Married at First Sight UK S9 Episode 30
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00:00:00Good morning, universe!
00:00:02Previously, homestays were a family affair.
00:00:05I'll snap him out.
00:00:07As Polly and Adam made a major breakthrough...
00:00:09You've actually shocked me.
00:00:11You can actually be gloving and a really nice lady.
00:00:14Yes!
00:00:17..for Christina and Kieran...
00:00:19I need to figure out the situation and know what the right move is
00:00:21to take next. ..time apart pushed them to consider their fate.
00:00:24Consider yourself spending the rest of your life with him.
00:00:26Yeah, I do really like him.
00:00:28Christina deserves somebody to love her.
00:00:30I'm going to get upset now.
00:00:32..and for Sasha and Ross...
00:00:34SHE LAUGHS
00:00:36..the pull of loved ones...
00:00:38Can't touch this thing?
00:00:39No!
00:00:41..raised uncertainties.
00:00:43I need to be here.
00:00:44I really can't be away from them.
00:00:46He kills me.
00:00:48But it was Luke's thoughtless comments...
00:00:50In here, you look a bit, like, bloated.
00:00:52Luke's saying I basically look hideous.
00:00:55..and a disastrous meeting.
00:00:57Adult entertainment, is that something you see yourself doing
00:00:59moving forward?
00:01:00This is definitely an attempt to assassinate my character.
00:01:03..that left the marriage...
00:01:04As of now, I'm a single man. ..hanging in the balance.
00:01:08Well, **** then.
00:01:09I don't know why you're still sat here.
00:01:11Maybe it's not meant to be after all.
00:01:16..tonight...
00:01:18I've seen a sight of Polly that I feel giggling and smiling.
00:01:21..the final commitment ceremony brings out the best in some couples.
00:01:25I feel like we're tap-dancing round the love at the minute.
00:01:28I haven't felt this way about someone before.
00:01:30..as tensions continue for others.
00:01:33I felt humiliated, I felt disrespected, I felt violated.
00:01:37Why can't you grow the **** up?
00:01:39It makes me feel uncomfortable.
00:01:40I can't feel anything but anger towards him right now.
00:01:43..and after a difficult homestay apart...
00:01:45To go from that wedding to then how we are now,
00:01:49that is what kills me.
00:01:51..Kieran and his wife,
00:01:53I just don't know how much I've got in us
00:01:55for the amount of emotional support Christina needs.
00:01:58..while the dilemma of where to call home...
00:02:00Moving to this situation, it's affecting me.
00:02:03..pushes Sasha and Ross to crisis point.
00:02:06I really wanted to do everything I could to make you happy.
00:02:09I think body-on-spread's gone a bit hard.
00:02:14..after time away at homestays, the couples are back at the apartments.
00:02:19What are you wearing today?
00:02:21My blue Chubord with a red top.
00:02:23My blue Chubord with a red top.
00:02:26My blue Chubord with a red top.
00:02:28My blue Chubord with a red top.
00:02:30My blue Chubord with a red top.
00:02:32Maroon?
00:02:34I'm wearing a maroon.
00:02:36I'm wearing a maroon.
00:02:38My blue cord with feather arms.
00:02:41You're gonna look like a peacock.
00:02:45It's like a fruit bowl.
00:02:46It is, isn't it?
00:02:47Yeah.
00:02:48Oh, boy.
00:02:49Yeah.
00:02:50Yeah.
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00:02:51Yeah.
00:02:52Yeah.
00:02:53That's rock solid.
00:02:54Yeah.
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00:03:04Yeah.
00:03:05Yeah.
00:03:05Yeah.
00:03:06Yeah.
00:03:07Kieran is one of the most amazing girls
00:03:08I could ever wish to meet.
00:03:09She's beautiful inside and out.
00:03:12I care about the girl.
00:03:14I care about how she feels.
00:03:16All I've ever done is put other people first.
00:03:19I need to focus on what I want out of life
00:03:20and where I want to be and who I want to do that with.
00:03:29I haven't seen Kieran since the really emotional dinner party.
00:03:33I've missed him.
00:03:35I haven't stopped thinking about him.
00:03:36I just want to know that he's all right.
00:03:40It hurts, because we were really happy.
00:03:45He knows that I want a future with him,
00:03:48and I'm fighting for him.
00:03:57So I actually enjoyed seeing all your family again.
00:03:59Your mum made me feel ridiculously welcome.
00:04:02I didn't want you to feel, like, out of place
00:04:04or uncomfortable, like you couldn't do anything.
00:04:07I've seen a different side to you that I preferred.
00:04:10Yeah.
00:04:11I feel like you seeing that and your positive response to that,
00:04:14I feel like that's definitely something that I've
00:04:16got to be more mindful of.
00:04:19Me and Adam are in genuinely one of the best positions
00:04:22we've ever been in.
00:04:24The way Adam was with me when we were at my homestays
00:04:27was just a lot more relaxed.
00:04:29He gravitated towards me more.
00:04:31It was really nice to see.
00:04:34Hopefully, it can continue now we're back in the apartment.
00:04:36Do you know what I mean?
00:04:37Me and Polly are in a pretty good place at the moment.
00:04:40We've always said we like that we're both family-orientated,
00:04:43and she's so close of a family.
00:04:46I would like to think this new side of Polly will continue.
00:04:49Time will tell, and we've just got to see what will happen.
00:04:58Me and Luke haven't benefited from homestays at all.
00:05:02It started shit.
00:05:03It ended shit.
00:05:04He's made an awful first impression
00:05:06in front of my friends.
00:05:08I've not seen him since, and we've
00:05:10stayed in separate apartments.
00:05:13I'm absolutely dreading seeing Luke at the commitment
00:05:16ceremony today.
00:05:18Right now, I just feel so much anger towards him.
00:05:21I don't even want to look at his face.
00:05:23I just feel so let down.
00:05:25As soon as somebody lies to me, that breaks the trust.
00:05:28I have no idea what goes on in his brain.
00:05:30I have no idea why he lies.
00:05:32And I have no time left for it.
00:05:40I haven't seen Amy since I took the ring off at the restaurant
00:05:43with her friends.
00:05:44I really wanted to meet Amy's friends,
00:05:47and I feel like Amy squandered the opportunity by dealing
00:05:51with it the way she did on the night.
00:05:54I feel like there was agenda to upset me, to attack me,
00:05:57and Amy seemed to be the one that was egging it on.
00:05:59So I find that very hurtful.
00:06:02And I took my ring off.
00:06:04And yeah, it just makes me feel even more disappointed.
00:06:08I'm in no shape or form any better
00:06:10in terms of deciding what my head space is at with Amy.
