I Love a Mama's Boy S4 Episode 6 - It's Just Cheese, Mom
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00:00Hey, Chanel.
00:02Yeah, hi.
00:04Tonight we're in downtown Sacramento for speed dating.
00:06Hi!
00:08Hi!
00:10I have never been on a date
00:12with someone that has brought their mother.
00:14You're not going to have a relationship
00:16if you keep your mom this close.
00:18No, and that's why I...
00:20You have to move away.
00:22Move away.
00:24What's going on?
00:26This tooth has been a little irritating lately.
00:28Chani, that's a cavity.
00:30We're going to the dentist.
00:32You can forget the winery,
00:34because you're not going.
00:36I just wish you would have told your mom
00:38about your cavity after our date.
00:40Like, I just wish this could have waited.
00:42Again, selfish.
00:44Oh, my God!
00:46I'm watching Chris really closely
00:48to how he is with my mom
00:50because that will kind of determine
00:52my relationship with him.
00:54What does the shaking of the card mean?
00:56Seriously?
00:58Chris, the thought that counts.
01:00It's not about the money.
01:02Right now, I don't think it would be good
01:04for Austin and Chris to try to get back together.
01:06Does he have a doctor's appointment today?
01:08If we all lived in Florida,
01:10we wouldn't have the tissue.
01:12We have been talking about
01:14moving to Florida for years now.
01:16We haven't moved yet because of Tina.
01:18Why do you have to bring it up every day?
01:20I mean, we have a house sitting there.
01:22I didn't tell you to buy the house, Janelle.
01:24I didn't tell you to buy the house, Janelle.
01:40All right, baby.
01:42Are you excited for Florida?
01:44I am so excited for Florida.
01:46Yeah?
01:50I'm ready to go.
01:52I'm ready to get out of this cold weather.
01:54About every couple of months,
01:56we head to Florida.
01:58I love going there, spending time with my family.
02:00And this time, everyone's going to Florida.
02:02Jay's family, our family.
02:04Yeah.
02:06My mom, of course.
02:08Of course.
02:10We're all going to be there, and we're all going to have a great time.
02:12We're excited about it.
02:14So it is a packed house.
02:16We rented a house big enough for everyone.
02:18Of course.
02:20It's going to be a great trip.
02:22It will be.
02:24Sure there'll be no drama?
02:26Very memorable.
02:28Never drama.
02:30I'm really excited for what we got going on there.
02:32Go check on the house, setting it up.
02:34I know. I can't wait to see what it looks like.
02:36About six months ago, Nell and I bought a house in Florida,
02:38and right now, we're in the middle of the renovation process.
02:40So there's a lot going on.
02:42I think it's time for us to start thinking about
02:44whether or not we're going to be permanent Florida residents.
02:46Yeah? You think so?
02:48You know,
02:50see how she feels, but...
02:52I really wish your mom didn't have to come for this.
02:54What, for the trip?
02:56Yeah.
02:58Oh, she has to be there.
03:00Even when we're on vacation,
03:02when we're in Florida,
03:04Josh still makes sure that Tina has everything she needs,
03:06and will literally bend over backwards
03:08to make her happy.
03:10They still have to do their same rituals together,
03:12getting her her coffee,
03:14doing their little, like,
03:16date days,
03:18and it just never ends.
03:20Every time we're in Florida,
03:22my mom gets no time with the kids
03:24because your mom is there, too.
03:26My mom's competitive with that. She doesn't like your mom to...
03:28But the kids see your mom all the time.
03:30I know, but when your mom's with them,
03:32my mom has to, like,
03:34show that she's, you know, the better grandmother.
03:36Yeah, she does.
03:38She is the better grandmother.
03:40That's...
03:42That really is.
03:44Tina definitely gets in the way
03:46of my mom's time with the kids.
03:48I don't think that's mean or vicious of me
03:50to say, like, hey, you know,
03:52sometimes she could just stay back.
03:54You have to embrace it and understand that my mom is...
03:56Hey. Hey, Mom. What you doing?
03:58Just, uh, getting ready for Florida,
04:00talking about how you... I know, I'm excited.
04:02She's kind of upset with me because you may be
04:04the better grandmother out of the two grandmothers,
04:06but whatever. Just, you know,
04:08my mom and dad never get to
04:10spend time with the grandkids
04:12without, you know, you around.
04:14Oh, I won't get in the way, but you do.
04:16You know me.
04:18Yeah, but she only gets in the way
04:20when your mom won't do anything.
04:22No, my mom will be doing things,
04:24and then she'll be like, you're doing it wrong.
04:26No, no, your mom will be, like, your mom will be about to do something,
04:28and then she'll just be like, hey, Josh, can you take him out?
04:30I'll be like, I just asked you to watch him,
04:32and then my mom has to come take over.
04:34Well, guys, I just came in to see how things are going,
04:36and evidently, not so good.
04:38No, it's good.
04:40Okay, I'm going to give you time with your family,
04:42and it's going to be like I'm not even there.
04:44You won't even know I'm there, by the way.
04:46You'll be like, Josh, where's your mom?
04:48Well, I mean, if that actually happens,
04:50that would be awesome,
04:52but I won't believe it
04:54until I see it.
