Life After Lockup S9 Episode 3
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00:00:00He's on life after lockup.
00:00:02Oh, we ready to be out of here.
00:00:04Me and Bri, we're about to make this humongous move.
00:00:06My mama, my brother, we all going to Houston.
00:00:09Do not have approval by the state of Texas.
00:00:11Texas denied our move.
00:00:13Are you kidding?
00:00:16I deserve a ring.
00:00:18We've been together for two and a half years now.
00:00:21I want to buy a ring for Melissa.
00:00:23Why?
00:00:25We have got to get some money together so we can make,
00:00:27like, a down payment on this house.
00:00:29Joey and I are buying a house for my babies.
00:00:31Do you think you look like me?
00:00:32I could be Kason's father,
00:00:34so I actually bought a paternity test.
00:00:37This is honestly one of my life's biggest fears.
00:00:40I want to formally introduce Troy.
00:00:43Hi.
00:00:44We are co-partners in Project Heal.
00:00:46There was a problem with a contract,
00:00:48so we don't have no money.
00:00:50Troy!
00:00:52We're behind two months of rent.
00:00:53I mean, you should be able to tell me that.
00:00:55No hesitation.
00:00:57I don't know who you went and talked to.
00:00:59Having trust issues with my husband,
00:01:02it makes me very, very nervous.
00:01:04I don't want to go through financial troubles, bro.
00:01:06I don't want to deal with that.
00:01:07We can rob, we can scam, we can steal.
00:01:10Don't take yourself there.
00:01:12Why give up now?
00:01:14There's definitely some serious risk with this pregnancy.
00:01:16Do you have a will and do you have things in order?
00:01:19What is going on?
00:01:22Tried to do my phone because he keeps going and bullying me.
00:01:24Why would you throw your phone?
00:01:27Close, man.
00:01:29You do this every day.
00:01:31I don't know how I'm going to handle that.
00:01:33Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God.
00:01:34As a young child, I started smoking weed, drinking alcohol.
00:01:37Eventually, it led to heroin.
00:01:39And five years ago, I was arrested
00:01:41for driving under the influence.
00:01:44How did I do?
00:01:45Be honest.
00:01:46You were good.
00:01:47The sex wasn't like the best.
00:01:49We didn't use protection.
00:01:50I think it'd be responsible for us to get some plan B.
00:01:52I have baby fever, really bad.
00:01:54Come on, baby.
00:01:55I mean, I kind of hope it happens.
00:02:05Hey.
00:02:05Hey, how you doing?
00:02:07Hey.
00:02:08Welcome to the apartment.
00:02:10Oh, it's cute.
00:02:17Oh, this is cute, guys.
00:02:19The bedroom.
00:02:19The magic room.
00:02:20That was good.
00:02:21There's some Daniel's art.
00:02:22He did that for me while he was in prison.
00:02:24That's different.
00:02:26My mom, she wants some time alone with me.
00:02:29My parents, they live in another state.
00:02:31They came all this way, and they deserve my attention also.
00:02:35Well, let's go.
00:02:35OK, come on.
00:02:36Bye, Bianca.
00:02:37Bye.
00:02:38See you later.
00:02:39Lay out the whiskey, you two.
00:02:41Right, right?
00:02:43So while we're going shopping, my cousin Robert
00:02:45is going to hang out with Bianca.
00:02:47You want to go to a restaurant while we're
00:02:49waiting for them to come back?
00:02:50That's fine.
00:02:51All right.
00:02:52I'm fine with Daniel leaving me with his cousin Robert.
00:02:56We're around the same age.
00:02:57And since I moved out here to Arizona,
00:03:00I don't know anyone here besides Daniel, really.
00:03:04I haven't done much.
00:03:05I'm a little lonely, not really hanging out with anyone
00:03:08or doing anything fun.
00:03:13See what they got.
00:03:14I don't even know what to get.
00:03:15It's been so long since I went shopping, you know?
00:03:17What are you looking for, t-shirts, pants?
00:03:20I'm looking for short summer stuff.
00:03:23Being in prison for five years, I know I need clothes.
00:03:26Oh my god, these are the shoes that they
00:03:28would sell us in prison.
00:03:30It says $30.
00:03:31They were charging us $90 for parties.
00:03:33Really?
00:03:34Yeah, that's insane.
00:03:35I haven't been shopping in a long time.
00:03:37I haven't been in a store in a long time.
00:03:39I forgot what size clothes I even wear.
00:03:41I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:03:42I wore orange for so long, and here I am.
00:03:46That's too polyester, right?
00:03:47Yeah, I'm not doing that.
00:03:49What do you think about Bianca?
00:03:53I like her a lot.
00:03:54As long as she quits drinking and she doesn't start up that
00:03:57or, you know, it's only been one day.
00:04:00Did she drink last night at all?
00:04:01No.
00:04:03What I'm worried about is she doesn't
00:04:05agree with birth control.
00:04:06She doesn't agree with condoms.
00:04:08So we got to figure that out.
00:04:10Well, yeah.
00:04:11Because I did not use protection last night.
00:04:17That was kind of dumb on your part.
00:04:18Yeah.
00:04:19Why did you do that?
00:04:20I don't know.
00:04:21You know, because if you break up,
00:04:22you're going to be paying child support.
00:04:23You're never going to have any money because you're
00:04:25going to be paying child support.
00:04:26Well, we're not breaking up.
00:04:27We're not getting pregnant.
00:04:28You don't know that, though.
00:04:29She needs to get on the pill or something.
00:04:31Yeah.
00:04:31You're right.
00:04:33It's just too early.
00:04:34They haven't been together long enough to, you know,
00:04:36this is something that he should have known better.
00:04:39It's like, what are they thinking?
00:04:43What do you think about me proposing to Bianca?
00:04:46We're not getting married, but a ring is a promise.
00:04:48And I want to promise that to her.
00:04:55Probably want to wait a little bit, right?
00:04:56I know, but.
00:04:56A year to two years will be time enough to get.
00:04:58There'll be a lot different.
00:04:59Right, and then that'll give time
00:05:01to see how it plays out with her, see how she does.
00:05:04But I want to give her that promise.
00:05:07Good, yeah.
00:05:09While I was in prison, Bianca and I got engaged.
00:05:12I want to get her a ring.
00:05:13I wanted to get her a ring back then.
00:05:14I still want to get her a ring today.
00:05:16Tell me where the rings are.
00:05:18Our jewelry is going to be in that case right there.
00:05:19I can open it.
00:05:20Financially, I am not independent.
00:05:24But when I am secure with a career,
00:05:27I will be able to lighten the burden with money,
00:05:32with security.
00:05:33And even though it would take that longer time
00:05:37that we've talked about, you know, with marriage,
00:05:39if she had that ring on her finger,
00:05:41she could look at it and know that I was serious.
00:05:44Because, you know, there's the ring right there.
00:05:46He must be real.
00:05:49You know, regardless of how much these cost,
00:05:51because they can't be that expensive,
00:05:53I just want to give her that promise
00:05:55to let her know that I'm serious.
00:05:57It's cute.
00:05:58I still have concerns.
00:05:59It's not over the hill yet.
00:06:01No.
00:06:02This one's, like, really pretty.
00:06:04Yeah, this one's better.
00:06:05She would like that.
00:06:06This one's better.
00:06:07Let's go see how much it costs.
00:06:08I'm still worried about Bianca wanting to drink
00:06:11and being a distraction for him.
00:06:13Your total is $71.68.
00:06:15For your buddy.
00:06:18And him giving in to that.
00:06:22Hey, how are you?
00:06:23Good.
00:06:24What are you drinking today?
00:06:25Can I get a vodka crayon?
00:06:26Vodka crayon?
00:06:27Yeah.
00:06:28Drinking is fun, huh?
00:06:30I mean, this is really serious.
00:06:33I'm really worried about it.
00:06:35What they don't know doesn't hurt them.
00:06:46I threw my phone because he wouldn't
00:06:47stop bullying me for, like, 30 years.
00:06:48You threw your phone.
00:06:49Your $1,500 iPhone.
00:06:52Why would you throw your phone?
00:06:54Because he wouldn't stop.
00:06:55Get on that one, both of you.
00:06:57Let's go, man.
00:06:58I need to go, yo.
00:07:00Excuse me.
00:07:07I worked too hard to buy the phone.
00:07:09He breaks the phone just because he's upset.
00:07:11That's ridiculous, man.
00:07:12I'm taking their TVs off their walls.
00:07:15Everything.
00:07:15I might just shut the f***ing break off
00:07:17so they have no power in their room.
00:07:20I felt like it was more than just the kids.
