doosi baat yeh bhi kehadun,
00:10:34kahi logon ko aisa, yeh sachayi nahi,
00:10:37kahi logon ko Mumbai ke mukhable mein,
00:10:41ya show business ke mukhable mein,
00:10:44ya Mayanagri ke saamne, Patna bhi gaon hi lagta raha.
00:10:50Ab toh khar aur bahut tarakki ho gayi hai, bahut badiya ho gaya,
00:10:54mujh ko toh duniya ka sabse badiya sheher Patna lagta hai,
00:10:58aur Patna je do sheher mujhe sabse pyaara hai,
00:11:02ek Patna hai jahaan pehda hua, aur padhai likhai hui,
00:11:06jis hattak hui, aur uske baad,
00:11:09ek Pune institute, Pune, Pune sheher,
00:11:12bahut pasand hai mujhe, isliye ke wahaan pehwari,
00:11:15culmination hua, wahaan se FTII gaye,
00:11:18wahaan se pass karne ke baad, ya nikalne ke baad,
00:11:21finish karne ke baad, baaki.
00:11:24Aur aapko ek disha mil gayi, kahaan jaana hai.
00:11:27Disha mil gayi, aap toh lagta hai ki sahi disha mili.
00:11:30Aur isliye, jaise Bihar, Mumbai, ya Bihar,
00:11:35ya Jai Maharashtra, mujhe bahot pasand hai,
00:11:39Jai Maharashtra ka toh main abhari hu,
00:11:43itna lagta hai ki agar hum nahi aaya hota,
00:11:46aur in logon itna pyaar, itni hausla, afzai nahi ki hoti meri,
00:11:51toh shayad mere sapne saakaal nahi hote,
00:11:54toh iske liye toh Jai Maharashtra, main amisha Jai Maharashtra ka toh,
00:11:58uska bahot kaayal hu, bahot abhari hu,
00:12:01toh yeh sab cheezein humari zindagi mein jaise bahot,
00:12:04mehtapoon role ada ki, usse toh main sure,
00:12:08main maanta hu ki main bhi, kuch had tak,
00:12:13kuch logon ke zindagi mein,
00:12:15ek mehtapoon role ada kiya hoga maine,
00:12:18khaas kar unke motivation, inspiration,
00:12:22unke nirmaan ke maamle mein,
00:12:24toh yeh toh, accha aur yeh zindagi ka silsala aise hi chalta hai,
00:12:28jaise main politics mein agar aaya,
00:12:30samaajik zimmedaari ke tahd raadneeti mein aaya,
00:12:33toh main Jai Prakash Narayan ji se bahot prabhavit hua,
00:12:37bahot accha laga,
00:12:39main baad mein Yashwant Sinha jaise aadmi,
00:12:43jo bureaucrat hai, shayad pehle bureaucrat honge,
00:12:45jo chhodakar wo raadneeti mein aaye,
00:12:48toh in log se amisha protsahan milta raha,
00:12:51mujhe khaas kar Jai Prakash Narayan ji se bahot hi prabhavit hua,
00:12:55baad mein Atal Bihari Vajpayee ji,
00:12:57Hilal Kesharwani ji,
00:12:59aise bahot achche achche log zindagi mein,
00:13:02in se bahot milne ka,
00:13:03aur saath saa bahot kuch seekhne ka maukah mila,
00:13:07jaise Jyoti Babu the,
00:13:08Jyoti Bashu Bengal ke mukh Mantri the,
00:13:12bhalein doosri party mein the,
00:13:13yaar communist party mein the,
00:13:14mujhe bahot pasand the,
00:13:16aaj mi hai,
00:13:17aur usse tarah Atal Bihari Vajpayee,
00:13:19Atal Bihari Vajpayee Armani ji,
00:13:20Bihar mein the,
00:13:21apne Kailash Pati Mishra ji swargiye,
00:13:25yaar Delhi mein,
00:13:26jin ko Tiger kaha jaata tha,
00:13:28Madanlal Khurrana,
00:13:30unse bahota training mili,
00:13:32ussi tarah se humare,
00:13:34Guru toh nahi kaunga,
00:13:36lekin train karne mein,
00:13:38unka yeh bahot haath hai,
00:13:39khaas kar public life mein,
00:13:40congress party ke the,
00:13:42hain,
00:13:43Subodh Kansa hai,
00:13:46aapke gehri dosti thi,
00:13:48kis saath bahot gehri dosti hai,
00:13:50aaj bhi bahot maanta hoon,
00:13:51unki kadar karta hoon,
00:13:53mujhe public life mein,
00:13:55dhakelne mein,
00:13:57ya utarne mein,
00:13:59hausaaron ki bheed,
00:14:0125 hausaaron,
00:14:0250 hausaaron,
00:14:03jagas jagas bheed ko,
00:14:05kaise wo humein,
00:14:07unhone shakti di,
00:14:09protsaan diya,
00:14:11aur kaise bagar security ke,
00:14:14toh wo,
00:14:15in log ka,
00:14:16main hamisa abhari hoon,
00:14:17aur abhari rahunga,
00:14:18aur main maanta hoon,
00:14:19aur maanta hoon,
00:14:20hamisa maanta rahunga,
00:14:21to come back to,
00:14:23Manoj and,
00:14:24Pankaj Tripathi,
00:14:26aapne unka kaam dekha hai,
00:14:28haan,
00:14:30dekha hai,
00:14:31Manoj ki,
00:14:32do ek filme dekheen,
00:14:33shuru mein,
00:14:34bahot accha,
00:14:35accha kalakar hai,
00:14:36uske andar,
00:14:37bahot intensity hai,
00:14:38badhiya hai wo,
00:14:39aur,
00:14:42do teen filme dekheen,
00:14:43ek toh wo,
00:14:44film bahot mashoor hoi thi,
00:14:45wohi dekhi thi maini,
00:14:47Satya,
00:14:49Satya dekhi thi,
00:14:50uske bahot laga ki,
00:14:51hunaar,
00:14:52virwaan ke ho,
00:14:53chikne paat,
00:14:55mujhe laga ki,
00:14:56ladka bahot accha hai,
00:14:57aur aage bahot accha karega,
00:14:59aur,
00:15:00usse tarah unki,
00:15:01wo film mein dekheni,
00:15:02koi khaish thi mujhe,
00:15:03Aligarh,
00:15:05Aligarh,
00:15:06dekh nahin paaya hoon,
00:15:07lekin dekhunga,
00:15:08kise de,
00:15:09usse tarah se,
00:15:11Shekhar Suman,
00:15:12Shekhar Suman,
00:15:14wo mein samjhata hoon,
00:15:15bahot hi,
00:15:16confident hai,
00:15:17insaan,
00:15:18bahot achche se,
00:15:19wo,
00:15:20koi cheez ko,
00:15:21uske timing bahot acchi hai,
00:15:23aur,
00:15:24khaas ka,
00:15:25light roles ke liye,
00:15:26comedy ke liye,
00:15:28bahot badhiya hai,
00:15:30usse tarah,
00:15:31Pankaj Tripathi ke dekhta hoon,
00:15:33kitna badhiya,
00:15:34wo bhi,
00:15:35Pankaj Tripathi bhi,
00:15:36shayad gaon se aaye,
00:15:37yes,
00:15:38humein mile the,
00:15:39aacha mile the,
00:15:40aaye the,
00:15:41bhui Maurya hotel mein,
00:15:42jahan wo kaam karte the,
00:15:43haan,
00:15:44wahi mile the,
00:15:45aur aaye ke,
00:15:46aur maine kaha,
00:15:47ussi din,
00:15:48tweet mein,
00:15:49ussi din,
00:15:50ittafaak tha,
00:15:51ussi din,
00:15:52apne tweet mein,
00:15:53maine unki kisi film ki,
00:15:54ya kisi ghatna ki,
00:15:55tarif ki thi,
00:15:56aaye bahot,
00:15:57pranam kiya,
00:15:58bahot aadhar ke saath,
00:15:59bahot,
00:16:00I think lift ke paas,
00:16:01mile na,
00:16:02mile the,
00:16:03bahot accha laga tha,
00:16:04aur,
00:16:05kahi jagah dekhi hai,
00:16:06unki ad bhi dekhi hai,
00:16:07ad mein bhi,
00:16:08ad mein bhi lagta hai,
00:16:09ki ladke mein,
00:16:10bahot dham hai,
00:16:11dham hai,
00:16:12bahot dham hai,
00:16:13haan,
00:16:14Panketra Patey,
00:16:15accha hai,
00:16:16badiya hai wo,
00:16:17ek aur ladka,
00:16:18Shushant Singh Rajput,
00:16:19woh bhi Bihar ka tha,
00:16:20haan,
00:16:21haan,
00:16:22accha,
00:16:23bahot,
00:16:24aap mile the unko,
00:16:25main ek baar mulaqat hui the,
00:16:26dekhi logon ne bahot,
00:16:27beech mein controversy,
00:16:28mein janta hoon,
00:16:29unnecessary,
00:16:30haan,
00:16:31unnecessary,
00:16:32kaunki,
00:16:33meri de mulaqat hi,
00:16:34ek baar hui the unse,
00:16:35accha,
00:16:36woh bhi main,
00:16:37aap bhi,
00:16:38aap bhi,
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00:27:45agar woe movement tha,
00:27:47is paar ya us paar,
00:27:49aap woh moment done hai,
00:27:50have jayi ekdham,
00:27:51ekdham chinta mat ke je,
00:27:52hum theek ho jayenge,
00:27:54to ekdhum yeh karke,
00:27:55aur kaise rota hota gaya,
00:27:57wohi me kai bar kisa sunaa chuka hun,
00:28:00aapko hi bata chuka hun ki,
00:28:02train mein baith haan,
00:28:04train mein aaya,
00:28:05humein malum hai ki,
00:28:07aapki pehli mulakat Promi se udhar hi hoi,
00:28:11But 45 years almost, 44 years you have been together and there has to be something to
00:28:22say about that.
