Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 33
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00:00Previously as friends reunited
00:10It was a chance to share good news for some you make a really good. He actually said I love you
00:17Do really want to be with Ross when things are good them so magical while others were given hard truths to swallow
00:24Amy she is an amazing girl, but I don't think you make a happy
00:27I feel like I never know what's gonna come out of his mouth next Adam's pretty much said that he doesn't know if he sees
00:33a future with me
00:35Leading to a brutal wake-up call for Polly, you know
00:38You are worth more than Adam can give you you were like a shell of yourself. It's the real battle at the moment between
00:47head and heart
00:52Tonight
00:54It's the final dinner party
00:56It's nice to see that you've got your rings back on where careless comments from Adam come back to haunt him
01:01We went to the lingerie shop Adam said to me like oh, why don't you model that?
01:06Adam really struggles giving me a bare minimum compliment. It's bollocks and while the honesty box prompts heartfelt emotions from Sam
01:13You know, I got a lot of love for you love loads about you
01:16I don't think I will ever love another man as much as I love you
01:21Could it deliver one final deadly blow to others?
01:24Did you get the husband you wanted? No
01:28You're gonna frustrate me and moan at me all day. Why but I want to come home and have sex with you
01:33You are such a narcissist
01:36Narcissist
01:39No, you've let me on you be about and you've pissed me right off
01:54Good morning. All right, babe. I'm looking forward to go to Delapara with my beautiful wife. Oh
02:02The couples are getting ready for the final dinner party of the experiment baby made it
02:07I definitely didn't think I was gonna make it all the way to the end
02:11The main thing that we both come in here for was to find that. Mm-hmm. I feel like we have found it
02:17I agree
02:19It's a lovely feeling that we both have dropped the album now and we're just going from strength to strength
02:24I just can't wait to keep on adding to the most amazing journey. We've had already. It's been really good and it's been so much
02:31It's been amazing. Oh, it's been some lows, but mostly hides, but the massive high is you meeting me?
02:37little Liz lay
02:40I'm feeling quite sad. It's over. I've just had a great time with you from my yeah
02:46It's been amazing with a lot so much and I just love you. I
02:51Love you, too
02:54Me and Ross have got so much love between us that
02:58We have to make it work on the outside world. It would be such a shame to lose such a connection
03:03I think we're very lucky. We've got a lot of friends and we've got a lot of work to do
03:08I think we're very lucky that we came into this process and found each other and actually found love as well
03:15And we've just got to make sure that when we leave this we stay just as strong and do all we can to make it work
03:23But
03:33Yesterday's big night out gave me a lot of hard truth the majority of the lads thing that I don't make Amy happy
03:39I think I do make Amy happy, but definitely not often enough
03:43So I thought I'll do something nice to show Amy how far we've come in this journey
03:48Why have you done that? I thought it would be a candle for every good memory we have a lot of candles there
03:55God, maybe they can count for some bad memories as well. No
03:59Absolutely. No, babe. We've got so many memories. I
04:06Think me and Amy's relationship has been tested
04:09We've been to the lowest of lows and the highest of highs
04:12But if we can make it in here and the experiment we can make it outside, how do you feel about last day?
04:18I'm feeling good positive. I'm glad we're going in with our rings on. I mean, that's a biggie, isn't it? I
04:25Hope it's good vibes
04:28No arguments, right?