00:07:23I felt like I was just mad that I have to work,
00:07:27mad that I have to put my career on the back seat,
00:07:30mad that Justina's considered a high-risk pregnancy.
00:07:34It isn't as easy as I want it to be.
00:07:39That stress, that anxiety, that depression,
00:07:41everything just bottles up
00:07:43and it's just a recipe for disaster.
00:07:48Hey.
00:07:49Oh, excuse you.
00:07:51Excuse you.
00:07:52Don't voice past me like I did something.
00:07:53That's what we're not supposed to do.
00:07:54I'm not. Listen.
00:07:55I know.
00:07:57I don't want to take my anger out on you.
00:07:58Then don't.
00:07:59Then make a better choice.
00:08:00Because I'm not the enemy here.
00:08:03We're both on the same side of this.
00:08:04This is ridiculous.
00:08:07It's taking him a long time to move on
00:08:10from his incarcerated mentality.
00:08:15It just shows me you have no control.
00:08:18I think he's trying to like break out of the trauma
00:08:21and the pain that caused him to be in there
00:08:24for all those years.
00:08:25But this is not okay in my household.
00:08:30They need boot camp.
00:08:32They don't need boot camp.
00:08:34These kids have fricking issues
00:08:36with communicating how they feel.
00:08:39So they act up.
00:08:40And if we don't teach them how to effectively
00:08:42communicate with each other, then we're screwed.
00:08:44And so is everybody else that comes into contact
00:08:46with these kids.
00:08:49For you to reprimand him about breaking his own stuff
00:08:52and then you turn and break your stuff,
00:08:53it doesn't help the situation.
00:08:56You need to work on your anger as well.
00:09:00With the high-risk pregnancy,
00:09:02my doctor actually recommended having a will
00:09:05to ensure that all the kids are taken care of properly.
00:09:09I'm not sure if he's fully ready to take on my children
00:09:13on top of his, if God forbid, something ever happened to me.
00:09:22You're probably gonna be around 20 to 25,000.
00:09:24Yeah, ain't no way.
00:09:25I think I'm gonna go outside.
00:09:26Ooh, I think he's getting cold feet.
00:09:28I can't judge a book by it's cover
00:09:29just because he's got a cold feet.
00:09:31I'm not sure if he's fully ready to take on my children
00:09:35on top of his, if God forbid, something ever happened to me.
00:09:39Just because somebody looks mean or they look different
00:09:42doesn't mean they're bad people, right?
00:09:44Yeah.
00:09:50You know what you're doing in this?
00:09:52What you're doing?
00:09:54I'm making sausage.
00:09:55Oh, yeah?
00:09:56Just because you don't like real food.
00:09:58Me and Kasey need to stay, okay?
00:10:00Mm-hmm.
00:10:01I can't help it that we eat chicken nuggets
00:10:02and fries and fast food.
00:10:04I know you're like a grown-up kid.
00:10:06I love you anyway.
00:10:07Am I grown up yet?
00:10:09I don't know.
00:10:12Where's the DNA test?
00:10:13It didn't come back?
00:10:14No, I haven't seen it yet.
00:10:17Where do you get it?
00:10:18On a couple of men?
00:10:19I think it's supposed to come to my email.
00:10:23Joey wants to know whether or not
00:10:24he's Kasey's biological father.
00:10:27I mean, I'm really not ready to find out
00:10:29because there is no best or worst case scenario
00:10:32with these DNA test results.
00:10:33Either way, somebody gets hurt.
00:10:35But I don't really have a choice.
00:10:37You don't even check your emails.
00:10:39If you get an email, you don't even know.
00:10:41Okay.
00:10:43No, I just have the thing on my email
00:10:44where it was-
00:10:45What are you doing, Kasey?
00:10:46You good?
00:10:47Don't worry, I'll be checking them.
00:10:49It should take a couple of weeks to get the results back.
00:10:52And I know Joey's gonna be making me
00:10:53check that email like every day.
00:10:57Judy texts me so we can go look at another house.
00:11:01I just really hope we get to a point
00:11:02where we find something that we really want in town
00:11:05because I mean, I feel like everything was looked at
00:11:08so far has been okay,
00:11:09but nothing has really been like, I want this.
00:11:12I'm trying to buy a house right now, but this is hard.
00:11:15I don't like when it's got that wood panel.
00:11:20Ugh, this rat's insane.
00:11:24I think this is the one that Judy's showing us.
00:11:26How much is it?
00:11:27We're looking at probably $1,500 or $1,600 a month,
00:11:31plus like 3.5% down.
00:11:33Yeah, that's a lot, that house.
00:11:36Yeah, that's a lot for any house.
00:11:39I think it's time to get a job.
00:11:43There's nothing I could do besides
00:11:44heating, ventilation, air conditioning.
00:11:48So I mean, do you think that
00:11:49you're gonna like this HVAC stuff?
00:11:51I mean, I don't know, it was kind of boring
00:11:53when I was in the class.
00:11:55I'm not gonna like going to a house
00:11:58and crawling under the house when it's 98 degrees outside
00:12:02and hanging that duck work and laying on your back on sand
00:12:05and there's snakes and spiders under there and stuff.
00:12:07Like, I'm not, I don't wanna do that.
00:12:09I mean, are there other things that you can do?
00:12:11I don't know, that's the question I'm gonna have to ask.
00:12:13You know, like, I need to be making $1,000 a week.
00:12:16It's just gonna have to get by
00:12:18until we can get everything together
00:12:19like we wanna get it together.
00:12:22We'll do it, we'll get it done.
00:12:28This is kind of nerve wracking,
00:12:30don't wanna get ripped off.
00:12:31♪ Are you ready for this, are you ready? ♪
00:12:35What's up?
00:12:36It's the man, yeah.
00:12:36Joey.
00:12:37What's up, bro?
00:12:38How you doing?
00:12:39Good, how are you?
00:12:40What's up, Joe?
00:12:41Joe and Lou are probably the closest friends I have.
00:12:43Thank you for coming.
00:12:45I definitely gotta look around
00:12:47because this is a big day, expensive big day.
00:12:51When I was in prison,
00:12:53the first, I wanna say like eight years,
00:12:55I was like, I'm gonna get out
00:12:56and I'm gonna try to sleep with as many women as possible.
00:12:59And then I finally met Melissa and something changed.
00:13:02How you doing, sir?
00:13:03You guys look cool.
00:13:04Engagement ring for him?
00:13:06Yeah, I don't need any more women.
00:13:08I love Melissa and I wanna be with her.
00:13:10So I wanna get the best diamond that I can possibly get.
00:13:14He wants to potentially ruin his life.
00:13:16Yeah.
00:13:17I'm ready to get married.
00:13:18I mean, I'm looking for an engagement ring.
00:13:20How big of a stone are you looking for?
00:13:22She wants no less than two carats.
00:13:24How much you wanna spend?
00:13:2510 to 12.
00:13:26The fact that I'm working multiple jobs,
00:13:29I've been able to accomplish saving quite a bit of money.
00:13:33I figured 10 to $12,000 is a sufficient budget
00:13:37for a two carat diamond ring.
00:13:39I'll tell you, you're spending 20,000 plus, no problem.
00:13:42Right?
00:13:45That's why you're gonna go lab.
00:13:47You're gonna get a lab, create a diamond,
00:13:48same characteristics, same everything.
00:13:50A natural stone, 35,000 on the five.
00:13:54I don't think you could,
00:13:55it's not gonna tell the difference.
00:13:57It's gorgeous.
00:13:58Three, four months ago,
00:13:59Melissa and I were just sitting there talking
00:14:01and she was basically just like,
00:14:05so you know, I don't want no fake ass diamond.
00:14:09Which one's the lucky one?
00:14:10That's me right here, Louie.
00:14:12Do you have an idea of what you're looking for?
00:14:13Oh yeah.
00:14:14Oh, you've done your research,
00:14:15your online research, I like that.
00:14:17I didn't have to do the research
00:14:18and the reason I didn't have to do the research-
00:14:20She did it for you.
00:14:21Oh, she's getting a beautiful diamond, two carats, okay.
00:14:24No less than two, I was told.
00:14:25Okay.
00:14:26I have a budget.
00:14:27What's that budget?
00:14:2810 to 12.
00:14:30You definitely need to step that budget up a little bit.
00:14:33Or we have to drop that into under two carats.
00:14:38I'm starting to think, what happens if it's small?
00:14:40She's expecting it too, what happens if I get her a half?
00:14:42Like, does that change how much I love you
00:14:45or you love me?
00:14:46No.
00:14:46This is a really, really nice diamond, right?