04:56I'm going to go round up the kids.
04:58It's getting close to lunchtime,
05:00and seeing that you're busy now, I'll get the lunch started.
05:02Taking care of lunch for now.
05:04I don't need you to do that.
05:06Yeah, you do.
05:08So, looks like you do need me,
05:10and I have to pack.
05:12Oh, my gosh.
05:14On that note, I'm out of here.
05:16I love you, Mama.
05:18Bye, guys, I love you.
05:20Love you now.
05:22Look at that.
05:24So helpful.
05:26It's really awesome.
05:28I think we have a little alone time now.
05:30The kids are busy with my mom.
05:32You want to...
05:34Absolutely not.
05:36Do you want to play a game with me?
05:42Well,
05:44maybe now we can go on that
05:46wedding date.
05:48I've only been wanting to go for, like, so long now.
05:50Winnie, Winnie, Winnie.
05:52Let me call you back. I gotta call you back.
05:54Winnie, baby.
05:56Where you at?
05:58Hey, Mama. Hey, baby.
06:00What's going on?
06:02Nothing, just playing my game on my phone.
06:04Do you want to play
06:06a game with me?
06:10What are you doing?
06:12I'm coming down to see what you want for lunch.
06:14Some leftover spaghetti?
06:16Every day
06:18with Shahid, I'm usually
06:20making his lunch.
06:22What about, like, just like a turkey and cheese
06:24sandwich with some chips?
06:26And cut it up
06:28into four pieces. I know, I know.
06:30It's very fulfilling when you
06:32raise your children and you see them
06:34progress, and that's what I'm trying to get
06:36Shahid to. I'm trying to get him to that point where he's
06:38like, you know what, Mom? I got it.
06:40It's just taking him a little longer
06:42than most.
06:44And I like pepper jack cheese now.
06:46Oh, you like the pepper jack now?
06:48Oh.
06:50Okay. That's new.
06:52Nila eats pepper jack. She kind of put me on today.
06:54I figured.
06:56I figured.
06:58She's just changing everything about you, Shahid.
07:02It's just cheese, Mom.
07:04Cheese today. What's it going to be tomorrow?
07:06Mom,
07:08I just want pepper jack cheese.
07:10That's it.
07:12Fine.
07:14I will do pepper jack cheese.
07:18You guys are really
07:20on the same page more than you think.
07:22You love me. She loves me.
07:24She wants to make sure I eat.
07:26You want to make sure I eat.
07:28Nila is not in the same league as me.
07:30I am a grown woman
07:32who knows how to take care of a child,
07:34who knows how to take care of her man.
07:36Nila cannot. No.
07:38We are not in the same league at all.
07:40What are we going to do this weekend?
07:42Jerome's going to be working,
07:44so it's just me
07:46and you, baby.
07:48Well, Nila is coming over,
07:50and we planned
07:52on going to
07:54the winery place because
07:56every time we're supposed to go, something happens.
07:58Where were we supposed to go that one time?
08:00She happened. She gave you the candy
08:02that gave you the cavity.
08:04But it did interrupt our date that we were supposed to have
08:06because I had to go to the dentist.
08:08I had to go.
08:10Shahid, you cannot afford to hang out
08:12with that girl every weekend.
08:14I have to manage Shahid's bank account
08:16because if I didn't do it, he would be broke
08:18because he's always
08:20chasing around Nila, who's always like,
08:22spend this, spend this, buy me this,
08:24buy me that. It is a little emasculating.
08:26It is not.
08:28It's a saving mechanism.
08:30I don't know.
08:32I feel like you're attacking me.
08:34You're choosing to hang out with Nila
08:36over choosing to hang out with me.
08:38Mom, it's not about me choosing.
08:40I'm always thinking that
08:42Nila might leave me one day because she can't deal
08:44with my mom, and
08:46I don't want my mom to be the reason my relationship
08:48doesn't work out.
08:50Our winery date is really important
08:52because me and Nila get to spend quality time
08:54together. It's fine. It's whatever.
08:56You made your choice. It's fine.
08:58Just make sure she cleans up
09:00after herself this time. She always comes over
09:02here and just messy in.
09:04I don't want to smell her hair.
09:06I don't want to see little feathers all over the
09:08place. Just have her clean up
09:10and make sure she takes her daggling shoes
09:12off.
09:14Can I still bring my stuff out for you to iron?
09:16I still
09:18do want your sandwich.
09:20It doesn't even need
09:22to be pepper jacked.
09:26We will be really as close
09:28as you feel comfortable.
09:30All right. Matt and I
09:32need a real estate head shot.
09:34You guys look so happy.
09:36When's the wedding? No, I'm just kidding.
09:38I'm just kidding.
09:40Wow.
09:42We just got to Florida. We just got to the house.
09:46Let's see what we got.
09:48It is not the cutest house
09:50by no means. It's small.
09:52You just can't be happy for us.
09:54You have to install it.
10:06Ready?
10:08Yeah. Let's go make some magic.
10:14Your hair is big enough.
10:16Come on. It can never be too big.
10:18That's what she said.
10:22Recently, I went on
10:24a date with Chanel, and while
10:26Chanel and I aren't going to have a future together,
10:28I respect how honest she was with me.
