Married at First Sight UK Season 9 Episode 21
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00:00:00What were the cats dragged in?
00:00:04Previously...
00:00:05Jesus Christ, that was f***ing exhausting.
00:00:07After Hannah faced the wrath of the group...
00:00:09F*** her. You've rubbed me the f***ing wrong way now.
00:00:14One groom offered a welcome distraction.
00:00:17I've got 24 hours to enjoy myself.
00:00:20But it was an indiscreet proposition from Stephen...
00:00:22So you find Shannon unattractive?
00:00:23Oh, she's my type. Do something to help me.
00:00:27That prompted outrage.
00:00:29Stephen said, if Ryan doesn't turn up tonight, I'm going to shoot myself.
00:00:34Stephen's definitely broke ball code.
00:00:37And Polly's attempts at damage control...
00:00:39I'm sorry, I'm f***ing sorry, Adam. There you go.
00:00:42Fell short of Adam's expectations.
00:00:45It's a fake sorry. I don't cut it.
00:00:47The stuff that he said about me is f***ing hurtful.
00:00:54Tonight...
00:00:55I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
00:00:57She's finally seeing who I actually am.
00:01:00The impact of the retreat hits home.
00:01:03I felt betrayed. My head's been scrambled.
00:01:06It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch.
00:01:08Pushing some marriages...
00:01:09This is going to be hard to hear.
00:01:10This is why I prepare myself for the worst.
00:01:13To breaking points.
00:01:15At that moment, I knew I could not stand him.
00:01:18Just like squeezing blood from a stone.
00:01:21Were you trying to make Stephen jealous?
00:01:23You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a f*** about you.
00:01:25Why do I want him to speak to this girl?
00:01:27But it's a shocking revelation.
00:01:29Have they not been sneakily kissing?
00:01:31They've what?
00:01:33You consider what you did an act of infidelity.
00:01:36That delivers the biggest blow of the evening.
00:01:38He deserves to know.
00:01:40I think it's bullshit.
00:01:41Snake.
00:01:42Hannah, zip it.
00:01:44Don't tell me to shut up.
00:01:45You're a sly guy.
00:01:46You're talking f***ing shit.
00:01:48It is very clear that this relationship is done.
00:01:56MUSIC
00:02:01Is that I love you or is it just love?
00:02:03It's not either and I'm up to you.
00:02:07Don't you point it.
00:02:08Wouldn't you just say I love you?
00:02:10Oh, yeah.
00:02:12As the couple settle back into apartment life...
00:02:16Do you mind coming to help me?
00:02:18I've never done this before.
00:02:20Yes, I do, all the time.
00:02:23..they're reflecting on their time away.
00:02:29The retreat done us good because, obviously,
00:02:31a lot of the other couples weren't getting on.
00:02:33It just makes you realise what you do have.
00:02:36We've come back and I feel cured.
00:02:41And now that we're understanding each other better,
00:02:43I don't see us clashing as much.
00:02:45I'd say we're in a good place now, the best place we've ever been in.
00:02:49The retreat was really nice, wasn't it?
00:02:51Definitely.
00:02:53Me and Kieran, we had a lovely time at the retreat.
00:02:56It's really difficult being around me when I have PMDD,
00:03:02but we are in a good place and he's been really supportive.
00:03:07The bumps that we have, like, we can sort it out.
00:03:12I'm just pleased, like, we're actually speaking.
00:03:15There's people in there not even speaking.
00:03:17Oh, no. Oh, I'm pulled over.
00:03:30I do feel like me and Adam still have some things to resolve.
00:03:33I shouldn't have said, I twist with Stephen on the retreat.
00:03:37I hold my hands up, I **** up,
00:03:39but he isn't understanding my point
00:03:43and why I said the comment that I made.
00:03:46Unfortunately, I feel like the Stephen comment,
00:03:49it was a step back, wasn't it?
00:03:51It felt like a bit of a kick in the teeth, you know what I mean?
00:03:54Yeah, but there's been stuff that you've said
00:03:56that's been a huge kick in the teeth for me.
00:03:58I was fuming, not going to lie.
00:04:01He disrespected me, made me look muggy in front of all the other girls.
00:04:05I have done one thing, one,
00:04:08whereas you've done multiple little things.
00:04:11I know, and that's what was annoying me at the dinner party,
00:04:13because the things I've done, we've kind of got past and got over.
00:04:17So at the dinner table, for you to be saying to me,
00:04:20but you did this, you did that, it felt like it was...
00:04:22I wouldn't say that's fair to say.
00:04:23I wouldn't say that they have been gotten over.
00:04:25We're just going to argue if we keep talking about it.
00:04:27I think we just need to forget it.
00:04:31I don't really know where me and Polly stand at the moment.
00:04:34Going into the commitment ceremony,
00:04:36I've got a really hard decision to make.
00:04:39We're kind of just waiting for me to either get over this comment
00:04:43or move on.
00:04:49We've had a pretty good week.
00:04:51We've had a really good week, best week we've had in ages.
00:04:54We've had a snog, we've, you know, tested the waters there.
00:04:59It was almost like you went, I'm leaning in,
00:05:01it's got to be everything all at once.
00:05:03For me, it moved really quickly in a week.
00:05:08Sorry.
00:05:10I think the retreat's been really good for Emma and I,
00:05:13but you look at other couples in that process
00:05:16and they're falling in love and they've got these really strong relationships.
00:05:19So we know we've made progress, but have we made enough progress?
00:05:23I'm not sure is the answer.
00:05:29I felt like the retreat would be for us to go and listen to the birds chirping,
00:05:33go for walks. We did none of that.
00:05:35All we did, I felt, I felt, was we sat,
00:05:38consoled Hannah with her tantrums and, you know, her issues,
00:05:42and, oh, this and, oh, Stephen, that, Stephen, just get on with it.
00:05:45Like, she drained me. I'm sorry, but Hannah drained me.
00:05:48She sucked the fun out of me from the morning till the evening,
00:05:52till the good night.
00:05:53I can feel that you're stressed. Yeah.
00:06:06So we moved back into the apartment. Obviously, Stephen isn't here.
00:06:09He doesn't even have any of his stuff here.
00:06:11He hasn't spent a night in the apartment.
00:06:13In my heart, I'm like, come on, let's just try. We've got this.
00:06:17I don't feel like I've had the opportunity to be a wife.
00:06:21I still care about the boy.
00:06:23I don't just wake up and not give a crap about someone.
00:06:26There is still some care there.
00:06:28I loved the guy I married.
00:06:30And I am gutted.
00:06:32I have tried and tried and tried from day one.
00:06:34I've kept my ring on. I've told everyone I've still got a husband.
00:06:38I'm proud of how I've held my own.
00:06:40I'm proud... Oh!
00:06:45I can't wear my make-up. I'm going to the thing.
00:06:48I'm proud of myself. I'm proud of how I've held myself.