00:14:49Okay, so look at this.
00:14:55I mean.
00:14:56Yeah, that's gorgeous.
00:14:58So that stone basically is around 20 to 23,000
00:15:01depending on the stone.
00:15:02That's just the stone.
00:15:03Just the stone, with the mounting,
00:15:04you're probably gonna be around 20 to 25,000.
00:15:06Yeah, ain't no way.
00:15:09I mean, that's just crazy.
00:15:10I don't know-
00:15:11I'm just a little blown away here.
00:15:13I think I'm gonna go outside.
00:15:14Just give me a second.
00:15:15You wanna take a little air break?
00:15:15Yeah, yeah, just give me a minute.
00:15:16All right, we'll be here, Lou.
00:15:17All right.
00:15:18I think he's getting cold feet.
00:15:20I'm gonna go talk to him, man.
00:15:22$25,000?
00:15:27For some odd reason, I'm always like,
00:15:28go with your gut.
00:15:29Like right now, my gut is telling me like,
00:15:32I don't know if I'm ready.
00:15:39They mentioned me having a will.
00:15:41When you die, if you knew,
00:15:43why would you have another kid so soon?
00:15:45It's just very selfish.
00:15:48What you just walk out like that for?
00:15:49I don't give a what you talking about right now.
00:15:51I need to know one question.
00:15:54Are you cheating on me?
00:15:57I can drink if I want to drink.
00:15:59You failed.
00:16:00I didn't fail anything.
00:16:02I can't do this.
00:16:03I can't be around that.
00:16:09Jorge has always put the ones he loves first,
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00:16:39What?
00:16:41It's superhero dance school.
00:16:51Lego with Eggo.
00:16:52Can't wait.
00:16:54I feel trapped, yeah.
00:16:55I feel like I'm in a box.
00:16:57They lock me up.
00:16:58I'm stuck.
00:16:59I'm just trying to pick the lock.
00:17:02I don't even be wanting to go outside
00:17:04because it's too much going on out here.
00:17:07Do you know, when I went to the freaking vending machine,
00:17:10there was a crack head asking another kid, a kid,
00:17:14for $5.
00:17:16I don't want to be in an environment like that.
00:17:18We don't need to be in an environment like that.
00:17:25You know, the hours that I was in here
00:17:28cleaning this place,
00:17:30so that we don't have to be in no dirty ass motel, like.
00:17:36When are we going to be able to go?
00:17:38It's been 30 days since we were denied
00:17:41our transfer to Texas.
00:17:42We've been staying at this motel
00:17:44and honestly, I'm getting fed up.
00:17:48Because the government placed us in here,
00:17:50we can't go out past 11 o'clock.
00:17:54No visitors.
00:17:55They don't allow us to have no visitors.
00:17:56Or we get kicked out.
00:17:58This point, I'm starting to feel like,
00:17:59what in the hell, you know?
00:18:01It's just bull.
00:18:02We miss our family.
00:18:04It's crazy, man.
00:18:06The system is failing me.
00:18:09If you already have the job out there,
00:18:11like, what if you end up losing that opportunity
00:18:13because they're being like that?
00:18:16My mom and everyone in the family has moved to Texas.
00:18:20I'm now realizing like, it's sinking in.
00:18:23Okay, this is it.
00:18:25You know, this is me and Bri against the world.
00:18:28There's nothing to fall back on.
00:18:32It's really stressful.
00:18:33We don't even have a kitchen to cook.
00:18:35My stomach hurts from eating fast food
00:18:38because we can't have any real food.
00:18:40Yeah.
00:18:40We can't do shit.
00:18:42You did time, so did I.
00:18:44So we only dealt with microwave.
00:18:48You start cooking like you did in prison.
00:18:50Yeah, you make the bombers flip.
00:18:51You know what I'm talking about?
00:18:52The tuna flip.
00:18:53I don't think anybody wants to relive being in prison.
00:18:57We don't want to be in a motel.
00:18:58We want to go.
00:18:59We're ready to go.
00:19:00I'm ready to go.
00:19:03The PTSD is setting in.
00:19:06I know that I'm strong and I can really get through this,
00:19:09but Bri, it's the uncertainty
00:19:13that kind of messes with her sanity.
00:19:15I'm about to get dressed, man.
00:19:17If this appeal is denied again,
00:19:21I don't know if she's going to be able to hold up.
00:19:26She said that when I come in or whatever,
00:19:29they're just going to talk to me pretty much about,
00:19:31you know, what do I need now to be able to go?
00:19:34I really don't see no reason for them to deny you.
00:19:38I cannot wait to get in an apartment.
00:19:41I know.
00:19:42I can't wait to see it.
00:19:43It's been really, really hard.
00:19:45On top of me paying $500 for the car note,
00:19:48$650 for the car insurance,
00:19:51$1,400 for the condo
00:19:53that I'm not even laying my head at right now.
00:19:56It's like I keep pulling out the savings.
00:19:57I keep pulling out the savings.
00:20:00But I'm positive.
00:20:00I feel like we're about to leave.
00:20:02Like, we thought you was going to have
00:20:03to get a probation transfer
00:20:05and you got a whole release from probation.
00:20:08Yeah.
00:20:08So now it's just-
00:20:09I ain't got to report no more.
00:20:10Nothing.
00:20:12It's been one crazy journey,
00:20:14but your boys got off probation.
00:20:17Yo!
00:20:18What's up, y'all?
00:20:19We just got the news.
00:20:21It's finally off of probation.
00:20:23Free bed, free bed.
00:20:25My man is free.
00:20:26He out here, man.
00:20:27That means I can leave the state
00:20:30and go where I please.
00:20:32It's just that, you know,
00:20:35Brittany can't.
00:20:37You're so lucky, baby.
00:20:39I wish I could get off my damn probation.
00:20:40You are, baby.
00:20:42When I was 17,
00:20:43I was living a really dumb ass life
00:20:46and decided to do some armed robbery.
00:20:48So I cannot be off of probation
00:20:51until all of my restitution is paid
00:20:53or we get to the year 2030.
00:20:57I don't know about y'all,
00:20:58but $10,000 is a good amount of money.
00:21:01I wish you could come in with me, babe.
00:21:03I'm just nervous.
00:21:06I'm in a waiting process
00:21:07to see if I can still get transferred over to Texas.
00:21:11Get in there, girl.
00:21:12You got this.
00:21:16It's really stressful.
00:21:18I've made sure that we set up a payment plan
00:21:20for her restitution,
00:21:21so she should be good to go.
00:21:23And I'm just hoping that she walks out of here
00:21:25and she come running, you know, happy, happy.
00:21:27And she probably gonna be crying,
00:21:28but crying happy tears.
00:21:30That she got to prove.
00:21:36What's up, baby?
00:21:38I can't take this no more, bro.
00:21:40They denied me.
00:21:42They denied me again, bruh.
00:21:45Again.
00:21:47Y'all can't stand it.
00:21:49This shit is pissing me off.
00:21:51I don't wanna be here no more.
00:22:05Babe.
00:22:06Yes.
00:22:08I heard your phone went off while you were texting.
00:22:11I don't know, Trey.
00:22:12Oh, everything okay?
00:22:14Yeah, you know, bro's checking with me every day.
00:22:23Babe, today we're supposed to be going to see the psychic.
00:22:26I really want you to come with me.
00:22:28Oh.
00:22:29Last time I was there, I had a breakdown.
00:22:30I don't wanna have those emotions
00:22:32and go into that alone again.
00:22:35Is it going to work out
00:22:36between the all the spirit guys and the angels?
00:22:38I keep hearing the word no through your stories.
00:22:41Your spirit guys are saying, hell, no.
00:22:44Between our finances and our fighting,
00:22:48I've been waiting to see my psychic, Patrice.
00:22:51I'm hoping that Patrice gives me the clarity,
00:22:54the guidance, and the relief that I need.
00:22:57Come here, come here, come here, come here.
00:22:59I'm just so overwhelmed.
00:23:00Go get yourself together.
00:23:02I'm gonna go with you.
00:23:03I'm gonna support you.
00:23:05I have never gone to see the psychic before.
00:23:08I never felt the need.
00:23:10I don't wanna go, so please.
00:23:11Well, I appreciate you for going.
00:23:15Or deep enough belief that someone can seek out
00:23:19what's gonna happen in my life, you know, futuristically.
00:23:24You nervous?
00:23:25No.
00:23:28I need money to take care of my bills.
00:23:30I don't need no psychic to tell me that.
00:23:32But she supported me through my trials and tribulations,
00:23:35so I have to reciprocate that same energy and give back.