04:31How are you feeling I feel really blessed and grateful
04:35To have had you know you by my side for so long and you continuing to be by my side
04:42Despite, you know the ups and downs looking back is
04:46There are many things that would have changed
04:49mostly in myself
04:50But I'm really happy that we're on a upward trajectory. So yeah, I probably say more level rather than dipping
04:57Yeah, definitely not dipping. I take anything as long as it's not going down. I
05:04Can tell that Luke's really invested into our marriage
05:06But there are a lot of negative things in our relationship
05:09And I just need to think whether I want that in my future or to leave it in the past
05:13I've got a huge decision ahead of me
05:17How was girls like crazy it all kicked off
05:22Everybody basically just went in on Polly about Adam like telling her to know her worth
05:28He's like led her along sort of thing
05:30So yeah, it was it was difficult for Polly especially because she really likes Adam. It's really sad
05:37And I feel like he really likes her, but I don't know the way he's speaking. I don't know if it's just as friends
05:57So it's the last dinner party tonight, how you feeling
06:00It's just shit because I should feel excited and I'm just not
06:04You go out when you get that
06:07I just feel like we should be in a completely different place
06:10We're not going into it how we should be
06:20Last night the girls were just saying that they can see a massive dip in how I've changed and
06:24That I'm accepting bare minimum because he can't give me what I want a need from a relationship
06:30All the girls said to me last night that I'm not
06:33The same and that they can see that I have really really
06:37Tried and made an effort and what now have them
06:41No, I'm not saying that this isn't about you for a minute
06:44No, but it sounds like they're digging me out and saying that you've changed you've done loads for me
06:47and what was I said about me that I'm just
06:52Settling what?
06:54It's not about you. I'm telling you what they've said to me. I've got to see it from my side
06:59Yeah, I keep improving and doing things that I don't normally like to do or want to do
07:03But you just keep knocking me down because it's not good enough for you
07:05So I'm obviously thinking like why the fuck am I even doing this? Why am I changing?
07:08So then do you not think that's the same with me with the whole PDA and words of affirmation and affection?
07:13It hasn't changed so I haven't let it go. I've told you I would never do that and it's not good enough for you
07:17So then maybe I just need to stop voicing it because voicing it obviously hasn't and isn't helping like no offense
07:23Yeah
07:23But if I wanted to be with you more than anything in the world
07:26And you said we need to stop doing this I'd fucking stop it the next day
07:30But that's not as easy for everyone else
07:32Then what do you expect me to do just keep being unhappy and just fucking getting digged out?
07:35No, I'm now telling you that I'm acting upon it. So it doesn't continue to affect me and us. I
07:43Wish me and Adam were where we were when we got back off my homestays
07:46and it's such a shame that so much has happened in between that he can't get out of his own head to be like
07:52You know what, let's drop it. Let's see if we can actually move forward. I'm just not the remaining circles around. I can't be arsed
08:02I think we should get ready anyway
08:11I'm hoping to speak to Polly to check in to see how she is at the dinner party tonight
08:15Everyone gave her a lot of hard truths and I think she struggled with it
08:22I do care about Polly more than she realizes. It would be a shame to throw it all away
08:27I feel like I've put so much effort in for the fact that me and Polly are constantly arguing
08:32It's just making me question the future
08:36Adam does really mean a lot to me
08:38Which is why I'm so adamant and hopeful that something could come out of this
08:42But I am definitely worried about if I voice how I'm actually feeling that all I'm gonna do is push him away even more
08:52So
08:54Here we are the final dinner party the experiment right and of course at the last commitment ceremony
09:00We had Polly and Adam and Nathan and Lacey all saying they wanted to stay but two couples were a lot more wobbly
09:06We had Sasha and Amy both saying leave
09:10Will be interesting to see where they are tonight. So let's see. They've listened to our advice and expertise
09:22So first up we've got Nathan and Lacey coming in as our strong couple the strongest couple coming first
09:30I'm quite proud of the fact
09:33Cheers to us. Yes
09:36Our beautiful journey. Yeah, you could fantastic
09:46So here we have a look at Amy
09:47We know things have been tough for them, I wonder how things went during the week
09:53Okay, the fact that they're together. It's a good sign
09:56You gonna stop up. Are you guys? Okay? No. Yeah
10:00It's nice to see that you've got your rings back on as well. Yeah, it's nice. Yeah
10:06It's a great observation there, of course from Lacey spotting that they're wearing their rings again
10:11Let's hope that this is actually a sign of how things are going. Well, you two look both like good
10:18Yeah, yeah, it's very good when she comes to the girls day the ring on
10:36Luke in his true Luke fashion is saying everything's great. We've improved and Amy she's pulling faces. She's rolling her eyes
10:43I don't feel convinced
10:45It'd be interesting to see Adam and Polly tonight
10:48From what Polly was saying to us girls is that he's not sure he can see a future with her
10:54And now she's got it. She's had Adam was just a little bit like
10:59Not sure where he's that at the moment because every time they they come together. They always end up arguing
11:05I don't think he's gone. I don't think it's done. It's got a bit left in him
11:08Yeah, Polly look got it though yesterday. Yeah when she was talking about it. She was good
11:13Yeah, I think one of the main things for him is like talking openly about like intimacy
11:18He's always been a little bit more reserved with PDA
11:20I was too sure what's a lot more but he's been working on it. He has been given like a little smack bang little kiss
11:25affirmations that's made me think now because I feel like on couples that week like obviously Polly said that
11:31Adam doesn't pay her compliments and he said that he doesn't give compliments, but he was like
11:36Throwing compliments at me
11:38Oh
11:39What kind of things was he saying just like oh, why don't you try the lingerie set on you can model it I?