00:06:21Homestays went really, really well.
00:06:24Other than the confusion on where to move to,
00:06:27we did have a good homestays.
00:06:30But this morning, I'm feeling pretty deflated.
00:06:35Me and Ross had an argument last night.
00:06:37Ross drew his dummy at the prom for absolutely no reason.
00:06:41I'm at the end of my tether.
00:06:44He doesn't have to react the way he does.
00:06:46My drama is your drama.
00:06:47Your drama is my drama.
00:06:49In recent weeks, Sasha and Ross have
00:06:51found it difficult to resolve conflict in their marriage.
00:06:55You should have your wife's back always.
00:06:58I'm your problem, Ross.
00:07:00I am.
00:07:00Ross just doesn't say a word to me, Sian.
00:07:03Grabs his two suitcases, starts putting all his trainers in.
00:07:07Honest to God, it was awful.
00:07:10No, no.
00:07:11Wedding ring falling across the floor.
00:07:13So that wasn't.
00:07:14I am not comfortable with you being in this apartment.
00:07:18I'm going.
00:07:22I feel like shit because last night, Sasha's attitude
00:07:26towards me was stupid.
00:07:28I had enough.
00:07:29I just wanted to leave because it's too much for me.
00:07:32I've not seen her since.
00:07:34I've not spoken to her.
00:07:40Hello, my baby girl.
00:07:46How's your homestay been?
00:07:48Our homestay was really good.
00:07:51But literally, the day we get back, out for a drink,
00:07:55all of a sudden, out of nowhere, Ross
00:07:59lost his temper and stormed off.
00:08:03Steaming, that's what I'm hiding.
00:08:05I lost my temper.
00:08:07But it's not just me, though.
00:08:08It's Sasha as well.
00:08:09She does have a fire in her.
00:08:11Have you spoke to her?
00:08:12So, yeah.
00:08:14That was yesterday.
00:08:19Ross, you messaged Sasha saying, stay in separate rooms tonight.
00:08:25That's a lot.
00:08:27You're both very angry.
00:08:29When he left, he texted me saying, I can do better.
00:08:33And everyone will say that I deserve better.
00:08:35The only person I can say that deserves better is me.
00:08:38Because I've put so much into the relationship.
00:08:41I completely support him all the time.
00:08:43You deserve better than that.
00:08:44But, yeah, what more do you want?
00:08:46What more can I give?
00:08:47Her response was, good luck finding somebody
00:08:51who puts up with your shit.
00:08:54It's never going to get sorted, calling each other names.
00:08:58I basically just text him to say,
00:09:01you're literally the one in the wrong,
00:09:02and you're treating me like it's me.
00:09:04He's not even apologised.
00:09:06Oh.
00:09:07Oh, you can get argumentative.
00:09:09But my anger in comparison to Ross's is completely different.
00:09:14Like, Ross likes to break things, throw things,
00:09:16like, food up the wall.
00:09:17Not acceptable.
00:09:19So I thought he'd wake up thinking,
00:09:20god, that was really bad whatever I spoke to Sasha yesterday.
00:09:23But he's not said a word to me.
00:09:26Are you thinking now about long-term?
00:09:28And if you can do this in the long run?
00:09:31The moving situation, quite difficult.
00:09:33Right.
00:09:35On homestays, like, I ended up thinking,
00:09:40oh, I don't think Manchester's the right place.
00:09:43When this whole time I've been so set on Manchester.
00:09:48She wanted to be close with her family.
00:09:50Same for me.
00:09:51Plus, I've got a daughter back at home as well.
00:09:53Yeah. So it's pretty hard.
00:09:55I've heard it all over the place, and I can't think what's what.
00:09:59I think it's a lot to do with the pressures of the experiment.
00:10:01Yeah, definitely.
00:10:04I don't know. I don't know what we're going to do, to be honest.
00:10:06It's a mess.
00:10:08The relationship is messy.
00:10:16I've got a lot of things on my mind.
00:10:18Honestly, I can't wait to meet the expert.
00:10:21I just need to put it all out,
00:10:22because the more I keep hold of it, I'll probably struggle more.
00:10:27I do need to change the tempo.
00:10:30Yeah, that's what I need to change as well.
00:10:34This is my first time thinking about this decision,
00:10:37because it's too much.
00:10:39It's a lot.
00:10:42I'm extremely confused on what to do with the commitment ceremony today.
00:10:46There's a beautiful connection between me and Ross,
00:10:49and we should maybe fight for it,
00:10:50but Ross takes it too far when there's a disagreement.
00:10:56I don't know what is best anymore.
00:10:59I'm not sure I can tolerate it any longer.
00:11:20Little bit further.
00:11:37Well, here we are for your last commitment ceremony.
00:11:41We know with the finish line in sight,
00:11:44you'll be thinking more and more
00:11:46take to make your marriage last long-term.
00:11:51This is your last chance to come to us with any issues,
00:11:55worries, or requests for advice.
00:11:58So please don't squander that.
00:12:04First up to the couch, could I have
00:12:12Amy and Luke, come on up.
00:12:16Welcome, guys.
00:12:24So without a doubt, this is the furthest you two
00:12:28have sat apart from each other.
00:12:30Why are we at this distance right now?
00:12:33I don't know.
00:12:34Where do we start?
00:12:37Let's start the last time that we saw you.
00:12:39We'll go back to the dinner party.
00:12:41We heard something that Luke, you had mentioned to Lacey.
00:12:46So what was that?
00:12:48So Luke made quite a big deal about this photo of Lacey
00:12:51and Adam, saying that he's glad that I act with integrity
00:12:55and have class.
00:12:57However, when I spoke to Lacey, he'd said to Lacey,
00:13:00I'm actually really envious because I wish
00:13:02my own wife behaved that way.
00:13:07What I meant was, you know, I was
00:13:08envious that me and Amy weren't like that.
00:13:11You know, we don't dance like that.
00:13:13I just think it's bullshit.
00:13:15Excuses, and I just can't connect with it.
00:13:19OK.
00:13:21So then from there, we go to homestays.
00:13:25Luke, walk me through your homestay.
00:13:29I walked in a bit before to switch everything on,
00:13:31and there was a photo of me and a girl that I worked with.
00:13:35And I thought, hang on, I don't want
00:13:36Amy to walk into my house and see a random girl strapped
00:13:40on my arm.
00:13:42So I got a pair of scissors and I cut the girl out.
00:13:45Amy walks in.
00:13:46She says, oh, who was on the other side of the photo?
00:13:49I said, no, the photo was printed like that.
00:13:52She said, no, Luke, it's wonky.