00:28:23Very successful marriage.
00:28:24It was good.
00:28:25Grace of God.
00:28:26Yeah.
00:28:27With all its ups and downs.
00:28:28Ups and downs are everywhere.
00:28:29But 44 years together is a big, is a good index.
00:28:30You are emphasizing more on 44 years.
00:28:31Sonu ji, what would you say is the reason for such a successful marriage?
00:28:55Yes.
00:28:56First of all, I would say that with a very strong quality and a strong sense of dedication,
00:29:14which is called a commitment for the family, that quality remained strong.
00:29:22I am not complaining about anyone, whether we are going to a kitty party or a club or
00:29:31having a champagne party, I am not complaining about anyone, those who do it, they do it.
00:29:36But this is not the case.
00:29:38Means in promis.
00:29:39Promis means the good deeds, which we call promis.
00:29:42Yes, yes, yes, not at all.
00:29:44There was a very strong quality in them.
00:29:47And.
00:29:48Family first.
00:29:49Family first.
00:29:50Like in America, it is called Trump.
00:29:56Yes.
00:29:57Nation first.
00:29:58Yes, America first.
00:29:59America first.
00:30:00For them, family first.
00:30:01Family first.
00:30:02And in this matter, in the same way, many times ups and downs kept happening.
00:30:05Many people said that how to tolerate that kind of thing, that kind of thing.
00:30:07So, they used to say that what was this, for ups and downs, break it, make it, make it
00:30:18aadmi break kar de banani mein itna waqt laga hai, aur break karne ke liye kya ek bahana
00:30:24kaafi hona chahiye, toh karenge theek hoga, wo patience, wo kahana ek commitment, ek
00:30:33patience, bahut hi beautiful toh nahi log maante hain, lekin bahut beautiful person,
00:30:39bahut beautiful nature, janein baad mein padhaayi udhaiyi puri ki, toh unko laga ki so karna
00:30:48chahiye, toh yahan aane ke baad, dating, courtship period tha, us waqt sab kiya, English
00:30:56mein bhi honours kiya, sab koi yeh sab karke tohne, jo ek family ki demand dikhi, jo hamara
00:31:04laga ki hum usse aur strengthen kar payenge, family ko, parimaar ko, aur bachche hone ke
00:31:10baad pe bilkul, apne ko toh samala hi samala, but usse zyada ghar ko samala, bachche ko
00:31:16samala, aaj agar meri koi khaane peene, har maamne mein koi meri taarif karta hai, toh
00:31:21main saara taarif ka shrey apni patni ko de rata hoon. Bilkul, bilkul, but don't you
00:31:28think, us zamana mein aur aaj bahut antar hai, kyunki wo matlab, Promi gave up her career
00:31:38bilkul family first mein aayi thi, ab jab aapki beti ki shaadi hui, toh zamana itna
00:31:44badal gaya hai, abhi koi nahi bolega ki Sonakshi ko ghar mein betna chahiye, aur unko, you
00:31:50know, career, she should give up her career and become Mrs. Zahir Iqbal. Aaj koi aisa
00:31:55sochta hi nahi hai na. Nahi nahi, sochna chahiye bhi nahi, abhi toh women empowerment
00:32:00ka daur hai, haraag aisa nahi ki humare maamne mein, woman empowerment, woman empowerment
00:32:04tha, ki jitna ghar ke, she has been the, not only the ghar ke maamne mein, running the
00:32:13show, har maamne mein, mere maamne mein. Har maamne mein, aapki campaign mein, har jahat
00:32:17hai. Mujhe yaad hai, Advani ji ek baar kah rahe tha, Mr. Hilke Advani, aur unki patni
00:32:22ke saamne hi, kisi baat pe kah rahe tha, lighter weight mein hi kaha tha, lehin baaton mein
00:32:27dam tha, unhone kaha tha, ki so, desh chalana shayad phir bhi, utna mushkil nahi, jitna
00:32:34ghar ko chalana. Correct. Jo desh chalane wale ghar mein rahte hain, unko chalana, unko
00:32:40mazboot rakhna, unka har baat ka khyal rakhna, unka yeh kab unko hasi, kab unka rootna, kab
00:32:48unko manana, kab unko jagda karna, kab nahi karna, sense of timing, dawaai kisa dena,
00:32:54kaun kaunse dawaai dena, dawaai chek karo, pehle waed hain. Yahan jo log desh chalate
00:32:59hain, unko jo chalate hain ghar pe, wo to kamaal ka role hain, to wo hi keh raha hoon, aur
00:33:06koob nubaay hoon. Haan, bahut, to yahan pe, aaj ke zamani mein koi nahi karah hoon, kehna
00:33:12bhi nahi chahiye, ab to hum log maante hain, hum log to khad, shadi ke baad hi maante the
00:33:18equality mein, hum ne equality kya, hum to shuru se ghar aapko yaad ho, to maine shuru
00:33:24se ghar log 35%, 35% women reservation ki baat karte hain, hum ne kahain, unko to poora
00:33:30de do, nahi to kam sakon 50% to do hi unko, kyun nahi doge 50%. So abhi to definitely
00:33:37bahut development ho rahe hain, ab to, ladkiyaan hawai jahaj bhi chala rahi hain, aur space
00:33:42mein bhi jaa rahi hain, hum to ghazab kar rahi hain wo, aur karna bhi chahiye, main samakta
00:33:46hoon, unko encourage karna chahiye, encourage karna chahiye, yeh power jo hai, empowerment
00:33:55waqt mein, aur jahaan jahaan bhi darkeeyan, yeh shetra mein, jab jaa rahi hain, to ghazab
00:34:04kar rahi hain, ab apne ko dekh lo na, kitna aap aayi, ab kitne saalon journalism kiye
00:34:11start kiya, kitne magazines kiye ab editor rahi hain, karte gayi, shadi hui, logon ne
00:34:16ka, ab nahi kar paayegi, ab jo, abke husband ne bhi apko encourage kiya, abke bacche ne
00:34:22bhi aapko saath diya, aapka saath diya hoga, aur aaj dekhi aap, sab koi aapki tarah bharti
00:34:28nahi ban jata hai na, abne kar ke dikhaya hai, to wo to achi baat hai, hum isko bahut
00:34:33hi encourage karte hain.
00:34:35To go back just a little, Mumtaz ne aapko kaise influence kiya?
00:34:41Kyunki Mumtaz ka ek bada role tha na, aapke career mein.
00:34:46Usne bahut maanti thi, very affectionate towards her, kai log galat matlab mein nikalte the,
00:34:51but nahi, she has been very very nice lady in my life, aur main toh same and struggler
00:34:57tha, naya tha, kaam ki talaash mein tha, aur wo already badi, she was already a big heroine.
00:35:05Of course, main toh abhi bhi kehata hain bahut saath tak, we do respect to anybody and everybody,
00:35:12mujhe khilona jaisi film, main samatha hoon, sabse bada role unhi ka tha, jo mujhe khilona
00:35:18film mili ho, jisse kaafi naam ho.
00:35:19And that was a career changing role, yes.
00:35:22Bahut naam hua, toh bahut abhi bhi aati hain, Mumtaz toh yahan ghar pe zaroor aati hain,
00:35:27zaroor, and humari aksar baat abhi chal rodh pehle baat hui, kyunki humara toh yeh hai,
00:35:35aur unka bhi shayad, Mumtaz ka bhi.
00:35:38Isme maante hain hum log, once a friend, always a friend.
