“If something irritates me, I can’t keep it within me.” When Vidya Balan spilled the beans on her playful squabbles with hubby Siddharth Roy Kapur.
📹: Raj Shamani
📹: Raj Shamani
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00:00he walked in the rain went and picked up that cup of coffee
00:03as he was walking away from me i said i'm home
00:07i must have been needy and clingy that day and but he was i think just thrown
00:12by he said the sunset was beautiful that triggered me
00:16even more i said what do you mean
00:20he took a picture of the sunset and he didn't take my picture
00:36do you guys fight? of course. on what? what are your fights about? i have to say
00:43that we fight much less now. what do you used to fight about? it could
00:47be about anything. tell me the raw real
00:53immature fights that you had not like the mature version of both of you. you
00:57guys are super successful super mature like you
01:01know backbones of each other you guys have become an example in front
01:04of the world in terms of having like a rock solid
01:07relationship between two really ambitious people
01:10i don't want to know about that. tell us about like in the beginning when
01:16you were kiddish and immature when you were our age
01:20and we could relate with that. you know i have to tell you
01:25once we had a stupid fight okay yeah okay i picked up
01:29i picked the fight. see now we're talking. but
01:34he took a picture of the sunset and he didn't take my picture
01:41so he's someone who doesn't take pictures
01:44at all okay but he chose to take a picture of the sunset so i said
01:49what are you telling me that you've never felt the urge to take my picture
01:52but you're taking a picture of the goddamn sunset
01:58and that actually i must have been needy and clingy that day
02:02and but he was i think just thrown by he said
02:06the sunset was beautiful that triggered me even more i said what do you mean
02:13so that you know that's one of the stupid fights we've had but of course
02:18we've had all kinds of very fair fight what's stupid
02:21i like that so it could be like at a party
02:25he just kept hanging with a certain set of people
02:29with it could be with anyone and didn't come and check on me
02:36and he's like but you could have come to where i was standing and i was just in
02:42the middle of conversation and i'll be like no
02:44but now i do all of that less also i'll tell you he's far more social
02:48than i am okay i'm not great with people as in i'm not great at parties
02:55on a one-on-one i love interacting with people even if i
02:59don't know you i'll sit and chat with you and i'll have
03:01a great conversation but at a party i never know what to do with myself i
03:05think i'm almost asocial or antisocial not antisocial but asocial for sure
03:11so um i think therefore then most often i'm like okay i've said
03:17hi to everyone now what do i do and he's busy chatting with someone
03:21right so i think those are the times when i feel like
03:24but now i've calmed down i have to say he's quite calm so
03:28a lot of times even when he feels the anger he just goes for a walk
03:33but i'm very reactive okay he processes things before he
03:39brings it up if at all he does um though we've gotten better in that
03:44regard but i think aren't you like that solve it right now
03:47yeah also i'm reactive if something irritates me now i can't
03:50keep it within me especially with him i have to just get it out of my system
03:54at what point do you know that this is it for me
03:57with regard to a partner partner like this
04:01he's the one she's the one i'll tell you what happened with me
04:05it was raining cats and dogs one night i had just come back from out of town
04:11Siddharth had come to pick me up at the airport and we drove away from the
04:15airport and i kept telling him you know i'm
04:17really i could do with a coffee and no coffee shop was open at that point
04:21and then he said no but there's one hotel at the airport that's still open
04:25at three in the morning we went to Balaji yeah and Balaji was
04:29shutting but he walked in the rain we didn't have
04:33an umbrella he walked in the rain went and picked up that cup of coffee
04:37as he was walking away from me i said i'm home