00:13:54And then after a minute, I said, Amy, I just lied to you.
00:13:58I don't know why.
00:13:59I didn't need to.
00:14:01OK.
00:14:01Started the homestay on a lie.
00:14:04Caught yourself on the lie.
00:14:07The issue is that if you want to establish
00:14:10any amount of trust, you have to consistently be truthful.
00:14:15Of course.
00:14:17How can she continue any relationship with you
00:14:21if you can't be truthful?
00:14:25I'm feeling so disconnected with this person.
00:14:29Every single time we go to move forward, he does something,
00:14:33and we just go straight back.
00:14:36We went to a castle, and Luke made another sexual comment.
00:14:42And we ended up having an argument then.
00:14:43We told you this, but, Amy, I don't
00:14:45think it was a sexual comment.
00:14:47We were speaking about walking my dog,
00:14:49and he made that into a sexual comment.
00:14:51Why can't you read the room, grow the fuck up, and realise?
00:14:56It makes me feel uncomfortable.
00:14:58Why do you not care?
00:14:59All you care about is yourself.
00:15:01OK.
00:15:01Why are you rolling your eyes?
00:15:03I don't think it was sexual.
00:15:04It was basically about, oh, can you
00:15:06see yourself living in Kent?
00:15:07Yeah, I can see myself bringing John the dog for exercise.
00:15:11Oh, not only John, his exercise.
00:15:13And we'd slept together the night before, so it's like,
00:15:15what does this man want from me?
00:15:16Hey, what was it?
00:15:17That's why it was a little joke.
00:15:19Read the room.
00:15:23So homestay ends Rocky.
00:15:26So you go into your homestay.
00:15:29What happens?
00:15:31We went into my mum's house.
00:15:34And there's a photograph of me when I was 18.
00:15:37And Luke says, oh, is this before the glow up?
00:15:41And he was like, you look a lot more bloated on this.
00:15:46It's like, your teeth, your lips,
00:15:48I just don't understand why those comments were made.
00:15:52All I was saying is that I prefer how you look now.
00:15:55You'd like to think that after making
00:15:57some changes at a certain cost that you're going to improve.
00:16:00And I thought she didn't improve.
00:16:01That if there were the two girls in front of me,
00:16:03I would pick this one now.
00:16:06Babe, if you go into a girl's house and say,
00:16:09you practically said you look fucking fat on this photo.
00:16:11No, bloated doesn't mean fat.
00:16:14Bloated means you look a bit bloated.
00:16:18OK, so once again, misunderstanding
00:16:21in the communication, which happens over and over
00:16:24and over again with both of you.
00:16:26I think reading the room is a real theme here.
00:16:29The impression we're getting is that you're not watching Amy.
00:16:31You're not reading Amy.
00:16:33But I struggle to understand sometimes how you're feeling.
00:16:36I don't know sometimes whether it's
00:16:38because facial expressions don't come across so well.
00:16:45No, we're not going to take that.
00:16:47We're talking about your capacity to read your partner.
00:16:52And we're hearing so many examples here of you
00:16:54completely missing the cues.
00:16:57So either you're not demonstrating empathy
00:17:00or you're choosing to overlook them.
00:17:03I'm not going to agree with you on that one.
00:17:05And you're not going to blame her face.
00:17:08Quite frankly, what you need to be doing is reading your partner.
00:17:13She's telling you these comments make her feel uncomfortable.
00:17:17That should be all that matters.
00:17:19That's what's important here.
00:17:23I know it doesn't make me feel good to know that I've done that.
00:17:27But from my point of view, I feel like it's very difficult
00:17:31because everything I do or say is not right or inappropriate.
00:17:37It gets worse.
00:17:38Jeez.
00:17:40We walked in to meet my friends.
00:17:42My best friend Alex wasn't at the wedding and basically said,
00:17:46Luke, tell me about yourself.
00:17:47Tell me about your job.
00:17:48What do you do in your spare time?
00:17:51This is still a very sensitive subject to me
00:17:52because I've just found out my husband's a butler in the buff,
00:17:55which he told me he wasn't.
00:17:57So I was saying, do you want to tell her what else you do?
00:18:00And he was like, go on, there's an agenda here.
00:18:03He was like, I don't have anything else to say now.
00:18:06Took his wedding ring off and went, I'm single.
00:18:10And you were kind of egging them on, oh, but tell them,
00:18:12tell them, tell them, tell them what you do.
00:18:14Because I did one job with an apron on.
00:18:16So it's just one now.
00:18:17I thought it was three and then it was two and now it's one.
00:18:20One job I did with an apron.
00:18:21One, OK, but it was more than that.
00:18:23And this is how my wife's introducing me to her friends.
00:18:27I felt like Quasimodo being taken around Paris.
00:18:30Here's the Muppet, here's the butler in the buff,
00:18:33here's the liar.
00:18:34That's how you introduce me to your friends.
00:18:36I felt humiliated.
00:18:37I felt disrespected.
00:18:38I felt violated.
00:18:39Why are you ashamed about it?
00:18:40I'm not ashamed of it.
00:18:41I'll talk about it.
00:18:42I'm not ashamed of it.
00:18:43Because you introduced me like that.
00:18:49All right.
00:18:51Amy, you want to have truth and transparency and honesty
00:18:57in your relationship.
00:18:59The only way that you can get that
00:19:00is that you have to create an environment where
00:19:02that becomes the standard.
00:19:05But you don't create a safe environment for Luke.
00:19:12This is the first time he's meeting your friends.
00:19:15Clearly, he wants to make a good impression.
00:19:18How do you think he felt in that moment?
00:19:21Probably a little bit intimidated, but.
00:19:23You know, what's interesting is that you're
00:19:25not even listening to him.
00:19:27Because he just told you how he felt.
00:19:28He just said, I felt humiliated.
00:19:32Regardless of lies in the past, you
00:19:35are failing to just acknowledge your role in this.
00:19:39Yes, there's a lot that he has to do.
00:19:42But this process is about each of us becoming better.
00:19:47So if you want the transparency,
00:19:49you have to show up and say, you know what?
00:19:50I'm going to create a safe environment for you.
00:19:53You have to be empathetic to stay in the moment
00:19:55and say, you felt humiliated.
00:19:57And I'm sorry for my role in that, period.
00:20:03You removed your ring.
00:20:05Yeah.
00:20:06Why?
00:20:07It was the definition of an immature person, Paul.
00:20:10I should have kept my cool.
00:20:12And I regretted it the moment I took it off.
00:20:15Yep.
00:20:15And you know, Luke, I know you adore Amy.
00:20:20I think part of your lying is because you may not feel
00:20:23in your heart that you're enough for her.