11:48Took it as like a banterous way, but now I'm thinking about her feelings like if she knew that
11:54So maybe I need to tell her I do think it's a little bit difficult saying oh you put the set on
12:00Model it for me. It's a bit muggy
12:09Session of Ross big bright entrance
12:17And this is great to see because the last time we saw them they were a shadow of what they actually started out being
12:25I'm quite anxious about leaving
12:28And so it's quite sad. I'm really wanted to end this experiment at least on a really good high with Amy
12:35Because we've had nice memories and we must not forget that yeah, we have yeah, I'd love to
12:42But I think it would break me
12:48Because
12:50I do I know I fucked up, and I know I I said things for
12:55Reasons, and I can't take it back like here is where I am and I have to accept that and I think I've come to
13:01terms
13:02But I have made those mistakes, but I just hope that she sees that I can be a better person
13:10We talked with Luke recently about reading the room and really trying to be more perceptive about Amy and understand what she needs and
13:18he keeps missing the mark and
13:21You know here. I think he's showing some vulnerability where he's accepting that he does miss the mark with her often
13:27But we're not hearing a lot from him about what he's going to do differently
13:33Oh
13:36Holly and Adam make a grand entrance
13:41It's interesting that because there's clearly lots going on between them
13:45But there's something about still having to show that we're very much together. How are you darling? Okay?
13:54Got your wedding ring on no selfies ring
13:57He's got his on does he know you've got yours off don't I don't think it's observant I
14:05Do wonder if her taking off the ring is her way of
14:09Communicating her her to Adam. How are you feeling?
14:13George it's just shit isn't it. It's just it's not a good position to be in
14:17I'm holding on to like the PDA kind of stuff
14:20But I feel like because I've voiced it so much all I've done is push him away
14:24It's not your fault stop taking 100% blame. Yeah, it's just annoying because I'm really like him. That's what's frustrating
14:31This is why we bicker. This is not you. It's not all you but he doesn't see that. He doesn't see he thinks that it is
14:42I just said I don't know if it's gonna work
14:45Just because we're just going around in circles
14:48Every day is the same conversation
14:50She said for about two weeks now that I'm sorry, I won't do any more and bring things up next day
14:55It's like she's forgot. She said it and then she said this morning. I'm gonna try now
14:59I'm gonna stop doing everything that you don't like. I'm like you keep saying this like it don't mean anything no more
15:05How obviously all the girls I said that Polly's not the same anymore. I don't get that
15:09Because I don't think she's changed
15:12It's a really tricky cycle that they're in because they're not really in the same place
15:16She's changed
15:17It's a really tricky cycle that they're in because Polly is constantly seeking that affirmation and affection from him
15:24And the more she seeks the more he pulls away
15:27I would say that these two are a great example of when you don't change you get the same result
15:35Yeah, I don't think he's gone. Well, it's hard because he keeps
15:39Touching me. I mean like he keeps touching my bum like
15:44Give me a kiss and a cuddle
15:47The flirty side of it still very much there. Mm-hmm
15:50We was just having a chat then before you came in
15:53When we went to the laundry a shop that Adam said to me like, oh, why don't you model that?