00:06:51And I've tried my best, and sometimes you take a risk
00:06:55and it doesn't pay off.
00:06:57And...
00:06:59..I tried, and that's all you can do.
00:07:04Fuck.
00:07:13That's Stephen. He's here for the wrong reason.
00:07:16I just wish you could have seen my reaction when Holly told me.
00:07:19The minute we have a tiff, he's trying to jump in.
00:07:22Embarrassing, isn't it? Embarrassing.
00:07:24Like, he's shown himself up massively.
00:07:26He blatantly lied.
00:07:28Do you know what? I've kept my cool with him.
00:07:31This man thinks he's better than what he is.
00:07:34I do not understand where he thought he was going to ever
00:07:38shoot a shot at me.
00:07:40Like, I'd have shot him right back down, and you know that.
00:07:48I have a few things to get off my chest today
00:07:50at the commitment ceremony.
00:07:52I do know that something went down at the retreat
00:07:54between Orson and Hannah.
00:07:57He literally wants to stay in the process by any means necessary.
00:08:01I thought he had a little bit more shame than this.
00:08:05But clearly he doesn't, so he's shown himself.
00:08:10I've lost so many brain cells since being married to Orson.
00:08:13I'm actually a little bit embarrassed that I married him.
00:08:16I actually pity him a little bit.
00:08:19Pity the fool.
00:08:22I have no idea if Rochelle's going to turn up today.
00:08:25She didn't turn up for the dinner party.
00:08:27She didn't turn up for the mixer.
00:08:29She didn't turn up for this relationship.
00:08:32But there's rumours knocking about,
00:08:35and I would want Rochelle to come and sit and say her peace.
00:08:40It's not going to happen.
00:08:42I don't know what's going to happen.
00:08:44I don't know what's going to happen.
00:08:46I don't know what's going to happen.
00:08:48I'm going to sit and say her peace
00:08:51because I'm ready for her.
00:09:19Welcome, everyone, to your fourth commitment ceremony.
00:09:23Look at the person next to you.
00:09:28And think about what they're giving you and you're giving them.
00:09:34Today, we want you to lay it all out on the table.
00:09:40No secrets, no shame.
00:09:44Now, with that in mind, let's begin.
00:09:50First up on the couch today is...
00:09:54..Holly and Alex.
00:10:03Hello.
00:10:04Hello.
00:10:05And quite the different couple sitting on the couch.
00:10:08We did a free sex day.
00:10:10Wow, you did?
00:10:12Holly, one of the things we talked about with you
00:10:16was addressing those issues as they come up in the moment
00:10:19rather than allowing them to percolate.
00:10:21How's that been going for you this week?
00:10:23A lot better. Right.
00:10:25I felt the only way we could progress is if I let him in.
00:10:29The things I struggle with and my triggers and my traumas.
00:10:32And he was like, I get it.
00:10:34And he just tells me and was like, I got you, it's OK, let it out.
00:10:38And thank God I bloody did.
00:10:40He just, he understood.
00:10:42And the next day I woke up and I thought, I could go and run a marathon.
00:10:45That feels so light.
00:10:48It's just an amazing feeling just to know that, like,
00:10:51she's finally seeing who I actually am.
00:10:54You can talk to me and you tried it and it worked.
00:10:58Good, good work.
00:11:00Wow, so how has this conversation changed your relationship?
00:11:05We're just so much more calmer around each other.
00:11:08It's more relaxed.
00:11:09I feel like everyone else is more relaxed around us.
00:11:11They're not sat there like, they're going to blow.
00:11:14Like, everyone just seems so much more chill around us.
00:11:17I'm glad that we've had the tiffs and the arguments that we've had
00:11:20because when we come back,
00:11:22we come back 20 times more stronger than before.
00:11:25Where to next?
00:11:26What do you need in order to deepen this relationship even further?
00:11:30Just continue doing what we're doing.
00:11:32Because everything else...
00:11:34..is fine.
00:11:38Are you telling Charlene not to ask?
00:11:42I feel like we've put the puzzle together.
00:11:44It's just making sure it stays in place.
00:11:47Wonderful.
00:11:48Well, why don't we go to a decision?
00:11:50Yeah.
00:11:51Holly, you first.
00:11:53I feel like a weight's lifted off my shoulders.
00:11:56I feel like we make a good team as well.
00:11:58You're daft.
00:12:00You make me feel stunning.
00:12:02Aw.
00:12:03And you make the best cups of tea ever.
00:12:06So, for that reason, my darling, I'm going to stay.
00:12:10Yeah.
00:12:14Wonderful.
00:12:15Over to you, big man.
00:12:17Yeah, I'm just enjoying getting to know Holly more
00:12:20and spending time with each other.
00:12:22We just have the best time.
00:12:24And there's no reason why she shouldn't be a million percent
00:12:27And there's no reason why she shouldn't be a million percent
00:12:30confident in who she is, because everybody loves her, you know?
00:12:34And she's a great girl, so...
00:12:36Oh, Alex.
00:12:37..no-brainer.
00:12:39Stay.
00:12:44Well, you two are an amazing example
00:12:47of what happens when a couple does the work.
00:12:49Yeah.
00:12:50You're doing it.
00:12:51Don't give up, guys.
00:12:53Don't give up.
00:12:54It's a great message to everyone else.
00:12:56We're really proud of you.
00:12:57Thank you so much.
00:12:58Keep it up.
00:12:59Well done.
00:13:00Well done, guys.
00:13:08All right, next up, if we could have Ryan and Shannon.
00:13:12Come on up.
00:13:16Hi, guys.
00:13:17Welcome.
00:13:18Good to see both of you.
00:13:20Second commitment ceremony.
00:13:22Yes.
00:13:23We're here.
00:13:24Yes.
00:13:25You were here together.
00:13:26How's the week been for you both?
00:13:28It was an interesting week.
00:13:30We had our first little argument.
00:13:33OK, first argument.
00:13:34Yeah.
00:13:35OK, unpack it for us.
00:13:36It was, like, a big misunderstanding, honestly.
00:13:39Ryan said something that kind of threw me back to one of my exes.
00:13:44You'd kind of said you were done.
00:13:46I took that as done completely.
00:13:48But he meant done with the conversation.
00:13:50I said, I'm done with it.
00:13:51I've gone back to sleep, waking up.
00:13:54Shannon's not there.
00:13:55And afterwards, we've just said, like, wow.
00:13:57That was just a mountain was made out of a molehill.
00:14:00This one misunderstanding, Shannon,
00:14:02you take and react extremely to it.
00:14:06I just panicked.
00:14:08We all, all react to fight or flight.
00:14:12Any time we feel under threat, what do we want to do?
00:14:15Fight or we want to flee?
00:14:17You chose flight.
00:14:19Instead of taking a pause, sleeping on it,
00:14:22waking up the next morning, resolving it.
00:14:25I'm terrible at that.