10:30You know, me being so close with my mom.
10:32You're not going to have a relationship if you keep your mom this close.
10:34Ever.
10:36You have to move away.
10:38Move away.
10:42Of course, it's right on the verge of my mom and I
10:44going into business together.
10:46It's not about picking out the clothes
10:48and stuff for certain inspirations
10:50and what we want this to look like.
10:52I just want it to be more business casual.
10:54It looks to me like you've gone for more of a Dolly Parton vibe.
10:58Matt and I are going into business together.
11:00We're going to do real estate.
11:02I've had my license for a while.
11:04Matt just got his.
11:06I'm very proud of him.
11:08Passed on the first time.
11:10Who was your teacher when you were growing up?
11:12I'm going above and beyond.
11:16Starting out in business,
11:18especially real estate,
11:20it is important to market yourself correctly.
11:22And so that's why I believe
11:24Matt and I need a real estate headshot.
11:26And that's just part of the game.
11:30So have you done this kind of stuff
11:32with a mother-son duo before?
11:34I don't think anybody has been
11:36the, like, mother-son business partners.
11:38Oh, you already got my stuff out.
11:40Yeah.
11:42What do you think?
11:44I love your wild style.
11:48Do you have anything else as far as tops?
11:50Like kind of an all-black option?
11:54So let me just get a quick test.
11:56Okay.
11:58We will be really as close as you feel comfortable.
12:02Hi.
12:04You guys look so happy.
12:06When's the wedding?
12:08No, I'm just kidding.
12:14What we did today
12:16could have been engagement photos
12:18a little bit,
12:20but they are not.
12:22A lot of times
12:24you're trying to get them to be closer and closer.
12:26They got right in there.
12:28They were very close.
12:30And so just trying to space them out a little bit.
12:32Press against me.
12:34Closer.
12:36Come on. Hang on.
12:38Let me see this.
12:40Keep that.
12:42Kevin, this is important
12:44because we're selling Matt to Sacramento
12:46and possibly his future wife.
12:48Okay.
12:50All right.
12:52I can't believe he's single.
12:54Do you have a sister?
12:56I don't have a sister.
12:58Shoot.
13:00Nice. Ready? One, two.
13:02One, two.
13:04And you're looking right here.
13:06I love having a supportive mom,
13:08but after having drinks with Chanel,
13:10looking at my past relationships,
13:12it's really becoming quite clear
13:14that they just don't want to date Mom and me.
13:16There you go.
13:18Yeah, there you go. That's good.
13:20Maybe I do need to have some separation from my mom.
13:22Maybe I do need to
13:24do something about it,
13:26but it's not like I can just flip a switch.
13:28We've already talked about going into business together.
13:30We already have the headshots.
13:32Mom's already coming up with names.
13:34So it's kind of a lot for me to be in the middle of
13:36because I don't want to hurt her,
13:38but then at the same time, it's like I've got to change something.
13:40It's good to meet you.
13:42Great to meet you.
13:44Our engagement photo.
13:46Oh, my gosh.
13:48Thank you so much.
13:54Oh, this is so nice.
13:56Can we see the view?
13:58Oh, my God. It's beautiful.
14:00Wow.
14:02Was it not worth the wait?
14:04I've been planning this winery trip
14:06for a while now.
14:08I mean, last time we were supposed to come, I had a cavity,
14:10and we weren't able to make it.
14:12So today is making it up to Nyla.
14:14So I plan on having a really good day.
14:16Oh, it looks like people get married over there.
14:18Doesn't that look like something people get married at?
14:20Yeah. Are you getting an idea?
14:24Hi, guys. Hi.
14:26Welcome to Veramore.
14:28Can I interest you in a wine tasting today?
14:30Yeah, that's what we came here for.
14:32I like wine.
14:34I'm a wine girlie.
14:36The first wine is the Chardonnay.
14:38So it's put into oak briefly,
14:40but it's very crisp and clear.
14:42I'm glad that we finally came to us.
14:44To us.
14:46And I'm just glad that I'm able to
14:48get some alone time with Shahid
14:50without Miss Dia.
14:52I like it. It was smooth.
14:54That is smooth.
14:56I feel like I can taste a hint of pineapple.
14:58Can you taste the pineapple at all?
15:00I can taste the pineapple.
15:06I don't really know too much about wine.
15:08I'm not really like a wine connoisseur.
15:10How am I supposed to hold the glass?
15:12By the stem.
15:14Like you were holding it.
15:16In my defense, my mom doesn't even drink wine.
15:18Does she drink at all?
15:20Not really.
15:22If I would have invited her,
15:24she would have assumed that I was trying to kill her
15:26or something because she's allergic to wine.
15:28I'm happy.
15:30So that's why we're doing what we're doing today.
15:32Listen, happy wife, happy life.
15:34Just don't say that in front of my mom.
15:38So you guys aren't married?
15:40No.
15:42Not yet.
15:44I live in my mom's basement still.
15:46Oh, you do?
15:48Okay.
15:50It's just I need to move out first before we get married.
15:52Right.
15:54Oh, so you're married. How long have you been married for?
15:5625 years.
15:58Coming up next month.