00:20:26And you're constantly trying to figure out how
00:20:27you could fit into her world.
00:20:30These are issues that you have.
00:20:33You have to know that you are enough.
00:20:36So my only question to you right now
00:20:38is, can you consistently be truthful?
00:20:44I'd like to think I have the ability.
00:20:46The lies that I say, they are white lies.
00:20:50But I have to take a contribution of what I do.
00:20:53She's just asking for you to be honest.
00:20:54I know.
00:20:55You know, it's a simple request.
00:20:56I know.
00:21:00OK.
00:21:01Let's go to the decision.
00:21:05Amy, why don't you kick things off for us?
00:21:09I feel like I could see such great potential between us.
00:21:13And when we have the conversations about the lies,
00:21:16I'm thinking to myself, yes, we're getting somewhere.
00:21:18We're going to get better.
00:21:24But homestays have just been absolutely awful.
00:21:29You absolutely humiliated me in front of my friends.
00:21:34It brought out a side of me that I've never seen before.
00:21:39And I really don't want to be that person.
00:21:42And for that reason, I put leave.
00:21:51OK.
00:21:55Luke?
00:21:57I was in a dilemma.
00:22:00How can I say stay when I make her feel like this?
00:22:04I want you to be happy.
00:22:05This is the first and the last thing I want, you being happy.
00:22:08Perhaps I'm not good enough to make her happy.
00:22:11As painful as that is, if it's the truth, it's the truth.
00:22:18But I really like her.
00:22:23I feel she's really good for me.
00:22:26So I'm willing to try everything I've got left in me
00:22:30to give you a glimpse that I can be the Luke that I
00:22:33need to be for you.
00:22:34And for that reason, I said I'm going to stay.
00:22:49We know if one member of the couple writes stay,
00:22:54then the couple needs to stay.
00:22:58Amy, are you willing to stay and work on the marriage?
00:23:03I don't know where we can go from here, if I'm honest.
00:23:16Amy, are you willing to stay and work on the marriage?
00:23:20I'm not.
00:23:21I'm not.
00:23:21I'm not.
00:23:22I'm not.
00:23:23I'm not.
00:23:24I'm not.
00:23:25I'm not.
00:23:25I'm not.
00:23:26I'm not.
00:23:27I'm not.
00:23:28I'm not.
00:23:29I'm not.
00:23:29I'm not.
00:23:30I'm not.
00:23:31Amy, are you willing to stay and work on the marriage?
00:23:43I don't know where we can go from here, if I'm honest.
00:23:56If you have anything left in you,
00:23:58that you can go a few days without lying,
00:24:01then that's a start.
00:24:04But if it continues, then...
00:24:07I don't want to carry on.
00:24:09That's a very fair request.
00:24:14Thank you very much. Well done, you two.
00:24:16Good work.
00:24:18APPLAUSE
00:24:20For Amy letting leave, I did not see that coming.
00:24:23I feel upset, but mostly I think I feel disappointed in myself
00:24:27that I have caused this woman to want to leave our relationship.
00:24:32I'm not a quitter, so I am going to take the expert's advice on board,
00:24:36but I can't feel anything but anger towards him right now.
00:24:39And I have no idea where we're going to go from here.
00:24:46Next up on the couch...
00:24:52..Nathan and Lacey.
00:24:54CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:24:57Hello, you all right?
00:24:59Hello, guys. Welcome back.
00:25:01Thank you. It's nice to be back.
00:25:04You look like you're happy. Yeah.
00:25:06It's a good sign.
00:25:08Let's start with the homestays.
00:25:12Nathan, what was it like meeting Lacey's mum again
00:25:16after that incident when you said something negative about her cooking?
00:25:22Yeah, so she said,
00:25:23Oh, no, don't worry about it.
00:25:25She was amazing, honestly, such a great host.
00:25:28Really good mum, really loving person.
00:25:31Honestly, couldn't have picked a better homestay, like...
00:25:34They loved him. Yeah.
00:25:37So it sounds like, Nathan, you're in there.
00:25:39Yeah, I mean, she's got me doing a bit of a DIY run now.
00:25:42LAUGHTER
00:25:44Oh, you're definitely in.
00:25:46Yeah, it was really good.
00:25:48And her mum helped her, giving her a load of reassurance.
00:25:53I just want to be the best partner I can be for him.
00:25:57She's an over-thinker.
00:25:59Like, for example, if I go off into a daydream,
00:26:01or I can look sad, but it's just my face expression,
00:26:04she might think in her head,
00:26:06am I thinking about her in a negative way?
00:26:08But if I felt sad, I'd let her know.
00:26:10So if I don't, then you're sweet. Yeah.
00:26:13That needed a bit of mummer advice.
00:26:15Yeah.
00:26:16Lacey, you've got a good one there, you're not failing.
00:26:19You're doing a good job.
00:26:22I suppose it's about just getting to know
00:26:24what works for your partner.
00:26:26Because if you're not saying how you feel,
00:26:29then it does leave space for a partner to wonder,
00:26:32is everything OK? Yeah.
00:26:35Nathan, Lacey needs to hear your voice, not your silence.
00:26:40You should be thinking, how can I over-communicate?
00:26:43Cos it's never going to be too much for Lacey.
00:26:46Tell me about it!
00:26:48Yeah, it's never going to be too much.
00:26:50I definitely appreciate that. Yeah.
00:26:52When I wander off, it can be a bit of a concern,
00:26:55and you might need me to go, no, it's all right.
00:26:57I do, but I do it more.
00:26:59You know, I keep giving you a bit of reassurance. Yeah.
00:27:04Would you say the homestay was a good indicator
00:27:09that this could be our future? Yeah.
00:27:15I knew I had feelings for him.
00:27:17But since coming back, I've just got this rush of...
00:27:20I keep looking at him like...
00:27:24Yeah, I've got strong feelings. Yeah.
00:27:26Let's reciprocate. I'm feeling you.
00:27:31I'm just wondering whether you've had an opportunity
00:27:34to speak about the distance.
00:27:36Do you know what? That's not even a worry any more.
00:27:38Because how I feel about him, I'd be stupid not to give it a go.
00:27:42And you would as well. Mm.
00:27:44Lacey just told you.
00:27:47Nathan, what are your thoughts?
00:27:49It's never really been an issue for me.
00:27:51And now seeing you with my family, and how much they, like, love you...
00:27:54Get on, yeah.
00:27:56..it just fits right in, you know? Yeah.
00:27:59I mean, this feels absolutely perfect.
00:28:02I suppose that confirms that actually there's something
00:28:05really growing here between the two of you.