15:57I'm we'll see if it looks nice on polls
16:01And make comments about like being sexy and stuff and I just took that as banter
16:06But I feel like I've taken a lot of things as banter when in actual fact, they're quite hurtful things
16:12Especially when he's not giving you the compliments. You can't be saying that about other girls. Oh
16:19My god
16:22Adam really struggles giving me a bare minimum compliment. So to make fanciful comments to Amy about looking sexy
16:28It's bollocks and I'll definitely be pulling him up on it tonight
16:42I'm at the end. Yeah. Thank you darling. No worries
16:51Opposite you hello, honeys
17:00Awkward
17:04For a salt, I'm right back. I'm salty enough
17:09So, how are you all feeling
17:12Are we feeling positive?
17:15Snap
17:16It's cute
17:17Guys, I would like to make a speech to everyone that's still here
17:22The journeys that we've all gone through to get us where we are the people that we've met the friendships that we've made
17:28the love that we've all got towards each other platonically or romantically and cheers to being the final four in
17:36married at first sight experiment
17:42She
17:47Didn't want us
17:49Well done
17:51What a beautiful speech. That was a lovely speech. That was bad. How you feeling Adam?
17:57Amazing. Yeah
17:59Good
18:01How are you feeling as a whole together?
18:05Amazing really
18:07makes one of us Oh
18:10Polly and Adam seem to do this quite often though where there's an issue that they need to speak about
18:15But what we see is that they just throw little digs at each other until one of them takes the bait and then it explodes
18:23I don't know how I'm feeling
18:25just
18:26drained
18:27fed up
18:30Hmm
18:32Confused
18:33How do you feel about that Polly? I just don't feel like he's been honest with a lot of things. Oh
18:40I
18:41Guess yeah, well, I haven't been honest with with a lot of things like I don't have to give you a list of things
18:47Give me one example. I
18:49Don't have to give you a list. I'm saying how I feel. I feel like you haven't been honest about this
18:55Yeah, you can't sit there and say you haven't been honest with loads of things yet
18:58When I say give me one example, you can't give me one example. That's bullshit. I
19:03I
19:05Just think it's confusing with you saying that you were where you are
19:08Yet you've still been very handsy and the flirty band has been there and it's just confusing
19:13So I just might have been handsy what you're about
19:16So you grabbing and slapping my bum and when fuck it would you over the last couple of days?
19:20Yes, you have people have seen it
19:23I pulled a bit of hair off your bum earlier because no there was a kiss and a cuddle
19:27There was something else. Yeah, I gave you a hug. Goodbye out of respect, right?
19:30So that one's out the window. No, it's not out the window. You've still been
19:35Very flirtatious. That's just my banner
19:42That's what you're not with Amy you're with me
19:45Earlier that you called Amy sexy and you want to try on lingerie to see if she'd look fit in it
19:51That is fucking crossing a lot my comment actually was
19:55Amy got the same set as you I was saying. Oh, why don't you both put them on? I'll see who's the sexiest
20:01No, it's even worse
20:05That's it doesn't matter flirty comment shouldn't happen to one of my best mates when you don't give that to me either
20:10It's fucking out of order
20:17She feels like that because you say you don't give compliments I didn't give you a compliment
20:22Did I I think so? What I said you look sexy in that
20:31You'll look sexy in that you have a compliment how fucked is that you didn't even say it's not a joke
20:36It's not a joke when my feelings are on the receiving end of it. It's not a joke
20:41So why do you want to be with I'm not why are you begging? Why are you begging off me?
20:48So if I'm such a bad person yeah, and I'm not giving you this and I'm not giving up
20:52Why the fuck do you want to be with me?