16:00Did he live with his mom still when you guys got married?
16:02No, he didn't.
16:04He was on his own.
16:06Yeah.
16:08If he has like an overbearing,
16:10like super controlling mom,
16:12do you think you would have enough patience
16:14to deal with that like a mama's boy?
16:16I don't know.
16:18It's difficult.
16:20We're just really close.
16:22I don't think she's like super controlling or anything like that.
16:24It's a stretch.
16:26I think she's just always looking out.
16:28Like nobody has my back like my mom does.
16:30And you know that.
16:32Not even me?
16:38I couldn't really believe it.
16:40And I can't believe she actually puts up with that.
16:42Because she's beautiful.
16:44She could have anyone.
16:46Let's just try the wine.
16:48This glass is to the moms.
16:50I'm not toasting to that.
16:52He seems extremely immature.
16:54And that is probably
16:56because of his mother.
16:58I'm sure she's probably
17:00behind the bushes waiting.
17:02My mom is not the type to hide in the bushes.
17:04She has my location.
17:06She doesn't have to hide.
17:08She has your location?
17:10Yeah, on my phone.
17:12It's like a child.
17:14It just seems really bizarre.
17:16My mom just is my
17:18number one supporter.
17:20Does she
17:22approve?
17:26Oh, that's difficult.
17:28I think she'll come around.
17:30I think I'm a pretty cool girl.
17:32I think you are.
17:34I think you're a great couple.
17:42You gotta cut the cord.
17:46Do you have floss?
17:48My mom's gonna kill me
17:50if I don't floss my teeth.
17:52You've got your work cut out.
17:54Pray for me.
17:56Shahid needs to move out of his mom's basement.
17:58Alright, so that is the end of the
18:00tasting.
18:02We did want to get our charcuterie board.
18:04Okay, that's gonna be $65.29.
18:14Oh, that got
18:16declined.
18:18It's just saying the card was declined.
18:22My mom locked my card.
18:24I have to give her a card real quick to have her unlock it.
18:30What's going on here?
18:32You knew we were
18:34finally going on our winery date
18:36that you've been preventing us from having
18:38and then, oh, suddenly
18:40his card declines.
18:42Hey, Ray.
18:44Hey, Mama.
18:46I need you to unlock my card for me.
18:48I just tried to swipe it and it declined.
18:50What are you trying to buy, Shahid?
18:52Me and Nyla at the winery.
18:54Okay, well, then Nyla,
18:56step right into the station, okay?
18:58She doesn't have her wallet.
19:00Of course she doesn't, Shahid. You don't see this as a pattern?
19:02You're expecting to pay
19:04for everything.
19:06I mean, this is rough and I'm embarrassed.
19:08Mom, can you just unlock my card?
19:10I'm about to go up here. I'm going to swipe it again.
19:12I just need it to work.
19:14Mom.
19:18So, what do you think about the holidays?
19:20I thought Christmas went great.
19:22Uh-huh.
19:24Except with Chris.
19:26The relationship the way it is now
19:28with Chris is not going to work.
19:30I got something to tell you.
19:40Mani-pedi time!
19:42Okay, how does that feel?
19:44That feels great. That's perfect.
19:46Feels nice.
19:48I'm the one who should be doing you.
19:52Which is the way I like it.
20:00Oh, my gosh.
20:02Any time that I get an opportunity
20:04to pamper my mom, I'm down for it.
20:06Take care of the queen.
20:08I'm down for it.
20:10Take care of the queen that raised me.
20:12It's almost like the doll I never had growing up.
20:14I don't want to come off weird or anything,
20:16but it's like this life-size doll
20:18that I get to play with.
20:20You know what I mean?
20:22It's funny.
20:24You know, no one does this with their mom.
20:26You don't think so?
20:28No, you've been like this since you were four.
20:30I know, but that's so weird.
20:32You would think people would enjoy this.
20:34You have dressed me. You have massaged me.
20:36Do you think people are like this in the world?
20:38No.
20:40It's the day after Christmas.
20:42Chris is already back home in L.A.,
20:44and I stayed back to get some one-on-one time
20:46with my mom.
20:48So what do you think about the holidays?
20:50I thought Christmas went great,
20:52except with Chris.
20:54You gave all of us a card.
20:56Right.
20:58And he shook the card
21:00like there wasn't enough money in it.
21:02When did he do that?
21:04What does the shaking of the card mean?
21:06Because there's no money.
21:10He wanted money.
21:12Like, where's the money?
21:14Oh, no, that's just Chris being Chris.
21:16Oh, no. He was upset with you.
21:18He's just got this sense of humor
21:20I think that you and Cameron just don't understand.
21:22I don't think
21:24he meant anything by that.
21:26Yeah, well,
21:28I think he did.
21:30My mom and Chris are like oil and water.
21:32They're always trying to find
21:34little snippets
21:36of something the other person did
21:38towards me or how they said something.
21:40And so I'm always in the middle
21:42trying to keep the peace.
21:44It's exhausting.
21:46Anyways.
21:48I think overall it was good, though.
21:50It was good for that he left Christmas.
21:52So I'm glad we did that.
21:54I think it was a lot of fun.
21:56I enjoyed it a lot.