00:23:44Hey!
00:23:45How are you?
00:23:46Good, how are you, babe?
00:23:47I'm doing good.
00:23:48Hi, Troy.
00:23:48Patrice.
00:23:49Patrice.
00:23:51So how's everything been?
00:23:53It's been good.
00:23:54I should be asking you guys that question.
00:23:56Cool.
00:23:57Yeah.
00:23:58Well, actually, we should be asking you that question.
00:24:00Yes, okay.
00:24:01Well, congratulations for being out.
00:24:03Oh, thank you.
00:24:04We're gonna get right into it.
00:24:06I'm a psychic medium.
00:24:07I'm not a tarot reader.
00:24:09I use the cards as confirmation and visualization.
00:24:12You got any questions for me, babe?
00:24:14I feel like I'm a little worried
00:24:17because right now it's like our nonprofit together.
00:24:20That's where I'm focusing.
00:24:21I just want them to do it the right way.
00:24:24So just wanna see what's going on.
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:28You got the Ten of Swords.
00:24:30The Ten of Swords is about painful endings.
00:24:32Power card.
00:24:34What happens with the Tower Z?
00:24:36Chaos.
00:24:37Chaos.
00:24:37Okay.
00:24:39Even with the Hierophant, the Nine of Swords.
00:24:42Okay.
00:24:43The Tower is literally that destruction,
00:24:44that old foundation, things.
00:24:47It's that unexpected.
00:24:48Okay.
00:24:50You both have a lot coming for you.
00:24:52I don't know why I heard plug.
00:24:53A lot of change is about to happen.
00:24:55Okay.
00:24:56I'm getting annoyed right now
00:24:57because it's like, how hard can it be
00:24:59to shuffle some cards and pull it and say,
00:25:02what does this mean?
00:25:03Patrice, you on some bull.
00:25:07I heard the word female.
00:25:09You have a female energy that's around you
00:25:12that's so drama filled.
00:25:16Someone either like from your past,
00:25:18someone that you talked to.
00:25:19It could have been like, I heard the word ex,
00:25:21so it could be like an ex-fling or whatever.
00:25:24Like, is it Rihanna?
00:25:25The same person that we've been talked about
00:25:27that's already popped up.
00:25:30It's not even the bae mother.
00:25:35This is just too much.
00:25:36This is just too much.
00:25:37I got it.
00:25:38I need a moment.
00:25:39I can't.
00:25:40He's not being honest with me.
00:25:43What the?
00:25:44Who the hell is another woman
00:25:47around Troy, energy around Troy?
00:25:50The only woman that should be around Troy is me.
00:25:53What's up with you?
00:25:53Are you just?
00:25:56Troy, let's go home.
00:25:57Troy, let's go home.
00:25:58Why don't you just walk out like that for a light?
00:26:00Troy, I just want.
00:26:00If it don't hurt, it don't work.
00:26:01Listen, I don't give a what you're talking about right now.
00:26:04I need to know one question.
00:26:08Are you cheating on me?
00:26:15Before we actually hire you,
00:26:17we'll do a drug test for sure.
00:26:24Hey, how are you?
00:26:25I'm good.
00:26:26What are you drinking today?
00:26:27Can I get a vodka crayon?
00:26:28Vodka crayon?
00:26:29Can I get a rum and coke?
00:26:30Rum and coke?
00:26:31Drinking is fun, huh?
00:26:32Yeah.
00:26:33I'm a bad influence, aren't I?
00:26:34Yeah, a little bit.
00:26:46You'd be so mad I'm drinking right now.
00:26:48Yeah.
00:26:51Text his mom to see, like, when they're leaving,
00:26:54we don't want to show signs of drinking, you know?
00:27:00You and Daniel, you, uh.
00:27:04He's strong?
00:27:05Yeah, he's a little strong, yeah.
00:27:06Got my mind all fuzzy for a minute.
00:27:08Robert and I decided to go out to a bar
00:27:11and have a couple drinks
00:27:12while we waited for him and his parents to go shopping.
00:27:15I think I drink a lot,
00:27:17and it's going to be kind of hard to stop drinking
00:27:19for Daniel's sake.
00:27:21I think I can keep it under control to a certain extent.
00:27:26You can finish this.
00:27:28But sometimes I take it too far.
00:27:32I don't know.
00:27:33I'm just kind of worried about his mom.
00:27:35About mom?
00:27:35She's such a sweet lady,
00:27:37but he's such a mama's boy.
00:27:39It gets kind of, it's kind of gross.
00:27:41Is it a turn off?
00:27:43Kind of.
00:27:44Yeah, but they've been through a lot, right?
00:27:45His mom struggled, like, when they were younger.
00:27:47Like, when his dad left, you know,
00:27:48he had to step up and help take care of his,
00:27:50you know, the family, you know?
00:27:52It just makes me upset
00:27:53that she thinks I would cause him to relapse.
00:27:56Yeah.
00:27:57He should be mentally headstrong enough
00:27:59to know that he's with someone
00:28:02that's way younger than him,
00:28:04that likes to have fun.
00:28:05I am really worried
00:28:06that Daniel's not going to want to be with me
00:28:09if his mom doesn't approve of our relationship.
00:28:11She doesn't approve of me.
00:28:12She doesn't like me.
00:28:13She'll get into his head,
00:28:15and he might think it's true.
00:28:17But I think it's perfectly fine
00:28:19if I have a drink today,
00:28:20because Daniel's not here.
00:28:22She's not going to see me drink.
00:28:24So it's weird to see you, like, home now, you know?
00:28:27Like, not in jail anymore.
00:28:28Out in the world.
00:28:29Yeah.
00:28:30So proud of you.
00:28:32You just got out.
00:28:34She needs to get in sync with you not drinking alcohol.
00:28:39I mean, we spent literally, like,
00:28:41nine months apart from each other,
00:28:43only having a relationship on the phone.
00:28:44This morning, like, it's our first morning together.
00:28:48Yes, he made me breakfast,
00:28:49but he couldn't even, like, pour me a cup of coffee
00:28:51when I asked.
00:28:52It turned into an argument.
00:28:54How much I've done for you,
00:28:54you can't even make me a cup of coffee?
00:28:57Don't throw that in my face, ever.
00:28:59I'm not hungry, though.
00:29:01Yeah.
00:29:02I just want to be, like, romanced a little bit.
00:29:03Like, I'm not happy about our sex right now.
00:29:07Oh.
00:29:08He's not doing any foreplay, Robert.
00:29:11Like, he's just trying to stick it in,
00:29:13and I'm not vibing with it.
00:29:15Yeah.
00:29:16You guys, it's only been one night, you know?
00:29:19Daniel, he's lacking on foreplay.
00:29:22And honestly, I don't know how I'm supposed to help her,
00:29:24because I lack myself.
00:29:26I just want to stick it in, but, but, um...
00:29:29Yeah, foreplay means a lot to women.
00:29:32It's, it's, uh...
00:29:34And Daniel, Daniel will learn that one way or the other.
00:29:37You hoping to have a kid?
00:29:39Of course.
00:29:41I haven't taken Plan B yet, and I really don't want to.
00:29:44Oh, gosh.
00:29:45I know you're his cousin.
00:29:47What do you mean?
00:29:47Are you gonna tell him that you, you didn't take the pill?
00:29:50I mean, it's, like, my body, my choice.
00:29:53You gonna baby trap him?
00:29:55I'm not gonna baby trap him.
00:29:57I want to.
00:29:58You want to?
00:29:59Oh, gosh.
00:29:59He got baby fever.
00:30:00He got baby fever.
00:30:02He crazy.
00:30:04The ball's kind of in Bianca's court.
00:30:05He didn't use protection.
00:30:06It's, he kind of lost, he lost the control.
00:30:09And if she, she decides not to, like,
00:30:12not respect his wishes and take the pill,
00:30:15then they're gonna have a kid.
00:30:16And that would be unfortunate.
00:30:19He's not ready yet, you know?
00:30:21You guys should be around each other,
00:30:22test the waters out before having kids
00:30:25and, you know, possibly getting married.
00:30:30He doesn't even have a job, you know?
00:30:32I feel like...
00:30:33We have nine months.
00:30:34Nine months, yeah.
00:30:35We have nine months.
00:30:36I mean, it costs money.
00:30:37You have to go to the doctors,
00:30:38and things cost money before then.
00:30:40I have money.
00:30:41You have money?
00:30:42I have money.
00:30:42OK, nice.
00:30:43And he's always had someone provide for him.
00:30:45He's never been on his own.
00:30:46Like, he's always lived with his mom.
00:30:48Oh, my f***ing boy.