00:35:42Always a friend, wo toh aap, you are famous for that, ki aapki dosti toh matlab 30-40
00:35:48saal ki dosti bhi aap abhi bhi nibhate hain, aur abhi bhi aap, matlab wherever you meet
00:35:54anybody aapka, you know, aap hamisha yaad rakhte hain logon ko.
00:35:59Haan hamisha, koshish karta haun hamisha yaad rakhte hain.
00:36:03Aur aapki jo memory hai, that is very legendary.
00:36:07Touch wood, yeah.
00:36:09Toh uske liye aap kuch khas karte hain?
00:36:12Nahin, nahin, man bahut saal toh yoga karte raha, yog karte raha, thode exercises karte
00:36:17raha, lekin yeh.
00:36:19Aur badam karte hain?
00:36:20Badam bhi karte haun, badam bhi karte haun, lekin ab yeh kush mera ek tariqa raha, log
00:36:31I know, main us din kahi log keh rahe the, sir Amitabh Bachchan bhi aapki hamisha tarif
00:36:35karte hain, ki das das peshkar dialogue, aap kaise ek baar mein yaad kar lete the, aur
00:36:40kaise aise dekha aur, toh yeh, ho sakta hai main pehle content samasta tha, jo kehna
00:36:48kya chah raha hai, right.
00:36:49Usse agar convinced haun, toh phir shabdon mein gadhna, ya rashna, wo phir dikkat nahin
00:36:57thi humare liye.
00:36:57Right.
00:36:58Wo dostana ka ek kisa hai na, jahaan aap late aaye the, your, pandra minute mein aapko
00:37:05bura lamba ek shot dena pada.
00:37:08Nahin dena pada nahin, main toh doosri baar phir dena tha, toh Amitabh mein khudi gale
00:37:13laga diya, usne kaha, nahin pehle, wala bahut acha tha, wo rehne do, aur do bhajiye ke
00:37:18pehle, jo dera bhajiye karein shuru kiya tha, aur do bhajiye ke pehle, khatam ho gaya.
00:37:22Khatam ho gaya, yeah.
00:37:23Achha raha ho, achha experience tha.
00:37:26Yeah.
00:37:26Bariya tajurba.
00:37:29You know, aapki jo jeevaniye hain, that has been so inspirational for a lot of people.
00:37:35Lekin aapne bhi khud har mod pe kuch na kuch seekha hoga na, zindagi se.
00:37:42Of course.
00:37:43Toh can we go back just a little, ki aap 20s mein jab the, aur aapko nai nai kamiya
00:37:50bhi mili yahaan, aur you were the first villain jinko, jinko entry pe taaliyan aati the.
00:37:57So, how did you feel and what did you learn from that?
00:38:01Did it go to your head?
00:38:02How did you take that success?
00:38:04Kyunki bahut jaldi aa gayi the aapko, thoda sa struggle kiya, but jab aaye, chhapar phaad
00:38:09ke sab.
00:38:11Nahi nahi, zindagi mein humne bahut kuch, jo bhi seekhne ki koshish ki, toh saath saath
00:38:18yeh bhi seekhne ki koshish ki, kya kya karna chahiye, ke saath saath kya kya nahi karna
00:38:24chahiye.
00:38:24Correct.
00:38:25Wo bhi equally important hai, bahut mehtapod hai.
00:38:29Aur main jab, shroo mein, jab popularity aa rahi thi, aur jaise aapne kaha villain ke
00:38:39entry pe taaliyan aati thi, pehla kabhi nahi hua, aur shayad baad mein bhi kabhi nahi hua.
00:38:44Correct.
00:38:44Aur phir kahi baad aisa hota tha, ki villain ka role jo main karta tha, agar hero ko main
00:38:51maarta tha, toh taaliyan aati thi, hero agar mujhe palad ko maarta tha, toh usko galiya
00:38:55milti thi, footing hoti thi uski, aisa bhi hua.
00:38:59Lekin ispe kisi nachha kaag dekho, yeh wave hai, aur wave zyada din sustain karna bahut
00:39:07mushkil hota hai.
00:39:08Yeh toh wave hai, chal raha tumhara adnum.
00:39:10So isse dimaag mein, toh yeh baad mirko baith gaye dimaag mein.
00:39:14Ancha.
00:39:15Ke so, nahi nahi, yeh toh awan jamar hai, yeh koi baat nahi.
00:39:19Aisa hai, toh main preparation, isi de kahi logon ne kaha, ki meri kahi picture jo nahi
00:39:27bhi chali baad mein, toh aisa nahi ke main adnum devdas ban gaya aur, nahi nahi, isse
00:39:34ke baad ismein, ek toh mere yoga hai, yoga ne bahut matat ki meri, aur doosa yeh sabak,
00:39:40ek line mujhe bahut pasand hai, this too shall pass, yeh bhi chala jayega, aapki bahut log
00:39:49priyata hai, wo bhi shayad ek din kam ho jayegi, yeh chala jayega, aur aapke paas agar
00:39:54udasi hai, safal nahi hai aap, yeh bhi ghadi yeh din kham ho sakti hai, toh yeh kuch understanding
00:40:01rahi mere andar, isle mai kahi sakta ho, fortunately, prabhu kaisi man kampa Allah taala ka fazal
00:40:07waheguru ka aashirbaad raha, ki mere pyaar zameen pe hi raha hai, feet on the ground,
00:40:14firmly, isliye.
00:40:16Aapko nahi laga, you made any mistakes at that time, because you got carried away, because
00:40:21you were young, matlab mistakes ki?
00:40:24Kaun nahi, kaun nahi karta hai, galtiyan toh karta hi insaan, kitni galtiyan.
00:40:28Jaise aap late aate the, yeh bhi wo bhi galti thi humaari, aaj main ekdum time pe aata hu,
00:40:34aaj dekhe, aaj kal jyada hi punctual hai aaj, aur fact hai ke aapko teen bhaji ka time toh
00:40:40toh, mai dhai bhaji se ready behta hua tha, aur neeche instruction de diya tha aapne,
00:40:44toh, ab yeh hi seekhta hai na aadmi, karke bohot kuch hua, usme ek kaaran yeh bhi tha
00:40:52jab late aata tha na, Bharti, toh mai raat mein bohot kaam karta tha, teen teen chaar
00:41:00chaar shifting karta tha, toh kayi baar, do bhaji teen bhaji raat mein sota tha main,
00:41:06aur aap believe nahi karogi, kayi log mujh se pooste, mujhe ek aadat thi, thanks to my
00:41:10wife, Promi, moha studio mein bhi poora dabba 10-12 aadmi ka khana bhejti thi, lunch mein,
00:41:18aap bhi gawa hai uske, aur raat mein mera ek aadat nahi shuru se, jab tak aake ghar main
00:41:25nahata nahi tha, tayyaar nahi hota tha, tab tak mai khana nahi khaata tha, toh aap believe
00:41:31nahi karoge, ke mere 10-15 saal, kam se kam, aur khaaskar star banne ke baad, mera dinner
00:41:39time jo tha, wo karib 3.30-4.30 in the morning, in the morning, in the morning, kayi baar toh
00:41:46aisa bhi hua, humare dost the bohot achhe, friend philosopher, guide and very close friend,
00:41:52unka main bohot abhari hun, Sanjeev Kumar, great actor, kayi baar toh wo aate the, wo
00:41:59bhi jab jaante the ke 2.30-3.30 bhai jaga hua hu, toh kayi baar aaj aate the, aur kayi
00:42:04baar unko chhodne main gate pe jaata tha, 5-6 bhaje savere, unke jaane ka bhakt hota tha,
00:42:11Sunday bhagara, next day kaam nahi hai, toh aaram se, toh doodh wala udhar se aata rahta
00:42:16tha, dekhta tha, doodh wala, usko lagta tha, hum abhi morning walk ke liye jaana hai,
00:42:23nahi pata tha, humne sohne jaana tha.
00:42:27Aapne ek baar mujhe kaha tha that aapki zindagi mein ek baar you were,
00:42:35you know, you had your feet in two different boats at the same time.
00:42:41Two different boats? Kayi baar toh mini boats mein the.
00:42:45Matlab and aapne yeh bhi kaha tha mujhe ki log samajhte hai that a man who's got two women in
00:42:54his life is a very lucky man, kitna fortunate aadmi hai, lekin he is not so fortunate, usme
00:43:01problems bhi hai. So, what do you feel about that phase of your life jaha Reena bhi thi
00:43:08aur Prami bhi thi aapki zindagi mein? Nahi, mai ab kisi ka naam nahi lunga because
00:43:14I am very grateful to all the women who have come to my life, who have been in my life.
00:43:20Mai bahut hi unka hasaanmand hu, kyunki sabse kuch seekhne ka mila hai.