21:58Yeah, it was good.
22:00Yeah.
22:02I want my son to be happy.
22:04Whatever he wants,
22:06I'm happy for him.
22:08But the relationship the way it is
22:10now with Chris
22:12is not going to work.
22:14Now do this one next.
22:16Hold on, I gotta get this separated.
22:18I would love to be able to help
22:20Austin move forward.
22:22I think the best thing is if he could
22:24just get out of the situation
22:26he is with Chris.
22:28I got something to tell you.
22:34So...
22:36my transfer was accepted.
22:38I'm moving back to Los Angeles.
22:40Oh, really?
22:42Yep.
22:44Oh, good!
22:46That's crazy.
22:48I'm a flight attendant,
22:50so now I will be flying out of L.A.
22:52I am super excited to get back
22:54to L.A. because I'm right here
22:56in case he needs me.
22:58And he's much more open to talk to me
23:00while I'm here than I am
23:02three hours difference.
23:04Amazing!
23:06It's been a great four and a half year
23:08running with Grand Rapids,
23:10but I am really ready.
23:12My mom, she's officially moving back.
23:14The transfer went through.
23:16I'm super excited,
23:18but my biggest fear with my mom moving back
23:20is that I'm going to have to be
23:22in the middle of them again.
23:24It's not something I enjoy.
23:26It's not a good feeling.
23:28I don't want it.
23:30Very nice.
23:34You're so cute.
23:36You don't really have to blow on him.
23:38That's good.
23:42Don't you want to kiss my little pinky toe?
23:54Don't know which way to go,
23:56to go.
23:58Now that I have my real estate license and mom has hers,
24:00we decided we were going to go into business
24:02together. But after we went
24:04and got some headshots done, it's kind of been
24:06on my mind lately, like if I actually really want
24:08to do this and go into real estate with my mom.
24:10I just got a ton of stuff going through my head right now.
24:12Hey!
24:14How are you?
24:16Good to see you.
24:18What's going on?
24:20Christina is a very good friend of mine.
24:22I've known her for many, many years.
24:24She knows mom. She's successful in real estate.
24:26I got a lot of questions for you.
24:28We got a lot of catching up to do.
24:30So she is somebody that I can definitely
24:32go to to seek some advice.
24:34And she's somebody I trust.
24:36Isn't this great?
24:38This is better than the kitchen in my house.
24:40Wow.
24:42So no wonder you like going to the office all the time.
24:44Yes. I love it here.
24:46Now that I have my real estate
24:48license and actually being in a brokerage
24:50and kind of looking around, I'm like,
24:52I could see myself in here.
24:54It's really exciting.
24:56And I don't know,
24:58something just feels right.
25:00Congratulations on getting your license.
25:04Yes. This is a big excitement, a big step.
25:06It's a good career.
25:08It's a great life.
25:10So my mom
25:12was excited for me, and then she was like,
25:14oh my gosh, maybe I should dust off my license.
25:16And we went to this together.
25:18I thought it was kind of cool.
25:20Mother, son, take it on, do the thing.
25:22People like it.
25:26That's a problem.
25:28She's excited for it.
25:30I wonder if she's excited for the right reasons.
25:32Well, and that's my question to you,
25:34is that
25:36you have to figure out if
25:38what you want to do in real estate
25:40and where you want to go in real estate
25:42aligns with your mom's goals.
25:44Matt loves his mom,
25:46and he's
25:48really reliant on her
25:50for assurance
25:52and decision making.
25:54And I think that the separation
25:56that normally happens around
25:5818, 20,
26:00for boys just hasn't happened yet.
26:02So that's a question you need
26:04to ask her, and it's probably a question
26:06you need to ask yourself.
26:08Will she go out and hustle with you?
26:10That's, yeah,
26:12that's, you said it perfectly.
26:14And honestly, like, if I did
26:16go into business with my mom and go this way,
26:18I'm probably going to be the one doing most of the work.
26:20I'm really feeling like
26:22he should maybe look into
26:24do I want to partner with my mom?
26:26Because those two do not mesh,
26:28and the partnership will fail.
26:30Your mom's already built her life with her husband.
26:32You're her son.
26:34She doesn't really need to
26:36start a new business with you.
26:38If your goal
26:40is to operate a successful
26:42real estate business,
26:44that might not be
26:46my first choice.
26:48I don't know. I don't want to make, like, a rash decision about it
26:50because I'm scared of failure.
26:52So I'm scared to, like, try something different
26:54because I've always had the safety net.
26:56Scared of failure
26:58will drive you to succeed.
27:00Yeah, I agree. No, it absolutely will.
27:02But it might not happen until you
27:04get rid of your safety net.
27:06Which is mom.
27:08How is he ever going to
27:10gain the life that
27:12he ultimately wants if he doesn't
27:14break that cord?
27:16I have to start kind of doing
27:18some things on my own and saying,
27:20you know, I'm going to try this and if it
27:22fails, but like I said,
27:24this is a whole new ballgame.
27:26This is your business. The great thing about your business
27:28in real estate is you can operate it
27:30however it is that fits
27:32your heart, your goals, your life.
27:34Yeah. Okay. Right?
27:36And you're really selling me.