20:55Because you've shown me other aspects to you that make me want to be with you
21:00You say you want this you want that you want more into me you want PDA you want this yeah, and then I say look
21:05Yeah, I've changed a lot for you, but it's not good enough
21:08You're not the only one that feels like that and now all of a sudden
21:11I've told you I don't think it's gonna work and now you're trying to attack me me. I'm not trying to attack you
21:15I'm telling you that you've had just as much of a part to play in this for us to get to this point as I
21:19Have and you are still saying that I'm the one in the wrong
21:22I've come out my comfort zone so much, and it's just never been good enough for you
21:25And you just always knock me back
21:27Even when I'm saying that I know that I've pushed you away
21:30Two months and we've not moved
21:33It's buckle. I'm sorry. I'm not here for fucking. I don't care around
21:37I don't I want to settle down and have a family and have kids
21:40I don't want to fucking keep arguing about the same topic. It's boy
21:4333 I'm not a child
21:46Acting like it. Hey Banta ha we need to get rid of this word banter. Yeah, it's almost saying if we add this label of banter
21:55then
21:56Anything that's disrespectful inappropriate is whitewashed. It's not okay
22:01Adam what do you actually want? Do you want to be a pulley? I don't think it's gonna work
22:08Do you need more from her more from what she's been telling me that she's gonna stop doing this and stop doing that and then
22:12Two days later. She forgets the conversation and we argue about the same thing. I hate repeating myself
22:17You've been making me repeat myself from the day one
22:19I don't have to keep up bringing up the same thing if you actually pulled your finger out your arse and done something
22:23I've told you I'll never do PD. I'm not a PDA guy
22:25You accept that but then I have PDA man because I'm not giving me anything else
22:31If you don't give me anything, this is what I'm gonna work at me and moan at me all day
22:35Why the fuck would I want to come home and have sex with you?
22:43Would any of you guys want to have sex with someone that's moaning at you all day
22:46Well, you just first three weeks what you obviously did for the first three weeks. That's sex like three times
22:52Don't want to have sex every day
22:54I'm not and the fact you trying to dig me out now make me look like a twice piss me off punch
22:58You know, I don't like this confrontation. I have
23:01Defended you to the ends of the fucking earth
23:05Listen, everyone is saying I'm not my first this whole time. God. Yeah, it's all about me
23:11Selfish I called you selfish a couple of weeks ago, but it's you are such a fucking narcissist
23:17Narcissist off its turn man. No me don't sit there and call me noxious man
23:22I'm gonna be the one that says sorry later. So fuck off then
23:28Oh all the boys go and pound up because that's all we do because you're a fucking bunch of knobs go on
23:33No, fuck that man. I don't I don't I don't don't go don't go
23:39He is a fucking narcissist to fucking
23:47I
23:52Don't sit there and call me noxious man. You're trying to fuck me over fuck off then
23:57Adam don't go don't go. No, just
24:00Adam Adam, he is a fucking
24:03Narcissist to fuck him. I don't know the fuck she thinks she's mine. How dare she sit down so much noxious me
24:11Take five minutes, bro. That's bang out of order man. Oh mom
24:16I
24:23Talked to me good bang out of order mom
24:28Don't sit there and try and fuck me over and said sell my fucking Narcissus me
24:34No, what's been damaged should be between there to not follow her grief
24:39That's like the worst thing you can say to a guy
24:42I've put her feelings before mine from the get-go and that's trying to throw me under the bus bullshit
24:52That was a very strong statement from Polly and
24:56It's incorrect. He's not a narcissist a narcissist is someone who has an inflated sense of self-importance and
25:03Lacks empathy for others and Adam has shown his care for others in this group
25:09So we should not use these statements that we are not empowered to use
25:16Is this the least you felt desired in a relationship I have felt wanted or desired in my
25:23fucking life
25:30Let me sit in your seat knife you go lays
25:33You
25:36Do you think you guys need a private conversation I don't want a private conversation
25:43No Adam
25:46In Adams defense, I don't think he's a like a narcissist. Okay. Well you defend Adam. I
25:54Don't think Adam is a narcissist. I think that's quite a strong term take that back. He's a prick
26:00You
26:02Like best friends
26:05You just need to go a bit further with it
26:08best friends that call each other a narcissist
26:10Bonds, that's proper friend. She just said she took it back. Yeah, Jamie took it back when you popped up lace
26:15No offense when Nathan said it it was
26:18Never good enough
26:21It's never fucking good enough listen, yeah, that's a horrible word to say to someone
26:28Okay, and some of the stuff that you've not said towards me has been horrible like
26:33Do you mean like what I'm not gonna fucking sit here and then if I'm been as bad as anything been as bad as saying
26:38I'm a narcissist
26:40Narcissist, I don't care what it is. It's a bit of a horrible word. You are a joke. You are an absolute fucking joke
26:46What is what am I one or what? I've explained it. Am I one of them or what then?