00:28:07Yeah, yeah, it's good, yeah. Definitely.
00:28:12Let's go to the decisions.
00:28:14Shall we start with you, Nathan?
00:28:18I haven't felt this way about someone before.
00:28:22Yeah, we communicate amazingly.
00:28:25I love chatting with you. You're like a good best friend.
00:28:33So, I'll put Stay.
00:28:36APPLAUSE
00:28:42So, I definitely feel like my feelings for Nathan are getting stronger.
00:28:46You're my safe place, but my best friend, my family approve.
00:28:50And they said if we don't work out, they still want to know, yeah?
00:28:53So...
00:28:55And it is heading in the love. It's going in.
00:28:57Yeah, I feel like we're tap dancing round the love at the minute.
00:29:01So, yeah, of course I'd love to stay.
00:29:05APPLAUSE
00:29:09Well, we can't wait to see how this progresses.
00:29:13We want to wish you all the best. So, good luck, guys.
00:29:16Well done. Don't live your life.
00:29:18APPLAUSE
00:29:23That was lovely.
00:29:25Are you happy with that? Really happy.
00:29:28Thank you, baby.
00:29:35Next up on the couch we have...
00:29:39..Ross and Sasha.
00:29:41Go on, Sasha.
00:29:44You've got this.
00:29:46Hello, you two.
00:29:51Oh, God, she's going to cry already.
00:29:56Wow.
00:29:58Just got to call it straight away.
00:30:00You don't look happy, you two.
00:30:03Yeah, I'm just losing my shit, really.
00:30:05Just got a lot of thinking with the final vote,
00:30:10the moving situation.
00:30:13I think we're just building up.
00:30:15It's affecting me.
00:30:17It could be the experiment. I don't know.
00:30:20It's just different arguments, really.
00:30:27It is an overwhelming stage of the experiment.
00:30:30Tension has built, and we can help you with that.
00:30:35Perhaps, Sasha, why don't we start with you?
00:30:39First off, I just want to say...
00:30:42..I know that my emotional regulation is bad.
00:30:46I can be argumentative. You know I can.
00:30:48You've seen how I can be argumentative.
00:30:50How I've been with Alex, for example.
00:30:54The issue is, when Ross gets a temper...
00:30:57..how bad it is.
00:31:00He's got this attitude and this tone.
00:31:03Food gets thrown at the wall, I get called names.
00:31:06He was calling me a little fake bitch.
00:31:10The most recent time, it happened last night.
00:31:13I always thought when today, we'd probably be like,
00:31:15I can't believe I'd spoke to Sasha like that.
00:31:18But he didn't even speak to me.
00:31:21He doesn't even feel remorseful when he reacts the way he reacts.
00:31:25So I feel like I've got nothing to work with.
00:31:29Ross, I noticed as you're listening, you're shaking your head.
00:31:34It's not just me, it's her as well.
00:31:36It can't be just me. I'm not flipping for no reason.
00:31:40You have a temper as well, don't you?
00:31:44Sometimes it's like the smallest thing.
00:31:46I was texting Kieran the one day once we got back in from the pub,
00:31:49and he was like, what you kept texting Kieran for?
00:31:52No, I'm not, I'm not.
00:31:53Hang on, hang on. I caught an attitude.
00:31:55I went, well, what's the problem?
00:31:57And he picked up his phone and he threw it at the wall.
00:32:01Talking about the Kieran situation,
00:32:03when we got back to the apartment,
00:32:05promised me we'd have the conversation before anything else.
00:32:07So as soon as we got back to the apartment,
00:32:09the first thing she did was text Kieran,
00:32:11and I was waiting, sitting down.
00:32:12That's what I got pissed off about.
00:32:14And I was in the room for that.
00:32:15Oh, is it OK? Am I allowed to do that?
00:32:17She was on the phone to me, and that's what pissed me off.
00:32:21If they want to come to an argument,
00:32:23we don't all want to stop.
00:32:25The more it builds up, and that's where it gets worse.
00:32:30I'd love to do that, honestly.
00:32:36Ross and Sasha, we've seen your fiery sides.
00:32:39In fact, that's one of the compatibility points for the two of you,
00:32:43is you are both incredibly passionate,
00:32:46but it can also lead to butting heads.
00:32:48This is about the dynamic between the two of you,
00:32:51and you are both contributing to it.
00:32:53What I'm talking about here is the communication
00:32:56between the two of you that goes from zero to ten, boom.
00:33:00You're both seeing red, the conflict is elevating,
00:33:03and you're blaming each other.
00:33:06I'm not hearing any examples of either of you taking accountability
00:33:09for what's going on.
00:33:11So when you're in that challenging situation,
00:33:16rather than keep going, say to each other,
00:33:19we need to stop.
00:33:21Take a step back to give yourselves that time out to cool down.
00:33:26Then come back together with less emotion and talk through things.
00:33:31How can we work together to get what we both want?
00:33:37Yes.
00:33:46The idea here, guys, is to stop things before you get to that point.
00:33:51You also need to put some ground rules in place.
00:33:54No throwing things.
00:33:57No name-calling.
00:33:59No disrespectful behaviour at all.
00:34:06Sasha, you look concerned.
00:34:10I would love that time apart,
00:34:12just to come back and see each other's perspective.
00:34:15That's what I want.
00:34:17Mm-hm. Good.
00:34:20All right, so let's dig a little bit deeper about the last week.
00:34:24I understand you recently met Ross's daughter, Blue.
00:34:28Yeah, I got really emotional seeing him with his daughter
00:34:32because she was so excited to see him
00:34:35and I knew how much it meant to him.
00:34:38Ross, how was it for you observing Sasha with Blue?
00:34:59It's clear that the two of you really do care about each other
00:35:04and you're starting to have these really important,
00:35:08powerful conversations about
00:35:10what's life going to look like after the experiment?
00:35:15And I think the fact that you guys are experiencing tension as well
00:35:18makes it extra difficult.
00:35:20I agree with that, yeah.
00:35:23Ross, is there anything you'd like to say to her right now?
00:35:34I'm very sorry.
00:35:36Hopefully, whatever they like to get from us, we will learn from it
00:35:40and be happy the way we were before.
00:35:47And do you accept his apology?
00:36:04I do accept his apology, yeah.
00:36:07It's a shame that that didn't come this morning.
00:36:11I've never felt for anyone the way I feel for you.
00:36:19One of the questions you asked me on our honeymoon was,
00:36:23do you fall in love easy?
00:36:25And I said, absolutely not.
00:36:28But...
00:36:30..when I met you, you was everything that I wanted.
00:36:34So I thought...
00:36:38..the universe had, like, blessed me.