00:14:26OK, but now you know.
00:14:28Now I know.
00:14:29Right, now you know.
00:14:30OK, so now, as the dinner party progressed,
00:14:33Ryan, you looked agitated and you looked worked up.
00:14:40Can you elaborate as to why?
00:14:44Holly came over to me and said, Stephen had said,
00:14:48if Ryan doesn't come to the dinner party,
00:14:50he's going to shoot his shot.
00:14:53So now I couldn't trust you with my wife.
00:14:56So, Holly, when did you hear Stephen say this?
00:14:59So, before Ryan had come into the mixer,
00:15:02Stephen had shouted me over to him and he said,
00:15:06so obviously you know Shannon's my type.
00:15:12If Ryan doesn't come to the mixer tonight,
00:15:14then I'm going to stick it on Shannon.
00:15:17I would never use the word stick it on,
00:15:19cos it's not what I use anyway.
00:15:21You was going to try it on her, though, yeah?
00:15:26Come on, was you going to try it?
00:15:28You've got to let me answer.
00:15:30I would not have done that without speaking to you,
00:15:33and I've said that.
00:15:34A blatant lie.
00:15:38You're a sly guy.
00:15:40You're a sly guy.
00:15:58So if Shannon was interested,
00:16:02you would have attempted something.
00:16:05Had I spoken to you as much, I think I would have done...
00:16:08You're the slyest guy I've met.
00:16:10And I'm saying it.
00:16:11Slyest guy I've ever met.
00:16:12I would have spoken to you.
00:16:14Of course you would.
00:16:19You're laughable, lad.
00:16:20OK.
00:16:21I feel for that girl because you've been grilling off
00:16:24all this experiment and you have done exactly the same.
00:16:28Do you have anything to say to Ryan or Shannon?
00:16:30I don't, Paul, Paul. Let's leave it.
00:16:33I'm good. You keep it to yourself, mate.
00:16:35You keep your distance from me, I'll keep my distance
00:16:37and we'll respect that.
00:16:47All right.
00:16:48So now, back to you two, all right?
00:16:51You had your misunderstanding this week, OK?
00:16:54You had all this happening in the group.
00:16:56But do you feel like there's been progress this week?
00:16:59It's made me stronger, this.
00:17:00It's been great, hasn't it?
00:17:02I've been speaking about moving to Manchester.
00:17:04Have you? Yeah.
00:17:05All right, this is good.
00:17:06As long as I get a puppy.
00:17:10This is big.
00:17:11So you've already resolved the distance challenge?
00:17:14Yes, that's done.
00:17:15Wow. It's done.
00:17:17This is good.
00:17:21OK, so now, let's go to a decision, then.
00:17:24Do you want me to go first, Paul?
00:17:25You want to go first?
00:17:28You've already started, go.
00:17:30So this decision is very easy.
00:17:32Listen, I didn't expect this when I came here.
00:17:34I'm not the one to hit it off straight away.
00:17:37And I said to her one day, I said,
00:17:38where have you been all my life?
00:17:40And this decision is absolutely very, very easy,
00:17:44and it's stay.
00:17:45CHEERING
00:17:47Thanks.
00:17:49OK. OK.
00:17:51Shannon, hit us.
00:17:53Ryan has made me feel so comfortable,
00:17:55probably more comfortable than any man has ever made me feel.
00:17:59Which is big.
00:18:00And you've made me this soppy mess
00:18:02that I don't know what the fuck's happened to me.
00:18:05So, obviously, I'm going to stay.
00:18:07All right.
00:18:08Beautiful.
00:18:11All right.
00:18:14Have a great week.
00:18:15Thank you, Mel. Thank you, Paul.
00:18:28Next up on the couch...
00:18:30..Amy and Luke.
00:18:31CHEERING
00:18:38Hey, guys.
00:18:40Hello.
00:18:41How are you both?
00:18:42Yeah, OK.
00:18:43Yeah, you both doing well?
00:18:46We've been very busy at the retreat, haven't we?
00:18:49Yeah.
00:18:50Sort of involved with all the drama.
00:18:54We felt like it was bringing us together
00:18:56because we were both, like, helping the situation together.
00:18:59But since coming back to the apartments,
00:19:01we just feel like we're, like...
00:19:05I felt like, yeah,
00:19:06the retreat was supposed to be a kind of relaxing time.
00:19:09But, you know, Amy, bless her, she was, like, 24-7 babysitting.
00:19:14Which was good, cos I saw really good signs in Amy,
00:19:17like, she's such an angel.
00:19:18But I felt like I was the nurse and the patient
00:19:20and I felt like the janitor, you know, clearing up after.
00:19:24We were supporting her.
00:19:25I know we were supporting, but look what it's done to us.
00:19:29It wasn't very relaxing and, you know,
00:19:31a few bits happened at the retreat that have affected us,
00:19:34I would say affected me definitely.
00:19:36What happened was, I came back from a lads' day
00:19:39and I found out that Amy picked Nathan as the sexiest husband.
00:19:43She sat here last week saying I was a 12 out of 10
00:19:46and now she's saying she finds Nathan as the sexiest
00:19:49when she could have said me.
00:19:51That's crazy.
00:19:53You can appreciate that other people are attractive.
00:19:56Does that mean I can't have any friends with penises?
00:19:59No, it's not that.
00:20:00I'm just saying that's, you know, that's how it affected me.
00:20:03Cos then I'm thinking,
00:20:04is it because he's got that fancy jacket and fashion?
00:20:06Right, so it kind of brings out an insecurity.
00:20:08Yeah.
00:20:09Would you say that it made you experience this situation
00:20:13in a jealous way?
00:20:14No.
00:20:15No?
00:20:16No.
00:20:17Would you say that it made you experience this situation
00:20:20in a jealous way?
00:20:22Potentially, yeah. I do.
00:20:24And I feel a bit guilty for it.
00:20:26In my opinion, you are the most beautiful girl in this group,
00:20:29which is hence why I chose you.
00:20:31It was doubly painful for me.
00:20:33It was just a game.
00:20:35Fair enough.
00:20:37I can see that it really hurt you.
00:20:39I think it might be worth you just reflecting away from this space
00:20:46and maybe need some reassurance that actually you're her number one.
00:20:50I think that's how the two of you can really move forward here.
00:20:54But let's look at the dinner party,
00:20:57because one thing that I noticed was that
00:20:59there was quite a lot of affection between the two of you.
00:21:02Intimacy, would you say, is quite good?
00:21:04Yeah, great. Yeah.
00:21:05Is that to say that the intimacy is at another level?
00:21:13Maybe.
00:21:14It was well-earned.
00:21:16I made love to my woman, not...
00:21:20..not just had sex, but I made love.
00:21:23OK, OK, OK.
00:21:26We're being honest, I'm not saying anything.
00:21:28It was worth the wait.
00:21:30I appreciate your honesty.
