Aired (November 30, 2024): Ibinahagi ng accountant breadwinner na si April ang hirap at pagsubok na kanyang hinaharap bilang mag-isang tumataguyod sa kanyang sampung kapatid at sa kanyang mga magulang. #GMANetwork
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00:00This is our real breadwinner accountant. Let's invite her in the middle.
00:05This is April Conde.
00:08April, you're the breadwinner accountant.
00:12Yes.
00:12How long have you been an accountant?
00:145 years.
00:165 years. How long have you been a breadwinner?
00:195 years as well.
00:205 years as well.
00:21Yes.
00:22How many years do you live?
00:24I have 11 siblings. I have 10 siblings and my parents.
00:31Are you the eldest?
00:32Yes, I'm the eldest.
00:34You have 10 siblings and your parents.
00:37Isn't it hard for you, April?
00:39It's hard, but I have to endure it.
00:43What are your parents doing now?
00:45Now, they're selling bottles.
00:50Every time I give them money, I give them the money to pay for the house.
00:56Then, I get the money to pay for the house.
01:02You have 11 siblings.
01:04Yes.
01:05All of them are studying.
01:06The youngest is at home.
01:10He's not studying?
01:11No.
01:11How old is he?
01:124 years old.
01:15What's the hardest thing you've been through as a breadwinner?
01:19When my mother gave birth to our son, it was during the pandemic.
01:24We found out that he was born 7 months ago.
01:29We had no idea that he was born when there was a flood in Chania.
01:35It was during the pandemic, so it was hard for us to get a check-up.
01:37Who was the one that flooded in Chania?
01:39That's so mean.
01:40Why would you hit your mother's baby?
01:42No, it was moving.
01:43Try hitting your mother's baby if you know that one of us will fall.
01:48Okay, I'll make sure of it.
01:49Who was the one that hit your mother's baby?
01:51The baby?
01:51Yes, the baby.
01:52He didn't know that he was pregnant.
01:54So, he hit your mother's baby?
01:56Yes.
01:58Because of the pandemic, my mother was in a difficult situation.
02:04So, we prepared an OB-GYN for her.
02:08If she's normal, she might bleed.
02:13So, when she gave birth, we prepared a blood bag just in case.
02:19And it's expensive, right?
02:21Yes.
02:23So, you'll be the one to answer that question, right?
02:25Yes.
02:27But what happened was that I didn't have any savings.
02:29So, what I did was to borrow money from my co-workers.
02:33I also tried to borrow money from other families.
02:37Just to make sure that we have something to hold on to when she gave birth.
02:39But didn't the OB-GYN find out about your situation?
02:43And they offered you something?
02:45Yes.
02:47The OB-GYN found out that we were in a difficult situation
02:49and that we were siblings.
02:51I don't know if we were willing or not.
02:53Or if we wanted to adopt my sibling.
02:55But my parents decided that I should be the one who has a job.
03:01If I can afford to have another child at home.
03:07But, of course, as the eldest child,
03:09I don't want to be separated from my sibling.
03:11So, I chose to not have her adopted.
03:13Even if it's difficult.
03:15So, you decided not to have the child adopted?
03:17Yes.
03:19So, the child is still yours.
03:21Yes.
03:23Because the OB-GYN was out of concern.
03:25Yes.
03:27Because the OB-GYN was out of concern.
03:29Because the OB-GYN was out of concern.
03:31Because she knows that you are already 10 siblings.
03:33So, what will happen to the child?
03:35So,
03:37when your mother got pregnant,
03:39you were already a breadwinner.
03:41Yes, I was already a breadwinner.
03:43Were you not angry?
03:45Were you not angry?
03:47Did you talk to her?
03:49Or did you just cry?
03:51At first,
03:53I felt bad.
03:55Because we didn't have money.
03:57We were already 10 siblings.
03:59Then, another sibling was added.
04:01It was difficult.
04:03I was not able to control myself.
04:05I was not able to control myself.
04:07You were not able to do anything.
04:09You just had to accept it.
04:11Yes.
04:13Do you have a boyfriend now?
04:15Yes, I do.
04:17Do you still feel happy sometimes?
04:19Do you still feel happy sometimes?
04:21Yes, I do.
04:23He is always there to listen to me.
04:25Yes, I do.
04:27He is always there to listen to me.
04:29He is always there to listen to you.
04:31He is always there to listen to you.
04:33He is always there to listen to you.
04:35Yes.
04:37How are your plans?
04:39Did you choose a partner for your family?
04:41Do they have a say?