00:36:42And...
00:36:45..I really wanted to do everything I could to make you happy.
00:36:51You didn't make me happy, babe. Oi, you didn't make me happy.
00:36:54And I feel like I have bent over backwards in this process
00:36:57to do all that I can for you.
00:36:59Hey.
00:37:00And I've never done that for anyone the way I am with you.
00:37:03I've never... I've never been...
00:37:05I've never been that way.
00:37:11I feel... I just feel like...
00:37:25It's all going to be my work, no matter what.
00:37:28I just want to make this work.
00:37:30I know we can, because we're both very strong.
00:37:34I am willing to make this work, and I'm going to fight for it,
00:37:37and I'm going to bring it back up here again
00:37:39to get the smoke back in the face again.
00:37:41So, yeah.
00:37:44All right, well, I think we'll go to the decision for the two of you.
00:37:48Ross, we're going to start with you.
00:37:51To be honest, I couldn't wait to meet you guys.
00:37:55Right now, I do feel a lot better.
00:37:59That's what I meant, what I said,
00:38:01about willing to make this work and fight for it,
00:38:03because this is what I need every day.
00:38:06I'm very sorry for what happened.
00:38:09Believe me when I say this, I'm going to make you back up here again,
00:38:13and I want us to be on the right path.
00:38:16Be happy, yeah.
00:38:19That should...
00:38:22..start you.
00:38:32And to you, Sasha.
00:38:35Obviously, you know how much I care about you.
00:38:41It's a lot, it's really deep.
00:38:44Because when things are good,
00:38:46it's...it's magical.
00:38:51But...
00:38:53..my head's just absolutely messed, to be honest.
00:38:57I definitely saw a different side to Ross.
00:39:00Having a husband that has a temper is a complete no.
00:39:06Even if we do get argumentative with each other,
00:39:09I don't think that's a good enough excuse
00:39:12to be throwing your food at the wall.
00:39:17Saying I'm a fake bitch.
00:39:20And I am absolutely emotionally drained.
00:39:31I did right leave.
00:39:47I am absolutely emotionally drained.
00:39:52I did right leave.
00:40:03It wasn't an easy decision at all, because I couldn't decide.
00:40:08And that's why I thought I needed to leave.
00:40:16So, just to clarify, when one partner says stay
00:40:19and the other says leave,
00:40:21both partners stay for another week
00:40:23to continue to work on their relationship.
00:40:27Are you both prepared to do that?
00:40:32I'm up to date, like I said, I'm willing to make this work
00:40:35and I'm going to fight for it.
00:40:38Now that you've had this conversation with us and with Ross,
00:40:41have you changed your decision in your mind?
00:40:45Well...
00:40:56Yeah, because I want to believe that the relationship will change.
00:41:03You can do this, guys.
00:41:05Yeah, you're both on the same side here.
00:41:08Work together as a team.
00:41:11Well done, you two.
00:41:12Well done, guys.
00:41:33I know that Ross means his apology
00:41:35and Ross sounds like he wants to fight for it,
00:41:38so I'm willing to fight for it with him.
00:41:42Because at the end of the day, I do love Ross
00:41:45and I do want this to work.
00:41:52Next up...
00:41:56...Polly and Adam.
00:41:58Come on up.
00:42:04Greetings to the both of you.
00:42:06How are you doing, man?
00:42:07Yeah, we're good. Well, I'm good, thank you.
00:42:11So let's go to partner swap.
00:42:14How did that go for both of you?
00:42:15Adam, let's start with you.
00:42:17Me and Amy had a right laugh, to be fair.
00:42:19Amy went to a lingerie shop to get some bits and bobs
00:42:23to kind of spice up the bedroom.
00:42:27I got edible bra for Polly and edible thong for me.
00:42:32I think you should swap.
00:42:37And I got a really nice four-piece matching set for Polly.
00:42:42I said to Adam, like, I really appreciate it,
00:42:44like, I love the fact that you've done this,
00:42:46but in my mind, it's like you've given me nothing.
00:42:50I've not been made to feel wanted or desired in that way
00:42:53now you've bought me lingerie.
00:42:55I've bought stuff with me that I've not yet put on
00:42:57because I haven't thought we were there.
00:42:59OK.
00:43:00So I was like, this is great,
00:43:02but I feel like you've now gone from zero to 100.
00:43:06Polly's response wasn't what I was expecting.
00:43:09We had an argument where I said,
00:43:10I keep coming out of my comfort zone for you
00:43:12and trying to do things that you want from me,
00:43:15but it's not good enough.
00:43:17I was like, I feel like you are being a bit selfish.
00:43:20I feel like it was just because it was that
00:43:22which you know has been a topic for us consistently.
00:43:27Yeah, it was a big jump, you know what I mean?
00:43:29Probably should have been built up to.
00:43:31So I did get why she felt like it,
00:43:32it was just a bit of a kick in the teeth.
00:43:35Now that you've clarified that, that makes sense.
00:43:39So now, moving into the homestays.
00:43:43So the first stop was Adam's.
00:43:47Polly, did you feel welcomed in Adam's house?
00:43:50Yes and no.
00:43:52Because there was clearly no room for my stuff anywhere.
00:43:57It was a case of I'll just sit on the end of the sofa,
00:43:59not touch anything because I don't want to fuck up your cushions.
00:44:02I didn't feel comfortable.
00:44:05I was just a knob and I apologise.
00:44:07I can't, I can't say anything else.
00:44:10Okay, so that was definitely a step back.
00:44:14How was the rest of the time at Adam's?
00:44:17My best man from the wedding came round.
00:44:19Polly told Rich about the massive argument we had
00:44:22about the Stephen twist situation.
00:44:25And it made me feel like Polly was saying to my friend,
00:44:28I'm acting like Stephen now because that's what she wanted.
00:44:32Okay.
00:44:33And then we had a huge bust up in front of his mate
00:44:37while he was sitting on the sofa.
00:44:39I feel like I went in more because he was so shitty the whole day.
00:44:45It did get sorted, but just not until after another bust up the next morning.
00:44:50Resolution on the conflict.
00:44:52We're now stronger as a couple.
00:44:54Yeah.
00:44:55Okay, we now go into Polly's homestay.
00:44:57So how'd that go?
00:44:59Amazing. It was so good.
00:45:00Okay.
00:45:01Really good.
00:45:03I mean, clearly, Polly, family means everything to you.
00:45:06Were you able to see Adam fitting within your family?
00:45:10Oh, absolutely.
00:45:12It was just comfortable, like it was just so natural
00:45:15to the point where I forgot about him being there.
00:45:17It was easy.
00:45:18Yeah, it was easy.