00:43:24Mujhe kisi bhi khaas ka jo humare zindagi mein muhtarma kahen, ladkiya kahen, dost kahen,
00:43:31saheli kahen, mai kisi ke khilaf mere dil mein koi bhagawat nahi hai, koi buray khayal nahi hai,
00:43:40aur mai sabka bahut hi hasaanmand hu, unse bhi bahut kuch seekhne ko mila hai life mein.
00:43:47Aur kaltiyan keen hai humne, aisa nahi ke kaltiyan nahi keen, mai koi bahut bada,
00:43:51ab naturally jo patna se aara hai, itne door se aara hai pehli baar, jisne aad tak abhi chaka
00:43:57chaun dekhi nahi, achanak itna chaka chaun dekhna aur itna zyada stardom kaise kya hota hai,
00:44:05jisko yeh nahi pata tha kaise raah jaata hai, kaise saha jaata hai bahut sari baaton ko,
00:44:12aur kaise price fix karte hai, aur kaise price badhata hai, aur kaise price badhta hai,
00:44:17yeh sab karne wala aadmi jab uski courage, ya uska naam jab itna hone lagta hai,
00:44:26to sambhavna rehti hai bheg jaane ki kahi baar, aur chunki utna thos nahi tha uswaq,
00:44:35aur yaha pe koi guardian factor nahi tha, jab humare zindagi mein promi aayi,
00:44:41punam aayi, to baat badhalte gayi, aur samhalte gayi, to unka to bahut aasaan mann hui,
00:44:50lekin saath hi saath, is tarah se ho raha tha, mai kise ka naam nahi le sakta hu.
00:44:57Bilkul nahi.
00:44:58Sorry.
00:44:59Maine le liya.
00:45:00Aapne mein naam nahi loonga, lekin yeh zarur kaunga ki mujhe kisi se koi shikayat nahi
00:45:05hai, on the contrary main sabka bahut aasaan mann hu, unse bahut pyaar mila hai, bahut ko
00:45:11seekhne ko mila hai, bahut samhalne ko mila hai, samarne ko mila hai, apne aap ko,
00:45:15apne zindagi sajhane ka mila hai unse, aur mai kisi ke khilab mere complaint nahi hai,
00:45:21I hold them in very high esteem, aur is baat pe aapke jo aap kehte hai na,
00:45:28agar aadmi achha ho, agar achha ho, toh yeh jo aap kehte hai, achha isliye mai zor diya
00:45:38maine, ki agar do teen jagah uska kahin commitment chal raha hai, ya jisko samajh
00:45:43raha hai ki commitment hai, aur ek jagah bahut hi committed ho, toh uske liye bhi dikkat
00:45:49bahut hoti hai, uska chain, sukoon, blood pressure, sab pe bahut aasaar padta hai,
00:45:57kyuki ek ke paas jaata hai, jab rahta hai, uski yaad aati hai, jo ghar pe wait kar rahi
00:46:05hai aapka, aur ghar pe jab rahta hai, lagta hai usko kyu khilone ki taraham rakha hai,
00:46:12uska kya hoga, wahan kaise jaao, jab tak koi aise understanding nahi ho, toh alag baat hai.
00:46:18Toh guilt?
00:46:20Guilt toh bahut hota hai, bahut hota hai, achhe achhe ko hota hai,
00:46:25aur main toh chutka bhoga, main toh Bihari bahu, Patna, wahan se aane wala, dheere dheere
00:46:34star bana, dheere dheere, ek logpriyata badhi, log chahane wale, maanne wale, pyaar karne
00:46:41wale, badh gaye, badhte gaye, toh usme, lekin dil toh aisa hi raha na, jo sanskaar the mere
00:46:48andar, jo maa ka aashirwaad tha, chahe jo background raha, wo jo hamara sanskaar raha,
00:46:55toh uske toh bahut chinta hoti thi mujhe. So kahne ka matlab hi, agar sanksheb mein kahen
00:47:01toh, sirf larki ke saath hi zulme aur zayati nahi ho rahi hai, larkiyon ke saath, balki
00:47:08wo purush bhi apne upar bahut, bahut zayati, bahut purush ho chahe jo ho, wo us insaan
00:47:14ke upar bhi badhi zayati hoti, bahut zayati, usko bhi, ab usko nikalna chahata hai, nikal
00:47:22nahi paata hai.
00:47:26You know, haali mein Shahrukh Khan ne kaha ki he has given up smoking, unhone chhod diya
00:47:34hai smoking. So what do you feel about that? Kyunki aap ek zamani mein bahut famous the
00:47:41smoke rigs ke liye, hum log aake aapka photo bhi lete the.
00:47:44Haan, haan, bilkul, nekin ek zamani se abhi bahut famous hoon anti-tobacco campaign kahne
00:47:51ke liye. Jab mein health minister tha, toh aapko paata hai ki bahut saare kaam pe jo
00:47:57humne kiye, usmein ek tha anti-tobacco campaign hamara, aur yeh gutka aur zarda aur yeh
00:48:06chewing tobacco, inke khalaar samajhiye sahi tarah kaisa hamara sangharsh aur andolan chal
00:48:12raha tha, duniya ko paata hai. Maine aapke dost jo hai, Shahrukh Khan, unko maine khud
00:48:20bhi kaha tha kahi baar, ki chhod do cigarette. Kyunki ek baar mujhe, main pyaar se hi kata
00:48:26affectionately, mujhe ek baar dance kar rahe the wahan pe stage pe aur main aur meri patni
00:48:32saamne baati hoi thi. Toh aachanak Shahrukh Khan ne mujhe dekha aur kala, sorry sir,
00:48:37mohaaf rahe the. He was panting. He was, sorry sir, I think age is catching up with me.
00:48:43Tamne kaha, nahi, age nahi, Shahrukh, it's your smoking.
00:48:47Smoking, achha aapne kaha?
00:48:48Pyaar se hi kaha, it's your smoking. Bahut saare log hai, main abhi bhi kehta hoon,
00:48:53aur aapke isse program ke zarye kehta hoon. Abhi bhi waqt hai, sabse pehla ta kaam aapko
00:49:01karna chahiye tha, ya sabse badiya waqt hota, jab aap tobacco start nahi karte,
00:49:08jisme smoking bhi hai, chewing tobacco bhi hai. Lekin doosra sabse badiya waqt hai,
00:49:14aapke liye abhi aur issi waqt chhod dijiye. Koshish ki chhod dijiye. Main toh khud pita
00:49:19tha aapne kaha. Toh maine toh anti-tobacco day, jab poora world mana raha tha, I think
00:49:271st of March, 1st of March aur 1st of April. Aapne kaha duniya itna dollars kharsha kar rahi
00:49:38hai. Lakhon, croron dollars kharsha kar rahi hai. Aur main kya karna ho yeh? Toh mujhe
00:49:45cigarette chhodna chahiye. Aur maine bakaar kisi option ke, bakaar kisi, chewing tobacco to
00:49:54chhodiye, chiklet ho ki kya ka, kuch nahi. Ekdum sankalp ke saath, strong will ke saath,
00:50:02chhoda aur aaj main anti-tobacco campaign karta hu. Aur aaj poora anti-tobacco free
00:50:09atmosphere mein raha tha hu aur koshish karta hu, logon ko rakhne ki bhi. Toh main abhi bhi
00:50:13kehta hu, main un logon ki bahut taarif karta hu. Jino ne chhod ke, shuru karke chhod diya.
00:50:23Jaise humare dost Amitabh Bachchan, hum logon ne saath hi decide kya chhodne ki,
00:50:28wo chhod gaye. Aur usse main hum nahi chhod seke. Logon bhi bahut accha raha tha,
00:50:33wo bhi accha cigarette peete the. Amitabh Bachchan, Shashi Kapoor peete the,
00:50:37toh unhone bhi chhod diya tha. Aise bahut saare log hai.
00:50:40Abhi Ranbir Kapoor, when he saw his little daughter, he said ki unke liye accha nahi
00:50:46hai. Beti ke liye accha nahi hai. Toh jo nuksan poncha sakte hai beti ko, usko main chhod
00:50:51dunga. Bol ki unhone give up karte hai. Bahut acchi baat hai. Koi bahane se chhodo,
00:50:56niklo iss se. Varna ye aapke, kai logon malum hai, kai doctor toh 25 saal se jo chhoda hua
00:51:04hai na, 25 saal tak ko bhi kai baar log maante hain, smoker category me daante hain.
00:51:11Halange 25 saal pehle chhoda diya hai. Damage. So ab usko abhi rokhna chahiye.