00:21:35On that note, let's go to positions.
00:21:38Amy, would you like to go first?
00:21:40Erm, so...
00:21:42We're still very early in our journey
00:21:45and I do believe we can both work on things.
00:21:49So I've decided to stay.
00:21:52CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:21:57And Luke, what's your decision?
00:21:59This whole process about learning, isn't it?
00:22:02And things come in life to test us, I think,
00:22:05and, you know, with Amy by my side,
00:22:07I feel ready to take that test.
00:22:09And I want to continue, I want to work hard for it,
00:22:11you know, despite all those insecurities that I have.
00:22:14And I think you will bring the best out of me, Amy,
00:22:16so despite all that, I'm staying.
00:22:19CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:22:24I think my advice for you guys this week is,
00:22:27press the reset button, have some fun together
00:22:31and enjoy the rest of your week.
00:22:33Thank you. Thank you.
00:22:35CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
00:22:44Next up to the couch, can we have Polly and Adam.
00:22:48Come on up.
00:22:53Hello. Hey, guys.
00:22:55How are you both?
00:22:57Yeah, we're all right, thank you.
00:22:59Good to see you both.
00:23:01So now we're looking forward to hearing about the retreat.
00:23:04So let's get into it. What happened?
00:23:06Bit of an argument.
00:23:09So it was on the girls' day.
00:23:13Polly said that she would twist to another husband
00:23:16because he's more emotionally available
00:23:18and talks about his feelings.
00:23:20So I was shocked, upset, disrespected
00:23:24and just...it just wasn't a nice feeling.
00:23:26Interesting.
00:23:28Because I thought I was making so much effort
00:23:31and coming out of my comfort zone.
00:23:33And I felt like we was going in the right direction
00:23:36and getting better.
00:23:37To then hear that, it was kind of like a kick in the teeth.
00:23:40Interesting.
00:23:41All right, now, who did Polly say that she would twist with?
00:23:45Steven, my good friend.
00:23:48I think one of the comments when she told me was,
00:23:51he's gave me more emotional conversations than you have.
00:23:56And I was like, I've been here three weeks, not three days.
00:23:59Wow.
00:24:00So it's just another shock for me to hear.
00:24:02So, Polly, I have to go to you.
00:24:04Why did you say you would twist with Steven?
00:24:08Because of the qualities that Steven has
00:24:10that I wish Adam had.
00:24:15And what are those qualities?
00:24:17Emotional availability.
00:24:20Voicing how he thinks and how he feels to other people
00:24:23without feeling ashamed.
00:24:25Being secure in himself.
00:24:26To be able to just say it.
00:24:29So I don't feel like he shows me that he cares about me enough.
00:24:33I felt like I'd come out of my comfort zone complete
00:24:37and I was trying to get us to the best place we could be
00:24:40and then that was, like, hurtful, you know what I mean?
00:24:43I think that's obviously made Polly realise
00:24:45that obviously I do care because it's hurt me, so...
00:24:48But it shouldn't have had to have taken... I know it shouldn't.
00:24:51..me saying, I want qualities in someone else
00:24:53for you to show and tell me how you feel about me.
00:24:55I mean, he's never said that I'm sexy or I'm beautiful
00:24:57or I look gorgeous.
00:24:58I know, but I've been giving a bit more affection,
00:25:00like the little kiss and stuff. I know sometimes I forget...
00:25:02On the cheek.
00:25:04Yeah, but I'm not a PDA person, you know what I mean?
00:25:06But it's even when we're at home.
00:25:08Even when you leave to go...
00:25:09I know, but that's because I've just had our first massive argument
00:25:12to the point where I felt betrayed.
00:25:15And I've said to you, the last thing I'm going to do now
00:25:17is want to give you a kiss when my head's been scrambled.
00:25:19But that's not fair when it's taken us so long
00:25:21to get to where we are on that front.
00:25:23Of course, I know it's not fair, but...
00:25:25Now I feel like I'm being punished for one comment I've made
00:25:27after the fucking ten that you've made.
00:25:29To me, it was a big comment. It wasn't just a jokey comment.
00:25:32It was a massive comment to where everyone else couldn't believe it.
00:25:38You have to understand what I've had to sit and listen to
00:25:41and deal with that I've taken on board and understood.
00:25:44I have not thrown anything in your face...
00:25:46No, I get that, but it's more...
00:25:48..that you've said, so for you to react how you did was unfair.
00:25:52You still haven't given a lot.
00:25:55I know that you feel like you have, but you haven't.
00:26:00I do obviously see a future with me and Adam,
00:26:02and I do genuinely believe that it can get there.
00:26:05But at the moment, I'm just seeing the potential.
00:26:09And it's like, is this just another fucking relationship
00:26:11at nearly 30 years old?
00:26:13So here's the thing, the worst thing in the world
00:26:15is to fall in love with potential.
00:26:18So if your objective is what you think Adam will be in the future,
00:26:22you might as well leave today.
00:26:26NOVEMBER 14, 2017
00:26:30So go to the decision.
00:26:39NOVEMBER 12, 2017
00:26:46The worst thing in the world is to fall in love with potential.
00:26:49So if your objective is what you think Adam will be in the future you might as well leave today
00:27:03To go to the decision
00:27:10The conflict that we had maybe shouldn't have happened how it did and I apologize for that, but I feel like I
00:27:17Am more affirmed in certain ways by Adam and his reaction so I put
00:27:30Adam I
00:27:35Did have a feeling that did she say that to make me think I'm jealous I'm gonna try harder
00:27:41For me personally a comment like that more would hurt me and make me retract
00:27:46I'm sorry if I can't give you what you want right now, but there is two of us here and there's two people's feelings
00:27:55And I know you want something, but then I need things as well
00:28:01But
00:28:04There's definitely feelings there, otherwise that comment wouldn't have bothered me. I just been like whatever
00:28:11So I put stay
00:28:16All right, we'll see you back in this week, all right, thank you so much. Thanks
00:28:37Next up on the couch
00:28:40Hannah and Steven
00:28:47Okay
00:28:49Hello
00:28:51Where I'd like to begin is where we last saw you and that was right here on this couch
00:28:58Hannah you wrote
00:29:00Stay Stephen you wrote leave, but you agreed to continue to work on your marriage
00:29:07Do you believe you did no?
00:29:10Why?
00:29:11After I'm off to meet awesome with a few of the boys just goes awesome. Why did you hold my hand to make him jealous?
00:29:19So the respect thing then just disappeared straight away. So I walls went straight up
00:29:25So let's just figure this out right now. Hannah. Were you trying to make Steven jealous?