00:45:19Yeah, because I was really nervous, but the moment I walked in,
00:45:22I've never been made feel like so comfortable
00:45:24and like it was actually really nice, wasn't it?
00:45:26Wow.
00:45:27It was really nice, I'm honest.
00:45:28So Adam, could you see at that moment actually fitting into Polly's family?
00:45:32Oh yeah, definitely.
00:45:34This is good, this is good.
00:45:39So overall, you think about the homestays.
00:45:41What do you believe you learned?
00:45:45That he's one very patient man.
00:45:48Very understanding of seeing how I have been throughout this
00:45:52compared to who I was at home.
00:45:54And I do need to give him a little bit more credit
00:45:57than what I have.
00:45:59The week before we went to homestays,
00:46:01I was seeing a side to Polly that I said to her,
00:46:03like, I'm not feeling it.
00:46:05You're being loud, you're swearing loads.
00:46:07It's a bit off-putting.
00:46:08And then when we went to the homestays,
00:46:10I was like, you're like a completely different person.
00:46:12You're chilled, like, you're giggling, you're smiling.
00:46:15Like how I think she should be.
00:46:17I just don't know if it's the experiment that's making her erupt.
00:46:21OK.
00:46:22Yeah, that when we were on our homestays,
00:46:25we just gravitated towards each other even more.
00:46:29I feel like being at mine brought us closer together.
00:46:33Because he saw me like that,
00:46:35he could see this is how she is all the time.
00:46:39I felt a huge shift.
00:46:41So we have said that I need to try and bring home Polly
00:46:45back to the apartments.
00:46:47So all of my focus and energy needs to be on him.
00:46:50Your focus and energy needs to be on Adam,
00:46:53on the relationship, but also on yourself.
00:46:56Yeah.
00:46:57Adam, you've made great progress.
00:46:59And I believe you've probably delivered more in this relationship
00:47:03than you have in any previous relationship that you've been in.
00:47:06But there's more that you need to deliver.
00:47:09And I think you have it within you clearly to do it.
00:47:15So, can we go to a decision?
00:47:18Yeah.
00:47:19Adam, would you like to do the honours and go first?
00:47:22Right.
00:47:23So, this last week has been interesting.
00:47:27I think seeing you at your homestays has changed a lot of things.
00:47:31It was really nice to see you in your home environment.
00:47:34And I'm excited to see what the rest of the process brings.
00:47:39So, for that reason, I said stay.
00:47:42APPLAUSE
00:47:46We've had, yeah, a start from, obviously, a bad week,
00:47:52that then improved and we spoke about, obviously,
00:47:55what we need to do and what we're going to do.
00:47:58And, yeah, I've enjoyed it as much as I haven't,
00:48:01but I feel like we've needed that for, again, us to be where we are.
00:48:05So, I have decided to stay.
00:48:08APPLAUSE
00:48:12Thank you both. Thank you so much.
00:48:14Thank you. Thank you.
00:48:16APPLAUSE
00:48:19That was so nice, wasn't it? Yeah.
00:48:26OK, last up on the couch...
00:48:29..Kieran and Christina.
00:48:31APPLAUSE
00:48:34Hello. Hello.
00:48:36What's up, guys?
00:48:43How are the two of you getting on?
00:48:47Um...
00:48:50It's been a really tough week.
00:48:54I just feel like I'm drained.
00:48:59I understand, Christina, that this isn't an easy situation.
00:49:02I know, of course, you've had some time away,
00:49:05but for dinner party, you received an anonymous letter.
00:49:09Yeah.
00:49:10It seems like it brought up a lot of emotions for you.
00:49:14Oh, it was so emotional, reading it.
00:49:18I knew it would, because I know the guys sat down there love us,
00:49:22both as individuals and as a couple.
00:49:24Like, they root for us.
00:49:26From their perspective,
00:49:28there are things that we could still do to improve.
00:49:32And it just made me flood with emotion.
00:49:36And I just got really passionate,
00:49:38because I thought, actually, come on!
00:49:42I just felt really passionately, like, towards Kieran.
00:49:47I think everybody can see how much I care about him.
00:49:51How I admire you so much.
00:49:57And that's very courageous of you.
00:49:59Kieran, what was it like to hear Christina say that, actually,
00:50:03she wants to fight for this?
00:50:06Receiving it was really difficult,
00:50:08and I broke down when she was speaking.
00:50:12At some point, we've all been in the position of,
00:50:14put Christina in, and it's not nice doing that at all.
00:50:19And I hate seeing you upset.
00:50:22So that night was very difficult at the dinner party.
00:50:27At the same time, I'm thinking, I'm so fucking proud of you right now.
00:50:31I'm still really proud of you for projecting what you want
00:50:34and what you believe in.
00:50:37So where are you guys at right now?
00:50:40We're doing homestays separate.
00:50:43And that was because I didn't want to take Christina back to mine
00:50:47knowing where my head's at.
00:50:51I took Mel's advice, and that was to go away and write down
00:50:55how Christina is different from me ex.
00:50:58And this is where it gets scary.
00:51:01The only difference that I could find,
00:51:04and I really thought about this,
00:51:07is that Christina is very outgoing.
00:51:13What is it that you're saying?
00:51:15I've been in this position before.
00:51:18I kind of go through my life
00:51:20just putting other people first all the time.
00:51:23I know Christina is a different person.
00:51:26I know Christina is a totally different girl, and I do.
00:51:29You are.
00:51:30But I can't help but see similarities.
00:51:34Can't get past that.
00:51:46My outlook on life is completely different.
00:51:49OK.
00:51:50And I'm not willing to live in the moment as much as Christina does.
00:51:56I believe that, yes, you should have to change yourself
00:51:58to be in a relationship in certain ways.
00:52:01But changing the core of what you believe in
00:52:03and where it is you want to be in life,
00:52:05that's not something I'm prepared to change,
00:52:07because that's who makes me, me.
00:52:13Do you feel that it gave you the space
00:52:16to think about your situation,
00:52:18getting advice from family, Christina?
00:52:22I just feel, like, as frustrated as I am with Kieran,
00:52:26and, like, I want to bang his head against a brick wall
00:52:29and tell him to sort himself out,
00:52:32it's clear that there is still strong feelings there.
00:52:37My family, they were like,
00:52:39where's Kieran? And I was like, oh, my God, man.
00:52:43I just... Nobody saw it coming.
00:52:47Don't cry.
00:52:51I just love him as a person.
00:52:56In my vows, all I ask is to never be judged,
00:52:59to be accepted for all of me,
00:53:02to be patient with me, to listen to me,
00:53:04and I will do the same.