00:51:17Aur chaar, main apne tamaam doston ko kehata hu. Ye plane mein jab aap kehate hain,
00:51:25tobacco nahi peena mana hai, acchi baat hai, nahi hona chahiye. Toh kai logon ne beech mein
00:51:31shuru ka diya tha, wahan se America wagar ke flight mein, videshon ke flight mein,
00:51:37good ka khaana shuru ka diya tha. Zarda lena shuru ka diya tha. Aise karte the. Aap dekhte
00:51:43hu, koi baar plane se utarte hain, first class mein, business class mein, toh aap dekhte hu,
00:51:47chahiye economy class mein bhi dekhte hain, bohot saare pouches, kya pouches bolte hain na usko,
00:51:51woh bohot saare pouches waha pe pade hote hain, toh usme woh khaini zarda wagar le lete hain.
00:51:58Ye nahi hona chahiye. Galat baat hai. Aur Shahrukh Khan ne, Shahrukh Khan ne agar chhod diya,
00:52:03toh main samjunga bohot hi saraniye hain, bohot hi prashansaniye hain, aur unke fans ke liye
00:52:09khaaskar, bohot hi anukaraniye hain. Aap maante hain ki celebrities should set an example?
00:52:17Why not? Bilkul. Aap maante hain? Bilkul maante hain. Kyunki aapne bhi shuru kiya tha,
00:52:21because you saw Raj Kapoor smoking. Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, bilkul, bilkul, bilkul.
00:52:27Aur shayad mera khayal hai, hamara dost hai, ab toh, pehle toh bohot maanta tha,
00:52:31aapne kitab me likha bhi uske baare mein, Rajnikanth waghara, Rajnikanth jo great actor,
00:52:37unhone bhi, aur bohot saare logon ne bhi shayad, cigarette shuru karne mein,
00:52:43ya cigarette ke habit ko badhane mein, ya style maarne mein, mera bohot boda haath ho sakta.
00:52:51Main uske liye bhi guilty feel kar raha tha. Right, okay. Aur Rajnikanth was very inspired
00:53:00by you, kyunki wo jo stylized acting aap mashoor the uske liye, he also started doing the same
00:53:06thing of blowing the smoking rings, aur wo hit karke ghadi dekhna, wo sab unhone bhi kiya.
00:53:13Toh, lekin aapko ek thoda sa yeh hai ki he did not follow you into politics?
00:53:20No, no, why should he follow me? Dekhiye, main jo karun sabko hi karna zaruri hai kya?
00:53:25Aapki andar capacity kya hai? Aapki andar ki capabilities kya hai? Aapka andar ka
00:53:31junoon ya passion kya hai? Aapka shock kya hai? Aap humse itni purani mitra hai aap humari,
00:53:38toh aap bhi toh politics mein nahi aayi. Toh aisa thoda mein kahaun ka aap nahi aayi,
00:53:42toh main naraz hogaya aapse. Kyu hoyi? Aur aap itni badiya likhti hai, aapki drafting achi hai,
00:53:48kitne badiya aapka, angrezi pe toh khar bahot badiya, control aur command hai aapka,
00:53:53toh main toh likhna shuru hi nahi kiya waise. Shahid mein jatra bolta hu,
00:53:58kayi log nahi bol pate honge. Yeh thodi ki unki kamzori hai, chahe unko waise hi bolna chahiye.
00:54:04So, you're not disappointed that Rajinikanth did not come into politics?
00:54:08Nahi, but mujhe lagta tha.
00:54:10Kyunki ek zamani mein aap bolte the ki unko aana chahiye.
00:54:13Nahi, nahi, woh toh mera abhi bhi kehna hai, good man, a good person,
00:54:17jo bhi yeh jo society ke liye isko feel hota hai,
00:54:21yeh jaante ve ki bahut rough weather ka saamna karna padega.
00:54:27Lekin aur bahut tough hoga aapke liye.
00:54:29Lekin mera apna maana hai, jo humne bahut pehle quote suna tha,
00:54:33good person, a good person is not entering into politics,
00:54:39then he should be ready to be governed by the bad people.
00:54:41A good person not entering into politics,
00:54:44he should be ready to be governed by the bad people.
00:54:46Achche log agar aaj neet mein aayenge hi nahi,
00:54:50toh aapko burre logon ke sashan mein,
00:54:53ghut ghut ke jeene ke liye, ghut ghut ke marne ke liye tayyaar aana chahiye.
00:54:58Aaj shayad yehi sab baatein hai,
00:55:00ya Jai Prakash Narayan je se prabhavit hua main,
00:55:03ya itne saalon se 6 baar ka MP hun,
00:55:06koi mazaak nahi hoda,
00:55:08lagataar, nirantar, uske baujood,
00:55:12aaj toh 2-2 baar Hindustan mein bharat varsh ke film industry ka record tuta,
00:55:18ki cabinet minister bana, full-fledged cabinet minister.
00:55:21Full-fledged, you are the first actor.
00:55:24First actor, first film personality.
00:55:26Film personality, jo full-fledged cabinet minister bana hai.
00:55:30Cabinet minister of health and family welfare and cabinet minister of shipping.
00:55:35Toh uske baujood, aaj tak kai baaton se aap meri sahmat hoon, sahmat na hoon,
00:55:40but yeh toh aap maanenge ki aaj tak aapne kabhi bhi, kisi bhi haal mein, kabhi bhi, kisi waqt,
00:55:46aapne mere khilaf koi corruption ka koi allegation nahi suna hoga, aaj tak kabhi bhi nahi suna hoga.
00:55:53Toh yeh toh fortunate hain hum, lucky hain hum kahenge, achha lagta hum koi sunke.
00:55:58Toh bhai zarur humara maana hai abhi bhi,
00:56:02hala ke ab toh bahut paise ki raajneeti hogi hai, kya kya nahi hora hai, kya kya kharche nahi hora
00:56:07hai, kya kya jaal saazi nahi hora hai, bahut kuch ho raha hai.
00:56:12Lekin uski mein aapko raasta nikalna hoga.
00:56:15Abhi achhe log nahi aayenge, toh phir burre log toh aate hi rahenge,
00:56:18jink ke baare hum keh raha hoon, jaal saazi jo karte chahiye, wo toh karte rahenge.
00:56:23Museebat hai, when going gets tough, the tough get going.
00:56:28Museebaton se paar wohi kar sakta hai, jiske andar museebaton ko jhelne ki shakti hoti hai,
00:56:33mujhe lagta tha, ki Ajani Kande, aise aur bahut saare humare dost hain,
00:56:39jink ke andar yeh shakti hai, ya shakti thi.
00:56:42Bairahal yeh unka apna choice hai, unke parivaar ka, unka, unke sehat ka, bahut saari baatein
00:56:49ho sakti hai, toh uspe mai kabhi koi tika tipni nahi karunga.
00:56:54Okay, aapki dosti with Amitabh Bachchan pehle se thi,
00:56:58matlab before both of you became such big stars, aur kaafi ups and downs hua hai na usme?
00:57:04Hota hai na, aap kahi bhi, koi bhi, aapki dosti ho kisi se, bahut achhi dosti ho,
00:57:09kaha na competition toh hota hi, ek competition me wajah ho jati hai,
00:57:13kuch humare hain so called fans ke wajah se, kuch competition me, kuch so called chamches
00:57:19bhi aaya jaate hain, chamcha giri jab hoti hain aapki aur unki kisi ki bhi,
00:57:23toh yeh sab ho jaa, but isko aap dil mein baan ke thodi rakhte hain, abhi ho gaya na,
00:57:28aapne, ab aapke andar thairav aata hai, aapke andar maturity aati hai, experience hota hai,
00:57:34jab wo tajurba hasil karte hain, seniority hoti hain, toh phir aap kahi cheezon ko nazar
00:57:39andar bhi karte hain, aur kahi cheezon jaisa aapne zor diya, bahut kuch seekte bhi hain,
00:57:45aur saath saath yeh kahi maar yeh bhi seekhte hain, what to do, aur saath saath yeh bhi seekhte
00:57:50hain, what not to do. What did you learn from Amitabh Bachchan? I have learned so many things,
00:57:55I have learned ki so dekhiye, room at the top, log kehte hain na ki bahut lonely hota aadmi,
00:58:04aisa log kehte hain Amitabh ke baare mein, halage mai jis Amitabh ko jaanta hu,
00:58:08uske andar bahuti flexibility hai, uske andar bahuti intelligence hai,
00:58:16bahuti intelligence se bhi jaada mein kohonga bahut intellectual insaan hai,
00:58:21aur unke andar jo bahut kam logon ko pata hai ki, ek child bhi dekhta hum unke andar,
00:58:27unke andar jo flare for comedy jo hai, kahi log samjhang nahin hai, bahut serious type ke
00:58:32aadmi, ab toh khaar kwan banega, crore o pati se kahi log jaanta honge, sense of humor hai,
00:58:39but sabse jaada sense of timing, Amitabh ki, Amitabh bahut sharp observer hai,
00:58:45wo observe karte hain logon ko, aur kahi baar unke andar khasi hai tha,
00:58:50wo observe karke iske copy bhi kar sakte hain, toh bahut achahi hain, bahut hain,
00:58:54bahut kuch hum log mein bahut cheezein milti bhi hain, common bhi hain, tabhi toh kya itne
00:59:00saalon ka hum log... So what did you not learn from him,
00:59:03aapne kaha na har cheeze se, what to do, what not to do?