27:38I know. You're good.
27:40I have a lot to think
27:42about with just the question of
27:44do I think it's a good idea to go
27:46into business with my mom?
27:48I feel that it's time for me to
27:50forge my own path in a lot of ways
27:52and create some of that distance,
27:54become more independent.
27:56Maybe we can get you looking at other houses.
27:58I probably should.
28:00I need to not be the 33-year-old
28:02guy looking for love living
28:04in mom's backyard anymore.
28:06It's probably time or something's got to change
28:08and it's been great
28:10but at some point you want to try.
28:12I might be a few years behind.
28:14That's okay. You're never too late.
28:16You're never too late.
28:20I think a really
28:22nice add-on would be good.
28:24That's not part of the plan.
28:26Josh knew that, buying this house,
28:28that there was no room for you and he was all for it.
28:30I don't think he said, oh, there's no room for my mother.
28:32We'll put words in my mouth.
28:36All right.
28:38We're at the airport.
28:40We're heading to Tampa, Florida.
28:42I can't wait to be in the warm weather.
28:44We are on our way to Florida.
28:46Yay!
28:48We are super nervous to see
28:50the construction going on at the house.
28:52I haven't seen it. Josh hasn't seen it.
28:54The kids or Tina haven't seen it
28:56so I'm nervous to get their reaction as well.
28:58You guys ready to go see our house?
29:00Yeah!
29:02I'm excited.
29:04Hello.
29:06How are you?
29:08We go to Florida
29:10and I decided that I'd get my hair done,
29:12let them have some time alone,
29:14respect Janelle's wishes of
29:16just her and Josh and the kids
29:18seeing the house for the first time.
29:20All right, guys.
29:22We're here.
29:24We're here.
29:26We're here.
29:28We're here.
29:30We're here.
29:32It's time.
29:34All right, guys. Let's see.
29:36Wow.
29:38Oh, my God.
29:40Oh, wow. He ripped out the whole kitchen already.
29:42Oh, look how good this looks.
29:44We just got to Florida.
29:46We just got to the house.
29:48We are super excited to see the progress
29:50that has been made.
29:52Are you guys getting more excited about Florida?
29:54Yeah.
29:56I can just picture the kids running around
29:58and how we want to decorate it and make it our home.
30:00Where's my hug?
30:02I'm definitely on cloud nine right now.
30:04What do you guys think?
30:06I want to live here.
30:08You'll each be able to have a room.
30:10What about Bailey's room?
30:12Bailey?
30:14Well, we'll see.
30:16She can sleep on the couch.
30:18On the couch?
30:20I like that idea. It's all she needs.
30:22I mean, I think for Josh, me, and the kids, it's perfect.
30:24You can sleep outside.
30:26Great suggestions, Lily.
30:28I think when we picked this house,
30:30we knew it was going to be a little bit on the smaller side,
30:32and we knew that Tina
30:34wasn't going to fit.
30:36That's going to be nice. Nice big couch.
30:38I think I hear someone.
30:40Hi.
30:42It's baby.
30:44Oh, my babies.
30:46Oh, my boy.
30:48Josh and Janelle bought this house
30:50without even consulting me,
30:52which that didn't go over well for me.
30:54Hey, so come check it out, Mom.
30:56Oh, boy.
30:58Wow.
31:00I have not seen the house yet,
31:02and I can tell you right now, I'm going to tell them
31:04exactly what I think of it.
31:06Come in.
31:08Let's see what we got.
31:10Well, this is our room now.
31:12Okay, that's good.
31:14It's going to take some getting used to.
31:16It is
31:18not the cutest house, by no means.
31:20I'm not liking it.
31:22Now, whose room is this going to be?
31:24Janelle's probably.
31:26This house is so small,
31:28I don't even know how they'll fit
31:30their immediate family, never mind me.
31:34Okay, I just
31:36just not seeing
31:38where I'm going to go.
31:40Where's my room?
31:42Every room is accounted for,
31:44and I have not heard my name mentioned once,
31:46so I'm not happy right now.
31:48This whole thing's coming down
31:50right here.
31:52Lock down this wall,
31:54have this all open up.
31:56A lot of work to do.
31:58We saw the potential in it,
32:00and this is a perfect location for us,
32:02right next to my brother and my parents.
32:04So,
32:06it's what I want,
32:08and my baby bear's making it happen.
32:10My son's making it happen.
32:12I love you guys.
32:14I love you guys.
32:16So many possibilities.
32:18I mean, I like it.
32:20I just think that it's small.
32:22Yeah.
32:24It's a lot smaller than I thought.
32:26We have to make some extra room.
32:28This is what we like.
32:30I mean, if it's small for you,
32:32then that's your problem.
32:34It's not ours.
32:36You live in New England.
32:38You don't have to move with us.
32:40I spoke to my son, and he wanted my input,
32:42and I'm giving my input.
32:44I don't think he asked for it.
32:46Yes, he did.
32:48She's saying it's small.
32:50Hey, hey, her input's always required.
32:52I know, but you just can't be happy for us.
32:54You have to insult it.
32:56I don't think Tina will ever, right off the bat,
32:58say something positive.
33:00She'll just kind of, like, make a facelink.