00:30:50Yeah, yeah.
00:30:54I want a green tea shot.
00:30:56What?
00:30:56I want a shot.
00:30:57You want a shot?
00:30:58Oh, no.
00:30:59It's so bad.
00:31:00Maybe I do have problems with alcohol.
00:31:14I really just want you to talk...
00:31:15Oh, God.
00:31:16Oh, God.
00:31:18Oh, s***.
00:31:20Hey, guys.
00:31:21That's not good.
00:31:28Should I propose to her?
00:31:29Am I really ready for this?
00:31:31I love Melissa, but she's holding me back.
00:31:38We headed to a job interview
00:31:41for, like, heat and ventilation, air conditioning.
00:31:45I think 2015 is the last time I had a legit job.
00:31:59Hey, how you doing?
00:31:59I'm good.
00:32:00How are you?
00:32:01I've got an interview with Oscar.
00:32:02Wonderful.
00:32:02Come on in.
00:32:04Right this way.
00:32:05All right.
00:32:07I'm looking for a job because, for one,
00:32:10I mean, I need my own money.
00:32:11Kimberly is pushing me because we want to get our dream on,
00:32:16and we can't do it unless I have a job.
00:32:19Hey, how you doing?
00:32:20Hey, what's up, Oscar?
00:32:21I'm Joey.
00:32:22Good, good.
00:32:22Nice to meet you.
00:32:22You doing all right today?
00:32:23Yeah, I'm doing good.
00:32:23How about you?
00:32:24Doing good, man.
00:32:25Have a seat.
00:32:26I just can't risk, you know, going back to selling dope
00:32:30or losing Kimberly and the kids and, you know,
00:32:34losing another seven to ten years because I want to go
00:32:38make some quick money.
00:32:39So, from what I see on the application, it looks like
00:32:42you apply for a HVAC service type position.
00:32:44Yeah.
00:32:44Is that what you apply for?
00:32:45Yeah, actually, to be honest with you, like, I don't really
00:32:48know a whole bunch about the HVAC systems, you know?
00:32:51I know the basic, but I've got my EPA certification.
00:32:54Oh, nice.
00:32:55So, you know, like that, I thought maybe just by having
00:32:58that, I might be able to get my foot in the door somewhere
00:33:01and then learn as I go, you know, because I've got two kids,
00:33:04we're buying a house, you know, like I need to, you know,
00:33:07get a job and I mean, like, I'm serious about, you know,
00:33:10working.
00:33:10You got to start somewhere though.
00:33:12So, let's talk about HVAC.
00:33:15So, on the residential side is the cause that we get is,
00:33:19hey, my AC is not working, right?
00:33:21So, then we send a mechanic out there that goes and troubleshoots
00:33:24and figures out what's wrong.
00:33:26Those guys, they pretty much start at like 16 bucks an hour,
00:33:30right?
00:33:31Where you'll be out for the first six months, you know?
00:33:33Now, it's a grind.
00:33:34You're working in, you know, attics that are 190 million
00:33:39degrees or crawl spaces where you might run into a snake or
00:33:4312, right?
00:33:45It's definitely not for the faint of heart, but, you know,
00:33:48after a year, you can be on pace to make 70 to 130 grand,
00:33:52right?
00:33:53So, does that sound like something that you're willing to
00:33:56hang in there?
00:33:57Yeah, 100%.
00:33:58Like I said, like I just want to get my foot in the door.
00:34:01I pick up stuff pretty easy, you know?
00:34:03Before we actually hire you, we'll do a background check.
00:34:07I do want to tell you, though, that like, you know, I just did
00:34:09get out of prison and, you know, my record is quite extensive.
00:34:14I was on drugs for a long time, you know?
00:34:18I've been, I started off doing opiates, you know, and just by
00:34:21a doctor and I just got, you know, on it bad, you know?
00:34:25And eventually, you break the law to get money, you know?
00:34:28And that's just, I just want to disclose that to you.
00:34:32Before employment, we do drug tests for sure.
00:34:35Okay.
00:34:36Look, you know, you seem like a guy that's got a lot of
00:34:40potential.
00:34:40Yeah.
00:34:40Based on what you're telling me, I can almost guarantee you
00:34:43it's a no-go right now, right?
00:34:45But let my HR department make that call.
00:34:47And when that comes back, you'll get a phone call from me and
00:34:52says, hey man, listen, let's come back in here and let's have
00:34:54a conversation.
00:34:55And it's either going to be, look, by some grace of God, it
00:34:59looks like we got something for you, right?
00:35:01Maybe not as a technician on the field right now, but we have
00:35:04other positions here in the office.
00:35:05You know, I'm good with doing whatever, you know, like if I
00:35:09got to work my way up, improve, you know, my worth or whatever
00:35:12I need to do, like if it's digging ditches or whatever I have
00:35:14to do for a while, I'll do it.
00:35:15I can tell by his face that he's not going to be able to hire
00:35:19me here unless some miracle happens.
00:35:23And I just don't know how we're going to be able to buy a house
00:35:26if I don't get a job here.
00:35:28All right, brother.
00:35:29Yo, thanks for coming by, man.
00:35:30Appreciate it.
00:35:31Thank you, man.
00:35:33I feel like I'm supposed to be making enough money to take
00:35:36care of my family.
00:35:37So if I don't have a job, then I don't know, you know, what's
00:35:41going to happen with our relationship.
00:35:50The devil's going to try to come between you two.
00:35:52I think it's some dark energy around.
00:35:55It's witchcraft.
00:35:57This s*** is f***ed up.
00:35:59I want to f***ing go.
00:36:00I don't want to.
00:36:01$25,000?
00:36:04For some odd reason, I'm always like, go with your gut.
00:36:07Like right now, my gut is telling me like, like it's second
00:36:10guessing. Like, dude, should I propose to her?
00:36:16This is really what's come down to.
00:36:17I used to never value money, right?
00:36:19Ever, ever, ever, ever.
00:36:20I didn't give a f*** on the paycheck to paycheck.
00:36:21I spent my money on drugs, whatever.
00:36:23And like, I've saved my money up specifically for this moment.
00:36:27I want to get married.
00:36:28I want to propose to her.
00:36:29I just was not expecting that price.
00:36:33I mean, maybe I need to go somewhere else.
00:36:36He'll come now, bro.
00:36:37And plus, he has different options in there.
00:36:39I know you, you know, you're in for like the 12 grand, but.
00:36:43I didn't even want to go 12.
00:36:45Like, I don't think we're getting under 12, man.
00:36:48I don't think I'm getting under 20.
00:36:49And believe me, it's not that she's not worth it.
00:36:51I mean, she's, it's just what I was expecting.
00:36:57At most to spend.
00:37:00You only got to do it one time, bro, in your life.
00:37:02I'm not f***ing with you.
00:37:04Yeah, yeah.
00:37:04I mean, you only got to do it once, you know.
00:37:07Let's get back in there.
00:37:08The biggest adjustment that I've had to make is the fact that
00:37:12there's really no structure in the real world unless you make it.
00:37:17So for me to go to the next step, I have to do this.
00:37:21There's nothing holding me back.
00:37:23How did the power go?
00:37:25I'm back.
00:37:26Okay.
00:37:27My heart's in it totally.
00:37:28My pocket might be a little bit short now, but like my heart's still there.
00:37:33We want to help you out in your situation.
00:37:35This is what the number was with the mounting.
00:37:37Right.
00:37:37That and everything.
00:37:39But for you, watch what we're going to do for you.
00:37:41Just because I want to help you out.
00:37:43And I think that you really want to do the right thing for her.
00:37:45This is the President's Day special that was last week.
00:37:49And I can't see doing anything better than what I just did for you.
00:37:53So we went from here.
00:37:56To here.
00:37:56The jeweler knows that I can't afford a two-carat diamond ring.
00:38:00That would look good on her.
00:38:01That's a nice freaking ring.
00:38:03This is a gorgeous diamond.
00:38:05The size of the ring shouldn't matter.
00:38:07Because at the end of the day, I love Melissa and I want to be with her.
00:38:09That thing is freaking beautiful.
00:38:11Well, once it's set, it's a totally different ballgame.
00:38:13She's going to love that, dude.
00:38:14I mean, that's it.
00:38:15That's the one, huh?
00:38:16Congrats, man.
00:38:18My bank account just took a major hit.
00:38:21I spent $18,500.
00:38:23Basically everything that I've ever saved.
00:38:26$6,500 over budget.
00:38:32Congrats, brother.
00:38:33I appreciate it.
00:38:33This is a huge accomplishment for me.