00:59:08But Amitabh se kya, bahut logon se, Amitabh toh khaar, bahut senior aadmi hain hi,
00:59:12dost hain, purane hain, struggled hain ke sathi hain humare, aur unse ye bhi lagta hai,
00:59:20ki unse baanchi jab hoti hai, ki jis tarah se wo, jitne paas, utne door, ye cheezein se
00:59:30seekha hain, kar aapke saamne rehenge toh lagega bahut paas hain aapke,
00:59:35darasal wo bahut door rehte hain, unko itna aasani se, unko aaj ke din mein bhi,
00:59:41main nahin samatta hun, koi unko apna sahi maane mein jo dost ki paribhasha hoti hain,
00:59:48us paribhasha ke tehd koi unko dost kah sakega. Zaki humin iske koi shikarat nahin hai,
00:59:53theek hai, kyuki kayi baar unki jo dosti karne aate hain, chah chahate hain,
00:59:58jo naddi unke karibh aate hain, ho sakta unmein se bahuton mein swarth bhi ho,
01:00:06dosti karne ke peeche koi maqsad bhi ho, ki yeh wo nahin hota hai, ki hum log hasi mazaak ki,
01:00:11achha kal phir milte hain, par sab phir milte hain, usmein lagta hai ki mauke ki talaash bhi ho,
01:00:16aur Amitabh jaise logon ke saath aisa ho sakta hai, main apne ab isliye shamil nahin karna ho,
01:00:22ki ab main full-fledged politics mein hoon, toh politics mein kehne se kaam nahin chalega,
01:00:27ki ab milenge nahin, ab public figure hain, toh public mein toh abko milna hi padega.
01:00:31Milna hi hain, that's true. As a father, kyunki apne itna jo jhela hai,
01:00:36apne jhela hai, dekha hai, seekha hai, toh what is your advice to your sons,
01:00:44to love and push, unki career mein, unki zindagi mein, kya unko bolna chahenge, kya advice denge?
01:00:51Nahin, nahin, abhi main unko, main ek samay ke baad, they are very good boys,
01:01:00ek tarah toh mujhe bahut fakhar hota hai, ki aaj ke daur mein, jaha main anti-tobacco ki baat keh raha
01:01:07tha, chahe nasha ki baat keh raha tha, kisi kisam ka nasha, chahe wo drugs ki baat ho,
01:01:15toh usse toh koson, koson, milon, milon door hain bachche more.
01:01:20Dono, haan.
01:01:21Dono, total, sabwal hi nahin padha hota hai. Smoking, try bhi nahin, beer bhi nahin.
01:01:32Aisa nahin kar raha hoon, jo beer lete hain, jo champagne lete hain,
01:01:35main unki bharsna kar raha hoon, unki ninda kar raha hoon, nahin.
01:01:38Theek hai, unka apna nasariya hai, lekin sehat ke liye toh kharab hota hi hai.
01:01:44But I am not complaining about anyone, lekin is bhamre toh bahut fakhar hota hai,
01:01:49ki humare bachche gym jaate hain, apne ghar mein gym hai, yeh sab sehat ka khyaas khayaal lakte hain,
01:01:56sanskaar hain unke andar mein, hot talented hain, bade good looking hain, acche hain,
01:02:02aur uske baujood unke bhi pehar zameen pe hi hain.
01:02:06Kabhi aap nahin dekhte hoon, unkoi bodhi-bodhi party mein,
01:02:09koi aaj tak unke baare mein koi kaand nahin suna hoga, unkoi sab nahin karte hain.
01:02:14Ab unko yeh hai ki jis field mein jaana chahein, jahaan-jahaan kuchh kar raha hain,
01:02:18business mein kar raha hain, kush direction mein kar raha hain, abhi suna hain,
01:02:22doosri film mein shaloo karne waale hain.
01:02:24Toh unko kar rahein, wahaan pe accha hain, unko agar usmein humko koi zaroorat padegi,
01:02:28toh main hoon usmein.
01:02:29Main kabhi bhi, shuru se belief karta tha,
01:02:33jaise ek udhaaran durunga, yeh sari kahani ho jayegi.
01:02:37Athaara saal ke hua tha shahad.
01:02:40Bahut pehle toh kisi doost ke haan baitha hua tha.
01:02:44Athaara ke tha ya 25 ke tha, theek se yaad nahin hai.
01:02:47Hua tha kisi doost ke haan baitha hua tha.
01:02:50Toh wahaan pe unko, beer wagar offer kiya ho gaun,
01:02:55ab toh ab bacham hota hai, jab aap jawaan ho gaye toh.
01:02:58Chalo, celebrate, let's celebrate beer.
01:03:01Woh andar aaye, andar se phone kiya, ki kya karein?
01:03:06Yeh log beer dena chah rahein.
01:03:09So, beer, beer bol rahein, beer piyo.
01:03:12Kya karein?
01:03:14Yeh toh humne ka, tumne poochke hi humse bohot mahaan kaam kiya hai,
01:03:18ki mujhse pooch rahe ho tum, ki kya karein?
01:03:21Yeh tumhari badappan hai.
01:03:23Lekin, abhi is maamne mein mai kuch nahin kahunga.
01:03:27Tumhara apna dil kya kehta hai?
01:03:29Agar tumhara dil kehta hai, karna hai,
01:03:32toh ab main toh nahin rokh sakta hoon,
01:03:33because 25 saal ke ho gaye, yeh.
01:03:37Lekin haan, agar mujhse koi poochega,
01:03:39toh main toh anti-tobacco kehta hi hoon.
01:03:41Yeh aur agar nahin karoge, toh bohot achha rahega.
01:03:45Karte hain, jo aap kehna hai, nahin karoge,
01:03:47achha rahega, woh mera dil pehle hi kah raha tha.
01:03:49Tabhi toh aapko phone kiya tha humne.
01:03:51Aur nahin liya, nahin chola.
01:03:53Toh certain things, jo aaj ke zamane mein
01:03:55aapko bohot fakar feel karata hai, mehsoos karata hai,
01:03:59achha woh hai, bachon mein, yeh khasiyat hai.
01:04:02Ab baaki, kis ki kya kismat hai,
01:04:05kal kya hoga, aapke bache hoon,
01:04:07kisi ke bache hoon.
01:04:09Unko jitni koshi chalni, sincerity chalni hai,
01:04:12us sincerity ke raaste mein,
01:04:14agar koi archan aayegi,
01:04:16aur agar hum usko sort out kar sangega,
01:04:17toh kyu nahin, hum zarur karenge.
01:04:19Of course.
01:04:19As a father-friend or friend-father.
01:04:22But to keep frustration away,
01:04:24what do you tell them?
01:04:25How do you, matlab,
01:04:27aap kya unko bolte hain,
01:04:29kya advice dete hain,
01:04:30so that they don't get frustrated?
01:04:32Follow three C's.
01:04:34Three C's.
01:04:36Cool, calm and composed.
01:04:38Achha, okay, very good.
01:04:41Yeh teen C follow karo, koi baat nahin.
01:04:43Were you cool, calm, composed,
01:04:45when Sonakshi got married?
01:04:49Aap toh aayi thi shadi mein.
01:04:50Main aayi thi and I thought,
01:04:51she made the most radiant bride.
01:04:54Maine itni khush,
01:04:56such a happy bride,
01:04:57maine bohot kam dekha hai.
01:04:59Radiant bride dekha,
01:05:01khush dekha,
01:05:02khubsurat dekha,
01:05:04bohot hi khush thi
01:05:05and I was so happy to see her glowing.
01:05:07She was absolutely glowing
01:05:09and I think thoda sa,
01:05:10it was also because
01:05:11you were there to support her.
01:05:13Of course, kyu nahin karunga?
01:05:14Yeah.
01:05:15Bhai aap seedhi baat hai,
01:05:19shadi kiski hai?
01:05:20Bachon ki hai.
01:05:22Kiski zindagi hai?
01:05:23Bachon ki zindagi hai?
01:05:25Toh jab zindagi unki hai,
01:05:28shadi unki hai,
01:05:30toh main kaun hoon toh
01:05:31aap beech mein aane wala?
01:05:32Arre bhai,
01:05:33yehi toh aapne kaha hai,
01:05:34baar apur de life mein
01:05:35kya seekha ho,
01:05:36kya nahin seekha?
01:05:37Yehi tumne seekha hai,
01:05:38yehi nahin seekha hai,
01:05:40arre hum toh hai aise hai
01:05:43aur aisa kaise hai.
01:05:44Kyu bhai?