04:43Some people, especially breadwinners,
04:45have a say.
04:47Some people have a say.
04:49Some people have a say.
04:51Some people have a say.
04:53What about you?
04:55They told me that
04:57I should finish my studies
05:00before I get married.
05:02How old are your siblings?
05:04They told me that
05:06I should finish my studies
05:08before I get married.
05:10They told me that
05:12I should finish my studies
05:14before I get married.
05:16They told me that
05:18I should finish my studies
05:20before I get married.
05:22It's hard.
05:24Even though I don't know you,
05:26I hear your story.
05:28Why you?
05:30Why him?
05:32Why him?
05:34Why him?
05:36It's painful.
05:38It's hard.
05:40I don't know your parents.
05:42I don't judge them.
05:44But I can't stop thinking
05:46Why did you do that?
05:48Why did you do that?
05:50Why did you do that?
05:52Why did you do that?
05:54Why did you do that?
05:56Why did you do that?
05:58Why did you do that?
06:00Why did you do that?
06:02Why did you do that?
06:04Why did you do that?
06:06Why did you do that?
06:08Why did you do that?
06:10Why did you do that?
06:12Why did you do that?
06:14Why did you do that?
06:16Why did you do that?
06:18Why did you do that?
06:20Why did you do that?
06:22Why did you do that?
06:24I don't have a lot of money.
06:26I thought I have a lot of money.
06:28I thought I have a lot of money.
06:30That's what I was saying earlier.
06:32Because sometimes, we are used to it.
06:34Right?
06:36I'm not blaming you.
06:38But
06:40let's not blame the people
06:42who are abusing us.
06:44I'm not saying
06:46that you are abusing
06:48and you can judge that for yourselves.
06:50He was the one who answered earlier.
06:52They are always like that, right?
06:54Yes, and you also need to be hurt.
06:56Right?
06:58Because sometimes, you won't know
07:00if you are being hurt if you are not being hurt.
07:02Do you sometimes complain?
07:04I do complain.
07:06For example,
07:08if I chat with my sister,
07:10and I don't have money.
07:12But later, I will chat with my brother
07:14and ask him if he has enough money to buy food.
07:16And he will say no.
07:18So, I will still send money.
07:20When my brother is hungry,
07:22he will cry.
07:24Of course, you won't be able to stand
07:26your siblings.
07:28You won't be able to stand it.
07:30When you grow up,
07:32even though we are old,
07:34sometimes, we don't understand each other.
07:36Right?
07:38Sometimes, we get angry
07:40and I won't notice it.
07:42But in your heart,
07:44you will be crushed.
07:46That's what breadwinners are like.
07:49You will give it to others.
07:51So that they will be the first.
07:53But in other breadwinners,
07:55you will try to suck it first.
07:57Because it might get stuck.
07:59Because it's hot.
08:01You will try to suck it.
08:03Because it's cold.
08:05I read something in your profile
08:07about your hair.
08:09She greened her hair.
08:11I was hurt for her.
08:13So, I asked her,
08:15what's the story about her greening her hair?
08:17It was supposed to be my birthday last April.
08:19But I thought about it for a month.
08:21And I made sure
08:23that I have extra money.
08:25That's why I got it done in May.
08:27But when I got home,
08:29they told me,
08:31you're so rich.
08:33They thought I had a lot of money.
08:35So, I asked them to buy me rice.
08:37I gave them what I made in my head.
08:41Whatever it is,
08:43you deserve to be colored.
08:45You deserve to do it for yourself.
08:47Sometimes,
08:49when you give something to yourself,
08:51you think, wow, you have a lot of money.
08:53Yes.
08:55Sometimes, you think,
08:57we don't have anything to eat.
08:59Once in a while,
09:01you have to give it to yourself.
09:03You deserve it.
09:05Especially if you're the one working
09:07to color your hair.
09:09You deserve it.
09:11I'm happy
09:13because now,
09:15you're able to find your voice.
09:17You're able to say
09:19what you want to say.
09:21You're able to let it out.
09:23Because if they don't know
09:25and they're used to it,
09:27your heart might be full
09:29and you might explode.
09:31And if you explode,
09:33you might be destroyed.
09:35That's what we don't want.
09:37If someone is the breadwinner,
09:39you shouldn't depend on them.
09:41That's why we have to make sure
09:43you're not destroyed.
09:45You should be protected.
09:47That's true.
09:49You should be taken care of.
09:51You should be protected.
09:53And to the other members of the family,
09:55we say it's easy to give.