00:29:30You can't make a guy jealous of you that doesn't give a fuck about you
00:29:33So that's not what that was
00:29:34It was just a bit of answer for someone trying to make me smile and trying to make me have a bit of a giggle
00:29:41He didn't say one word to me after the commitment ceremony he avoided me like the plague he couldn't look at me I
00:29:46Don't feel like you can sit here and say
00:29:48That's the reason why you weren't trying is because me and Orson had some banter because you checked out way before that
00:29:56All right, so now you're at the retreat did you stay together at the retreat no
00:30:02We had an argument as soon as we moved into the lodge
00:30:05You both had an argument. I wouldn't call it an argument. I'd call it an ambush and then I leave the room
00:30:10Okay, cuz that's what he does this whole me and Orson having banter situation
00:30:16You held on to it held on to it didn't speak to me
00:30:19Stewed on it then waiting until we're in a room together dropped a bomb on me
00:30:24Waited for me to react because I do and then you're like see that's why I don't really like you and then you darted out
00:30:30The room. Okay, that's so toxic
00:30:32What was the bomb that was dropped that me and Orson were pissing around and having banter and pretending to hold hands
00:30:38Okay, I
00:30:40Said I'll try at the retreat and I was trying to get into that headspace
00:30:43But there was all this kind of stuff going on with Hannah and the girls or whatever. I
00:30:48Was kind of just that listening to it all and all I'm hearing is she's trying it with everyone's husband. It's just making me
00:30:55Completely check out even more. I'm like, why do I want to even speak to this girl, right?
00:30:59So let me ask the group this this this kind of notion of Hannah trying it with different guys
00:31:05That seems to keep coming up
00:31:08And clearly that had a lot of impact on you, especially the girls day
00:31:12So were you feeling that? Yeah
00:31:15Okay, me and Hannah discussed it, but it felt like she was like very flirty with Ryan. I
00:31:23Was just very vocal in Santana that I don't like how she's good about things
00:31:27I don't like what she said to certain people when we've all made her feel so welcome and
00:31:33I
00:31:35Called a spade a spade. She deserved to know so I told her and then she started getting lippy to someone else
00:31:40Just didn't sit well with me
00:31:43Right. I mean this is interesting for us to know because that was happening Hannah, but at the same time Stephen the whole
00:31:50You know you shooting your shot with with Shannon that's playing out, too
00:31:56It's ironic don't you think yeah, I've got ironic. Yeah. Yeah
00:32:02Do you think that these rumors about Hannah and the guys did that influence your behavior whatsoever with Hannah
00:32:12They probably did influence it yeah, I
00:32:16Don't see boys and girls differently so if I have like banter with one of the boys I don't see that it's like
00:32:21Oh, that's a boy
00:32:23So I should be careful how I speak to them over a girl
00:32:27Okay
00:32:29So Hannah, what are you thinking at this point? Are you thinking I want to try to make this work still?
00:32:34I don't want to make this work. What's your thought?
00:32:40It's still in the back of my brain was like I'm here for a marriage like
00:32:44There is probably things we can work on. Yes
00:32:47I was like every single time we have an argument I check out like more and more and more and more
00:32:50But I still wasn't finished like I still you were still you're still in yeah
00:32:54The best-case scenario for me was can we squash it
00:33:00We've had this experience, let's remember that we actually had a really good start and I wanted to say
00:33:05Thank you for how he made me feel on the wedding day because I felt incredible
00:33:11Hearing that what are you thinking? Does it change anything? I
00:33:16What are you thinking does it change anything I
00:33:23Will never deny the fact our wedding day was special but no
00:33:34A lot has been said about
00:33:37two from both of you tonight
00:33:41so
00:33:42Let's go to a decision Stephen. Would you like to go first?
00:33:47I
00:33:50Last week I for our put leave. I was still in the mindset of I don't think I
00:33:57Can be the man you need but my mindset is very much now I don't want to be your mom
00:34:07I don't think you're in it for me. I think you're in it for a pros
00:34:09I don't know what the reasons are and why you're here
00:34:13so for those reasons
00:34:15I'm gonna leave. Okay. Okay. Thank you
00:34:22Hannah
00:34:33I think this is probably my opportunity to
00:34:38Try and leave this process as amicably as I can with everybody
00:34:46As much as whatever's happens happened, I do think deep down you are a good guy and I do think you'll make someone happy
00:34:56It's meant to be about marriage and also the works so I am gonna leave
00:35:07Okay, all right
00:35:10I
00:35:11Thank you for your vulnerability here on the couch
00:35:14We want to thank you for your participation and we truly wish you the best in your future relationships discuss
00:35:40I
00:35:46Next up on the couch, can we have Kieran and Christina?
00:36:02So, how was the retreat you two I'm full of drama and
00:36:06But it was good
00:36:08We had one day where?
00:36:10Was a little bit questionable. Yeah my behalf
00:36:13What happened there for you? Just got in my head
00:36:18PMDD here and it was it just a little bit tough
00:36:23I'm gonna get a mouse. Okay
00:36:26You're okay
00:36:29It's just like the worst feeling ever and you just no matter how much you try and fight it
00:36:34Like when you are in that moment like if like it just feels
00:36:39it just feels really just dark and horrible and I
00:36:45Think what makes it worse almost for me is because I know like how it affects Karen
00:36:54But I just don't want it to like just push you away that's what I'm scared of
00:37:01I'm more careful about what I see and what I do when PMDD's
00:37:06Yeah, because you don't know what it's gonna be
00:37:09That's gonna be that the set off but it's it's horrible seeing Christina like that
00:37:12And I think I can really I really empathize with you don't and I have cried with Christina quite a lot when I can see
00:37:18How emotional she's getting?
00:37:20You know, we haven't got that
00:37:23Intimate connection at the moment
00:37:25Even though obviously we are like this because that's all we could like can do and I I'm just feeling rejected. Okay
00:37:33And just so I'm clear you're talking about the cold sore, yeah nearly nearly gone, okay good I
00:37:40Just want to feel wanted by you. It's not just about sex, but it's been since the honeymoon, man
00:37:49All right, I
00:37:52I
00:37:53Think I've distanced myself
00:37:56Intimacy wise because I don't I don't I don't want to get excited and I don't want to wind her up
00:38:00You know, it's just like we're friends living together again. Like I know you've taken a step back. I
00:38:07Wouldn't say I've taken a step back. You just said you had you've distanced. I've distanced but I wouldn't say I've took a step back. I
00:38:15I just would love to ask you Kieran and and really ask you to be really honest with yourself here
00:38:22Would you say you've been holding back on the physical affection?