00:53:07And I've done that for you.
00:53:12Kieran, you talked about outlook on life.
00:53:14You can have different philosophies on life.
00:53:17You can have different views on five-year outlook
00:53:20or different views on finance.
00:53:22It can still work.
00:53:26But what will never work
00:53:28is a partner that has high emotional walls.
00:53:33When you have high emotional walls,
00:53:35you don't allow any joy into your life, man.
00:53:40The strongest act of courage
00:53:42is for you to drop them and be vulnerable.
00:53:51But I ask myself the question...
00:53:56Can I see myself and Christina being together in ten years' time?
00:54:16But I ask myself the question...
00:54:21Can I see myself and Christina being together in ten years' time?
00:54:30Yeah, but who does that?
00:54:32Well, we're in a marriage. That's why I'm here.
00:54:34You're not guaranteed to be here ten years from now.
00:54:38The focus is on enjoying every moment that you have together.
00:54:45Tomorrow is not promised, but today is.
00:54:49I just don't want to see you lose someone who is phenomenal for you.
00:55:01I just don't know how much I've got left in us
00:55:04for the amount of emotional support Christina needs.
00:55:09Okay.
00:55:10That's a big deal to me.
00:55:12If you're talking about not having the capacity for forgiveness,
00:55:16if you're talking about not having the capacity for emotional support,
00:55:19that's something different.
00:55:22I have got better.
00:55:24Yeah, yeah, totally you have.
00:55:26Even the PMDD, from when that first happened to now,
00:55:30it's the last time you had it, I was like, has it even been?
00:55:34It's here now.
00:55:35Is it? Is it? Is it really?
00:55:37Yeah.
00:55:38Well done, you. Well done.
00:55:41As a couple, look how you've managed that.
00:55:44Yeah.
00:55:46I understand I do manage it, but it's just...
00:55:52I'm a lot, I know I am.
00:55:54I just want to be loved, that's all it is.
00:55:57Oh, yeah. I just want to be loved.
00:55:59And all I just keep thinking about is just that wedding day.
00:56:04Like, that is just what kills me.
00:56:09To go from that wedding to then how we are now,
00:56:14every time I look at the wedding pictures,
00:56:17I literally say to him, I want that man back.
00:56:21I want my husband back.
00:56:24I want the guy that I met at the aisle with,
00:56:27with those fucking goofy teeth, back.
00:56:31It's late, Christine Nasser's at the wedding.
00:56:35I literally walked over to my dad and I went,
00:56:37just everything I asked for.
00:56:41I care about you a lot.
00:56:43I care about you a lot.
00:56:47I love you.
00:56:49I love you.
00:56:51I love you.
00:56:53I love you.
00:56:55I love you.
00:56:57I love you.
00:57:00The two of you have been on quite a journey
00:57:02over the last few weeks, and you've both tried to be
00:57:05very respectful and be very honest with one another.
00:57:11Should we go to the decisions?
00:57:25I know I'm not going to meet another girl like you.
00:57:30You're a fucking superstar.
00:57:35And I'm really sorry to put you in this position, Christina.
00:57:37It was never my intention.
00:57:39I'll always think the world of you.
00:57:45I just know that...
00:57:49..I can't give you the best version of me.
00:57:52And for that reason, I thought I'd leave.
00:57:56Thank you, Kieran.
00:58:03Christina?
00:58:07I feel I put in 110% effort from day one.
00:58:14Part of the reason I'm here is because I know
00:58:17I can't just turn my feelings off overnight.
00:58:20Kieran knows that.
00:58:24I have been so patient and so understanding, so respectful.
00:58:30The ball's been in his court for ages.
00:58:38So...
00:58:41So...
00:58:46I'm going to leave. OK.
00:58:55Wow. You've both written leave, so, of course,
00:58:58this is the end of the experiment for the two of you.
00:59:04I promised myself that I wouldn't cry, so I'm not going to.
00:59:08It has been such a joy to be on this journey with you.
00:59:13The effort that you've put in has been amazing.
00:59:16I genuinely, genuinely wish you both the very best.
00:59:22And I hope that the two of you stay friends.
00:59:24Oh, absolutely.
00:59:29I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart
00:59:32for giving this your all.
00:59:34And I just genuinely wish you the best for the future.
00:59:37Don't change for anyone.
00:59:41Thank you for the most magical, amazing day of my life
00:59:45at our wedding.
00:59:48I'm gutted, but I do only wish you the best.
00:59:53You'll be in my life, don't worry.
00:59:57Thank you, guys. Thank you so much.
00:59:59Thank you, guys.
01:00:02I'm going to miss you so much.
01:00:06I literally gave Kieran my all and everything.
01:00:12I took this experiment so seriously,
01:00:15I genuinely thought I was going to have a husband
01:00:18at the end of this.
01:00:20How can I go on without him?
01:00:24I'm going to miss you so much.
01:00:26I'm going to miss you so much.
01:00:28I'm going to miss you so much.
01:00:30How can I go from being your perfect match,
01:00:33the girl of your dreams, everything,
01:00:36to then nothing?
01:00:40The end goal was to fall in love,
01:00:43find me a forever person.
01:00:45It hasn't happened.
01:00:48Of course I wish that things did turn out differently,
01:00:51but I have got a friend for life.
01:00:54I love Christina a bit.
01:00:56And I'll always be there for her.
01:01:01I am hopeful that I am going to find this everlasting love
01:01:04with the right person.
01:01:06I'm a lot stronger than I think,
01:01:08and I know what I deserve
01:01:11and what I want from my next partner.
01:01:19Next time...
01:01:21Definitely should have had that sandwich before I got on this.
01:01:24..the couples head off for final dates.
01:01:26Kind of suits you driving this.
01:01:28As Ross attempts to win Sasha over...
01:01:30It felt right to leave.
01:01:32I'm on to you, mate. See you after you've gone.
01:01:35..for Polly and Adam...
01:01:37Cheers to us and to the future.
01:01:39..marital bliss is short-lived.
01:01:41I feel like you're not giving me what I want.
01:01:43Why do you sit there and go, I care about you?
01:01:45That's what you do. That's not what I do.
01:01:47The old Polly is slowly creeping back.
01:01:49..but it's Luke falling back into old habits.
01:01:52That's actually really sexy, I'm not going to lie.
01:01:54Behave.
01:01:56This is a cooking class, not a porno.
01:01:58I've given Luke chance after chance.
01:02:00..and lack of honesty...
01:02:02Can you tell me how many relationships you've had?
01:02:05..that drives Amy to despair.
01:02:07Even that number's probably inaccurate.
01:02:09What the fuck? Absolutely bonkers.