09:57We should learn to fish.
09:59We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:01that we give.
10:03That's our dream
10:05for the whole family.
10:07We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:09that we give.
10:11We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:13that we give.
10:15We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:17that we give.
10:19We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:21that we give.
10:23We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:25that we give.
10:27We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:29that we give.
10:31We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:33that we give.
10:36We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:38that we give.
10:40We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:42that we give.
10:44We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:46that we give.
10:48We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:50that we give.
10:52We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:54that we give.
10:56We shouldn't depend on the fish
10:58that we give.
11:00We shouldn't depend on the fish
11:02that we give.
11:04I'm trying to make it colorful.
11:06Because it's her birthday.
11:08Wow, you're rich.
11:10You know, many of us
11:12are not conscious
11:14when it comes to that.
11:16Even me,
11:18I admit that sometimes
11:20I say bad things about my partner.
11:22But it's hard
11:24when we're used to
11:26always criticizing other people.
11:28I hope we learn to appreciate them
11:30and see the good in them.
11:32Even in parenting,
11:34I think it's a good advice.
11:36When you're a kid,
11:38you always tell them
11:40what they're doing wrong.
11:42That's what they'll think
11:44is wrong forever.
11:46But if you show them
11:48what they're doing wrong,
11:50if you appreciate them,
11:52if you uplift them,
11:54your child's future will be better.
11:56But you can also say
11:58what they're doing wrong
12:00I'm a breadwinner.
12:02I need to make them feel better.
12:04But knowing the breadwinners,
12:06they won't say anything.
12:08They'll just nod their heads
12:10because they don't want any trouble.
12:12They don't want any noise.
12:14They'll just lie down.
12:16That's why they buy alcohol
12:18so they can sleep.
12:20Right?
12:22We love you.
12:24We appreciate you, April.
12:26But the good news is
12:28we have a chance
12:30to make it up to you.
12:32We all say we can do something
12:34and when we don't want to,
12:36we'll make it up to you.
12:38As long as we have a chance.
12:40Let's not waste our time
12:42to make our wounds bigger,
12:44to make our bones deeper.
12:46We'll make it up to you.
12:48We'll make it up to you.
12:50We're doing this
12:52not just to honor you,
12:54but to help
12:56your thoughts
12:58and ease
13:00even a little bit
13:02of your worries.
13:04There's one more thing.
13:06Her hair is damaged.
13:08Doesn't she get her hair done
13:10and it always falls?
13:12It's loose when I brush it.
13:14Let me see.
13:16It's loose.
13:18So she doesn't have to worry about that.
13:20You know,
13:22the effect of hair and teeth
13:24is a big deal.
13:26Speaking of teeth,
13:28Doc RFD corrected me earlier.
13:30I was wrong.
13:32I was enjoying it.
13:34I said,
13:36the complete set of teeth is 36,
13:38but it's only 32.
13:40Our friend from Urban Smile,
13:42Doc Ralph de las Alas,
13:44is here.
13:46We'll fix her teeth.
13:48You won't have to spend anything.
13:50You'll just lie down
13:53and we'll let you sleep for 30 days.
13:55No way!
13:57She'll work!
13:59She's a breadwinner!
14:01Doc Ralph is a breadwinner.
14:03He does a lot of things.
14:05Doc Ralph,
14:07let's fix her teeth.
14:09You're the only one who doesn't know.
14:11Yes,
14:13if there's anything that can make her happy,
14:15if she needs dental implants
14:17so that her teeth can be permanent,
14:19we'll give it to her.
14:21It's hard for her to afford it.
14:23We'll give it to her for free.
14:25Wow, she's rich!
14:27We'll also give her a business card.
14:29They'll give you everything
14:31online.
14:33You'll make a quintessence.
14:35You'll make Buddha beads.
14:37Thank you very much,
14:39Doc Ralph de las Alas.
14:41And that's not all,
14:43April, you deserve
14:45the glow-up.
14:47We have a glow-up package
14:49from Idara Aesthetics
14:51worth 30,000 Pesos.
14:55Take care of yourself.
14:57You don't have to spend anything.
14:59You deserve to be fresh
15:01so that you can be happy.
15:03And not only that,
15:05anytime you want to change your hair,
15:07freshen it up,
15:09do it.
15:11You won't have to spend anything
15:13because you have hair services
15:15from Sir Warren of Island Cot Incarnation Group of Salons.
15:17Worth 10,000 Pesos
15:19hair services.
15:21Do you want to get bald
15:23and they'll plant it again?