33:02Oh.
33:04This is kind of small.
33:06Okay.
33:08Look at the view, though.
33:10Oh, my God. The view is worth everything.
33:12It's cute.
33:14Let's see. Can I... Excuse me.
33:16Do you have access to the lake?
33:18Yeah. Yeah, we have a dock.
33:20We can get kayaks. Maybe you can go kayaking.
33:22Yeah, we can go kayaking.
33:24Oh, my God. I'm so excited.
33:26That's true. We can have a coffee right out.
33:28I was gonna do a tiki bar over here.
33:30Oh, I'd like that.
33:32So we can go outside and have a...
33:34Yeah, you know about Friday nights.
33:36I love a Friday night.
33:38Well, that's what I was saying.
33:40Considering down here, casinos are further away,
33:42we could do something with a tiki hut.
33:44I'm not on anything right now.
33:46We are already 100 grand into this renovation.
33:48That's not part of the plan.
33:50I know. I'm staying in the future.
33:52Josh knew that, buying this house,
33:54that there was no room for you, and he was all for it, so...
33:56That's not entirely true.
33:58I don't think he said,
34:00oh, there's no room for my mother.
34:02Don't put words in my mouth. Come on.
34:04I just... There's so much room to expand.
34:06Having that in-law suite for me and having me there,
34:08that's the biggest benefit of all.
34:10They need me.
34:12They're not gonna be pretty.
34:14Let me tell you, they have to do this
34:16or they're not gonna be happy.
34:18I think the in-law suite is ridiculous.
34:20To spend another $40,000, $50,000
34:22just making an in-law for her
34:24is just, in my opinion, out of the question.
34:26You know, I kind of have some ideas
34:28that I'll think about and talk to Nell about.
34:34You act like you care more about how your mom feels
34:36about our relationship versus how I feel.
34:38That is the problem.
34:40You're a grown man.
34:42You're not capable of making your own decisions
34:44in your relationship.
34:46No cheers to every...
34:48It's just one thing.
34:50Grow up. Grow some balls.
35:04Mom, can you just unlock my card?
35:06I'm about to go up here. I'm gonna swipe it again.
35:08I'm gonna open it up for five minutes
35:10and then I'm locking it back.
35:12Okay.
35:14We're at the winery, and I'm calling my mom
35:16on FaceTime to say, hey, Mom,
35:18I'm out with Nyla, and I need to use my card.
35:20And, of course, my mom had to ask me
35:2220 questions before she unlocked my card.
35:24It was really embarrassing.
35:26All right, you got five minutes.
35:28Thanks, Mom. Love you.
35:30Love you, too, baby.
35:32So you can go ahead and swipe it again.
35:34It'll go through now.
35:36All right.
35:38Okay, thank you.
35:40There you go.
35:42Thank you. It went through?
35:44Yes, it went through just fine.
35:48And next time, you don't have to, like,
35:50scream my card declined. You said that pretty loud.
35:52Sorry.
35:54Just cheers to us.
35:56I've been wanting to come here for a while now,
35:58and I was actually able to
36:00get some alone time with Shahid.
36:02Thank you. See you. Bye-bye.
36:04He wanted to help us have a nice, intimate date
36:06without Miss Gia.
36:08And then, oh, suddenly, his card declined.
36:10She was up to it.
36:12I feel that she was trying to sabotage our date.
36:16Thanks.
36:18Some charcuterie.
36:20Oh, everything looks really good.
36:22That looks great. Oh, you're the best.
36:24Thank you so much. Appreciate it.
36:26I think this is Pepperjack here.
36:30You happy to be here?
36:32I'm happy to be here.
36:34It's super cute, and earlier,
36:36you mentioned something about, like, oh,
36:38it looks like people get married here.
36:40Would you get married here?
36:46I haven't put that much thought into it,
36:48I don't think.
36:50Like, is marriage, like, a thought
36:52that you're having?
36:54I mean, you know, when I first met you,
36:56I told you I wanted my wife to be you.
36:58And that has never changed.
37:00But I also do feel like
37:02before marriage,
37:04there's going to be, like,
37:06a lot of important conversations we have to have.
37:08Before I assume,
37:10I don't want to assume,
37:12but are you expecting me to pay
37:14all of the bills, like, 100%?
37:16In a perfect world,
37:18I'd be a stay-at-home girlfriend.
37:24Which is basically
37:26me staying at home,
37:28clearly.
37:30You going out, working hard,
37:32doing whatever it is that you choose to do
37:34that pays the bills,
37:36you'll come home to, like, a fresh,
37:38warm, home-cooked meal.
37:42That sounds like an ideal world
37:44to me.
37:46What do you think?
37:50I just don't think my mom's gonna be okay with that.
37:54We're not going anywhere if my mom
37:56doesn't approve.
37:58You're a 24-year-old man. Do you really care that much
38:00about what your mom thinks?
38:02Are you serious right now?
38:04If your mom doesn't approve of us,
38:06we can't be together.
38:08Say it.
38:10Because that's basically what you just said out of your mouth.
38:12You just know
38:14that sounds insane.
38:16That's why you don't want to repeat it.
38:18It's not right.
38:20It's not fair.