00:38:26Just because of the cold sore
00:38:29Or has it also been because of Christina's reaction during the PMDD
00:38:38Yeah, it's a mix of both it's not I can't blame it all on the cold sore I can't and I'm not gonna do that
00:38:44So if you're being real what is it that you'd like to say to Christina at the moment
00:38:51Don't hold back. No, I'm not. Let's get me words or yeah, take your time
00:39:01And this is gonna be hard to hear I think it's something you've probably heard before and I really don't want to be the guy
00:39:05That says it
00:39:07but
00:39:09I'm really questioning at the minute
00:39:13If
00:39:18I'm able to sustain a relationship with someone that suffers with PMDD
00:39:43I'm really questioning at the minute
00:39:56If I'm able to sustain a relationship with someone that suffers with PMDD
00:40:09I
00:40:11Know Karen, which is why I've like said to you from day one
00:40:16Like whatever you say to me, it's like nothing. I haven't heard before
00:40:28It's fine like it's fine
00:40:32But I'm one dinner it's not fine
00:40:36This is not fine for you
00:40:38No, but I like I understand
00:40:41And I understand and like respect
00:40:44Karen's feelings in this
00:40:46But what about your feelings? Well, it's fucking shit, right? Yeah
00:40:59This is why I prepare myself for the worst in every situation and I live in the moment
00:41:06for every good bit that I have
00:41:12I'm not saying that. I don't want to be with you because I do I want to give this
00:41:16I've got questions. Of course, I think everyone in this room's got questions about their relationship, but I'm not saying I don't want to be
00:41:22With you. That's not what I'm seeing here
00:41:25Right now all I've got in my head is if you can't if you're gonna struggle
00:41:29It's gonna be a struggle for life because I can't change
00:41:33But that's something that I'm working out whether I can
00:41:42I just don't want to get hurt
00:41:48Everything takes work and I'm prepared to work at it Christina and I'll look at it until there's no bones left
00:41:59Kieran
00:42:00Good on you for being so incredibly honest just now. I know that was very hard for you to say. I
00:42:07Also know that this is not you signaling to Christina I want out I know that
00:42:13It might have felt a little bit that way in the moment
00:42:16But I think the fact that you're both sitting here right now
00:42:20Opening up the way that you are showing such incredible
00:42:23Care and empathy for each other is such a strong sign that you have incredible potential as a couple
00:42:30How
00:42:33About we go to the decision, oh no, I'm scared now Christina. Why don't you go first? Um, I
00:42:40Know I'm the biggest pain in your bum. I know that I am hard work
00:42:46But I'm looking forward to seeing what's more to come. There's still so much. I want to explore with you. So for that reason
00:43:00And Kieran
00:43:03This week you've shown us that you are there for us even when I think no one can be there for us
00:43:09And you've allowed us to open up in ways that I've never been able to open up in a relationship before and without being attacked
00:43:16So I think that in itself speaks volumes about the person that you are
00:43:20So thank you very much. And for that reason I wrote stay
00:43:29Have a wonderful week
00:43:46Next up to the couch Nathan and Lacey
00:43:59So
00:44:01Tell me about the retreat, how was it for you? I had a good great time. Yeah. Do you have a good time?
00:44:07I was having a good time
00:44:09yeah, I just um, I
00:44:12Don't know I
00:44:14Think something's bothering me. He said the other day
00:44:18I'm not gonna say I love you. I love you. Not love you
00:44:21I love you until after the experiment to see if the distance worked
00:44:25But
00:44:27That little bit upset me because I was like are you only giving me
00:44:32Half then I don't want to like give her my heart fully
00:44:36We finished the experiment and she's like our distance ain't working. It's like what's the point of that? You know, I mean
00:44:41What you're doing is you're trying to hedge yourself. It's trying to make it safe, but that's not how love works
00:44:47Love works as you dive fully into the pool. You can't toe dip into love
00:44:52I
00:44:53Would either one of you consider relocating I
00:44:57Would in the middle I need my mama near me. I'm not gonna lie. I need my mama bear. I
00:45:03Think if I can find the work depending on circumstances, okay
00:45:09For me I can definitely feel in love. I just feel like the word is different saying the word, you know
00:45:16Okay, so the word is
00:45:19Of high importance to you
00:45:21Yeah, what I'm here to tell you is the action is of higher importance and you're already exhibiting the action
00:45:28You've just said you will move
00:45:31Yeah, I'd like the the word to be in like a the right timing, you know, I mean a special
00:45:36So you're saying that you already love Lacey, but you're waiting for the moment to tell her that is
00:45:43important to you
00:45:45maybe
00:45:49So Lacey, where would you say you are in terms of love?
00:45:55Yeah, no, I do feel it like yeah, yeah
00:46:04I think it's very clear to see that you guys in a really good place. So let's go to a decision
00:46:10And
00:46:14What I've wrote it was easy, of course
00:46:17You know, I can see that we are growing closer, you know, I'm really still happy with you and that's why I've put stay
00:46:27Thank You Lacey and Nathan what's your decision so obviously gonna take on board what you've said and
00:46:33For the same way as lace, so I'm also going to say
00:46:40A big well done for sharing how you feel today. Okay. Have a good week
00:46:56Next up on the couch Emma and Casper
00:47:07So let's look at your week
00:47:10Definitely with having a far better week in terms of just being around each other laughing be more comfortable
00:47:18The first half of the treat for me was really good
00:47:21But there was a slight change for me in the second half with Emma's behavior
00:47:28Emma
00:47:30Was getting advice from the girls and everyone else. Okay, we just got to sleep with him
00:47:34If we get intimate we're going to accelerate our relationship and that's not how I go about things
00:47:40I need the emotional side first before I
00:47:43Get to the intimate side from someone and I'm we're still working on that in my opinion
00:47:48And Michelle gave me some advice to get a kiss. All right, I'm going I'm going we're going in
00:47:54So you did have a kiss. Yeah, and how would you describe that experience Casper? I
00:48:03Think she's very good kisser. I can tell you that much for free
00:48:05Yeah
00:48:07Yeah, it's good kiss. Yeah, but there were comments made afterwards
00:48:12After we just kissed that were way too far forward and cross lots of lines
00:48:17She basically went one just right stay and then we can shag for a week
00:48:21I mean wasn't the most romantic picture I've ever heard if I'm being completely honest
00:48:28I think that was just me exploring things, but it was a few wines. I got excited
00:48:33It almost felt like sex was a sales pitch. Yeah, and that wasn't attractive for me
00:48:41Casper writing leave in the last commitment ceremony, although I expected it it
00:48:47built a fight in me to want to
00:48:52work on things and
00:48:55I think what I meant to say was I think there are things for us to explore when it comes to intimacy
00:49:01Now I'm scared that Casper has ended this week the same headspace that he ended last weekend
00:49:12I think it goes back to not putting pressure on yourself and doing things that pace that feels right for you
00:49:17But also remembering a kiss and sex there's so many other ways that you can form intimate connections with your partner
00:49:25Okay, let's get to the decisions and we'll fast
00:49:31I'm proud of myself for
00:49:34listening and showing you that I can take on feedback and I want to learn and I want to develop and
00:49:39I think there are definitely things to explore with us
00:49:44But I hear you I would like to yeah spend some more time together
00:49:55I
00:50:00Mean honestly, I am denied
00:50:06Few days ago. I was relieved and to be away and gone
00:50:11out and thinking that's that's where my head's at and
00:50:15So that felt really good when I wrote leave. I'm not gonna lie. You know, I let go a lot of emotions
00:50:20I'm reluctant to say stay and then almost be again feel dragged along into something that I don't feel comfortable with
00:50:43Few days ago. I was relieved and to be away and gone
00:50:48out and thinking that's that's where my head's at and
00:50:52So that felt really good when I wrote leave. I'm not gonna lie. You know, I let go a lot of emotions
00:50:57I'm reluctant to say stay and then almost be again feel dragged along into something that I don't feel comfortable with
00:51:10But
00:51:12We're still building on this
00:51:14Emma and I you know, I think we deserve to keep
00:51:18Having another shot this for a little bit longer and see where we get to because we have made strides
00:51:22So for me, I wrote stay
00:51:32We wish you all the very best
00:51:34Thank you
00:51:43Next up on the couch Sasha and
00:51:55How was your time at the retreat was it nice to get away no, I hated it. Oh
00:52:01I just hate the countryside and being away from everything. I
00:52:06Felt like it was a taste of hell. So I'm gonna be a really good person from now on
00:52:10Okay, and so apart from the physical discomfort
00:52:14Shall I say was there anything else that made it like hell for you?