15:25Not really.
15:27You'll also buy clothes.
15:29We already bought you clothes.
15:31We have clothing apparel,
15:33shoes, pants, socks,
15:35worth 15,000 Pesos.
15:37You can use them.
15:39Where will she put her clothes?
15:41Because they're 13
15:43at home, right?
15:45She'll sleep next to the door.
15:47That's why she won't have a bag
15:49even if it's her shoes.
15:51We'll also give you a cabinet.
15:53You'll have your own cabinet
15:55and drawer.
15:57And to make sure that Christmas is happy,
15:59there's a Panoche Buena package
16:01and grocery package worth
16:0310,000 Pesos.
16:07Yesterday, we talked to the family
16:09and I told them to enjoy themselves.
16:11They're going to
16:13the comedy club
16:15with the whole family.
16:17You should enjoy yourself.
16:19Go to Enchanted Kingdom.
16:21The whole family,
16:23go there.
16:25Let's remove the number of tickets
16:27because they might not be able to join us.
16:29They might fight.
16:31The whole family,
16:33go with your neighbors.
16:35Your partner,
16:37go with your partner.
16:39Actually, you should go there tomorrow
16:42to celebrate Christmas.
16:46What else do you want?
16:50Do you want to go on a date with your partner?
16:52What's your anniversary?
16:54May 15.
16:56Make it December 15.
17:00I'll give you 10,000 Pesos.
17:02What do you want to do there?
17:04Eat, watch a movie,
17:06go on a date.
17:08If you want to share it with your family, it's up to you.
17:10Make sure to give something for yourself.
17:14I'll give you 10,000 Pesos.
17:16Give him 10,000 Pesos.
17:18Let's give him 20,000 Pesos.
17:20Darryl, give him 10,000 Pesos.
17:22How much?
17:2410,000 Pesos.
17:26They have a lot of family members.
17:28Give Darryl 20,000 Pesos.
17:30It's embarrassing.
17:32We're the ending.
17:34I'll give him 10,000 Pesos.
17:36He's giving it to me.
17:38I'll give him 5,000 Pesos.
17:4245,000 Pesos.
17:46He's going to give me 50,000 Pesos.
17:48He's going to give me 50,000 Pesos.
17:50He's going to give me 50,000 Pesos.
17:52It's not up to you.
17:54It's up to you.
17:56Give me my suitcase.
18:00He wants his siblings to be happy.
18:02Do you want something?
18:06I have some bread.
18:08He has some bread.
18:10This is a complete gift for the family.
18:12Do you want to give it to someone?
18:14Yes.
18:16Boss.
18:185,000 Pesos.
18:205,000 Pesos.
18:22I'll give him 10,000 Pesos.
18:245,000 Pesos.
18:26He's giving me a lot of money.
18:30He's giving me a lot of money.
18:32He's going to Japan.
18:34He's giving me 10,000 Pesos.
18:365,000 Pesos.
18:38How much is that?
18:40How much is it?
18:42How much is it?
18:44He's giving me 30,000 Pesos.
18:46He didn't say 3,000.
18:48He didn't say that.
18:50He said he only saw 0.
18:5230,000 Pesos.
18:54Make sure you make your Christmas happy.
18:56Make sure you make your Christmas happy.
18:58How much is it?
19:00He's giving me 100,000 Pesos.
19:02I can't believe you gave the previous up!
19:04He's giving me 100,000 Pesos.
19:06Who is always happy?
19:08You are 100,000 Pesos more.
19:10You are 100,000 Pesos more.
19:12You are always happy.
19:16Thank you..
19:20What would you like to say?
19:22Thank you for everything you've given to us.
19:24We gave everything for free,
19:26for the bus fare.
19:28I can't afford to pay for our house
19:30so that it can be finished
19:32because I only need to pay for it for 5 months
19:34then the rest
19:36is for my family
19:38this Christmas
19:40Thank you so much
19:42105,000
19:44And please promise me
19:46that you will love yourself
19:48Love yourself
19:50Take care of yourself
19:52We're rooting for you
19:54Give justice to yourself
19:56The winning cash of April
19:58is 105,000 Pesos
20:00I told you
20:02I only need 100,000 Pesos
20:04I thought 5,000 Pesos is a lot
20:06That's why
20:08Thank you so much
20:10Hashtag Games of Life
20:12Daryl said that there are a lot of people
20:14who will give 10,000 Pesos
20:16It's okay
20:18It happens
20:20Our breadwinner
20:22April Conde
20:26April Conde