38:22I'm upset with Shahid
38:24because basically he confirmed that his mom
38:26determines the longevity
38:28of our relationship.
38:30And that's frustrating to me
38:32because why does she hold so much weight?
38:34You're a grown man.
38:36You're not capable of making your own decisions
38:38in your relationship.
38:40Are you in a relationship with your mom or are you in a relationship with me?
38:42You know I'm not dating my mom.
38:44You act like you care more about how your mom feels
38:46about our relationship versus how I feel
38:48or how we, as a collective,
38:50feel about our relationship.
38:52You're in the relationship.
38:54Your mom is not a part of our relationship.
38:56That is the problem.
38:58So I don't try to make you feel comfortable?
39:00You believe that your mom is a part of our relationship.
39:02You allow your mom to believe that she is a part of this
39:04when she is not.
39:06Do you understand?
39:08I love my mom, yes.
39:10I'm not dating my mom.
39:12I don't have sex with my mom.
39:14We don't have that type of relationship.
39:16Oh, I would hope that.
39:18Regardless of what you think, we don't.
39:20My mother acts like she
39:22doesn't know my situation.
39:24It's just like I need my mom
39:26by my side and I need my mom
39:28to support what I'm doing so it's hard
39:30to date you if my mom doesn't approve.
39:32I know my mom isn't the easiest.
39:34I'll take some of the blame for that.
39:36Because of how close we are on Walmart,
39:38I
39:42overshare.
39:44When you're late to things
39:46or when I feel like you're being mean to me
39:48or
39:50we're just not on the best of terms,
39:52I tell my mom all those things.
39:54That's the problem right there.
39:56You telling her
39:58negative things that happen with our relationship
40:00does not make me feel good.
40:02Because she already doesn't like me.
40:04So that just gives her more reason to
40:06dislike me.
40:08I think a lot of what I tell my mom,
40:10she holds that overnight as head.
40:12And that's not why I tell my mom and those are never my
40:14intentions when I tell my mom what's going on.
40:16My mom's just my best friend and I love talking to my mom
40:18about my life and what I have going on
40:20and things that bother me and things that make me happy.
40:22To be honest, I want my mom
40:24to love you like I do.
40:26Maybe
40:28going to my mom to let her know about my argument
40:30every time we get in an argument
40:32might not be the best thing to do.
40:34No.
40:36No.
40:38It is difficult to have
40:40these deep emotional conversations.
40:42You never know what the outcome could be
40:44when you're really getting into the nitty and gritty of your relationship.
40:46The worst we could end up breaking up
40:48after having these conversations.
40:50Cheers to not oversharing.
40:52Cheers to not oversharing.
40:54Cheers to
40:56No. One thing.
40:58Just cheers.
41:00Okay, fine. I'm going to change my cheers.
41:02Cheers to not allowing your mom to dictate.
41:04No. You already tapped glasses.
41:06That wasn't cheers.
41:08Cheers to not allowing your mom to dictate what happens
41:10in our relationship.
41:12Cheers to that.
41:18It's definitely a lot of work to be done here
41:20and I feel he needs to start with
41:22standing his ground and having his own opinion.
41:24Grow up.
41:26Grow some balls.
41:32You're such a hot mom.
41:34Aww.
41:36Still to come on
41:38I Love a Momma's Boy.
41:40We're in the middle of it?
41:42It's like Hunger Games, you know?
41:44I'm kicking her ass out.
41:46There's things that you were right about.
41:48Please don't tell me this girl's pregnant.
41:50Looks like your date arrived.
41:52I've had many beautiful dates with this woman.
41:54I'm realizing she can't always be there
41:56for me to have a shoulder to cry on.
41:58I kind of wanted to tell you something, Mom.
42:02You've been saying you was going to move down here.
42:04When is that happening?
42:06She needs to put her foot down and say,
42:08She's the holdout.
42:10Mom, you're the holdout.
42:12It doesn't matter what I want, it's what Tina wants.
42:16We're working towards engagement.
42:18I'm really nervous that my mom is going to find out that I'm here.
42:20How much is this one?
42:22$15,000 to $20,000.
42:24My mom gave me a budget of like $25 today.
42:26I don't know. Does it look like I can afford that right now?
42:28I'm number one.
42:30I'm number one.
42:32When we get married, I'm going to have to come first
42:34and she's going to have to respect that.
42:36That's not true.
42:40I just want you to consider
42:42moving in with me.
42:44I know that if I move out, that's the end of Chris and I.
42:46Are you breaking up with me?
42:48I need to not be
42:50the 33-year-old guy looking for love
42:52living in Mom's backyard anymore.
42:54You're the problem, Charlene.
42:58He's losing it.
43:00Stupid.
43:02I don't know if we're going to recover from this one.
43:04I need to bring something to the table.
43:06This is the table.
43:08You know what? That snapper ain't always going to snap.
43:10Oh!
43:12Why, why, why, why?
43:14Oh, my gosh.
43:16You are the third wheel in their relationship.
43:18We want to have another baby.
43:20Not now, guys. Come on.
43:22It is not your decision, bitch.
43:24Like, how dare you?
43:26You are not his wife.
43:28I came first.
43:30He's a mommy's boy.
43:32I came first.