00:52:19Obviously all the drama has affected like the girls a little bit like we usually quite a happy family
00:52:25But there has been some explosive arguments between the girls, which is really rare
00:52:30For as a couple
00:52:32It doesn't really affect us like when we're at the dinner parties like we'm sitting on the end and it all happens there
00:52:37And we mean just like our little bubble. I'm a very argumentative person
00:52:42Yeah, we're good. I
00:52:45Just hate being away from like the girls down so I just go right to see my husband
00:52:52Now we know that the two of you are choosing not to open up and share too much of the physical journey with us and
00:52:57We respect that but what's important for us to understand is are the two of you talking about it?
00:53:03And do you feel that things are progressing in the right direction for you?
00:53:09Yes
00:53:14Very concise
00:53:17The two of you have created a really safe trusting environment. Yeah, you're going really well
00:53:23Hodge up with them
00:53:25Well on that note, let's go to the decision Ross over to you first
00:53:32I'll be with you every minute and
00:53:36Let's see what makes we bring start to stay all away
00:53:43That's how I was gonna start my speech
00:53:47And we've learned a lot about each other and I
00:53:52Want to spend the rest of my life with you and you know that so I will stay always
00:54:02Wonderful and yes that comment was not lost on us. I know right? Yeah. No, not at all. Nice little mic drop there from Sasha
00:54:09Thank you so much
00:54:11I
00:54:18Next up on the couch, can we have
00:54:25Awesome and Rochelle
00:54:34Hello
00:54:37So, I understand it's been a tough week for the two of you yes, yes, yeah husband
00:54:48Why don't we start with where we left off at the last commitment ceremony
00:54:53So can we just go back a little bit to the commitment ceremony? I
00:54:59Made it quite clear to him that I was ready to leave and I wanted to go back to work
00:55:03And if I left I could get home in time for my daughter's 21st birthday
00:55:08But when I re-entered the process after I left the first time I'd say like, yeah, I'm not gonna leave again until we're on the same page
00:55:17Austin said that he wanted to stay another week
00:55:20Which to me was a bit surprising because at this point I've been very open and honest with him
00:55:25I basically told him I don't think I'm attracted to you. I
00:55:29Don't overly fancy you
00:55:31Wow
00:55:33Wow, wow, what continue continue? Wow. Wow, what no just continue the truth
00:55:37I know I know that you don't have a great relationship with the truth awesome. So it's okay
00:55:42So, you know, I said to him I think you're quite selfish
00:55:47You basically have locked me in for another week
00:55:49You've dragged me along for your experience when you know
00:55:52There's nothing there then on the day of the retreat. That was my daughter's actual birthday
00:55:58I was like visibly, you know upset and you know, Austin's making this big show of singing and enjoying himself
00:56:06You know
00:56:07At this point now, I'm getting worked up and I haven't even been able to wish my girl a happy birthday
00:56:12And he's singing in my face
00:56:16And at that moment I knew I could not stand him
00:56:21My god, I can't say something
00:56:25So, you know, I couldn't stand you before why did you want to stay you're the one that said you want to stay to work out
00:56:32You are lying
00:56:37You are a stinking liar, I mean because I was the one who told you I wanted to leave
00:56:41I was the one who told you that I wanted to get back for my daughter's birthday. So don't sit here and lie
00:56:46All right, so your lies don't work with me awesome
00:56:49You
00:56:53Finished can I speak now stop if you can tell the truth try and tell the truth. Okay guys, it's very clear that things have
00:57:00completely broken down here
00:57:05I'd like to hear from both of you
00:57:08Where you believe the relationship is at right now. Awesome. Let's start with you. There was no relationship right now
00:57:16Michelle
00:57:18Michelle at the retreat Orson and Hannah have been bonding
00:57:25And they have had talks about recoupling
00:57:34Wow, yeah Wow indeed Orson's backed himself. He's finally found his Queen
00:57:40That
00:57:43Reinforced that Orson isn't really here for the right reasons
00:57:47He's even had a little bromance going on with Stephen while behind Stephen's back
00:57:54Orson and Hannah were you know talking amongst themselves?
00:58:01Which continued once we returned from the retreat and I walked in last night and found Orson and Hannah
00:58:09Holly and Alex almost like, you know having a little double date set up
00:58:18So all that did was reinforce
00:58:34No, I think I think it's bullshit cuz them to have lips
00:58:40I
00:58:42Watch kissed they've kissed. Oh, you've kissed him and had a very last night of the retreat. He'll be kissing him
00:58:51You
00:59:06Know I think I think it's bullshit cuz them to have lips
00:59:10It's what kissed they've kissed him and Hannah. Oh, you've kissed him and had a very last night of the retreat
00:59:17You'll be kissing him
00:59:26So, why the fuck you trying to defend when they've been that's what we're talking about
00:59:32Fucking snake man
00:59:34Snake you me. Yeah you
00:59:37Where was the double date?