01:05:45Mian bibi razi,
01:05:46toh kya karega qazi?
01:05:48Unki shadi hai,
01:05:49unki zindagi hai
01:05:51aur uspe toh aap,
01:05:52aap as a father,
01:05:53mother,
01:05:55aapka farz banta ho,
01:05:56khaas ka as a father,
01:05:58and uski maturity hai,
01:06:00seniority hai,
01:06:01ki experience hai,
01:06:03hum amesha saath rahe hai
01:06:04aur father ka toh aise bhi,
01:06:06abhi humne ladies ke baare,
01:06:08mahilaon ke baare,
01:06:09betiye ke baare mein
01:06:10kaha empowerment ka zamana hai,
01:06:12usse mein agar aap
01:06:13katam uthate hain,
01:06:13achha kaam kar rahe hain,
01:06:15shadi kar koi ghair
01:06:16kaanuni kaam toh nahin kar rahe hain na,
01:06:18ya ghair samvidhanik
01:06:19kaam toh nahin kar rahe hain na,
01:06:21aap samvidhan ke andar
01:06:22baat kar rahe hain,
01:06:23aap kaanun ke daare
01:06:24mein kaam kar rahe hain,
01:06:26agar kaanun ke daare
01:06:27mein nahin hota,
01:06:27toh shahada mana bhi karte,
01:06:29but yeh toh nahin hai,
01:06:30yeh toh aapka...
01:06:31But mujhe amesha se malum tha
01:06:33ki aapka reaction
01:06:34yehi hoga.
01:06:36Because knowing you,
01:06:37I knew ki jis din
01:06:38Sharan Akshay aapko
01:06:39aapke Huzahir ke baare mein
01:06:41bataegi,
01:06:41kyunki hum log ko malum tha,
01:06:42saath saal se jo
01:06:43friendship chal rahe the,
01:06:45hum sabko malum tha,
01:06:46lekin mujhe ye bhi malum tha,
01:06:47ki jis din
01:06:48wo aapke aapse baat karege,
01:06:51aap objection nahin lenge,
01:06:53you will support her.
01:06:54Mujhe amesha se malum tha.
01:06:56Bilkul support kya,
01:06:57matne itni de...
01:06:58Always be supporter.
01:06:59Poore party mein sabse mil raha tha,
01:07:00sabka saagat kar raha tha,
01:07:01toh bhi tarah,
01:07:02bahut khushi ho rahi the mujhe,
01:07:04aur dono ko maine dekha bhi,
01:07:06Sharan Akshay, Huzahir dono,
01:07:07bilkul made for each other
01:07:09couple lag rahe the,
01:07:09bahut badiya lag rahe the dono,
01:07:11abhi kaana,
01:07:12glow kar rahe the,
01:07:12katne khumsurat...
01:07:13She was looking lovely.
01:07:14Sib wohi khumsurat
01:07:15Kapoli bahut khumsurat dekha raha tha.
01:07:18Baaki toh atmosphere ghazab hai.
01:07:21Arrangements were super.
01:07:23Did you feel a little bad,
01:07:25that your sons did not support her?
01:07:28Is topic pe phir baad de baat karege.
01:07:33Because it would have been nice
01:07:34khushi doi ke topic nahin,
01:07:36agar full family was there.
01:07:36Usmein main koi shikayat nahin kar raha ho,
01:07:38kisi ki,
01:07:38wo bhi ek reaction hota hai.
01:07:40Dekho,
01:07:41insaan hai,
01:07:42bachon ko ek
01:07:43cultural shock hota hai kehi ho pe.
01:07:45Hota hai na.
01:07:46Abhi unka andar shayad
01:07:47utni maturity nahin hogi,
01:07:49jinn logon ne aisa kaha hoga.
01:07:51Lekin hum se aisa,
01:07:54main,
01:07:56jitna,
01:07:58main unke bhi dard ko,
01:08:00ya unke bhi confusion ko,
01:08:01ya unke bhi,
01:08:03isko,
01:08:05parashani ko samajh sakta ho,
01:08:06ki achanak jo hai,
01:08:07unke dos pooste ho,
01:08:09You're seeing it from their point of view.
01:08:11Haan,
01:08:11ho sakta,
01:08:12shayad main bhi usse age mein raha tha,
01:08:14toh shayad mere sochane ka ravaiya kuch aur hota.
01:08:17Ab toh,
01:08:18understanding hai,
01:08:19maturity hai,
01:08:20seniority hai,
01:08:21I've learned in life so many things.
01:08:23So much.
01:08:24Toh isliye aisab cheez se,
01:08:26humne bahut achche se
01:08:27aashirvaad diya.
01:08:28That's right.
01:08:29Like a stump main saamne raha.
01:08:31Yes.
01:08:31Aur abhi bhi,
01:08:32you know,
01:08:32bilkul.
01:08:33One last question.
01:08:34Since we keep learning from everything,
01:08:372024 mein aapne kya seekha
01:08:40aur 2025 mein aap kya,
01:08:43kya umeed rakhte hain aap 2025?
01:08:46Nahi,
01:08:462025 mein,
01:08:492024 mein kya seekha,
01:08:51abhi toh analyse karunga baad mein,
01:08:53lekin haan,
01:08:55seekha.
01:08:56You became a father-in-law again.
01:08:58Father-in-law ho gaye.
01:09:00You got a damad for the first time.
01:09:05Jo aap bolte the ki,
01:09:06mujhe ghar damad chahiye,
01:09:08wo nahi hua.
01:09:09Nahi hua.
01:09:10Haan, haan, haan.
01:09:11Wo toh main shuru mein kehta tha.
01:09:13Kehte the aap,
01:09:14ki ghar jamay chahiye.
01:09:16Hum,
01:09:16main kahi logon ke example bhi diya tha,
01:09:18Sharad Pawar ka.
01:09:18Sharad Pawar ka aap bhi diya tha,
01:09:20correct.
01:09:20Acha,
01:09:22kyunki,
01:09:22you have been so attached to the daughter,
01:09:24especially,
01:09:26mere baare mein,
01:09:26toh duniya ko pata hai ki,
01:09:27hum bahut hi zyada
01:09:29Sonakshi se attached rahe hain.
01:09:32Isi liye keh raha tha,
01:09:33Sonakshi se itne attached rahe hain,
01:09:35itne attached rahe hain,
01:09:37ki agar main uska saath nahi deta,
01:09:39uske is crucial moment mein,
01:09:42decision mein,
01:09:43toh aur kaun deta.
01:09:44Yeh toh mera ekdum farz tha,
01:09:47kartab kya,
01:09:47rashtriya kartab mein tha mera,
01:09:49parivari kartab mein tha mera.
01:09:50Correct, correct.
01:09:51And you were also happy this year that you saw,
01:09:54Heera Mandi,
01:09:55she did a very good job.
01:09:56Fantastic.
01:09:57Aapne,
01:09:58you did you watch Heera Mandi?
01:09:59Poori.
01:10:00Acha,
01:10:00okay.
01:10:01Poori lagata.
01:10:02Kyunki aapme itni yeh nahi hain,
01:10:03ki aap poora web show dekhi.
01:10:05Ek din main nahi dekhi.
01:10:06Aapne hi dekhta,
01:10:07mujhe malum hai.
01:10:07Aapne ladh rahi thi,
01:10:09jagad rahi thi,
01:10:09kaise nahi dekha.
01:10:11Aapne dekhta,
01:10:11hum dekha.
01:10:12Doh teen din main dekhi usko,
01:10:13yeh kar kar dekhni thi na.
01:10:15Lekin main abhi bhi kahunga,
01:10:17mujhe Sonakshi ki sabse badiya film lagayi,
01:10:20band mein zyada film mein nahi dekhi uski.
01:10:23Wo lagayi thi,
01:10:23Lutera.
01:10:24Acha,
01:10:25abhi dekha.
01:10:25Out of the world,
01:10:26what a film that was.
01:10:28I wish you had seen Dahar,
01:10:29aapne dekhe.
01:10:30Aur haan,
01:10:31She was very good in Dahar also.
01:10:32Very good in Dahar,
01:10:33boh acha.
01:10:34Wo role hai aisa tha ki,
01:10:37wo tailor made for Sonakshi.
01:10:38Absolutely,
01:10:39wo aur uske baal Heeramand.
01:10:40Heeramand,
01:10:41yes.
01:10:42Kya shades hai,
01:10:43kya iske role ki flexibility thi.
01:10:45You know,
01:10:45she is drum scream personality,
01:10:47you know.
01:10:48She's got that same thing that you've got.
01:10:50Ek aur cheez hai,
01:10:51jo kam logon na notice kiya hoga,
01:10:53Sonakshi mein sense of humour bhi bahut badiya hai.
01:10:57Sonakshi has always been the apple of your eye.