00:38:35But not just that, but it's like for a lifetime.
00:38:39That's the weight.
00:38:39That's the color.
00:38:40That's the clarity.
00:38:41I just hope the ring is good enough for Melissa.
00:38:46Thank you again.
00:38:47I appreciate it.
00:38:47You're welcome.
00:38:53I don't give a f*** what you're talking about right now.
00:38:55I need to know one question.
00:38:58Are you cheating on me?
00:39:08I'm not cheating on you.
00:39:09Literally, since I've been home, I have not cheated on you.
00:39:12But you know what?
00:39:13We can't even say that because my definition of cheating
00:39:16is your definition of cheating.
00:39:17Are you talking to other women?
00:39:19No, you know, I'm not talking to nobody.
00:39:21I don't know what you're doing.
00:39:23Troy has been on the phone texting constantly.
00:39:28Anybody can delete anything from their phone.
00:39:30You giving me your phone is weird.
00:39:35Troy!
00:39:37I need you to come and pick me up.
00:39:40I don't deserve that.
00:39:41If there's some type of female energy, that's a deal breaker for me.
00:39:44I'm not dealing with that.
00:39:46You could be doing anything.
00:39:47Full access to the phone.
00:39:48You can delete things.
00:39:49That means nothing.
00:39:50Your phone means nothing.
00:39:51Your password.
00:39:53I barely know how to work the mother******.
00:39:55I want a normal relationship.
00:39:59I know that there's something else going on.
00:40:02And best believe I'm gonna find out.
00:40:05Because the difference between me and you is
00:40:07I'm willing to admit when I've made a mistake.
00:40:10I'm not okay with stringing somebody along.
00:40:13So I've strung you along.
00:40:14I'm 32 years old.
00:40:15I don't got time to be out here playing games with you
00:40:18because if you're not the person for me, let me go.
00:40:22This is just way too much.
00:40:24Like, I'm so, so tired of it.
00:40:27Zaria is getting upset with me about things that I'm not doing.
00:40:32And it's like I'm not the one who's been cheating.
00:40:35While I was in prison, there was infidelity in our marriage.
00:40:40She had went out with someone and she slept with them.
00:40:43We were able to get through it.
00:40:45And now she keeps accusing me.
00:40:48I just feel like it's bull****.
00:40:50Whatever magic female you're talking about, where the **** is she at?
00:40:54Because I don't see her.
00:40:57Whatever, it's fine.
00:40:59We're gonna move forward our day.
00:41:01We got to have dinner with your parents
00:41:02and I don't want to bring that type of energy in there.
00:41:06Think about that.
00:41:07That's what you really need to be worried about
00:41:08and not sitting here going back and forth with me.
00:41:10So, beautiful.
00:41:11I love you.
00:41:12I'm supporting you as your husband, as I always do.
00:41:15Don't act like that.
00:41:16Your little attitude, that's fine.
00:41:17I don't have an attitude.
00:41:19Give me a kiss.
00:41:21I can have a kiss.
00:41:24I accept that.
00:41:24That's fine.
00:41:25Come on, let's go in here and finish.
00:41:27And don't walk out.
00:41:28Because we're gonna actually leave this time when we walk out.
00:41:34I'm sorry I walked out.
00:41:36So, let me...
00:41:37I'm gonna go back onto this, right?
00:41:40Remember I said old, right?
00:41:42So, these are gonna be things that are gonna be triggering you guys.
00:41:45Do I feel Troy cheating at this current moment?
00:41:48I'll be honest, no.
00:41:50I think it's just your intuition.
00:41:55That's why I feel like this person is old.
00:41:58It could be some past stuff she might bring up.
00:42:01You gotta trust your intuition.
00:42:03I think Zaria is getting so upset about this
00:42:05because Zaria wants this to work.
00:42:07She wants to overcome everything that's fighting against them.
00:42:11But they do have a lot of chaotic stuff about to happen for them.
00:42:14A lot of lessons are about to happen.
00:42:15They're about to go through it.
00:42:18When things trigger you,
00:42:19to it, okay?
00:42:22When you try to hide something, it has to come out.
00:42:26The truth has to come out.
00:42:28I just need you to breathe.
00:42:37F*** this s*** up!
00:42:38I'm f***ing going to f*** this s***.
00:42:41F*** this b****.
00:42:43They mentioned me having a will.
00:42:45When you die, if you knew,
00:42:47why would you have another kid so soon?
00:42:50My, my, my, looking so fly.
00:42:53Give a girl a rocket and she'll take it for a ride.
00:42:55This is a stupid thing.
00:42:58All right, you ready?
00:43:00It's about to go off.
00:43:02Let's see if I can find somebody to make a movie.
00:43:04Kylie!
00:43:05Hello!
00:43:06Hi, say hi to Snitch, my boy.
00:43:08She's getting so big.
00:43:09I know it.
00:43:11Trying to experience happiness
00:43:14during this high-risk pregnancy
00:43:16while they're telling you
00:43:17about how your life is in danger
00:43:19is like an oxymoron.
00:43:20Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:43:22Here you go.
00:43:24It really makes me think about things.
00:43:27How's the grades coming?
00:43:29Good. I have all As.
00:43:31This looks like sorority work.
00:43:33So is it sorority or homework?
00:43:35I have to do two things at once.
00:43:37I'm busy.
00:43:38Multitasking is always a good thing.
00:43:40Yeah.
00:43:41I am a freshman in college at UNLV.
00:43:43I'm loving it here.
00:43:45I love Vegas.
00:43:46I've made so many friends,
00:43:48and I just love the college life.
00:43:51I'm proud of you.
00:43:53I'm proud of you.
00:43:54You're doing everything
00:43:56that I wish I could have done.
00:43:57High school, you were there.
00:44:01There was always stuff
00:44:03that was in my way
00:44:04of trying to fulfill something.
00:44:08You know, you just gotta stay on the right track.
00:44:11Nothing has thrown me off track so far.
00:44:13I'm always watching.
00:44:15Oh, I know.
00:44:16Listen, I wanna talk to you.
00:44:22Be aggressive.
00:44:24Push through.
00:44:25I'ma do this.
00:44:25See?
00:44:26There you go.
00:44:27Push, you gotta push through it.
00:44:29Good.
00:44:30You know we went to the doctors, right?
00:44:32Yeah.
00:44:33Listen, I understand you feel some type of way
00:44:35about the new baby.
00:44:36It's not that.
00:44:37Baby's a blessing, but it's just,
00:44:39there's already so much of us.
00:44:40You know, Mason and Nova still aren't over here.
00:44:42So a new sibling is great,
00:44:44but I still have other siblings.
00:44:46I feel like a neglectful parent.
00:44:49Yeah, but you're not a parent.
00:44:50I know.
00:44:52We're all missing Mason and Nova.
00:44:54But at the end of the day,
00:44:55there's nothing I can really do.
00:44:56You know, their mother's made it clear.
00:44:57They don't want the babies to move out here.
00:44:59We miss you guys.
00:45:02School break is gonna be here really, really soon.
00:45:04And you know, we're gonna see you for school break.
00:45:06We love you guys.
00:45:08And we miss you guys a lot.
00:45:11It's pretty difficult,
00:45:12but there's no way I'm gonna leave them behind.
00:45:15We are a family.
00:45:17I just really hope that they don't grow up
00:45:19and have any resentment towards you or me.
00:45:22Cause I'm so used to like being there.
00:45:23It's weird.
00:45:30So I went to the doctors
00:45:34and they told me that I kinda shouldn't even
00:45:37be having another child right now.
00:45:39What I'm doing is dangerous.
00:45:41So I'm kind of in a position now.
00:45:45They mentioned me having like a will.
00:45:48When you die?
00:45:49Yeah.
00:45:50If anything happened to me,
00:45:51I think that maybe if Mike said
00:45:52he would think that he would take the boys.
00:45:53But Mike's not their biological father.
00:45:56God forbid anything happens to me, God forbid.
00:45:59Santana, Bentley, their dad
00:46:01is on the other side of the country.
00:46:03And personally, I don't think that he would
00:46:05want to take them.
00:46:06And then despite Mike being an amazing father,
00:46:12you would be better for them than him.
00:46:16When it comes to Santana, he is on the spectrum.
00:46:20And you know, Kylie is accommodating to her brother.
00:46:24I do not think that Mike understands Santana,
00:46:27how his brain works, Michael's lack of patience.
00:46:32I don't like that kind of at all, to be honest.
00:46:35The reaction, take over Santana's broken phone
00:46:38was a little much for the conversation.
00:46:41I think he really needs to cool down,
00:46:42educate himself a little bit and relax.