00:59:39How's they not been sneakily kissing I know you didn't face a fixing I'm telling out don't talk about no double date business
00:59:46There was no double date business four of them were in the apartment. Let me rephrase that Alex talking shit. I'm talking shit, man, Alex
00:59:58You guys want to say
01:00:01You guys want to say
01:00:05Don't don't don't don't don't
01:00:08To me don't do that to me Alex. I'm asking if you got something to say
01:00:12Can you just I think I don't think you need to turn to a shell and say you're talking fucking shit and then get a
01:00:16Lie say oh, you're my fucking snake. There's certain ways of addressing things calmly
01:00:20Look, you know what Rochelle it were in a double date this happened
01:00:23You don't need to attack attack attack attack and I've sat here and I've watched you attack the women either end and it's fucked me
01:00:28Off because I didn't like it Alex
01:00:36Don't take out on me. I'm just trying to calm the peace in the room who is taking anything out of you
01:00:40Please respect the floor. Oh my god. I'm better
01:00:51Holly's annoyed I told Lacey that I think she's a snake and now you've got Sasha coming at me
01:00:57Just be quiet your voice is just going straight through me
01:01:00Like if I was rush, I'd be telling my wife pipe down not everything needs your two pence
01:01:08Alex has definitely overreacted and it has embarrassed me. I can't be with a man who treats my friends like that
01:01:16Because if he's gonna treat my friends like that
01:01:18It can happily treat me like that
01:01:20Now
01:01:24Amongst all of the talking it sounded like someone said you and Hannah have kissed. Yes
01:01:33On the last night of the retreat me and Hannah sat and was speaking. Oh, she had a kiss
01:01:40There was a little connection there I'm not gonna lie there was a little connection there
01:01:44What I had was done. I know what she was in
01:01:47Was done like so honestly, I didn't feel like I was walking on anybody's toes or like disrespecting anyone
01:01:56The fact is that this is a process, isn't it?
01:01:58Yeah, and so if you don't want to be with someone you both understand the rules
01:02:02Yes, and rules is that you make that decision here and you let us know
01:02:07It's not that you then go and kiss another person's wife
01:02:12I
01:02:16Take that
01:02:22That's done it me
01:02:31Do you consider what you did an act of infidelity
01:02:37In this process, yes
01:02:40What impact did you expect that to have on Rochelle
01:02:45If I'm being totally honest man, and this might come across a song wrongly. I
01:02:52Didn't really care about Michelle in that moment
01:02:59At the end of the day Orson from when I said I didn't like you and I didn't fancy you and and I didn't see
01:03:04A future with us. I mean at that point I thought you would have gathered up your dignity and wanted to leave anyway
01:03:10You know, why would you have wanted to stay? I mean, I know I was trying to honor my word
01:03:16But what where was your self-respect and your dignity like you were you that desperate to stay in the process?
01:03:25Because what I'm sensing from Orson is a desperation to stay in the process by any means necessary
01:03:33He saw an opportunity with Hannah to recouple and stay in the process he jumped at it
01:03:40You're an embarrassment to yourself at this point
01:03:43Do you know I mean because it's like Hannah bless her went round all the different guys trying to latch on to somebody
01:03:51Yes to stay in the person is the only one who's stuck
01:03:55It just reeks of desperation and just like, you know, no self-respect. It's just I find it embarrassing
01:04:03You know
01:04:04Okay. Well look it is very clear that this relationship is done
01:04:08We do need to go to the decision awesome to you first
01:04:16I came here with the right intentions. I
01:04:20Feel like I was trying and trying and trying and trying just like squeezing blood from a stone
01:04:27Stop the performance awesome. Stop the performance. I'm so the performance if it was that bad
01:04:34I'm not know
01:04:36You know, I'm not know like just get me out of here, please and to you Rochelle
01:04:42Before I came into this process I asked for a strong
01:04:49Intelligent
01:04:51Man who has a bit of integrity and I haven't found that in awesome at all. I
01:04:59Find him quite weak-willed
01:05:02He's you really aren't as sharp as you think you are it's pretty obvious I think to most people that you're a bit simple
01:05:12He definitely lacks
01:05:15Any shred of integrity so one week too late, but it's obvious
01:05:22leave
01:05:25You
01:05:30There are certain expectations around respect
01:05:33Some of those points of respect have been broken by both of you by you Rochelle not turning up to dinner parties
01:05:40Showing disrespect not only to awesome, but to everyone else here including us and the experiment
01:05:45awesome
01:05:46Kissing another person. The two of you are showing very low level of regard for this entire process
01:05:53and
01:05:55That's something we don't take lightly
01:05:58It's really disappointing
01:06:02You can both take a seat
01:06:14Three rounds to one and Rochelle's floor
01:06:24Well, this has been both a challenging
01:06:29And enlightening commitment ceremony, please say your goodbyes to those leaving the process
01:06:41Very quickly
01:06:43I
01:06:56Came on here for love. I came on here to find my person
01:07:00Hannah was bouncing from husband to husband. She kissed awesome. I didn't give it my all but she didn't deserve my own
01:07:10I
01:07:12Do feel a bit bad about what me and Orson have done
01:07:15we tried to shut it down just out of respect for everyone else, but actually we keep gravitating back towards each other and
01:07:22Stephen checked out ages ago. There was no trying there was no support. So I don't feel like I got a fair shot
01:07:30at marriage
01:07:37I definitely do not
01:07:40Be a great kiss in Anna
01:07:45Rochelle picked up everything really and there's only so much a man can take
01:07:56I
01:07:57Think Orson's just shown his true colors and my intuition about him was right all along
01:08:02I genuinely don't think that Hannah likes Orson. I don't even think he really likes her
01:08:09He's just trying to
01:08:11Recoup some of his manhood that he probably feels has been stripped from him during this process. It just screams of desperation
01:08:20Orson is a clown and I just wanted out of the circus show
01:08:26Your brush
01:08:29Talk to you in a bit. I don't come I taught you a bit
01:08:33If he's beefs with me, why is he talking to my husband, you know, why does he want to talk to my husband touch me?
01:08:38I think fuck that
01:08:40Yeah, fuck that
01:08:43Alex has just got an attitude problem. I can completely see where Holly's been coming from this whole time
01:08:48I'm not gonna tolerate it. Why is he gonna talk to you and not me?
01:08:53I'm getting very entranced
01:08:56Not your problem so your wife isn't your problem
01:08:58I'm trying to get involved in drama. That's not one
01:09:08Right now it doesn't feel like Ross has my back but we're married on his wife
01:09:12I would have expected Ross to say don't talk to my wife that way
01:09:17I'll tell you from there. I don't get involved in trying
01:09:20I'm your problem rockers. Oh, yeah, but I'm gonna burn either shit at the thing. Yeah, but it's not it's not that shit
01:09:26It's more than Alex issues against you. Then. Yeah, I get that. You should have your wife's back
01:09:43Next time I'm interested to see what you don't like about me honey. There's a lot more than what you think there is
01:09:48It's love-hate week. Good luck. Good luck. You're gonna need it where honesty is crucial lack of intimacy
01:09:56You lack depth. What's that mean for some couples happy tears? It draws them closer together
01:10:02Is it the most romantic thing someone's ever done for you? Yeah, I am feeling quite giddy. It's just
01:10:08But
01:10:13Others can't even get the task off the ground. I'm really unhappy. I'm going home today
01:10:20Get me out of there. I am NOT running after my body
01:10:24Well, Sasha and Ross and he went to see this throws it up the wall face their biggest challenge yet
01:10:30I am NOT comfortable with you being in this apartment. I am gonna struggle to recover from this
01:10:38Fuck took my head
01:11:08You