26:50No, so I say them because I just fucking said that I take it back
26:58Emotions things happen. It's not a word. You just throw around the table for Joe. Yeah, at least you've still got your ring on
27:03Well, he does I don't
27:10I didn't know you didn't have your ring on. I haven't had my ring on for the last three days
27:14And I want to ring no
27:18I
27:19Still had mine. It's called respect. It doesn't matter about respect respect. You're the one that said I respected you
27:27And you're showing your true colors and you haven't respected me. Oh my god. I
27:33think what we see in here is that Polly's words and her actions are not aligned because
27:39Really what we've seen is that she does want to be with him
27:42So although she's taken off the ring, it doesn't really represent how she's really feeling
27:49Adam can I speak to you in private?
27:53Go on guys
27:57Thanks a good idea
27:59You listen to me, don't you?
28:01I'm glad he listens to some
28:04That's not his reflection in the mirror
28:09I just feel like watching you speak to Polly then that wasn't you
28:14The thing is I actually haven't said to Polly. I'm done. I said, I don't think it's gonna work
28:19Because we just keep bickering about the same thing. It's what's pissed me off the most. Yeah is in her head
28:25She's thinking you don't want me. So now she's sat there and she's trying to fuck me over
28:31She's trying to say stuff to his mate talk. I haven't been kissing her. I haven't touched a bomb
28:37I haven't flirted with her. Well, she's trying to make me like a twat in front of everyone. It's not she really cares about you
28:43She really likes you and you you know that and why would she do that to me?
28:46Do you not think she's coming across that way cuz she's hurting cuz she likes you so much
28:50That's immature really gets on with you. I'm sure yeah, but it's her feelings as well
28:55And I know you've changed a lot for her, but she's reacting in that way and calling you names because she's hurting
29:01I think Amy is making a really good point here that actually
29:06Polly is really hurt and what we're seeing is angry behavior
29:12But what she's communicating is I like you and you're hurting me right now and actually that I need you
29:18I just think you need to take it with a pinch of salt have a chat have a conversation squash it
29:25It's not worth it. No, I got
29:27My thanks for the chat
29:33So you guys have just I've told each teacher they love each other which is big
29:40Oh
29:43This is exciting
29:44This is progress and of course this is really sweet because Nathan was quite uncomfortable to say that to Lacey in the past
29:50So this is good. This is progress. Yes. I just wanna know what you love about each other. So straight and perfect family orientated
29:58Physical like Swiss scrunched nose up. She's really cute. Yeah, he likes to do that stank face
30:10Oh
30:17Thank you, it's so playful together, it's gorgeous, isn't it?
30:35Hello honeys
30:40We're good, aren't we Adam I
30:49Think with Polly and Adam and they just can't meet in the middle
30:53It's either really explosive or we're just not going to talk to each other
30:58And even when they're not talking to each other, there's these passive aggressive barbs that are going across the table
31:03So they're still communicating loud a lot of hostility in the space, even though they're not speaking. That's right
31:10Oh
31:11Look just what we needed guys got the honesty box
31:17Bring it on. Okay
31:19Mmm, good evening
31:21The questions in tonight's honesty box offer you all one final opportunity to open up fully and truthfully to each other
31:29For some the questions may explore the more challenging aspects of your relationship
31:34It's important you go into your final vow renewals with the clearest possible understanding of the state of your marriage love
31:42Paul Mel and Charlene. Ah
31:47This is quite a nice one
31:49How do you feel about me now compared to on our wedding day on our wedding day? I knew nothing about you
31:56so I
31:58Wanted just to get to know you and who you were
32:01I
32:02Never thought in a million years that I'd actually mix on that I get on with
32:06So well that I would make it all the way to the end. Mmm
32:10You know, I got a lot of love for you and love loads about you
32:15That's nice fucking cute that is I like a loyalty she's caring she empathetic
32:21funny hilarious good chat everything, you know, I
32:25I
32:27Love you, too. I've said it before but if I could go back and choose Nathan, I'd always choose it. Well done a Nathan
32:34That was really sweet
32:37Right
32:38What is your happiest memory of our time together?