00:46:46And then, you know, Maddie and the new baby,
00:46:48maybe you and Mike could share custody kind of.
00:46:54You knew how it was last time.
00:46:56You're pregnant again and you're even more high risk.
00:46:59So it was just scary.
00:47:02Knowing that she's high risk
00:47:04and trying to have another baby is irresponsible.
00:47:06And that's on you.
00:47:07Like, God forbid anything happened.
00:47:11I know, I had mixed emotions,
00:47:13but I regret the timing of this pregnancy.
00:47:17I don't regret the pregnancy itself.
00:47:20I don't want to seem like selfish,
00:47:21but like, I'm really enjoying myself.
00:47:23Like, I don't really want all that,
00:47:24like just stripped away at any second.
00:47:26Like, cause I'm like finally like getting that independence.
00:47:30It's just very, very scary
00:47:32because her health is very important to me.
00:47:34I wish that she would have thought through their risks more
00:47:36because it puts a lot on my shoulders.
00:47:39I would do anything for my family,
00:47:40but also like I'm enjoying all these new things as well.
00:47:45If you knew the complications of it,
00:47:47why would you have another kid so soon?
00:47:50Good question.
00:47:54I just feel like it was something that we really wanted.
00:48:02Three, two, one.
00:48:04Go.
00:48:05What's he trying to do?
00:48:08Oh my God, okay.
00:48:10Oh, hey guys.
00:48:12That's not good.
00:48:13What are you drinking?
00:48:20Rob, really?
00:48:22I've been drinking, baby.
00:48:24Stop, don't put me on the spot here.
00:48:27Part of the reason he got pregnant
00:48:29Part of the reason he got incarcerated was from drinking.
00:48:33I'm sorry.
00:48:34That's bull****, water only.
00:48:37I mean, you guys knew we were coming.
00:48:39I feel bad for drinking.
00:48:41Usually when I drink,
00:48:41I can't even finish my beer usually when I drink.
00:48:44But being on Bianca, there's, I don't know,
00:48:47it's just, it's easier to drink, you know?
00:48:49I end up drinking more and more glasses.
00:48:51I'm sorry, bro.
00:48:53I shouldn't have brought us here,
00:48:54you know what I'm saying?
00:48:55I'm not mad at you because you didn't tell me
00:48:57I'm not mad at you because you didn't tell me
00:48:58you weren't going to drink,
00:48:59but she told me she wasn't going to drink.
00:49:02And I can drink if I want to drink.
00:49:06Clearly, clearly.
00:49:09It's not a good look for myself and I feel bad,
00:49:12but I don't think that was entirely my fault
00:49:14because why should that even be a problem?
00:49:19What's that look?
00:49:20What is that?
00:49:22It's just annoying.
00:49:24Well, I'm triggered.
00:49:25I want a shot.
00:49:26How do you feel about that?
00:49:30Take a shot.
00:49:31Yeah.
00:49:33I was seeing how supportive you were going to be
00:49:35and you failed.
00:49:36You failed that.
00:49:38I didn't fail anything.
00:49:39That's your own problem that you have to deal with.
00:49:41Thank you for the support.
00:49:44That's literally your own problem though.
00:49:46I can't do this.
00:49:47I can't be around that.
00:49:51You want me to throw away my sobriety for what?
00:49:54To enjoy alcohol with you?
00:49:57What happens next?
00:49:57We just gonna be taking heads off the foil?
00:50:00Like that's what that looks like to me.
00:50:02That's where alcohol leads me.
00:50:05I want you to control it for a while, at least.
00:50:10The drinking?
00:50:11Yeah, control it.
00:50:13Show that you can live each day without taking a nip.
00:50:17And I think that Daniel will feel a lot more comfortable
00:50:20going into this relationship.
00:50:22You guys have been talking on the phone.
00:50:24Now you're live.
00:50:26You are looking each other in the eye
00:50:28and you're getting to know each other in person.
00:50:32And I want that to last for decades
00:50:35and decades and decades.
00:50:36Really.
00:50:38Okay.
00:50:39Come talk to me.
00:50:40You're mad at me?
00:50:41Come talk to me outside.
00:50:42What's up?
00:50:43Excuse me guys.
00:50:44I need a minute with her.
00:50:45I need a minute.
00:50:46All right.
00:50:46You should be a better example.
00:50:48Yeah, you're right.
00:50:48You're right.
00:50:49You look drunk and that's a trigger to me.
00:50:52I didn't think it'd be a trigger
00:50:53but that's a trigger to me.
00:50:54Are you serious?
00:50:54I see it now.
00:50:56I bothered you that much?
00:50:57That's going to be something we got to talk about.
00:50:59You don't even want to apologize.
00:51:00You don't want to kiss me?
00:51:02I can taste.
00:51:03Kiss me.
00:51:04Babe, I can.
00:51:04You don't want to kiss me?
00:51:05I don't want to taste alcohol.
00:51:06Are you really being serious?
00:51:09Let's go back inside.
00:51:10Can you kiss me?
00:51:11I don't want to.
00:51:12Why?
00:51:13I don't want to taste that.
00:51:14Why?
00:51:14Because that's a trigger.
00:51:15That's a problem for me.
00:51:17I need you to respect that.
00:51:18I'm not.
00:51:19You're not going to respect it.
00:51:20I didn't say that.
00:51:21I'm just saying, can you kiss me?
00:51:23I don't want to kiss you right now.
00:51:26You're lying.
00:51:32What are we doing?
00:51:32We're going to take them home.
00:51:34I am leaving tomorrow with a really worried heart.
00:51:38I'll talk to you when you sober up.
00:51:40I don't like to talk now
00:51:41because it's not going to mean anything.
00:51:44Because I'm drunk.
00:51:45Yeah.
00:51:46You get sober, it's better.
00:51:49She does not change or get help from drinking.
00:51:51I'm worried that Daniel's not going to be able to handle it
00:51:54and he's going to not have his support he needs from her.
00:51:57I think I'm fine to drive, but that's your problem.
00:51:59No, I'm going to drive.
00:52:01She almost died from her friend drinking and driving.
00:52:05I just don't understand.
00:52:06I think that would be a motivation.
00:52:07I'm just really surprised, yeah.
00:52:12Daniel picked out a really sweet ring,
00:52:14but I just feel like maybe he should wait
00:52:17a little bit after today,
00:52:18after, you know, he's all ready to commit
00:52:20and then we come back and here she's drinking in a bar,
00:52:23you know.
00:52:41Can you just do it, please?
00:52:54We need to have a conversation.
00:52:57This is all a joke, huh?
00:52:59No sorry, no I made a mistake, nothing?
00:53:03Nothing.
00:53:05I got triggered in there.
00:53:06Okay.
00:53:08What if I don't pull through next time?
00:53:09What then?
00:53:12It's your own problem, buddy.
00:53:15That's crazy.
00:53:16Mm-hmm.
00:53:19This conversation is going to take a while.
00:53:22This conversation is going nowhere.
00:53:24Seeing her in this state of, you know,
00:53:27the tipsy, swervy, the I don't care what you have to say,
00:53:30it's my way or the highway kind of attitude.
00:53:32I'm going to go to bed.
00:53:33I'm going to sleep on the couch tonight.
00:53:34I just need to think about this more.
00:53:36You're going to sleep on the couch?
00:53:37I'm sleeping on the couch.
00:53:39These are very serious issues.
00:53:41All right, good night.
00:53:42Yeah.
00:53:43She doesn't seem to care.
00:53:48Bull, dude.
00:53:51You know, Bianca says she wants to be a mom.
00:53:53She wants to be a housewife,
00:53:54but I don't think she's mature enough for all that yet.
00:54:08Devil's going to try to come between you two.
00:54:10I think it's some dark energy around.
00:54:13It's witchcraft.
00:54:14That is the end of the story.
00:54:22What's up, baby?
00:54:23I can't take this no more, bro.
00:54:25That denied me.
00:54:27Y'all can't stand this.
00:54:29This is pissing me off.
00:54:31I don't want to be here no more.
00:54:34Why the are they doing this to us?
00:54:40This is up, bro.
00:54:42The system is literally up.
00:54:45I've done everything that I need to do.
00:54:47I've paid everything that I need to pay.
00:54:50I don't want to be here anymore.
00:54:52I can't even sleep.
00:54:54Like, I'm ready to go.
00:54:58I don't want to be here anymore.
00:55:00Just calm down.
00:55:02Calm down.
00:55:02I don't want to be here, baby.
00:55:04Steve, I've done everything that I need to do.
00:55:07Stop.
00:55:09Look at me.
00:55:10Calm down, okay?
