“We have spent very little time together after our marriage.” Ali Fazal opened up about life after tying the knot with Richa Chadha.
📹: Raj Shamani
📹: Raj Shamani
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00:00We have a lot of disagreements.
00:02I don't know half of her life.
00:04We spent very little time after our marriage.
00:06So many things that women do for men
00:08and you know men can't
00:10in the same way.
00:30You started a production business.
00:46It's called Pushing Buttons Studio.
00:48Pushing Buttons.
00:50And you do this with your partner.
00:52Yeah.
00:54We are excited.
00:56We want to create.
00:58Is it difficult to manage business with a partner?
01:00I mean we don't consider it business.
01:02Right?
01:04Working together with your partner is difficult?
01:06No, not at all. It's fun.
01:08Yeah. It's totally fun.
01:10There are a lot of disagreements.
01:12I think because
01:14both of us are headstrong creators.
01:16So we have a lot of disagreements.
01:18But that's good.
01:20And that's fine.
01:22But we want to be able to
01:24arrive at a solution, a common solution.
01:26That is for me
01:28more valuable.
01:30So because you work with your partner together,
01:32what's the biggest challenge
01:34and the biggest advantage
01:36that you should do with your partner?
01:38Because a lot of people say that
01:40usually family members should not work with a partner.
01:42Yeah. I think the biggest advantage is that
01:44you know you
01:46it's convenient.
01:50We sit at home and
01:52discuss everything.
01:54It's our starting stage.
01:56We don't have an office space.
01:58We have an office at home.
02:00I've found a partner who can understand
02:02and segregate.
02:04I get an advantage there.
02:06When I work with Richa,
02:08it's about work.
02:10Then we forget about it.
02:12And when it's about home,
02:14we chill.
02:16And I don't know half of her life.
02:18She's an actor also.
02:20She's an activist.
02:22She's a producer.
02:24She's doing 10 other things.
02:26I'm doing 10 other things.
02:28We don't have to discuss everything.
02:30In fact, we're getting a chance
02:32to spend time together.
02:34Unfortunately,
02:36because we had a lot of work,
02:38we spent very little time after our marriage.
02:42I left the country
02:44and some work was going on there.
02:46She was busy in something.
02:48Then I was in Mirzapur.
02:50We were really missing each other.
02:52There's a reel which I saw
02:54which I generally don't agree with.
02:56Why do men open doors for women?
02:58Are women not strong enough?
03:00Of course, women can do it.
03:02Why do you have to do it?
03:04Girls can do it themselves.
03:06Do you believe in this thought process?
03:08No, I think it's great.
03:10It's really cute to do that.
03:12It is saying nothing against
03:14the woman in question.
03:16There are so many things
03:18that women do for men
03:20and men can't
03:22in the same way.
03:24We all have our own ways.
03:26It's still equality.
03:28It's just the different ways
03:30of being human.
03:32I think everybody has gotten
03:34a chance to have a conversation
03:36about everything.
03:38Everything must be considered.
03:40Therefore, everything is on the table.
03:42Cool.
03:44Randomly, it has just become an issue.
03:46It doesn't need to be.
03:48We have complicated little things.
03:50Little things. It doesn't need to be.
03:52That's a value system, I think.
03:54And it's not a negative thing.
03:56There are so many value systems
03:58in our country.
04:02You have to just understand
04:04it is not cancelling out individualism.
04:06I think that's the fear.
04:08Oh!
04:10That's the fear, I think.
04:12That insecurity that
04:14good individualism will go away.
04:16There should be no conversation
04:18about women are privileged
04:20or men are privileged.
04:22The conversation should be
04:24where there is disrespect.
04:26Yes. That's it. Period.