01:11:01Hamesha.
01:11:02Aur jab choti thi,
01:11:04birthday party ka jab,
01:11:06Lehre mein unka reel bani thi,
01:11:08tab also you were there with her.
01:11:10Toh,
01:11:12how do you feel about,
01:11:13you know,
01:11:13you have a long association with Lehre also.
01:11:17Oh yes,
01:11:17oh yes.
01:11:18Sonakshi,
01:11:19of course.
01:11:19Lehre ke paath humare bahut badiya,
01:11:21badiya episodes hain.
01:11:23Aane,
01:11:24jab main Sanjay Dutt ko,
01:11:25Bala sahib Thakre se milane le gaya tha,
01:11:28wo bhi hai.
01:11:29Aur,
01:11:30bahut saare,
01:11:31aur,
01:11:32humare birthday ke bhi hain,
01:11:34Vijay Sinha ke film Ran Bhoomi ban rahi thi,
01:11:37usme hum log tha,
01:11:38wo,
01:11:39Sonakshi ke birthday ki,
01:11:41yaa Love Kush ke birthday ki,
01:11:42toh,
01:11:43teeno birthday toh,
01:11:44ek hi hafta mein hai na,
01:11:45June mein,
01:11:46first week mein.
01:11:47That's right.
01:11:48Toh,
01:11:48Sonakshi toh apple thi,
01:11:50toh,
01:11:51uska birthday mein,
01:11:53duniya mein kahin rahta,
01:11:54kahin bhi ho,
01:11:56lekar uska birthday mein aajaata tha yahan bhai.
01:11:58Correct.
01:11:58Kahin,
01:11:59kitna busy ro.
01:12:00Toh aake,
01:12:02uske sahafi,
01:12:02Sun and Sand mein,
01:12:03usko swimming karana le jaata tha main,
01:12:06hotel mein,
01:12:07andar paisa,
01:12:08sikka daalta tha,
01:12:09sikka jaake,
01:12:09tayar ke nikal ke lati thi.
01:12:10Nikal ke nikal ke leti aap.
01:12:11Haan.
01:12:12Toh birthday mein yahan toh,
01:12:14wo,
01:12:14kabhi nahi bolte thi mera birthday,
01:12:16bolte thi mera happy birthday.
01:12:18Mera happy birthday,
01:12:19uska happy birthday yahaan pe.
01:12:20Aur,
01:12:21aapko best test daddy bolte thi.
01:12:23Best test.
01:12:24Aur,
01:12:24toh aur,
01:12:25aur teen cheez,
01:12:26wo bhi mana karti thi.
01:12:27Shahrukh,
01:12:28aap bhi sun liye,
01:12:28aapke ghar mein bhi,
01:12:29bachche shal,
01:12:29bolte honge.
01:12:31Ek toh kehti thi,
01:12:33ladki se baat nahi karne ka.
01:12:35Doosra,
01:12:36beer nahi pinne ka,
01:12:37drink ko beer samjhati.
01:12:39Beer nahi pinne ka.
01:12:41Aur,
01:12:41teesra,
01:12:43cigarette nahi pinne ka.
01:12:45Kab bhi,
01:12:45isli,
01:12:46jo aapko,
01:12:46aapne kaha ki,
01:12:47kisi ne kaha aapko,
01:12:48ki beti,
01:12:50hogi aur,
01:12:50chhodna pada.
01:12:51Ranbir.
01:12:52Ranbir ka aapne zikar kiya.
01:12:54Mere andar bhi yeh bhavna thi.
01:12:56Yaar,
01:12:57main apne bachche ko,
01:12:58kal kaise kaunga,
01:12:59ki,
01:13:00aap cigarette mat piyo,
01:13:01chahat,
01:13:02tobacco ka istamaal mat karo,
01:13:03jo main khud hi leh raha hoon toh.
01:13:05Toh mere diyaag ke andar hi aa raha tha,
01:13:07kaise chhodna hai,
01:13:08nahi chhodna hai.
01:13:09Unke saamne toh,
01:13:10main kabhi himmat hi nahi karta tha,
01:13:12jab ek aad,
01:13:12do chaar baad lee bhi ho,
01:13:14himmat nahi,
01:13:15aur phir karte karte,
01:13:16main ek din,
01:13:17chhodi diya.
01:13:17Chhodi diya?
01:13:18Haan, bilkut.
01:13:19Lekin yeh,
01:13:21Sonakshi jo hai,
01:13:23wo toh,
01:13:23aap ladki se baat nahi,
01:13:24ladki ka matlob,
01:13:25jo badi mushkil se banaya tha,
01:13:26ki maa se baat kar sakta hoon,
01:13:28pehle ke,
01:13:29mummy se baat nahi karna.
01:13:30Acha,
01:13:30so,
01:13:31possessive of you.
01:13:31Jaise aap baitha hoon,
01:13:32jaise main haan baitha hoon,
01:13:33very possessive.
01:13:35Main baitha hoon,
01:13:35toh kaise,
01:13:36nahi,
01:13:37aur haan,
01:13:37mummy aankar baith gai,
01:13:39toh kaise,
01:13:39yeh haan se hath hoon,
01:13:41yeh papa ka.
01:13:42Acha?
01:13:42Yeh papa ka,
01:13:43yahan koi nahi baith sakta hain.
01:13:44Wow.
01:13:44Ladki,
01:13:46kis ladki se baat karoon,
01:13:47main pootta tha,
01:13:47sohna kiske hoon,
01:13:48toh kis ladki se baat karoon,
01:13:50kehti,
01:13:50sirf mush se.
01:13:51Oh,
01:13:52how sweet,
01:13:53how sweet.
01:13:53Okay.
01:13:55Thank God.
01:13:55Aur aap 25 ki kya ummeed rakhte hain?
01:13:5825 ka?
01:13:59Ji.
01:14:01In terms of,
01:14:01dekhiye,
01:14:02aap jab development ki baat karte ho,
01:14:05toh definitely,
01:14:06hum apne mulk ko
01:14:07bahut aage baddha hoon dekh rahe hain.
01:14:09Okay.
01:14:09Bahut aage baddha hoon dekh rahe hain.
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12Mujhe lagta hai,
01:14:14ki gareebi se lehke science uska izafa hona chahiye,
01:14:21kam hoga,
01:14:22science and technology ke maamlein
01:14:23bahut development hoga,
01:14:26space technology ke maamlein hoga,
01:14:28economy ke maamlein hona chahiye,
01:14:30hona chahiye bahut,
01:14:31aur hoga.
01:14:32Correct.
01:14:32Aur hum toh aise bhi
01:14:33ashaabadi hain,
01:14:34positive hain,
01:14:35hum toh yehi ummeed rakhte hain,
01:14:37aur saath hi saath,
01:14:38yeh bhi ummeed rakhte hain,
01:14:40yeh bhi ummeed rakhte hain,
01:14:41ki yeh jo bhi,
01:14:43berojgaari hain,
01:14:45mehngaari hain,
01:14:45yeh sab cheeze jo hain,
01:14:47aur dollars ka daam jo
01:14:48asmaan ko chhura hain,
01:14:51rupiah itna gir raha hai niche,
01:14:53yeh sab purane vaide the,
01:14:55politicians apne vaide ko
01:14:57pura kar paayenge,
01:14:58aur pura kar,
01:14:59politicians apne vaide ko
01:15:00pura kar paayenge,
01:15:01aur pura karne ke
01:15:03nardik laa paayenge,
01:15:05yeh hum ummeed karte hain,
01:15:06kyonki politicians ke maamlein
01:15:07mein toh hummisha kahte hain,
01:15:10zyadaatar politicians,
01:15:12ki upar Dushyant Kumar ki yeh
01:15:14shayar bilkul fit aur hit
01:15:16baithta hai,
01:15:17ki chunaon se pehle
01:15:19badi badi baatein,
01:15:20badi badi daavein,
01:15:20badi badi vaidein,
01:15:22kahan toh taytha chiragaan,
01:15:25har ek ghar ke liye,
01:15:27chunaon se pehle
01:15:28daava karenge,
01:15:29vaida karenge,
01:15:30kahan toh taytha chiragaan,
01:15:33har ek ghar ke liye,
01:15:35aur ek baar chunaon
01:15:36khatam uske baad,
01:15:37kahan chiragaan
01:15:39mayasar nahi
01:15:40shayar ke liye,
01:15:41phir sab andhera mein,
01:15:43aisa na ho,
01:15:44yehi kaamna,
01:15:45shukkaamna,
01:15:46manukaamna hain,
01:15:48aur hamara aur
01:15:49aapka poore desh ka bhavishya
01:15:50aur ujwal ho.
01:15:53Thank you so much.
01:15:54Thank you Bharatiya.
01:15:55Wonderful you are.
01:15:57Very nice of you.