00:55:13Calm down.
00:55:14We're not going to do that here.
00:55:15Deep breaths in, deep breaths out.
00:55:18Good.
00:55:21I guess Texas just don't allow two felons to live together.
00:55:25Come on, can we get in the car?
00:55:27I don't, I want to go.
00:55:29Like, just work as a bitch, man.
00:55:34Me and Bri both are doing good.
00:55:37All we're just trying to do is live our life
00:55:39and just succeed.
00:55:40So I don't see what the hell the problem is.
00:55:42So what'd she just say, baby, that you just ain't feeling?
00:55:44Are you listening?
00:55:45I'm trying to.
00:55:46He rocks.
00:55:47She said that I cannot go.
00:55:48I'm denied again.
00:55:50I have to start all over
00:55:52and it's going to be 45 days again.
00:55:54Another waiting period.
00:55:58Another waiting period.
00:56:05Being trapped and just being stuck here
00:56:07just makes me feel like being locked up all over again.
00:56:12It's like, I can't get free of that.
00:56:16I'm really going to have to live with my aunt
00:56:19while you're living in our apartment.
00:56:21Calm down.
00:56:23Tell me what she said the reason was.
00:56:25She said the first address was not approved.
00:56:28So now that I'm resubmitting the application, I can't.
00:56:31They said that I need to live with a family member.
00:56:35She's like, but also your aunt has to put
00:56:37your name on the lease.
00:56:38What does that have anything to do?
00:56:40If she's letting you stay there,
00:56:41why does she have to put my name on the lease?
00:56:43So now I got to call my aunt and see if she'll even do that.
00:56:46And then see if her apartment place will even take me.
00:56:50So I'm trying to figure out why.
00:56:51I'm already off probation.
00:56:52What is the issue?
00:56:53This is your place.
00:56:54It doesn't matter.
00:56:55I don't know what happened, but that's what she said.
00:56:58We are not married.
00:56:59They do not give a crap.
00:57:02They don't want us.
00:57:03Like, that's what they're trying to do pretty much
00:57:05is they don't want us to live together.
00:57:09I just need a minute, yo.
00:57:12You're just crazy, bro.
00:57:16F**k.
00:57:19F**k.
00:57:21F**k.
00:57:27I'm sorry I did blow up.
00:57:29We all got things we need to work on.
00:57:38Patrice said that things called these chaotic things
00:57:41are gonna happen.
00:57:42It's definitely a struggle,
00:57:44but I want to fight for our relationship, Troy.
00:57:46I truly do.
00:57:48Whatever is supposed to happen is gonna happen.
00:57:50And we just got to figure out
00:57:51when the problems present themselves,
00:57:53do we have the solution to figure it out?
00:57:56It makes me feel upset that Z doesn't trust me.
00:58:01But my priority right now is to focus on our financial
00:58:06issues and not bullsh** about more drama.
00:58:11Oh, well, let's do this, baby.
00:58:17Hey.
00:58:19We're here.
00:58:22What are you ringing the doorbell?
00:58:24It's already open.
00:58:25Did you just ring the doorbell
00:58:26for you walking people house?
00:58:28It's my parents' house.
00:58:29I walk right in.
00:58:30Hey, ma.
00:58:31Hi, baby.
00:58:31My parents have been married for 30 plus years
00:58:36and I strive to have that marriage.
00:58:38And maybe I need to have a conversation with them
00:58:40because I feel like my parents always know what to say.
00:58:45This looks great.
00:58:46I thought we'd fix it on the plate, right?
00:58:48Yeah, make it pretty.
00:58:49There you go.
00:58:50How's it going?
00:58:51It's been going all right.
00:58:53Y'all need to get up and come to church on Sunday morning.
00:58:55Absolutely.
00:58:56Uh-huh.
00:58:57Just understood.
00:58:58Like I told her, I got my own things
00:58:59and I'm trying to do and not necessarily catch up with life,
00:59:03but, you know, just on my own path.
00:59:04I've always been that way.
00:59:06My hope is that you've seen in me,
00:59:10I'm going to help you do everything I can
00:59:15to help you be the best you that you destined to be.
00:59:20Because I believe, as the scripture says,
00:59:23what I sow is what I'm going to reap.
00:59:26Zaria's father is a man of God, but I was not raised in church.
00:59:31At the same time, they're looking out for us
00:59:34and just want our best interest.
00:59:38Lord, thank you for the food we're about to receive.
00:59:39Sanctified by your word and by the spirit in Jesus' name,
00:59:42we pray.
00:59:42Thanks be to God.
00:59:43Give us a victory.
00:59:45In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, amen.
00:59:47Amen.
00:59:48How are things going?
00:59:50Everything's going good.
00:59:53We've been working so much, so.
00:59:55Now, as far as your job, is it different for you
00:59:58from what you perceived it to be from conversations,
01:00:01as opposed to being here physically?
01:00:03I just have to be patient.
01:00:04We have the therapist.
01:00:05We have the office.
01:00:06We have the conference rooms.
01:00:07We have everything set up, but we're
01:00:09not getting the children.
01:00:12We want to show the community that we're there for them.
01:00:15We want to help those who are formerly incarcerated,
01:00:17their families and kids that are at risk
01:00:21of becoming incarcerated.
01:00:23But I haven't told my parents about the finances
01:00:27at Project Heal and not being able to pay the rent,
01:00:30because my first instinct is to fix the problem
01:00:33and then tell them later.
01:00:34The minimum we're trying to get is 50.
01:00:36If we get those 50 kids, that data
01:00:38will show that there's a need in the community,
01:00:40and we'll be able to use that to obtain grants so that we
01:00:43can fund Project Heal and not have to worry
01:00:46about these financial problems.
01:00:48And if we don't, Troy and I are at risk
01:00:50to not only lose our business, but also our home.
01:00:54I'm so proud of you two that you're building
01:00:56something so amazing together.
01:00:58And that's why I want to say, even as you're building this,
01:01:01you know that the devil's going to try to come between you
01:01:03two and cause confusion so that what you're building
01:01:06is going to be torn down so that it won't happen.
01:01:08So I mean, how do you plan to deal with differences?
01:01:12So for the past year, I've been seeing a psychic.
01:01:17Seeing a who?
01:01:19I've been seeing a psychic.
01:01:22So today, I decided to bring Troy with me to go see her.
01:01:28She said that there was going to be chaos.
01:01:30There was going to be drama.
01:01:32We weren't meant to be together.
01:01:35So I kind of got triggered.
01:01:37I got very emotional because I'm like, up until this point,
01:01:41Patrice has not been wrong about anything.
01:01:44Like, anything she's told me is going to happen,
01:01:46like, actually has happened.
01:01:50Her dad and I have been married for almost 38 years now.
01:01:53And it hasn't been easy.
01:01:54So, you know, and what has kept us is our faith in God
01:01:57and my faith in God kept me from murdering him
01:02:00because I would have been in jail ministry with you.
01:02:02But seriously, though, it's witchcraft.
01:02:04I'm trying to listen to this witchcraft.
01:02:06As far as psychics go, I believe it's real
01:02:09because I believe just as my spirituality with the Lord
01:02:12Jesus Christ is real, I also believe the devil is real.
01:02:14And so psychic witchcraft, to me, is the one and the same.
01:02:19I don't fool with it.
01:02:20I believe it's wicked.
01:02:21I believe it will do you harm.
01:02:23Man, I ain't losing over what those psychics say.
01:02:26I know that my times are in God's hand.
01:02:30I know that when I gave her her first bath,
01:02:34when she came home from the hospital,
01:02:36I spoke her destiny then.
01:02:40And ain't nobody and nothing going to change that.
01:02:43And that is the end of the story.
01:02:46I don't care what anybody says.
01:02:48All I can think of is what Patrice said,
01:02:52all this chaos and drama.
01:02:54Man, that gives me so much anxiety.
01:02:57I think it's some dark energy around.
01:03:00I just hope I'm wrong.
01:03:02I got time for that foolishness.
01:03:06Next Friday on an all new Life After Lockup.
01:03:09I want to get married.
01:03:10Babe, I have to tell you something.
01:03:11What happens with your minor children?
01:03:13Let me explain to you.
01:03:14Come on, can I hold on a second?
01:03:15Figure it out.
01:03:16I'm still married.
01:03:18Get the f out.
01:03:20I've lost the peace in me.
01:03:22This is so overwhelming.
01:03:24The disrespect, that scares me.
01:03:25I'm done talking.
01:03:26I just didn't know why this is so hard for you.
01:03:29I don't know what I did.
01:03:30Don't miss an all new Life After.