32:43I'm a guy that the best memory was the final day. I love the fun 100%
32:48Yeah
32:49100% have learned so much about you
32:53I actually adore your style. Yeah, that was my best moment ever
33:02Okay, what is your biggest worry for our marriage outside the experiment
33:10Okay
33:12so my biggest worry is
33:14that the
33:16outbursts and stuff continue or
33:19Get worse and then the relationship obviously can't carry on because I
33:25Really really really want this to work so bad
33:29I don't think I will ever love another man as much as I love you again. So if this didn't work
33:44I
33:45Just don't think I'll get with someone what I've got with you again
33:49So I just really want us to stop the bullshit and fix open. I'll need us to just
33:59And need us to not let our
34:03Following us get between us. Oh, I come up for sure. I
34:09Think it's great to hear Sasha pinpoint
34:12That the key issue is that they both bring that fire particularly to their conflict and
34:17I think she's right if that's something that they can work on then, you know, there's real hope here
34:25Who's next
34:29Did you get the husband you wanted in this experiment
34:41No
35:02Did you get the husband you wanted in this experiment
35:12No
35:17Oh, wow, tell us how you really feel. Yeah, I
35:22Didn't get the husband. I wanted in this experiment. I wanted a gentleman. I wanted somebody
35:28Honest and truthful and that thought about my feelings as much as his own
35:34for me like lies are
35:38Huge like that is my biggest fear
35:42Relationships friendships marriages are built on trust
35:48So that's why I've always struggled
35:51to connect with you, but I do feel like when we are good, we're very good and we are a team and
35:59I feel like we are good now that would get into a good place or it's it is difficult
36:05Yeah, my answer is no and I must be being honest
36:09And I know you appreciate me for being honest, so I do
36:19My heart goes out to Luke you could tell he's been blindsided by this one
36:23Yeah
36:23But of course Luke has been caught out telling white lies to Amy on a number of occasions throughout the experiment and each time he
36:29Does that it erodes her trust a little bit more?
36:32He's trying so hard to win her over that he gets the lie out there and then he gets stuck in the lie
36:38And it continues to be perpetuated and down goes the trust
36:42I'm just not quite sure if he knows what to do to break that cycle here
36:47Okay, you ready fire away, babe
36:51What would you change about me
36:59The one thing I would change about you is that I would love you to
37:06Be able to
37:08give me a fresh clean slate and
37:12Give me a chance to prove to you that I am a better person and I can be great for you
37:18Do you not think that I can do that already? I would love to think you can
37:22Anything else you could change about me not that about our relationship about me as a person. I
37:31Think I would change maybe
37:35Your outlook on certain things to be more
37:39Positive about our relationship in general our memories our timeline our story. I'd love you to
37:46Be a bit more positive perhaps. Okay
37:50That's what I will change
37:52Luke is over here fighting for this relationship. He wants this he's saying basically I want you to forgive me
37:59But he has to understand that that's going to take time trust takes time to be built
38:05and
38:14Polly what do you think I can do to our marriage to work behind the experiment?
38:21To give me a chance and to see the person that you saw on homestays is the person that I'm gonna be when we leave
38:28And I just don't feel like you're giving me the chance to be who I am in a normal relationship
38:32And you're just taking the last two weeks
38:36Don't ask me the question
38:39No, but you're just being a prick about it again, I was gonna say my say
38:47My louder say
38:49Go on
38:51I was gonna say like you can't say that you want it to work and I'm the one you want
38:55And then stop calling me names and trying to rip me a new asshole
38:59Because I called you a narcissist when I
39:02Really wanted to be with Holly and I thought the ground she walked and I would not sit there and
39:07Disrespect her call her name because I'm mature
39:09I disagree with you here because I know how I feel about this girl next to me
39:14But you wouldn't and I took my ring off. That's more than disrespecting me. So don't tell me I didn't is this that was
39:21That was muggy muggy. That was that was I humiliated her friends. That's probably why Amy put leave
39:27But don't say that just because she said a word means she doesn't feel okay, I know how I feel about
39:34That's what I want to say you took your ring off and for a me
39:38Holly's had a ring off for three days. Apparently because she wants to be with me. You told me three days ago
39:43It's all about respect
39:46You said that you wasn't sure how you feel you don't see a future. Yeah, she felt like shit
39:52I kept my ring on as a respects. I said, I don't know if it's gonna work. I never say it's over
39:57I never say it's done. I says you said you're draining your emotion. You're training. So I'm gonna go home
40:02Who knows how it's gonna go Adam? You could very true that you didn't want to be with me
40:07What is that saying? It's over. No, do you not see how that's really?
40:11See what
40:15I'm talking right now. I don't know. That's why I could see why she took a ring off
40:19Yeah, you're not sure you don't see a future of it. I don't blame me for taking a fucking ring off
40:24So if I say I don't think it's gonna work
40:26It's that and it's used to take your ring off and throw it and throw a fucking pissy for because she cares about you
40:31She wouldn't do reactions. I care about her. Well, you're not acting like it. Why am I not?
40:36Disrespect to Polly tonight early you went you're begging it you're begging it
40:40Fuck me
40:42Do you know what it would take just one of them to say?
40:46You know what? I'm sorry. Yes, that's it. It would stop the whole thing. Shut it all down
40:53Next question
40:56Right to both
40:59Rank the remaining couples in order of how long they will last in the following amounts of time
41:07Include yourselves and give reasons for each couple
41:11forever
41:12One year one month and one week
41:16So me and Polly one week
41:21One month Luke and Amy why have you got me such a prick about it? Okay. Oh my god
41:26It's not me you for one week. Who else is it?
41:29You can have your say in it darling. Don't worry. The police show continues
41:33Call me darling show continue
41:34Don't fucking call me darling when all I've done the last six weeks is think that you're 90% perfect and sound
41:42Everything with you is fucking banter
41:45All I've done is defend you and back you on so many things if you think it's embarrassing then fuck off
41:51What do we sort out fuck off then?
41:57It's a fucking joke
42:04You're boring it's the same shit week after week after week and I'm bored of it you want to see you embarrassing yourself in front
42:11Of everyone. I'm embarrassing myself. If I was you Adam, I'd fucking be embarrassed of you because it is fucking shameful
42:17It is fucking shame. Everyone's out at me, but Nathan's yeah
42:26You are pathetic you are a joke and you're a fucking liar fuck off
42:35Actually go away, I actually can't be asked no one's following you because no one's
42:39Whether no one follows me or not. You're a fucking liar
42:41You are a joke
42:43All you've done is lie about how you feel and what you talk to everyone else about and you've not had to bollocks
42:49To stand there and fucking say it to me. You've led me on you fuck me about and you've pissed me right off
42:55You're a fucking cunt
43:03Next time I don't want to move to Manchester. No, I just think everything that comes out of his mouth is bullshit. You're
43:10Defending the wrong man. The experiment reaches its gripping climax
43:15My head's telling me one thing but my heart's telling me another
43:18Sometimes we have clashed because I wanted a little bit more from him
43:22All four remaining couples must make life-changing decisions if Ross can't move to Warsaw this relationship
43:30Won't work
43:31Do you feel like Holly wants this to work?
43:33But for that to happen, there is a lot that needs to change as they choose whether to stay together
43:39There was definitely a lot of pressure. I'm just hoping I can live up to your expectations
43:43Or part ways for good. I have ultimately broken our trust
43:48Throughout the experiment, I've worried that you lacked depth and seriousness
43:53resulting in some of the most dramatic
43:55Var renewals
43:56It was always about you the fact that you're still standing and you don't think that I'm an apology for a lot of joke
44:01You're walking away again in maths UK history. It sounds like he doesn't want to come to Warsaw. Can I have a minute?
44:17You